Family: Question: Please help! I caused a problem!?

Question: Please help! I caused a problem!?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 01:51 PM PDT

I feel extremely guilty and I just want to kill myself. My family got into a fight because of me. We were going to an amazing place, but I had an anxiety attack and didn't want to go anymore. My family thought my anxiety attack was just a headache. I tried to explain that it wasn't, but it was too hard while I cried. Everyone wanted to go and i just ruined it. This caused everyone to fight. It made my little brother cry and now my mom is angry at me. I was crying and trying to breath a lot. My family was screaming at each and me, which made me feel more guilty. I tried to solve the problem, but I just made it worse. Now I feel like garbage. I shouldn't have been born in the first place. Its ALL MY FAULT. Please help. My Mom is out shopping, and my two brothers went to where my family was supposed to go before I ruined it. They probably all hate me. I can't stop crying. I hate myself so much because I caused lots of drama. I didn't mean to do it. I dont know what to do!

Question: How should I feel about what my dad did for my daughter?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 01:47 PM PDT

My daughter is going to start college in 2 weeks. The college is 100 miles away. She will be sharing an apartment with 3 other girls. She ask me how I thought she should get around and go the grocery store and other places as there is no public transportation where she is staying. I ask her if any of the other girls at the apartment had a car and she checked and none did. They told her they will use a bike to get around. She wanted me to buy her a bike. I told her with the high cost of tuition, books, and her apartment, it might be a used bike. She visited my dad and mom last weekend and she talked to them about the problem she would have getting around at college and that I planned to buy her a bike. My dad told her that he used to be an ambulance driver and he had picked up MANY people that had be hit on their bike by a car. He said the bike driver was usually DEAD or severely injured in a car bike accident. He was going to get her something safer than a bike to use at college. He then took her to a car dealer and bought her a new Kia Soul so she would be safe. She thinks she has the greatest grandpa in the world now. I am not sure how I feel about this. Dad did not buy me a new car when I went to college. Is dad trying to make me look bad to my daughter because I could not afford to buy her any car let alone a new one or his he concerned about her safety on a bike. How should I feel about what my dad did?

Question: Why does he want to match tattoos?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 12:32 PM PDT

So I'm really good friends with this guy, we're very close,. I was telling him how I was looking for tattoo places as I wanna get one, and tune sout he wanted to get one too! We both love pineapples! So without telling him I was going to get a pineapple tattoo, a little one.. and Like I said I hadn't told him. I asked him to send a picture of the tattooo he wanted and it was a pineapple tattoo as well! He asked to go get our tattoo together so we could be matching. Guys I'm just wondering but would that be weird? Why does he want to match? FYI, we wanted to get pine apples because he loves pineapples and for me it symbolizes the greatest summer I've ever had with my family and for the fun friendship I have with him

Question: 10 Points for informative, thorough answer on family issue!!!!?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 12:20 PM PDT

So... In blatant terms, I HATE my mom. Everything about her, and do not judge me right away, let me explain. First off, it is not just me, anyone who ACTUALLY knows her agrees. My older brother and sister both are not letting their kids meet her and want to disown her as soon as they can. Furthermore, my dad thinks that she is psychotic too, he is only with her because of us kids. The biggest thing that pisses me off about her is that she lies about everything! everything! I ask her questions I know the answer to, just to see if she will lie, every time I find out she lies. She lies about stuff that there is no reason to lie about such as what she ate for lunch. You cannot have a convo. with her either as she wont listen or just say "yea yea yea" but that is just her tactic to shut you up. I am known at school as the guy with the crazy mother. At first the teachers thought she was funny and nice, then they slowly realized that she was not joking and she began doing things. She has come after me on occasion, but has never succeeded in serious damage, but I have been hit. Not only this, but she has accomplished 0 things in her life. I have no reason to be proud of her. She never finished college, and has never had a job, she does not cook or clean, she is overweight etc. I am simply embarrassed of her, the only positive of her being in the house is that she drives me places. I want to know if i am simply a teen embarrassed of their parent or if this IS a different story. I also want to add that she has some medical conditions, but denies them all, she thinks that she is perfect. What should I do? It is hard to ignore her as I live with her. Also, people who do not know her think that i must be an arrogant little cock for hating her, but they do not know WHAT ACTUALLY GOES ON. All they see is her "show" She is the adult so nobody thinks she is the problem simply because she is older. That aggravates me even more, because they think that I am a little kid.

Question: I wanna smoke with my dad and his girlfriend...?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 12:14 PM PDT

I'm 17 (18 next month) and a girl, my dad smokes blunts/mj/420/pot/weed/joints/etc. all the time and he does ask me if I'm okay with it and to be completely honest I don't mind...BUT I WANNA HIT!😭 How can I ask/convince my dad to let me smoke with him?

Question: My grandfather passed away earlier. Should I take off from work. Read below.?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 12:12 PM PDT

My grandfather was 81. He served in the US Army and had kidney problems. He refused to eat for the past week and I got a call today telling me he passed away in his sleep. I work as summer relief and go back to school later this week. I figured I should work today to get me out of the house and keep me moving, and I would have to take a day off from work later this week for his funeral. Summer relief usually don't get sick or personal days but I know the boss so he would be willing to give me the day off if I wanted it. Should I work today?

Question: Is it weird to live with my parents the rest of their lives?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 12:09 PM PDT

Ok, so lately - especially as I'm getting older, I feel like it's weird to still live with my parents (im 22 and my sister is 29) we still live at home & have never moved out. Would it be weird to continue living with my nuclear family until my parents pass away or even when I have children & get married? If you were dating somebody who wanted their parents to live with them and space wasnt an issue, could you adjust? I don't know. I just love my family and now that my parents are getting older so I don't see the point in lost time when I can spend time with them every day. Good point. Our house is big enough for multiple families, I guess I am the odd duck in society! Lol

Question: I am not allowed to text girls. I will get beaten up if I do. I live in a conservative house. I want to leave. How do I text without parents?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 12:04 PM PDT

My parents always want to see my phone. Before I was allowed to text now I cant cuz my mom saw my bumble pics. I am pakistani and in muslim family. I cant even punch them cuz i could go to jail. i want to leave my faith but im not allwoed to. i coudl get klled

Question: Can you bring charges of assault against your sister if she's 17?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 12:01 PM PDT

I'm visiting home right now and my sister has become something else. I'm 22 and she's 17, almost 18. She goes out at night which isn't a problem in and of itself, but she goes out way past the legal curfew by as much as coming home at 3AM. She yells at our parents, refuses to do chores, and is overall petty and disrespectful. Last night she came home at 1AM and said she was at work. Her restaraunt closes at 10PM, and she is a hostess. She's not in the back washing dishes or anything like that. I bring up the things my parents told me about then she said to piss off. I told her she's acting like a damn child then she tried to slap me. She missed so I grabbed her arms and told her if she does that again, she's getting an assault charge. She's a grown *** woman, it's time she be treated like one. To be honest I feel like it's because my parents let her get away with a lot of things.

Question: I wish I can get close with my second cousins but my parents never take me to meet them and I always feel left out what should I do?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 11:51 AM PDT

Question: How do I get my parents to say yes to this?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 11:49 AM PDT

Me and my friend want to go to an NFL game about an hour and half away from our houses. I'm 16 he is 17 so we can drive but last time I went to that area with my same friend, I got pulled over for speeding. I completely understand that my parents don't want me driving there again but my friend is going to drive. I'm willing to have my dad come if he wants and he can drive then but I don't know that he will be willing to pay for the ticket. Is there any way I can convince my parents to go to this?

Question: My Mom insults my Dad and step-Mom to me regularly and it makes me feel unfaithful to them. How do I express this to her?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 11:47 AM PDT

It hurts me but I don't want to make her mad. I am 15 years old. I feel bad because when younger I believed everything she said, now I don't. So how do I express to her that it makes me nervous and feel unfaithful to them?

Question: My mother makes insulting comments about how fat my cousin is. Is this cruel of her or okay since the cousin doesn't work out?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 11:42 AM PDT

It is my Mom's niece.

Question: Is my mom narcissistic/jealous of me?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 11:38 AM PDT

My mom is always on her phone texting, calling but whenever I do its different.My mom loves to manipulate me and make me feel like Im the bad guy.My mom has changed into this person idk leading to her cheating on my dad(for 2 years).Whenever my mom asks me to take a pic of her if it doesn't look good she attacks me.If I dont look good in a picture and she does shes keeps it.Its like she gets motivated when I'm down or lazy.My mom knows that im very emotional yet doesnt give a ****.I got the Samsung galaxy s8 plus yesterday and my dad got it for me.The case I got with it cost like $100.My mom wanted the phone aswell but I got it.She was constantly eyeing me down while I set my phone up.My dad noticed it too and told her why she looks upset.Later I was talking to her she was ignoring me.Yesterday she said why dont you get a 7(she got it like 6 months ago)since she has it and wants to get the phone I have.Ever since my dad moved out she hasn't trusted me and I know it.My dad even told me he said he knew she didn't trust me. she's always telling me to live with my dad.She thinks I never listen to her.I personally don't like to kiss *** my mom clearly wants that.I hate being told what to do but I want to gain her trust again but I believe she thinks I'm out to get her when I'm really not I can't even be to nice to her cause then she's automatically questions me and makes me feel like I did a bad thing.I dont want to move out and im afraid of her response.What should I do? I'm 14

Question: I live in California, but it won't let me join a cash league. I'm visiting family in AZ but I don't live here I see error #982?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 11:35 AM PDT

I live in California, but it won't let me join a fantasy football cash league. I'm visiting family in AZ but I don't live here I see error #982?

Question: Should I get an escort because I just can t get a woman?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 11:35 AM PDT

I am sure I could get a really fat chick that would make me want to vomit so I take that part back. Its not fair for me to have to date a fat chick for example because I am not fat. That would be like me saying I want to date a movie start its not realistic or reasonable. I am far from picky I just won't date a morbidly obese person, drug addict, serious problems, etc.

Question: My step daughter turned 18 yesterday-- we ended up getting a hotel room?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 11:25 AM PDT

we did have sex and it was meh`--but my step daughter has been all over me today, wanting to go back to hotel but I don't feel like it, it wasn't as good as I thought she would be, sure she's better than my sick wife but that was expected. is this another example of the grass is always greener?

Question: Was I flirting with my mother in law.? Please tell me what you think.?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 11:20 AM PDT

My mother in law June told me she wanted to start dating again and hopefully get married again. She ask me what I thought of her chances of finding a man that would marry her. I told her with her great looks, a year from now she would have been on her honeymoon. She should plan now for her wedding dress as I know she will get a marriage proposal soon. She said is that true or are you just trying to make me feel good? I assured her what I was telling her was true. I told her men can not resist a beautiful woman with a great figure and she would soon be married. My wife, her daughter heard what I said and told me to stop flirting with her mother. Gals what do you think? Does what I said sound like I was flirting with her mother? I never in a million years would have thought of it that way. I thought I was just telling the truth.

Question: Opinions of my mom -- Please respond?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 11:05 AM PDT

So... In blatant terms, I HATE my mom. Everything about her, and do not judge me right away, let me explain. First off, it is not just me, anyone who ACTUALLY knows her agrees. My older brother and sister both are not letting their kids meet her and want to disown her as soon as they can. Furthermore, my dad thinks that she is psychotic too, he is only with her because of us kids. The biggest thing that pisses me off about her is that she lies about everything! everything! I ask her questions I know the answer to, just to see if she will lie, every time I find out she lies. She lies about stuff that there is no reason to lie about such as what she ate for lunch. You cannot have a convo. with her either as she wont listen or just say "yea yea yea" but that is just her tactic to shut you up. I am known at school as the guy with the crazy mother. At first the teachers thought she was funny and nice, then they slowly realized that she was not joking and she began doing things. She has come after me on occasion, but has never succeeded in serious damage, but I have been hit. Not only this, but she has accomplished 0 things in her life. I have no reason to be proud of her. She never finished college, and has never had a job, she does not cook or clean, she is overweight etc. I am simply embarrassed of her, the only positive of her being in the house is that she drives me places. I want to know if i am simply a teen embarrassed of their parent or if this IS a different story. I also want to add that she has some medical conditions, but denies them all, she thinks that she is perfect. What should I do? It is hard to ignore her as I live with her. Also, people who do not know her think that i must be an arrogant little cock for hating her, but they do not know WHAT ACTUALLY GOES ON. All they see is her "show" She is the adult so nobody thinks she is the problem simply because she is older. That aggravates me even more, because they think that I am a little kid and I must be wrong.

Question: My cousins evil step mother and step sisters hated him. So they falsely accused him of molesting his half sisters. They got their way.?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 10:31 AM PDT

The doctors could find no evidence that she had been messed with. And she has lived a happy life ever since. So she wasn't molested.

Question: What age can you stay home alone?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 10:20 AM PDT

I live in Michigan, girl and I'm 14. We're almost always gone for the whole day cuz my parents go shopping, do errands, etc, in town. I personally don't like doing all that stuff all day, everyday. I'm an only child. We live like 13 mins away from town. I also don't get to hangout out with my friends cuz I'm always with them. Would I be able to stay home alone for quite a few hrs? Or go somewhere with my friends without my parents? Thx

Question: My boyfriends mom is emotionally abusive to him. I hate to see him so depressed. What should I do?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 10:16 AM PDT

My boyfriends mom abuses him emotionally. She calls him names like dip **** and the reason for my unhappiness. His brother recently went off to college and as they dropped him off she said the son I loved is now gone. His mom cusses him so much grief. He calls me all the time so upset about her. When I'm at his moms house she seems so sweet but he sends me videos of her when I'm not around and she is sometimes just completely cruel. She hasn't physically abused him and if she does it's rare. She has slapped him and few times but it's usually just emotional stuff. He goes to therapy and he has anxiety and depression. He feels as tho he is useless and no good and thinks he treats me like crap when he treats me like I princess. A few days ago his mom did something that causes him to punch something in anger. Whatever he punched broke and it slices up his knuckles pretty good. He would never intentially hurt himself but it still worries me. I love him so so much and he means the world to me. What should I do? How can I help?

Question: My cousin is so fat because she eats when nervous. Another cousin who I am closer to might be the same, we don't know. How do we spot signs?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 10:01 AM PDT

By the same I mean over-eating because of emotional problems. I think she just eats junk food but some worry she might eat when upset. She has parents who belittle, insult, and resent her so my Mom and I have been reaching out to her. The other cousin who we know has over-eating issues has a mother who loves her so we don't get involved.

Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 09:56 AM PDT

http://imgur.com/a/rNXmQ

Question: I don't know who to live with?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 09:53 AM PDT

my parents got divorced when I was 12. Since then my mom has had countless men over. She's slept with all. Some were mentally abusive and once or twice physically abusive towards me and my mom just watched it happen. She never defended me. My mom is now 40 and I'm almost 16. She's still doing the same thing. Driving drunk to men's houses. Leaving for days at a time. Sometimes I ask her if she could stay home one weekend to spend time with me and she just calls me selfish for not letting her have her time with guys. She talks to multiple guys at a time. She'll meet weird guys online and invite them over. I'm living in fear that one of these guys is going to be a murderer or rapist. The only reason I live with her is because I have my own room, she's not as strict as my dad and my brother lives here too. But it's coming to a point where I'm just tired after 4 years of dealing with my mom acting like this and putting me last. She's not even going to be home for my 16th birthday. However my dad is very strict. He lives in a one bedroom apartment with his wife and my little brother. There's no room for me there and I don't want to intrude, my stepmom can also be very rude. I don't know where to go. I'm just tired of being here. Thoughts? Advice?

Question: How do I act when with my poisonous mother who poisons me with her bitterness but I have to see some since she is my mother?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 09:51 AM PDT

Question: My Dad found gay porn on my old phone! What should i do I'm shaking!?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 09:44 AM PDT

So a year ago I gave my old phone to my dad cause I didn't need it. Before giving him the phone I deleted all my pictures and porn. And just a minute ago he confronted me and showed my porn. The reason he found it cause it was One drive and I completely forgot that my pictures where saved on it. What should I do Imiss 14 and I'm terrified!

Question: Is it weird I don't want my parents to visit me at work?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 09:43 AM PDT

I'm a guy in my teens and I work at a grocery store. I just don't want my parents to visit me at work. I even have them shop at another store (same company, different store). What do you make of this?

Question: I live in IN. Am I required to let my son stay with his dad even though his dad had bed bugs?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 09:42 AM PDT

My son's dad and I just broke up a couple weeks ago. Nothing has been established about visitation or child support in the courts. His dad asked to watch him while I'm at work, which I am totally fine with, but I asked him to watch him here at our house until I am off work because he stays with mom who has bed bugs. He brought them to our house a few years back after we had broke up and got back together. We were in a different apartment and they got there through his bag of clothes and were taking over after only a week. We ended up just moving to get away from them and spraying our things and leaving things like furniture and beds to be thrown away. Also had to wash clothes multiple times and let them sit for about 3 weeks to make sure we didn't take them with us. He is refusing to watch him at any other place other than his mom's. I am only concerned about the well being of my son and carrying them back to my place! Do I really have to let him stay somewhere and be bitten or at risk for bringing it back here and just have to accept it? I am giving an alternative option, but he just his way.

Question: Am I required to let my son stay with his dad overnight even if his dad has bed bugs?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 09:30 AM PDT

Question: Why am I hated so much, when I am a person who shows love?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 09:14 AM PDT

Let me break it down. I've always been the black sheep of the family, everything I did was different to them, also my spiritual beliefs have always been different. I got bullied by my brothers and sisters when I was a kid. I used to try and impress my siblings and people but nothing seemed to work, I was still hated for some reason. From a kid, I always wanted a classic car, and now that I got one, my family and friends have started acting weird towards me, saying the car is not worth, why did you buy it? Friends not wanted to hang out anymore, ignoring my texts and always trying to find faults with the car. When I had my newer car, everyone wanted to hang out with me and there was no problems in the family. When they see the same car as me somewhere they get so excited and say stuff like "his car is bulletproof, he done it up amazing!!! My older brother and I are into spirituality and reading books on history and conspiracy theories etc. He didn't realise I was into it too and when he comes over for dinner, he randomly starts trying to tell me knowledge and history that I already know. So I said Yeah I know, I'm into things like that too and I read a lot on it. Now he is acting weird with me because I know about the things he's talking about. I get messages from him on occasions saying things like oh you drive a **** car granny's car, my car will destroy yours, keep wasting your money on replacing stuff on the car, lets race, come on

Question: What is the tendency of a family to resist change in order to maintain a steady state is known as ?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 09:10 AM PDT

Question: What do i need to do to get custody of siblings in fostcare already?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 08:08 AM PDT

Hi, I'm currently 17 years old in the process of finishing school, I'll be turning 18 in July an I was wondering if, an,how, an what I need to do to get custody of 4 siblings a male 15 yro ,male 10 yr, 9 yro male, and also the princess 7 yro female! In the past we've been separated, in an out the system, family members, people in town getting rights to my brothers an sister, something always ends ups where we left off there was no other options i guess so My brother the 9yro is in a different state from the other 3, the other 3 are in Cali rn waiting to get adopted supposedly but, my father said it wasn't true because they (his lawyer) recently asked him if he still wanted to fight for the kids an he said of course he does. I never got the chance to take action for any of this as get custody of course cause I wasn't aged appropriate for the situation but now that im getting older as a big sister its only right in my heart to get my siblings back together with each other where they belong being separate is a killer worse thing you can do to a family, I've talked to my dad about it an he actually thinks it's a great idea for me to get custody of them since their giving him a hard time due to his past. The real question tho what should ya girl do i love my brothers an sister dearly I miss them an I know they miss us, my other sister a Year younger than me an a brother who lives with his dad. All together there's 7 of us an we're is what s import many to one another please help!

Question: My uncle is an alcoholic. His kids are upset by it. How do alcoholics effect their children?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 08:06 AM PDT

His kids are ages 16 to 27 and he has four kids.

Question: My Mom resents that I am good to family members I love but she does not. As a result she says they are"using me"when I see them, read below?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 08:01 AM PDT

So when I do a favor for one of them, which I enjoy, and my Mom says they are using me how do I respond? I am an adult so she cannot stop me from seeing people but she tries to make it as difficult as possible as she resents that I am good to family that she is not good to.

Question: I told my mom over the phone that my TV broke?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 07:48 AM PDT

She just said goodbye and hunged up what's going to happen

Question: Am I being too hard on my little sister?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 07:44 AM PDT

I recently got custody of my little sister and she is 14 and about to start high school on the 28th. I told her she must maintain/earn a 2.7 GPA or higher or she will lose priviledges such as netflix, hanging out with friends, cheerleading, and etc. I want her to do well in school so that she can get into a good college. I told her that if she makes good grades that I will buy her a new car when she graduates. I also make her help me housework such as making her bed every morning, emptying the dishwasher, and etc.

Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 07:37 AM PDT

Ok so my mom was looking at me and it's not the first time she has done this and I told her to stop looking at me with her stupid face and she started laughing like she doesn't care. I feel scared now because I feel like something bad is going to happen or I'm going to do bad at something or something is going to come back to me and prove that I'm the stupid one. I'm 17 years old. What do you think of this situation and what should I do?

Question: Anxiety about moving out?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 07:35 AM PDT

So I'm 16 and I've officially moved out, away from my parents and into a new city. (The school system here in sweden are different so that's why I've had to move now.) I'm anxious and scared about being independent, I don't know how to live alone. I've always had support from my mom but she's 2 hours away from me now. I don't know if I can do this??

Question: Is she being honest or is she nippicking??

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 07:12 AM PDT

Is she just nippicking or being honest? So my aunt was nice enough to let my fiancé and I stay at her home until our house come thru. But I'm starting to think she nippicking. She said that since my fiancé is diabetic he tends to leave drops of urine on the floor in the bathroom . I'm like well when I wash my hands n there's no paper towel I tend to have water dripping from my hand so it could be water. She is so sure that it is his urine and how she knows cause urine is crystallize 🤔 I think it's bullshit yet she leaves pubic hair on the toilet seat yet I don't say anything, I just wipe it off but of course she had a excuse for that. I'm wondering if she just nippicking or is there a difference between urine drops on the floor or water from my hands when I wash them. I mean I don't think u can tell.

Question: So there's this guy that i'm talking to. his parents are divorced. his dad and his brother smoke weed and his mom knows about it.?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 06:59 AM PDT

in my family, we don't really associate with illegal smokers. my mom thinks the guy i'm talking to smokes with his dad and brother and she heard about this because it was getting spread around the school by some younger kids who live by him. i haven't told my mom the truth and i'm scared she's going to forbid me to talk to him and i really like him. mind we are in junior high.

Question: How can I see my sister naked without her noticing?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 06:47 AM PDT

Question: It s my 18th birthday and I m really sad?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 06:33 AM PDT

today I turned 18 and no one gives a ****. my mom yelled at me for being lazy and my little brother said it was my own fault he didn t get me anything because I didn t tell him what I wanted for my birthday. my mom didn t get me anything either and my dad didn t even bother to call or text. I have nothing planned for my birthday and I m actually really sad because it s like this every year and I can t even remember the last time I was actually happy on my birthday. I barely have friends and they all have plans. I m literally crying in bed and every year I tell myself: next year will be different. but everytime I end up crying alone in my bed.

Question: How to stop imagine my sister in law in my bed?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 05:47 AM PDT

Question: How to **** my sister in law?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 05:46 AM PDT

Question: Why is it weird to go on vacation with your mother like to vegas and share a room?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 04:31 AM PDT

I'm a girl going on vacation with my mom and people keep teasing me about it. My sister thinks it's weird cuz I'm too old to hangout with her. I felt weird thinking about what we can do together no one wants to join but i think it oculd be fun I'm an adult and I live with my parents so does that make things more weird?

Question: My cousin likes to ask me for money, My Mom resents this cousin (her niece) doing so. How do I politely decline to give it to her anymore?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 03:45 AM PDT

I don't want to hurt her as she has had a very hard life and is looking for work. My Mom resents her just to fit in with her brother who resents her (his daughter is closer to his ex-wife). Her brother is way too bitter at her (the daughter) though so I feel sorry for the daughter. My cousins mother is in no position to help financially due to alcoholism and depression.

Question: Was I molested again or was it my fault? I also feel like I hurt my mom I feel like killing myself?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 03:37 AM PDT

My grandmother molested me for awhile, then we I told what she was doing was wrong I would still push for it and it would happen. It stop for a very long time but then when I was 15 I spent by her house. She ask me how to delete a porn video that was downloaded in her phone and she kinda was on this porn thing, I back away but then I gave it then later on without her asking I got my phone, went to the porn site showed her what to do but then we started watching porn, I started touching myself and we touch a little and after I felt sick and she was fine and the next day I was like your not gonna tell and then she's like no and then she pray to god to forgive both of us. I believe the day before that happened or the day after she was looking to look at the porn kinda like a push. I went into a depression she was fine and now it's like I don't know if this was considered molested again from her or? I feel like I hurt my mom it was also her birthday the following day, I know my grandmother try to molested my mom at a young age and she got to molested her son

Question: How to deal with humiliation ?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 03:12 AM PDT

I went out with my cousin and she got really drunk and did not wanted to get in the car in front of everybody at the party... she kicked me and people laughs outside . I was completed embarrassed; since, she always does this and tries to take my spotlight like if I get any attention she will try to act in a certain way to get attention because any attention it s ok for her... but this time am so angry 😡 I can t even looked at her nor I want to speak to her she called me some mean hurtful things and I just can t deal with her anymore ... I was the one that invested her to the party to be with her and have a bond but I can t deal with that anymore

Question: How do I get rid of a f annoying family member?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 03:11 AM PDT

The person I want to get rid of is my aunt Rachel. It started 3 years ago, she moved in because "there s no jobs in Florida" but really it was because she a dumb ***** who was addicted to meth. I mean really out of all the drugs in the world she chose meth. (and I m not saying there s better drugs than meth, I just think meth is one of the more disgusting drugs out there based off pictures I saw in health class) Anyway my life has been turned into a living hell ever since she got here. I already got her to move out once by placing a empty cereal box (that she left on the counter) into her purse. She flipped out and had a 3 year old temper tantrum and moved out. I was so happy that day, but later she continued to show up every day and sleep on the couch! And now she has moved back in because she has failed to pay rent even though she has a good job as a nurse... Oh yah she has a baby now that might be retarded... I wonder why! She took my grandmothers room and forced me, my dad, and grandma to live downstairs where she continuously stomps over my head on purpose. I can t sleep at all now, I m tired and don t feel like myself anymore and it doesn t help that I have to go to school and work all day. I m going crazy and can t help but think of my aunt and her baby dead... I know that sounds terrible and I hate myself for thinking like that, but life would be so much better with them out of the picture... please help... tell me what I should do...

Question: My aunt devotes time whenever I see her to talking about how good her one daughter is and how bad her son is. How should I respond?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 02:26 AM PDT

She is a narcissistic parent. She has one daughter who is the golden child, one who is treated fair, and a son who she despises and has deep resentment and possibly hate for. How do I respond when this woman, my aunt, begins to dig in on her hatred of her son (the son is the middle child and the golden child the oldest). It is my Mom's sister and even my Mom objects to how her sister treats her son. The son is hated because he did not do well in school (had learning disabilities) and is several years behind in maturity. Also he sometimes gets mad back, the other two kids would never dream of doing that.

Question: What they did to my daughter her mom her brother Armen Morad and Sevan Madadian 3 sales cases drooped?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 01:36 AM PDT

Question: Why is Yvette Arzmanians after 2 years of hell cause of her dad still won't let me see her artin arzmanians?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 01:31 AM PDT

Question: I hit my mom and I feel bad?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 01:23 AM PDT

Earlier me and my mom got into a really bad argument, and she threw something that happened in the past in my face during the argument. What she bought up hurts me so much to the point where I don't want to think about it. I got extremely upset and smacked her across her face, and she didn't hit me back. I feel so guilty. I called her earlier to apologize to her, and she accepted my apology but I still feel so bad. I love my mom to death and I don't know what to do.

Question: I want to run away. Advice, please? Please read the details?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 01:21 AM PDT

My mother is very mean to me, and my father is never home. My brothers all gang up on me and insult me, and never let ,e say anything, and my sister is annoying as heck. My mother hits me just for screaming my sisters name when she ignores me. I've been reading on how to runway, and I've been over it many times. My mother likes the other children better. I'm homeschooled and have no friends. I only get to go outside like once a month. I'm 11 and I'm a girl, and my mom basically calls me ugly in the inside and out, but then later on, she says I'm too pretty... it's weird. She's a loving mother, but I don't get it. Why is she so mean to me? Why me?? What did I do? I just want to live a normal life as a girl. Can't I be a girl for once? :( my mother and father keep fighting too. My baby sister is a brat. What do I do?? Please tell me. Please. Thank you! It would also be helpful if you are a runaway and you tell me some stuff. Thank you so much

Question: My parents keep fighting, but they are catholic and won't get a divorce, and there are four of us in the family four kids, and two parents?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 01:12 AM PDT

Whatever shall I do?! Please tell me can I do anything to stop it?

Question: Are we in our fathers before we're in our mothers?

Posted: 20 Aug 2017 12:40 AM PDT

Question: What can I do about my parents repeatedly catching me masturbate?

Posted: 19 Aug 2017 11:48 PM PDT

Im 33 yo man who needs his daily life of pleasure but my ******* PARENTS KEEP DISRUBTING ME AND CATCHING ME. ITS HONESTLY BEGINNING TO PISS ME OFF. I THINK THEY'RE DOING IT ON PURPOSE AS WELL, FOR STARTERS THEY STOPPED BUYING MCDONALD'S FOR ME AND EVER SINCE THEN THEY HAVE BEEN REPEATEDLY BURSTING INTO MY ROOM AND LAUGH. IT'S THE MOST EMBARRASSING THING EVER.

Question: Is she just nippicking or being honest?

Posted: 19 Aug 2017 11:44 PM PDT

So my aunt was nice enough to let my fiancé and I stay at her home until our house come thru. But I'm starting to think she nippicking. She said that since my fiancé is diabetic he tends to leave drops of urine on the floor in the bathroom . I'm like well when I wash my hands n there's no paper towel I tend to have water dripping from my hand so it could be water. She is so sure that it is his urine and how she knows cause urine is crystallize 🤔 I think it's bullshit yet she leaves pubic hair on the toilet seat yet I don't say anything, I just wipe it off but of course she had a excuse for that. I'm wondering if she just nippicking or is there a difference between urine drops on the floor or water from my hands when I wash them. I mean I don't think u can tell.

Question: When i listen to a certain type of music it makes me feel guilty?

Posted: 19 Aug 2017 11:34 PM PDT

okay so basically i kinda liked this guy right ? we never had sex but we made out and stuff, he sent me very sexual text messages and his parents came to our house and showed them to my mom. i don't live with my mom anymore because the court finally realized she's not a good person. anyways, i (used) to visit her once a week for an hour, supervised. until our last visit when she yelled at me and said i did something "very bad" could she have found out ? they cancelled my visits because of what happened the last time,, so. anyways, this music that i like, like red hot chili peppers and other similar bands, he likes music like that an drew whenever i hear it i think about him, and what happened, and it makes me sick. but i like this music and don't know what to do. i don't want to stop listening to the music. i don't want to tell my therapist about this and i'm not going to. what do i do.