My wife is pregnant she's been really depressed lately. Her uncle died last week. Almost every night every hour she wakes up crying she hasn't been sleeping well either. How can I comfort her ?

We have been together for over four years, married for two months, and have two kids together. He drank some in his younger days but decided he didn t like the way it affected him. Since I ve known him he wouldn t touch a drop of alcohol, not even so much as a sip on our wedding night. He has always been vocal about his disdain for alcohol, as completely demonized it, saying he would never touch another drop...he has gone on full rants about how horrible alcohol is. And out of he blue yesterday he decides he s going to have a couple beers every day after work. He has changed a lot since we got married and become pretty hostile toward me at times, and this was a very unexpected change. I told him I wasn t comfortable with it, not because I have a problem with occasional drinking, but because of all he s said about alcohol use and the way he judges people who drink. It s a drastic and unexpected and scary 180. He refused to let it be open for discussion, yelled at me for hours, called me a dirtbag, a narcissist, psychotic, a bad mother, among other things..and then said he never really wanted to marry me. All because I m not comfortable with him becoming a daily drinker, and he says I m completely wrong for that. Am I the unreasonable one here?

Okay so my background is Pakistani but I live in Canada. So I got this marriage proposal from this guy he's half Turkish half Kuwaitian and idkkk i don't wanna get married I'm 18 and I wanna go to a good university and all! His family's coming to meet me and my family this weekend!! I haven't met him but im not ready for marriage! My parents said I can say no if I want to, I won't be forced but I feel so bad saying no! What do I do? I have a choice but I feel SOOO bad saying no! I HAVEN'T EVEN MET HIM YET!! Everyone said I can say no if I want to (like in my family, you don't HAVE to get an arranged marriage.) My parents really like him though AND I DON'T EVEN KNOW HIM! I'D FEEL SO SO SOOOOO BAD SAYING NO but I don't wanna marry at this age. I don't wanna take a decisions I'll regret later on. I wanna go to university and my parents said I can, it's just that I feel bad saying no. Like it's gonna be another one of those 'it's not you, it's me' thing! Merlin, that's the thing. They understand and they said I can say no if I don't like the guy but I'll feel bad saying no.

He confuses me. he makes me upset he asked if i want to have a baby i said yes. I love kids. Then he says he is not ready for the child. He wants me to lose weight and get skinnier. He says he wants me to work and make more money and give it to him. I feel like he doesnt love me back or respect my feelings. He also talks about his first love and how beautiful she was. I have frequent heartaches because he doesnt express love towards me, or it is its usually sex, he asks me to blow him but he doesnt go down on me ever. I dont mind but i feel weird. Am i expecting too much? What do i do? How to solve this? help

He confuses me. he makes me upset he asked if i want to have a baby i said yes. I love kids. Then he says he is not ready for the child. He wants me to lose weight and get skinnier. He says he wants me to work and make more money and give it to him. I feel like he doesnt love me back or respect my feelings. He also talks about his first love and how beautiful she was. I have frequent heartaches because he doesnt express love towards me, or it is its usually sex, he asks me to blow him but he doesnt go down on me ever. I dont mind but i feel weird. Am i expecting too much? What do i do? How to solve this? help

He confuses me he makes me upset he asked if i want to have a baby i said yes. I love kids. Then he says he is not ready for the child. He wants me to lose weight and get skinnier. He says he wants me to work and make more money and give it to him. My hearts aches so much. I feel like he doesnt love me or respect my feelings. He also talks about his first love and how beautiful she was. What do i do? How to solve this help

so me and my wife were sleeping together, so i left to work. she called her guy friends in and she had sex and kissed another man and another one and was pregnant from that one man. the men left her and she came home and told me she loves me and wanted my help, so I felt real betrayed and heartbroken, so I kicked her out of my house and took everything i gave her, she can take care of her own kid

My husband is a great guy and everyone loves him, but he sometimes makes stupid decisions. I heard him talking to his friend the other day and I can NOT believe what they were saying. About 6 years ago, my hubby worked for a cable company. They had little devices to block out internet signal while they were working on fitting, etc. A cop in our town was dating someone and wanted the internet blocked while he was there. My husband said to just unplug the router. But, he said he wanted something else. So, my husband gave him one of the little devices. (They had boxes of them because they used them all the time). The cop put it on himself, but left it on. My husband ended up taking it off on a trouble call. He told the cop that he needed to take it off. I think he gave it back, but I don't think he got any more calls for it. I am SO MAD because 1.) He gave him something that they don't just give out. 2.) I feel like it is probably illegal to block internet. I know my hubby didn't do it, BUT he gave it. 3.) What is it blocked the internet AND the phone and the woman had an emergency and couldn't call 911 and something happened! We don't know her name, so I can't look her up. I do EVERYTHING by the book and am a rule follower. To me, this is horrible and makes my hubby some kind of monster. What do I do?! I feel we always need consequences for our actions. The cop isn't a cop anymore (shocking) and my hubby works for a different company, and has just accepted another job with a different company this week. I feel like he should be disclosing he took an internet pad 6 years ago or something! Or turning himself in! (My friend who is a cop though told me I was over reacting.) Am I over reacting? Should I let this go? What do I do? **NO I AM NOT A TROLL** I worry A LOT about others and doing the right or wrong thing and making sure others are okay.

I have no problem with that. Problem is she wants to learn in my car. It's an expensive car. You have no idea how hard I worked to get it. If anything happens to it, I'll lose my mind.

I have been with my wife for almost 8 years been married for 3 just recently (last month) Started talking to a girl on Facebook at first she said they were friends which escalated into a relationship we broke up still live together she questioned are relationship said she wanted to go our seperate ways cause she needs to find herself and she wants to be happy she wants to know what it feels like to live on her own independently!! Which is a lie cause cause i know this other girl is just breaking up our marriage its weird she still hugs me and says shes sorry to me for what she is doing only reason she has said sorry is because i seen messages from her and that girl telling eachother they i love you i dont know do you have any advice P.S this other person lives in another state Funny she says they have everything in common and this girl understands her better than i ever could

I'm a single mother (for 2 years) raising two young kids on my own, with a little help. I struggle alone. Sometimes it's hard to find a sitter. (Daycare opens and closes certain hours) With my work schedule, it's impossible. My mom stays with my children when I'm at work but she is old. Tired and exhausted. I know she doesn't mind but she's not always available. My ex keep asking me & the kids to go back. In my heart: feels like I won't be able to give him the love he want and need. I think it died a long time ago. We were on and off in the last couple years, I don't see how it's gonna get better. But life is hard for me now. I NEED advice. A positive one. The children's father lives more than 48 hours away. He cannot help me sitter.

Ok so my husband's younger brother who is 19 and I'm 28 made out with me he grabbed me and stuck his tongue down my thriat. It's weird because I've been with my husband for 10 years so I've known him since he was 9 I pushed him away and he left he keeps texting nane saying he loves me and threatening to lie to my husband saying I came after him.

I married my husband and he had a child at an early age had a shotgun wedding and now gets her every weekend. We are moving to the city because we are in a small town and I have to be close to my school to finish my degree and nowhere around this small town needs someone with my degree and I have to be close enough o the school to commute there and his degree requires him to be in a city to get a good paying job. It is an hour away from our child but we set up the schedule where we get her every other weekend and during the summer we get her every week. I've calculated it and we will be getting her more days than we do now. But people choose to see everything I do as negative when We are just tying to build our lives in a positive direction. I feel like we can't win with his family and I can't win with anyone. Just being a stepmother makes people look at me like a witch. I don't know what to do.

Today is my 3 year wedding anniversary. I met my husband online 4 years ago, and I thought he was amazing. About 6 months into our relationship, he started physically abusing me. I ended up marrying him anyway, even though I knew I shouldn't. The abuse got worse, and it was either every day, or every other day he was putting his hands on me. I moved away from my family 3 years ago (for his job), and i've never felt so alone as I do today. I've even contemplated committing suicide more often than ever, but I'm too afraid. He hasn't hit me in months, its been a while, but he's still very emotionally abusive. Calling me a bi***, cu**, whore, etc. When he's mad at me he can say the nastiest things. Whenever he wants to have sex with me (usually in the morning when I'm sleeping), he'll wake me up, and make me do it. I tell him no, but he says he needs it, and continues to do it anyway. He doesn't hurt me, and I don't try to fight him, but I know if I don't do it, ill have to deal with his attitude. But whenever I want sex, he says no, he's tired, he doesn't want it. I can't leave him because both cars are in his name. I have bad credit, he has an amazing credit score, due to being attached to his parents credit cards when he was in college. I don't know what to do. I know I don't want to be him anymore, at all. We have no kids together, thank God, but I just can't get myself to take the plunge and remove myself from the situation. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you

I received a text this morning from a woman my husband knew in high school. We're in our late 30's now. I've met her, but was uneasy then as I could tell she had a thing for my then boyfriend and even he told me that she had wanted to date him back then. I told him my feelings regarding her intentions a long time ago. It's been at least 10 years since the last time they spoke. We've been married for 4 of the12 years we've been together. I know he wouldn't cheat. Her message seems innocent enough that she is wanting to catch up, but my underlying feeling come back and I feel as though she's maybe hoping he's single. At no point did she mention our marriage or myself, just that she misses him and wants to get together. Part of me wants to be straight forward and tell her who she's talking with and that she respect us and our relationship. Another part of me wants to be not so nice with my words. I want to speak with my husband first before I respond to her in any capacity, but I thought I'd find out what you think I should do or say. I was shaken when I got the message and still am unnerved by the whole thing.

When I'm out late, he doesn't call or text me. When I talk about other guys, it's almost like he doesn't care. He live in his head I feel. We have talk this over so many times. It doesn't help that he can't open up. I feel ignored most of the times. I find myself having to repeat what I say all the time. But then he pay attention to other people, He remember everything about them. He sits there and wait for my approach but then he dive in to save everyone's ***. He's gentle with everyone but he talk smack to me. He feels too confident that he got me in his pocket and take me for granted but how do you even love someone you don't know? I care deeply for him but I don't love him. You can't fall in love with someone who won't let you in. We have been together for 10 yrs. is it time to call quits when we're not even in love?! He can't let go but he don't want me at the same time. I can let go, this relationship have no effect on me.

My husband isn't big on giving gifts, not even for birthdays or anniversaries. We had a few good Christmas's but that's it. He's given me flowers a handful of times. (I adore flowers) My friends find it strange that I accept this. I tell them he makes up for it in different ways. I am a stay at home dog mom while I try and start a business that my husband is funding. I am not left wanting anything, I just have to get it myself. He doesn't even care what I bring home as long as its not another pet. Is it weird, that I don't care about getting gifts even on special days ANYMORE? He bought me a brand new jeep this past winter so I could follow him up north to his next project he was working. Why do my friends not see him as giving, the way I do? I've used my jeep as an example of gift giving, but they see it as he bought it for himself. I feel as if I am seconding guessing myself now because my friends are keeping on about it. I am 30 and my husband is 42.

I met my husband when he was divorced from her, he had been single for about 4 years. Their marriage only lasted a year because they were so young and their relationship didnt work out. They do have one son, the reason he still talks to her. Shortly after their divorce he moved away because of a job he was offered, thats where we met, we were actually neighbors, I was still living with my parents as an 18 year old, he was only 3 years older than me, we became good friends and I wanted nothing more than friendship but a few years after we met, unexpectedly our friendship turned into something more and we eventually got married and I gave birth to our daughter this year. He claims he loves me, I confronted him about his texts and he wouldnt let me go just kept telling me it was "playful flirting" and that he only talks to her because of his son. The texts were like " send me pictures of my son when you were at the beach, and you can send me some pics of you I dont mind". " You want to hear my voice don't u? Thats why you're calling me". I don't trust him anymore and am feeling so stupid for trusting him.

my husband daily makes me cry...mentally tortures...i have a kid 8 months old..he finds faults in me...never be kind..always makes me cry or asks wat im doing ...or threatens...he always says which guy or u talking....speaks bad words..i have to obey what he saysss....now i dont have any energy to cry.......

after finding out my husband has been talking to his ex about the good times they had together, i confronted him and he says it's because he didn't know what to do so he started fantasizing about how easy and good the sex was with his ex's.. he is sorry and all but i just want to know what it means.. and how should i feel about this? i am really hurt that he thinks about sex with with girls in his past. We used to have fun before,until he started flirting on FB with multiple girls,reliving the good time with his ex's, calling them cute,asking them to meet (yet he ddnt go because he claims he loves me too much) it hurts to know that i'm not the only one he talks/thinks about sexually. We have 2 year old daughter and i'm 7 months preg. By the way he is the only man i know sexually so i don't know what sex feels like with someone else.

She tells him that she loves him and he smiles and they hug each other and i just watch them. They might have also made out before and they are pretty close. Is this ok? Should i be worried?

Me and my husband are married for 2 weeks. He is been talking about this from next day of our marriage. What does he want me to do? He says her behaviour was lot better than mine and is much beautiful than me. and he says she is sweetest person he has ever met. My heart hurts. He had cute memories with her and they loved each other. But she got engaged to someone else and now she is married and has a child. He says he was about to propose to her but he did not get chance to. What do i do? I love my him so much and it hurts when he talks about her. How do i solve this?

My husband has always told me that his father was a bloke from Australia but as it turns out his "half brother" was his real full bloodied blooming brother and his blooming dad was really a drunkard from Bath in Somerset England. He disowned his brother for that and his excuse was that he was embarrassed of him because he is considered a laughingstock of Bath. Do I forgive him? My friends say that I shouldn't blame him that they and they are sure I would do the same.

He says thats she was pretty, cute, sweet and very caring and they lived together as friends and he was about to propose to her but she got engaged to someone else before he could propose to her. Now she is married and has a child with her husband. He keeps talking about her and it upsets me? We had arguments on this matter since beginning of our marriage. I feel like he still loves her and doesnt love me. I feel depressed and i feel unloved

Explain to me why porn can hurt marriage..... From what I know, porn can stimulate both men and women for their sex drive when they watch together. And there are porn for this (softcore and not hardcore). I really do not mind my wife imagining me as a hunk with a huge pen1s... really! as long she gets a turn on..... from what I know... some men are addicted to porn..... and they are abandoning their wives..... well that's the wrong way to use porn....

I haven't done this in a very long time. But this morning, I woke up a couple of times but I just rolled over & went right back to sleep & stayed asleep until 11 am. My husband told me that he tried calling my cell phone, sending me msgs & everything & he was worried about me. So he came home from work to see that my daughter & I were still in the bed. I could tell that he was mad. But I told him that idk what happened, because I don't know what happened. I haven't done this in a very long time. Idk what happened. Any ideas as to what may have caused that?