This is a very delicate and consequential matter that i am thinking moving forward. I fell in love with some one found out this This is the TRUTH , I am not going into detail on how I know this because it will take all night to write. BASICALLY she is married to an old man in exchange for us citizenship. She has been married since february 2017 until now, pretty much the exact time when me and her were getting into something serious. She always tells me how she wished she knew me before so she can marry me instead and have a genuine marriage.she laid out plans in her life but I wasnt part of those plans because she did not expect anything with me. I noticed she will always text this old man and every time I asked about him she will get furious and defensive. I have personally met him before but never asked questions for the sake of not getting into an argument with her. This old man has diabetes and has erectile dysfunction so basically she uses him for paper work and me for a good time (sex). so thats why she would have preferred me best of both worlds. He doesnt have a clue I have been sleeping with his wife. So I am going to tell him to divorce her and let her be happy with me or I will call immigration to report a fraud marriage ( they live separated), which can imprison him for 5 years i know it can deport her but if I cant have her no one can. I have pictures of me and her that imply sexual activity and have clothes of her in my house.

He even questioned why I wasnt sleeping in the same bed asking if it was because of his snoring. He is behaving business as usual and not as someone whose marriage has failed. He also doesn't have a job or any savings so I'm not really sure what his plan is. I asked him and he ignored the question until I pressed and I asked when are you leaving?He said a couple months nonchalantly. I want him to leave because it hurts but I'm too nice to flat out put him on the street. Advice?

there's a lady dating her ex boyfriend best friend and the two men keeping into it. she keep getting mad at her ex boyfriend saying he don't wanna see her happy and he need to mind his own business. should she get mad?

I said no, but I was polite, and said I like to walk, I noticed then looking at my breasts and then my backside when I walked away. 10 minutes later the same guys in a truck circled back around, they threw beers cans at me, some empty some opened, one of them bruised my calf. When I got home my Dad said why did I smell like alcohol. I told him the truth, that men threw beer at me. Dad called me a liar and said I was grounded for the weekend.

He's married and has 2 kids but we have been together for about a year. I was complaining about how I wish he didn't have to go home to be with him family and he said he would leave them and all I had to do was ask. I love him very very much and I want to tell him to do it but I don't know how his wife and kids would handle it. I don't want his kids thinking he's weird or something since there is a significant age difference (I'm 19 and he's 38)

So.. my fiancé has a best friend named mike. I became friends with his wife, Morgan. We were all drinking this past weekend at their home, the guys went away to the garage and she told me she knows she won't be with mike forever and that she only really got with him because she was in a bad place at the time. She was all over the place and drunk so I didn't take her seriously. WELL tonight her husband called my fiancé and turns out Morgan bought a car and decided to hop state taking her kid and her belongings with her. She has depression and is also bipolar and I'm a bit worried. At the same time, we aren't super close and I don't want to stick my nose where it doesn't belong. What would you do??

The Google said to buy said real estate and I bought her a very nice burial plot. practical and with the theme. Why can't she just accept a gift and say Thank You?

I was with my wife for 2 years. We found out she was pregnant and things went downhill from there. I cheated on her with a girl I worked with for about 7 months and she told me she was pregnant with my baby. I tried to convince her to get an abortion but she wanted to keep it. I did my best to hide it from my wife but she eventually found out and left me. She had our child a month ago and I have yet to see him. I have the situation with the other girl under control and I want wife back so we can raise our son together and be happy.

She calls her guy friends wife a milf (not to her but behind the woman's back to her guy friend)thinking it's funny. She once tried to date her guy friend but he wasn't into her that way. This woman has been single for quite a long time and never married and drinks a lot and lives in a studio apartment and is like 35.

I dont want to talk about any personal things so I will write it in general. If 2 persons get married and they get 2 daughters, then then wife meets someone and gets attached to him and and insists on divorce until she gets it, then after few months, the ex married a new guy then she discovers he doesn't love her and she loves him and his cause her love to him to diminish, then regrets doing what she did, do u think if she asks to leave her husband and get back to him, it would be a big mistake for the husband to accept? knowing that the husband used to love her even until the day of divorce.

I met her at the company party last year, we work for the same company but different departments although we work with each other fairly often on projects. She's always smiling at me when we talk, and when I complain about the way I look, she assures me that am attractive. Thing is, am married, my wife and I have long since drifted apart, we don't even sleep in the same room half the time, let alone get intimate, and now having this hot younger woman interested in me, well, it has me all kinds of high. I can't help calling her to come to my office to help with things I could have easily asked another person to help me with. I find I can't keep my hands off her either, I'll touch he small of her back when she's leaning over paperwork and asks me to take a look at a certain file, I haven't even noticed that it's involuntary of me. I flirt with her and she seems fine with my way of being with her. Lately we have gone out to eat lunch a couple of times together along with other colleges, but today we ate just the two of us because the other two people one left home early and the other brought their own lunch. Anyways, she was eating lunch and a piece of bread caught at the corner of her mouth, and I without thinking wiped it off with my hand and it lingered on her face. She basically said to me, if I wasn't married that she'd be interested in dating me, but she's not going to help me cheat on my wife so it's best if we avoided each other in the office building now.

his wife ? I asked my sister and all she did was laugh ! Any thoughts ?

Ok, wben I first met my wife I was shaving my head. One time when she was over she saw a pic of me with hair and said she really liked my hair and that I should grow it back. So, I did. Now tbe length of my hair seems to be an issue. I like my hair short, she likes it longer. She says it's my head and I can do what I want but I see the dislike in her eyes over my short hair. To me it looks good and is very easy to manage. When it is longer it is harder to manage and I use more product to manage it. So, should I find a compromise or just have my hair the way I like it?

I'm a 21 young woman and I keep going back and forth about marriage. I question if I even want marriage, if I'm even right for marriage, or if I'd even make a good wife material. I'm not sure if I want to live alone or with someone. I don't know if I prefer serious relationships or casual ones. My parents always advised me to not date around, because it only leads to heartbreak. So I haven't really explored much, if you know what I mean. I know I have tons of time to figure it out, but I feel rushed because my friend (who's only 20) is getting married next month. I feel like I'm behind at figuring out what I want in life. Is it normal to feel this way at my age? I'm straight and homosexuality is disgusting. Whole different issue that has nothing to do with my question.

She says im too hot to help herself. I got two serious surgeries yet she turned me on till I could not help myself having sex with her, i am so easily horny, but i start to feel unloved by her, and that all she cares about is sex, if i am too tired after a long day of work, she still turns me on to a point of I cannot help having sex, if I have a serious surgery, she sexes me like the next day when im in blood. Im a handsome guy, im tall, muscly, i think im a hot guy, but i do think this is not normal from her side, she wants sex all the time, she gives me no chance to heal! Is that normal? What should I do? Pls, serious answers!!

My wife is 25and I'm 30,my wife has been abused in her past and her brother and sister keep trying to take her away from me ,trying to mess with her head ,she has told me she doesn't want to be around them and her parents are stalking her ,like if we go out of town to catch a game ,they will be like we called you 6 times and nobody has been answering the last week .and keep blowing our phones up with messages.and get threatening if we don't answer and make things up ,what can me or my wife do and as her husband what can I do for her best safety and concern ?

Well tonight he got drunk and he scared me so bad (TMI) he grabbed me hard and almost tore my shirt he pulled down my shorts while I was trying to wash the dishes and my babies bottles and he forced his hand inside but not in a pleasant way. I asked him to stop multiple times and he wouldn't I know this sounds weird because we are married but I felt scared as if he was going to rape me. I didn't want it and I repeated a few times plz stop. And then he started squeezing my breast so hard I was crying then he walked away. About 30 minutes ago he walked up to me and put his hand around my neck hard and I started to cry and he pushed me down. He didn't do all this in a sex way he did it in a hurtful way where he was trying to hurt me. Last time he beat me with my baby in my hands in the night he left me bruises all over. I moved out of state with him awhile ago (we were great) so I am not home. I am in the process of trying to get back home in the next few days. I'm scared to be here longer though if he keeps drinking and I don't know where to go. I feel lost and alone and scared. He tells me he is the devil and he gets these scary eyes and i get very scared. I am trying to leave though I just don't know why he hurts me I'm a very nice person with a big heart. :(

I read about this dude who cheated on his wife and she forgave him and they ended up being in love even more. Also, I read about a woman who broke her husbands heart and she said she ended up loving him even more after that. Is all of this because of guilt/pity? On a personal experience, my dad cheated on my mom it seemed she loved him even more after that. But many years later my stepmom cheated on my dad and although he didn't initially leave her he never felt the same about her again, which I felt was a normal response. Personally, if someone two-timed me behind my back I can't imagine ever being closer to that person than what I already was. The only way I would even dream of another chance if there was marriage/children situation but something would be lost in my honest opinion. I do not understand this but I've heard it a lot.

So the other night I got drunk and me and my husband who was not drinking got into an argument real late. I got mad and started smacking him over and started smacking his arm over and over real hard not punching. He turned over and clutched the back of my neck and pushed my face down hard to where I couldn t move and left two painful bruises on the back of my neck where he held me and squeezed the crap out of my arms while I was trying to get out of it. I turned over and kept calling him a ***** for putting his hands on me and I got angrier and angrier about it. I got up and slung the dishes off the counter and threw a coffee cup at him and hit him in the head with it..mind u I was drunk and pissed off I wasn t aiming for his head I just chunked it and walked out. It cut his forehead atndnd it bled bad but cleaned up fine..now he believes I deserved that and has beenough treating me like **** for a week even though I have apologized a ton for the fight..he never did and it s all my fault in his head...we have been through this kind of thing before and it s always all my fault and since I started it it s ok to him...is this true..should I be shut out like this and my neck hurting bad and bruises on my arms and jaw ok?

I actually had to move out because the fighting got so bad. Messy house due to wife who doesnt see a problem. I try to clean and i am "doing it wrong" or moving stuff she had a "place for." But there are piles of clothes all over the house, dishes piling up, bins everywhere, bathrooms look like an explosion hit them. every room is like this. Because she sees it as her house, she power trips and tries to control everything. She thinks now that i am out of the house things are better. they are not. She doesnt have to hear from anyone about the mess. No confrontation. In the meantime, my little kids have to live with this mess. I cannot find any professional help her family is enabling her and i just dont see a way out. ideas?