My ex is a guy who just doesn't want to deal with relationships but wanted to have all the nice things and no responsibility. What I don't get though is he just likes to be alone. He doesn't sleep around and likes his own space, but he gets lonely, just can't deal with commitment. He wants to have a no strings relationship with one girl. But what girl wants that forever? Can you really be happy like that? He's in his 30s. He still wants to see me, but he doesn't want what I want.

So she used to be my baby sitter and I guess I've always had a thing for her but it peaked once I became a teenager. I'm almost 18 and she's 37 but I really want her to give me a chance. I think she's gorgeous. I love her curves and Latina accent. I remember having my arm around her waist and her telling me she liked it. I'm sure she's caught me checking her out a few times but she's hard to resist. I don't mean to sound misogynistic but I just want a shot. I went to her apartment last month and we took a picture of me kissing her on the cheek and she's got this big smile she said I should kiss her which is why I did it. We also went to the beach and I was awestruck when I saw her in a one piece. I'm not sure how to go about getting more physical with her

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I'm 35, I live away from my parents (in another country), and I'm getting married soon. Once we had all the final details about the venue, I e-mailed it to my parents. It's been 3 days and still, no answer from them, no comment, nothing. I know that they are home and they saw the e-mail. It's not the first time they act like that and it really hurts. What would you do if you were in my position?

She is bed ridden and needs someone to get her mail, I've been doing it for a few weeks and now she is threatening to sue me for getting her mail because I won't give her the mail addressed to my brother as well. Can she actually do that, should I just let her mail sit in the box until it gets full, or should I just disregard every threat and just continue getting her mail for her?

Ok, I went to the hospital because of an accident that happened at work. I was taken by ambulance because we didnt know how bad my injuries were. In the ambulance the girl that put the needle in my arm did something wrong cause she and in got sprayed with my blood, they cleaned most of the blood up. This girl that is only my friend and I really don't know real well comes to visit me at the hospital. She sees all the dirt and blood on my arms and she started to clean me up out of nowhere. Does that mean that she likes me or was she being extremely nice to me??

Is it okay for an 19 year old to still act like a little girl. As acting like a little girl I mean like being shy, wearing teddy bear pajamas, and to still think she's a teenager, and act immature?

My fiancé has had no job, refuses to care for our children and is emotionally abusive to the older one for the last 2 years. I work 12 hour shifts, clean the house,and take care of the children. Our oldest is technically not my biological daughter. I have raised her since she was an infant and I'm the only mother she has ever known. The last few months he has started getting angry over ever little thing I do. Screams at us, throws things, and gets very violent with me. Finally a few days ago I left with the kids. They were terrified. The eldest had locked herself into her room because she was scared of him. I got police involved and they called cps. Cps stated that he was not allowed to be around the girls unless it was supervised. Made him sign power of attorney of our eldest over to me. Now hes Doing everything cps asks, went and got a job, enrolled in counseling and parenting classes, and is going to get put in medication. But he is still contacting me at least twice a day screaming and being aggressive. He found out I started talking to this other guy yesterday and lost his ****. Now he is threatening to take our eldest daughter. Saying she is not mine And that he's going to make her go live with her grandmother because I am a horrible parent and ruining our family. Keeps saying that I need to be there for him and help him though all of this if he is going to get batter. I need someone else's opinion on this. Am I a horrible mother for making him leave?

You only knew the person for a month.. can they possibly really mean hmu.. or is it like a polite salutation.. or should you take it by there word?

You should work and study while your young. You can travel when your old and retire.

Why?

Like age difference between the father and mother, what's the biggest age gap you've seen?

I recently found out my boyfirned cheated. We decided to work through it but basically I found out he has lied to his friends and parents about why we have had a hard month. He has told them I was annoyed because he spent too much time at work and going out. While I don t expect him to tell his parents he cheated, I don t beleive it is fair that his parents think I nearly kicked him out because of the reason he told them - and now I believe they think I am an unreasonable person and dislike me. What do I do?

My neighbor next door is a man in his 30's and I am 19. I saw him at the mail box the other week and he had called out to me that my mail was in his box. Now it happens at least once a week. He knocks on my door trying to give me my mail that was in his box.. or so he says. He chats with me and eyeballs around my living room like he wants me to invite him inside! My parents are never home due to work and he is married with a small child!!! He complements my clothes a lot and I'm starting to get weirded out!! Cant hide bc my car is in the yard and I have tried to get the mail before him but it's not always the same time... Help?

There has to be a deeper meaning to this because nobody would do anything for someone else just to prove they "loved" them.

people always want me to talk but im too shy to ever speak, people always say im beautiful but i dont know how to keep them interested because im too shy to speak, help?

I had a teacher who claimed she cared about me, but ever since she found out that my friends are going through things too (and they re not necessarily worse) she s seemed to have only focused on them. I feel like she doesn t care anymore, and it s making things worse. After this year I ll probably never see her again unless I visit her after school (I m going to a different school). I ve been ignoring her lately, should I just cut her off completely? Keep in mind she told me her room was my safe space and then kicks me out for being in there "too often." I haven t made eye contact in several days, but it feels like forever. Sometimes I think she s looking at me, but I don t know if she cares? Although I don t have her, my schedule makes it difficult to avoid seeing her because I pass her on the way to every class. Sorry for the lengthy question, any help would be appreciated!

Or do they have some preconceived notion about being friendly? Do they hope to gain something?

So this is how the story goes, I'm an only child and I was raised by a single dad almost all my life, I'm 16 years old and my dad is the type to seem to not care to at least sit down with me and give me advice when I need it, these past 5 years I've seen him bouncing from woman to woman and it really bothers me because not only do the women he's with think that he's some loyal "man" but also because it seems as if he cares about seeking women a lot more than to be a father. Just because he's raised me on his own doesn't mean that he's been the dad that I truly wish he can be, like sit down with me and talk about things when I need him or answer any question I have and not say "oh you know that I don't like stupid questions" or "take that out of your head" or " forget about that". It's like he's more of a man then a father, and the funny thing is that he gets mad when I say that I just wish I can grow up already so I can have something or get myself something that I never had and I just think to myself, how do you expect me to feel comfortable after all the things I go through with you?. I've explained to him how I feel but it's like he doesn't try to understand at least what bothers me. It's like no matter how many times I explain to him how I feel, he doesn't care to understand. And I feel like the only one I feel comfortable talking about this to is GOD. I feel like all of this has had a psychological affect on me 😒😒

Grab my brother/male cousin's arm and hug him if I see a scary scene in a movie? I'm an adult female but if I get scared, and my brother/male cousin is with me, I naturally grab his arm and hug him if I see a scary scene in a movie. Does this make me a pervert?

It happened when I was little maybe 15 years ago (I'm 20 now) and yet it still haunts me everyday of my life. I feel like to be touched is weird, and to even enjoy someone's touch is wrong. I have made it to where I will detach myself of feeling anything when it comes to intimacy or closeness, and that gets in the way of relationships for me personally. Being with a guy just makes me uncomfortable. I don't know how to get over this feeling ...