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- Question: How can I get my husband to accept me?
- Question: If a man says he's so happy and in love why is he taking quizzes on fb to see the zodiac sign for his future wife & posting it on fb?
- Question: Question for middle aged married women.?
- Question: Is it a smart or dumb ideal to date while waiting on a court date to finalize your divorce?
- Question: My husband wants to have a fourth child but I don't?
- Question: I want to know who my great grandfather Orville Long (1874-1963) was married to. He's from Connersville, Indiana.?
- Question: Is it possible someone you never met and doesn't know you exist meant to be your future husband/wife?
- Question: My fiance left to go get custody of his?
- Question: If a man says he's so happy and in love why is he taking quizzes on fb to see the zodiac sign for his future wife & posting it on fb?
- Question: How do I get my brother to stop smoking so he doesn't die and leave his 3 kids orphaned and weeping?
- Question: My husband stopped paying bills and now we're getting evicted. Why? Help.?
- Question: How a wife can give more enjoyment to a husband during intercourse ?
- Question: Perfectly happy being friends now?
- Question: Fiancee and i tried sex first time last night to test our compatibility. now she's calling off the wedding. what do i do? help?
- Question: Wife and I had the sex convo. Hurt my feelings but she told me the truth. Not sure if this is normal.?
- Question: How can a man be so family oriented, but also be having an affair?
- Question: How do I tell my wife I would like to have more sex? I don't want to sound selfish, but I miss the intimacy as well.?
- Question: Craigslist flings, about 4 months ago I met a guy offering massages, we ended up hanging out and I got the massages done. Keep reading?
- Question: Wife wants to discuss having a 3rd child. I have many questions and concerns. Can someone help address?
- Question: Trying to understand my wife. We talked recently about how I feel she is distant and how I don't listen to her. Trying to work on it.?
- Question: What should I do that's best for myself and our son?
- Question: Though I am a 55 years old married person , my mind is wondering for sex with other married women or widow - what is the best solution ?
- Question: Can a married man love his wife and mistress equally deeply?
- Question: My fiancé wants me to have his last name and he is upset I don't want to? I tried to explain it's not personal but he's still hurt.?
| Question: How can I get my husband to accept me? Posted: 12 Aug 2017 08:12 PM PDT I finally came clean with him today. "I am *essentially* a straight person, but I am not 100% straight." How can I get him to love me for me, accept my gender fluidity, and stop making a fuss about it? I am basically the same person he married, only now I am not hiding my true self. I'm here, I'm queer, and how can I make him get used to it? |
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| Question: Question for middle aged married women.? Posted: 12 Aug 2017 07:45 PM PDT Often sex drive for women drops after 50 when menopause happens. It's natural. But this doesn't really happen for guys even though sex drive does decrease some. Anyways, my question is this. If you are this age, and your husband goes to one of those Asian spas where you can pay 60 bucks to get a massage and a hand job, do you get mad? Why? Especially when you aren't giving him sex or oral or a handy? This is a serious question. I'm thinking of asking my wife if she would mind if I did this occasionally. |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2017 07:44 PM PDT No reconciling possible. He didn't cheat just a manipulator. I won't have intimate relations until after. Don't need any thing else for him to throw into the boiling pot of water.. I admit I made mistake I am not perfect. Is dating okay. I am finding out who I am and where I would like to go in life. |
| Question: My husband wants to have a fourth child but I don't? Posted: 12 Aug 2017 07:36 PM PDT So my husband and I have three kids. Lately he has been really wanting to have a fourth, however I don't really want to go through a pregnancy again. |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2017 07:12 PM PDT I'd also like to know once you find it, who his wifes parents were, and if you can find a marriage certificate on Orville and his wife, thanks in advance. |
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| Question: My fiance left to go get custody of his? Posted: 12 Aug 2017 05:50 PM PDT My current fiance was my first love. We were together for 6 years until we split. While apart for 3 years we both married other people. He had a child, I didn t. He developed a heroin addiction with his new wife, I didn t. He lost his son to his parents who have custody. He got a divorce and then got clean. I just got a divorce. We started dating again. I told him I was going to stay in Nevada until I finish my degree. At the time he agreed. We have a son together now. I have two years of school left and he wants me to abandon my degree so he can try to get custody of his other son in Minnesota. After talking to an attorney he will only get visitation. He wants me to give up a way to support my child to go back and get his other son. He has abandoned me once when I gave my life up for him... this time I have another little soul that depends on me. Am I selfish for not wanting to go back to get his other son? |
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| Question: My husband stopped paying bills and now we're getting evicted. Why? Help.? Posted: 12 Aug 2017 04:26 PM PDT My husband of ten years has allowed me and his daughter to get evicted. He stopped paying two months of rent and is claiming "mental breakdown" for the reason behind it. Well he has done nothing in the meantime to get us a place Ten years and bills were always paid. Question would he allow himself to get an eviction on his record to break up w me? He's been stringing me along this entirely time. Im so confused. Is he cheating on me and about to move in w the other woman? Would he get eviction on his credit really? I've barely been hanging on for three months now. I ask what we are gonna do he claims a hotel or that he go to his mom's and I go to my dad's! What is up? Cheating? |
| Question: How a wife can give more enjoyment to a husband during intercourse ? Posted: 12 Aug 2017 04:02 PM PDT |
| Question: Perfectly happy being friends now? Posted: 12 Aug 2017 03:14 PM PDT Husband said he is absolutely certain he wants a divorce. It's been about a month. I handled it awfully. Beg, cling, cry, ask questions, try to talk about it. He said he wasn't coming back and he wants me to be happy. He says he isn't the one that can make me happy. I realize my happiness was never about him but it's was about me. He doesn't care. He still wants to be friends. Says I can live with him until it's all set in stone. It's weird how nice and happy he is. He loves being friends and seems like it's really making him happy. For me... I hold on. I have read about so many marriages where one spouse wants to leave bu the other held on and they went from civil to friends to reconciling. But he says he will never come back. I don't want to give up without trying. If it means fixing myself and hoping for the best then I would do it. Is it weird he is so happy with us being friends? Should I play along? He wears his ring says he will until we are divorced. Hasn't made any legal moves yet and I am always anxious for when he will. Thoughts? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2017 02:19 PM PDT @nickey: i've been expressing my love for her these past ten months since we started dating. i proposed last week and she seemed thrilled. but she was the one who wanted to try sex first before getting married. i wanted to wait until our wedding night. now i can't understand why she's changed her mind? what can i do? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2017 01:18 PM PDT I told her after we had our kids, I felt distant and she doesn't want me as we don't have sex. I appreciate she was honest. She said it's not me, but she has changed. She said there are no marital issues and she still loves me. She said she feels gross if we have sex while kids are in the house. She said the only time she wants to do it is if we go out for the night and kids spend the night with grandparents. I respect her decision, but having sex a few times a year really sucks and I miss it. I need some advice and want to know if this is normal. We have a great marriage and family otherwise. |
| Question: How can a man be so family oriented, but also be having an affair? Posted: 12 Aug 2017 12:47 PM PDT Honestly, give me a break. This middle-aged man is, and always has been, very close with his family (immediate, extended, and in-laws) so naturally he seems deeply family oriented. He has been married for 30 years and has three handsome sons all between 17 and 25 years old. He spends all his time with his wife, kids, and in-laws (brother in law + his family specifically). He takes care of his mother and keeps close contact with his sisters. He has a close circle of family friends. He's always been the breadwinner of the family, up until a year ago when he was laid off and unemployed for a full year. He feels a deep obligation to provide for his family, this is how he was raised. His family depends on him. He's teaching his sons autonomy and respect. ....And yet. 10 years ago he cheated on his wife. She forgave him. 10 years later, he's nearly 2 years into another affair that is both sexual and emotional. He maintains daily contact with his affair partner behind his wife and children's backs. How can a man be so family oriented but also be having a long-term affair with a woman he says he loves? He admits to loving both women. How can someone so family-oriented be breaking his own wedding vows day in and day out. He says he can't imagine hurting either woman, but he's hurting both. |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2017 11:34 AM PDT We have 2 toddlers and since then our sex is rare. If we are away or kids are at grandparents are the only times we can. We recently moved them out of our beds, so I hope that helps. Maybe she wants more, or maybe she is stressed. She always worries about things such as I need to do this or that. How do I even start the conversation? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2017 11:26 AM PDT We started hanging out it turned sexual, it started to feel as if we were in a relationship until one day he told me he needed more (I am married) I told him I didn't know what to say or what he expected. Prior to us getting close he took his ad down. Well that weekend when he told me all of this, he put his ad back up. I made a fake email and he responded, asking what time etc, we had just got off the phone and i had told him I was not available. I took a picture of it and sent it to him he was shocked. He took that ad down 1 week after that i went on craigslist and responded to an ad that sounded like him. He calls me to check up on me asking if I met someone else or talking to someone else, I told him no. He asks when am I coming over? I told him I'm not sure. He throws it to my face btw that ad that you responded to was me. He says he is sick of the double standards. What is up with this guy? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2017 10:47 AM PDT Our house is small and cannot afford a new one for 4 years. Have debt problems. We just got both kids in their own bed. Wife and I hardly get time together and I feel distant. I am worried that it will be additional stress and hurt our marriage. Thoughts? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2017 10:23 AM PDT She said she thinks I tell my friend more than her. So I recently opened up to her more. I told her it seems she doesn't like me. She told me that she is stressed and she is always thinking about the kids and things she needs to do. I am not sure where to go from here? |
| Question: What should I do that's best for myself and our son? Posted: 12 Aug 2017 06:35 AM PDT I don't know what to do. My husband just started using and drinking again. We have a 18month old son together. Previously he stopped using when he was almost a month old. Yesterday he told me he has been using the past 3 months and blaming the side effects on his pills. He had been trying to stop drinking, but replaced it with using. Yesterday he decided he's going to drink again too. He's mentally abusive to both myself and my son, and yesterday we almost got physical. Instead he clenched his fists and just shoved me and slammed a door on me. He's constantly screaming at me and my son is showing visible signs of anxiety(pulling his gair, pinching himself, pulling out his eyelashes). I want to go to the courthouse Monday and get a protective order to keep him away from us. I've told a friend and she thinks I should try again w him. I have tried. I waited while he was in prison and helped get him on his feet because we were together before he went in. I have tried to get him into a rehab and he refuses to go, but says he'll just stop. Every time he supposedly stops he's just hiding it. Since he's come home, not a day has gone by where he's been sober. He didn't even stay in the hospital w me when I had my son bc drinking was more important. I'm more than able to support both myself and my son, I make the majority or the money. I just want my sanity back and want to be at my best for my son. I don't want him to see the screaming and fighting and think it's ok |
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| Question: Can a married man love his wife and mistress equally deeply? Posted: 12 Aug 2017 02:05 AM PDT I have been married 12 years and have had a mistress who is also married for 3 years, I love them both equally never thought that possible? |
| Posted: 11 Aug 2017 10:14 PM PDT I was taken away from my family when I was young by child services and lived with extended family and I didn't have the best relationship with them. In addition, my family was small. So I always wanted to marry into a bigger, more loving family like my husband's. And I love them, I really do. They also love me. When we got engaged, his parents gave us both hugs and kisses. They said we're so happy and so lucky you're becoming a part of this family - officially. So when I told them I didn't want to change my name, they were shocked. They're a little old-fashioned so I think the idea is especially strange for them. When my husband and I talked alone about it, he was like, "I don't understand why you want to keep the name of people that hurt you. I want our family to be one. I want me, you and our future children to have the same last name." I know it hurt his feelings but I didn't want him bringing my family up. It's not about them, it's about me. I've had that name 25 years its part of my identity. I also do a job where personal branding is part of it. I've gotten far with this name and it will be frustrating re-introducing myself. He said I could keep my original name for business and change it legally. But then my business travel bookings and legal documents won't all transfer. Or he said hyphenate it but it'd be 17 letters. Also my last name is unique which has helped start conversations/make me memorable. His is extremely common. What do I do? |
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