Hi everybody. I'm married to a white girl. We have been married for quite a few . My wife helped me get the green card. I never married her in order to get a green card. I love her and we got along, that was the only reason that I married her . My wife loves me and I love her. But In the past , we had some huge fights. She used some curse words and racial remarks against me. It not only happened once but several times. During one fight she also said that I'm a horrible person and she doesn't want to have babies with me. That really hurt my feelings. Now she wants to have babies with me. Half of my soul says to continue with our marriage but the other half says to discontinue with her. What should I do? Please be honest in your suggestions.

I told her only text me about our son but she texts me things she buys him and just random nonsense I don't need texts of why does she do this?

Gosh, I don't know where to begin. I have deep and incessant feelings for a man with whom I go to university. He appears too immature as evidenced by some of his actions in the past, and we had a final conversation where he also validated that notion with the things he said to me and answered my questions. After that falling out we stopped speaking because he hurt me tremendously and it has been over a month now since we last spoke. He normally studies for extended periods in a non-visible part of the class and has even made it a point to tell me he will purposely avoid passing by my region so as to not draw unnecessary attention of the professors/superiors and other students. Of course this was also a factor in me deciding I wanted this to end. And he kept to his word for about 4 months, since the moment we started speaking. What I want to know: yesterday for the first time he did randomly passed by me. The place was empty, I didn't think anything of it. Today I come in and the guy refuses to stop walking back and forth past me! Every friggin' time he turned the corner my eyes lasered directly into his and held his gaze from like 15 feet away. Other people turned around to find out what I'm looking at! He must've passed by at least 10 times today. Am I making too much of this? I miss him like crazy but I am so confused. I don't know if this is his way of easing back into our interaction or if he just wants to see me even if we don't talk.

My wife left the house 4 months ago and took the baby with her. Said it was because of my alcohol abuse and that I'm not ''the man she used to know anymore''. She was not wrong. I did have a problem with alcohol. I enrolled on a program for alcohol rehab and it did work. I'm clean for 2 months now. Didn't even take a sip. I keep asking her to come back and she keeps saying not now. To tell you the truth, I'm not doing all this for her. I miss my daughter and I can't just see her once a week.

I was working a temp job for the summer. I happened to meet one of the owners of the company one day, and we talked for a long time. I noticed an instant attraction between us. He was not my direct boss, so I only saw him maybe once a week going in and out of the building or in the conference room. We'd always talk for a while and kind of got to know each other. I always felt he wanted to ask me out, but I know there are so many rules and sexual harassment problems that can come out of a work place romance. Also, I heard someone mention that he was recently separated. Anyway, on my last day, I went to his office and gave him my number on a piece of paper. He said "I'll keep this for when I need it". His assistant was sitting right outside, so I think we both didn't want to say much else. What did that mean? being polite? booty call?

Everytime i think about it I get all welled up and mad but i realize it could be a lot worse like only having one parent or being disabled or something those lines.

Or is this another one of my cousin's lies?

We had a bad fight and it was my fault. I said terrible things to him and we were yelling at each other. But it was more me yelling at him. And then he just went outside. I came outside to apologize and he said to get away from him. He slept in the guest room downstairs and hasn't slept with me since. Today I saw him looking at divorce options. What should I do

Yes i am a bit curvy and he never let me forget it,

I didn't ask him about previous partners we were just talking about premarital sex . This just really bothers me he just said this

We were at a party and my gay friend, a masseuse said he'd love to give my husband a massage. Husband said I'm down'. My friend then joked it would be a nude massage. Husband said sure as long as I was ok with it and I get to watch. When we got home I asked him if he was serious and he said it was my call. I asked him if he was gay or bi and he said no but if he was ever going to mess around that my friend was the rare guy he would try it with. Should I let them do this or do I risk losing my marriage? I have to say a part of me is intrigued and excited. No, sex was proposed. He made a statement about what he would do to my husband and he was totally ok with it. He smiled and even hung out with my friend at the party. My husband clearly wants a massage that leads to sex.

Or does this only affect narcissists who prefer to be alone but they married because they were desperate for money and to have an inferior to do all the housework they don't want to do?

My husband and I were talking about teen pregnancy and he just blurted out without me asking that he had sex with some girl right before me (which he lied before we met and said he had not been with someone in a long time )and she screwed like a snake and he went on to say that she was sooo good in bed . It really hurt my feelings because he has never told me something like that and then after me telling him I guess she was better than me he said you were just doing what you had to do to get the job done . Like not really putting a lot of extra effort in it . It disgusted me knowing he feels like sex with this girl was always better than me after 20 years . Why would he even tell me this? What is sex like a snake ? He really hurt my feelings and I really don't want to speak to him . I'm like if you didn't like what I was doing you should have spoke up z long time ago !

My husband and I have been together for 8 years. We have 5 kids all together, the youngest 2 being his. My children are mostly grown and moved out except for the 17 year old. In the time we have been together we have separated twice due to my frustration with his anxiety and insecurity. He has seen a counselor and takes meds (sometimes) to no avail. He is a chronic worrier and has a severe generalized anxiety disorder. He is an underachiever who talks about going to school and better jobs but doesn t actually do any of that. He often states a desire for a boat and house and nicer car but does nothing to actually move toward this. He works full time but has past debt and child support so doesn t contribute much to our bills. He is often passive aggressive with an underlying anger issue he rarely lets escape but I can often feel the aura of anger around him. He has a tendency for depression and lies about the smallest of things. Since we have been together I have quit smoking (5 years ago), earned 2 college degrees and am working on my masters. I make a comfortable income. But I resent him for not finding a way to contribute more especially because he gets passive aggressively pissed at me for buying stuff for myself. What would you do?

I don't know what to do. I can hear him snore from a different room. Tonight my 4 year daughter said "daddy snores too loud". He has severe sleep apnea so I can't get mad he snores because he can't control it. But he has one of those sleep masks. He doesn't wear it! When he got it he wore it for a week then he hasn't worn it since. He's technically had for 8 months. One night I started blowing up the air mattress and I was going to sleep on it in our daughters room but he got mad that I offended him. He refuses to sleep downstairs and I don't want to sleep downstairs on the couch, we have 2 kids and I'm more likely to wake up if they wake up and yell for us at night. I don't know what to do anymore. I talk to him about it almost every night and he does nothing. I'm a zombie during the day because I can never sleep due to his snoring. It's incredibly loud. I'm getting stressed, I live off barely any sleep, I'm easily agitated because of all this. I don't know what to do anymore. Please help!

We got married pretty quickly and I would have dated longer if I knew he slept with 2 girls weeks before meeting me . Hd told me it had been awhile since he had any relationships or sex I gave up my grad scholarship for him . It's the lie had told . I had morals and I had been with 1 person only just a few times that I dated for years . I just feel disgusted with him . he has lied to me for 20 years and one day we were talking about kids and sex and he just started telling me without me asking . I DID NOT ASK HIM ABOUT his previous partners

The first time my husband saw my boobs he didn't like them because they were saggy so he suggested I keep my bra on while we have sex and now I'm used to having it on. I felt better because my boobs got 0 attention and just the thought of anyone touching them disgusts me because of how saggy they are. My friends are telling me that if I really loved him I'd get my boobs fixed for him. Should I? I'm just afraid of surgery in general but I really want to keep him and I feel like he might leave me if I don't get this surgery...and I'd literally do anything for him I can't live without him. I've never loved someone so deeply.

My husband thinks all the bad people close to our age (34) are single while all the good ones are not as to why he doesn't want me to leave him. He and our families are worried about me meeting people worse than him. And no one wants bad people who make mistakes. They treat them terribly and go for good ones. Everyone wants their relationship to be perfect with no challenges.