I never would throw it out even though I thought it was ugly and I stored it and showed it to him each time we moved hoping he would toss it . After all I parted with all my exes things many years ago . I was going through his truck and I found it in a cloth protective case in the back seat of his truck . What is he thinking here?

Yesterday he did this and did it harder than he has ever done before. What does this mean?

I stead of just blocking you on his phone he chooses to go to the web and block your phone e fro. Being g able to re wife or send any text messages. How would you describe this behavior? Thank you.

For instance....he says you stash stuff In the garage so he changes the lock and you cannot get in unless you ask permission You forgot to move the curtain so the air conditioner could reach...she he changed the locks so you cannot use it without permissiinn You moved some things he told you not to so he put a lock on the basement t door so you have to ask permission. How would you describe this behavior?

So my husband and I recently got full custody of two children he had in a previous marriage. I love them to death. I used to pay for most of their expenses as their dad was a single father with a low paying job when I met him. We couldn t afford childcare so I quit my (fairly high paying) job to take care of them. This has been about a year ago. Since then we ve been scrounging for money to pay for basic necessities and the lawyer bills etc. We have a JCP credit card that is in his moms name. He uses it maybe twice a year to buy the kids school clothes and a couple new suits for work and then he (!) pays them off month by month. It s nearly winter time and we live in Colorado. I don t have a winter coat and I recently donated a lot of my clothes that didn t fit me anymore so I don t have any winter clothes. I want to ask him if I can use the card to get a couple of winter outfits and a cheap coat so I don t freeze but I feel so guilty; a.) because it s not my money and b.) I feel like he will say no because it is in his moms name and she can see whatever is spent on it. I don t want to make this a problem but I feel so weird and I don t know what to do.

Does it reflect poorly on you if you have multiple children from two different people even if you were married at the time to their other parent? Like say you have two divorces with multiple children form both spouses? Does this reflect badly on you or is it not a big deal? Would you date someone like this?

She is in a relationship with a man and they have a daughter together. From what I have heard, she is miserable with him and have a lot of problems... Apparently she is only staying with him for their kid. I am female. I am 26 and she is 33. She flirts with me, pretty heavily at times. She has said some pretty sexual things to me and is touchy. She once even tried squeezing my nipple. I just waved her hand away and kept talking. She likes my body. I don't believe she's romantically into me. I don't catch her staring at me or really trying to get to know me. I did hug her when I saw her for the first time in two months and she acted like she wanted it to go on longer. I'm not exactly sure in what way she thinks of me. But I am bi and I do think about her... I have no interest in talking to her bf and feel awkward when he is around. He once came into my workplace, a restaurant where his gf and I work together, and was there for hours, getting drunk alone at the bar. People were talking about it but I tried to not make judgments. She once invited me to go out on her boat but I wasn't sure if she meant just the two of us or with her family... Both situations would have been awkward. She invited me recently to her sports game, saying she needed me to be her cheerleader. When I said I'd go get my costume, she said to just go in booty shorts and a sports bra. She might have been upset when I did not go. I texted that I hoped she was killing it and she left a simple text "we won" that, because of its terseness, I did not know how to respond to. 45 minutes later she asking if I was working-checking for an excuse? We texted for a minute. She didn't respond to my last text. I don't want to be the reason she and her bf end things. I'm not sure what she wants out of this relationship. If it's just friendship, fine. But as long as she's leading me on and making me question and think about her, I don't know how we could have a healthy friendship.. I'll always wonder what this is and.. am not sure if she's expecting something more from me - like getting upset because I didn't support her in her first game. I should add that they are not married.

I've met his friends before but never his parents since they died when he was younger. He nor his friends ever mentioned to me that he had a wife and a young child. One of his friends finally told me because he saw that I was actually falling in love with him and at first I didn't believe him until he showed me pictures of him and his family together. We've been together for 7 months and I never had any reason to suspect a single thing was going on. He would stay at a condo and I would occasionally spend the night over there and even stay several nights. I found out he had a house he lived at with his family when he wasn't with me. I confronted him about it last night and he told me he's been planning to tell me for a while now. He said he's in the process of divorcing his wife just so there wouldn't be any other woman involved except for me and he showed me the divorce papers because I thought he was lying. I told this to his friend and he says that it still wouldn't be a healthy relationship and I should find someone my age who wouldn't lie to me (i'm 19 and he's 33) . I love him so much but there's an innocent child involved and a part of me really wants to stay with him but I don't know if it's the right choice.

This year my ex took me for child support. Before I had my kids 100 percent of the time and provided everything. Well then she had a baby by someone else. Then another. Child with another dude. and decided she wanted to see out kids more and after 11 years took me to court and won 50 50 custody. Horrible yes . She refuses to work as does her current boyfriend and lives with her mother rent free . I pay her a good amount of child support. Now she's asking for money for school supplies clothes for her house shoes. Book bags and lunch boxes. I only have 50$ a month left after I pay her. I cannot afford to buy anything else. Unforn. my kids are suffering because I pay her so much and they never see a dime of it and I can't get their things they need now. She said if I don't supply it she will file for a modifcation to increase my support ! Why am I paying 100 percent of everything and she won't even provide food ! Yes I've gotten that to for her house ! Am I correct she is responsible for school supplies this year ?

ok so im 23 and my soon to be 32 year old boyfriend of 1 year dumped me while we were out "celebrating" the night before our anniversary ( we were suppose to go to brunch in the morning) so he surprises me by picking me up and taking me to a bar the night before he was even going to make a cake for me and as soon as we got there he started talking sh*t he started saying my lips where chapped so i grabbed my lip gloss and i re glossed my lips and he said it wasnt good enough then he saw i was pissed and started talking about how he's glad i finally got a nice weave and why didnt i get an expensive nice weave before now and my hair lately was looking dry old and ugly then i said "if you loved me at all you wouldnt be say this" and he said thats the problem i cant fall in love with you you think time equals love you and your parents both thing i need to be proposing and fallin in love because were at the one year mark and im not even close to that and started saying i let myself go i wasnt on his education level and i couldnt have a intellectual conversation with him if i tried because im still in college and he has 3 degrees so when we left the bar he started saying i wasted his money why would he spend all this money an a anniversary weekend and a gift for me and i cant even make him fall in love or "keep myself up" and i "used him " and dumped me he even told my parents he didnt want me anymore but i want him back cause i feel gulity for not being a better gf am I CRAZY? he also said we didnt have sex as much not because he was tired but because my weave was so bad and i was "musty" sometimes and he couldnt get into like that like he did when we first met bascially i wasnt the same girl and i didnt treat him right enough by only dressing up when we went out but not when i went to his house to chill anyways should i feel bad?? p.s I was never musty i always showered before i saw him WTF Anyways he got his house key and garage door opener from me is it too late?

I was in relationship with this girl for 6 years. She mastered herself in playing with someone's emotions in very cruel , hurting ways. She loved to do tricks even in simplest communication with me. We were in long distance relationship. She was involved in other relationships too at the same time with me. She was already in troubled married life. She didn't get enough in her married life in all senses. Her husband was not treating her well, no respect, no time for her, he was abusive towards her. I don't know what was the need for her to be in relationship with other guys where she should resolve the issues with her husband? Why she used other people for her own boredom of her life? What to do if someone taking emotional advantage? With manipulations, dirty mind games, Emotional abuses & cheats. Please guide me

to other men online. What should I do?

After the separation he moved to another state. And picks them up over the summer. He keep asking me if we can get back together. Something inside of me don't feel the same anymore. My parents wants me to go back and my children ask us to go live with dad. My family says I am stubborn for keeping the kids away from their father. Am I wrong? I'm still very unhappy how he treats me in the past.

So, my husband and I have another family we are friends with. Fred and Luna. Fred has been helpful. Luna decides to have a party for the kids. I find out later, Fred told her to invite me. Our daughter s are same age (8) .I m invited, but I decline. My vehicle is still broken. He says he will come pick me up. I m ok with that since I have four kids.(8 and under). Then I get a call from Luna asking if I felt fine with him driving me. Fred had approached her that maybe my husband wouldn t like another guy picking up his wife. I said it was fine as I had already asked hubby. . He told me of some struggles with his oldest son growing up and just letting go. I noticed he looked at me while driving. He teased me lot in front of everyone. Everytime I would laugh, he would stop talking to the men to ask what was funny. Then he took some plates from me and glided his fingers across the back of my hand. It was kind of startling. He did it slow. I began to consider he was attracted. He was supposed to take me home after two hours but he didn t. It was like five. The next day, he watched me a lot. Every time I glanced he was looking. Also, once, he stopped his conversation with the men to turn and stare at me and listen to something i was saying. the other guys turned in confusion. So I had four men suddenly staring at me. It was so akward. Thoughts? I m not interested at all. I love my husband. Fred and i are about 15 years apart. I m nearly 30. oh and just to be clear. I wasn't talking to Fred when he stopped his conversation to listen. I was talking with another woman. It wasn't like I walked up and he stopped to listen. I don't really approach him at all. I do want to know if I'm overthinking though. Hubby thought it was weird too, but told me to be kind but distant,

I'm 19 and I know so many people right now who are as young as 18 and getting married and having kids so I'm curious to hear opinions about it. I see a side of people who say that they're way more likely to get divorced and that you should wait to get married, but I also see people who are really defensive and say that if they're in love in doesn't matter. And please don't just tell me that's it's their lives and shouldn't matter to me. I know that, I'm just really interested in this topic and what people think of it

My wife's friend has been sleeping with another woman's husband(cheating girl was married also). Wife is disgusted by it, but not me. I feel bad for all parties that are hurt, but something about this girl and her sexual appetitie. Something about how she embraces being a ho(she has no remorse). Last night during sex I wanted my wife to pretend we were the cheating couple but she cringed. I kind of wish my wife was as dirty as the other girl.

I have no problems with his past. I knew this when I married him that he had a child and I am s step mom to his son. However I do get a little annoyed when he talks about how grateful he is to his ex wife for giving him a baby, when his ex wife calls the house at odd hours to speak to her son yet always chit chats with my husband first, she hangs out at our house in order to see her son because she's too lazy and cheap to get in the car and take her son somewhere (like her place, out to dinner etc) Its just irritating that he has no boundaries with his ex. Am I being fair?

Ok so months ago I found out my wife was cheating, not only was she cheating. She was cheating with a really " good" friend of mine. once I found out the began to have a relationship and blast it all over fb. I began to reconnect with an ex and once she found out she came running back. She's now 7 months pregnant but I just don't know if this is my kid. so back in December she was sayin that she was pregnant with my friends kid. In January ( around the second week of January) she claims she got an abortion the following week, I slept with her. She wasn't bleeding or anything. This was on January 26 when we slept around. Everyone keeps saying, there's no way she can get an abortion one weeks nd get pregnant with your baby so quickly. Now here's the crazier part. On June 26th she goes to the doctor, the doctor tells us she's SIX MONTHS pregnant! How the hell is this possible? she's due mid October. I'm a man and don't know about pregnancy but I feel like she's lying to me big time!