So I'm 27 but still feel and act like a 20 year old. How do I become mature? People my age seem so much mature and look like they are in their 30s.

I have a co-worker that talks..... constantly. Most of the time he will actually get out of his chair and come stand by my desk. I feel bad because I don't want to be rude, but I think there need to be boundaries. Him hovering over me all the time gets to be kind of annoying. Yesterday was particularly stressful and my work required extra focus. When he came over and was talking to me I wasn't very responsive as I was in the middle of something, he snapped at me and said "You know I don't like it when you treat me like this. You're very short with me." I calmly apologized and explained I was in the middle of a big project and could talk to him later. Any advice on how to deal with this?

I am the only one with no kids. I work as a nanny. I don't think this is a faze I ll been wanting a baby for 3 years straight. I want to start my family and be married within 1-3 years. I just don t understand this faze and I don t have anyone to talk to about this.

We're both going through some personal troubles right now. I've been at odds with my mom and just went through a breakup after a five year relationship and she's separating from her husband while fighting for custody of their two little girls. So we've been getting pretty close and trying to comfort each other but she keeps making flirtatious advances on me! Whenever I express my discomfort with her, she always backs off and gets really apologetic and says she didn't mean anything bad by it. She always seems convincing with her apologies and I believe her but then she just does it again later! I finally told her last time that I'm straight and she says she is too but that she just likes being affectionate. But the way she does it with me doesn't seem like just harmless affection! I've known this woman for a long time (since I was little!) and I really like her and want to help her with her struggles all I can but I think she wants me to be more than I can be for her and I don't know what to do about that. Just and FYI, I'm 19. And don't tell me to get with her because as I said, I am NOT like that! I don't have any issue with people that are but I personally don't like girls that way.

A few days ago my little cousin came up to me, in tears and scared. She told me her step dad was beating her. Her grandparents know the situation and are trying to do everything they can, but she came to me and confided in me and needs my help. I chacked her for bruises but there weren't signs of abuse in any bruises, what do I do?

Llevo una relacion de un año y hace unos meses me acompañe a mi amiga a ver el tarot y yo tambien quise y me dijieron que mi novio era mujeriego y que me seria infiel pero el nunca jamas me ha dado motivos ahora no siento confianza ni seguridad en el y me esta haciendo mal psicológicamente

I'm not sure if I want to post them or not I look good I've been working out but don't want to be a dick

I enrolled my 3 year old into preschool 3 months ago school started last Wednesday I was I was living in my grandmas home as a roommate paying half the rent half utilities and buying all groceries, until we recently started having some disagreements over things she kicked me out tonight with my child and were at a long term stay hotel until I can find housing again, after her first day of school last Wednesday she ended up catching a sickness (sore throats runny nose typical cold) the school wants them sick free for a full 24 hours before returning, she only goes Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday's so she's missed those other two days and now since I've been kicked out I feel preschool needs to be held off right now due to the situation and now having to fork out extra money on this hotel, I need some opinions, I need to know do I have to inform them of this or can I just not send her back again since preschool is optional? I'm already late on this months school payment which adds extra to the price for being late on paying it's usually 165 but now that it's late it's 185, I feel like a horrible mom for this all happening I'm feeling so down and out it isn't even funny

Hello! I was 16 when I lost my baby due to miscarriage. I have been horribly depressed ever since that awful week that my baby died and I constantly want another baby. I know I am young, but I feel like that is the only thing that would make me no longer feel hollow inside. I really don t care about college or anything anymore and since I don t have anything in my life except my amazing boyfriend who has gone through so much with me. He has been by my side all along, ever since our baby died, a year before she died, and now. We both have jobs and everything. Please don t say rude or mean things, I really just need support from somebody. I really love my baby and she s gone. Please help me decide what to do?

So I've had this MASSIVE crush on this woman since I was a kid. She used to baby sit me and once I hit puberty I really started getting attracted to her. She's tease me here and there, i'd put my arm around her waist and she'd tell how she loved me doing that. I'm sure she's even caught me checking her out before. Not to seem objective but she's a Latina so she's got a really big butt and she'll wear yoga pants which used to drive me crazy. But I'm turning 18 in a month and she's almost 40. Not even a year ago I went to the beach with her she wore this one piece that turned me on to the point of not knowing if I could control myself around her. But lately I'm just not really that into her. I went to her apartment last month she wore a tea shirt that was cut to show off her cleavage and these denim shorts that showed off her butt, we took a picture together where I'm kissing her cheek and she's smiling but I'm not really turned on by her anymore. I see her social media and it's her at clubs not really doing anything of course there's a some thirsty comments but she's just not doing it for me like she used to. She's divorced zero kids and she doesn't even take pole dancing classes anymore I used to get turned on whenever she's talk about taking them. Now that I'm coming of age should I even try to sleep with her? She still wears the sexy clothes but it's not what it used to be. I've been working out and I'm not the socially awkward kid I used to be

There have been people murdered, assaulted etc over stuff like this but people still do it? -Ganged up on in public stripped naked -Shot -Caught/ exposed posted online -Acid thrown in face etc Then there are people who use the excuse it's not a persons fault they fell for a married or taken person. It's insane do they just think oh it won't happen to them? Why risk it?

My husband s 18 yr old bro is dating a girl a bit younger and I thought she was a mature/ethical girl (very quiet, very shy). We were texting and I was venting about my in laws (since I am married to her boyfriends big brother) and their lifestyle, etc. I got angry and said some ugly stuff, I wont lie. Instead of letting it go, she pretended to change the subject and promptly blabbed what I said to her boyfriend by sending him screen shots of the texts. Of course, my BIL and in laws found out after they also ran and told them and war was declared on me. My BIL told my husband what a terrible person I am and how for almost 10 years he has hated me and said I deserve 0 respect. My husband refuses to defend me. It must be said that my husband has insulted my mother and grandmother to their faces and said worse things than I ever did, but he said that is irrelevant and that all the things I said and he said are 100% my fault since I "provoked him to do it". - I really thought the little girl (aged 16 or 17) was better than this Her mother is a drug addict, so was her dad and I know she is desperate for my MIL to be her mother, but why would she go and betray me this way? She said she wanted me to like her but I will NEVER like her after this. Why wouldnt the little girl come to me and say it made her upset or hurt her and please stop, why get everyone involved and tattle to my husband?

I'm interning at this bank and there is this female worker I like. I think she's cute and nice. I've done favors for her in the office. I've put her bracelet on for her, I've put files away, and etc. She's complimented me on my clothes and she's really attentive when I talk to her. We usually talk about our weekends on Monday's my internship is ending in a couple weeks. I wonder if I should ask her out at the end of it. Last week she asked me: if I have kids, would i want kids in the future, do I drink, do I have a girlfriend, and how old I am. It was odd though because she openly asked me these questions in front of a coworker while all of us were in the copier room. She said with me being 27 that I can go out and date and have fun. I hope she wasn't trying to steer me to other women. She's a single mom. I wish her and I could talk everyday but the office gets pretty busy at times. I think she likes me but I'm not sure. Im just an intern after all. I like talking to her but we're in a small office and word can travel fast. I asked her how her daughter was doing. She liked that. I know kids are especially important to single parents.

Chris-It is not a hard question. Who has been your mentor? your mom, dad, teacher, friend. Someone that has impacted your life in a positive way.

hi, Im from Sri Lanka, 25, she is my first love , but to her her 7th love, she is 23, very beautiful. she has got engaged and her divorce law case is still pending. Divorcing reason is that she catch her ex with his gf, law case is regarding abomination leaving (sorry for my English) when she tell me last night this law case is still pending i was so scared, and i told her i love her, but i cant leave her, also told her to unfriend me on fb , (she has unfriended me and deactivated her account now) i was scared to have her as my future girlfriend or wife, it seem too many problem, please understand this is my first love and she is very precious to me, but very stubborn. by the way may i talk to her saying that i was very scared last night (this was my honest feel) and like wise, will i make the relationship and continue relationship again ? thank you in advice <3