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- Question: How can I meet up with him?
- Question: Sister in law cheating?
- Question: My parents dont respect my privacy?
- Question: I live with my in-laws my husband is incarcerated is it ok for her to snoop while I m not home and how do I stop it??
- Question: How do I get my mom to put dow the phone while driving? [Please read details]?
- Question: Easing a 4 year old back into other parent's life....?
- Question: Do parents usaully get whatever there kids want?
- Question: I want to kill myself?
- Question: What Should I do about my brother??
- Question: Which parent should I live with?
- Question: Smothering family?
- Question: My aunt is cruel and abusive to my other aunt. Is it okay if I am good to the other aunt and avoid the cruel and abusive one?
- Question: Should I be mad at someone about this?
- Question: Everyone in my Mom's family hates my cousin (my Mom's niece). How do I be nice to her without going overboard so she knows I don't hate her?
- Question: I lost all respect for my dad?
- Question: Which parent should I live with?
- Question: Child Support Question with Shared Parenting?
- Question: Why am I always getting in trouble?
- Question: Why did this woman get mad at me for changing the price?
- Question: What should I do about my Father?
- Question: My daughter staying in her room and doesn't trust me anymore any suggestions?
- Question: Would you be mad at your daughter for losing her virginity at 18 with someone she was with for two years?
- Question: Tired of people and their lies?
- Question: My father's ex wife poisoned me and my family and wants to go on vacation my father agrees help?
- Question: How to tell if a scan is real?
- Question: I feel like he's going to try to take my son from us next because he don't want to pay! what to do?
- Question: My Mom's friend died last weekend and my parents were thoroughly embarrassed I attended the visitation part of the funeral. How do I make up?
- Question: Sorrow when your mother dies?
- Question: How to deal with angry Mum?
- Question: I want to quit violin, but parents won't let me. What can I do?
- Question: So I had all my electronic devices taken off me...?
- Question: How Do I cope with my mums death?
- Question: My bros wife has been hitting on me on social media ever since she found out I had an affair wit her sis when she was married.. what to due?
- Question: I hate my younger brothers?
- Question: My grandfather is overly affectionate?
- Question: I have a slight problem... help?
- Question: I'm stuck in a sticky family situation?
- Question: If my mom is a *****, am I a son of a *****?
- Question: Are all abusive parents not loving? Here is my experience about my parents what do you think?
- Question: Why do children suffer the most in a divorce?
- Question: 18 yr old granddaughter living with recently widowed grandma. We believe she is using her and don't know what to do. Looking for opinions.?
- Question: Can you help me convince my mom to let me have my own room?
- Question: Been friends with a guy for 6 years& our flirting has reached an all time high?
- Question: Please help? My sister is so controlling!!?
- Question: Mommy issues?
- Question: Moving out at 18?
- Question: What do you think my crush meant by this?
- Question: I want to go to concert but i have no one to go with?
- Question: Is it bad to take pictures of yourself?
- Question: Introversion and family. I need help. Introverts only, please.?
- Question: What do I do?
- Question: Which parent should I live with?
- Question: How can I deal with my mean step dad?
- Question: Feeling Used by my boyfriend & in laws, Am I?
- Question: Is it childish that I still get kinda annoyed at my parents playing favorites among their adult children?
- Question: How do I get my moms husband to stop calling me his daughter?
- Question: Did I make the right decision regarding my mom?
- Question: Why does my ex threaten to take my unborn baby away?
- Question: I m an adult and my mom doesn t want me to travel alone?
- Question: Why do kids break things on purpose?
Question: How can I meet up with him? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 01:37 PM PDT We're basically messing around and it's hard to meet because his house is busy w/ 2 parents. My dad is never at work it feels like and my room has no privacy...so he'd walk in on us for sure. Please help??? Where can we go? (motel isn't an option, and I've thought about just using his car). Don't say any BS about "you're not old enough if you can't be away from your dad, etc". Like shut up lol... |
Question: Sister in law cheating? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 12:55 PM PDT My sister in law has been cheating for 4 months on my brother. Shes been bringing him to my brothers home, driving around in my brothers car with him, she even saw him on there anniversary. He found out and she left, there getting a divorce. Her only request in the divorce is that no one in our family contacts her. She blocked mine and all of my family members number and moved out. I dont know how to get past this anger i have. My brother blames himself for everything, which i know marriage works both ways but she was unfaithful and had no respect for my brother. She even brought the dude she was sleeping with to help her move out!! Im so angry and I feel like this with never go away. I want to scream at her. What would you do? Will time heal this anger? Would you confront her? |
Question: My parents dont respect my privacy? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 12:16 PM PDT Recently my parents went through my phone and found some pics of my gay friends kissing. They got angry at me and feared that I was "hanging out with the wrong crowd" and took my phone for a while. Now im afraid to hang out with those friends again out of fear that it will strain my relationship with my parents, especially now that they know for a fact that they are gay. I just.... dont know how to feel. Everything they do is out of love but sometimes its too much?? I dont know. In the end I just want to keep the two halves of my life separate. Any tips on how to do that? |
Posted: 07 Aug 2017 11:58 AM PDT The basement is finished theres a living room with storage which she has stuff but it is sectioned off no reason to come to my side of the room and the laundry room that is not in or near the bedroom or living room . I have had my husband and his father who lives somewhere else tell me that she finds things in my couch reads my mail sifts thru things. Now I pay her rent some days she treats me like a daughter-in law others a tenant but if I don t have the rent all hell breaks loose. So am I paying to have my privacy invaded? |
Question: How do I get my mom to put dow the phone while driving? [Please read details]? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 11:52 AM PDT (I am a young girl of 14 going onto 15 in a couple weeks.) Everytime I am in the car with my mom, it will be completely normal and then she brings up someone that she has to make a phonecall to-(becauee she wants to talk on the phone) or that she has to remind someone abput something, or that she has to text someone. It doesn't matter the distance we are traveling, she will always pick up the phone with driving! I have tried everything from distracting her by conversation to literally telling her to please put down the phone since it's against the law and accidents could happen, or she could get a ticket from a cop! I have tried so many things but she would either get angry at me or she would just completely ignore me. I've always had this problem with her where she was always right because she is an adult, and that kids are never correct. (Hence the fact she ignores me) Please, if there is ANY way I can get her to stop looking at that phone while she is driving, suggest anything! Not only is she putting her own life at risk but she's putting her daughter's and anyone else in the car at risk! |
Question: Easing a 4 year old back into other parent's life....? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 11:43 AM PDT My daughter hasn't seen her mother in over a year (drugs) and barely has any memories of her actual mother besides pictures I have kept on the wall for her. She is very attached to my wife, calls her mommy (but does know she has HER mommy out there somewhere). Basically, her actual mother is claiming she is clean and trying to come back into the picture.... what should I expect? What should I do? I'm just so heartbroken for my daughter and i know this appearance won't last and her mother will leave again. |
Question: Do parents usaully get whatever there kids want? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 11:42 AM PDT |
Question: I want to kill myself? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 11:09 AM PDT i want to die. my parents don't let me wear what i want. my father is muslim but he's such a hypocrite. i have straight A's and i'm like the perfect kid. i just hate how i can't wear damn shorts or show more than a part of my arm. thank god he doesn't make me wear a burka or cover my head. i just hate my life. i hate looking at girls and being envious of them wearing shorts. i'm 16 and i'm just so done. i'm tired of my dad controlling me. he let's my brother have a girlfriend and smoke. when it comes to me he says i can't. then he says he will kill himself if i wear that. i just want to fit in and wear what's my style. i feel so out of place and i'm just so done. why can't my dad support me? i just want to die. i'm not a troll. i'm a real 16 year old "muslim" girl. that's the reason so many people hate islam. because this is what happens when you're raised with insane rules. |
Question: What Should I do about my brother?? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 10:51 AM PDT He's a complete jerk. He's 23 years old and still lives at home. He treats our mother very bad, he bosses her around like he's the boss. My mother and I don't have jobs she is 51 years old and she's retired she doesn't need to work not to mention she has numerous health concerns. I don't work cause i'm very focused with college at the moment so i'm not able to do both. My brother is a complete asshole, he call's everyone lazy and many other names. Currently he's the only one who works but yet he doesn't pay very many bills to begin with plus he didn't have a job till he was 22. I hate him, if he were to die I would actually be happy I know that's mean but he's such a asshole to our mother and everyone else In the house. He bosses us all around like he's in charge, he even yells at his own niece. I despise him I want him gone out of my life. I hate being in my own house because of him. What should I do???? Please help :( |
Question: Which parent should I live with? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 10:43 AM PDT What factors would be most important in determining which parent I should live with? |
Posted: 07 Aug 2017 10:04 AM PDT I live in a family where you have to work to live. It sounds wierd I know, but, like my siblings, since I was 11 (im almost 17) i have worked in my parents coffee house (while i go to school of course). However, maybe not must people realise that working for/with tour família sucks! It complicates everything, special in my disfunctional family. In a year im going to college and I dont want to work there anymore, because thoughout these 6 years It has been awful! Truly awful. And i already told my mother that I wont be working there when im at college. I have never not woken up at 5:50 am, to get ready to go work there, and then go to school. Its not a lot (during school time), but still. Sometimes I think they had us (my siblings and I) so we could work there. And i dont know how they will react when they realise that im not they employee anymore. Ideas? |
Posted: 07 Aug 2017 10:01 AM PDT My Mom's family is full of narcissists so it is a narcissistic aunt doing this. The other aunt is fine, just a little too nice sometimes. |
Question: Should I be mad at someone about this? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 10:00 AM PDT I usually stand by our front door and my husband gives me a kiss as he leaves for work. This morning my mom was standing there with me as my husband was going to work. He gave me a kiss and mom said laughingly "My turn next" so my husband gave her a kiss on the cheek also. I was slightly embarrassed, Mom was surprised and though it was the funniest thing ever. Should I be mad at Mom, my husband, both of them or nobody? Wives, please give me your opinion. |
Posted: 07 Aug 2017 09:56 AM PDT She was fired from a job an got lazy, no doubt she screwed up. However. the whole family hates her now and generally shuns her. It is one of those families where everyone gets involved in drama. The cousin is 23 so made a mistake like a lot of 23 year olds that was fueled by her anxiety. Even my Mom now hates her niece and my Mom used to have compassion on her and dislike how much her brother (the niece's father) hated his daughter for his wife who hates her (the step-mother). |
Question: I lost all respect for my dad? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 09:26 AM PDT I remember since I was in diappers that my dad used to love me, show affection towards me and be a role-model. He was a person I could call my father. But everything drastically changed when I entered my teenage years (I am currently 13 years old). He became moody. Whilst I was entering my teens, I ve noticed his behaviour clearly. He got more and more short-tempered, controlive, rude, impatient, selfish, rough, sarcastic... the list goes on. Because of the lack of ciggarets, that behaviour only increased. Since I dislike the teens in my neighbourhood and since my school friends are far away- I am left being inside the house all day. My dad noticed this and makes fun of that. I do my mother s house work since she already has a job which requiers her to be out of the house 8 hours a day. He knows I can not cook yet he yells at me to come downstairs and orders me to make lunch. Knowing that I can t, he uses the opportunity to please himself by calling me names; cow, *****, wothless, huligan, disrespectful, goat and many more. He uses me as the laughing material in the family to put a smile on his brothers faces and other family members of his side. I m starting to feel more depressed. I cried in front of him today because of his behaviour which sparked even more anger as he screames at me how he has two idiots as kids (mentioning my brother) I would write more, but it s not letting me. I can t talk to him about my emotions since he laughs it off. I can t take this, please help |
Question: Which parent should I live with? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 09:20 AM PDT I've lived with my mom my whole life but for the past few years have kind of wanted to move to my dads. I usually get stressed out about it and end up not asking for advice. I go to my dads every other weekend in the school year and every other week on summer vacation. I always get sad when I leave my dads because I know at my moms all I'm going to do is sit in my room unless I have to go to school or football practice. My mom lives in the city and I go to a good school so I have good grades. The teachers and other students are very supportive and willing to offer help. My dad lives in the country with a much smaller school so I don't know if it would be the same. I don't like the school I go to now besides that it's good for an education. I don't have any friends at my moms and I feel like moving to my dads would help reset my social life. It would be very hard for me to move to a new school due to social anxiety. Both of my parents are very nice but I feel more comfortable around my mom. I can tell my mom anything but it's not the same with my dad. I never really hang out with my mom but I hang out l the time with my dad when I'm there. At my dads I have a stepmom who like and two stepbrothers around my age. At my moms I have a stepdad who I never talk to. My mom buys me anything I need. I feel like my dad would be much harder in me and make me buy my own stuff if it's something outside of basic needs. i also dont get along with my mom a lot and just sit in my room. i feel like if i moved to my dads i wouldnt really ever come visit her because i dont like where we live and we never do anything as it is. I would feel sad without her and couldnt imagine living without her. I have a lot more fun at my dads though and enjoy being there for the most part. |
Question: Child Support Question with Shared Parenting? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 08:54 AM PDT The child starts kindergarten at the end of this month. It has been agreed that it is still shared parenting but the mother will only have the child 3 weekends a month from Friday 7 pm - Sunday 7 pm. Holidays are rotated. The child is going to private school and the father is paying tuition, uniforms, and schools supplies. The father also has the child on his health insurance. The mother moved 2 hours away. Will anyone have to pay child support? She is trying to get child support It is joint legal custody, with the father being the residential custody parent. The mother makes like 10,000 a year while the father makes 75,000. Holidays are rotated and split. Father has him Thanksgiving, Mother has Black Friday. Mother has Christmas Eve. Father has Christmas. They split Easter day. Halloween is rotated. Mother had him last year, so this year it will be the father. She lives with her boyfriend. Who pays for everything. She is a dance teacher and only works part time. |
Question: Why am I always getting in trouble? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 08:19 AM PDT I try my best to get out of trouble always ! And now matter how hard I try I always get in trouble ! Idk what to do anymore I m a burden to mh parents and if I had daughter like me I d feel so sad. Like my dad he put 1000 pounds in my account to spend during summer and I had spent about 700 of it but then I asked him some days back if I could by an mcm bag of 495 pounds and he said okay and then about 4 days later I went to buy it and now he s mad that I spent over my budget I feel bad but then why did he say yes ? Or should I have told him before I acc bought it ? Someone help |
Question: Why did this woman get mad at me for changing the price? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 07:02 AM PDT Okay so I was ringing up this woman and her daughter and her daughter was paying for items but she was 3 dollars short. Then her mom says, "So how much money do you need to borrow from mommy?" i said its okay and i adjusted the prices so she can pay exact and the mom flipped out on me What was her problem? I was doing her a favor. |
Question: What should I do about my Father? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 06:50 AM PDT My dad is an alcoholic and a major piece of ****. He served in the military and now has very bad PTSD, which has caused him to become angry, drink all the time, and have anxiety. We've tried to help him but he really will not take the initiative to go back to the VA, because the first time he went, my mom and I don't think he told all the truth because he didn't get better. The other day he told me he "borrowed" $6 from my wallet. It may not be a lot but years ago he would never even touch my purse for Chapstick, he'd make me get it because he didn't want to dig in our purses. Last night however, **** changed. He left around 10:30 and didn't come home until 6:30 AM, which he drove my car which was already low on gas. My wallet was in there from yesterday and come to find out this morning, all of my money is gone. He stole all of my money, which was at least $100. My mom and I are completely fed up and don't know what to do. I don't know how to confront him about this. |
Question: My daughter staying in her room and doesn't trust me anymore any suggestions? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 06:44 AM PDT How to regain my daughters trust My daughter and her other siblings use to live with my sister starting at a very young age due to my addiction. I got clean and have been with my daughter since she was 12 . just recently my soon to be 16 year old comes in my room.. And says " mom can i tell you something ".and promis you wont tell anyone? I said yes...then she was a bit hesitating and then she told me that ... Her cousin by marriage has had sex with her and made her touch and do things with him untill he moved out and she told me that she didnt want to go to virgina to visit them . she broke down and so did i . i didn t even know what to say or what to do . the next day was really hard for me.. So i decided to tell her older brother hes 24 the next day. The same day my daughter came to me and said " why did you tell alfonzo . i cant tell you anything.. i knew i shouldnt of told u" while crying.. I feel really really bad and idk what to do at all . she wont talk to me .. All she does is stay in her room with the door locked. I could make her come out but i just don t want her to hate me even more. Her brother didn t even say anything .. He was just being really nice and she went off on him.. I just dont understand. Ive tried apologizing and even offerd to get her that iphone that shes been bugging me about .. Shes still just staying in her room .. |
Posted: 07 Aug 2017 06:35 AM PDT My mom is kind of strict, but kind of not. She's one of those middle moms. I want to go on birth control and talk to her about it, because I feel weird sneaking around my mother. I'm 18, I have my own job, I'm paying for my own college which I'm studying mental health, and my boyfriend is very close to the family. He goes on vacations with us, sleeps over (he has to sleep on the couch, no boys in my room and if so the door is always open.) I've been with him for two years, and I feel ready to go on birth control. (I'm already not a virgin, I lost it recently.) I want to be able to trust my mom and talk to her about anything, but I'm scared. I'm her first child, oldest of three girls. |
Question: Tired of people and their lies? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 06:12 AM PDT I don't know why but I'm really frustrated of adults over 40 feeling the need to lie unnecessarily. I went to a party over the weekend and a former friend of mine was sitting in a certain space and since our friendship ended I've felt the need to keep a respectable distance from her so I sat across the room. However, our mutual friend was interrogating me about why I didn't want to sit by her and I told him because I didn't want to and I was fine where I was. Then he comes back to tell me that she told him that she told me I could sit over there if I wanted to and she never said that me. When I asked her did she tell him that she explained to me that she did suggest to me that I could sit there. I told her that no she didn't and she very upset and said whatever and stormed off. Why would she lie about that? She never said anything to me about sitting by her. Then another female friend had told me a week ago that she was due to start a new job today but I guess she forgot because she told herself by saying she doesn't know what she's going to do with herself this week now that her temp assignment is over? I'm really kind of irritated that people feel the need to lie on me and to me. Why do people do this? |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2017 04:54 AM PDT My son is currently staying with my mother. I see him every day my mom lives 5 mins away. He is 9 and we have been trying to transition him back to me for a little over a year he's been there almost 4 years. Our plans is to have him start school with his siblings from my house My son has a few issues he has anxiety, ADHD, and depression and threatens to kill him self if he has to come to me or his father. I recently signed his dad up for child support because he does stuff without my knowledge and gets my son once a month if that. We went to child support and he's refusing to pay because my son is with my mother but little does he know I still help support him and see him daily and still do mommy duties when it comes to him. But now he's taking me back to court. How should I handle this. |
Posted: 07 Aug 2017 04:41 AM PDT How do I make up to them? I liked this friend of theirs though I didn't know the friend's children. I didn't go to the funeral service at the church since I was at work (it was Friday) however my mother thinks someone saw me there (I wasn't there). They were thoroughly embarrassed and annoyed I was at the viewing. When I was a teen I was obsessive about death and graveyards so they think I am supposed to never go in a graveyard again and only attend funerals for immediate family (grandparents, parents, or siblings). They were equally bugged when I went to my great-aunt's funeral last November. I am 32 and well past the death fixation I got when my maternal grandfather died back in 2000. My parents live in 2000 and 2001 still, my mother especially. So how do I make up so they don't get mad next time I go to a funeral or more so embarrassed and annoyed? I live on my own but see them once or twice a month. |
Question: Sorrow when your mother dies? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 04:18 AM PDT her mom was her best friend |
Question: How to deal with angry Mum? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 04:01 AM PDT Hello all. Today when I was about to go on and do my homework, I noticed that my mum was using my pen. So I asked her to give that back. Then she started yelling that it was hers and she was the one who bought it. So I told her to go use her own and then she got even more angry and started screeching that I have a tendency on losing my stuff and breaking them all the time and that I'm not grateful for what I get. The losing and breaking stuff is true to be fair. I recently lost my iPhone charger and my mum got angry at that which I totally understand. I'm confused to how it then escalated to the fact that I'm having arguments with my dad all the time, and that I was being a pain in the neck all the time. She got really really upset by that time and she started throwing stuff at me paper etc. and just stormed off. What do I even do? Isn't it normal for people to lose a ******* iPhone charger like cmon! Please tell me what I should do. My mum is literally crying and she's really upset and I have said sorry. She says that she will leave the house if she feels like it :( just to add a couple of things. she wants to be alone right now. she says she sighs a lot recently. might explain her being stressed she's out now shopping. she says she was the one to blame for bringing me up like this. let me say something(sorry for being long) i am 14 right now and as many people say i am at a difficult age. i am sort of a difficult person who always goes again to what someone says or being stubborn, not apologising and just generally talking back. to continue with what im saying. i try to change my attitude but i just can't because i have a short temper and i hate losing. the other day my football/soccer team was in the finals and my dad asked me to film the match. forgetful as i am, i realised i didn't film the match for my dad. reaising i was wrong for breaking my promise, in the most sincere way i apologised over and over. my dad was obviously not happy and got even more angrier which confused me. so is this normal? is it normal to have fights with parents at this age and be forgetful about things? i am pretty popular at school and i have a quite a lot of friends but i sometimes feel like i have no life. i prefer sitting on my sofa playing video games rather than what normal teenagers do go hang outside. am i normal? is it alright? im sorry for making it long, im just lost for what to do i want to say its just probably my ******* hormones kicking in and puberty doing weird **** to me |
Question: I want to quit violin, but parents won't let me. What can I do? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 03:32 AM PDT I have been playing violin for 5 years now. The only time I felt passion for it was when I first started as I was excited to actually be playing an instrument. After the first year, my liking for it disappeared and the boredom and hatred kicked in. I am working toward my ABRSM Grade 5 and hate my pieces and the scales. Practicing is a drag for both me and my parents as I groan and express my dislike and my parents go on at me. When I tell them I want to quit, my mum tells me I should get to Grade 8 on at least one instrument. I also play the piano and ask her why not the piano. 'Because on violin, you're almost there!' She tells me. I hate how violin sounds and I hate playing. But one thing drawing me back from quitting is the money. My parents have bought me two violins so far and the lessons are ridiculously expensive. I don't want them to have wasted all this money. Also my teacher annoys me. Just asked my mum why she's wasting her money, forcing me to have lessons over Skype during the summer holidays. She then shouted at me, saying 'Shall I tell your teacher now that you are quitting? Because SWEETHEART, I won't be paying for any saxophone lessons (I want to play saxophone), you know what? YOU can tell him now that you want to quit! You are only saying this because you are a foul petulant teenager!' I want to talk to her in a civilised fashion but she only shouts at me. |
Question: So I had all my electronic devices taken off me...? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 02:55 AM PDT So I had all my electronic devices taken off me and when I asked my mum why she told me it was because I wasn't doing my chores. So I did all my chores without asking and I am never rude or disrespectful to my mum, but her excuse was that it's good for you not to be using them. I don't know if I am in the wrong here can somebody please explain P.s I don't do drugs, I get at least s b in all school subjects, I do sport 6 times a week and I have a job |
Question: How Do I cope with my mums death? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 01:43 AM PDT She was only 53 it's so unfair |
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Question: I hate my younger brothers? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 01:15 AM PDT I have two brothers, one is 5 and one is 10, and they are so annoying. They make the house a mess, yell obnoxiously EVERY SINGLE DAY, wake me up when I'm trying to sleep in late (it's summer), yell and fight with each other, eat really unhealthy things (which bothers me cause I don't want them to gain weight which makes me even more stressed), they mess with my person belongings, and MORE!! I can't take this. I feel like I'm going to burst into tears any moment now! My mom won't do anything about and doesn't care at all. What do I do? Ignoring them doesn't do anything- no matter how much I try. |
Question: My grandfather is overly affectionate? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 12:46 AM PDT My grandparents are coming over for a family event. I am a 21 year old lady, I've been having an issue with my grandfathers overly affectionate slightly creepy ways when Had moved in, thankfully I've moved out to my parent state but since there is an event we will all be together for the event. I've moved out not far from my parents. His overaffection is constantly staring at me.I talked to him about it and told him it made me uncomfortable but he simply told me not to worry about it?! My grandmother then talked to him but he still does it. Plus he is calling me honey and gorgeous, something he never did before I moved in.Now I brought this up to my mother but she just told me I'm overreacting and is too touchy since she has been through molestation from a family member. I honestly don't know what to do, if I talk to him he will just tell me the same thing and if I talk to my mom she'll get mad, my grandmother just lost her mother so I don't want to bother her, even at my great grandmothers funeral he stared at me, is like a mixture of affection but it's too much, he has masturbated in front of me mostly on accident as the living room was an apperantlly appropriate place early in the morning. I haven't changed much physically in fact I look young. My older sister is literally gorgeous but he has never acted like this with her.I know for the most part he means well but he has been so creepy lately. it's not dementia he still functions well. But he is also an alcoholic. |
Question: I have a slight problem... help? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 12:44 AM PDT I have told my parents about my relationship with my boyfriend, my father approved, but when I told my mother she gave no feedback about the situation. We have been together for 2 months, everything was going great until my mother came back from vacation. My father would let me hang out with my boyfriend in the backyard which was okay because at least we got to see each other and he had no problem with that. Ever since my mother got back she has become super controlling and she decides when I get to see him. Keep in mind I am 18. I tried to reason with her, but she keeps telling me that he only wants to get into my pants, but from the very beginning I have told both my parents that nothing like that will happen, I have even discussed this with my boyfriend and he fully supported my decision. My mother got mad because we held hands, he did harmless tickling and she said he's going to disrespect my boundaries, he knows mine and I know his. We got into a huge argument about how I had my phone wallpaper of us kissing. We both have decided to move out, but I feel this is too early. Any advice? I only want my parents to see me as the adult that I am and to approve of my relationship.I tried going for a job, but my mother keeps making up excuses for me not to... |
Question: I'm stuck in a sticky family situation? Posted: 07 Aug 2017 12:05 AM PDT I tricked my parents into letting me move out when I was 25. My parents were too controlling and was becoming very depressed and suicidal. Even after I moved my parents were still pretty controlling. They kept asking me when I was going to take my MCAT and apply for medical school. I couldn't even call to say "Merry Christmas." I've since decided to pursue my MBA. My depression has gotten much better. Two years later I got married. My parents refused to attend my wedding because they did not approve of my husband. He was a part time music teacher at the time. I told them 2 days before I got married that if they don't attend the wedding they were out a daughter. I've kept to that threat. The last time I saw my parents was a month after I got married. I left a family counselor's business card and I said I won't talk to them unless both of them see the counselor. My mom has sent me numerous texts in the last 4 years but I've ignored them all. I've told people that I'm estranged from my parents. I also moved out of town. They know which city I live in mostly due to my Facebook page. Well a few days ago my mom texted to tell me that my dad has leukemia. I really don't want to talk to my parents. I know there is no right or wrong answer to this and it's frustrating. I don't want anymore guilt trips or to become depressed and suicidal again but at the same time I don't want to regret this. I need help. I do come from a stereotypical strict Asian family. Sorry this is so long. |
Question: If my mom is a *****, am I a son of a *****? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 11:44 PM PDT |
Posted: 06 Aug 2017 11:44 PM PDT All I see is people telling that abusive parents don't love, and I am willing to accept that , it will take me some time though. But I really think my parents were just really idiots and the reason they abused me was just that. The chldhood of my retard father with abusive father and her world war 2 experience of hunger christian mother(not too religious though) and my inexperienced with not fully conservative christians parents of my mother. But this is more about my father but also mother too. My father beat me for just yelling for the things he has done. I want to clear that I was an angel kid that was getting beat for supposely doing bad things in the house, and this is the reason I yell or fought my retard parents. But it is confusing me. Did they really not love me? They are willing to pay for my rent now that I am moving to another town at age of 23. They said they are sorry and guilt for what they have done and if I don't prosper they will never be happy. They still deny that they abused me but they think that they have just made some mistakes in some occations. My father still is hypocritical sometimes and still try to control things but much rarely than before. My mother goes to counseling although I am moving but my father just say that he will go. He has beat me with belt,slipper , have wake me up almost hit me in the face, and although I don't talk too much to him I still think he maybe just a retard but that he loved/loves me. Are they expeptions?or hypocrites? (not to religious though)* I meant that for my mother not my grandmother but it doesn't matter, I think some things I wrote are quite irrelevant. |
Question: Why do children suffer the most in a divorce? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 10:38 PM PDT |
Posted: 06 Aug 2017 10:25 PM PDT The girls grandfather passed away a few months ago. Before she hardly ever saw them and usually half the time when she did it was because she needed something. The grandfather had made remarks before to us when she lived here that he would never put up with her living with them. One morning the grandma woke up to her bringing all her clothes into her house threw them all in the living room told her she'd be staying there from then on. Didn't even ask. The same day 10 minutes after moving in she had to go she was going out to party with friends. Well now she has poor mouthed till the grandmother helped get her another car. (We took back the one we had bought her) Which she swore she'd pay back the grandma. She Hasn't paid a penny and is never home now. Stops In though everyday to take a shower and wash her dirty clothes. She butters the grandma up by doing the dishes and making her bed talks to her for a second then out the door. Even had the nerve to make the comment now that she's living with her and doesnt pay rent she can do whatever she wants. She stays out partying and getting high what little money she does make goes to gas. She won't hardly even go check her grandma's post office box. Im wanting to step in and say something has to Change but I don't know what kind of rules she should have there being she's 18. The grandma doesn't want to say anything and hurt her feelings but she talks to us about it and it does bother her what she is doing. |
Question: Can you help me convince my mom to let me have my own room? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 09:36 PM PDT So basically we are moving to a 4 bedroom house at the minute we live in a 3 bedroom house. At the minute I share with my 2 sisters aged 4 and 7 I am aged 14. I've started my periods 2 years ago but 2 years ago I had my own room. So when we move my mother has gave me the choice to either share with my 2 yo, 4yo or 7yo sister. I don't want to sound selfish but I'd rather be on my own. The 3 girls are close so I don't understand why they can't share together and let me have my own room and privacy. The rooms are really big too.'I said to my mom that I'd take the smallest room and be by myself but she's not having non of it and I don't see why the girls can't share together an let me have my own room. I'm moving out in 4 years time so my 7yo sister will be 11 nearly 12 and that age she will want her space too.y 2 brothers share a room too. It's just awkward for me when my friends sleep it seems unfair like what if one of my sisters wakes up crying or they leave their pull ups around the room. I just want my privacy this is just irrating me Please help |
Question: Been friends with a guy for 6 years& our flirting has reached an all time high? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 08:56 PM PDT We bonded over our dislike of each others basketball and football teams. Always disagreeing in a flirty way. Recently more than ever his flirting has gotten much much more obvious. Using smiley faces reacting to my selfies etc. Our obvious attraction is thick but either one of us has admitted to the feelings. What should I do? |
Question: Please help? My sister is so controlling!!? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 08:54 PM PDT ok so she's older than me (just a year) and she's really controlling. And I know this is gonna sound really dramatic and stuff but please just hear me out. And I'm really in a pickle right now. Ok so my sister listens to this certain band that I also happen to listen to (I listened to it even before she listened to it). And when she told me she listened to it I was like oh cool and then she said NEVER LISTEN TO THIS BAND. She said it's like her thing or something and that I always copy her (but I really don't). So this was a year or two ago. she still doesn't know but she has found some *evidence* of me listening to this band but I tried to lie my way out and she semi believed it but she says she doesn't trust me anymore. Anyways now it's got to the point where if I even jokingly say I listen to them (to see her reaction) she grabs my neck and squeezes so tight I can't breathe and i try to say I'm joking so she'll let me go. She also resorted to making me put my hand on the Bible and swear I don't listen to them. I just want to live my life why does she care so much?? I feel like when she catches me red handed it's over and she'll know this whole time I lied to her and she said she'd hate me forever and she was dead serious and I just can't take it anymore. And I feel like I can't confess right now to show her that I'm not gonna get controlled anymore by her because then she'd know I lied to her and to the Bible and she'll hate me help plz. |
Posted: 06 Aug 2017 08:49 PM PDT My mom and I can't seem to get along anymore. It seems like no matter what I do or say, it's either wrong, or not good enough for her. I don't feel like she respects me as an adult and gets defensive whenever I disagree on something. She treats my brother better than me and even jokes around with him but whenever I try to joke, she gets upset and defensive. She's always stressed and tends to take it out on me. I've tried to talk to her before but she doesn't listen. Any advise? |
Posted: 06 Aug 2017 08:29 PM PDT Gonna be 18 soon and its legal in my country to move out at 18. I have problems at home and am considering moving out into my boyfriends parents house (it was his mums idea that I move in) My parents aren't gonna be happy about it obviously but I'm gonna keep in contact with them so if we break up I'll have somewhere to go to. Am I making the right choice by moving out? I feel that some times some relationships work better at a distance and that's what me and my parents need. And please don't say I'm being spoilt or anything its large problems I'm having and there's a history of abuse but no I won't call CP's and I've no other relative to let me move in with |
Question: What do you think my crush meant by this? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 08:26 PM PDT So The Guy I sort of like who really flirts with me out the blue made a post that said ""It's terrible to be alone, and it's terrible to be in love, but one is cheaper than the other" Wise words from my cuzzo that i look up too 🤙🏼 " |
Question: I want to go to concert but i have no one to go with? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 08:25 PM PDT So I m 16 and Muslim girl living in Saudi and a HUGE BTS trash. . As an artistically talented/ interested girl it s my lifelong dream to watch them perform live First, bands are not allowed to come to Saudi so I ll have to travel Second none of my friends/cousins have been there so my dad needs real experience Third my dad is strict Muslim he thinks a teenage Muslim girl going to a gender mixed concert is immoral Fourth they think there s alcohol and harassment in concerts Fifth I am shy enough to keep any problems to myself without asking for help So going to concert in another country alone is NOT an option(I agree with that I m scared) Sixth my dad told he ll come but that ll be awkward especially for pit tickets and I ll be fangirling and crying a lot So my dad gave me an option: find someone to go with , he ll talk to her parents and will think about it I tried that with the only army I know well (she s 14) my dad asked her parents but they re strict AF and they said NO WAY There are quite a lot of army/ kpoppers at school but none in my class . Being shy I m not close with any of them. I ve enough money for a VIP pit ticket(earned myself)the only thing I need is a flight ticket and hotel fees from my dad So basically my Muslim parents need to be convinced with real concert experiences of people DIRECTLY ( not frm ANY internet sources) and indeed a concert buddy who s willing to travel abroad for this Smhhhhhplsss😭😭🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 |
Question: Is it bad to take pictures of yourself? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 08:05 PM PDT I'm on vacation at a resort in a tropical place. Every time when I try to take pictures I always feel ashamed and embarrassed. Nobody says anything to me or really gives me mean stares but I know that they probably think that I'm conciceted and full of myself. ? Overall is it really bad that I take pictures of myself? |
Question: Introversion and family. I need help. Introverts only, please.? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 08:03 PM PDT (sorry for all the backstory, I guess I just needed to get it all out.) I'm extremely introverted in a family of extroverts. I'm almost 20 years old and for my entire childhood I never had a deep conversation with anyone. Everything I felt, I kept to myself. I lived my whole life moving out of peoples way, staying to myself, etc, I'm sure you guys know. Anyway, I have never been able to connect with my parents. I met my girlfriend almost 2 years ago. She is my best friend and she showed me the importance of opening up and talking every once in a while. Being with her showed me what a family was supposed to be, what connection you were supposed to have with the people you spent your whole life with. My family, to me, are just people I've been stuck in the same house with for 20 years who all hate each other. I feel terrible for not wanting a relationship with them anymore, but at the same time, because I've never been connected before, every time they all come into my room, try to just chat with me, or try to look at my artwork, it makes me extremely irritated. I feel like I don't like them because they don't understand me. They have never taken the time to talk to me about my feelings and because of it I never learned how to open up. I feel like it's too late to connect with them, I don't even know if I really want to. Is it too late to try to show my parents who I am? If so, how would I go about it? Should I just move out and never talk to them again? They're my family... |
Posted: 06 Aug 2017 07:41 PM PDT I think the reason I always feel depressed and cry is because of my family. My brother always make fun of me because of my flaws (big nose, fat (which I'm not), among other things). My dad calls me lazy and pretends to act surprised when I do chores and work. My mom always yells at everyone and even more at me. She sometimes calls me stupid and even when I did nothing wrong, she jus screams. Whenever I try to talk to my mom about my feelings about anything (school, homework, etc.), all she says is "stop" or yells at me to suck it up. What do I do? |
Question: Which parent should I live with? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 07:39 PM PDT I've lived with my mom my whole life but for the past few years have kind of wanted to move to my dads. At my moms I have a stepdad who I don't ever talk to. I talk to my mom a lot but we never hang out. I feel like I could tell my mom anything. At my dads I have a stepmom who I like and two stepbrothers around my age. I talk to my dad a lot and hang out with him a lot, but I don't feel like I can tell him anything. If I moved to my dads it would be a much smaller school. I would have to work harder to maintain my 3.8 GPA. I would have to make new friends and meet new sport coaches which I would be good at either because I have social anxiety. I get lazy with my school work but I go to a good school at my moms so it really helps to keep up with my 3.8 GPA. At my moms the teachers are super caring and there is many students willing to help you. I don't know if this would be the same at the much smaller school where my dad lives. My mom will buy me anything when I ask, I don't abuse this it's rare when I ask for something special. I feel like my dad wouldn't do the same. My dad might make me get a job and pay for my own stuff besides clothes, food, and the other basic stuff. Both of my parents are super caring and try to give me advice on whenever I ask. I have a good social relationship with my mom but don't do anyhing with her ever. I talk to my dad a lot and do a lot with him but I would still not feel as comfortable as I do around my mom. I wanted to add that i have more family at my dads and its nice to visit them. If i moved to my dads i feel like i wouldnt have a good connection/relationship with my mom, but all i ever do at my moms is sit in my room. At my dads im always doing something. I also hate the school at my moms house, i dont really have any friends. i just like it for the good education and sports. I feel like moving to my dads would help reset my social life, but it would be hard with my social anxiety. i thought it would be important to add that most of time i look forward to going to my dads house and get sad going back to my moms because i know im just going to sit in my room. Football season has already started and school starts in a month so i feel like it would be hard to move to my dads and switch schools. I only have two more years of high school with this one probably being the most important. My dad has talked to me and tried to prepare me more for my future than my mom has. |
Question: How can I deal with my mean step dad? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 07:37 PM PDT He hits me when he gets mad He constantly calls me bad words that you should NEVER call a 16 year old girl He slammed my laptop on the ground and broke it when he got mad He makes fun of my thighs He calls me stupid and bad at math even when I've won competitions He criticizes every single thing that I do, and laughs at me when I mess up He took my car that I bought with my own money, and started to drive it to work, but he won't let me use his old car, so now I can't get to work or school (my school is 10 miles away and there are no buses) He won't let me get guitars lessons, even if I pay for them with my own money because he said that he "doesn't want me to get better than him" I have 2 years left living at home and I'm so sick of him. I don't know what to do. |
Question: Feeling Used by my boyfriend & in laws, Am I? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 07:24 PM PDT The reason I feel used is bc my bf, his mom, & his sister always ask me for stuff & it turns out bad. His mom asks me to make a store run for her or bring to the store her every time I leave her house from visiting my bf. I'll go for her then right after she's rude & ignores me when I speak to her. My bf doesn't have a job, car, Or money, so I let him use my car, it's fine but he doesn't put gas, has friends in the car & his family just thinks it's ok to ask him to use my car for their favors & never consider asking me! As if it's his car! his sister doesn't ask me for much but everytime I talk to her it's like she's trying to prove me wrong. she wanted me to put music on her phone via my computer so I asked her for her phone charger to connect the music, she tells me it's broken, I politely ask her "Do you think your sister has one?" she gave the most sarcastic remark,"no. it's an iPhone 4, no one has a iPhone 4 anymore" like I wasn't trying to help. She always cut me off when we have a convo I guess to shut me down& tries to tell what to do & how to do it in her fashion, so I don't want to help her in anyway. They are bossy & strong willed ppl. Well point blank, I don't like it & I don't want it to continue, my only option would be to cut off all of them but it's like I'm a push over & don't know how to say "NO", I feel they do this bc I have no siblings/close family or friends. my mom passed when I was 13, my dad lives his own life so I feel they use that advantage. Help? |
Posted: 06 Aug 2017 07:21 PM PDT It's really blatant. And they switch favorites too depending on who is the most successful:/ They've done this since we were kids. I'm 26 |
Question: How do I get my moms husband to stop calling me his daughter? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 06:47 PM PDT my mom married recently and now her husband constantly insists on me calling him dad/ him calling me daughter when they got engaged i told my mom i was uncomfortable with it and she was understanding but now she just gets angry at me i have a dad but i havent seen him in a while and i consider him to be my only dad and my moms husband has been being very rude to me ever since they got married about the whole dad thing most recently he asked me why i wont call him dad and i said cause i already have one so he screams in my face your dad doesnt even love you and my mom didnt care i just need to know how to explain to them that they re being unreasonably rude about this |
Question: Did I make the right decision regarding my mom? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 06:40 PM PDT My parents are divorced but for most of my high school years i've actually spent the most time bonding with her since I went thrift shopping with her for a majority of summer and my days off. Recently i've gotten tired of thrift shopping since I never actually find anything and it's not like we have that best friend relationship where I can talk to her about nearly anything. Recently I got into an argument with her since she had double standards just because the guy was older than me even though she knew him, basically, she didn't trust me at all to hang out with him even though it was at a crowded mall. I've told her i'm not mad at her but just annoyed, doesn't help that her sorries aren't a ''I'm sorry I didn't trust you'' but more like ''I'm sorry, now let's go out shopping'' sorta thing. I told her just now I don't want to go out tomorrow and she kept saying ''You promised we'd eat this'' but I already ate it today with my dad. She was hurt that I didn't want to hang out with her anymore (even once a week which is still too much now) and ended up crying. She's not even understanding i'm doing dual enrollment while taking high school classes, I might even start working soon and that's all on weekdays but she said ''On your days off'' as if I would rather hang out with her (which I did for most of my high school years already) over relaxing or being with my friends. I feel bad about making her cry but I felt as if not apologizing was the only way for her to understand. |
Question: Why does my ex threaten to take my unborn baby away? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 06:06 PM PDT Well I left him last week because he is a complete jerk and he has really horrible anger issues I couldn't take it anymore. It got worse when I found out I was pregnant and I was starting to lose feelings for him. He says if I don't stay with him he's going to literally kidnap my baby from me and take it to another country, which i don't know why he's saying that because he is such an unfit parent when he was with me he would party like he's single, getting hammered and smoking cigs and weed (I do none of that) and doing bad stuff (he has weapons, used to sell drugs) I know I'm stupid for getting with a guy like this but he was harassing me over text saying I'm a selfish b*tch but yet he's saying he's gonna take my kid away from me? I feel like I'm a better fit parent I am more responsible and mature than he is. |
Question: I m an adult and my mom doesn t want me to travel alone? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 05:34 PM PDT I m 22, but turning 23 next month and I m going up north (I live in the southeast) by myself next month to see a concert. I know people who are going to the show, but none are directly going with me, so I m going by myself. I do live at home, but I work and I ve already paid for everything including the flight and the hotel. Ever since I told my mom this, she s been flipping out and refusing to let me do it. She emails, texts, and of course tells me to my face stories of young people who have been murdered recently while out by themselves and keeps telling me "You re not gonna come back from your trip alive, you re going to die. Someone is going to take you and murder you. You ll be lucky if you make it back home." I understand her concerns, but I m only going to be gone for less than 3 days total, I leave on the 9th and return home on the 11th. My hotel is near the airport and very close to the concert arena, less than 4 miles away, so I won t be going far from the area, I m literally going straight to the hotel when I get there, maybe meet up with a few people I know who are going to the concert the next day, then go to the concert the next day, come back to the hotel, then leave in the early afternoon for the airport to come home. At this point she s even refusing to take me to the airport, telling me she won t stand for me leaving. I m not asking for advice on how to convince her because I m going regardless, but is this normal behavior? I m an adult, not a child. |
Question: Why do kids break things on purpose? Posted: 06 Aug 2017 05:25 PM PDT The other day, my aunt and uncle came up to visit, along with their 2 preschool or kindergarten-aged children. So i'm in my room just minding my own business, and the two kids come into my room, and just always ask questions, as they are still young, and while we're just talking, the older one reaches for this solar panel bobble head thing i had on my shelf without asking politely like his mom always tells him to do, and he just starts twisting the head. And right when i said "no! What are you-" he pops the head right off and everything that connects the head and the body of the bobble breaks. I asked in a distressed voice "whyd you do that?! Now you broke it!" And he just says with a giggle "no i didnt, seeeee?" And failed to put the head on correctly. Then he just skipped out my room. I got so upset because it was a gift from my brother overseas from 6 years ago, and my cousin didnt even say sorry, let alone did he even asked to touch it like he used to. I couldnt yell at him because my mom didnt want me to scare my aunt and uncle away from staying at our house. Why didnt he just ask to see it? Why did he just break it without carig about the fact that it wasnt even his to touch or play with in the first place. I know he's just a kid, but he's already school-aged. Shouldnt he have already known that you cant break things for fun. |
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