I'm living in supported living at the moment and at somepoint i m going to be moving into shared accommodation, so i need to know: what are the good and bad things about living with other people in shared accommodation?

He wants to change her therapist and day so he can take our daughter when his girlfriend takes her daughter. Our daughter already has a plan of care and has started building a relationship with her therapist. He said he is contacting the facility and telling them he refuses to agree to her counseling so she will not be able to go anymore. Can he do that?

I m 40, my body has been through the ringer with a huge weight loss, 3 pregnancies, a soon to be hysterectomy and 2 c sections. Theres extra skin and sagging. I ve been saving over 10 years and now that I have the money, I m thinking it s selfish because that is money I could give to my kids after I m gone. Or cover my funeral or many other things. However, I d feel like a brand new woman if I did have the surgery with a renewed good self image.

ok so im 23 and my soon to be 32 year old boyfriend of 1 year dumped me while we were out "celebrating" the night before our anniversary ( we were suppose to go to brunch in the morning) so he surprises me by picking me up and taking me to a bar the night before he was even going to make a cake for me and as soon as we got there he started talking sh*t he started saying my lips where chapped so i grabbed my lip gloss and i re glossed my lips and he said it wasnt good enough then he saw i was pissed and started talking about how he's glad i finally got a nice weave and why didnt i get an expensive nice weave before now and my hair lately was looking dry old and ugly then i said "if you loved me at all you wouldnt be say this" and he said thats the problem i cant fall in love with you you think time equals love you and your parents both thing i need to be proposing and fallin in love because were at the one year mark and im not even close to that and started saying i let myself go i wasnt on his education level and i couldnt have a intellectual conversation with him if i tried because im still in college and he has 3 degrees so when we left the bar he started saying i wasted his money why would he spend all this money an a anniversary weekend and a gift for me and i cant even make him fall in love or "keep myself up" and i "used him " and dumped me he even told my parents he didnt want me anymore but i want him back cause i feel gulity for not being a better gf am I CRAZY? he also said we didnt have sex as much not because he was tired but because my weave was so bad and i was "musty" sometimes and he couldnt get into like that like he did when we first met bascially i wasnt the same girl and i didnt treat him right enough by only dressing up when we went out but not when i went to his house to chill anyways should i feel bad?? p.s I was never musty i always showered before i saw him wtf

In a situation where I am very close to someone who has so many opposite views than I do. I want to be civil but it's hard keeping quiet when a topic comes up that we disagree on.

I am 21 years old and three months shy of graduating nursing school but since my life sucks so bad I am anything but excited. I am also sad because I have tried to be friends with people and give my last even though I don't have much myself and have received nothing in return. I also dated a guy a few months back and he had to move home because his work contract ended now it's like I don't exist. I feel crappy because of both circumstances and yes I am sensitive to people's actions towards me.... when it's personal and not when I'm in nurse mode. I find myself broke just a few days after payday because I pay my bills and put gas in my car for the week and boom! Broke once again. It just really brings me down even more and lastly I'm in school and credit card debt. Has anyone felt with the blues of being in college or just being young and not having two pennies to rub together? Please tell me how you got through it.

A question for the (married) men on here... if you are staring at a woman dead in the eyes who you are on friendly terms with but are not close to from across the room or table what are your intentions? Especially if you do it without smiling or looking away? And it's not just a one off?  I realise everyone is different I'm just interested in the possibilities. Thanks ☺

Long story short, my ex knew I wanted him back, but out of spite, said some very hurtful things to me and rubbed his new marriage in my face. He went on and on about how happy he is with her and how much better she is than me. It really hurt how he could care less about my feelings. My question is, if someone was honestly truly happy in their relationship, wouldn't they NOT rub that in their ex's face, especially one whom they knew wanted them back? Why does he feel the need to prove his happiness to me? If I was really happy with someone, I wouldn't shove that down my ex's throat unless the opposite were true. Am I correct in thinking this? .

She is in a relationship with a man and they have a daughter together. From what I have heard, she is miserable with him and have a lot of problems... Apparently she is only staying with him for their kid. I am female. I am 26 and she is 33. She flirts with me, pretty heavily at times. She has said some pretty sexual things to me and is touchy. She once even tried squeezing my nipple. I just waved her hand away and kept talking. She likes my body. I don't believe she's romantically into me. I don't catch her staring at me or really trying to get to know me. I did hug her when I saw her for the first time in two months and she acted like she wanted it to go on longer. I'm not exactly sure in what way she thinks of me. But I am bi and I do think about her... I have no interest in talking to her bf and feel awkward when he is around. He once came into my workplace, a restaurant where his gf and I work together, and was there for hours, getting drunk alone at the bar. People were talking about it but I tried to not make judgments. She once invited me to go out on her boat but I wasn't sure if she meant just the two of us or with her family... Both situations would have been awkward. She invited me recently to her sports game, saying she needed me to be her cheerleader. When I said I'd go get my costume, she said to just go in booty shorts and a sports bra. She might have been upset when I did not go. I texted that I hoped she was killing it and she left a simple text "we won" that, because of its terseness, I did not know how to respond to. 45 minutes later she asking if I was working-checking for an excuse? We texted for a minute. She didn't respond to my last text. I don't want to be the reason she and her bf end things. I'm not sure what she wants out of this relationship. If it's just friendship, fine. But as long as she's leading me on and making me question and think about her, I don't know how we could have a healthy friendship.. I'll always wonder what this is and.. am not sure if she's expecting something more from me - like getting upset because I didn't support her in her first game. I should add that they are not married.

ok so im 23 and my soon to be 32 year old boyfriend of 1 year dumped me while we were out "celebrating" the night before our anniversary ( we were suppose to go to brunch in the morning) so he surprises me by picking me up and taking me to a bar the night before he was even going to make a cake for me and as soon as we got there he started talking sh*t he started saying my lips where chapped so i grabbed my lip gloss and i re glossed my lips and he said it wasnt good enough then he saw i was pissed and started talking about how he's glad i finally got a nice weave and why didnt i get an expensive nice weave before now and my hair lately was looking dry old and ugly then i said "if you loved me at all you wouldnt be say this" and he said thats the problem i cant fall in love with you you think time equals love you and your parents both thing i need to be proposing and fallin in love because were at the one year mark and im not even close to that and started saying i let myself go i wasnt on his education level and i couldnt have a intellectual conversation with him if i tried because im still in college and he has 3 degrees so when we left the bar he started saying i wasted his money why would he spend all this money an a anniversary weekend and a gift for me and i cant even make him fall in love or "keep myself up" and i "used him " and dumped me he even told my parents he didnt want me anymore but i want him back cause i feel gulity for not being a better gf am I CRAZY? he also said we didnt have sex as much not because he was tired but because my weave was so bad and i was "musty" sometimes and he couldnt get into like that like he did when we first met bascially i wasnt the same girl and i didnt treat him right enough by only dressing up when we went out but not when i went to his house to chill anyways should i feel bad?? p.s I was never musty i always showered before i saw him WTF Anyways he got his house key and garage door opener from me is it too late?

I did some serious self reflection of my past on Self Authoring and am coming to terms with the fact that I hurt alot of people from about 4th - 8th grade. At this point in time, I'm a completely different and I just want to own up for my past mistakes / help my victims if they are still affected by my actions. If you were bullied in your childhood, would you want your adult bully to reach out to you (via Social media or getting your number/email through acquaintances etc.) and arrange a time to meet up and talk to you / apologize etc. Would you prefer to be left alone and just not stir up bad memories? If so, what would you suggest I do? Is this a good approach? suppose I messaged you on facebook, "Hey this is _____. Back in elementary I did not treat you right. Would you be open to a phone conversation or meet up to talk about my past actions?"

I never met the guy but saw his email on a lawyers website. She was married to my brother from 2003 to 2010 and I have not seen her since the divorce as they had no kids. I have no plans to seek the ex-sister-in-law out though there is no ill will towards her either. I would contact him and tell him her feelings and then email her I did it. I think both would be awkward by it and wonder why in the world I care. It might even make my ex-sister-in-law mad and I don't want to do that as she was perfectly nice. So would it be rude if I did this or should I do it tomorrow as I'm off work? I would only do it if I have you all's blessing, otherwise if it is rude I don't want to do it though I will likely never meet the guy and likely never see the ex-sister-in-law again. I do have a picture I'd send the guy of the ex-sister-in-law and her two kids who are from a different father then my brother.

Ever since I have been living with my Mother because of a stroke, She has taken complete advantage of the opportunity. She now controls where I go, what friends are OK, for me to spend time with, and now is choosing who I can date. Even preventing me from sending letters to people She doesn't approve of. She refuses to leave me home alone, tells me I'm physically incapable of being independent, and I'm 33 years old by the way. I had a stroke I'm not mentally impaired, in fact I'm smarter than She is.