Friends: Question: Should I just change the scene, this t's getting on my nerves, people, life, work...I want to just leave? |
- Question: Should I just change the scene, this t's getting on my nerves, people, life, work...I want to just leave?
- Question: Should i be mad at my friend?
- Question: I don't want to be with my best friends anymore, how do I tell/leave them?
- Question: My friend asked to hang out completely ignores me all day today wish I knew the answer?
- Question: Should I leave them?
- Question: Let me know if this is a real issue?
- Question: Is she cute?
- Question: Advice on making friends in college classes?
- Question: Is it stupid that I am jealous of my ex best friend?
- Question: Missing my ex a lot very depressed?
- Question: I am very unhappy, due to multiple health problems I have no friends and no life. I am sitting just me and my crazy dog on yahoo answers on?
- Question: Do you think these friendships are worth it?
- Question: How do I help my friend?
- Question: My social life sucks...?
- Question: I have an elderly friend who met a man on the internet. He is courting her over the internet.?
- Question: Former friend?
- Question: A buddy of mine is avoiding me because we both said hurtful words to each other.I apologize for it and he did not?
- Question: What does this mean?
- Question: My friend/coworker has been acting very distant and cold lately and I don't know why?
- Question: Advise on asking former roommate for money?
- Question: Very big friend problem?
- Question: I'm trying to come up with something to text this acquaintance that I'm trying to befriend. Something to get her attention?
- Question: My roommates sleep until mid-afternoon?
- Question: Would you consider this a Fight?
- Question: Everybody cancelled on my friend last minute except for me and her boyfriend... Idk what to do?
- Question: Is my best friend being rude or am I overreacting?
- Question: My Fiance gossips too much??
- Question: Why best friend take the same mannerisms?
- Question: Friend has a thing where she finds a lot of times to insult me?
- Question: What should I do when I get mixed messages from other female friends?
- Question: A simple question?
- Question: What should i do if my bff is being mean to another friend?
- Question: I just wish someone would be my friend?
- Question: I m a Jehovah s witnesses and I want friends?
- Question: Why does my friend act cold with me around others?
- Question: I cant see my friends. what do i do?
- Question: Why doesn't people who I use to be close with miss me?
- Question: Girl problems, need help?
- Question: Should I go to Homecoming?
- Question: Is it weird for a girl to catch a guy when he falls/trips?
- Question: How do I get my mom to move to a other state far away? She s single/looking for a new job and I need help to convince her to move.?
- Question: Do you think she was being rude? Or was I?
- Question: My best friend just told me i know nothing about her?
- Question: Is it possible to change due to a broken heart?
- Question: Going to a new school in junior year?
- Question: How to become feisty?
- Question: What does it mean when someone addresses you by your name?
- Question: Is jealousy wrong?
- Question: I'm terrified to go back to school because I get bullied?
- Question: Guys, How would you rate my abs?
- Question: Best friend screwed me over, do I forgive him?
- Question: What do you call people who are addicted to Bathroos?
- Question: I want to make the most out of my junior year?
- Question: I tricked my friend?
- Question: What do I so about my best friends mother?
- Question: College sucks.. help?
- Question: My friend just unfriended on Facebook and I'm getting sick of this she didn't even explain of why she did that to me I didn't do nothing.?
- Question: How can I explain to my best friend that I lost one of our friendship bracelets?
- Question: My family wants to move but I really don't. How should I deal with this situation?
| Posted: 19 Aug 2017 05:41 PM PDT Want to change scenary, leave and just drive across country or something, 2 weeks, a month, 3 months, maybe more. Just pack the car and go tonight, drive the whole night. |
| Question: Should i be mad at my friend? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 05:34 PM PDT One of my best friends asked me to give her a ride to a party because she wants to drink, but didn't invite me to come along. The ride is for her and two of her other friends. Should I be mad? My feelings are hurt because we usually go to parities together...but she didn't even ask me if i wanted to come along, just for a ride there. |
| Question: I don't want to be with my best friends anymore, how do I tell/leave them? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 05:30 PM PDT After being together for 7 years, I no longer can relate to some of my friends in our group of 7. We have cherished wonderful memories and experienced moments of laughter, but unfortunately, I have felt conflicted ever since Jan 2017. I recently moved away, living about a hour and a half apart from them, and visit on the weekends. As 17 year olds, a handful of my friends have begun to drink, smoke weed/vape, and do not have the brightest futures ahead of them. I refuse to follow their footsteps and instead I focus on school. This ordeal has become distracting lately and I want to still be friends with 2 people in the group since they avoid alcohol and have their priorities striaght. Keeping our distance apart and the memories we share in mind, how to I leave the bad friends in my group while maintaining my bonds with the good friends? Also, 1 of the "good friends" is twins with 1 of the "bad friends" |
| Question: My friend asked to hang out completely ignores me all day today wish I knew the answer? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 05:10 PM PDT Is that a bad friend think I should just stop being friends with her this is the second time she has done this! |
| Question: Should I leave them? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 05:09 PM PDT So I'm a sophomore in high school. I became good friends with some girls I've known forever, last year and been a group since. In that time, things have gone downhill. We started out strong but different than most groups. It was four of us and each of us had a specific friend we hung out with out of school. We'll eventually three became friends leaving me left out. It started out small, they'd have inside jokes or sit by each other at lunch one side. Then escalated into them going somewhere after work without inviting me then posting pictures about it. Now it's gone as far as them lying to me. I had plans to hang out with them today but was told the plans were off. Well maybe two hours later I saw a video of all of them having lunch without me. Each person there posted a video about it knowing full well I could see. I feel deeply hurt by this. But I'm stuck. I have to act like either I didn't see the video or that I don't care. Because I have no other friends outside of them. Their all I've got and I have two years left of school. I don't want to stick it out but I feel like I have to. What should I do? |
| Question: Let me know if this is a real issue? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 05:04 PM PDT My Son Derek has been playing with Sonia next door for going on a year now. They are both 8 years old. She is always in a dress and sometimes they are short ones yet Derek never showed any interest in her underpants or seen her a girl. A week ago Sonia got in trouble and Derek by accident seen her getting a spanking across her Father's lap. Don't know how to best explain it. Her dress was fully raised past her waist and not just the rear. Derek was recently seen peeking at Sonia's white nylon underpants and I think it is due to him having seen her getting a spanking. Is this normal behavior with a young boy? I want them to remain friends or playmates. |
| Posted: 19 Aug 2017 05:01 PM PDT http://imgur.com/a/S5oBL |
| Question: Advice on making friends in college classes? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 04:31 PM PDT Hello everyone. I'm a male age 20. Right now I'm going for my BA in college. I been a loner through high school so I forgot how to make friends. I'm trying to be more social and I figured a great place to meet new people is in class. Can you please give me advice on how to befriend my classmates? I also lack confidence in myself. Thinking I'm no good for people. |
| Question: Is it stupid that I am jealous of my ex best friend? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 04:24 PM PDT We stopped being friends 2 years ago, after 6 years of being best friends, ( were in 8th grade now ) but, he just has so much stuff, a 1000 dollar gaming PC that he built, a home theatre PC that he built, Lenovo flex 4, like, 10 other PC'S, rgb keyboard a TV, sound system, ps3, ps1, wii, ipad iphone, expensive canon camera, Gameboys, 2 3DSs psp, and TONS of steam games for his PC's. He is also an expert on technology and stuff. But what gets me though, is that MY family is actually richer than HIS, and all I have is a average PC, average laptop, iphone, 3ds XL, and a 70 buck tablet. I just don't know how his family gets the money, I am an only child, and he has a sister that is in college |
| Question: Missing my ex a lot very depressed? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 04:11 PM PDT i met my ex in school , i miss him a lot i also miss my best friends, now i look back on all those memories and realize how good i had it it, althought they weren't perfect but they were at the time my friend, *SIGH* i feel lonely and like crying all the time. i also miss the sex ill try lol |
| Posted: 19 Aug 2017 04:00 PM PDT a Saturday night with no other options other than Netflix or read a book. Any advice for me? I am 38 years old. |
| Question: Do you think these friendships are worth it? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 03:50 PM PDT I have (had soon) two bestfriends, we are all very close to each other or i think i am close to them. Yesterday we went out all of us and took so many pictures together, today one of them posted a picture of only both of them and i was not included. I am very hurt, if someone could give me a piece of advice it would be helpful and thanks. |
| Question: How do I help my friend? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 02:23 PM PDT So one of my buddies best friend just killed himself and he is devastated. He feels really alone at the moment but I don't know what to do. We dont have the kind of friendship where we talk about feelings so was thinking of inviting him to come hang out some point. Only point is don't know what to do when hanging. We are mainly drinking buddies but he doesn't have that many other close friends. Any advise on what to do with him when we hang out to take his mind off of it? Thanks everyone |
| Question: My social life sucks...? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 02:06 PM PDT This is the only place I can tell my problems cause I don't wanna be negative and bother other people. So, please give me some advice on this.. It's my life's biggest problem - I have no friends! I am almost 20, I know I'm still young, but there are short and unique periods in your life that you shouldn't miss, and there's a lot I've missed and yet to miss. I have two good friends, but they both live in two different countries, they only come twice a year and we go out maybe 1-2 times together. The rest of the time I stay home and try not to freak out. I am going to university. I tried, but I failed to make any friends there. All my colleagues are magically from different cities. Everybody I know is from a different city. My town is small, there's a few coffee shops, two gyms, a pool and whatsoever. I am too skinny and I don't wanna go to the gym cause people are ignorant... I don't know how to swim, and even if I knew I can't go alone. You just can't go anywhere alone in my town, you can't just go and meet friends. People will judge you if you have no friends and will of course think something is wrong with you. I think I'm attractive since any time I go out, there's girls that notice me, but I never had a chance to have a girlfriend, because I don't go out and people don't know me at all.... I am usually able to solve any kind of problem, but this one is just impossible and I'm stressing over it for real. Miracles just don't happen in my life... |
| Posted: 19 Aug 2017 01:02 PM PDT She has never seen this man but he is now asking her for money to come for a visit with her. Could this be a scam? |
| Posted: 19 Aug 2017 12:36 PM PDT A former friend of mine that used to live in my old city before had just moved to the city where I stay at now and we had just ran into each other while out shopping, She said she would like to get together and hang out sometime but the issue I have with her is that I had stopped dealing with her because sometimes she would give me an attitude sometimes and she would act moody and she would act like she is better than me. So I am not sure if I should go back and trying to hang out with her again because I am not sure if she is still the same or if she has changed her ways she had gave me her number. |
| Posted: 19 Aug 2017 12:30 PM PDT He is starting to avoid me and don't wanna even talk.Should I move on and stop being friends. |
| Question: What does this mean? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 12:12 PM PDT You will never know struggle outside your own conquest |
| Question: My friend/coworker has been acting very distant and cold lately and I don't know why? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 12:10 PM PDT I interviewed at my job 10 months ago when I met my friend. I got the job soon after and our friendship flourished a few months after. I was very supportive of her during her prep for wedding. I supported her like a true sister. I was there for her every step of the way. After she got married things changed. I understand that there are more important things than me in her life. She goes to school, she works two jobs, she has a crazy family like me etc. her husband seems controlling. He doesn't want her to have friends. He constantly imposes on the plans we have in order to force her to flake on me. He needs constant reassurance and wants to be the only person of importance in her life. I feel her being distant has something to do with him. I feel that our friendship has become one sided. I usually text her first, initiate plans, ask her to lunch etc. I call her, she doesn't answer or call back. I want to tell her about the things that are going on in my life but it seems like she is never around or here for me when I need her. I feel like I've always been there for her. She has become distant for the past month. I asked her via text if she was ok and she answered jokingly..so I ignored her and just asked for my stuff I left in her car. I don't like the feeling of chasing someone or trying to "force" someone to talk or be my friend. I feel like even if I do she'll try to go around the conversation. She knows that I value her and our friendship a lot. What should I do? |
| Question: Advise on asking former roommate for money? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 11:59 AM PDT |
| Question: Very big friend problem? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 11:53 AM PDT i have this friend named Mary and she's my best friend. But she's also sooo naive and gullible. So we also have this friend named Gia who treats Mary like **** and always ditches her. But Mary always ditches me for Gia, and then Gia ditches Mary for other people and Mary has the audacity to complain to me about it when she's doing the exact same thing. Also just a recently Mary told me how Gia is gonna to Vietnam with her in the summer. Mary seemed excited because she wanted to "prove her friendship and improve things" with Gia. What hurt me was that she didn't ask me at all. She just went for the person who always ditched her. Also, Im scared she's not gonna wanna be my friend and is just using me as a placeholder for when Gia decides to be Mary's friend. Advice? im also scared mary's gonna start doing drugs because Gia is a REALLY big drug user I only stay with Mary because I have no other good friends. I know that what she is doing is wrong but I have no other person to hang out with. Otherwise I would ditch her after she did these things to me. There's this friend group I wanna get into filled to the rim with super nice girls (and I'm friends with some of them) but I don't know how to get into it. Any advice? |
| Posted: 19 Aug 2017 11:42 AM PDT What do you think of "I'm a unic"? Is that any good? Do you have something better? |
| Question: My roommates sleep until mid-afternoon? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 11:04 AM PDT Okay, so my boyfriend and I took in his friend and his friend s girlfriend... they sleep in the living room. It s a one bedroom apartment, and both the living room and the bedroom have TV s... but I feel like I have to be careful when I go out to the living room/ kitchen because they re asleep still at 1pm... sometimes until 4pm. They stay up all night doing god knows what, and they sometimes leave the TV on. In the morning I turn off the TV when it s on and they re still asleep. My boyfriend works odd jobs and makes a good amount of cash, and I work at least 5 hours a day. My shifts are usually pretty long and I work 30+hrs a week. His friend and the girlfriend claim they re getting jobs, but not one has gone to any training of any sort. We also had to set boundaries about them not going into the bedroom because his friend has been known for stealing things. We ve caught him twice, but my boyfriend doesn t want to kick him out out today empathy of his personal situation. Sometimes we can t wake up his friend- it s basically like he s dead. And his friend s gf gets mad when you wake her up. It s weird. I don t know what to do in this situation. I don t want to kick them out, but I don t want to feel confined to me room either... |
| Question: Would you consider this a Fight? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 10:59 AM PDT One of my friends was teasing me and I got alittle aggresive and chased him in the corner, all I remember was us wrestling and ig trying to hit each other until my foot broke the glass of a fire extinguisher and we both later got suspened I though I went a little aggresive and I think he was playing around with me because he usally does that, if I remember so, Would this count as a fight? |
| Posted: 19 Aug 2017 09:56 AM PDT Tomorrow is my friend's birthday. A few weeks ago, she had invited me to go to the boardwalk with her for her birthday today, and I agreed. But then she just sent me a text saying that everyone else she invited, besides her boyfriend, had cancelled out on her last minute :(, and asked if I wanted to ask someone else to come with me. I feel reallyyyy bad for her and I know it must be a bad feeling. However I am thinking about the situation - I don't know who else I can ask to come with me, and I think that if I go then I would just be a third-wheeler. What should I do? I feel so selfish for even thinking this way - after all I have my friend's gift here as well |
| Question: Is my best friend being rude or am I overreacting? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 09:43 AM PDT Basically she cancelled on me because she said she was tired but then went to dinner with other people. And then I texted her asking if she wanted a study guide I made for our class and she read it and didn t respond. I think it was rude she didn t respond, I was offering something nice. Am I overreact |
| Question: My Fiance gossips too much?? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 09:19 AM PDT My fiance gossips too much, and I hate it. I'm a private person and I don't like people in my business. It's like if we have a fight or something I know she's gonna go and tell her best friend all about it. She tells her everything, and when we first got together we both agreed not to share information about our relationship to other people. I don't trust people because people are messy and the more they know the easier it is for drama to get started. I prefer if there is a problem in our relationship then we handle it on our own without her having to tell her best friend things. I just want to have a healthy but respect land private relationship. Everyone doesn't need to know things. |
| Question: Why best friend take the same mannerisms? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 08:54 AM PDT |
| Question: Friend has a thing where she finds a lot of times to insult me? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 08:33 AM PDT My friend has this running shtick of constantly making fun of me. Sometimes I can't tell whether she does it to purposely hurt me, or not. But I've found times where you could tell I was already having a bad day and she'd constantly keep going until I cried - or ones where she asked what's wrong. She has begun to boss me around, and I've started to get upset and backtalk, but I find when I do that - I lose friends. What should I do? not what's wrong - i meant **ask if she hurt me |
| Question: What should I do when I get mixed messages from other female friends? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 08:29 AM PDT Sometimes I get such mixed messages from other women. For two women in particular I was invited to their children s bday parties and both of their baby showers for there second children. But when ever I invite them to something they are too busy or something comes up. They also don t make much effort to come up with an alternative plan. Is it possible they both invited me to they re parties to get additional presents. Neither one of them are strapped for cash so it doesn t seem likely, but I just don t get it. Should I just assume that they are truly really busy, and just keep extending invitations to them, or should I stop putting any effort their way? |
| Posted: 19 Aug 2017 07:56 AM PDT I lost my job and my gf sent me this quote. I'm confused what is this meme trying to say??? idk what to reply with since i don't get it |
| Question: What should i do if my bff is being mean to another friend? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 05:12 AM PDT So pretty much my best friend and i are super close and we have this other friend that she really liked for a while and then we found out he was gay. After that she was still friends with him but over summer completely shut him out and won t respond to his texts and he keeps asking me about it. She s just being super mean to him and i don t want his feelings hurt more but she s also my best friend idk what to do help?! |
| Question: I just wish someone would be my friend? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 03:36 AM PDT But they don't wanna. It's just weird. I used to have friends but lately it feels like I just don't any more. |
| Question: I m a Jehovah s witnesses and I want friends? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 03:21 AM PDT So I m 18 years old and a Jehovah s witnesses but I don t have any friend in the truth. My congregation is mostly elderly people in a rural area not to far away from a city. When I go to assembly s I try and talk to people who seem lonely or are sitting on there own I also do the same thing to people who come to my meeting and yes I am friends with elderly people but I really want friends my own age that I can hang out with outside of kingdom intrests because I am tired of being alone and yes I have been constantly praying for years about getting friends. I just want a group of friends in the truth I can look forward to seeing on the weekend and stuff Any tips |
| Question: Why does my friend act cold with me around others? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 01:58 AM PDT My friend is really nice to me when I'm on my own but when I get attention in the friendship group, she acts funny with me. I'm quite tall and I'm the tallest girl in our friendship group so when we were all sitting together I couldnt fit my legs under the table so the other girls said 'it's because your so tall' but she said 'you're so lanky' in an agressive way Sometimes if one of the girls comes up to me and hugs me or lots of people pay me attention she will walk ahead of me aggressively and I have to catch up with her. Another time she was handing out chips to the friendship group and I took a chip and then took another chip and she rolled her eyes really obviously Once we were sitting with two guys and she completely ignored me and spoke to the other guys. Whenever the guy complimented her she would look at me and say 'did you hear what he said about me? He said I was beautiful' - but when the guy was talking to me or giving me attention, she kept insulting me, bringing up embarrassing things from the past and humiliating me and being sarcastic with everything I said. then after staring at me for ages, she grabbed a chunk of my hair in her hands and told me how long it was Another time, I said that I used to message guys a lot for attention and she rolled her eyes. I get on really well when it's just the two of us, but when we are in a group, I always feel left out and ignored by her. Why does my friend act cold around me when around others? |
| Question: I cant see my friends. what do i do? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 01:57 AM PDT my friends do hard drugs and some of them destroyed my sister by using and abusing her but thats between them not me. they all know to keep everything away from me. they really are good people they just struggle with their addiction. im still in high school so its not that easy for me to see them due to my parengs especially since they are older than me. i hate lying to them about where im going or with who but what should i do? dont say drop them cause they were the only ones that were still in my life when everything went downhill for me |
| Question: Why doesn't people who I use to be close with miss me? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 01:20 AM PDT So people I knew In college and even in high school when I try to reach out they act like we aren't close and even if it's been awhile i appreciate the memories And experience we had together. Even though obviously ppl move on with their life,I think it's sad they don't appreciate the ppl who got them through those times. Opinions? |
| Question: Girl problems, need help? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 12:24 AM PDT So there s this girl I ve known since day 1 of college and I think we both have feelings for each other, but I m too afraid to ask because we re also really good Friends. I feel like there s always been a little more than just friendship. We don t really talk to much over texting and all that gay ****, but we hang out all the time, she s saved my *** from many girls at parties while I was drunk, sometimes she ll just have me come over and we ll talk in her dorm till the *** crack of dawn. She s been telling me all summer how much she misses me, she greets me with hey baby and says she loves me, but when she says it it s a little more than just a normal love you as a friend. Always been pretty physical, usually always hugs me. I feel like a lot of this **** is bold signs in front of my face, but I wanna make sure because I don t wanna **** up our friendship. I apologize in advance for any shitty sentence structure, grammar or punctuation lmao. |
| Question: Should I go to Homecoming? Posted: 19 Aug 2017 12:01 AM PDT So I'm going to have to make the decision on whether or not to go to homecoming again. This time I don't have an excuse for why I cannot go other than the fact that I become a different person. Usually, I'm a quite, introverted, socially anxious girl caught up in her own thoughts and very cautious about what she says and does. On the other hand, when I'm in social situations such as parties I tend to speak without thinking, get up in people's personal space, speak louder, and basically lose all of my social decency. One time in a previous year, some girl was making fun of how my friend was dancing so I went and shouted at her and proceeded to cry in the bathroom afterwards because I realized what I did. My friend insists she will keep me in check but I'm not sure what will happen and if she will be able to help me. I really want to go but I'm terrified of what might happen. Help? |
| Question: Is it weird for a girl to catch a guy when he falls/trips? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 11:17 PM PDT I m 19yo, 5 5" and I manage a stand at a ball park. There was a new guy in my stand today and he s about 6 2", somewhere in his late 20 s maybe..? Like 26.? It s very crowded in our stand so he tripped backwards on me when I was behind him grabbing food and I grabbed him and caught him before he fell backwards into the drink fridge. Is it strange for a girl to catch a guy when he falls? Especially if I m shorter? I know it s a stereotypical thing (in tv) for girls to swoon at a guy if he catches her from falling. How is it for guys when a girl catches them though? Kinda makes me feel less feminine and without a gender |
| Posted: 18 Aug 2017 11:12 PM PDT I want to get my mom to move from Louisiana to Pennsylvania. Most of my friends live there now and I feel lonely, and most of the kids I try to befriend are snobby and ignore me. I just want to go live in Pennsylvania. She s getting a real estate job here and just finished school for her job but thats what makes me worry cause she needs a state license for it... I wanna be happy. |
| Question: Do you think she was being rude? Or was I? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 10:43 PM PDT I met this young woman on a group on facebook 2 days back, because she is an artist and was advertising some of her jewelry which she made, and posted it in the groups. I messaged her, I told her they are pretty but she explained her difficulty in selling them. So I gave her some tips on what she can do to sell her stuff. We started to talk and was really getting along. Talking about all kind of random things. I told her about a dog someone was selling for hundreds of dollars and I told her i'd not buy a dog for that price. She told me that people on the groups will buy a phone or dog for $500 but want her necklaces for free. I told her she is bitter, she replied and said I don't have to call her bitter and that she wont complain anymore or talk about prices but I don't have to call her bitter. I told her she doesn't seem to understand people or life, and she not coming across as a nice person and also said I apologize to call her bitter but I call it as I see it. She said I am rude, I told her no wonder her necklaces don't sell with that attitude. So then she cuss some swear words at me, called me a crazy old woman and that she don't like know it all B**** like me, told me she thought I was nice but i'm just arrogant and proud and blocked me. Is it wrong to call someone I just met whom I haven't seen bitter? even if they were being a little bitter in my opinion? I think she was very rude. I don't get why she would be upset that I call her bitter. |
| Question: My best friend just told me i know nothing about her? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 10:41 PM PDT ive known her basicly all my life, and now shes telling me i know nothing about her or what her brain is like or how she thinks I know her better than anyone ever |
| Question: Is it possible to change due to a broken heart? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 10:33 PM PDT I never would've thought so, but I've changed-- a lot. When my best friend of almost 19 years first hurt me so badly, I felt blessed that so many terrible and swift things were going on in my life that I had to stay incredibly busy at the time. This included my moving across the country. Three months later, though, I find myself sort of... Heartless, but in a hypocrite way. To the outside world, I act like I care, but truth is, I just don't. And it's BAD. People I should care the most about are just a minor annoyance. I visit them only when it's important, for instance. I just think about how, in the future, they won't be there for me, so why do I want to water so much of my time on them now? Before, I truly cared. I was the compassionate person you could always count on. Not now. That's why I wonder. |
| Question: Going to a new school in junior year? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 10:27 PM PDT I am not the type to be nervous about these kinds of things and apparently I'm outgoing in other peoples opinion. however i found myself having anxiety here and there and i know on the first day i will have so much anxiety whether its getting to class on time, unassigned seating, etc. i have an rbf so I'm not too sure if people will talk to me |
| Question: How to become feisty? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 09:48 PM PDT I'm sick of being a shy girl that has no idea how to react in situations I WANNA B A FIESTY BICH WITH A LOUD MOUTH AND ATTITUDE please teach me? |
| Question: What does it mean when someone addresses you by your name? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 09:23 PM PDT My coworker and I are friendly aquantinces and are familiar with each other. Whenever he greets me he says "hi Blake" and when I say bye he says "bye Blake" and I notice it since not a lot of people call my name. Why do some people do that and others don't ?? |
| Posted: 18 Aug 2017 09:21 PM PDT I have had my best friend ever since 4th grade (we're freshman now) and lately I feel like she doesn't like me or my (twin) sister anymore. A couple of years ago we became friends with this other girl who was really nice, until after all 4 of us hung out they started shutting us out and only hanging out with each other. The 4th friend is nice to me around my best friend, but sometimes I'll try to talk to her and she will ignore me or try not to sit with me and my sister at lunch. We used to go to places that only consisted of us, but then she kinda dropped me and my sister and hung out with the other friend instead. I feel bad, but I started to ignore my best friend based off of jealousy. I feel like I'm slowly being replaced, but I don't know if I should say anything. We still hangout, but she only invites the other friend to fun places. I keep thinking she doesn't want my company anymore, but she texts me to sleepover. It's hard because I don't even know if I should say anything, because I really want to tell her how it seems like she's shutting us out but I don't want to make it awkward between us, and I don't want her telling the 4th friend. I know we probably won't be the closest by the end of highschool but she's been my number one friend for so long and I really don't want that to change. Maybe I'm overthinking, drama is weird. Is jealousy normal and okay? Should you discuss it if needed? |
| Question: I'm terrified to go back to school because I get bullied? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 09:20 PM PDT I'm going to be a sophomore in high school and there's this one girl who I've known since we were kids and she bullies me. She's super outgoing but I know I'm her nicest "friend" she thinks we're best friends. One on one she'll tell me secrets ask me to sleepover which I hate doing but she's pushy and it's hard to come up with excuses for her. Anyway freshmen year she humiliated me in front of my whole class, friend group, told my ex I liked him still, starts rumors about me. I've tried to stand up for me but it's helpless and if I stop being her "friend" she'll make my life a living hell. Freshmen year I almost took my own life over her ): |
| Question: Guys, How would you rate my abs? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 09:13 PM PDT By abs, I mean my tummy. |
| Question: Best friend screwed me over, do I forgive him? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 08:54 PM PDT My best friend screwed me out of 300 dollars, and after months and months of apartment and job hunting for a place out in (ill call it C-City) I finally got offered a full time job in that area, and we also got approved for an apartment. But, six days until move-in date he screwed me over and said he couldn't do it due to a sudden job offer his parents pushed on him four hours away. I was in a bad living situation, and both our leases ended the same day. This was our plan since the beginning of the year. And he knew I had no other option as to where else I could live. so we agreed to do this together so his rent could lower and I would have a place to live. I just feel like the fact he came and told me has taking the job offer, no changing his mind/this is what he wanted, didnt even try to discuss it with me, it seems like he just flat out didn't care that leaving this commitment leaves me homeless. |
| Question: What do you call people who are addicted to Bathroos? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 08:48 PM PDT |
| Question: I want to make the most out of my junior year? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 08:42 PM PDT I'm a 16 yo girl and freshman year I stayed with my friends from middle school, sophmore year I made good friends who I drifted at the end of the year, and I'm going back to school and want to make the most out of it? I want new friends, I want to go out more, and go to parties etc |
| Question: I tricked my friend? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 08:41 PM PDT I served my Muslim friend real bacon, but told him it was turkey bacon! Hahahha! It was a great prank, but when I told him he forced himself to vomit. I didn't think it was a big deal. I told him , it's just a prank bro, but he's still mad. Why is he being so petty! |
| Question: What do I so about my best friends mother? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 08:06 PM PDT Okay me and another one of my best friends own a booth at a flea market. It's just something we enjoy doing yearly. My other best friend and her mother come every year, and her mother ruins the fun every year. Honestly her mother isn't mentally all there in the head. I'm not trying to be mean, but she really isn't. Anyways she comes to the flea market, pays her 5 dollars to get in and just goes straight to our booth and sits there ALL DAY. Just sits there! She doesn't walk around or anything! She is extremely annoying, and plus she doesn't pay for the booth so it pisses me and my other friend off that she sits there. I mean I'd be cool with it if she was walking around and needed a ten minute break here and there but she seriously just sits there and talks to me and my friends or my parents and it's so annoying. It truly ruins my one weekend of fun that me and my friend look foreword to. I asked my other friend why her mother bothers to pay if she doesn't walk around and my friend thinks its just stupid that all her mom does is sit around. I don't wanna mean, but this will be the third year in a row this women mooches off my lot. She is extremely stupid, and me and my other friend don't want her sitting there. My brother told me to tell her "look you just gotta go," but I don't want to be mean, plus this is my bestfriends mother. What do I do? |
| Question: College sucks.. help? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 07:43 PM PDT My life has been one screwed up mess. I ve dealt with more than the usual person has to go through. But I was finally happy. My senior year and the summer after my senior year of high school I made the absolute best friend ever. I love her to death. I got super close with my sisters. My one year old nephew moved in with me (his mom aka my older sister is a piece of ****). For once in my life, I was genuinely happy. I was partying a lot with my best friend and my life felt perfect to me. I haven t cried myself to sleep in months. Then, I moved into college. I attend a college an hour away from my hometown. My best friend is attending a college an hour away in the opposite direction of my hometown so we re two hours away. I miss my adorable nephew and my sisters, which is to be expected. I can handle that. What I can t handle is the fact that it took me all 4 years of high school to open up to someone enough to be super good & close friends with them. It took me 4 years to find someone who would choose me over anyone else. I don t think I can handle being alone for four more years. Obviously I m going to visit my best friend but I don t have anyone on campus with me. I'm terrified she will find a new best friend, someone who is better than me. I ve met a lot of cool people but no one that needs a best friend. I started cutting again tonight & I haven t done that since my sophomore year. I m miserable and exhausted. I can t handle another 4 years alone. Please help me. |
| Posted: 18 Aug 2017 06:50 PM PDT This girl I know she unfrieend me on FaceBook and didn't even explain to me of why she did that or her"fake friends" told her to and I'm hurting because I'm very sick of it I want to get her back from this. Is there a way to get her back or refriended her again and saying sorry to her? because it sucks so much that a person will do that to you without saying a word or an explaination to you. She has really hurt me and my feelings that I just want to snap at her and tellng her"that you're a bad friend" |
| Question: How can I explain to my best friend that I lost one of our friendship bracelets? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 06:31 PM PDT I was with this lass and I put my hand in her ********, I took it out but I lost my friendship bracelet in there. I looked but I couldn't find it, I couldn't a **** about the *****, but my ***** Q will see it isn't on my risk and wonder why. What can i do to explain - I don't see me getting the bracelet back like? |
| Question: My family wants to move but I really don't. How should I deal with this situation? Posted: 18 Aug 2017 06:23 PM PDT I'm going into eighth grade. I currently live in NJ, in a middle class neighborhood. My family wants to move to North Carolina because of the college opportunities my sister and I could get. Apparently tax and college and stuff like that is cheaper down there. I don't know for sure, but I know one thing; I totally do not want to move. They are planning on moving my freshman year, so it could be a fresh start. I know the house and the neighborhood and all that would be whole lot nicer down there, and I love to explore, so it's like the perfect place for us, but I can't let go of the town I grew up in, and all of my friends. I mean yeah, I could FaceTime them and keep in touch through social media, but I could no longer spend time with them anymore. I'm the kind of person that is quiet and shy when I first meet someone, but is really open and outgoing once I get to know someone. I feel like it's going to be hard to make new friends, and leave my current friends behind. (If anyone has moved before, could you give me some tips of how to make new friends?) Anyways, I'm scared of change and I don't know how to deal with it. If anyone has tips, please let me know. Thank you for reading all of this, I'm sorry it's so long. |
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