How long did it take for your marriage certificate to come back, with the state number on it and what state are you in? Alabama residents preferably?

Hello. I need some advice. Nowdays i spend times, trying to solve some problems in my marriage. This is probably mostly about my sensitive personality. 1. My husband is working in my country and I am taking care of my son at home for about one and half years. Coming to my country, he transfered all of his money to my bank account since mine was international. In a while, he told me that he gave me the money while we were talking about stuffs. But I know it is not mine, but ours and Im trying not to spend lots of money and to save. In my mind, eventhough I got much more money than his now, but i think it is our savings and it is not really mine. So I suggested him to give me some money to spend for our house utillities. He said he would give me 1000$,which is about a little less half of his incom. He pays rent fee, not cheap, and buys food. And eventually, after all of that, he can not save good money. This month, he got paid but didnt give the money yet. He is good man and honest but he hasnt mentioned about the money yet. I guess he wants to save more in his account but I dont want to bother him by talking about it and i want him to mention about it first. Should I just wait? Or should I just understand him not talking about the money first? I want to be a wise wife. I want to understand husbands situations in this case. Advice?

He seems stressed and angry right now. I am afraid of him. I don't think it would be good if we ever had kids and this anger continues. But I always thought our marriage would last... He won't get counseling because he says our marriage isn't worth it.

After a very almost toxic relationship with lots of fighting my ex decided to end things we are still married we still live together but he is absolutely positive instead he will not change his mind about us being done. He said that we are unhealthy to each other and I also think that my begging to him turned him off once and for all. I did ask him weeks ago if it would matter if things were different and we could get along and he said yes but it's too late for that. I've had different people tell me different things and I've had a counselor tell me that it is possible to save the marriage even if only one person wants to work on it by focusing on me and putting myself first and hoping that he comes around. He wanted to be friends at first but I obviously couldn't handle that and just was emotional and angry and now he doesn't talk to me at all really and he says he can't be there for me and the way he used to be I'm afraid if I move out that I will never see him again. We've had a lot of good times together and I think the both of us didn't understand the basics of what a healthy relationship is and I know that if we coulld learn we would be so incredibly happy and I wish I could take back all of the mistakes. For me marriage is not calling it quits at the sign of trouble it's for better or for worse and I just don't want to give up yet. If he were just a boyfriend of course it would be easier to walk away but this is not just my husband but best friend

Now a days,she don't like i talk with my brother and delete my brothers number from my mobile.and also not allowing me to send money to my parents.when i force her then she tell me i will give you divorce and you have to go back to your country, I am earning $3700 per month ,she even not allowing me to use my money,she said i am saving money for home, she only give me $50 per month to use ,She have many relatives in Usa but i don't have any relative in usa, what should i have to do?

Should you stop doing something if you know it's harmless but it makes your spouse uncomfortable? Shouldn't your spouse trust you and let it go and not complain? For example sometimes my boss texts me about personal conversations that have nothing to do with work. My spouse says I shouldn't be talking to my boss about that stuff and it makes him uncomfortable. I have no attraction to my boss and would never cheat. Shouldn't my husband relax and not make a big deal if he trusts me?

I had this fear that my girlfriend had some relationship with one of my friends since they have been friends for a lot longer than I knew both of them. Recently, that fear was confirmed. She is very honest with me and I value her trust, so when I asked out of curiosity, she told me that they slept once with each other but is was before she and I knew each other. She said when they were both very drunk and it meant nothing. They don't even discuss it, nor think about it. My girlfriend and I have dated for about a year and a half and we love each other very much and we are planning on moving in together soon. My friend is also a real cool guy and I hang out with him plenty, she does as well. When they talk it seems as nothing happened. I know what they did is not wrong and they had no bad intentions, since I was no where in the picture. Yet I have this bad feeling in my stomach and it's all I've been thinking about. Part of me wants to just forget it and the other part can't get the image of them having sex out. What should I do and how?

someone wear diapers cause overactive bladder and he refuse to change himself so his wife have to change him. if she say she don't want to change him they'll get into it.

A friend of mine from high school who is Black, is married to an African man. From what I understand, she has this "black power!" kind of perspective where we have to support the African American race by NOT marrying outside of our race. Obviously, she took it to the extreme, as she married someone who's 100% Black. I don't have a problem with that, but I think the fact that her future husband couldn't have a Caucasian parent, grandparent, great-grandparent, etc. is over-the-top. Personally, I see nothing wrong with wanting to meet a man/woman who is the same race, provided it's a PREFERENCE, not REQUIRED. Basically, my friend is the kind of person who will feel more sorry for a biracial baby (OMG that poor baby will grow up confused) than a baby born with no legs. To make a long story short, the reason why I think what she did was a big mistake is because: At our high school reunion, one of her classmates, rubbed and massaged her crotch area, and she didn't pull his hand away, but rather enjoyed it. So apparently, she's cheating on her husband. Did she marry him for the wrong reasons?

We have been together for nearly two years and I thought he was the one for so many reasons but within the past 6 months some things have happened that have made me rethink if I really want to marry him. He has a young son from his previous marriage and although Im not crazy by his sons behavior sometimes I understand that he's only 7 and kids are just kids an I care about his son a lot. However one night his son was acting out and we got into a huge disagreement over it and my boyfriend reacted by shutting me out and turning on me. He ended up bad mouthing me to a friend of his behind my back about the whole thing and even took a trip out of town to stay with some friends I never met and never invited me. Some of the friends were single women of the opposite sex. This is weird because he's told me in the past he wouldn't want me going on vacations without him so it seems hypocritical and hurtful. He also is a financial mess and has trouble paying his bills and relies on his mom to help him sometimes. He also doesnt respect of listen to his I feel when I tell him about things. For example his ex will call late at night to talk about their son and Ive told him it bothers me and she shouldn't call at 11pm and he says I should just trust him and not make a big deal about it but it bothers me and he doesnt seem to care. It is causing me to rethink marriage to him altogether. Am I being petty?

My husband of 4 years and I are currently going through a divorce. We have two kids, 7 and 5, and while I love them and had the happy family I thought I always wanted, my husband cheated on me. Seeing statictiscs and unhappy married couples my whole life, I never wanted to get married in the first place, the man who like all the others told me it was in my head and I should trust him turned out like all the others; a traitor. He apologized, told me it wasn't my fault, wanted to go to counseling but I couldn't do it, my mental state was already fragile before I married him, even with two kids it took years before I agreed to try and this happened. Thinking it over there was no warning for this to me, we barely fought, I cooked almost every night, we traveled, took turns cleaning, got married in another country on the beach. There was a reason I never wanted him this close because I knew the result, currently I'm staying in a 1 bedroom apartment, I, not him left our house and kids, I don't want any of it anymore. Four months into this and my feelings haven't changed. I want him to have full custody because I can't stand to see them, I still talk to them everyday and want to be set up for child support. I'm told I'm wrong to just abandon everything, but why stay? He ruined my life after swearing he'd never hurt me. He broke his promises so why should I keep mine?

Where they visited with their wives and on seeing him gives a winky smile which made him feel humiliated as he could'nt guess their intent(positive or negative). Changing city is not possible as their home is well built n in India the parents also stay with their children. Also he notices them looking towards him and discussing something n he could'nt control his thoughts that are coming insisting him that they might be making fun of him together whereas the wife is enjoying the occasion with the He also feels they are the superior as they dont have to face those situation as he knows nothing about them n their wives but they know everything about his wife's body n secrets n even got her before then Just imagine the situation n give an idea to teach them a lesson n feel respected in the croud.

He's my best friend and we're very close it feels like we are brother/sister sometimes. We're virgins so we haven't done anything before. Won't this be awkward... I think I just wanna watch tv with him and forget anything else

Jack and Amanda get married. Jack has a brother named Declan and Amanda has a half sister named Charlotte. Declan and Charlotte fall in love and want to get married. is that legal?