Theres a girl that has always bullied me. My grandmother/uncle have always sided with them. Recently they all went on a trip behind my back & after they came back the mother of the girl that bullies me is talks to me on Instagram, we even spoke about meeting up at a feast. I went, long story short. I padded on the Mothers arm saying hi Donna, then we hugged, I made like I didn't see her daughter (the girl that bullies me) at all. the girl Karina, then Karina says "wait hello, who is that? Ashley that's you? Oh it's Ashleeey". I turned & she looked kinda in shocked with smiles & I nodded my head & said yeah then I said I gotta go, as I was walking there was awkward silence Donna the mother is like wait. Then I believe Donna is like to Karina you girls blah blah then something like it's her birthday for me. We wind up hugging, I hug Donna again & then Donna kept asking wheres ur uncle? I just kept saying he's down there somewhere, I gotta go to the restaurant. Donnas like u two girls don't have each other on Instagram & Karina is like no we don't we don't talk. I kept trying to leave so I kept hugging Donna & I believe I hug/side hug with Karina two more times & she's all smiles /giggles with wide arms every time we hug but in a phony matter. I was pretty much taller then her I kept looking down kinda at her. I had my hair nice & was dress really nice. I feel stupid. I wanted to show that whatever Karina does it doesn't bother me & make her upset that her mother really like me

How do I find somebody like this? I want him to beat the hell out of me. I deserve every bit of it. I'm no saint. With all my disrespect towards my mother, my father, teachers and all other authority figures throughout my life and not to mention almost a decade of living under my parents' roof and consuming their resources and pulling a knife out on my brother--he won't be hurting an innocent person. I'm as FAR from a saint as they come. Not that I feel sorry for any of those things I've done, I don't. But I'm okay with a man beating the hell out of me. I want him to do it. I deserve it. And why do I say this? Because even though I have no children yet, I know I'm going to have girls if I get pregnant. I won't be capable of having boys, so I believe I should be beaten the hell out of, even to death if that will happen. So, how do I find an abusive boyfriend?

since losing my virginity, all the boys at school refer to me as "the snapper"

me when dealing with out daughter and making it seem like I am not allowing him to see her, instead of just taking responsibility and saying " I will see when I can come for you". How do I handle this? I don't want my daughter growing up thinking that I am preventing her dad from coming around when it's actually him he chooses not to.

Ever since i first met this person, i could tell by the way she looked at me that she didn't want me to be there. It is the typical case when you can tell someone doesn't like you by her facial expressions and comments and how they try to be brief and i think i understand why. The people i have shared with that i am autistic all said they could see something on me but they couldn't tell what it was, it looked like an emotional issue so i think she simply senses negative vibes of that sort. I can see the confusion of her face, she doesn't understand why i am the way i am but how do you bring this up to someone who is not close to you? It feels like her opinion (bias) could change if she knew this.

I just really need to go away from my home as soon as possible. Don't tell me about money or anythinn else and don't tell me 'it's normal to want your own space' and then tell me it's not the time. All I want is a yes, or a no. Is it legal for a 16 year old to live on his own?

She doesn't think that if I move away from her that I would be happier without her. Ever since I have been around she has had 4 boyfriends and every single was very abusive to her so I have to deal with that and then she gets in my bed like that's going to do anything which it doesn't it just causing them to come in the room and then I have to hear arguing all night and I have missed school because I can't sleep because they will spend all night arguing. Also I can't get normal sleep because of it and my time becomes backwards where I will sleep all day and stay up all night. The first boyfriend that she had while I was around was when I was 7 and she broke up with him because he threw her in the snow naked. But my mom's first boyfriend he would pull my ear every time I ever said "why" and he wouldn't allow me to have anything nice and I wasn't allow to watch TV unless he picked it out and he was there. So I couldn't ask any questions with "why" and I was less just because I was a kid but he was raised Amish so that had something to do with his strict rules. And really the boyfriend she pretty much has right now he is the worst it's really like she gets worse boyfriends as she moves on. But anyway this current boyfriend is in prison for beating my mom and hitting me when I tried to protect my mom when she came in my room got on my bed and then he grab her by her hair and started kicking her and I call 911 and went up to him and attacked him and then he hit me back. This current boyfriend causes her to come to my room and try to sleep in my bed with me and then that just makes him come to the room and just argue. And my mom really thinks that I would be more happy if I stay with her. And as for my dad he spends more money over someone without money and barley even feeds me because of how frugal he is with his money. My mom thinks that I want to go on my own to join a cult or someone is telling me that they can let me have a better life with them. And that's really where she says that I won't have a good life if I leave her. I want to make it very clear that I am asking to live on my own and my mom thinks it's something really serious. I am not even allowed to have communications online with anyone even if I know the person. So really it's really hard for me to have someone in my life telling me they are going to make a better life for me. And she really is trying to convince me that it's a cult. I am going to be 18 here in a little bit but because I have autism she just wants to keep a disability check just to let us live off that. I really don't like how she uses my disability for her own benefit but she really doesn't think she is doing that. And she is too depressed to get a job because she feels like she will let someone down. Also when she gets drunk she has talks about suicide and how she is going to do it and has even talked about committing suicide with me.

Confie plenamente en una persona que decia ser mi amiga mas que eso eya es mi cuñada eya tambien me confio muchas cosas las cuales de mi boca jamas salieron. Anterior mente ya haviamos tenido un problema nosotras al principio que nos conocimos me di cuenta que yo no le cai bien despues me pidio disculpas y lo primero que hiso fue hablarme pesimo de la ex de mi pareja practicamente mi cuñada me conto toda la vida de esa mujer y decia que hasta mal le cayo siempre. Paso otro problema mas adelante que mi pareja la quemo muy feo en una pagina y mi cuñada me echo la culpa ami porque fue por el fb y como mi marido y yo estabamos en relacion como esposos los de la pagina le dijeron que yo era pero fue el😥 me quede callada por tapar ami pareja la verdad no entiendo porque mi pareja nunca la a podido tragar aveces e pensado que algo tubieron que ver eyos dos por que e escuchado rumores que eya siempre a querido con el. Apesar de eso eya ami si me caia bien😕 Ahora yo traigo problemas con la ex mujer de mi marido y eya sabe que si yose cosas de eya es por mi cuñada quien mas me pudo aber contado esa ex de mi pareja es mala si se la haces se la pagas y para vengarse de eya esta mandando fotos de mi cuñada comprometedoras otraves la estan quemando y muy feo ahora con toda la familia de mi marido. Hora de la noche ala mañana ella cambio conmigo mi cuñada y todo porque le hablo ala ex ahora son grandes amigas la verdad no entiendo porque se porta asi hasta parece otra

ok, met a guy 5-6 weeks ago, we've been hanging out etc slept together etc but he isnt ready for a relationship bc of his seperation [not even divorced yet] and i caught feelings. tried to be FWB i couldnt do it [for obvious reasons]. SO he still wants to be friends. so how do you shut your feelings off, and move on? neeed some tips. thanks.

I asked my good friend for some advice as I was taking a big leap of faith taking on a new chapter in my life, I stepped out of my comfort zone and went to get a training I've been needing.. she said "just be yourself and everything else will fall into place" what does that mean ?

I live in Florida and she and her family (our dads are brothers) came down from Tennessee for summer vacation. Last night while everyone else was asleep me and her were drinking liquor in my room and we watched some porn. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex. I was not a virgin but she was, which really makes this bad for her. She will have the shame of knowing that she lost her virginity to a relative for the rest of her life. That was Friday night and she won't even hardly look at me now but we have to talk about this before she goes home. Even though it was consensual I regret that it happened but we have to close this the right way before she goes home on Thursday. It cannot be left like this. Please help ANYONE!

Like seriously, I've gotten this quite a few times and after they've added me they will "like" the majority of my pics but I look on their profile and see that they are married! I wouldn't be surprised if it's married women I know but these ones I do NOT know!

I am 23 years old and I've been dating my boyfriend (25) for >five years. He's spent a lot of time with my family. We've gone on family trips and he's been involved in everything. My parents have even made positive comments about our marriage in the future. I understand there are concerns for parents with their child sharing a bed with their SO, however it has gotten to where I feel our relationship is being invalidated by the refusal of us sharing a room. We're on vacation to a cabin w/ four rooms. Even before we arrived they've been stressing about sleeping arrangements. My parents, grandparents, uncle, boyfriend and I are all staying here. To me this is obvious. The three couples would each have a room and the other would have their own. Instead, my boyfriend and my uncle are sharing a room, and I'm alone. It seems to me it would be more logical/comfortable for all (namely my uncle, boyfriend and myself) if my boyfriend and I shared a room. On top of that there are two beds in my room so if my parents were that concerned about us sharing a bed, we wouldn't have to. I've tried bringing it up before, but they brushed me off and walked away. So, I wanted to get some opinions. Am I being irrational about this? The way they treat it makes me feel like we're 14 and have "crushes" on each other, but I'm pretty sure 5 years of dating (with as much work as we have given it) is a little more than a teenage crush. Not to mention we're both independent adults. Any ideas?

So yesterday me and my boyfriend received a gift from his brothers friend that came back from Colombia after 2 months. She never spoke to us or anything and we never got the best vibe from her. we both put the bracelet on right away on our right wrist. The bracelets were black beeds with pink for me, and for him black beeds with gold crosses. The next morning when we woke up my right arm was in pain I couldn t stretch it out, and I couldn t even lift to take off my shirt, my boyfriends hand was numb completely.. today we washed it with water and salt , and we put it in a cup with holy water, we went outside (mind you we live in Florida ) the weather is about 90 degrees and very humid, and the glass turned foggy like if the water came from inside the fridge, the water has been untouched for weeks outside of any refrigerated area so it seemed impossible to get that cold. Any suggestions or thoughts ?

I'm always the one initiating the conversation on Facebook. I haven't seen her in a few years. I kinda think she's ok talking with me...she uses smiley faces sometimes. Tonight she just told me her boyfriend broke up with her!! I didn't even know she was dating anyone! So what should I do now? I'm not even sure if she's interested.

I've had 3 dates with someone now, and during our 10-hour second date (yes, 10 hours), he said a couple times: "I hate how much I like you". To me, this rare, but honest moment tells me he's afraid of being hurt and/or emotionally unavailable. What would you think if you heard this?

I met a man at a party, hit it off and he invited me for dinner. Had a nice night..he asked me to tell him three things about myself so I told him I was single, never married no children and then told him more about my job. So I said, now it's your turn. So he told me all about his job/career and nothing else. He said nothing about his love life. We kept seeing each other but I kept it slow..just in case. On our 4th date I asked if he had children. He says, yes 2 adolescents. So I say 'Ah, you're divorced?' He replies: 'Separated and divorcing'. Then I say (feeling a bit put out and upset) 'Why didn't you tell me before?' He replies: ''Because you never asked me''. He tells me he's been separated a year and all because his wife cheated on him. Would you feel that he was being dishonest with you? Possibly not a good person?

Miren mi primo es mas chico que yo todo empezó una vez que me quede en su casa a dormir y yo estaba súper excitado el ya estaba dormido y primero le pase mi mano por su paquete después le metí la mano al bóxer y ahí estaba la su verga grande y dura se la toque y después el se movió desde ahí no se la e tocado aveces nos quedamos a solas jugando play, quiero tocarle de nuevo la verga como le puedo hacer para sacar el tema de el pene y que me lo enseñe o como lo puedo tocar y que el creo que no fue intencionalmente.ayuda si no van a ayudar no respondan

I'm 19 and i work. It's been two years since I graduated. I took some online classes for college. I was so shy all my life I never had friends. I'm a girl. I go out alone or with mom or family. My cuzin got in a fight with me in text and I think she's jealous and only talks to my brother.my two close friends from highscool moved. At work I have made a few guy friends but they quit. The few girls there gossip of me & i try to be nice but I just do my work. No one supports me at work not even the people in charge. I just talk to & spend time with a guy & we've been super close almost like a couple. Few days ago I met a girl that works at a different shift & she was super nice funny & talked a lot to me. She had to go and found Another person to help me. The next day wen I was arriving to work she spoke to me & short convo &I said the people in charge wanted me to do all work alone & she didn't want me to be alone. There were other guys there so I felt wierd and nervous to continue the convo but we said bye & the girl just stayed in my mind. The thing is I'm quitting the job three weeks before I start college my fashion classes in person and I don't work early only some days and it's not for sure I can find her before she leaves and her shift ends and it would be wierd to do for her social media since it's not enough time to be her friend I don't wanna be wierd.allmylife I just have had guy friends.but I have no one to go out with and do girly things.