She doesn't vent all that much to her husband. But she vents to me quite a bit (only when she needs). What do you take from that?

Hi, I'm a 24 year old guy who really likes & finds women in their 30's & 40's attractive but they think it's wrong or weird. Also, this isn't about money. I'm a forklift operator with a class A license. I did meet a woman last year who was in her mid 40's & a blonde. Even we both liked each other & we both made each other feel happy & special & dance a lot at night clubs to make her feel young. She told me she couldn't see her being with a guy my age, let alone tell her family & friends about me. So, I want to know: Is it weird that I'm 24 & I find women in their thirty's & 40's really attractive?

JFK did it all the time he even had Monroe song happy birthday to him Jackie didn't care

Me and this guy always watched each other. He stared at me and I stared at him. One day I was walking behind him in the hallway. My mind was on a lot of things that day. While he was walking, all of a sudden he dropped a tissue. This caused me to have to walk past him. Did he intentionally drop the tissue because he was shy that I was behind him? Or what?

I left my vacuum and some hair products at his house. We didn't "actually" breakup - he basically just stopped communicating with me, and it's become apparent that he has found someone else. On July 29, after a week of not talking, I told him to send me my stuff because I'm 700 miles away. He said he would when he has time, but it's now August 10 and I still haven't gotten anything back. How do I get my stuff back? :(

I got married last year, so I think my marriage with my husband is still a bit new. My husband is a Sagittarius guy and he loves the outdoors. However, these days his love for the outdoors have become excessive to me. He stays out all night! He never calls to let me know if he's alright or when he'll be home. He actually has day offs from his daily excursions, and on these day offs he's at home with me but on his phone! From morning to night. He says he loves knowledge and he likes research (frankly, I consider social media anything but "knowledge" and "research"). He even tries to "squeeze me in" to his time by asking me to have breakfast with him at our favorite restaurant, and I will think it's something spontaneous and romantic only to find out that he's doing it to soften me up so he can go on the road for the rest of the day. I constantly have conversations with him about this but his excuse is that he's networking. He wants to meet new people. He wants to further his career. Fine, understandable, but should I be concerned if his outings are literally every single day from morning to late hours at night (1AM - 2AM) ? When I speak to him about these things he will ask me a ridiculous question: "Should I just stay home and forget my career?" Like blackmail to get me to simply "understand" his decisions without question. Should I be concerned? Or just trust and let him do as he pleases even though it hurts me in the process?

Is it also true that men know when they'd marry a woman?

Been married 3 years but hubby s oldest sister has been a pain I go get payee she goes down there with him and now she is payee. Hubby is so scared of her he suffers with a mental inpairment and I see nothing is going to change we have talked but how much he understands just do not know. Made him head of household lost my Section 8 worker said I would have to reapply great there is a waiting list one thing think he said was to contact social services which I did not do/ I am beside myself with worry if Social Services can help what do I say to them could they help me and my daughter to get somewhere to live I have put an application here where we live now am going to fill out one for a retirement place I am 55 seems everything has a waiting list . Those apartments available I cannot afford on my daughters salary I need to get out of here and soon also I wont to separate from him answers ASAP

My husband an d I went to lunch at this restaurant which used to be in our side of neighborhood but moved months ago further away to a more commercialized area. Anyways, we sat down and he immediately recognized the female server who came with our menus. He had this beaming smile and says teasingly "we're here except you're miles aways" farther. He obviously had a conversation prior to this with the person possibly before they left their old location. The server responded, we're not too far, thank you for visiting us here. My husband had this lingering smile on his face that I have to say, I rarely see. He has this big toothy smile as she was approaching our table which I rarely see. As I said the restaurant location used to be closer to us and even closer to my husband's work place. As a matter of fact, it was my husband who called my attention to this place back then coz he would often go there. Btw, my husband met me at the parking lot before we went in tothis restaurant and he didn't give me the same big smile. What do you think, should I be bothered, say something?

Emotionally... I want a man like my ex but with all his good qualities not his bad ones! I feel like he is dead now or that he died bad qualities: physically and emotionally/mentally abusive, had substance abuse and alcohol problems, had baby mama problems, disbarred from practicing law, had anger and jealousy issues, divorce problems, smoking, etc Good ones: affectionate, committed, good in bed, can cook, "smart" academically, etc.

you've heard that they have separated. Do married people sometimes seem as if things are better than they are, particularly at social events? Not a criticism, just basically a question.

The sort of things that aren't exactly disrespectful or worth fighting over. For instance here are a few things my husband does that I find off putting: Takes advantage when people offer to pay for things. Will order steak dinners, etc but never reciprocates. He does this to me when I offer to foot the bill for things. Puts off his chores and duties or does a poor job at them. takes no pride in repairing the house hold or his half of lawn, etc. tries to get away with doing the minimal. They're things that make me feel less attracted to him over time. does he have the right to know how I feel about these sort of things? or is it wrong to say something.

He is so nice, lovely, and his body is super strong, tall and muscled. He has lifting me so many times without any reasons, when we are playing volleyball, in beach. My husband never discussed me in this ever! 1st time he did it, I felt disgusting !! but now with doing it more and more, I became familiar with it and sometime I love being lifted and carried by him. Is this feeling is a kind of cheating? is my husband's friend cheating my husband? or its normal? PLEASE help

just because I don't like sex with him anymore? our neighbor is a bit younger but hasn't said anything but its embarrassing.

My boss occasionally texts me late at night about work stuff (after 10pm). This irritates my husband and my husband has told me not to respond until this next morning. My husband also told me to tell my boss not to text that late. Is my husband being controlling and should I tell my boss to stop doing that?

My skin looks nice, it kind of glows though. I get a lot of compliments from women that say my skin looks better than there's 🙂.

My relative is married(in 2015) with a girl and have one daughter. Now his wife is troubling him daily for small-small things. Her parents are also pressurizing my relative. We have gone to their home for settling matter, but they were not listening. They even talked rudely with us. My relative is very innocent and he is afraid of her. What legal notice we can sent against her so that they stop troubling him?

In other words, do all my "friends" that fill me with joy as simply friends, have to be all males? Like for instance my spouse is the only female I am and ever will physically touch, hold, cuddle with, sweet talk. But I enjoy talking to female friends about things my baby does, tasty foods, traveling, venting about the feeling of not sleeping a lot, and I have guy friends too but I guess the question is should i feel guilty having any female friends at all once not single anymore?

Wife said she was worried I tell my friend everything and talk behind her back. I ensured her that I don't and I said I will work on tellin her more as she is my wife. My therapist said this is a way my wife is trying to get reassurance that I still care. Life is tough with young children and stress, but do you think this is true? She doesn't discuss feelings, but this would be a weird way of showing me. Thanks all. I'm working on this and appreciate your comments.

My wife and I have been looking at places to rent in the area we just moved for my work. Today, we were shown a place my wife loved, but I hated the moment I laid eyes on the place. It was a large house, very modern, but of a design I couldn't stand, in a neighborhood I disliked, in a suburb I don't want to live in. Too boot, it would have more than doubled my commute compared to other areas we've been looking. I work a demanding, stressful job that often runs 12 hour days, and with this place I've got a nearly 2 hour round trip drive commute in awful traffic (on the flip side, that means I'd spend very few waking hours at home, whereas for my wife it's her place a lot of the day). I decided initially to try and swallow my feelings about it. I could see my wife falling in love with the place. But I have a lousy poker face, so she could tell I was lying through my teeth when I said I could live there. From there, she firmly said she didn't want it anymore, since she knew I wasn't happy. Unfortunately, every place we've looked closer my wife has disliked, mostly due to size. I've either liked or been indifferent everywhere else, but this was the first one I really had hard feelings against. We are running low on options now that fit our time and budget. Nothing seems to placate us both. It's a rental, so should I just muscle it out for a few years and give her the place she wants?

I'm throwing a surprise party for my husband's 30th over Labor Day weekend. Instead of having a picnic at family's house, we are going to have a huge party at a restaurant. How can I get him there? He's going to know something is up if we don't have a Labor Day picnic.

my husband is torturing me and makes me cry..i never have peace..the cops came and told himm..but still he toturesss..what can i do..why he wants me to cry why he wants me to cry and makeeeee me unhappy...why he has to tortureeeee

I don't think the diamond is real and he got me a Skull ring because I like skulls but still it Doesn't seem right send a woman a neckless. And yet in not allowed to send my online friend another woman like my self a teddy bear that she requested that I made. He told me i couldn't send it that she have to send payment first . Him getting another woman jewelry makes me feel like a failure.

I've never done anything before so I'm nervous but I don't want him to see me either. Can't we just watch tv like when I hang out at his house?

My boyfriends ex wife is a constant presence. She refuses to respect boundaries and last night text my boyfriend while we were sleeping several times at 4am. Is this acceptable?

She made me a chicken pot pie for lunch but I wanted a sandwich with chips so when she gave me the pot pie and took it and threw it in the garbage saying "here's to you humble garbage can!" Then I sat back down and pounded my knife and fork on the table yelling "sandwich now!" She threw her wedding ring at me and left the house slamming the door. Did she just leave me?