of course as a person who does not discriminate i know this is not always true ann

Alot of weird people do it all the time, like a woman marrying a Ferris wheel or a man marrying a tree.

soy una mujer católica que no había practicado su religión desde la perdida de mis padres. Conocí a un hombre que siempre me gusto pero por la diferencia de edad nunca salí con el sin embargo años después nos reencontramos y el ya se había casado y años después practicamos el adulterio por meses pero en ese tiempo nos enamoramos. El es cristiano y se casó de acuerdo a su iglesia. Pero a pesar de conocer la palabra de Dios nunca la practicó debidamente. Cuando nos dimos cuenta que estábamos enamorados quisimos parar pero realmente deseamos estar juntos, iniciar una vida diferente, y realmente tener una relación con Dios, el arrepentido y con miedo de las cosas que sabe de Dios antes de dejar a su esposa pidió direccion a Dios y yo comencé a unirme a pedir con el primero que nada para ser acreedora de su perdón y segundo para poder estar con este hombre. Después de dos años el se divorcio viendo que no había ninguna señal de que no podríamos estar juntos y lo tomo como libre albedrío pero aun no hemos iniciado un noviazgo ni avanzado por la misma situación. Porque el tiene miedo de que el estar juntos traiga malas consecuencias y seguimos esperando una señal de Dios para seguir adelante. Yo la verdad estoy muy arrepentida por haber pecado y el tambien pero en verdad nos amamos y hemos sufrido mucho por ello. quisiera saber si existe una manera de casarnos con el favor bendición y perdón de Dios. Deseamos una relación con Dios

My husband and I are both in our 20's. We've been married for just 6 months and dated for 2 years. Before me, my husband was sexually active. His relationships never lasted more than 4 months and he had at least 10 sexual partners over the span of about 2 years. Most of them were girls he dated but a few were his 'friends with benefits '. It's safe to say he hasn't had problems in the bedroom before me. As soon as we got married our sex life became basically nonexistent. I ask every night, and every night I get the same handful of excuses. I assumed maybe he had low testosterone so I just stopped asking. Today, I found out he has been watching porn regularly. Now, I have no problem with porn. I even watch it myself. My problem is with him lying to me and saying he's too tired or he's not in the mood and then going off to watch porn shortly after. It hurts that he prefers porn over me. It makes me feel like he isn't attracted to me and I bore him and on top of that Im already upset because I feel like my needs arent being met. I haven't gained weight, I do everything for him, and I even try initiating sex and putting on lingerie to help him get in the mood so I don't understand what Im doing wrong..Ive tried talking to him about this but I get no where and now idk what to do

We're both virgins

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and are going to become engaged in the next year or so. My family would like me to have a prenup agreement. Do I talk to him now about this or wait till we become engaged? I'm afraid this will start a fight and that I don't trust him.

me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now he's 32 and im 23 (our anniversary is this weekend) and he hasn't said "i love you yet" says he's still "sorting out if he's in love with me or not" despite us seeing each other mutliple times a week said he wanted me to move in with him then changed his mind after an argument we had over him not saying "i love you yet" telling me i'm trying to force his love and im being too pushy and he's still hurt from being betrayed in his last marriage ( he's been divorced for 6 years his ex wife cheated) anyways now he's coming up with new drama last night we were watching the bactorlette and he said the girl on there is only hot cause shes a lawyer thats why all the guys wanted her and then told me if i wanted us to actually get married and have kids i need to come with a college degree since he has 3 mind you i just got back in school after taking a few years off to just work (im a pharmacy tech ) so that in its self is a career but to him since i dont have a degree im not "wife material" because to him a degree lets him know that his woman can use her brain and not just her looks to get ahead mind you i have my pharmaceutical certification just not a degree ive been to school some just not graduated and when we met i wasn't in school and he told me i could contune my job and he can take care of the both of us now its the "i cant see a future with you without you having a degree hurry up" IS HE FULL OF SH*T SHOULD I JUST LEAVE? WE DONT LIVE TOGETHER RIGHT NOW I STILL LIVE WITH MY PARENTS WE NEVER MOVED IN TOGETHER BECAUSE HE THINKS IM TRYING TO FORCE HIM INTO LOVE AND MARRIAGE AND ITS NOT THAT I DONT WANT TO FINISH SCHOOL I DONT WANT TO HAVE SOMEONE ONLY MARRY ME FOR THE FACT THAT I HAVE A DEGREE OR NOT I WANT SOMEONE TO FALL IN LOVE AND MARRY ME FOR WHO THE F**K I AM NOW NOT YEARS FROM NOW!!

He wants me to dance ok the pole naked in front of male strangers. I'm a good dance. But is it common amoung husbands to be ok with their wives naked?

I am still legally married to my husband we have been separated since April though. He is dating someone new for the last month and already moving her in as well as tying to impregnate her and he calls her his soul mate. We were together 11 years and it hurts to see how easily he's not only moved on but also calling her his soul mate and telling her he loves her. How do I cope?

So, if a 7 year old boy finds out his mom is cheating on his dad and openly flirts with different men would this hurt him?

My dad is dating a woman who is half his age and she has 3 kids. He is up in age and is talking about getting married again, I'm really agitated because I have a feeling that she is staying with him because of money. As the only child who doesn't make enough money on my own, the house may go to her and her kids and I may be kicked out. As I plan on renting the house out so I can have another source of income so I can live at my own place. I feel very selfish but I don't like uncertainty. someone understands what I'm talking about!

We ve known each other 20 years, dated for a while, split up and have now recently got married. We are looking to relocate south soon. He tells me I m his soul mate, his fantasy, etc. Things are great. However we had a conversation tonight about moving. We mutually agreed on Miami, although it was first my choice. Now he said that he thinks I need to reevaluate Miami, as there s so much temptation there as far as women. I say he may be the one who needs to reevaluate being married, because one should be able to exercise restraint and behave as a loyal married man should regardless of who or what is around. There are beautiful women all over the world. He says I just don t "get it" lol I m not insecure at all and that thought has never crossed my mind. I m in shape, I m always told I m attractive, no excess baggage, great career etc Is he right? Am I missing something or is that just his way of saying he ll cheat? Lol

Hey everyone, I've been married for 6 months and it's been good and all but recently (past 3 weeks or so) my husband isn't really the same. Usually we talk at night before we go to sleep but recently he just goes to sleep, doesn't even keep the light on to facilitate a possible conversation. When we go to restaurants he just goes on the internet and reads sports. I took his phone when he was sleeping and he isn't texting anyone, he's literally reading about sports. So what am I boring? I make him all the damn sandwiches he asks for

My male boss texted me about some work stuff the other night around 1045pm. My husband who was home at the time told me it was a little late for my boss to be texting and I shouldn't reply until morning. My husband also asked to see the texts that had been sent between my boss and I. Is my husband being controlling? The text was work related and telling me congratulations on a good job. Was this wrong of my boss? And should I have responded that late?

Ok. This is a situation where A female found out she was pregnant with her husband s kid and already has a kid from a previous father. The husband says before hand he didn t want kids but when he found out the wife was pregnant he left without much notice of why he left. And did not contact her until a couple of weeks later. This husband claims he left for a job but did not bother to contact her. Should she decide to let him have another chance or kick him to the curb for leaving unexpectedly and making a job the excuse of why he left. Please help and give me your reason why you would or wouldn t take this male back

if I found a willing partner, do you think she would mind?

Like by your partner? Sometimes I feel like my girlfriend is either bored of me or has gotten over feeling a certain way about me. She doesn't compliment me over act sweet and intimate with me when we're out together. Our sex life is different too and she just doesn't seem that into me physically as before. We still spend a lot of time together but it just feels like its back to how it was when we were friends. I love her and want to draw her attention like before, what can I do?

Short version: My wife had an affair and was going to leave about 2-3 years ago. We "worked through it" and are still together but she never really earned (or tried) my trust back. Now, she seems very distant all the time and has no interest in sex (not really new for the last 5 years). I can't afford a private investigator and she NEVER leaves her phone out/away from her. Any tips or advise to truly find out for sure if she's still screwing around?

Ex-wife keeps calling and telling me how she compares all the men she dates to me. I really don't care what she does, but I find it amusing. FYI: adult daughter has severe allergies, life threatening. Ex and I have contacted each other whenever our daughter has been hospitalized, but ex is the one to abuse this line of communication to call and chat like we are friends. I find it sad that ex doesn't have friends to talk to, but I also see it as rude to just hang up on her. Plus I don't want to place my daughter in an awkward position between us I let her bather on a bit and then end the phone call.

So I work weekends, have for years and do so because it s the most convenient for me and family. However, my wife often schedules a kids party or other event on the weekend "so everyone can make it" and then when I can t get all or some of the time off, she gets upset and guilt trips me. She seriously expects me to call off EVERY TIME if I can t get the time another way. Am I wrong to think this is ridiculous?

I have another child with someone else but we weren't compatible so it didn't work. She also wanted to get married. Now I'm feeling the same pressure with the current gf. Do you think that "in love" feeling will eventually come and make me really want marriage with her or should I just do it anyway?

Ok so, I'm engaged for 2 years now and soon I'll get married. My father in law has a very profitable shop which makes at least 60k a month, (no rent) . I'm currently working there and I am an asset since I bring in a lot of the profits. There is no bonus whatsoever, just a salary of 1000€ a month for 8 hours a day, 6 days a week. Bottom line is, this is not enough to start your own family or do something more serious. Do I have to actually get married to his daughter to have a decent salary? It really sucks and I don't want to think about it that way. I think these two things should be kept separate but since they obviously aren't, what is the thing to look forward too, work wise? What in your opinion would be a logical amount for a father to give his son in law and his daughter when he makes this amount every month?

Yes I know, when you love someone spending time or giving a gift of something from the heart is great blah blah blah but I am not the kind of wife. My husband and I have a lot of major events coming up in a row( his graduation, wedding anniversary, vow renewal, Christmas) literally all within two months. So we agreed instead of doing separate gifts for each different celebration we would combine everything for Christmas (saves money and less stress). Here's the thing, I am competitive, and when I say that I mean Im always trying to out do myself when it comes to gifts for him. Christmas I got him new nikes, leather bound journals, tickets to a hockey, and football game, a new cell phone, and some other crap. then his birthday rolls around and I say I can do better so I got him surprise vip tickets to a blink 182 concert and tickets to another music fest, a fossil smart watch, a leather jacket, a backup camera for his car, and another pair of nikes, and more stuff I cant remember. But his birthday was pretty epic when it came to gifts. now before the assholes come out A. I have a job so I pay for this myself, B. he has a job and buys me awesome **** as well, and C. he had an extremely abusive and horrible childhood so he usually goes into a deep depression around holidays so I go above and beyond to try and recreate a happier experience D. I am extremely thrifty so im not blowing cash on stuff(ebay/amazon) I want to do something extremely special for him this year so ideas!

I wanted to stop but I don't know why I didn't stop her. I feel bad now. @Elaine M. so what now mr morals? I said I feel embarrassed. So just answer my question instead of telling me what I am I know why I didn't stop her because I was feeling good but I don't know what got to me that stopped me from making the right decision Thank you guys. I think I should tell her but I will think about the other option too, some of you said I shouldn't.

My boyfriend is whimpering in his sleep like a dog he keeps shaking and kicking his legs. He looks so cute when he sleeps he's like an angel I hate to wake him. Is this normal ? What's wrong with him and how can I help him feel better ?

If getting off to porn is visual cheating, because you are pleasuring yourself to completion by experiencing a normally intimate physical part of someone else, Is emotional cheating (with no physical contact) basically equal to visual cheating? Men usually say that looking at porn is necessary because men are visual, whereas women are emotional, So Under That Pretense, if its okay for men to get off to porn under that pretense, wouldn't it then be okay for a woman who is emotionally stimulated to have intimate talks with someone else because it makes her feel good inside even though there is no physical contact and the convo is not sexual in nature? What are your thoughts and Why? (Btw: I am a female, who watches way more porn than my partner. This is purely for argument's sake and curiosity because porn is typically accepted where emotional cheating is frowned upon. So, why isn't porn is considered visual cheating? Just thoughts that go round in my head) Think of it this way: ~Guy looks at intimate physical part of woman, gets himself off to completion in the privacy of his own home because of it. ~Woman has intimate talk with a person (nothing sexual, just the silly stuff that makes women happy and feel good about themselves), goes home and gets herself off in the privacy of her own home because of it (it makes her feel happy inside). Equal to each other or not? 1. I am Not saying that getting off to porn is Cheating. Im only curious of *sub*-categories of cheating, in their specific relation to *intimate*parts* of people (either physical or non-physical) 2. A better explanation of what I am trying to describe is here: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20170809061857AAG6Mov 3. I am not trying to personally argue any point. I just enjoy contemplating "if-this-then-why-not-that?" type scenarios. Thx for all of your thoughtful feedback ^_^

Here's my situation. I adore cats, grew up with them, and have a dream of owning one. Like, I want one so badly that I have taken allergy shots for three years in hopes that I could tolerate my allergies enough to get one. My husband has known since we started dating that I have always wanted this, supported me through the shots, and talked about how we can get one once we got to an apartment that allowed it. Well, we have since moved, my allergies have improved, and there is a very sweet cat we can adopt right now if we decide to. Suddenly, he's not on board. The litter will stink too much, his sister is allergic (she visits about once a year), he doesn't want it being "around all the time", and "I just don't want a cat right now." I know some of those reasons have solutions, and some don't- they are just part of having a cat, so I don't know what to do. I'm trying to figure out what could have caused such an abrupt change of tune, when he used to be on board? And how can I get him to be ok with having one again?

I told him he couldn't drink anymore and to go to bed or leave, he took my keys and ran out to my car and pulled of! He had on no shirt or shoes. I just got my vehicle back from a theft and forked up a $500 deductible and then he goes and does this! He is not on my insurance nor does he even have a drivers license. I want to call the police but I don't want them to tow my car to the lot and I have to fork up more money. When he comes back I just want him to leave, my only issue is we have very small children together and I don't want to do it alone. His help is very much needed but it seems his drinking is getting worse by the day. What should I do? Thanks!