Friends: Question: How do I stop looking like a follower? |
- Question: How do I stop looking like a follower?
- Question: How do i achieve this?
- Question: Sorority life?
- Question: Should I try to have sex/make a major move on my 14 year old classmate? Her and I are both 14.?
- Question: I ratted out my best friend?
- Question: How do i become less shy?
- Question: Should I continue being friends with my friend group?
- Question: Need sc friends!!?
- Question: How to make friends in college when having a difficult time?
- Question: My Mom is a racist. How do I make sure my friends don't think I am?
- Question: Does it sound he still wants to be friends?
- Question: What does being fake mean?
- Question: How i can make friends?
- Question: How i can make friends?
- Question: How i can make friends?
- Question: Am i wrong?
- Question: Why is this all of a sudden care?
- Question: The women who are willing to be with me are single moms looking for a dad for their kid/s or broke or unemployed etc. Why?
- Question: Is my friend wrong for expecting something in return?
- Question: I just got my license and I want to take my friend to school and carpool. I know your not suppose to but everyone does it.?
- Question: My friend is turning his back on me, why?
- Question: I have a problem with my friend. And I donno what to do. Please check the below details I have given and please please help me out....?
- Question: I stared high school last week and its my first year which means I'm a freshman... my best friend has found a friend and ignores me. smh?
- Question: Why do people disrespect me?
- Question: Non mi trovo più a mio agio con il mio gruppo di amici?
- Question: Why am I losing so many friends before highschool??? 14F?
- Question: How do I not be upset that my friends have known eachother for longer?
- Question: How do I commit suicide?
- Question: I m 20 years old bisexual guy and have a crush on one of my straight friend he s 33 years old, he s married.?
- Question: How do I get over a best friend?
- Question: Why is it so hard for some people to get over their shyness?
- Question: Should I stop talking to my cousin ?
- Question: Why am I loosing so many friends before highschool??? 14 yr old F?
- Question: I don't have any friends in a class... how do I handle it?
- Question: Should I date my friends ex wife?
- Question: Is this guy just friendly or looking for attention?
- Question: Why does everyone wanna be my friend all of a sudden??
- Question: How can I stop being jealous over my friends having memories together?
- Question: Should I do this to entertain my gf and her friends?
- Question: Should I tell a friend they are getting fired?
- Question: Best friend always copies homework?
- Question: Why r ppl obsessed/proud/brag about "friends" that have money?
- Question: Want to surprise a friend by sneaking a gift in her bag but don t know how?
- Question: I dont get along with white people- how to be friends with them?
- Question: Viaggio laurea tra amiche?
- Question: Do i look innocent or vengeful?
- Question: Is what i did considered revenge?
- Question: How can I make my friend understand that I don't have time to chat with her all day?
- Question: Will I lose my best friend?
- Question: HELP! How I Tickle My Friend?
- Question: Why would my friend say she's busy if she has "plans"? I feel slighted. ANY ADVICE? I'm feeling really slighted here...?
- Question: "Friend" says she likes me because I'm a B**ch..? Would a friend say that?
- Question: Why do i prefer to be by alone?
- Question: Are my friends jealous of me?
- Question: How to hep a friend who is grieving... (fast responses, please!!)?
- Question: I was caught naked with my roommate by my hostel warden, the door mechanic and some other girls of hostel. What should I do?
- Question: What would you think if she said this to you?
- Question: Does it sound like a person is being blocked on Instagram in this situation?
- Question: What do I do?! (Long)?
Question: How do I stop looking like a follower? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 05:51 PM PDT I never had many friends and one day I became friends with this guy. We have similar styles and listened to similar music, yet he was more popular. Everyone from that point thought I was a copycat and a follower. I am quiet and stuff but no follower. And then I started wearing this bracelet, and, just my luck, they started to wear one as well coincidentally. And then I bought some new shoes, and coicedentally we both got shoes of the same brand. Even the girl I thought was interested in me has possibly turned towards him, either that or she is trying to make me jealous. I trashed the bracelet, by the way. |
Question: How do i achieve this? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 05:47 PM PDT Every morning I tell myself "it's time you ge5 outside your comfort zone and be funny and make new friends" BUT WHAT DO I DO?! not that. I just can't make myself do it no matter whatttttt |
Posted: 23 Aug 2017 05:33 PM PDT So I just pledged a sorority (I got dropped by all my favorite houses and this was one of my last choices but im trying to make the most of it). We went on our retreat over the weekend after bid day and I met some cool people but none I was friends enough to be like hey lets go grab lunch. Does everyone already have their friends since its almost thursday and its been almost a week since bid day. I am freaking out because I haven't really met "my people yet" and im not sure how to. Maybe like swaps or meals? I don't know! I am not that shy of a person but I feel like everyone is kind of already in their little clique. Helpppp |
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Question: I ratted out my best friend? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 05:18 PM PDT my name is breana and my best friend is suicidal so I called the metro police and had them call her dad and now she said I ruined her life bc now her parents cant look or talk to her the same way and I dont know what I did wrong she told me not to tell her parents but i didnt care so i told them all about her depression and now she is mad :/ in my opinion she is a *****, apparently she wanted to kill herself because she was being bullied at school and like I didnt know bc i never text her but she texts me a lot im just too busy playing video games to answer her xD so yeah I think she is being a ***** |
Question: How do i become less shy? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 05:14 PM PDT I mostly just follow my group of friends and don't really speak to anyone that I'm not friendly with, unless of course it's a project were working on. SHOULD I JUST GO FOR IT AND SAY SOMETHING RETARDEDLY FUNNY IN CLASS? |
Question: Should I continue being friends with my friend group? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 04:54 PM PDT My friend group is being really annoying. I've been best friends with the one girl for over 5 years, since 4th grade. We've became friends with two other girls recently but they're all really annoying me lately. They talk about things I have no interest in and say things about my brother that make me uncomfortable. I feel like I can never keep friends: each time I become good friends with someone we end up not being friends for some reason, with the exclusion of some people and my current best friend. It's gotten to the point where I don't even enjoy spending time with them. If I stop being friends with them I do have another girl I consider one of my best friends who's not in the squad and some other close friends so I won't be alone. My best friend in "the squad" really only annoys me when she's around the other two girls, and I feel like she's changed a lot recently. I don't know what to do? Should I cut off my friendships with them? Should I try to talk to them? Should I only continue my friendship with my bestfriend? Thank you! All answers are appreciated! |
Posted: 23 Aug 2017 04:44 PM PDT 16 yr old female, comment your sc name if you want to snap or just have another person on sc. I'll add you, add me back. |
Question: How to make friends in college when having a difficult time? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 04:37 PM PDT Hi guys, I just started my freshman year in college. Yes, it's only been a week but I already feel like an outcast. I don't really have friends where I can text them and be like-hey let's meet up for lunch or study together etc...My roommates are making friends with so many people and the two of them get along great. I get along well with them too, but I feel like they have a stronger bond than with me. For instance, they went out the other night for dinner with a group of people while I was at the gym; It would have been nice if they texted me and invited me to meet up with them after. Anyway, I'm talking to people in my classes and I've met some friendly faces but I mainly do things around campus alone. I also plan on joining clubs as soon as they come out. I just feel scared because I feel like everybody has there place and their group meanwhile I'm alone. I'm not a shy person either- I'm pretty fun and outgoing but I just don't understand how to talk to people and get close to them to form a friendship like everyone else seems to be doing? How do I make friends? |
Question: My Mom is a racist. How do I make sure my friends don't think I am? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 04:00 PM PDT |
Question: Does it sound he still wants to be friends? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 03:39 PM PDT I have this friend. New friend. I'm having a hard time figuring if he still wants to talk after something happened between us I'd rather not say. Yesterday he said sentences when we were texting. Today he said ok to things I said. He also sent me a pic of the tools he bought. |
Question: What does being fake mean? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 03:23 PM PDT |
Question: How i can make friends? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 02:56 PM PDT |
Question: How i can make friends? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 02:56 PM PDT |
Question: How i can make friends? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 02:56 PM PDT |
Posted: 23 Aug 2017 02:53 PM PDT I told my best friend who is the opposite gender that it would be weird to have them at my wedding and that I didnt think we'd be friends in a couple years anyways. We are going to the same school this year and i said it would be awkward cause im not used to going to school with them. Was that rude? |
Question: Why is this all of a sudden care? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 02:49 PM PDT Hi, I just wanted your own opinion because there is somethings really bothering me. there is this a girl whom a friend of mine although we just met on some social network sites, we talk from time to time and we rarely seen each other in person. To be honest I only wanted to talk to her when I'm in a pervert mode and I don't have any romantic feelings for her until one time she opens up with me that she started to like one of our mutual friend then I started to have this jealousy, fear, uncertainty and care wrap into one feeling. It just felt weird that its really affecting that I don't really care before, although I have this exact same feeling 2 years ago when there is this girl I been trying to court but she didnt like me that happens to also like my friend and the painful part is that she is the one trying to seduce with my friend in front of me, and trust me its not the best feeling in the world it also keeps me from sleeping at night afraid of unknown reason and now I'm feeling this again. |
Posted: 23 Aug 2017 02:43 PM PDT I'm 26 years old, have my life together. My path to success can be clearly seen by others, based on where I am from. I am drop dead handsome (or so I have been told since I was in school) and I seem to be quite the lover. I am not tooting my own horn. The women who are equally as successful as me just keep me as a secret lover, fool around with me, then go back home to a dude who isn't attractive to women at all. This is my observation, as this has been the case many times. The women who are willing to be with me are usually "desperate." I am not talking about in terms of physical appearance because they all look great, but I am speaking about financial as well as educational level. The ones I am able to hold an intelligent conversation with usually keep me as a secret lover? Low self esteem? I hope I am not offending anyone here because I really don't mean to, its just been on my mind lately and I cant seem to figure out the reason for it happening. |
Question: Is my friend wrong for expecting something in return? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 02:00 PM PDT So. We smoke together a lot lol and he keeps bugging me about paying this time since he payed last time. And I told him later, because I need to save my money to buy something online I need for work. But now he says im full if **** and when people do nice things for you you have to give them back. I told him we could do it later but later I ended saying whatever, cause im at a point in life I don't really care about anything anymore. |
Posted: 23 Aug 2017 01:58 PM PDT How should I tell my parents that I was gonna bring my friend to school? |
Question: My friend is turning his back on me, why? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 01:38 PM PDT |
Posted: 23 Aug 2017 01:37 PM PDT I hav a friend in my compound whom I knew for 7 yrs. He wasn t a close best friend until a fight happened with me and him(as my point of view wasn t suiting with our group). So he had to become an enemy to me as the members asked him to not talk to me. But then last month all the members went on a vacation except me and him. So he had to talk to me. And then we became friends last week without the knowledge of the other members. And after becoming friends with him I thought we both were the closest best friends ever. So now the leader is returning from his vacation and now my best friend wanted to clear out the problem they had(the leader and him had a small fight). But I was strong in my stand and didn t wanted to talk to that leader but wanted to talk with my best friend. And when I asked him what was he gonna do, he told that his first priority was to build the friendship with the leader and I asked him, then will he still continue to talk me and he told he didn t know and told me that what ever happens he will build the friendship with the leader again. And he actually told me that the people I like the most is like first the leader, then the members, and the last was me. I got so shocked and frustrated when he told me this I didn t wanted to talk to him again but then I didn t also wanted to stir up the enemity which was between us both. What should I do ? |
Posted: 23 Aug 2017 01:37 PM PDT i buy her everything because she couldn't afford it... she acts like I've never done nothing for her... she used me basically. like tf. i know the ppl u go in high school with wont be the same friends, but damn it only took her two damn days to find a different friend like tf smh |
Question: Why do people disrespect me? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 01:27 PM PDT Im confused as to why some people disrespect and disregard me. I know im not worthless but I dont feel as if im superior to others either. Im just confused as to why people treat me so condescending. My boundaries never get respected and people dont take me serious when im mad. They never tell me truth when I ask. They talk about me then say they were just playing. Like I said before im confused by why might some people behave like this towards me. What should I do?? I was gonna fight but there has to be a better more effective way to stop this. |
Question: Non mi trovo più a mio agio con il mio gruppo di amici? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 01:09 PM PDT E' un po' di tempo che non mi sento più a mio agio con il mio gruppo di amici. Vi spiego. Siamo un gruppo di 5-6 ragazzi che usciamo insieme da quasi 5 anni, dalla 2 superiore ad oggi. Mi sono sempre trovato bene e divertito, ma da quando al nostro gruppo si sono aggiunte altre 5-6 ragazze(circa 1 anno fa) sento che le cose sono cambiate. all'inizio continuavo a divertirmi e le ragazze sembravano simpatiche ma poi mi sono accorto che la gran parte di queste ragazze a parte 1 o 2 mi stanno antipatiche perché sono un po' superficiali e di conseguenza in molti dei discorsi che si fanno resto sempre un po' fuori. al contrario vedo che i miei amici si divertono con loro e infatti ultimamente ho notato dei cambiamenti anche nei loro comportamenti. in pratica spesso mi sento un corpo estraneo a questo "gruppo" e noto(scusate se mi ripeto) superficialità in queste nuove amicizie. inoltre negli ultimi tempi dato questo mio "alienarmi" sono anche talvolta oggetto di battutine e prese in giro varie, ma mentre una volta avrei risposto a dovere, negli ultimi tempi queste cose non mi toccano e sto zitto facendo finta di nulla. in conclusione questo gruppo non mi stimola più e trovo stupide molte delle cose che dicono o fanno soprattutto perché credono di essere superiori o migliori e di conseguenza spesso preferisco stare a casa piuttosto che uscire con loro. secondo voi come dovrei comportarmi? p.s. spesso devo anche adeguarmi ai i posti da frequentare quando in realtà vorrei andare in altri |
Question: Why am I losing so many friends before highschool??? 14F? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 12:40 PM PDT It seems everyone is drifting away and I've been more alone than ever. I had one best friend, Taylor, but she is going to another highschool and we try to keep in touch, but it isn't the same. But I have another best friend, let's call Daisy I'm going to highschool with and she's like the only friend I have left. My other best friend, let's call him Sam, me and him hung out all summer, but he got in trouble for something and didn't talk to me for two weeks. He finally texted me, but it was awkward and he didn't really care about our friendship anymore. He told his friend he would forget about me in highschool. Besides these examples, it seems all my friends from middle school are gone, and I'm so alone. I have no one to talk to anymore, nobody cares. |
Question: How do I not be upset that my friends have known eachother for longer? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 12:37 PM PDT My friends have been best friends for 6 years. (They always bring it up to my face and make me feel bad) I gave only been friends with them for 4 years. How do I not get upset and jealous that they have more memories and have known eachother for longer? |
Question: How do I commit suicide? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 12:25 PM PDT I've been thinking about it since I was 11. My mom is crazy overprotective like I mentioned in a previous post. So, I'm 15. I don't know what happened to the childhood friends I used to have. i can't join clubs, sports, social media, or camping. I never had normal hobbies as a child because my mom restricts everything. I get bullied in PE class because I'm so clumsy and inexperienced - since mom never lets me play sports. She doesn't let me spend time with my dad because she thinks he wouldn't want a girl tagging along. I can't keep in contact with anyone, and I'm out of everyones lives once I switch schools. My teachers say my social skills and milestones are pretty delayed due to all this. I don't experience things that most kids do/did - riding bikes, meeting new friends on a playground, partying, or watching a Netflix series together. I'm from Canada so theres no school till September. I really want to do this and I don't want to come back. Look, My relationship with Dad and my twin brother is non-existent because my mom never lets me do stuff with them "because I'm a girl". I don't socialize. I don't have hobbies. I don't know anything I should know, if there's anything. Because mom won't allow it. |
Posted: 23 Aug 2017 12:01 PM PDT 3 days back we kissed and he said he was doing it for me just this once but he kissed me again the next day and the day after that in the process he got very intimate. I m not sure what s going on with him as now he says we should act like friends, as we are really close friends. Still it kinda bugs me that why would he even agree to do it in the first place and then do it repeatedly.... |
Question: How do I get over a best friend? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 11:57 AM PDT So I had this best friend, I won t say her name so I ll make up a name. Let s call her Jen. Jen and I were best friends in pre-k to second grade until I moved away. We reunited again in 7th I m now in the summer after 7th and we quickly became friends again. Best friends. Jens mom called me a month ago saying to forget about Jen, saying I need to lose all contact with her and forget all about Jen like she never existed. Then Jen got her phone taken away and her mom blocked me on everything, Instagram, Facebook, iMessage. Every single thing I could contact her on and I really miss her. I asked for a explanation as to why I couldn t be her friend anymore and she hung up the phone on me, keep in mind this was only a few hours after I left her house after a day at the beach with her mom and older sister. So I had my dad call Jens mom and Jens mom told my father to (excuse my language) "**** off. Becca is grounded and got her phone taken away. mind your own business" and blocked my father and I. I don t know what to do because I go to school with Jen and it s hard to stay away from her. I miss her so much and I want to know how to get over her. |
Question: Why is it so hard for some people to get over their shyness? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 11:44 AM PDT |
Question: Should I stop talking to my cousin ? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 11:38 AM PDT He's 16.. But started puberty way later than me. I'm 15. I'm kind of tired of him. Should I just stop contacting him ? He hasn't congratulated me on my birthday(2 years in a row), yet we live next door, he didn't even bother to type anything, yet we hang out almost everyday. He's extremely arrogant and thinks he's better than everyone(including me), he always considers everything a competition and competes with me for some reason(while I don't) And when he loses to me, he always brings up an event from 8 years ago to belittle me(again, I don't consider what we're doing a competition, but he does), used to talk about me behind my back and constantly tests me. We hang out everyday cause we live next door. He tells me how "hot" he is and how girls always look at him(they don't). Also, a couple of times we made plans to wake up early and go out, but when I did wake up very early, he didn't want to go and wanted to sleep. I couldn't fall asleep again because of him. There's much more, but I wont go into detail... Basically, I could tolerate all this for years until today. We drove to the beach today. There was a big piece of wood we wanted to move. I picked it up and started dragging it alone while he was sitting on a bench like a king. I asked him for help, but he pretended not to hear. It weighed more than 100kg and I had to drag it alone for 10 minutes because of him. Next he climbed up a steep hill, threw down hardened sand directly on my stuff. I honestly wanted to kill him. He completely ruined my clothes, bike. He did that deliberately. He also never listens to me, even if I know better. Because of that, we ended up in awkard situations. He never thanks me for anything. I've done a lot for him and basically because of me, he didn't fail exams. He openly talks **** about my ethnicity(He's Russian, I'm not) and says how stupid we are. I also have ended up in very bad situations(including police) because of him. He didn't apologise for that. Sorry for so much info. He also openly tells his grandma to **** off, go **** herself while she's treating him like a king. I've snapped a few years ago and actually attacked(I was extremely angry at him, when he started aggressively walking towards me, I didn't wait and jumped him). I threw him to the ground, but we got over it. |
Question: Why am I loosing so many friends before highschool??? 14 yr old F? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 11:26 AM PDT It seems everyone is drifting away and I've been more alone than ever. I had one best friend, Taylor, but she is going to another highschool and we try to keep in touch, but it isn't the same. But I have another best friend, let's call Daisy I'm going to highschool with and she's like the only friend I have left. My other best friend, let's call him Sam, me and him hung out all summer, but he got in trouble for something and didn't talk to me for two weeks. He finally texted me, but it was awkward and he didn't really care about our friendship anymore. He told his friend he would forget about me in highschool. Besides these examples, it seems all my friends from middle school are gone, and I'm so alone. I have no one to talk to anymore, nobody cares. |
Question: I don't have any friends in a class... how do I handle it? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 11:23 AM PDT I have PE 2 this year. I am in a senior in high school (this is generally a course for sophomores) and I don't know anyone. I'm used to having friends / making them easily but these kids have seriously rejected me. They are all a few years younger than me & treat me poorly. Every time I try to talk to someone in the class, they politely ignore me & only talk to each other. I feel so awkward being by myself because while the other kids are playing basketball or volleyball, I'm stuck by myself doing nothing. I'm not very athletic so I'd almost rather be alone doing nothing than embarrass myself with the snotty younger kids. Any advice? Trust me, I've tried with almost every kid in the class to make friends with but it's not working very well |
Question: Should I date my friends ex wife? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 10:53 AM PDT A friend of mine keeps asking me to date his ex wife. He says he will set me up with a date with her. I wonder how he could do that? He says "She is beautiful (this is true because I have met her) and she is great in bed and has a wonderful personality". I thought that is odd. Why should a guy try to get his ex wife a date. If she is that great, why isn't he still married to her. Then I saw the light. He is paying alimony and if his ex wife remarries he will not longer have to pay alimony. Guys, would you go on a date under these circumstances? |
Question: Is this guy just friendly or looking for attention? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 10:27 AM PDT this guy knew i liked him and never acted on it. when i was in the gym he started working out behind me and then came over to use the machine i was on. the following week in the gym he came over to where i was working out and started smiling at me and he put him weights right where i was working out. I know him so we start chatting and hes moving his shoulders around flexing while im talking. the next week im sitting at a machine and hes looking in the mirror at me from where he is. |
Question: Why does everyone wanna be my friend all of a sudden?? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 10:03 AM PDT This girl never wanted me around her or her friends. She didn't even like me sitting by her. I ended up by myself with no friends and she would laugh at me with her friends when I sat alone. Few years later NOW I have friends and she doesn't have any friends so she keeps trying to talk to me and my friends. Out of everyone in the room, she comes to my squad and tries to be all friendly. What should I do? |
Question: How can I stop being jealous over my friends having memories together? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 10:03 AM PDT My two best friends were friends before I was, so they have a lot of older memories and inside jokes. I have memories with them too but every time we hangout they always have to bring up an old memory that they had when they were younger. It hurts because I don't have that with them. Should I feel this way? How can I stop feeling jealous |
Question: Should I do this to entertain my gf and her friends? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 09:42 AM PDT Should I submit to this incredibly humiliating predicament to entertain my GF? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sS4TphTAnlU It involves being pinned down by nipple clamps, and forced to slide along a plastic sheet covered in food mess, while my GF and her friends make fun and beat the soles of my feet to keep me moving along |
Question: Should I tell a friend they are getting fired? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 09:15 AM PDT |
Question: Best friend always copies homework? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 08:15 AM PDT My best friend keeps asking me to "help" eachother with homework. But I'm the person who does it straight away and she knows that I do so wen we do "help" eachother she ends up copying the whole thing. Recently she's been asking to see the summer holiday hw and we go back to school next week. I told her I'd help her before I'd knew I've done it. I've now done it and she's like can we help again. I told her I've done mine so it doesn't matter. And she hasn't replied yet. I told her that next year (year 10 GCSEs) that I'm gonna do all my work by myself without her and no copying she was like yeah same. But she takes advantage of me bc she knows I'm the cleverest friend she has(not trying to brag but it's true) idk what to do if she carries on next year cus I want good grades by working hard and with MY work ONLY. Plus I'm not the sort of person to say no 🤦🏽♀️ Thanks for any answers x |
Question: Why r ppl obsessed/proud/brag about "friends" that have money? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 07:49 AM PDT I have a friend that I ve known for years now. Yah it s obvious they make a good living. They r humble, nice to everyone but some of our friends in our circle brag and talk about them if they get to hang out with this person. All they do is talk about what this person has. I don t care!?! They started saying they like certain things that this person likes..I cannot stand it. Because my husband and I actually care for these ppl. But I m constantly hearing from others about this other persons life. Why are ppl like that??? I cannot stand it. |
Question: Want to surprise a friend by sneaking a gift in her bag but don t know how? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 06:38 AM PDT My friend s birthday is coming up and I want to surprise her by sneaking in her birthday gift under her desk or somewhere. Or giving her something that doesn t look like a bday gift on the outside but once she pokes around with it she ll realize it s her bday gift. Any good tricks to do this? |
Question: I dont get along with white people- how to be friends with them? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 05:56 AM PDT In uni i cant seem to get along with any white kids. I'm asian and i think many people see me as a "fob". because of that people try to avoid me due to group work etc. because in general they dont do work... which is true and i understand. but i've never really had any close white friends before.... like really never... i like to make jokes all the time and muck around in class unless it's really serious i do my work. for some reason i just dont get along with white people... like my sense of humour doesnt get them and our interest completely out of the window. how can i get along with them or be try and be their friend? |
Question: Viaggio laurea tra amiche? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 05:35 AM PDT Ciao a tutti, Verso la fine di novembre una mia amica su laurea. Volevamo organizzarle un viaggetto, idee? In Spagna e in Olanda ci siamo già state. |
Question: Do i look innocent or vengeful? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 04:01 AM PDT I confronted my classmates who bothered me during my school years using a message on the class group. Were i wrote about how bad they treated me. And thanked them for making me a better person. And i said things they would like to hear like "atleast we had fun in the last year" and I also wrote that "i know everyone tried to help me". And then i left the group without hearing their response. All this was in front of the whole teaching staff which were in the group. Do i look innocent or vengeful? Did i hurt their reputationbadly or did i reach a level of understanding? Note: our school is so small so we were only 20 people in class. When my teacher saw the message they talked to my classmates and told them the wrong they did I acted friendly and hid my intentions all over the school years especially before graduation were i was befriending them instead of being an asshole I sent the message after graduation avoiding a come back from my peers |
Question: Is what i did considered revenge? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 03:46 AM PDT I confronted my classmates who bothered me on a message. Were i wrote about how bad they treated me. And thanked them for making me a better person. And i said things they would like to hear like "atleast we had fun in the last year" and I also wrote that "i know everyone tried to help me". And then i left ther group. All this was in front of the whole teaching staff. Do i look innocent or vengeful? |
Question: How can I make my friend understand that I don't have time to chat with her all day? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 02:40 AM PDT My friend has been very annoying lately. I am in law school so I don't have the time to chat with her on facebook for hours like I did when I was in high school and even though I have explained it to her many times she still doesn't understand. She texts me while I am studying and then she asks why I am not responding, I've told her a million times that on some days I have lectures both in the morning and in the afternoon but she still complains that we don't talk much anymore and when in the evening I finally have free time she can't talk to me because she is watching tv, but she is watching tv all day anyway. I don't want to be mean but she dropped out of high school when she was 16, she has been unemployed her entire life living off her parents and all she does all day is watching tv and being on the internet. She doesn't understand that not everyone has as much free time as she does. I am tired of her complaining about how we don't talk much anymore all the time. What should I do? |
Question: Will I lose my best friend? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 02:28 AM PDT I knew my bestfriend since kindergarten, and our moms are bestfriends too. I went to a different middle school from her but because of that, we became even closer. We do everything together and our moms always talk. But we re both going into different high schools and I m terrified of drifting apart from her. I m scared our moms might drift apart too. I mean we became closer when we went to different middle schools, but highschool is more serious and what if I wont even have time for her. I just want to know if it s going to happen. I know this is common. It s just hard to accept. |
Question: HELP! How I Tickle My Friend? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 01:52 AM PDT Hi, today I go to my friend house. We are (maybe 1-2 weeks ago) talked about tickle. He is said to me "When we meet tickle me". I have problems: My friend like to tickle he's feet, but he's feet a lil bit ticklish. What I do to he's feet grow to more ticklish??? Sorry for the bad English!! |
Posted: 23 Aug 2017 01:29 AM PDT I was panicky after our last hangout, because she was a bit rude. I later found out that she was pissed about the way we made plans and me taking long to get ready (disclaimer I've never held that against her-we are in our 20s...so I'd hope pettiness can be pushed aside). I'll just get to the point Long story short, while hanging out with my twin sister and I, she got a bit "ill" and said she wanted to go home. When we were leaving she was excited. We didn't see the movie. She sent my sister an apology, but said nothing to me. So, I sent her something asking if she was okay and apologizing for earlier. She didn't respond for a week. I assumed she was pissed. I responded to her very late response, and then she ghosted me again. What I did next was so foolish. (cringe). I sent something asking if she wanted to hang out. If that wasn't bad, I sent something the next day after watching a video with tips saying, "let me know if I did something wrong...etc" She finally called. I called her back, having been out of the room. We spoke, and she said she assumed I was mad. She was so calm that She made me feel foolish for my antics. She then admitted that she has been busy, is focussing on herself, and will be very busy this week. She has a tendency to push people away, and I already know this. I am the opposite. That said, I went on Facebook and the first thing on my newsfeed was a girl I didn't know looking at the solar eclipse with said friend and about 10 pics of them. Now I know so what I'm really asking, is whether or not she's busy? Rather, I wonder if her "figuring herself out" and being busy a week before school has even started, is really her way of saying I don't want to hang out with you. When I went to the beach with her, I even found out that day that she had been with other friends and she had been "studying or too busy finals week". She always seems to have time to ask me for homework help, though. Plus she said she's job searching. job searching never stopped her from hanging out before. In fact, I went with her at one point to help her. She may be right that we don't have to hang out daily, but I'd say leaving mid-hangout, saying you're busy and posting with another friend, and not having time time week, is pretty ******* rude. I once said I couldn't help her with an interview for school, and she got mad and said it was just homework help. We never had these problems in our teens, because she was a better friend to me. she said she might have time to text or see me...but she's just not sure. I'm glad I went out a few nights ago, because it's obvious she's an awful friend. she's always telling me I'm funny and should be an actress or comedian. everyone says that..."you are really very funny." or "you are hilarious." Humor is the way I deal with things. THe problem at this moment, is that I can't just be funny. This isn't just going to disappear, and the remnants of my fears won't fade when I close my eyes. No joke can compensate for this. In fact, that's how I know our friendship has reached a stalemate...I'm too depressed to joke/ she doesn't look for my company |
Question: "Friend" says she likes me because I'm a B**ch..? Would a friend say that? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 01:04 AM PDT She's gone on to others about liking me, saying I'm blunt and sassy and has said a couple times she likes me "because I'm a b***h". I don't understand it though. Other friends say that I am not and that I am actually really nice. I have a resting witch face and people do tell me to smile more. But that's about it. I'll only **tch at someone if they give me a hard time or give me attitude. I asked her a couple hours ago in a text to say why she thinks I'm a b---- but she didn't respond. I've known her for months but only recently have had her number and she hasn't texted much with me. But she always go on in person about liking me. I never asked her why she likes me or if she does like me. A friend had just mentioned to me a couple times that this girl just LOVES me. The only thing I asked her was why she was calling me this because I must have done something to her or a friend of hers that she'd consider witchy..... |
Question: Why do i prefer to be by alone? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 01:01 AM PDT I ve always been a loner when i was a child. I did have friends, but i never really wanted/needed to talk to anyone. Its not like i am shy, i can speak pretty well in a conversation. I just feel as though i don t want to talk to anyone. I like being alone, but never knew why. I have fun on my own doing my hobbies like card collecting. I know everyone is different, but how is that determined? Now i m about 20 some years without any friends at all. |
Question: Are my friends jealous of me? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 12:59 AM PDT The other day I Hung out with my group of friends, and they all seem interested to know what s going on in my life. And don t get me wrong, I know it s normal. The problem I m having is if I tell one of them what s going on, they ALL seem to know and find out about it. For example I m traveling to New York, and one of my friends who I haven t seen in 3 years knows about it and I didn t even tell him nor would he find out unless one of my friends told him. Now they all know. They all know where I work when I didn t even tell so as so, and it s like they tell eachother all this info and I really don t like that. Is it a jealousy thing? Are they scared I m doing better than them or something? Plus they were all talking about me in a group with out me there( I was like across from them in the room) and one of them goes randomly your gonna work in retail all your life ???? Like ???? I m only 21 and I m working unlike him. What s up withthis? |
Question: How to hep a friend who is grieving... (fast responses, please!!)? Posted: 23 Aug 2017 12:33 AM PDT My friend lost her grandfather just over a year ago, and she is still grieving hard. She never got to say goodbye, he was just gone. Just like that. He was at every band meet, he even went to church with them. They were really close, he left without goodbye, and the last time they communicated was an argument. So she thinks about him often, and cries about it a lot. I've looked it up and it says "just let them know you're there for them". Well. letting her know I'm there for her doesn't help, especially when I've said it 100 times and it lost its meaning. I can't give her physical comfort because shes' usually in her room at her house at night when things are quiet when it usually hits her. I've taken her out on girl's days, and she's still struggling. Her parents are grieving too. I'm all she has. How do I help and make this better? |
Posted: 22 Aug 2017 11:47 PM PDT Our bathroom door is broken. So me n my roommate decided to take bath together as we have no problem with seeing naked each other.we are in same room since first year. Yesterday we were in bathroom. Our warden knocked the door. My roommate took my towel and opened the door. My warden came inside n I was standing there naked. I came out of bathroom without knowing the door mechanic was there. Then warden told him to wait in office. Then warden scolded both of us. I was standing naked in front of her, my roommate and some other girls. Then I put on the dress and door mechanic repaired the door... My roommate was in my towel. This incident is viral in college. My friend's are sending me my nude pics n saying cut the grass. |
Question: What would you think if she said this to you? Posted: 22 Aug 2017 11:19 PM PDT What would you think about this if you were the guy? He's been talking to this girl on fb (she's been showing interest) and they live in separate states but they used to live in the same state and then he moved. She tells him how his fav singer is coming to the state he moved from. He asks her to get some tickets. She asks if he can get the tickets. He says no problem. Then she asks if he is asking her to go and he says of course, he needs a date. She responds saying how she's flattered but she was thinking how she doesn't want him to Coke all this way just to see her and how it's a lot of money for plane tickets, concert tickets, and all that. And how his fav singer is also playing where he lives so he can go see him there and they can get together another time when he's in town. What would you think if you were the guy? |
Question: Does it sound like a person is being blocked on Instagram in this situation? Posted: 22 Aug 2017 11:12 PM PDT Let's call her Person A and the victim Person B. She spams insulting comments to someone on a fake account. Suddenly, she can't access Person B's Instagram profile anymore. Her fake account isn't deleted, and Person B did not delete her account either. Person A followed Person B, but one user is missing from the Following list: Person B. Does it sound like she's being blocked by the other person involved in the scenario? |
Question: What do I do?! (Long)? Posted: 22 Aug 2017 10:26 PM PDT My ex boyfriend called me and told me he was running away from home, he and his best friend stole some money from their guardians and they said they're gonna buy a bus ticket tomorrow. They're both heavily abused emotionally and physically in their homes and I guess tonight was the breaking point. He kept saying he couldn't believe it and it didn't sink in yet, he and his friend kept talking about how good of an idea it is, how they're gonna start new lives... I'm scared, he's one of my best friends... I can't even imagine his parents reaction when they find him missing. What do I do? I'm in my room having a panic attack. |
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