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| Question: Friends called me an attention whore? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 06:01 PM PDT It was the last day of school and I was sitting alone while my two best friends were laughing and giggling. I had tried to talk to them but they were ignoring me and pretending I wasn't there for no reason. I got super angry and threw my phone at them. It missed, thank god. I really regret doing that. We didn't talk over the summer because we were so angry at each other (And they blocked my number. Great!). It's almost the start of school now and last night I was calling my online friend and a friend I had made that lives near me and goes to the same school as me. I was talking about how I was so excited for school so I can make things right with them because they felt like true best friends. That was when my friend in the same school told me that he was at the pool and heard them talking about me. They said things like how my curses were fake and I was just doing them to get attention. I genuinely believed curses worked at the time. They said I was only getting angry at them for attention. I feel horrible. I've broken 11 pencils and given myself one black eye and 7 bruises on both my arms so far. My online bestie, whom of which I've known since Kindergarten, kept telling me it wasn't worth it but I can't believe I lost these friends. I remember when we were in 4th grade and we were talking on the phone and singing duets and laughing and having fun. Is this how she really felt that whole time? Are they worth talking to anymore? I don't want to make them hate me even more. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2017 06:00 PM PDT I am 20 and I am a man and I try to contact the females almost exclusively. I think it is because I am too shy to talk to guys but not girls for some reason. I am also worried that another reason I go for the women is because I secretly want to make friends with potential mating partners but I am not sure. But I also go for women because I think it is good to have both male and female friends for variety of things like when you ask your friends for advice on whatever and things like that. Cause males and females think differently. And because having female friends would be exciting because of all sorts of reasons. Sometimes people don't reply to my messages and I don't know why and then I don't know what to do. I don't know if it is because I always end up saying something wrong or if there are problems with the devices we use to send messages or what. This has happened with just about everyone I have contacted (males and females). And I used to be good friends with some of these people. One of them is my second cousin (female). Maybe it is because of what I say sometimes because I have Autism that keeps getting worse. What do you think of all this? |
| Question: My friend likes me, any advice? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 05:11 PM PDT We have known each other since 2015, met through mutual friends. He's pretty mean but I can take a joke so that's why we became friends, For the past month he has been annoying me and I am tired of it. He is always asking questions that are none of his damn business and has become extremely clingy and jealous when I talk to other people even texting. I'm sad because we used to always have a good time and laugh but now all we do is argue. Sometimes we can still have a good time but then he goes and ruins it on purpose and we argue again. Some things he does is: tell me that I should only talk to him, get mad when I get messages from other people, get mad that I had a streak with someone else on snapchat, always asking "who sent you a message?" when he hears a notification, gets mad when I say "I'm busy" and spams me asking what I'm doing, gets upset when I say I have to go because he thinks I'm leaving to hang out with someone else when really I just want time to myself. And today he said "I think I like you more than a friend." I've already started disliking him as a friend because of the way he has been acting so of course I don't feel the same way. I need some advice, what should I do. ALSO, he's 17 and I'm almost 21, no way I'm about that life. I'm just really bothered by all of this because I used to consider him my best friend at one point but now I feel like everything is ruined and things can't be like how they used to. Advice is much appreciated. Btw he messaged me saying "I think I like you more than a friend." not verbally. I did not reply yet. |
| Question: Friendship question? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 05:02 PM PDT I am just curious to know if someone who have never had friends all their life would they need friends later in their life? |
| Question: Single moms: what traits do you like in men? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 05:02 PM PDT Do they have to be older than you? Do they need to have kids of their own? Do they have to be financially independent? |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2017 04:39 PM PDT In prison Corey (who is serving a 15 year mandatory minimum of 15 years in prison for trafficking 3 kilos of cocaine) got reunited with Carl (a school acquaintance of his who is serving 25 years to life in prison for 10 counts of child pornography, raping 2 underage children and molesting several other children) and they both could relate to each other very well. Both Carl and Corey brought each other joy and Corey felt very sad, hurt and angered over his high school buddies turning their backs on him, him losing his wealth, his brand new car, his classic car and his freedom. But when Carl told Corey that his high school buddies were a bunch of good for nothing snobs it made Corey feel better that he's not the only one who dislikes them, Carl is also grateful that Corey isn't judging him for being a child rapist and Corey is also grateful to have a friend who he knew from the past to talk to. Corey even finds himself liking Carl more than his high status snobby friends who turned their backs on him, once he told Carl that it brought him a lot of joy knowing someone likes him better than the high status people who a lot of people would suck up to. |
| Question: Do you like if someone calls you 'best friend', or do you think it's a little meaningless? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 04:32 PM PDT I don't mean as them saying "Yea, he's my best friend." I'm talking about the ones who say "Hey best friend!" I personally don't like that, since everyone calls each other that. Wbu? |
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| Posted: 15 Aug 2017 03:51 PM PDT I've seen people who get really dismayed when they're alone. Like they can't have any alone time. I want to know if this is emotionally (or physically) unhealthy? I've been on both sides so I'll explain my experiences and the conclusions I've drawn. A few years ago I put a ton of pressure on myself to have friends. As a result, I only cared for the image of having friends and I got really sad when I wasn't hanging out with people all the time. I had a huge fear of missing out to the point where I started dissecting all my friends snapchats to make sure I wasn't being left out. Since then I'd had a good amount of alone time. I've learned to live with myself. Personally, I'm fine being alone. I get to focus on taking care of myself and hobbies. I still hang out with people every so often (which is good balance for an introvert), but I'm not super close to them. I want to get more close friends but I'm afraid of falling into a toxic relationship where I need their clarity all the time to feel laxed. My personal opinion is it's unhealthy to crave attention all the time and people should learn to be okay being alone. Do you guys feel the same way? |
| Question: I thought she and I were friends? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 03:17 PM PDT But every time we hang out we get in an argument over dumb stuff. The other day we were drinking at a house party and I told her "you're drunk, and you need to get you butt to bed", and she got in my face saying "I'm not drunk." She and I are supposed to be best biches, but she always acting like this. |
| Question: My life is changing and it just hit me a truck? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 03:01 PM PDT so i'm moving again, father away from my friends which means i'm going into another highschool with none of my friends, moving and (just entering) highschool is already a big change then my dad is back in his old relationship and i don't know how to feel about this and i feel so lost in all this. has anyone expierenced this before? |
| Question: Why do people take so long? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 03:00 PM PDT I was going to meet up with my friend today around noon at the basketball court. Hes just now getting there and i left about 30 minutes ago. I dont have the patience to wait on people. We're in chicago, it does not take 4 hours to get anywhere in chicago. He said he was on his way around noon, so i cancelled and left. |
| Question: I can t seem to be able to make friends, no matter where I go.? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 02:54 PM PDT I just don t know what to do anymore. I just transferred this year to a new high school for my junior year. Reason why: I ve spent the last two years as a depressed mess due to literally having zero friends. I transferred hoping to create a decent social life. However, even though it is only the second day, nobody talks to me, even when I attempt to spark a conversation. I m just done. Maybe I should just kill myself since nobody seems to want to even be around me. I m not sure if I m just an unlikable person personality wise and that s why everyone seems to think I m so repulsive. Nobody makes the effort to talk to me and I m working my *** off trying to talk to them... And I m the shy one. I did expect everyone to have their cliques and such, but I was at least thinking that someone would try to befriend me, with me being the new kid and all. Obviously I was wrong. I m feeling worthless right now and am completely stuck. I just want to curl up in a ball and die honestly. Obviously the world is against me. This isn t even a question so much it is a rant, so I m sorry for wasting your time. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2017 02:50 PM PDT So I told one of my long time friends, we both acknowledge each other as best friends, that I was interested in them for a while now after she came and visited me. The only thing is that we decided to revisit this conversation once school started and we are back on campus. I'm prepared for rejection but even if that doesn't work out I still value the friendship. I keep hearing that if I am rejected, our friendship will take a turn for the worst. What are some peoples opinions on how to stop this from ruining a really great and appreciative friendship? |
| Question: How can i communicate to my introverted cousin? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 02:43 PM PDT I went to visit my aunts place a week ago, my cousin Shyanna gave me a cold shoulder during my stays there,shes 16 last time we spoke was when she was 13 until she quit school,we played a lot of games together, we had fun times, went to places together, i was her only friend, i have no siblings but i lowkey treat her as if shes my lil sis since the day i met her,she doesnt know. now shes treating me like a stranger, we were close until there was a conflict between her and her mother and that i had to move ..i talk to her in-games sometimes, shes pretty sociable there she has 3 friends there, compared to how she talks to her friends and to me,she's become so cold only to me and her mother but i try my best to become a 'cousin' / 'friend' again instead a 'stranger'. her mother is very strict and is distant to her relatives idk y,im only 17 i got no friends, i want to be her cousin/friend again our family tree doesn't have that many people either,shes the only cousin that i have before i had to leave my aunts place, i wont get to see her again for couple of months but i forced myself to enter her room where she always imprisons herself there, we had a lil chat, told her that i was sorry for what i did to upset her.. she got upset w me and slammed the door to my face. after that she blocked me on the game and on facebook...i dont get girls sometimes. im a good guy why is she like this only to me ..shes so difficult to understand. i need advices. i dont want to give up |
| Question: Was my friend manipulative? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 02:37 PM PDT i used to have a friend who had BPD. of course, i also have bpd so i hate the stereotype that we're all manipulative, abusive people who ruin lives, but i'm not sure if she was a good person or just manipulative and mean. She would always post on her blog aboutwanting to kill herself, but then pushed away anyone who tried to help, and i was one of those people who tried so hard to support her. she'd get angry and tell us to leave her alone. A friend of mine who used to be friends with her too said that she told him once over text that she had a gun and was going to use it and stopped replying leaving him to worry all night. she texted him the next morning like nothing had happened. She would always get upset, and cuss at me and argue with me constantly. i got scared of telling her how felt sometimes because she'd get mad at me. She once told me not to underestimate her when she was upset and saying she was'nt a good person, and told me that she once told a girl that it was her fault her dad killed himself. She also literally wanted me to move states because she was afraid i'd die in an earthquake, and wouldn't stop going on about it even after i told her to stop. |
| Question: How to convince my parents to let me move in with a friend for a few months next summer? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 02:24 PM PDT So my home life is hard a lot of the time, and i get stressed out a lot because of it. one of my friends who lives in texas offered to let me live with them for three months when they come to my state to visit next summer. How should I convince my parents? My friend says they really wants me to go so i can be away from the stuff that causes me stress, even if only for those months. they're coming to CA and want me to live in pasadena with them |
| Question: Dealing with mean popular girls at school? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 02:09 PM PDT So school started again for me, and there's been so much talk for such a long time amongst everyone that goes to my school about this new girl that was coming this year(my school isn't necessarily tiny but it isn't really that big either, so word gets around fast) Everyone at school was so amazed by this new girl because of 1. How beautiful she is and 2. How rich she is (which they found out by her Instagram)Her parents are millionaires and she lives like a celebrity because of how rich she is. you know the whole private jets, expensive cars, designer things, special treatment because their family are millionaires, etc. Where I live is veerryy middle class so it's especially amazing for people here to have someone like her where we live lol. Sothe first day of school I walked by her a lot on my way to my classes, and every time I passed her she would give me dirty looks and roll her eyes and scoff and this just went on through the entire day, I was so confused why she hated me cause I'd never even talked to herbefore!! So I thought well maybe I'm just overthinkingall this and she's not actually directing all this towards me, it's just a misunderstanding. So I sat by her atlunch, and I tried to introduce myself and become friends with her and she acted like I wasn't even there!! the dirty looks and all that have gone on ever since, and I don't know what to do about her. And it's kind of hard to ignore her when she's doing it every single day every single time I walk past her |
| Question: How can i forget about my ex? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 02:07 PM PDT This is weird and I know but I can't help it, I dated a girl 2 years ago and she spent a lot of time with me and my housemate he was my best friend in college, she broke up with me and they became close like best friends. He spent all his time with her so I was left in a weird position my best friend became best friends with my ex. Now I suspected that theyre was something going on with them behind my back, it makes no odds now anyway, it was a weird position so I took a step back. I was secretly hurting a lot so I said I'm going to go, this happened in my final year of college, so I just packed my stuff and went off to America after my exams, we never kept in touch which hurt a little too but part of me believes the phone will ring asking to meet up, I know it'll never happen and there's too much water under the bridge for me to initiate it, so I better finally let go. But how, I wish I could bump into them randomly and just say a proper goodbye but again too much water. I saw on Facebook they met up and are now going out, I hate it I had accepted we went 3 different ways. It should not matter to me anyway. I just want to forget them entirely but I resent them being happy even though I shouldn't care, I'm becoming a little messed up in the head over it so I need to let this go but how. |
| Question: It is my bffs birthday but I don't know what to get her any suggestions? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 02:06 PM PDT |
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| Posted: 15 Aug 2017 01:22 PM PDT My friend named Kyle, and I want to knock on our friends door to ask him to go to brunch with us, but we dont know if he would want to join us (Because he's vegetarian) |
| Question: Can you get in trouble for a disstrack? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 01:08 PM PDT I'm making a disstrack on my friends ex (my friends name is Joe and his ex is named emma) cause she cheated on him. But the girl says that im gonna go to jail and get in trouble for harassment and kicked out of school, blah blah. I looked it up but it says i can get in trouble for slander (everything said is true) but i want to upload it to youtube or something but i dont wanna get sued or in trouble. Also the girls mom is involved but i dont think shes gonna do anything. Can i get in trouble for cyberbullying or something else. Helppp |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2017 01:03 PM PDT Sure, they might not see each other as often. But if they love each other so much, I don't see why it's so hard to drive a few miles every once in a while. |
| Question: Seducing a woman in a strict environment? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 12:51 PM PDT I live in Pakistan and environment here is very different from the west. Here women are expected to not to have sex before marriage and flirting is always looked down upon. Of course not everyone here consider all these things and here are many people in relationships before marriage despite having such a strict environment. But do you think that it is possible for a man to get a woman in such an environment? What about women's so called "natural sexual response"? |
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| Question: Should I have let her stay with me? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 12:18 PM PDT I was at a party and the host ask me to drive Jane home as she was too drunk to drive. I agreed as I did not want her in a car accident. The host said I will call her husband and tell him you are bringing her home. When I got to her house, her husband met me a the door and would not let his wife come in the house. He said "She is not coming in this house until she sobers up". OH CRAP. What am I going to do? I can't leave her there drunk on her door step. I called the party host and ask her what I should do. She said to take her to your home and take her to her house in the morning when she was sober. I was not comfortable having a married woman sleep at my house over night. I was afraid of what her husband might do. He also seemed to me to be drunk but I didn't know what else to do so I took her home. The next morning she wanted to know how she ended up at my house and I told her. She was outraged. She said "I am not going back and live with that S.O.B. of a husband". Can I stay with you until I can find a place to stay. I told her no but I would help her find a place to stay. I was afraid of what her husband might do and/or I would get involved in a divorce case. Please tell me if I did the right thing here. Should I have let her stay with me? |
| Question: Getting over a best friend breakup? Advice needed!? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 12:16 PM PDT I thought about leaving my closest friend of 9 years, because I realized that she got mad at me for no reason and made me feel terrible, which I only recently realized. I told her in the calmest way possible that I needed space, and nothing more. Not to never talk to her again, but just some time to think. She interpreted this wrong, even though I was crystal clear, and told me that she was going to block me, "that's what I wanted", and so many hurtful things that I think were unnecessary. She was so extremely childish and handled it irresponsibly, by telling me that she had no one (maybe I was closest to her, but she has toooons of friends, more than me) and that I was being selfish. Maybe I was being selfish, but I needed it because yes, we had a good friendship, but her toxicity really affected me in social and academic life, and is what made me want to leave her. At the moment, I don't know whether I've made the right choice. I've been thinking of doing this for some time, and I'm finally sure that this is correct. But now I'm starting to doubt it, which makes a knot of guilt start to gather in me. Are these just common "symptoms" of a friendship breaking up? What can I do to reassure myself? PS. we're 14 and just started high school, and she's in all of my classes. |
| Question: Would you want to be friends with a person like this? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 12:09 PM PDT There is a guy that I work with who is upset with me because I don't talk to him at work. I've been working at this job now for 16 months and for the first few months that I worked there, this guy treated me with no respect at all because of the way that i look. Now all of a sudden he being nice to me. I don't want anything to do with him. And I have no interest in engaging in conversation with him at all. Am In the wrong for this? Do you think that I should try and get to know this person? |
| Question: Is it normal for friends to not invite you to hang out ever? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 12:04 PM PDT I have been friends with these sisters for about 6 years now, and I'm about to go into my 3rd year of high school. When we started out as friends, we had sleepovers and everything. We would alternate houses. The last time we hung out outside of school was my house, then I just waited for them to invite me because it was basically their turn...it's been 2 years. In school we're super good friends, but we NEVER text unless we need help with homework, and I found out they are in tons of group chats with their other friends. So basically they're really good friends in school, but never ask me to hang out or text me for fun, like they do other people. Are they still my good friends? Is this normal? |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2017 11:44 AM PDT And what are some reasons why she would have sex secretly outside of her relationship? Why not just break up with the guy? Or why not be with the guy she has sex with? |
| Question: Why dont people like the taste of their own medicine? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 11:41 AM PDT Whenever someone says something mean to me, I say something back and they get upset or mad and play victim. For example, my cousin called me a hoe and i called him a fat **** and he slapped me in my face. My cousin is a boy and im a girl. One time my friend called me ugly and i called her ugly back and she started crying. im confused. |
| Question: How do I get him to miss me? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 11:09 AM PDT Me and my best friend spent 2 weeks together (with other friends too). Me and my best friend are working on our friendship. On the first 2 days (with no one around) he was literally all over me. With everyone around sometimes we are close sometimes we aren't. And on the last 2 days together he has been acting strange but he tells me he's just "tired". So on our last day together I had to keep reaching out to get him to talk to me. It wasn't a mutual thing. Also on the last day I woke up to very bad news which sent tears through my eyes. When people asked him was I ok he just shrugged his shoulders and still proceeded not to talk to me. After that I texted him wishing him well (he had problems too). I said we won't talk for a week but I hope all goes well for you. He thanked me and that was it. It's been 2 days with no communication and I see him posting on snap but I never watch them. How do I get him to miss me? Like what the hell happened to our friendship? I don't know what I did wrong. he won't communicate and I feel hurt because we had sooo much fun together. How do I get things back to the way they were? It's like when I resist him he comes back so maybe that's what I need to do.... but I need him to want to talk to me. |
| Question: Are you a loner type of person? Do you prefer to have only 2 or 3 friends? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 09:53 AM PDT I just dropped some friends that was too much drama. Since then I've been keeping to myself. Yes I still go out and do things. I will go out to eat, go to restaurants, go out to bars and see live music. I just do things on my own and I meet people at the bars. I go to this chat program online and meet people doing that. You can meet some good people doing that too. I did have some bad drunk friends that I really needed to cut out of my life. I now like living the loner type of life but I'm still social in away. I'm just more careful at choosing friends. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2017 09:43 AM PDT I've known this guy for a long time. Yes he can be a good hearted guy. This guy has been known to be a bad drunk and I've been done with him for a long time. Yet I still see my other friends hang out with them. These other friends I don't see much anymore. I did move to a city and been here for a long time. Yes I've met some decent people by doing things I enjoy. I just made some acquiescence from playing poker. Then I go out to bars and meet people but haven't made any close friends and I kinda like this life better. Right now I'm just looking for some good female friend. I'm done with having too many friends. As you can see my past group of friends was drama. |
| Question: What do you say to your friend when they're sad ? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 09:40 AM PDT This is my boyfriends account I'm a girl by the way. My best friend was feeling upset he gave me a hug and he cried I asked him what's wrong he said he can't talk about it. He's a big baby he cries at everything or nothing it's hard to tell what's wrong with him. I have to leave here in an hour I'd hate to leave him but I have music lesson at 2. I haven't done it for a few weeks. I would invite him to come with me but he'll either have to watch or sit outside the room. How can I help him feel better ? |
| Question: He said I was his best friend even though he want to be with me, have kids and marry me.? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 09:36 AM PDT He didn't friend zone me tho |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2017 09:27 AM PDT My friend got out of prison a while ago. He was there for 3 years and got 8 1/2 years on parole. He stabbed some guy and he had to go to the hospital. All because this guy slept with his girlfriend. It happened a long time ago. He wasn't even with her at the time. He just got mad about it when he found out. He wanted to fight the guy but the guy tried walking away. Then when they fought my friend got his *** kicked and then he stabbed the guy multiple times. He has 2 kids with this women and I heard they were in the house sleeping. This happened in a small town and you don't here violent acts like this. He made front page of the newspaper. He has done other stuff to guys that were with her too. This happened in a small town with about 8,000 people. If you google stabbing in that town you will only come up with his act. I remember there was another one too but this one was really messed up. You never hear violent acts like this in a small town and I seen my friend forgive him. Maybe its time for me to meet some new people. I don't even live there anymore. I live in a decent size city now. |
| Question: Making Money and Getting Depressed.? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 09:20 AM PDT Hello everyone. I would first like to start this off with please only repsond if you can relate to my situation and please don't judge, I get enough of it already. So here it goes. I am currently 21 years old and I have been running a local business for 3 years. Within my 3 years I have worked 90+ hour work weeks to make my business a success. For the last 2 years I have been putting in my pocket about $150,000 a year and my businesses total revenue exceeds $1,000,000 annually. All sounds good right? Wrong, I have family members constantly being mad at me because I will not spend a dime of my money, I still have my same shitting 1999 Corola. I live in a 400 Square Foot cottage. I do not buy new clothes or shoes or cars or anything. I do not have any friends because I work so many hours (I prefer not having friends but even so I think it takes a toll on me even though I do not want friends) I do not drink, smoke or do any drugs. I feel like my mental state just isn't where it used to be when I first started my business. Now I just plug away day by day and do not have the same passion that I once had for it but I do not give it up because it is making me a nice living. My plan is to save all of this money (Thats why I don't spend a dime on my personal self) and invest the money which I have been doing. And then retire in 10 years and live off of he compounding interest and just have a simple life, but everyone berates me because I am frugal and for whatever other bullshit. |
| Question: Should I block this friend from my facebook , I know her in person too? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 09:02 AM PDT This lady has so much nerve. I have been working steady, even if I grabbed a job cold calling telemarketing where 700 numbers are dialed in 5 hours and you have to pitch people cold. I would last for a while even on a tough job like those. First time this year in a very long time I've been out of work. This lady is always getting fired and out of work, she is homeless and lives in many peoples places for free since she's been living here in los angeles, sleeping in her car, 33 years old and constantly asking her parents back east for money, and asked me a couple of times in the past for money and if she could stay at my place. NOW, because I am out of work, she wanted to go to a movie the other day, and she is moving to Nevada, Las Vegas for a little while so she wanted to do a movie before she went, she OFFERED to pay for it. Than she says to me "I don't want to bother with people who are low, and always no money, no car, and all" and than she said "Didn't you not have a car at one time and was out of work then" I was so livid. At that time my mother died, I was doing cold calling telemarketing, I was taking the buses at that time but worked all the time. Now I have a car for a couple of years, and she is indirectly calling me low when she is always out of work, always asking people for money and always homeless. I feel like telling her off so badly but I am thinking when she moves to Vegas next week, I'll block her, than she can't reach me anymore, does not have my no. she knows where I live but its gated and she is going to Nevada for a while anyways |
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| Question: Did she sound disinterested in meeting up with me? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 07:45 AM PDT Me: Do you have a membership at a gym with squat racks, etc? Her: Oh yea Me: Was trying to get a glute-leg workout in with you sometime. I'm at 24 hr fitness. Her: I would love that. Me: 24 has a paid guest pass or a free week long pass but they push you to get a membership. Her: Yea I'm not trying to be pushed into a membership lol Me: Ha u sure? Check with ur gym's policy whenever you want to work out and let me know. Her: OK that would be fun. I'm always trying to work on this booty. I felt like she wasn't helping at all. Thought she'd suggest going to her gym and give a day that would be good. I'm glad I left it up to her so that if she really does want to, she'll let me know. We're both female. She does say she likes to work out. She has invited me a couple times to do something with her but we haven't truly hung out yet. Just a couple days ago, she invited me to come watch one of her games. Helen: Ok, so it's most likely nothing personal? I wasn't trying to recruit her; I was just trying to state that my gym would be difficult to get her into. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2017 07:29 AM PDT So I live in a super small town and I'm gonna be a freshmen. My mom gave me the option of moving to another school and it is even smaller but that's not a big deal. In the town I live in in just not happy. My grade has about 45 kids and I just don't have a ton of true friends. I have 1 guy best friend in my grade and my other best friend who is a girl in the grade below me. I just don't like the idea of starting over and redoing it all of being the new kid especially since I'm gonna be a freshmen but also I want to. The school I'd be moving to has about 20 kids in my grade. Idk what to do. Advice? |
| Question: Husbands friends obsessed with every move I make on social media, why? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 06:58 AM PDT My husbands old co worker is a preacher on the side of some sort. He has a background (spent time in prison) and is married to some woman who thinks she is the next Dr. Phil. She was constantly psychoanalyzing my FB posts and ran and tattled to my husband or had hers do it whenever I posted something that she does not like to start discord between my husband and I when he would jump on me for something she reported. Recently, she messaged my husband asking if I "unfriended or blocked her" since she sees I am no longer on there and asked if I was "bi polar given my behavior" and asked why I would not listen to God through her because she has tried to counsel me and help me with my "problems" since " she belongs to a support group with people that have mental illness like her" (meaning me). She wrote this all to my husband. I do not have mental illness, I have depression. What should I do? My FB is disabled and I plan to keep it that way, I dont believe in deleting people because I need friends but she always finds a way to stalk my posts even if I filter her out? I am middle aged. Abusive comments will be reported. |
| Question: Survey: Do I look familiar to anyone on here? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 06:54 AM PDT Do I ask interesting questions and answers? Is there a way to know you guys (Yahoo community) better? Can I follow you and can you follow me? |
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| Question: My best friend hasn't text me in a week , should I start panicking? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 06:14 AM PDT So about a week ago I was texting my best friend about normal stuff that we usually talk about . and mid convo he stopped texting me . I tried calling him the next day but it went straight to voicemail and same with the next days , no response . I don't know If I should start freaking out . He's all I have left in my life . He lives very far so I can't see if he's doing ok personally. PS.(He doesn't have a house phone) |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2017 06:05 AM PDT How do I make friends in a new school I have almost no social skills |
| Question: What to do as a freshman? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 06:00 AM PDT I'm a female going into highschool for the first time and I'm pretty scared. New classes, more people, different work, it's pretty much all gonna be a big change from middle school. One thing I'm especially scared about though, is making friends. I chose to go to a technical highschool, while all of my close friends went to a regular public highschool. This means I'll only have a few people I know with me at this highschool, and only one of those people actually being a friend. I'm worried that because I'm not a very athletic person and I don't do sports and I'm not in any clubs right now, that it's going to be really hard to make friends. I know I can join clubs when highschool starts, but I don't know what will be right for me. I'm just overall super worried that I will end up having no one i know in any of my classes, so I'll be alone all year. Help. |
| Question: Come faccio a stringere delle amicizie nella nuova scuola? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 05:38 AM PDT A settembre andrò alle superiori, sono sempre stato un tipo timido, a volte preso in giro perchè stavo molto tempo con le ragazze e non mi piaceva giocare a calcio, ma adesso che andrò alle superiori vorrei riuscire ad entrare in un gruppo di amici e trovare anche un migliore amico, potreste darmi qualche consiglio per farmi degli amici alle superiori anche all'interno della mia classe? Grazie mille |
| Question: I feel like I lost a friend for no reason at all? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 05:19 AM PDT I'm making a long story short, so I am going to be missing plenty of detail. Basically, I met a guy toward the end of last semester. I knew from the beginning he was different because he wasn't trying to get me in bed with him, he was actually trying to get to know me. He was also ALWAYS a gentleman - helped me carry cases of water from my car and simple things like this. During the semester, everything was fine. We'd text often, see each other often (living 2 mins away made this simple), and although we were just "friends", it felt like more - cuddling, kissing, flirting. My biggest fear for summer was drifting apart. The beginning of summer was great. We talked a few times a week, he checked in on me after I had surgery, once I healed, I visited him - day went perfect, got a kiss goodbye, thanked me for an amazing day. He even made plans for next time we saw each other. Ever since he went back to work in June, we've drifted so much. A week would go by with no contact, then 2 weeks, etc. Whenever I'd reach out, we'd have a normal convo and everything but after I seemed to be the only one initiating, I decided to take a step back. I am just so hurt and bothered by this because I know I did nothing wrong, we became really good friends (he even said that himself, he never had anything bad to say about me), and because he was supposed to be helping me out with a couple things once we were back at school. We'll be back in 2 weeks. I don't know what to think or do. I feel lost. As I said, a lot of details were left out because of character limit. I have a full time job as well. I know how exhausting it is working over 40 hours a week. But I could easily make time for him. As for the whole "friend" thing, he was the one who kept calling us friends. I did not friendzone him at all. Like I said, it always felt like more than just "friends". |
| Question: Why does he get defensive when he's teased about me? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 04:47 AM PDT This guy I work with gets teased a lot because he likes me. I know he does, and he's so obvious in showing it. He blushes around me and acts extremely clumsy. My roommate told me he does like me. She teased him when we had dinner one time. He blushed and got defensive. She teased him about being too shy to ask me out. His face was red and he stuttered as he tried to say he didn't like me like that. She told him it was obvious and he saw me smile and he slammed his face onto the plate of food. At work, he gets teased by customers. They ask when the wedding is going to be. He blushes and sometimes responds that no wedding will be held. All of this makes me laugh and ends up making him blush and shy away. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2017 04:44 AM PDT I am not talking about different cultures. Let's use a close friend as an example. He responds with everything in a round about way, so that by the time you're done, you don't really know what he thinks or where he's going and you need 50 questions to get an idea. |
| Question: How do I make friends? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 04:21 AM PDT Hello guys! I'm 14, and I feel like I am left out, I am wondering how people make friends without getting anxious and overthinking, and I have social anxiety, I have few friends, just my classmates and I am really close to them, but when I talk to a person I really don't know or not so close to me, I feel shy, I feel like I am overthinking what if I embarass myself, and what if they think I am weird, I just felt really anxious. And everytime I see my friends that have so many friends, or they have more likes at fb, and me I have pretty much not that many, I feel like a loser. What can I do? |
| Question: What to tell select people before I enter rehab? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 04:04 AM PDT I am not keeping it a secret, I am choosing to only disclose my rehab with people I trust that are supporting and caring to my well being. I am looking for some reasons for my absence to tell others that are less supportive and more judgmental. It s a 28 day program. I am trying to avoid people thinking I m ignoring them or fell off the earth while I m getting the help I need. Vacation? Visiting family? I don t know. I m 23, and unemployed. Maybe a job opportunity? Any ideas. Any help or suggestions/advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you for your time. |
| Question: I need new friends ? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 03:08 AM PDT so for the past couple of years I've had two close friends. I met them separately and introduced them to each other. now they are excluding me from things and like each other better than me. however one of them is extremely annoying, teachers pet, good at everything and thinks she's better than everyone - not many people like her and I've always wondered why I made friends with her in the first place. the other one I've known longer but we've just drifted apart. i know i need new friends but i don't really have anyone other friends i can turn to. people like me/ are nice to me, but i haven't really ever had a chance to build a friendship with them because my other 'friends' are quite controlling. basically everyone else in my year has they're own group of friends and i don't know how to join one/ make one. i really need help. all good answers really appreciated |
| Question: WHY Does my friend do this ? Posted: 15 Aug 2017 02:28 AM PDT We always help each other through a lot and we've been friends for a long one and have a special bond. She's always so loving and supportive and very blunt haha. I post on Facebook quite a bit (not crazy) but I've been stressed and I will post once or twice about it, one of them was that I was terribly sick and had to go to the doctor.. And Although I never want pity from anyone, (I just post to lee my family updated) I'm just wondering why my friend has not been doing this lately.. usually she will comment or say something sweet on my post or something encouraging, but she hasn't much any more and I'm wondering why? Does she hate me ? |
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