I just don't understand how this works lol. I am 23 male and haven't had a girlfriend before, I have had friends tell me this and other people, it just doesnt make sense to me, someone explain? Ill appreciate your answers.

Since 7th grade making friends and keeping friends have always been an issue. I'm not shy nor am I too out going or excessive but idk I act normal and I kinda have a speech problem where I talk and don't make sense but it can get excessive. Anyway so many people have walked in my life then left and not many people at my school try to associate with me. I'm not completely lonely but I constantly feel it. I have gone through so many people and fake friends that I don't even know what a true friend is. I'm tired.

My friend who isn't my best friend any longer texts me out of the blue. I told her after a while, that it just really made no sense why she'd act like we didn't argue or even want to talk about it. And I mean, she ignored me throughout the entire time and then sometimes acted like we were cool. She sais it would see rude if she didn't, so I got pissed. But i told her she didn't have to text and thanks and I haven't replied since. How should I act around her? I don't hate her, but that was the final straw for us to ever be close again. I would like to show that I'm not interested, but don't hold grudges. What should I do, and should I respond?

Ok, i get it. Why wouldn't she just say husband just got home gotta go?! Idk?!

everyone in my friend group does it and though they re not forcing me to do it I just feel left out. My sister says I should find different friends

My friend who is no longer my best friend since an arguement a couple of months ago, decided to text me randomly. I like talking to her, but honestly hate us talking about **** that we really don't care about. I don't like conversing if it is always going to be like we're just starting over - and forget what we fought about. I would like to talk to her about it, so we can clear things.. but I feel like it's just pointless.

So I work at the post office and every morning this fat *** woman comes around pushing a cart with accountable mail we have to sign for. She legit always has something smart to say and I try my best to keep the convos quick and say little. Well today I signed for my mail and then put the pen down on what I signed and started to walk away and she just stood there and stared at me and was like um excuse me I handed u the pen I expect u to hand it back. I was so close from telling her to fuxk off. Like I'm at my case working hard and her fat asa is gonna be petty cuz I set a pen down on the paper I signed. Was she wrong or am I ?

for the past 5 1/2 yrs since i moved here i cant so much as have a cup of coffee with anyone. I do have this friend ive known for yrs before i moved here when i was working in the resorts and i get to see her once in a while but she lives 45 minutes away so shes not in the same town. I go to church and stuff but after a while you get tired of people never inviting you anywheres. im used to visiting people in their homes and going out with them but where i live that seems impossible. I dont have a job so its not like i can see people at work, I thought of something like the big sister program but i think you need to work before they let you do that. thought of visiting people in nursing homes but i heard where i live you cant do that, thought of volunteering where im meeting those kinds of needs and getting my own needs met at the same time. any suggestions? Im tired of living like this to be honest. I live in an apt building and not even my neighbors will ever knock on my door to ask me to go anywheres with them, theyve ignored me on birthdays, christmas, etc., I feel like a loner but not by choice and wondered how i can turn that around. im short so ive wondered if people were discriminating since i lost a job one time when i was handing out samples in stores and this lady came to train me and when she saw how short i was mustve told the company, she was telling me how i couldnt reach stuff, then the company canned me. not even guys will date me. any suggestion

I'm going to be a new bus rider and I'm worried about all the kids and bullies on there. I don't know if any of my friends are going on the same bus as me(I doubt it) and I'm not good at making friends because I'm really really shy. Any tips for the bus,friends,and more in middle school please??

She always say that we're bbf, and tell people that I'm her bbf. I don't actually see her as my bbf.. we have different personalities, we got into alot of fights because she can't control her self around people and could be rude and kinda jealous and it clearly shows on her. and she always play the victim, and Its something I really hate about her. I'm not saying I'm perfect but we don't match. Anyways, I didn't care in the past years when she was telling people that I'm her bbf until today, something happened and it really bothered me, so I told her that I'm not in the mood to talk now. but then she started whining and saying how bbfs should tell each other stuff and blah blah, and I got really pissed.. I didn't reply to her whatsApp yet, because I don't want us to fight, but she really pisses me off with her playing the victim when its non off her business .. How can I tell her in a good way that I don't consider her my bbf without hurting her feelings? PS: I already have my own best friend we have similar personalities, and we tell each others everything.

so what happened today is that me and my friend were going to hang out, i gave him my number and we planned to meet at family dollar. my mom drove me there and we waited for 20 minutes, no phone call, no nothing. So we left and when i went home, to check on instagram to see what was going on and it turns out he blocked me on instagram and he basically wasted my time. Im really mad right now and what should i do?

Me and these two girls got in trouble. Both of them had to speak to the principal but I didn't. The principal needed to know who I was but the two girls didn't rat me out. Since they didn't rat me out they got a lot of punishment. Should I confess I was with them or just keep quiet and thank them?

Where I work my boss is in his 50s and his wife Sue, is in her 20s, my age. It is known through out the company that my boss is very jealous of his wife around other men. We try to avoid her as much as we can. I have had a few brief conversations with her and she seems to be a nice person. One day Sue ask me if I could drive her home as her husband had to work late. I told her I would if it was OK with her husband my boss. I did not want to get in trouble with my boss for being around his wife. She said my husband does not control what I do. If he objects to you driving me home, I will cut him off from sex for a month. OH CRAP. I am in a lose lose situation. If my boss is mad at me for driving his wife home and is cut off from sex for a month, goodbye my job. If I refuse to drive her home she and possibly my boss will be mad at me and goodbye job. After some thought I decided to drive her home. When I got home, I started updating my resume. The next morning my boss called me into his office. He thanked me for driving his wife home. He said she had a great meal waiting for him when he got home. Did I dodge a bullet by doing what I did? The LAST thing I want to do is become her friend. Do you think I was worried for no reason?

I have a friend whom I kinda have a crush on. I've hung out with him a lot mostly at work when we used to work together before he moved like an hour away. Last Sunday we actually hung out outside of work because we coincidentally visited the same city. I got to meet some of his family. I never met his mom though, but for some reason I received a notification from fb saying I got a like from him and his mother. Which was weird because I've never met her and we're not friends on Facebook. Anyone experienced this?

I've known this guy since I was 11 and he was about 13. He's been my brother's friend since middle school, that's how I met him. He was my first big crush. We became friends ourselves back in October. In January, my feelings resurfaced and I confessed to him and he said he was getting over a bad break up and he just wanted to be friends. Somehow, we agreed to have sex. Since March, we've had sex 3 times and there were 2 months between the 2nd and 3rd time and the last time was almost 3 months ago. He gets so weird about me drinking at all because he's convinced I am going to get drunk and have sex with somebody else. I told him a couple of days ago that I had been drinking a little when I messaged him and he said he hoped I didn't sleep with anybody the night before because he'd be jealous. I asked him why he'd be jealous. He asked what my overall feelings for him are. I asked him what his were. He said he doesn't know how many times he has to tell me that we're just friends and that he doesn't want to hurt my feelings. I told him I have a date tomorrow night (which I do) and that I lost feelings for him a while ago, that I will always be around in case he comes to his senses, but I want to be just friends and I am moving on. I also told him he can't be jealous over the idea of me having sex with somebody else (not that I am going to sleep with this guy tomorrow) because A. he isn't sleeping with me and B. he doesn't want to even be with me. I told him he can't have it both ways. His response was "Ugh :( " and I asked what's wrong. He said "I feel like such an a**hole, but I'm okay with you being happy. I want you to be." I told him I want him to be happy too, whatever that means and that it's going to be okay and he said "K". I'm 26, he's 28. What's wrong with him? Excuse me Anonymous, but maybe you should get your facts straight before you run your piehole. I am not a skank. He's the first guy I have ever had sex with that I wasn't in a relationship and that's only because I've had a soft spot for him since I was 11. Also, his mom is deceased. I am a very respectable young woman who wants an actual RELATIONSHIP from him, but all he wants to do is use me for sex so I am walking away. HE is the one playing mind games, you dumbass. k w-It's either that or waste more of my time chasing after a guy who doesn't want to actually be in a relationship with me. I'm moving on, how do I have "issues"?

I like to drink on weekends and I had to cut some old friends out of my life because they were mean drunks. Most of the time we would argue. They would say mean things and I'm just thinking. Why should I hang out with them if we can't have a good time. When I drink I don't like to fight. I can be chill and mellow. I'm more social when I drink but i'm never mean.

She was at my house and took a kalimba of mine (it's a musical instrument). She asked me if she could borrow it for the night and I didn't think anything of it, so I agreed. I didn't know her too well so I didn't assume this would happen, but a few days later, I realized it was missing. When I confronted her, she claimed she had given it to a friend, who then broke it. I believed her, but still wanted her to pay for another one. This never happened. A few months later, she posted a picture of it on snapchat, where my friend saw it and asked her about it. She said her teacher had fixed it a week ago. They got into a fight on there, so we went over to her house. We rang the doorbell, waited, rang again, and waited, when we heard what we are pretty sure was her voice inside. After ringing once more, her dad answered and we told him she had something of mine and we wanted it back. He told us she was out of town, so we left. I texted her a few days later, asking for it back. She told me she was on her way to New York for vacation and that it helps her with her depression and PTSD. I said I still needed the kalimba back but she didn't respond. Later on, she blocked me. It pisses me off that she would take my kalimba and then use her mental illnesses to justify it. I don't really know what to do at this point. I am hoping to solve this without getting the police involved, but I am willing to go that far. Any advise is appreciated.

My friend is a little overweight and has always been body conscious. Another friend of mine said that my body conscious friend told her she didn't want to go swimming with me if my bf was going to be around because she doesn't want him to see her in a swimsuit. She I be worried? We go to a public pool and doesn't mind if strangers are there and she knows my boyfriend well enough so I don't understand why she feels embarrassed to wear a swimsuit around only him. Am I overreacting or should I be concerned?

At the end of May, me and my best friend had a terrible falling out. He had caught me in a lie that had lasted nearly 2 years. The lie was over a relationship. Anyway, things got bad and he told me either we don't talk as much and not be as good of friends we were or the friendship completely ends. I didn't take this well but after a week I decided to end the friendship. Ultimately I felt bad that I lied and pretty hurt that he didn't want to work things and didn't want to be my best friend anymore. I'm pretty alone right now. He's a good guy and I get that I'm at fault for destroying the friendship. But now with school about to start up, I would like to reach out to him and possibly see if I could salvage at least to some extent the friendship we had. I know it won't be the same and that he won't trust me but I'm willing to try to fix things. I'll admit i have a problem with lying but only because my life is uneventful and I'm not an overly social person. That's why I lie. It keeps me at least a little bit happy when I create in my head a fantasy like a relationship. Anyway, is it possible I could have a chance at salvaging this friendship? If so how might I go about doing it? It's been just over two months since we stopped being friends.

My friend is going through a rough time emotionally and I don t know what to do to help him, but I want to do something! I don t know what I should do that would be best for him. Do I encourage him to talk about what he s feeling, or let him work through it on his own? Do I give him space or do something with him? I don t know if it helps, but I think he s either an ISFJ or an INFJ.

I couldn't tell if she was serious or not. She just got done telling me how this monster tore up her house and kicked her and her cat. She doesn't go out much and I'm the only male friend she has to hang out with but with that said, I'm not stupid either. It bothered me that she would even suggest this. It shows me that she really doesn't have much respect for me to even suggest a thing. Should I let it go or slowly back away from this friendship, knowing she is probably looking for some action?

I am about to be a junior at my school and I just got my off-campus lunch pass. However, I only have my permit so I wouldn't be able to drive myself off campus. I was hoping that I would have the same lunch period as my friend who can drive, but we don t. To make matters worse, of all of my friends who I've asked so far, no one seems to have the same lunch period as me. I am afraid that I won t be able to find people to sit with at lunch. What should I do?

My best friend is really close friends with my much hated ex. She doesn't know I hate her - she thinks I broke up with her because I felt too young. However, I actually broke up with her because I was desperately unhappy. I felt like I had to constantly be happy for my ex, and even when I tried my hardest to make everything perfect, she would find something to get upset about or complain about. My best friend doesn't know this. Ever since we broke up I have been forced to hang out with my ex. I am completely ignored when they are together and I feel like I am being pushed away from my friendship group. My only other school friend is moving schools so I will be completely alone. I don't know what to do. Everyone at school thinks I'm weird and annoying. I don't know how to make any other friends. I feel so alone. I don't know how to tell my best friend this. I hate my ex but I can't say that - I try to be nice. My ex is horrible to me and my best friend always takes her side. Please help me.

He was drinking last night and now his car isn't in his driveway. He's not answering any calls or texts. I'm someone who worries so badly, I can't handle this. I'm such a mess. I need to talk to him now. We were supposed to hang out now. Where is he, I'm dying inside. I need to know. Please God, make sure he's okay.

I texted a friend asking for some stuff a I need from her which I am paying for. My text "Hey girl do you have the stuff?" And she got upset stating "HOw about you ask how I am doing? or how is my job situation going? You just ask for the stuff. I have not responded because last time I did I went off on her. I have gotten into 3 argument with this girl, honestly I don't know what to tell her or even if I should. I really want the stuff she has which I am suppose to pay half of but at this point I really don't want to even see her.

When i was younger my family and i moved to another country to fix financial problems. I got along well but some issues happened at school that left me with a not very good reputation and rumors flew around (at 5th grade). i had this girl at class who was from my hometown, in two years she returned back to her country. Then this year my family is financially stable and were back, i got signed up for school and found out we're going to be at the same highschool, im afraid she's going to tell the kids about it and spread rumors.I would think 3 years would let her forget, but im really nervous especially that i want to start over fresh. Should i worry? And if anything happened how should i deal with it ?

I have had the same group of friends for years but I'm just ******* sick of them now. It is the middle of summer and I have not done anything but work twice a week and stay home all day. All they do is sit around smoking pot and playing video games all day. I have one friend who isn't like this but he always blows me off to hang out with girls that friend zone him. Before you even say anything I do have a girlfriend but I can't even hang out with her until the end of the summer since she's away right now. I want to find new friends but I don't know how to. I'm never invited to parties and I'm not too close to people outside my group of friends. I'm just sick of not doing ****.

I dont want to be rude to anyone but I got reasons not to accept her request. I gave her a chance to become a friend of mine (that's all) The story: I met her three years ago, she was very interesting at that time. We talked and after a few days l messaged her on facebook that I wanted to learn to know her better. She accepted my request and was very talkative. I think after a while (6 months) she would see my message and complete ignore me. I stopped messaging her and continued my life... Later her birthday came up and I wrote on her wall "happy birthday". She answered everyone's message but completely ignored mine. A good friend of mine told me that's very disrespectfull of her. Now she added me on instagram. I know she only added a new people. But why would she add me? Does she want to find out if im a stalker? Should I ignore her too (revenge)?

I know 2 cops. One is a guy and the other one is a woman and they both got married. They have both grew up with me and been close friends since I was a kid and we always hung out together and in fact, both me and my guy friend would always share the girl too but now unfortunately my guy friend and the girl who I hung out with, they are both married and are both police officers. I am kind of jealous too because they never allow me to sleep in bed with them anymore if I sleep over and force me to sleep on the guest bed or the couch. Also, they will not allow me to help them investigate a crime scene and seem to have more authority over me now and I don't think that's fair! Do my 2 close friends have a right to not allow me to do special privileges with them anymore and to leave me out these days? In fact, they won't even let me take a look at their gun or hold it and treat me like I am everyone else and like they don't know me anymore or make exceptions. Even though I am not a cop and that my 2 friends are married, they leave me out and I don't think they are right to not include me in on things. In fact, do you think they should let me break the rules or law or even let me sleep with them?

How do I stop being jealous of someone? When someone I love is taking to other people besides me, I get jealous. No, I don't have other people to talk to besides that one person. No, meeting people is out of the question.

i mean how to not be so hard to be understanded. so people can understand you easily. my story is people take too long to understand me and talk freely.

I have had this best friend for a while (going onto 13 years). Lately, I've been feeling really angry towards this individual. For one, my other friend told me they had a job opening that I should apply, in a group chat with said 'best friend.' So I go in for an interview and so did my other friend. He gets the job on the spot and the manager told me 'they'd call me back and see.' Which I'm a little angry at him, because he knew I really wanted this job. Which, he was hired over me because he doesn't do any extra curricular activies, because he is basically anti-social. Which I was pretty pissed about. But, I mean, life is a competitive sport. Another thing, my grandma had fallen and broken her hip. I was clearly upset, but he said 'lame,' 'she's stoopid to be falling n ****.' Yes, he said stoopid. Ironically. My other grandma recently got in a car accident where the hood of her car flew up and smashed her windshield. When I told him, all he said was 'yikes.' I buy him dinners, which he never says thank you. He can be rude to me, and try to bring me down. He tells me I'm a dumbass and calls me stupid (he's going to be a super senior). Even though he has all D's and F's, while I remain an A, B student. He's transgender, and I've been going beyond lengths to be there for him. I just feel like the friendship is one-sided. So I felt very hurt he did that. I feel sick for wanting to end something for so long, but I'm tired of being beat down by him. What should I do?

And I still have no friends ,my best friends are in diffrenrt school and were too far away from each other ,during lunch I'm all alone ,eating by myself and its so awkward ,I feel so uncomfortable,,,while the other hs students are talking and hanging out,,,I consider myself as anxious introvert ,,,how do I beat these anxieties and what should I do

This is mostly to just vent but if love to hear your guys stories too. My mom is super strict , she never lets us do anything by ourselves ... okay, I m 20. I m old. My mother still controls me. (Can t move out till I save enough, also terrified of driving ) like literally , I ve never gone on a date with my bf without having to bring her or my sisters along, never even allowed too walk around my block alone . That s how messed up it is. Never done anything my self. No independence, therefore While I m at work (DD) Well actually , I don t work , but I said I do, so I plan to get dropped off and then after 15 minutes leave with my bf to spend the day, have a real date you know ? But I m so nervous , I guess it s been ingrained in me to be afraid of doing anything against what my mom says. I m actually very very nervous and scared she ll show up to my work and see I m not there. Something she d probably do anyways. But I wnat to go throu with this and have done Never done anything ANYTHING like this before , for obvious reason So I feel like I m about to have a panic attack I don t want to ruin our time out just being worried and being a nervous wreck Any tips/ stories similar ?? It d really help

It was a pic of her, her husband, and 2 children

Ok so me and this group of boys and 2 girls used to be like best friends, we used to text each other ALL the time, but then a fight started... then we started to drift away, but there was this one boy... he was like my best friend I didn't want to lose him.. but I did he thought that I was talking about him behind his back which I wasn't, and he left me... it's been about 4 weeks since I've last talked to him and i saw his Instagram story on a different account I made // (it's a fan page for a youtuber btw lol) and he's really depressed, so I dm'd him saying that I'm always gonna be here for you.. he doesn't know that it's me and I'm scared that he will get mad at me. :( I just wanna be friends with him again and the boys they were super funny and I miss all the jokes we made, I really do.. they made me happy. :(

I have had this friend since I was in 6th grade and 12 years old. I am now a senior in college and 22 years old. My friend is a person my same age however he has absolutely no aspirations in life. He dropped out of high school and hasn't found a job in the three years he's been out. This leads to me buying his way to things and even buying him food when we hang out. He is very pessimistic and negative all the time and quite cynical when questioned about aspects of life. He even brings me down a lot when I mention my accomplishments or something that is going good in my life. I've tried to help him on numerous occasions to get his life back on track, but he simply isn't interested in it. He always says "I'll cross that bridge when I get to it." He's at it; he's been at it for years now and hasn't even taken a step. He's also extremely rude and vulgar, claiming that he doesn't care what people think about him and he cusses in public frequently while also dressing scummy and rarely takes showers. He regularly insults me despite all the nice things I do for him and is extremely hesitant to help me with anything. Despite all of this, I care a lot about my friend. I really really want to help him but he won't accept it. I always just find myself constantly frustrated with him and I feel like his bad behavior is effecting me in a negative way. So I just want an answer to these questions: Is my friendship toxic, and should I end it?

i'd like to be an american friend, but them don't wanna talk to me cause im brazilian

I have this "friend" she is a quite close "friend" actually and my parents know her parents. I am actually a really good student, I study a lot and get straight As. The thing is that my friend's mother always compares me (as in academic achievements as well as in other things) with her daughter - my friend - and so my friend gets jealous of me. So she always tells me mean things such as that I'm useless, that I'm not as good as her, that I'm in fact no good at all and that I'm insecure and basically generally useless. She always says these things but I never answer back. Maybe she knows that I won't answer back and shout at her so she does that more as she knows I'm not gonna stop being her friend when she says such mean things about me. The thing is she is really hurting me. Like one time she really failed an English exam and got an F she came to me that I got an A and asked me "can I tell my parents that you also failed the exam so that they won't start bugging me about it?" Even though I didn't fail it and got an A but she wanted to lie to her parents so that they wouldn't compare her to me again. I mean I know her parents shouldn't compare her to me. It is definitely wrong to compare your child with others but I didn't do anything to get all that hate from her. I'm honestly really hurt. She really tells me really mean things. Can you help me? Advise me? Thank you! I really appreciate taking your time to answer this!

They basically ignore me, don't ever reach out to me. But I notice they copy a lot of the things I do... they try to constantly one up me. Why are they so horrible to me?

I m 14 and I m my school I m in a group of 5 friends and today I noticed that friend A was doing friends B s streaks but that kind of hurt me because I thought I was B s best friend. And in school sometimes the four of them go off together and kind of leave me out but when I ask them they say "Of course you are our friend!" But I just feel like they don t like me. I don t really have many other friends because I m really shy and nervous. Any tips on getting them to like me or to know if the actually don t like me? Plz I really need help

Like they bully to to much. But my friend was over and I forgot to close chrome and my Google account to name was displayed at the top right. When he was it he asked "Your a furry. Do you just walk around in animal coustumes?" Which I responded with "Nope". He responded with "oh". But he has a tendency of not keeping that kind of stuff private because he can not think right because of some disability. Which his doctor is trying to help him fix it. He did not seem to mind I am a furry tho. Sorry if there is any typos I am on phone rn He is so far the only one who knows I am a furry.

The person who works with me and joined some months after I joined the company became my manager. His education and experience is far less than me. He has great skills to make friendship with anyone. He used this skill to make friendship with top management and became manager. Our management is big fool. They don't realize who is doing what in the department. Because I am more skillful than him, he doesn't like me. He does all sort of things against me - stop my promotion, salary increments etc. Most of the time I am thinking about this. This person is so confident now that he thinks that no one can do anything against him, he started dealing illegally with vendors. Making commission with every deal. Again our management is so fool they are not realizing his actions. These days making commission is fool proof. The vendors have mutual deal with the person. What can be done with this kind of person. How to realize the management that this person is not what he presents to be.

So it's my friends birthday and my mom got me one of those cards that are completely blank so I have to actually write something on it so what should I write? If it helps at all we're both 13, my friend is going to be turning 14.

I'm bad with words and I don't know what to write we're both 14 if that helps at all.

Firstly, I AM NOT seeking actual revenge. So please spare me the advice about living well and forgetting past wrongs. I m doing research for a fiction piece that takes place in high school with a bunch of squabbling teens. I have my own ideas of course, but I m not the kind of person to seek revenge in real life so it would be helpful to hear from others. What are some good/interesting/memorable ways that you or someone you know has tried to get back at a friend that betrayed you? Thanks in advance!

Basically, I got bored and I put makeup on my friends face while she was asleep. She woke up and is pissed at me, saying she can't feel half of it. She has never been mad at me before. I don't know what to say other than sorry, and she's not talking. I honestly thought she would just be like "what the **** dude" laugh, and just wipe it off. But I've never seen her like this.

Lately for the past year now I been feeling more distant from everyone. I feel like everyone around me right now at his moment is not picking me up nor are they beneficial to me including my own family and friends. I have this deep feeling of disappearing and leaving everyone behind. I've already deleted all my social media like Facebook, insta, kik, snap and I'm about to leave my state and move in with my friend from Florida this month so Im really going to disappear and cut ties with everyone including mu friends and family. I have this deep want to just disappear and start my own life and that everyone around me is a bunch of a s s hats. I been feeling empty and lonely on the inside but at the same time numb. I can leave to Florida by tomorrow without telling anyone and have no remorse for anyone here including my family.

My peer and I met with a prof and he was rude to me for no reason in front of my peer. He was never rude during 1-on-1 meetings. Why was he acting like this? Is it to prevent the peer to think he likes me or something? I also had a crush on him, which he knows, but it was a longggg time ago.

I graduated this June from high school and I am feeling super sad. I was browsing Instagram and came upon a video in my feed from my high school marching band. I was in marching band from 9th all the way to 12th grade and loved every second of it. When I watched the video, my heart started to race and I got shortness of breath. I guess I just realized that its all over for me now. The band camp, the concerts, the football game halftime shows. I was in a really small town and pretty much everybody knew everybody and Ive really connected with lots of people in those 4 years. Nobody from my friend group from band is going to the same college as me, and I am leaving lots of close friends behind who have yet to graduate. I just do not understand why this is so hard right now.

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I'm probably way over thinking this, but this girl I know is going through a stressful time in her from personal matters. On top of that, she is giving a talk soon which is also stressing her out. So I'm wondering if its a good idea to just send her a text saying, "good luck" or something like that. I just think that it is unnecessary since personally I don't think it would help me out in her situation. (and something that may matter.... she possibly has a crush on me)

I am very selective towards some people who I want to engage myself with. But at times I am a bit rude and unable to control how I talk to certain people and my attitude towards them. I don't have many friends and it's been this way for years. I'm now in 11th grade and no matter what I do I seem to make friends with the wrong people or can ever keep the friendship going? I can never talk or associate myself with guys only when it's online unfortunately. Even then I feel like I'm always doing something wrong and don't know the exact answer and how to get out of this situation. Am i meant to be lonely and internally depressed and lonely?