Hi all, I'm getting married December 9th of this year and since I was a young girl it has been my dream to have a Christmas wedding. We're getting married in a church and this church is extremely gorgeous Catholic church with beautiful lights/seasonal flowers during this time which will make for great photos as well. The reception will be a golf club after with 275 people. The golf club will be decorated for Christmas time with lights, ect. We're having Christmas type flowers for all the arrangements and the bridal party will be wearing black dresses. There will be a full band at the reception and a DJ to help when the band needs a break, but I was wondering what type of music our first dance should be and the dance with my father? I keep wanting to do a romantic Christmas song with my husband and not sure if I should do that. I also want the band to play a lot Christmas songs, but not sure if that is a good idea? We're getting married in Annapolis, MD and will be taking photos as the sunsets with all the outdoor Christmas lights/decorations and then when the sun is down as well. I keep wanting this to be a very classy Christmas wedding, but not sure if I should do that? What do you guys think? I've gone with the "Jackie O" classic wedding style just more winter/Christmas theme. What type of music should be played? What song should I do with my father and husband? Is this okay to keep more Christmas themed? Thanks!

I don't want to do it at the courts and we were never very religious so we didn't want to do a church. We are thinking of doing the ceremony at an American Legion or something of that sort. Could we do the ceremony their too?

Can I have more than 1 witness at a court house wedding in New Jersey? We decided on his sister since we are both close to her but I also want my dad there because I can't see myself getting married without him. Would we be able to have both there or just one of them?