He's married, I'm single. I'm 26, he's 37. We're friends and used to work together. He used to be touchy feely with me when we worked together (not too crazy, mostly high fives), but not so much now. He's never hugged me, though. Whenever we're together and he buys food, he buys it for me (and our guy friend too, so I don't think that's much). We have sent innocent messages to each other around midnight or so. He's prayed for me (again, he prayed for our guy friend, too) while praying with his daughter. He's told me (while we were riding alone together) that his wife complains that he doesn't get home from work until 8pm sometimes. He also mentioned to me today in a passive aggressive way, that his wife never listens to him. His wife didn't want me riding alone with him today so she forced their son to go with us. Today at church, we were the only ones sitting in the front row and he seemed to purposely sit a couple seats away from me. Back when my mom used to attend church with me some days, I noticed he would only make convo. with me after service when our mutual guy friend was there, but if it was just me and my mom, he'd come say hi before service, but he'd leave immediately after service. When we rode alone together once, we talked the whole time with no awkward pauses. He's always laughing at things I say that I don't think are all that funny. He's given me some pretty interesting looks over time, like he's staring into my soul. Would you say this is an emotional affair We car pool every Sunday and his wife mentioned to our mutual guy friend that she and her husband developed feelings for each other because she and him carpooled home from college every weekend back then. She said this WHILE her husband was driving me home, alone. He used to often "like" or comment my FB posts and hasn't (unless specifically tagged for whatever reason) since I added his wife on FB. Anonymous, how about you actually read the post? You judgmental bastard. I don't want to destroy a marriage, lala. If I did, I would have done something by now.

They are always unhappy with something. You accept and parent their child form a previous relationship and contribute and be part of family events but they complain if you go on your phone for 5 minutes when they spend most of the night ignoring you where you have to socialize by yourself. They never seem happy with anything you do.

Ok, so here is the scenario....both you and your wife work long hours (more than 40 hours per week). You are both salaried professionals HOWEVER you (the man) earn 3 times as much money as she does. But again, you are BOTH working the same amount of hours. Do you feel that because you bring home more money into the house, you don't have to do as much of the housework and chores (I am talking everything both inside and outside)...even though both of you are putting in WELL over 40 hours a week? I would like honest answers. I am not here to judge, I just want to know what people honestly think. And women, chime in here too if the role here is reversed for you or if you want to share some information on here about your thoughts on this.

My husband is annoying as hell, so I'm low-key tryna get a job that requires me to travel all over the world often so I don't have to deal with him much. How do I do that without making it obvious?

My wife's uncle died last week they had the funeral last weekend she feels bad because me and her are having our first baby next month he won't get to meet her. It was an uncle she was close to but didn't see much maybe every 5 years. They lived 3 1/2 hours away she hasn't seen him in a long time I never met him either I hear he was nice I met her cousins and aunt the first time last week at the funeral. It's been a week since he's been gone she can't believe it. She'd hoped he lived until our daughter was born. She's been a real mess lately she hasn't been sleeping much either. How can I help her feel better ?

I am going to marry a girl but still, she does not really understand me.. my marriage itself will be so ******* rich! my father owed money from the Bank. I hate my culture. And now, I dont know what to do. I wanna run away but yet, I cant break their hearts who arranged my marriage. Seems my family want me to marry only because of the moral burden they got.

I know people say relationships can be rocky. We've been married 4 years and we are going through a rough patch. I love my husband but I've been starting to wonder did I make the right choice marrying him? I've been crying the past few days and I just feel unhappy in our marriage for the past week. Is this normal on occasion to feel? Does everyone hit rough patches?

he found out, and sat me down and talked to me about preserving my dignity. But sometimes I feel weary. He says he is the head of household and that I am an inferior.

I have this friend who is married. I have feelings for him that I try my best to hide from both him and his wife. I respect their marriage and family and would never want to jeopardize it. Lately, I've been around his wife more because I go to their church and have for a couple months, but lately he's been giving me rides to and from church, due to me not currently having my own transportation. Usually, his son and another friend of ours are in the car. I'm starting to get the feeling that his wife isn't very fond of me. She's always kind to me when we're around each other and I recently added her on FB and she accepted, but I don't know. Today, it was just me since our friend had to take care of his sick mother and my friend/crush's son was in the car with us on the way there. After service, before we left, my friend decided to chat with a friend which became a whole group of people chatting and nobody even acknowledging me lol. His wife was there for probably 10 minutes before she finally acknowledged me by saying "hey _____, how are you?", but her smile seemed fake. As my friend and I got ready to leave, his wife told their oldest boy to go with us and he didn't want to. When he asked why he had to, my friend's wife sternly said "because I said so." Do you think she dislikes me or doesn't trust me with her husband? He and I rode alone together a few Sundays ago while she took our other friend home (long story) and she apparently told our other friend that she and my friend started talk-talking because she would always give him rides home from college every weekend. I think she was trying to hint at something, knowing our friend would tell me. I'm 26, my friend is 37. P.S. I should have specified that his wife and two younger kids ride separately than he and his oldest kid. We met at work because he was my boss who I couldn't stand (he was a pain in the butt to work with LOL!) and when he got a new job and left, he invited me to start going to his church so technically, we didn't start out as church friends. Jordan, I don't think I am obvious. Our friend that is always with us never notices anything, in fact, he had no idea I even liked my crush.

Have you ever sniffed a cushioned (computer or couch) chair that a woman has sat in after a long period of time? And if so what did it smell like?

My son enjoys calling his wife fatty- she did put on a lot of weight since having the baby and it ain't coming off, so Now I call her fatso and I kind of get a kick out of it. will this help her lose the weight she so desperately needs?

My husband and I are a bit overweight, but since he's taller, you might think I'm fatter than him. It's not a lot of extra weight and I didn't have trouble with it, I enjoyed sex with my ex boyfriend with our clothes off and the lights on, and never covered ourselves with sheets. I got married two months ago (my husband and I decided to wait for marriage to have sex) and now we're having sex under a blanket, with the lights off and he won't take his clothes off, he just lowers his pants till his knees. I'm on a point where I don't know if it's his body that he dislikes, or my own. I'm starting to have issues with my self-esteem. Is it me? Or is it him? I tried to talk to him about it, and he said that the lights off are more romantic than having them on, and that he doesn't take his clothes off because he gets cold (no matter how high the temperature on the AC is). Another day he said that if he had the lights on he would get too aroused by seen my body and would not be able to last long enough in the sex act. I don't know what to think. What's your opinion? Please, help.

Im 34 weeks pregnant and am I wrong for getting mad with my husband because I went to the beach and I got tired so I went to the car... He told me he going to come to the car in 30 min but he stay at the beach for 2 hours plus he was playing around with his sisters... After we went on the road he get a call for his ex that s paying him back but they talk like they good friends. He been seeing her 3 times this week. I can t help but to think that she is trying to get bad attentions with him. To make this all worries is the fact the my husband ex s is his sister Sister-in-law... Dont know what to do help me

My wife and I have been looking to buy a home since the summer of 2015. I'm starting to really lose my patience because owning a home has been something I've wanted for years, and she's finding really petty reasons to say no. For example, she just made me walk away from a really nice new development in a good neighborhood with good schools because she "would prefer to be closer to H-mart" (a Korean supermarket). She also waits really late to tell me she doesn't want a house; for example, she waited until I submitted mortgage approval paperwork and a deposit to say she doesn't really want the house, and she can't seem to see that this is really cruel. She just says "sorry this is my character, I change my mind based on how I feel" and then I'm supposed to just accept it. I've known couples who have divorced because of this exact issue and I'm seriously starting to get really frustrated because I feel like she is purposely sabotaging our efforts to find a house. I guess I'm ranting, but if this were you, what would you do? I'm pretty convinced at this point if I stay with my wife I will never have a home and will be forced to rent all the time, which I feel is unfair since she knew my feelings about owning a home when we married. So would you give up the dreams of owning a home to stay with your partner (knowing you'll likely resent them for what they've done) or would you blow up your marriage over the frustration of it all?

Hi. i was wondering if any men ever divorced their wives for having abortions behind their backs. afterwards did you refuse to speak to her or attend marriage counseling to save your marriage did you move out? Thanks!

If so, what does he do to make you think that?

My daughter was graduating from college and my ex husband his wife were at a dinner for her along with me and my husband. She wanted to take pics so I took out my compact to Check my makeup. My husband accused me of coming on to my ex by doing that! Why?

I'm working towards greater accomplishments. I've since remarried but any time I hear the reference to one's greatest accomplishment I think back to finally having the strength to leave my ex husband and finally begin living. I wonder sometimes, can anyone else can relate to this?

I'm 26 and have been in a relationship for the last 2.5 years, but we don't live together and I'm nowhere even close to wanting to propose. She won't consider living together without a ring, and I won't consider buying a ring until after we live together. We're at an impasse and I don't know what to do.