Friends: Question: What are some of the best ways to find a new friend/girlfriend as a Homeschooler? |
- Question: What are some of the best ways to find a new friend/girlfriend as a Homeschooler?
- Question: Scared about going to a new college (sixth form)?
- Question: What is a good gift idea for my mom and sisters?
- Question: I'm in all different classes from my friends and I feel like an outcast?
- Question: What's it like having a friend from a rival country?
- Question: I have a crazy pedo stalker and I don't know what to do?
- Question: How do I make friends?
- Question: Did long distance kill my relationship?
- Question: Have you ever had a shady friend??
- Question: How to spot out fake friends/handle a situation like this?
- Question: How do you get new friends to like you?
- Question: I am sad. I dont want to commit suicide but thoughts are there because I feel so sad and lonely inside.?
- Question: Will she be upset with me for a long time?
- Question: What kind of rope to hang myself with?
- Question: Why do people care if someone hates them? , I could care less who hates me !!Are people that needy and insecure ?
- Question: If someone invites you to cheer them on in one of their sports games, is it weird to go alone?
- Question: I get really nervous when I talk to people?
- Question: SOLO SERI PERFAVORE,SONO DISPERATO?
- Question: What kind of present would a teenage boy like?
- Question: Should you stop taking to someone's child?
- Question: How can I accept myself?
- Question: What more should I do?
- Question: So me and this girl was having an argument, she called me fat obese rat etc.. she screenshot it and put it on her story. What should I do?
- Question: I cant get over all the negative things that was said about me in high school. I need help?
- Question: How to get my parents to let be go over to my friends house?
- Question: Got hard. Why didn't my friend get mad or disgusted?
- Question: How do I stop letting this affect me and how do I forgive myself for letting myself get hurt?
- Question: Can you like someone and not be their friend?
- Question: What do you all think about maintaining a friendship that you made with your ex s friends?
- Question: I'm a girl and This girl is will be friends with anyone but me?
- Question: My best friend can't defend me?
- Question: Should I email her?
- Question: Why did my best friend lie to me?
- Question: I need serious help?
- Question: Should I just be done with them completely?
- Question: Did I do the wrong thing?
- Question: What's wrong with these people at my new school?
- Question: Last year i used to fake sick a lot... but now im older and i am really sick but my parents wont keep my home from school anymore. Help?
- Question: I can't hide my discomfort anymore, advices?
- Question: Urgent Friendship advice. 10 points.?
- Question: Why is my friend so stupid?
- Question: Why are some people nervous around others for no reason?
- Question: Why are millennials and anyone under 25 so narcissistic and evil?
- Question: How do I stop this?
- Question: How can I get away from some SJW "friends" safely?
- Question: What's wrong with these people at my new school?
- Question: How do I make friends outside of school?
- Question: Are there any real single women here?
- Question: Is it fine for a 15 year old to be friends with a 20 year old?
- Question: Are you a sensitive person? Why can people be overly sensitive sometimes at little things?
- Question: My brother's friend blocked me on snapchat?
- Question: What does this phrase mean?
- Question: "Friends" always bring up events that I'm not invited to whenever we hang out?
- Question: Would Anyone Be Upset If Their Friend Did This To Them?
- Question: Why does everyone outgrow me, and why am I so irrelevant? I feel like eventually all my friends will leave me.?
- Question: My brother's friend blocked me on snapchat?
- Question: Lately I've been really lonely?
- Question: Nervous about going to see a friend?
- Question: My brother got called fat by his new college roommate and now doesn't want to be there or shower at his frat house. What should he do?
- Question: My anxiety is taking over my life... How do I stop it?
| Question: What are some of the best ways to find a new friend/girlfriend as a Homeschooler? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 05:50 PM PDT Let me explain my situation. I have 2 real friends and I don't get to see them that much, therefore I would like to find some others. My mom says that she can take me anywhere if I just ask her about it but I don't know where to go. The only things that I do outside the house don't happen to have many people of my age except for the 2 friends that I have already mentioned. What are some good and fun things that I can do while also meeting new people that are of my age (14). Oh, and about the girlfriend thing. I mainly want to meet friends and if I find some female friends, I can see how things go later down the line but that's only me hoping for the best. I tried looking for part time jobs and although it is legal for me to get a job at my age, no one hires people of my age around where I live. I should also say that I am not into sports very much. Thanks for reading and answering if you were to be so kind. |
| Question: Scared about going to a new college (sixth form)? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 05:08 PM PDT I've been out of school for a while because of personal circumstannces and i've had to move to the UK, where i'm originally from, but haven't lived here for 9 years. I'm really nervous about starting my new college in September because I know people are so different in the UK to what i'm used to. I'm starting a new year, so everyone in that year will also be new which is a bonus, but i'm still petrified that i won't make any friends and that i'll get bullied. That's my worst fear. Is there any advice you can give me please? Thanks! |
| Question: What is a good gift idea for my mom and sisters? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 05:02 PM PDT My sisters are 30, 22 and 16 years old and I'm 23, the thing is I haven't been myself for a long time, the last 2 years have been really bad I've distanced myself from all my friends and I haven't been the easiest to live with. I'm no good for a conversation and when I snap I shout and cry a lot and my mom takes the brunt of it, my sisters also. Since my dad left us when we were small I always thought of myself as the man of the house, then when I failed college and the pub I was working in shut down I felt like a failure and that I was letting everyone down. I had a lot of things going on too like my best mate taking his own life and my girlfriend dumping me, I'm not making excuses just trying to paint a picture of what was going on. I was a terrible person, I got depressed and I distanced myself from everything and everyone, I'm alone now thanks to my actions, the only good I done was I worked a lot and saved up enough money to get myself and my little sister into college again but that doesn't make up for me being the way I was, the girls no i mean good too, but meaning good and doing good are different. I got help and sorted myself out and I have money now to help me start fresh. My older sisters have moved out so I plan on getting them all a small gift each and just explain I haven't been myself and I'm sorry and thanks for putting up with me. Should I get them together or meet them individually, I want to fix it as we're drifting apart, what would you do? |
| Question: I'm in all different classes from my friends and I feel like an outcast? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 04:53 PM PDT Someone please help me. I'm in 8th grade and at my school we travel with our homerooms but, my friends are in a different homeroom. I have no one to talk to. Everyone already has their friends this year and I go to a small school so there's no new students. In that little time before class starts where everyone talks with their friends, or all those times when the teacher says to pick a partner I have no one to turn to. I tried telling my friends how I felt and for some reason I thought they would already know because maybe they would be thinking about me. I was wrong they just went along talking about the inside jokes that I wasn't apart of anymore. So now not only do I feel like an outcast in my homeroom but, in my friend group too because of everything I'm going to miss out on. I know it was kind of a lot to be thinking that my friends would be thinking of my situation. I guess it just made me feel a little less alone at the time. They should enjoy their 8th grade year. It's just I've gone to this school for 8 years already (kindergarten up to now) and I can't believe I'm going to end it this way. With no friends. No one to be my partner for science fair, no one to be happy with when I finally graduate this small school and go out to high school and the most scariest thought, no one to start high school with. My social anxiety makes it a lot harder for me to make friends. Ugh if anyone could help me out on this I'd appreciate it a lot. Or even just relate to it. |
| Question: What's it like having a friend from a rival country? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 04:44 PM PDT E.g Indian and Pakistani American and British Chinese and Japanese Etc |
| Question: I have a crazy pedo stalker and I don't know what to do? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 04:05 PM PDT I'm 17 and there's this man I was having with last September and I was using him for cigarettes . But ever since I told him I don't wanna see him anymore . He been buying me these crazy 1000 dollar gifts and showing up to my house in the drive way . I don't know what to do . I can't tell my mom or the police cause I don't want that kinda drama in my life. |
| Question: How do I make friends? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 03:23 PM PDT I'm starting a sport and I don't know a single person on the team, but everyone there is already friends with people and in like they're groups so idk what to do. I'm quiet and never have anything to say around people. |
| Question: Did long distance kill my relationship? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 03:22 PM PDT Dated a girl for a month, then had to leave for 2 months. We did long distance. When I can back she said she saw me more as friend, but still thought I was attractive. Did the short time together and then the distance make us grow distant? |
| Question: Have you ever had a shady friend?? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 03:14 PM PDT Looking for Biblical answers on friendship that I ve had with someone for 15+ years. I ve had a friendship with two people for 15 plus years. A few years ago one person (person A) distanced herself from the other person (person B). They are no longer friends. Recently, I ve had the time to rethink my friendship with person B. This person believes in getting revenge and if they don t like something you did they will also ignore you for about a month or until they feel it s time to talk to you again. They also withhold important information from you (especially if it would benefit you). They also believe in replacing people as friends. Yesterday we both took our children to an event. I decided to crawl in the crawl space with the children and she decided not to. Well, her kid hit his head in the crawl space and decided to go back to his mom, my kid followed. She appeared at the opposite side to see her kid come out (unbeknownst to me) and asked where her child was. I told her he went back to get you. I did not know she was going to the other side. I finally get out of the crawl space and we re walking and she bumps my kid in the head and says sorry. I believe she did that out of spite and only said sorry because I was standing there. I remember her saying that she prays bad things for people and one time it came true. I do not think she is a good person anymore and I d like to look at the bible for support in my decision to move away from her all together. |
| Question: How to spot out fake friends/handle a situation like this? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 02:53 PM PDT How to spot out fake friends/handle a situation like this? I've been told by a friend of mine in the past aka the guy I lost my virginity too second semester that some of my current friends are fake and have been talking **** behind my back. In addition the news of how we hooked up back in April has gotten around... He doesn't want to reveal names nor does he want to say what other things they've been saying about me for the sake of trying to make things stop/fade away. How to spot out fake friends? Apparently I have fake friends who talk shizz about me but idk which ones they are... Someone told me cut ppl off and see who tries to contact you back after disconnecting to see who is real or fake |
| Question: How do you get new friends to like you? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 02:51 PM PDT I met a new group of friends at this summer camp thing which im at right now, and I would really like to know how to maintain that relationship since im not good at making friends, they treat me like I matter which is something I haven't felt in a long time. |
| Posted: 14 Aug 2017 01:54 PM PDT Two of my closest friends have left me. I have known one ever since middle school and we are both around 24 now. She found new friends and doesn't really hang out with me anymore. Whenever we do hang out, she always talks to them on the phone while hanging out with me. I feel like my friends and everyone is leaving me because I am boring. My other closest friend is married. I am not a homewrecker or anything. But his wife knows about me and she is okay with us being friends. He and I dont do anything like that and we just share our interests and help eachother out in life. But he keeps deleting me from social media and everywhere else just because I may seem like I am online but I am not...I am busy and I have to take care of my health and my parents. I dont understand why he feels I am avoiding him everytime I get online and dont say anything to it when its because I am afk but he starts deleting me from everywhere. I'm really hurt. I feel like I want to go out and join peacecorps so I can forget about everyone who left me and start new. Maybe I can learn more about myself, get rid of my social anxiety and help others. My college friends stopped inviting me to their parties and it makes me sad because I get excluded out. I see them inviting our circle of friends but not me. I get anxiety whenever I go to their parties in the past. I felt like I dont click with them and I am always quiet. Even when I try to think of something to say nothing comes up. I hate myself a lot. |
| Question: Will she be upset with me for a long time? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 01:06 PM PDT Last night I totally my friend something that I thought happened and I told her I assumed so she wasn't mad with me but upset but I was after alcohol and I really didn't mean it. I never knew she had text her friend about it and I almost caused war. Is she going to tell her friends what u done to her? It's a new group I'm in and I don't want to make a bad impression of myself and I'm after making a fool of myself. Will she be upset with me for a few weeks? This is the first time it happened and I don't want it to affect our friendship |
| Question: What kind of rope to hang myself with? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 12:28 PM PDT Theoretically speaking, what size and type of rope would one use to hang themselves most assuredly and optimally? And should I go for asphyxiation or neck breaking? Thanks. |
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| Posted: 14 Aug 2017 12:16 PM PDT It's a female friend from work that plays in some adult softball league. She told me their first game is coming up and gave a time, said she needs me to come be her cheerleader. We've never hung out yet. I'm female too. |
| Question: I get really nervous when I talk to people? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 12:07 PM PDT Im a 17 year old guy and I don't know why, but I get extremely nervous when talking to people. I can be around a ton of people and feel okay, but something as simple as ordering food makes me really nervous, and I think the cashier can usually tell and it makes them uncomfortable. Like today I bought a backpack for school (Starting my senior year tomorrow woot woot!), and I had to ask the cashier to get it for me from behind the counter and I was so nervous. I don't worry about people judging me and stuff, because honestly I don't know what there is to judge. I mean I take care of myself, I'm healthy weight, I'm 6'2, I wear nice clothes, and I think I'm decent looking (not being arrogant, just making a point). And on top of that, I'm really good at admitting my flaws. I love meeting people, and talking to people when I feel good, but the nervousness just gets the best of me! Somebody help please! I want to be able to enjoy life! |
| Question: SOLO SERI PERFAVORE,SONO DISPERATO? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 12:06 PM PDT Lei è bella,bellissima,viene a scuola guida con me e ci avrò parlato una volta al massimo.È timida,ma mi piace tantissimo.So che è uscita da poco da una relazione con un ragazzo molto più bello di me.Non la seguivo su Instagram ma l'altro giorno decisi di farlo,così le mandai la richiesta e nel giro di tre ore ha cominciato a seguirmi anche lei.Penso mi abbia seguito solo perché andiamo a scuola guida insieme,altrimenti non lo avrebbe mai fatto.Vorrei contattarla ma poi rivedo il suo ex e penso che se si è messa con lui non si metterà mai con uno come me...e la cosa mi fa star male.Che dovrei fare secondo voi?(non posso parlarle ora a scuola guida perché è chiusa per ferie). |
| Question: What kind of present would a teenage boy like? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 11:29 AM PDT Recently, I've come to find out that my closest friend, had gotten me a present during the summer holidays. To compensate, I wanted to get him something back but have realized that I had absolutely no idea what he'd like to get. On a further note, I'm a girl and have never been shopping for a guy, so if anyone has any advice, please list down below :) A little info about my friend: Although he's a bit of a badass, he's also a sucker for star wars and loves math and science. Initially, I thought it would be a good idea to get him a star wars jumper but then realised that was dumb because we live in Dubai and winter is usually still above 30 degrees Celsius. Please help meeeee |
| Question: Should you stop taking to someone's child? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 11:12 AM PDT I was friends with someone for over 15 years and we had a fall out over money. I asked if I could borrow a large sum, she said no and I wrote stuff about her on social media. We haven't spoken in over a year. What's bothering me, she also stop talking to my child. She used buy him birthday gifts and take him out. It's just stop we stopped and now he is asking about her, and I really don't know what to tell him. |
| Question: How can I accept myself? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 11:04 AM PDT I'm 27 a and still feel unattractive and don't know who I am. My head is shaped weird so I can't wear certain hairstyles but big hair. Which then guys find me attractive. I got my hair did at a stylist and everyone commented how different and weird I look so now I'm dying inside. I feel so insecure all the time.any advice? |
| Question: What more should I do? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 11:01 AM PDT My 2 best friends & I were so close like sisters. We went to high school together & when that ended we became even closer being that all 3 of us stayed in our town for college. Ive never had a really close girl best friend & these two were it. We were always together having wine nights & watching grease, getting in trouble & getting the others out. Back in January I had a falling out with them, we went a few months with little talking but finally started making up. Unfortunately, they grew closer together than it seems all 3 of us ever did. They were hanging out without inviting me, posting about it, etc. Ive talked with them about it & they seemed genuinely sorry and apologized. Yet when we all got together for dinner almost 2 months ago, i just felt like things werent the same. I couldnt make jokes like before, i was forcing myself to laugh. But i kept trying & getting together with them & I felt like in times thing could be the same again. That dinner was the last time ive seen & talked to them both. They both always like my instagram pictures, but never actually talk to me. I dont know if they think I just walked out on them but i honestly kept trying to do more with them & it seemed like i was always too late & they were already planning something together. I just felt like i was the only one reaching out to them. I know everyone says that youll grow apart from your high school friends but please dont tell me to move if theres could be any chance to save the friendship. |
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| Question: How to get my parents to let be go over to my friends house? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 10:16 AM PDT So I am going into 8th grade and I had a sleepover with a couple friends last night and I took the card game "cards against humanity". When I got home my mom looked in my back and got mad that I brought it so she grounded me! The problem is that I was planning on going to my friends house tonight that I won t get to see in a long time and we ve been planning this sleepover for a while, how do I convince my mom to let me go? |
| Question: Got hard. Why didn't my friend get mad or disgusted? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 10:16 AM PDT At school my car broke down, so my friend Lori gave me a lift home. On her motorcycle that is. When I ride I usually don't like being a passenger, but I had no other choice at the time. I sat on the back and close to Lori with my arms around her. It felt awkward since she's just a friend. On the way I got a *****. I couldn't stop it because yes it did feel good holding onto Lori, but I didn't want to comment or make anything of it. Lori did notice since we were so close on the bike. Oddly enough Lori wasn't mad or showed any disgust. She actually said it was flattering. Most women I know would have reacted badly. But why not my friend? |
| Posted: 14 Aug 2017 10:08 AM PDT So I had someone I considered my best friend for life and then a few years ago, I finally woke up and realized that it was a toxic, mostly one-sided relationship. I felt like I had finally seen what was going on. This person turned out to be fake and self-centered and immature. I went cold turkey and just stopped talking to this person because I knew that if I did talk to this person again, I would get sucked back in and I can't let that happen to me again. Since then, this person has texted me randomly a few times but I have never responded. I needed to do what was best for myself, and it was hard but I feel like I have grown since then. However, this former friendship has affected me being able to be open and trusting in new friendships. How do I stop letting this affect me and how do I move forward? I just want to be at peace and leave that part of my life behind me so that it doesn't affect my future friendships and relationships. Talking to this person is not an option. |
| Question: Can you like someone and not be their friend? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 10:02 AM PDT Not like in a romantic way. but like them as a person but still not be their friend. |
| Question: What do you all think about maintaining a friendship that you made with your ex s friends? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 09:58 AM PDT I am a female and his friends are male. We all get along really well, and I truly feel safe and happy when I m around them. They don t try to make a pass at me, ever. However, my ex is probably still in love with me, and this might sound real insensitive, but I don t care all that much how he d feel about the situation since I believe in my friendship with his friends who are now my friends. What are your thoughts? Thanks. |
| Question: I'm a girl and This girl is will be friends with anyone but me? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 09:41 AM PDT Whenever i sit by her in class shes complains and says she doesn't wanna sit by me. But will let anyone else sit by her. Whenever i'm with my friends she would call over all my friends to her group except me.Then I went over even though she didn't say my name. She walks to a different spots and calls all my friends names again except mine. Then she starts whispering in all their ears. In middle school she said she didn't like me to my face but never gave me a reason. I didn't do anything to her. I don't even know her. |
| Question: My best friend can't defend me? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 09:06 AM PDT Today a friend of my best friend knew (I don't know how) that I have depression and my psychologist stop doing sessions with me (I don't know if she's in vocation or something, but I don't receive any session announcement from her in a while] and my bff's friend said that I'm a lost case and that's why the psychologist stop trying to help me...my bff knew that I was really hurt about that and I couldn't say anything because I was so hurt that I was feeling that if I tried to talk back she would say something worse and I didn't want that...I suffer from bullying from 10 years and the feeling I felt in that moment was the same feeling when I was in the bullying time. I was expecting my best friend defend me because it was her friend whom said that awful thing, but she didn't say anything and stayed quit....I'm really hurt about that, because if it was the opposite I would definitely defend my bff's, I already defend her so many times and now when I expected that she would defend me like I do with her, she do nothing....she just said to me to ignore and I'm not a lost case, but why she could just said to her friend that it was rude what she said? I'm I wrong in something? I'm to selfish? Please someone help me in this situation... |
| Posted: 14 Aug 2017 08:47 AM PDT So in August I began my first year at college and I quickly became acquainted with 3 girls who became close friends to me. One of these girls I did have feelings for but it never panned out so we just stayed good friends within our friend group. Anyway, I would always joke with her a lot to try and be funny, but the problem is that she doesn't think what I joke about is funny. To be clear I don't joke about anything personal or serious, it's just I would find things that would annoy her and keep doing it. We talked about it one day in February and I promised to stop, and we were okay for the rest of that week but I, being stupid, forgot and joked with her again. At that point she stopped talking to me and I felt awful. She is in the right and I am in the wrong. I eventually texted her a sincere and heartfelt apology a few days later to which she said that she might forgive me if I showed an improvement in my actions plus she wanted space (I texted because she didn't want me around, otherwise I would've apologized to her face.) So, I complied and respected her descisons. A week later, one of my other close friends said that I couldn't hang out with her as well because of this whole situation. And then I lost my cool one day after an exam and yelled at them for reasons I don't even know. The point is I know I am wrong and I feel awful about it. So, I drafted an email to the first friend, saying I am sorrying and clarifying a few things. My question is, is this a bad idea? |
| Question: Why did my best friend lie to me? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 08:30 AM PDT My friend lied about sexual harassment (even somewhat assault) and called me at 3 in the morning extremely upset. Of course I believed her but then a month later she told me that it never happened and she was just craving attention. I'm not upset because I can read people pretty well and I know that there's something more to this story. She never lies and I think maybe she needs support in some way. How can I do so? |
| Question: I need serious help? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 08:22 AM PDT My friend is in a long distance relationship with a guy 4 years older than us. He's a total dick to everybody and no matter how many times he cheats she forgives him. I tell her that she should let him go, he gets mad, we fight, and don't talk for a week. It happens every time. And, this guy is a hacker. He apparently snapped and threatened to hack me. He said he would hack my computer and download illegal things and get my parents thrown in jail. I was super scared so I started talking to my best friend's mom about it. I'm already dirt poor, I can't afford going to jail. I begged and begged and after a while he said he would give me one last chance. I feel like I'm in danger, like if I try to express my opinion he'll ruin my life. My best friend's mom is like my mom, and she said that if anything happens she'll contact this *****'s parents (his dad is in the military) and get him knocked straight, but still. I'm super scared. What should I do? Should I cut them off completely? I tried doing that and he got angry before. I don't have anything illegal on my computer, he's threatening to download them onto my computer. :) |
| Question: Should I just be done with them completely? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 07:39 AM PDT My 2 best friends & I were so close like sisters. We went to high school together & when high school ended we became even closer being that all 3 of us stayed in our town attending community college or just working. Ive never had a really close girl best friend & these two were it. We were always together having wine nights & watching grease, getting in trouble & getting the others out. Back in January I had a falling out with them, we went a few months with little talking but finally started making up. Unfortunately, they grew closer together than it seems all 3 of us ever did. They were hanging out without inviting me, posting about it, etc. Ive talked with them about it & they seemed genuinely sorry and apologized. Yet when we all got together for dinner almost 2 months ago, i just felt like things werent the same. I couldnt make jokes like before, i was forcing myself to laugh. But i kept trying & getting together with them & I felt like in times thing could be the same again. That dinner was the last time ive seen & talked to them both. They both always like my instagram pictures, but never actually talk to me. I dont know if they think I just walked out on them but i honestly kept trying so hard to do more with them & it seemed like i was always too late & they were already planning something together. I just felt like i was the only one reaching out to them. I know everyone says that youll grow apart from your high school friends. But what should I do? |
| Question: Did I do the wrong thing? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 06:35 AM PDT I was sick of being bullied all throughout middle school so when I joined high school I decided to do something about it. There was a new boy in our neighborhood that had autism, he was homeschooled because his parents knew if he attended public school he would get bullied incessantly. He was the perfect bullied victim, I came up with a plan, I craftily formed a fake friendship with him & convinced his mom to cancel his homeschooling. As he entered school, he indirectly shifted the target off of my back and plastered it onto himself. His parents cannot afford to get him back to the homeschooling program he was in, Thus he is forced to live a miserable high school life, and I am now spared from the abuse. I bragged to my mom about how easily manipulative I was and she called me a "dirty coward" for what I did and told me to defend that kid the first thing the next day or I would get grounded. I didn't do it, but I escaped punishment through a stroke of pure luck due to that boy telling my mom that I defended him, in hopes that I would be his friend again. However, I did not become friends with him and said it was nothing personal, but if I was I would get bullied too. Everything ended so peacefully for me. It has been four years since high school and I am in college, doing well. I googled the autistic boy and discovered he became a loser in life. He is now a criminal and he blames it all on the bullies. I am starting to feel a little bad about what I did, was it wrong? |
| Question: What's wrong with these people at my new school? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 06:13 AM PDT I've recently moved schools in my city, the reason for which - as Raekwon the Chef would describe - "Mom's bounced on old man... "So then we moved to Shaolin land." I like my new school in the south of the city - but all the kids keep addressing me as "my wigga". They would then address each as "n*ggas" - but when I addressed them like that they got all mad at me. What's their problem? Is there something I'm missing? I've been there for a week and haven't done anything to antagonize anyone. |
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| Question: I can't hide my discomfort anymore, advices? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 05:36 AM PDT I was a happy guy years ago but when I lost a girl I started to suffer a lot of unbearable pain deep inside me. I've always been good at hiding it but from a couple of years its getting more and more difficult, because I hate the western society without values that we actually live, today's people depress me for the most part. So trying to escape this situation I got isolated and I just feel bad and alone. I am also struggling with the desire to have a family because I know that at present I would not be able to handle the situation since I can not even handle myself, so it is a thought that adds pain instead of helping. Where do I start to feel a bit better ? I hope my English is understandable because I'm thinking in Italian and just translate it the more understandable I can. |
| Question: Urgent Friendship advice. 10 points.? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 05:18 AM PDT My friend recently told his sister to ask me to some dance and I agreed because he would also be there and another friend. Now both of them aren t going and I really feel like I don t want to go anymore (I m not very social) so it will be very awkward for me to go. The dance is this Friday and she needs a partner. Do you think I should really cancel (It s a 2 hour drive away) and if not how can I tell her that I m not coming anymore (I ll take some lies too). I m currently in Medical School so you can use that too. |
| Question: Why is my friend so stupid? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 05:13 AM PDT One of my close friends threw a trunk party and he feels a way about me not attending. The party happened yesterday and coming at me about not going to his party yesterday. He made a facebook post about the party on friday saying he is throwing a trunk party inbox him for the location and information. I inboxed him on friday asking him about the location, he didnt respond or text back, so I had no idea where the party was. How do I show up to a party if i dont know where its located. How are you going to get mad at me about something when you failed to follow up. I did my part in the situation, i tried to be there for him. I used facebook messenger and it said that he read the message. I dont understand people, then im always in the wrong. What is wrong with my friend? |
| Question: Why are some people nervous around others for no reason? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 05:09 AM PDT |
| Question: Why are millennials and anyone under 25 so narcissistic and evil? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 05:05 AM PDT They spend allll day looking down at a screen. No eye contact, one worded answers and their disrespectful to everyone. They take selfies every 2 mins. Each of them think their entitled to something and do evil things to each other or older adults. They film people dying and dont help them for more followers on twitter or Instagram. Their shallow as hell. When i was younger ppl engaged, we laughed, now its just like anyone under 25 even 30 now is just a slave to their phones |
| Posted: 14 Aug 2017 02:57 AM PDT I have a friend, she's a nice person, but she's so annoying, she always complains about being tired and having a headache when I tell her its because she's up all night watching anime stuff, then she disagrees and says that theres something really wrong with her but I'm trying to tell her to stop cos she doesn't know that I genuinely get debilitating migraines where part of my vision goes and I tend to faint a lot due to POTS. |
| Question: How can I get away from some SJW "friends" safely? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 02:23 AM PDT They always try to bully me into believing everything that they do and tell me that if I don't agree fully with the most liberal ideology that I'm transphobic, homophobic, sexist, racist, and a Nazi. I'm just really tired of it, but I don't know any good ways to get away from them without them labeling me and slandering me. I don't want to loose my job. |
| Question: What's wrong with these people at my new school? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 02:09 AM PDT I've recently moved schools in my city, the reason for which - as Raekwon the Chef would describe - "Mom's bounced on old man... "So then we moved to Shaolin land." I like my new school in the south of the city - but all the kids keep addressing me as "my wigga". They would then address each as "n*ggas" - but when I addressed them like that they got all mad at me. What's their problem? Is there something I'm missing? I've been there for a week and haven't done anything to antagonize anyone. |
| Question: How do I make friends outside of school? Posted: 14 Aug 2017 12:04 AM PDT I'm going to be a sophomore (girl) in high school and I really want to make more friends. My school is basically all hoes, and of course they're all popular. I'm in a clique with no hoes some medium popular some not like me. I'm good one on one with people or at least I used to be but this year depression and social anxiety hit me really hard. It's not that I hate my group of friends but there not the type of friends I can hang out with. And if we do it's never together they're not "hey wanna go to this party?" Type there more "I don't understand parties we're only in high school we're too young for that." I guess they're naive is what I'm trying to say. But it's become extremely boring this year, this summer, I need new friends but I can't switch cliques at school, besides I don't like most of those people anyway. I have a few friends outside my clique and one of them is popular but surprisingly like the nicest person ever. I mean she was nice enough to talk to an extremely awkward person like me. I noticed on her instagram a few times she posted a picture with this super popular girl everyone's heard of from a different school. I asked her how they met and she said they commented on each other's pics, then dmed which turned into face timing then one day just met. I really want that and noticed other popular people do it too but it's usually only ever to other popular people. So how do I do this?? Change this? Make new friends?!!! |
| Question: Are there any real single women here? Posted: 13 Aug 2017 11:16 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it fine for a 15 year old to be friends with a 20 year old? Posted: 13 Aug 2017 10:34 PM PDT I'm 15 and I've been hanging out alot with an older girl... school starts later in Canada so I have lots of time. We've been friends for years too, and she's a really sweet person. I like how she's so outgoing and cool. Also no, I'm not a male. I know some people assume you are dating/or the opposite sex whenever you bring up a friend :/ |
| Question: Are you a sensitive person? Why can people be overly sensitive sometimes at little things? Posted: 13 Aug 2017 10:33 PM PDT So I think everyone can be sensitive but there is a way to overcome that. I used to be a sensitive person. Like lets say if someone says something about how I do things at work I will ignore it. If someone insults me I will ignore it. Its always these people that have issues with themselves. These people have judgment problems if they have something to say about you at work, school, in front of friends. I have a friend that is a overly sensitive person. When he drinks he is really a selfish person and not good to be around. We just made up after 6 months of not talking to eachother. Hes one of them friends you can have to where its just once in a while type of friend. Not all the time type of friends. There is friends I can deal with all the time and some I can't. |
| Question: My brother's friend blocked me on snapchat? Posted: 13 Aug 2017 10:10 PM PDT My brother friend blocked me on snapchat so i went on a second snapchat to ask him why he block me but he just left me on read. |
| Question: What does this phrase mean? Posted: 13 Aug 2017 10:08 PM PDT "That's what she said!". Even though nobody really said anything, or only two people are talking and one person refers "she" as the conversation partner. For example, I saw one girl stand up for another girl who was being teased on social media. The girl being teased just replied with, "thats what she said! <3" |
| Question: "Friends" always bring up events that I'm not invited to whenever we hang out? Posted: 13 Aug 2017 09:55 PM PDT I brought some of my "friends" to my new apartment a few days ago, and they kept having private conversations with each other talking about their mutual friends and upcoming events they have planned. It got annoying how they were both talking about people they were going to visit, places they were going to travel, concerts they were going to see, etc. and just shutting me completely out of the conversation. Sometimes I would say something like "maybe I can go to that too" and they would both totally ignore me or change the subject to avoid responding. They were basically doing this the entire night, having these private conversations with each other when I'm standing 3 feet away talking about things I'm not invited to while they are in MY apartment. They never even thanked me once for letting them both stay the night...they just treated the place like it was their own personal kingdom. It makes me feel like a chump doing nice things for them while they both go out and have fun without me. Should I bring this up next time I see them? |
| Question: Would Anyone Be Upset If Their Friend Did This To Them? Posted: 13 Aug 2017 09:09 PM PDT Okay So Here's What Happened, me and my friend planned 2 days ago to go to the gym and grab some StarBucks After The Gym At first my Friend was all up for going since her day off is tomorrow then she told me that she is probably going to work which I totally understand but usually even when she works she would go to the gym with me and Starbucks also this isn't the first time she does this to me that's why I got upset especially because we had this planned for a couple of days Would anyone be upset if their friends did this to them? I just need other peoples opinion on this |
| Posted: 13 Aug 2017 08:53 PM PDT I m a 13-year-old female, and I tend to feel lonely, even though I have a good amount of friends and loving parents. Most of the time I feel okay, but sometimes I feel isolated, even though I have friends. And not fake, we re-automatically-friends-because-we-like-the-same-lip-gloss friends, but actual friends who are really good. One of my friends, who was a really good and close friend, hasn t talked to me since around the end of the school year and all summer. I had expressed my willingness to spend time with her, but she doesn t respond. I don t text her, because I used to text her a lot, but that probably made everything worse. A few weeks ago, I was letting my other friend use my phone. She was trying to text her and I found out she had blocked my number. I tried talking to her again a few times, but it hasn t worked. I assume she hasn t unblocked my number. I look at some of my other relationships, and I feel like I never bear any relevance in anyone s life. It seems like we re perfectly fine. Then, out of nowhere, they slip away, hang out with someone with someone else, and when I try to talk to them I feel like they re thinking "why are you here?" It just seems like I never make any significance in anyone s life, where they actually want to be friends with me for more than a little while. I feel like, at this rate, everyone who isn t my immediate family will leave, until eventually I have no friends, and I commit suicide or die of some other circumstance. I ll most likely lead a lonely life for decades, until I die of old age and go back to dust, and no one will care more than anyone already did when I was born into this world. |
| Question: My brother's friend blocked me on snapchat? Posted: 13 Aug 2017 08:48 PM PDT My brother friend blocked me but I didn't do anything because I don't really talk to him that much but I'm wondering how come he blocked me |
| Question: Lately I've been really lonely? Posted: 13 Aug 2017 08:46 PM PDT It may be because I want a girlfriend, it might be because my concussion that I haven't gone to the doctors for has scrambled my brain. All I know is that everyday it gets worse, I don't tell my mom because when I have she acted like she didn't believe me, I don't tell my friends because I'm always the happy on and the'd just think I'm joking, plus everybody has issues so why should mine be more important than somebody else's? That's why I don't tell people, I'm just tired of being alone and feeling alone, my relationships with everyone around me are getting worse, it's the first week of school and I've already lost a friend because of his lies and I just told the truth and he's mad because a girl found out he called her his backup, I just can't stand getting worse everyday and having to fake it because I know nobody will care, please tell me someone does. |
| Question: Nervous about going to see a friend? Posted: 13 Aug 2017 08:38 PM PDT So Im going to see a friend in 2 weeks and will be staying in his on campus house with some of his roommates for 5 days out of state. Never met any of them and have never met my buddy in real life. We have been friends for 9 years now started talking on xbox and are friends on Facebook snapchat all that stuff. Just don t know how they will react plus I m not able to bring much money with me either for food ect.. |
| Posted: 13 Aug 2017 08:36 PM PDT The showers don't have curtains and he refuses to shower there, but the gym doesn't open until Friday (today is Sunday). His roommate makes him feel incredibly unwelcome too- "big man on campus" type who is a giant asshole to my brother. He took an uber to McDonalds just to get away because he feels like no one likes him and he doesn't want to be there. What should he do? |
| Question: My anxiety is taking over my life... How do I stop it? Posted: 13 Aug 2017 08:31 PM PDT I have so many insecurities but I have to pretend like there's nothing wrong so I don't have to go through the awkward experience of someone trying to help me... The thing is I obviously need the help. I may be young, but that doesn't mean I'm not a complete emotional wreck. I feel like this may be perceived as off-subject by some, but believe me, it has everything to do with this: A few months ago, I hooked up with someone whom I really shouldn't have. I was 14 and he was 17, and it was incredibly awkward. Then we did it again, and again, eventually leading up to 6 times. Also, something you should know, we're in the same section in our school's marching band, meaning me have to spend several hours a day near each other, with like 3 other people accompanying us. Point is, it's awkward because the only time we ever actually talk to each other is through texting. ANYWAY, he always belittles me and mocks me, and I'm too awkward to say anything that doesn't sound dumb, which kills me inside. Whenever I see him in the hallway, my heart skips a beat... No, it feels more like it gets punched whenever i see him. Either way, it's anxiety in its purest, most horrible form. Then everyone else in my school, whenever i pass anyone, I always assume they're judging me or thinking I'm poor or ugly or some other bad quality that no one wants. What do I do?? I'm barely a sophomore, how do I deal with this for the rest of my high school career??? |
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