When I met my husband 6 years ago, I knew he had a son. He seemed to really care about his son and wanted to be there for him even though his son's mother did not want him around. When my husband and I started to get close, his ex really did not want either of us around his son. Fast forward almost a year and my husband and I are a couple and we relocate a several miles away from his son. He would go see him every week but then it became less and less. I tried to talk to him about it but he would brush it off. I tried not to bring it up much as I could see it upset him. Fast forward to the present and we have a child of our own. He does everything for our son but does nothing for his first born and does not want to. It bothers me!!! He is pretty set in his ways. Every time I try to talk about it he gets very upset with me, trying to give me reasons. They are invalid in my opinion. Should I just not worry about it and focus on our family since he is very close to our son (more than his first born)? He is a deadbeat to his first born but a fantastic father to our son. Should I just let it go??

Hi, so my husband was addicted to porn. Though personally, I think his family s stance on porn made him think he was addicted for the small amount he watched. Well we got married and everything was great sexually, but my new medicine gives me ZERO libido. Which I feel really bad about, especially since I am my husbands first sexual partner. I told him I have no issues with him masterbating, even with porn. As long as it s not the pay to watch the girl type. Which he refuses to look at porn but does masterbate a lot. However, it s gotten to the point where he has to take breaks at work to masterbate, we will be on a date and he will just randomly go to the bathroom for 20 min without saying anything and then I find out later, he was whacking one out. It s starting to be a constant interruption. I ve tried expressing that I wish he wouldn t interrupt a date or when we are in the middle of a conversation to just go masterbate. And if he s feeling turned on to just let me know. Is this normal for him to be constantly interrupting us hanging out to do this? I feel bad cuz of my libido. I let him play with me as he likes and we still have sex, just might take me a while to get into it if I do. Is this maybe just his way of making it exciting for him? I don t want to be a jerk and say he needs to stop just randomly disappearing when we re hanging out, especially in public, and leave me hanging with no real reason why. But I also don t want to to affect our time spent together.

I am okay with her taking money from time to time and if it was petty cash like maybe 200 a month or something. Problem is, she and have have a joint acct and she takes money almost every time he's paid some times she doesn't even wait till he gets paid she just takes and I'm not talking petty cash like a 100 -200 bucks . I'm talking hundreds& hundreds of dollars! It's really bothering me because it's like she isn't even considering our bills or finance issues. Me and my husband don't have a joint acct btw I don't have an option to take money if I need it and this bothers me a lot.

Me and my husband are coming up on our 1 year wedding anniversary this has been an ongoing problem for about 5 years when we first started dating we have sex three four times a day 4 years and then it shriveled-up to not even once a month I have tried everything I can reading magazines and on the internet and it breaks my heart that he can go into the shower and do his business when I'm in the room next door and he won't even come in and see if I wanted to which would be a yes I just don't know what to do if anyone has been through this and can give me some advice it would be greatly appreciated thank you

So im 23 yrs old and happily married at 23. I have a wife who is awesome and a step son whose 3. She had him with some deadbeat abuser who she finally left in the last year. I love her and her child but cant help but feel resentment. Some pos can make something to share with her that I cant. But that's on me and my thoughts I get it.. what gets to me is her comments that arnt intended to hurt but do.today when hearing triplets and twins run in my family the first thing she says is," thank God we can't have children. That would be awful." It stung and I'm to embarrassed to show I care about these things so I just sit in silence and feel a burn for days. . What can I do to get over it? What can I say I do to make her understand that she'll never know the feeling? It's on my mind everyday.

He verbally abuse me when we argue and he tries to intimidate me. He has anger issues and he has grabbed me violently before. He's 34 but acts 14. He can't keep a job so that leaves me to pay for everything . He can't afford gas so I have to pay for it . I pay for our dates and food!!! He gets a check every month and he pays me back but I'm tired of paying. I feel like the man in the relationship. Especially with his constant crying and b---tching. He also flirts with other women online no matter how much I tell him to stop. You all have no idea how many women I've inboxed about him! They all say he was flirty! I don't know why I continue to put up with him. My family tells me I deserve better. I hate him and I'm physically drained. I've tried to leave him before but he just restrains me. . I know I'll have to get the police involved when I want to leave . I don't know what to do anymore!! 😔

What does it mean when my husband Gets tears around the girl he used to like before marriage ? She doesn't know he is married and he hides his wedding ring in front of her but never takes it off.

So my fiance has been feuding with his family for a long time over names and whatnot over the fact he doesn't like his last name and wants to change it after marriage. We decided as a couple that he would take my last name and when I adopt his daughter, change her name to mine as well. I have read a lot of nonsense about how families get ticked if you mess of the male side of the family's lineage, in the end, we don't care. I would like to know if it's possible for my husband to have the name change done instead of me post marriage without there being a big deal made out of it at court, or how that works in general

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Now a days,she don't like i talk with my brother and delete my brothers number from my mobile.and also not allowing me to send only $200-$300 a month to my parents. when i force her then she tell me i will give you divorce and you have to go back to your country, I am earning $3700 per month ,she even not allowing me to use my money, she said i am saving money for home, she only give me $50 per month to use,and she ask me to give her gifts from that $50 , if i don't get her gift then she fight with me. More on this i have to cook everyday, she don't know cook.She fights me every 2 day and shout on me and i have to Listen whatever she say to me if i make argue she tell me i will send you to your home country, She have many relatives in USA but i don't have any relative in USA, what should i have to do?

This guy's wife died over a year ago. They were married 28 years, but never had any children because of the wife's medical issues. How likely is it that he'll be able to find a younger woman and have a family and a genuine relationship? He's financially stable with a good job, but he's not super wealthy and he could be retiring before any potential children even get to high school. Is it too late for him?

if we are out and come home while the kids are at the grandparents, it's on. I told him I have changed and it has nothing to do with him. He has been upset over this and thinks I am rejecting him. They just moved out of our room and we are currently working on getting them to sleep in own bed. They are 2 and 4. They are my priority and at the end of the day I am tired. How do I get him to understand that I love him and it's nothing he did wrong? Any other ladies have this issue?

My husband got drunk last night and was out till 4 in the morning even though he told me he would be back by 1:30. Well I packed up my few belongings I had at his place and put them in my car and went to my mom's house. Well he came over while my mom and I were sleeping and got all my belongings and took them to his place. I left because all his alcohol drinking makes me nervous. I also dont like his staying out till 4 in the morning. When I mention leaving him he wants to tear up everything.

This is an exit from another post. She said she doesn't want it at all when kids are home. So this limits to a few times a year when kids stay at grandparents. I love my family and don't want to leave my wife. I am hoping to talk to those who have experiences and am hopeful it gets better? My kids are both under 5.

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I'm in my 50s and am happily married. There is a woman who I've known since elementary school. She was in all of my classes and she was always nice to me. She was the smart, very popular, in lots of school programs. I was a bookish shy loner but she was always nice to me. I would have asked her out but was to painfully shy. Fast forward 30 years. I stay in touch a bit through social media but just questions like how are you etc. But everyday and it's been years, I think about her. She is married with kids now and doing well. I still think of her but have no intention of doing just that. Why does thoughts of her stay with me?

My husband and I have a difficult marriage. We lost our daughter four years ago and needless to say, our loss rocked our worlds and changed our lives. We have gone to individual and couples counseling and though I have not gone in time, I have a few close friends who I consider my therapists. I'll never get over my loss, but I've taken steps to try to heal: my faith, returning to a job I love, volunteering with kids, running, etc. My husband is a volunteer firefighter and for the last few months, I've noticed that "Amy", one of his fellow firefighters, has popped up in conversation. She's half my age and is quite the opposite of me...gregarious, energetic, etc. After trainings, he goes out with his fellow firefighters, Amy included. I've been getting suspicious. Three men our family have had affairs, including his dad. I confronted him about Amy and he revealed that he confides in her about his struggles and our marriage. They exchange texts and hang out. He assured me there was nothing physical. I believe him, but there is obviously an emotional connection. To be honest, this would not bother me if it was one of his guy friends. Not to say that I'm better than he, but I would never feel comfortable confiding in a guy about my marriage problems. I just think there are some lines that should not be crossed. I don't know what to do or how to feel or anything.

About once a month, if that. Also, she has "the list" first: Kids in bed, cars filled, kitchen clean, dishes done, house payment/credit done, backyard looks nice, everything good in house...

He tells me that the latest I can stay up is 12 amand I am to be on the ps4 by 10pm. He said it is a bad habbit that I would easily fall in to if he lets me get away with it. I kind of understand on days he works however I" quiet when I play on the ps4. He got up and a Caught me playing this morning much later than I am suppose to he said he is going to look up how to put a timer on the ps4. This kind of upsets me I am 28 year old woman and yet he tray to boss me around and talks to me as if I am a child. I have talked to him about it but just just rolls his eyes and says its me not him that I should pay attention and stop staying up late. Honestly I have a hard time going to sleep at nigt i just keep him a wake if I lay in bed. It takes me a while to feel sleepy.

I'm a stay at home mom/ online student he's the bread winner. He works four ten hour days, and off three days. Each day he's off he leaves me to spend time with co-workers he has been with all week. On top of that he doesn't come home until the next morning. Also we only have one vehicle, because he wrecked the jeep playing in it. So when he's out hanging with his co-workers, I have no source of transportation. I have warned him many times, letting him know I feel neglected, you don't spend time with me, I'm not your number one priority, and your opening the door for another man to come in my life. So he said that yesterday would be our day. Later that night around 8:00pm a knock on the door, it was a friend of his. He left me again yall. It's 1:32a.m and he's still not home. Then he left knowing I was mad. I feel like he wants to be single because that's the way he acts. I think I am about to cut him loose. I'm tired of him doing this and don't think there's a consequence for his action. He normally come home apologies say he gone do better and does the same ish over again. What should I do? Help, give me advice please!

Once a month when we are intimate, my husband lays there like a died fish while I'm on top. I ask him to try new things, but he isn't willing and doesn't want to make love more often. We just hit our 2 year anniversary of marriage. My husband confessed to watching porn at least 3 times a week but doesn't want to try anything he watches. I don't know what to do anymore. I give him head but he finds it gross to go down on me. What would you do? What to do? I don't want to spend the rest of my life having sex only once a month and let alone the same few positions. No, he does not prefer opposite gender to me No, I'm a female. 24 & he is 28. I wish my husbands drive was as high as mine. I tried everything from being nude around the house, to making him a sandwich..etc. He does get jealous when other guys in public check me out but nothing in the sheets. I did catch him cheating 2 months ago, we are giving it another shot. He has been like that even before marriage, he kept telling me he is hiding all the tricks under his sleeves so we will have a crazy sex life once married......it was all lies. what does AMAP mean?

My ex and I have been divorced for about five years. At first things were so.bad, we couldn't even talk to each other. Somehow that changed and now we are friendly. We do things as a family with our daughter. Whenever I ask if he wants to do something together he agrees. He mentioned my.daughter asked him for a sister the other day. he has changed so much for the better, which confuses me, but at the same time makes me question 2jqynwoukd happened. If we tried again. I can't tell if he's being nice, or if he's thinking what would happen if we tried again. Neither one of us has dated anybody else since we divorced.

My husband of ten years suddenly stopped paying bills for two months. He has gotten us evicted from our home. Me and his daughter. He is claiming a "mental breakdown" being the reason he stopped paying bills. Seriously guya he's done nothing to get us another place and when I ask what were gonna do he says a hotel or thT I live w my dad and him at his mom's. Where did the money go and is he leaving for another woman? Would he allow us to get evicted to b with her? Eviction is horrible for his credit. What's up guys help

My husband of ten years stopped paying two months of rent. He never bothered to pay it and is claiming a "mental breakdown" for his reason for not paying bills. We have been together ten years and never a late bill and now we have a two year old. He has knlwn about the eviction for three months and has not even looked for a place for me and our daughter. this is strange. We will be evicted in two days by the sheriff. My question is... What is going on here? Together almost eleven years and than he decides can to stop paying rent. He has made no plans. Would he do this as a break up tactic? Would he allow himself to get an eviction on his credit to get rid of me and our daughterr? He claims he going to live with his mother or that we all go to a hote or I live w my dad. Guys I can't take this....what is he really up to and why would he get his own daughter and wife evicted.... Cheating? .

My SO and I have been together two years in April. At the end of May, we will have been living together for two years. I found out that I was pregnant this past August. This was not a planned pregnancy, but we both decided that we wanted to keep the baby and move forward in our relationship. So, a bit of back story. He is 38 (39 in two weeks), military, and close to retirement. He owns the home we live in. He has been married and divorced twice. Our two years together is the longest relationship he has ever had. Now, I am 28. Over new year's we went to a beautiful vacation alone, and he had a week to propose then, and never did. He could have over Valentine's day, and nothing. He keeps telling me that he wants to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me... and nothing. I told him that I wanted a minimum of a year for an engagement so the wedding could be planned, and he keeps saying that he doesn't want to wait a year after the proposal, that he wants to get married much sooner. I still haven't received a proposal tho! We talked about it again and I told him I wanted a timeline. He said 6 months which would have been by August and I told him I would not wait that long. He was stunned a bit and an actual time line was never set. So, I have a personal deadline for June that he doesn't know about, and I'm afraid it won't happen and I'll be a single parent to two children. Any advice? ?

to leave right away. And he/she gets annoyed or frustrated if you ask him/her to give me a minute to go get or do something. In other words he/she is always late. But when they are 15 - 25 minutes late & are finally ready he/she won't give you a minute to go get or do something you forgot to do.