My husband had to travel for work with some people. He had traveled previously with one guy, Joe, and the other guy, Sam, was someone new. They all decided to go to a baseball game on their last night tonight. My husband says he didn't drink. BUT, sometimes my husband TELLS me that because he knows I freak out. (I don't do well with him drinking-I FREAK out) We fight about that. I want him to be honest, he doesn't want me to get obsessive, so it is an argument.... Tonight, he said Sam did drink and him and Joe didn't. He told me that Sam had too many and couldn't drive, and that he was going to stay with Joe. I am REALLY nervous he is lying. Maybe Sam really DID drive and my hubby doesn't want me freaking. What if he is sick and no one is helping him out? What is my husband drank and isn't telling me? He swore on something special, but he has done that before to try to calm me. I have a lot of trust issues with EVERYONE and my mind really worries about people and if they are okay. What do I do?! What if this guy drove and now it is my husband's fault because he should have stopped him?!?!

Hi I m a 13 year old man and I wanna marry my dad because hes the coolest person I know and hes always nice to me no matter what i do and i know support is the biggest thing in a relatonship so how do i marry dad

okay everyone thats been divorced... so I've been going back and forth for the past year and a half getting paperwork ready to file for an uncontested divorce. I believe i have everything ready except he won't take the time to go to court w me and turn in the application to avoid court fees. Now, ill have to have the papers served to him. does anyone know how i can have the divorce papers served? is it still uncontested if he's being stubborn but willing to sign and agrees to the divorce? married and divorcing in Cook county, Chicago

If he doesn't initiate it himself???

My wife and have agreed to split up come December. Ill be leaving the home in what will be hopefully just a few more weeks or at the latest ;December. my wife boys all know about it , not sure of their feelings but at this point I don't really care. More than likely wouldn't get an accurate answer anyway . My 15 month old daughter has no clue. But I will pay my child support and support her as she advances in age. I will continue to be in her life to some degree. I just need to chase my dreams and not die with regret. I.E. married with kids and only have that life. we just don't get along we are two too different people. so my question is simple. would it be better to co parent than to stay together for the sake of one blood child and 4 non blood/nonobligational terrors that need so much help with basics in life that its astounding they have made it this far. ?

It was his Bipolar and not him. Not saying she can't be mad. But it is the disorder he has that hurt her, not him. Not saying he can't be held accountable, I just mean he was blind by the mania. To a certain degree I know it is on him. He was remorseful.

He is from Uzbekistan and we have been married about 16 months, together almost 4 years. He hasn't been to his country in 5 years. I'm worried he won't come back. He is supposed to be gone 6 to 8 weeks. I am trying not to worry but I am worried. Will he feel too Americanized and out of place? Will he miss me? Will he feel his heart is in his country with his family? We don't have any children and I am 40 so I'm not sure we can. We've been trying for over a year after a miscarriage I had right after we got married. Just worried, need feedback. Thank you.

He is very good with my 2 kids, we live in a great house.I drive the best cares but he likes to yell at me at night and sometimes hit me. He tells me all the time, where would I get a nother guy like him to take care of me and my kids..and I really feel he is right. I signed a pre nup so I think he's got me that way. It could be so much worse..am I right?

I'm currently 19 and a 1st year student in university. I would like to be married within 2 years, and have my children (at least 3) before i'm 30. The only thing is, i'm quite idealistic and i find flaws with every guy so i don't know if i'll be able to have that kind of stable relationship and life in that time frame. In case you wondered, the time of accomplishing these things is very important to me because i see that my parents were married late and weren't equipped to raise children, so their marriage failed. I want to be the opposite. It seems not many people my age share the same goals and think its far too early. Do you think its realistic for me? You are all so harsh and unfair! You think it makes me immature for knowing what i want? I realise that this is real life and it doesn't all work according to my 'calendar', but is it so impossible? Can't it be a goal like any other? Also, i have actually had this in mind since i was young, so i don't feel it's likely to change. "WANTING SOMETHING STUPID" um okay sure the foundation of life is stupid I'm not immature!! Stop saying that! I'm clearly old enough because i'm serious about these things

When one or both felt like it was doomed and not worth it. Please don't say move on I'm sure someone has saved their relationship from the brink of destruction when their partner was no longer in love with them or they were the one who wasn't in love anymore please help

Please help and don't tell me to move on. I want to here from personal experience of people that successfully saved their marriage/relationship

I've met a few people who've told me they were in love with someone else when they got married. Is this normal? I keep meeting people who are everything I want but it still doesn't feel right. I think I'm waiting for someone who might not exist but I don't want to settle just in case the person who will feel like they're everything I could ever want is really out there

He's telling coworkers he thinks he's having a surprise party because he's going out to dinner with his parents for his birthday. It's not uncommon...how do I make it a surprise again?

I asked her what day the kids need to go to the docs and she was mad cause she said she told me last week. It turned into a little argument. She said you don t listen to me. I explained that I try, but with stress with having kids, demanding job and other things, I don t get a break and have so many things I am always thinking about. I really do want to improve. At night when she talks I am all ears and feel I can focus more. I am relaxing at that point. I want her to know I am listening. What can I do? How can I also show her I am improving?

Yesterday my wife came out to me as Bi. She said she has always been that way and its not something she just all of a sudden came up with. I don't care that she is Bi I don't discriminate about that. I also recconzie my self as a very lucky man cause she has the whole sea to choose from and she said she knows I'm the one. She says she has never had a girlfriend or sex with a girl and that I'm her first and only, but has always wanted to try the other side. She said she would have already had a experience but has been with me since high school. So where I'm at now is do I let her have a girlfriend? Do I let her have girl sexual partners so it not pent up and she does it behind my back? What ground rules do I set, or do I set any at all? I'm proud she came out to me and I know it must have been a big relief for her,but what now?

Right so I m married and I m getting a bit of attention from another woman at work we have been sending each other flurty messages and different things but I have never actually physically done anything with her so tell me is this a form of cheating? I don t think it is but my wife might think different let me know

He marries the woman that he loses his virginity too. He never had sex with anyone else, but she had sex with multiple guys before him. He never had a girlfriend before, never dated, or even kissed. His experienced girlfriend/wife in this situation is his first and only ever. He also never got to sow his wild oats. He never even got to go to a party, he spent most of his life alone with barely any exception other than work, which was just meaningless work for him to make paychecks, his work wasn't a social setting, at least not for him. He never got to do anything he wanted in life, non-sexual or sexual. He feels he'd be completely lost in life without his girlfriend/wife, she's the only thing giving him purpose and reason to live. Despite her being experienced and him not, she won't allow him to do anything with another woman since they are in a serious committed relationship, which is how it should be. Despite him feeling he's completely missed out on life and his youth, she loves him and does everything she can to make him happy (inside monogamy). She's dominant, which he likes, and she fulfills almost all if not all of his sexual fantasies. She's the perfect woman for him in every aspect, he just wishes he could have experienced variety in life before he met her. My guesses are he may end up cheating, getting really depressed, being miserable his whole life because he's full of regrets from missing out on everything, etc.

My husband and I have been together for 4 yrs and we're having our 2nd baby. He's divorced. Here's what happened. We decided to go to a family event an outside concert type thing and of course he had one too many. Long time since he actually drank. I felt good for him because I thought it would be a good way for him to let go before our daughter arrived. On our way home he knocked out, obviously. When I was driving I heard his phone ring so I looked at it and it was a text message from a woman saying "Be careful and be safe. Till next time.", but there were no previous messages. I gave the phone number a call and she said you have nothing to worry we are only old friends. I thought alright… then why did he delete the messages? The following day I went through our phone records to see what was up with the number I called and I noticed that every time he went to the bathroom he was sending her text messages. I thought oh maybe just a fluke… but today I decided to take a look again at the phone records and noticed that he's been texting that person every single day! And recently started calling her for 30 minutes on his lunch break. I'm debating on if I should even bring this up… Call it snooping. Call it invading his privacy… but why the need to sneak this and not mention it? Am I overthinking it? Its him texting her not her texting him…. Why doesn't he call me? Granted we live and share our life together… but… maybe it's the hormones… Thoughts? Suggestions? Advise?

So I ve been thinking about getting my nipples pierced lately. I haven t told my husband yet because I was wanting them to be a surprise for him on his birthday in December. My goal was to get them done on my birthday then let them heal for 8 weeks and then surprise him on his birthday. I don t know what he would enjoy more, being surprised and being able to play with them, or me getting them with him but now he has to wait to do anything. I d like guy and girls opinions please. Thanks!!

For example a Catholic & Christian(Baptist or Pentecostal) or any other. How were child rest, etc.