My husband is 31 .we visited a friend once and his friend married a younger girl and he has a daughter which is 13 when we left my husband said "do you think his daughter is pretty. Maybe since his dad married younger girl he will let me marry his daughter... another time he looked at his friends daughters photo ... adding on he always talked about other peoples kids , if we are out he says that baby is cute , when he visited a friend and saw his kids the only thing he said when he got him is "his kids are so cute" another time at his friends he randomly texted me " I want a baby" also he talks to his friends kids more than he speaks to the adults everytime he sees them .... does it sound wierd or like he actually wants a baby?...

Me & my bf have been together almost 10 years. I took him from his ex gf bc i just knew i had to have him. We have two kids together one of which I haven t told him wasn t his, but he thinks she is. I often talk to him about marriage but he always says I m not married or I m never getting married. But he brought me a ring and told me ut was just a ring and nithing more. He just recently brought a house near his parents and didnt put me on the mortgage. I dont like it but I tell people we brought it together. Am I wasting my time it should I just wait and eventually he will change his mind?

We've been married 3 years and this started a year ago. I've caught him by logging on to his Facebook and I saw the messages. He'll usually start off by calling the woman beautiful, but mention that he's married, and then he asks her if they could be friends who just "talk" from time to time. I've told him how I felt but he continues doing it. I always feel like it's my fault. What am I doing wrong? Why am I not enough for him? I'm so stressed out and drained emotionally. 😞😞😞 I don't want a divorce! I want him to just want me!!

So I just got out a of a 8 year relationship with my companion, we met in college 8 years ago, everything was great, everything was cool until he started doing things that I didnt think he was capable of. Mainly focusing on the married woman scearnio. Prior to two years ago, we had a problem with her, I just felt like it was more than he was leading on with. Her husband had already from the get go told my now ex to leave her alone and he wouldnt do it because he claimed that they were just "Friends" Sooo recently i found some exqusite things that him and her were doing, the flirting, the secret meet ups, the half nude shot photos And so with that it made feel second best to a married woman, like im sudenly not good enough, maybe she has something that I just dont. And so being that lately I had this aim this goal of wanting to be proposed to to be married too, and just recently he explained that if we married or got proposed to that he wouldnt quit talking to her, that hes so no reason to quit talking to someone that flirts with him while they have a husband and they like sending u half nude shots while he sits back and enjoys it and says NOTHING at all about it!!!! I couldnt deal. So I had to seperate myself from that situation as a WOMAN because I know I deserve better than that. Hes not man ENOUGH!!!

Lets say he lost his job because the economy crashed. Would you divorce him and look for another husband that makes more money?

Its time I popped the question but I don't feel like going over there. The game's coming on and...I guess I could do it tomorrow, if it HAS to be in person. Or, hey, women like surprises- why don't I crawl in her window at 3 am, ring in hand... I don't know, sounds risky?

I mean there's an obvious answer here and it's that men should work on being less fugly and unappealing Does it strike anyone else as odd that men manage to turn this around and blame women for it?

I think it's a mutual responsibility for both of us to feed our daughter but I feel guilty when she cooks for me I try to help but scheduling and everything sometimes **** goes left

I wanted to know what to expect. I have 2 toddlers now. Thx

If you attempt BUT FAIL to pursue an affair with someone other than your partner because the person you want to cheat with doesn't want you back, is that still considered cheating? Why or why not?

We are currently living in foreign country where we dont speak the local language (this is of course temporarily) so its difficult for us to socialize with people who dont speak English, but eversince my husband found a few guys who do speak English he spends almost most of his time with them while I wait for him bored out of my mind, the people here that I do know are either much older or have a different work schedule than mine so it's difficult to find someone that is free and like has some common interests with! I feel sad when I stay all by myself all of the time and sometimes I take it out on my husband. Do I have the right to feel this way or am I just being selfish?

You've been with your girlfriend for over two years and are discussing marriage. However you got into a disagreement/argument over the way someone in her family was treating you. She retaliates by going to visit a male friend of hers who lives out of state whom you've never met. You dont think shed ever sleep with the guy but you never know and you know the guy would do it in a heartbeat. She's always said the two of you shouldn't take seperate vacations but uses the excuse that she needed to see an old friend. You also find out she's been taking to him about your relationship problems and he's been bad mouthing you as well even though he's never met you. Is this a deal breaker? While she's away a hot woman hits on you. Should you go for it?

Do you think it's inapproriate for a married woman or man to go bar hopping with thier friends?

I just found out that my husband was having an emotional affair with a co-worker. I had a weird feeling and my feelings were correct. We've talked a ton about it and I know why he did it. I have a fear of connection and he felt emotionally neglected. He said that this does not justify what he did and he has cut ties with his co-worker. I forgive him and want to work on our marriage. I think the affair made us both realize what was wrong in our relationship. All that being said, I am so angry and feel sick about it. Just the thought of him going out after work with this woman (who I actually have met) makes my stomach turn. He talked to her a lot about me and made me out to be a depressed, mean and sexually repressed person. I'm embarrassed and completely torn up. I would always tell my friends, "He'd never have an affair. I trust him that much." I was wrong. I suppose what I want to know is that is it normal for me to be this angry yet still be able to forgive him? Has anyone else felt this way? Is it possible for me to get over this anger and move forward in our relationship? I truly love him and can't imagine not being with him, but he crossed a big line. I don't feel comfortable talking to my sister about this even though I really want to process this. I'm reaching out to my counselor to get some help but he's booked for several weeks.

Her parents are 70+. she is feeling lonely & says is afraid she should not end up doing wrong. she works. she has not disclosed about her personal life to anyone but close. she is blank about her future. suggestions pls. she is issueless.

Women from the start get 3 months salary, then they cheat and then also lie in court and men end up paying more than they were together, live in sh.it.hole, forced to pay

"I would have married my first true love but she dumped me so she could whore around Europe And I helped her get that full scholarship . " Do you think he feels regretful he helped her get the scholarship that took her away ? I have wondered for years if he still has a thing for her . I mean I would think me his wife would be referred to as his true love .