I have worked in the same gas station since I was in high school, I'm going into my 4th year of uni and I even plan on working here until after grad school. We have a lot of turn-over and I have worked with A LOT of managers. I am the only person working in my store that was there when I started, even the DM has changed several times. I do my job, that much is known. I work two days a week (weekends), first shift, every week. I have customers who take pictures of our store and show it to "dirty" stores (same company) and say, "look at what the girl in store --- does, why doesn't your store look like that?), they put in a good word to the point where I have gone from minimum wage to making almost as much as my brother who graduated with his bachelors in IT. I do everything that is listed out for me to do in 2 hours tops and have to find things to occupy my time because I don't smoke so I don't get a break, I don't eat, don't drink, don't sit or text. I stand, walk, talk and clean for 8 hours straight like a robot. I have worked with this shift leader 3 times and she has had an issue all 3 days. First she took a broom from me and told me to go do something that wasn't my job but I did it anyway. Then she was whispering about me to the comanager about how I should spend my entire day making food and I'm playing around and I'm the reason we fail inspections (never failed when I'm working). Today she screamed at me and told me to clean my work area because I made deli subs and the trash by where I was making them was somewhat full. I was not the one who signed off on doing the inside trash, though. The person who claimed to have taken out the trash and clearly didn't should have been scolded, not me. That is also not "my work area" because I am not food prep, if I am now magically food prep I should be making way more money than I am. I am not a sensitive person. I don't care if she gets onto me. I am annoyed because I am afraid she is telling the store manager (who I usually don't work with) that I am doing stuff wrong or not doing my job even though I am and it is going to create issues for me. I try not to be that person but I am actually the ONLY person besides the store manager and comanager who does my job. Every time I come in I have to pull expired product, clean up spills that look like they've been there for days. I went on vacation for two weeks and they knew they needed to clean a machine I typically clean but instead they left it for when I got back and risked giving people food poisoning because they didn't want to do it. Whenever this woman talks to me I can literally feel my cortisol rising. I am in there with a manager my entire shift, they say nothing to me and compliment my work ethic etc. and she comes in and finds the smallest thing to pin on me.

We broke up so long ago, but when I asked why he still contacts me he tried to avoid the question, so I blocked him. Eventually he said he just thinks about me sometimes & is he still blocked. He's been trying to find out if I'm single, joking around about me having a bf and telling me about his new place. I said "I don't know why you still think about me when you didn't want to stay with me. (He was selfish & scared of commitment. Liked his own space). A week later (today) he sent me a message that I didn't have to unblock him, with a cheeky face next to it. What does he want?

If I think that I can beat anyone at something does that mean I think I'm better? Or is it confidence? Like if I think I can put together a hard project by myself does that mean I think I'm better?

Hace un mes me enteré de lo que pasó, y a pesar de que me dice que no lo quería hacer, no me siento bien con eso, pensé que nunca había hecho nada así, en el fondo sabia que tal vez si, pero no se que hacer, porque ahora todo lo que dice respecto a eso siento que no solo fue conmigo o no se, la amo, pero siento que estoy desconfiando de ella y no quiero que sea así, que puedo hacer?

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I've gone to the same gym for a few years, nearly every day. What's wrong with the woman described below; is she just crazy, or is she intentionally trying to bother me, or does she have another issue? (I'm a single straight guy in my 40s and work out a lot; she's clearly single and probably 5-10 years older than me.) When I first joined, she started coming up to me as I was working out, to talk at me and give me workout tips. It was creepy and irritating, so I put on headphones and ignored her. She continued, and finally I told her, "leave me alone please, I mean it". She got mad and started yelling, but she left me alone for a few months. I never speak to her and totally ignore her, although I try to be friendly with others (and I speak to others in front of her). Recently, she started repeating her behavior, coming up to me when I was running on a treadmill (!) to say hello, coming up to me to tell me that since she was "going to go run, I could use the free weights", coming up to me and handing me weights, etc. I just completely ignore her and don't even look at her. She continues her behavior, however. So...what's her problem? There are a few people at the gym who clearly don't want to talk (they ignore people and wear headphones). I respect that. Why can't the woman who keeps talking at me and coming up to me? Thanks. I know the solution- I wear headphones and totally ignore her- yet she keeps coming up to me, even when I'm running on a treadmill. My question is "what's wrong with her"--why would a person keep acting like she does?

My boyfriend is in an abusive situation with his mother, he is 22 with a new job. She is doing nothing but harsh words, fowl language towards him, he has nowhere to go & he suffers from severe depression. I m worried she s going to push him to the point of suicide. He s the best most caring person I know & all he does is try to help her around the house & do nice things for her. She doesn t understand that he is about to break or unless she does that s even more messed up. Can someone help? I don t know what to do. My heart hurts. He can t move out or she ll destroy his personal stuff that he bought.

Hi all, my baby's father ( not with) owes me $220.00 and that's not even all I just agreed to that amount. He asked me to give him until the end of August to give him a chance to get the funds. Because he has to find a new job, but this guys been giving me the run around since march. Right now we aren't on good terms. I need some time to forgive him, and he needs time to get his stuff together. Any advice? I want to approach him in a respectful way.

I am Lesbian relationship and my girlfriend and I took my son to the strip to get over a break up, we get home and he passes out on the couch, later on I go and check on him and he masterbating and he sees me and keeps on doing it, do you think he would remember this ?

This has been bothering me for so long. My mom loves pictures and frames so she has her shelves decorated. I counted - she has about 50 pictures (some tiny 2-inch pictures to medium to larger frames). All of them are of my two brothers. Even my father commented it being the "wall of my two brothers." Out of the 50 pictures, she has two tiny ones of me on a bottom shelf and two others that were forced to be put up there. She only has put one up of me if it's in a group with her or my two brothers. She gave me a little insight of "why" she has done this. I left a job which closed down and became really close with my boss. She said she wanted to meet my boss?? For some reason. I just said goodbye to my boss. She then went on a rant saying how she puts up pictures of my younger brother because "he includes her in his life" like getting to know his dentist, etc. (he is 16 years old). I was really weirded out when she said this because I am 24. My other brother is 22. I've gone through so many reasons in my head that it could be - hatred, jealousy, disappointed in me, etc. I really don't understand but I do get hurt by it, but don't want to mention it to look like I'm jealous or something. What is going on and what should I do?

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I've been in love with my happily married friend, for a couple of months. We're pretty good friends and see each other every Sunday and sometimes during the week. Keep in mind, I used to not be able to stand him, only because he was my boss. I was very negative and we didn't get along so well (although he claims he didn't think we didn't get along haha). He has always flirted with me so I guess the attention sort of got to me after a while and I developed feelings for him. As we've gotten closer as friends, I have fallen completely in love with him. When he walks into the room or pulls up to my house, I can't breathe lol. I've spent time with him and his wife and I know they're happy together, but they also don't seem very affectionate and I get the feeling that they do love each other, but it's the whole marrying your best friend thing. I can't tell that they're IN love, but they've also been married for many years. She was actually his first real girlfriend. I don't want to ruin our friendship and I certainly don't want to jeopardize their marriage. I keep wondering how he'd react, though, if I confessed my love to him. I would hope it'd stay between us and that we'd stay friends, but obviously I am VERY aware nothing would happen between us. It's just difficult to not be able to get it off my chest. I honestly think he'd be very surprised to hear it, given that I previously loathed him lol. P.S. I am 26 and he is 37. Yeah PD, how'd that go? lala, how are we having an emotional affair? Need I mention, we have been alone together in his car for 20 minutes (he was driving, but nonetheless) and nothing naughty happened. We just talked, but there was never an awkward pause in the convo. Anonymous, I don't know. It just kills me keeping it to myself.

My mom caught me having sex with a Escort (hooker,proustite) this is not the first time I had sex with an escort. My mom said I'm bad person. I just didn't want people to know I was a lesbian I just wanted sex. I spent about 5k on escorts that was the money my dad gave me for my sixth birthday I also got fake ids from the dark internet to get a tattoo I sold weed i never got caught(no one would ever guess a white girl from the suburbs) I actually was pretty good at it helped me get a car my mom is going to kick me out and she said she going contact the police if I don't move out I'm only 17 I don't want to go too jail I want to be a doctor I ****** up my life I'm angry at my self i cant live on my own. I love my mom and i hurt her i cant live with myself I'm crying right now I just want to die. AM I A BAD PERSON?

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Yesterday, I got my 3rd speeding ticket and i knew my parents were going to take my keys away. Instead of manning up to what I did I impulsively threw my 14 year old sister under the bus by telling my parents that she was a lesbian. She had trusted me with her sexuality and she knew how conservative my parents are. After I told my parents i also told them to check her phone and they found pictures that she was sending to a girl who she thought was pretty. They read the messages that they were sending between each other and looked at my sister dishusted. My sister had punched me and ran away that night but came back and now she won't even look at me. I am truly sorry for what I did and I don't know how to repair the damage that I've done.

I just wanted to ask this question to get a different outlook/opinion. So I've lived in my small hometown my whole life. It's comfortable, safe, and what I'm used to. I'm really close with my mom as well. I work a job I currently hate and would like to do something better. Also, the winters are brutal and it's overall boring to live here. So, I have the option of moving to a different state/larger city. My dad lives there, but I don't have the closest relationship with him. He also leaves to work for weeks or months at a time elsewhere. So I'll pretty much be alone for the most part. I've never lived in a city, so I'm concerned for my safety. What's drawing me there is that there's more opportunity to have a social life and hopefully find a better job. What would you do?

When people talk sh*t because of the way you act and calm you names all day long it makes me so fuc*ing angry. I suffer from social anxiety and I try to act all tough to cover my shyness to help me and it makes my neighbors mad and I can't fu**ing stand it all I hear is them call me FAKE UGLY and AIRHEAD.

In about 2 months my lease with my apartment with my friend and boyfriend will be ending.Ive had a couple problems here and there.I really want to move in w/ my boyfriend on her own or w/ us both move back into our own houses and go back the way it used to be. But he doesnt want that.My friend doesnt really have no where to go because her family lives half way across the country. As much as an asshole I may sound, I told him that shouldnt effect our choices because its her life, and doesnt involve us. He refuses to move in with me or with his parents and even says he'll just move in with my friend. And I dont want that.She has a boyfriend but theyre too close and it doesnt make me comfortable.My boyfriend and I have been having some problems since she moved in with us too and he says he doesnt trust me that Ill **** him over with the lease and leave him. Which I will never do.I want to move back into my parents and save money and go back to school.But he is too stubborn to do anything besides what he wants them blames me for only getting what I want.im confused and don't know how else to get to him.His mom even agrees with me and he still wont.Its stressful and confusing because I feel like he would pick living with my friend over me. I need advice on how to get him to budge.We are all 20 years old.The only reason he doesnt want to move back in with his parents is because I get on his nerves.I love this boy and plan on marrying him but we need to come to an agreement somehow!

The man lived alone, and his wife died earlier. I'm trying to contact children (I didn't know him well) to tell them he died. I have his and his wife's (she is also deceased) names and birth and death dates. I also have names and locations of relatives (from obituary) but not phone numbers. Is there a way to find them online? They have very common names so searching brings up many entries. I know the best bet is to find numbers on the father's phone or in the house, or info from family and friends, but for some reason that hasn't happened (I am only helping with the search, not in charge). The situation is complicated by the fact that he was 70, may have been adopted, and the children were from the first marriage of his wife, who was 26 years older than him!! I may have the wife's first married name. Is there some way to find her children's names (and phone #s, that's the hard part).

So there was this vietnamese woman who I was supposed to be getting married to in vietnam who a while back dumped me for someone else. She is a masseuse who works in ho chi minh city in vietnam and she recently ditched me because she says she met someone else a client at work who came into her work place who she likes more. So ever since then my family in vietnam have found for me another vietnamese woman who I could get married to and now I am engaged. She agreed to marry me immediately when my aunt asked her if she is willing to and she said yes because I am a vietnamese american man. I taunted the other woman saying that she is dumb butt for dumping me because she could have gone to america by marrying me. My friends called me a jerk and says that my fiancee is gonna dump me when she gets her greencard. They said she is using to get a greencard and said that they could tell because she agreed to me immediately. They also said it was wrong of me to taunt the other woman. They said it makes you look like a 12 year old and your 26 years old act like 26 for god sakes. Why is it so wrong of me to taunt the other woman ? Why is it making me look like a 12 year old by taunting her ? Why do people think my fiancee is using me ??

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