I asked my parents and they said no I shouldn't have sex after marriage, but me and my husband love each other very much. I know that I am a human and he is a dog but we love each other very much! I know we can't have kids but is it okay to have sex after marriage?

You know since most people appear to be obsessed with getting either money, free sex, paid sex, attention, using others

So my child's father left us about 6 months ago and got married 3 months ago, now we have one child but he also has two others. The woman he married has 5 children but only 4 living with her. Since he's been married he's completely forgotten about his children he won't help financially because he says he has other bills and he barely wants to spend time with them because he says sometimes that his wife doesn't feel good or wanna be bothered. I feel it's wrong she knew he had 3 young children before she decided to marry him and he's wrong as well. I'm getting to the point where I just want to cut him out of my child's life for good. I just don't know what to do anybody been through this or just have some advice on would that be a good idea or not.

Ex dumped me but says he still loves me ..I asked if he'd still want to kiss and have sex with me and he said "I would but if we're not together idk if we should." He said his hearts broken because of the breakup. He said we can't be more than just friends. I asked if he wants to be friends or cut me out, he said he wants to be friends. I asked if we could hang out as friends and he said yeah. We're hanging out alone soon after I get back from my vacation across the world, in a few weeks. Do you think he'll kiss me when we hang alone?

(For a book) If a teenager had a baby at 16 out of wedlock and is not a healthy person. In what ways could she blame the child and dislike them and then favor any future children she does have while in a new marriage?

My wife is really afraid she's 8 months pregnant me and her were watching a movie about Manson last night she's really freaked out she knows that next week is the anniversary of the murders. She's so scared she doesn't know what to do. She told me she doesn't want the baby. She wants to give it up for adoption I'm not doing that to my daughter because of something stupid like this. She also said she wishes she wasn't carrying the baby she wishes we were adopting it. She's just so scared right now she doesn't know what to think or to do. She really hates hospitals during the first few months of her pregnancy she kept having nightmares about the doctors using needles stabbing her to death. She hates needles and IV's too she had a bad experience with them. Next week on the 9th she doesn't know wether to sleep or stay up she's gonna be so scared. How can I help her feel better ?

We've been together 6mo. We're both divorced, age 40's. Married 10-15+ yrs. I've been divorced 7yrs & bf 3yr. Things are going well.We had our first disagreement. Which I wasn't even mad, just a little annoyed w him(I'm really a chill, laid back lady, don't get mad/argue much n very positive.He's the same but more pessimistic/jaded/hurt from divorce/dating, n understandably), but he got upset. I walked out of shower w a towel wrapped around me cause it was cold & he yelled at me, my exwife would cover up (in reference to the last yr of their marriage, he said she cheated on him). I snapped back at him, I'm not your exwife. He still says things, my exwife would do this/that happened to her.... when I do something similar. I mean, I'm a girl, we kind all do the same stuff. But he says it a lot, my exwife.....It's getting old n wonder if I should just end it w him.I want a man who's over his ex.I already mentioned it to him n he gets defensive n Denies any feelings left for her.

He lied to me, saying one was his cousin. I saw letters from one woman saying things like "when you told me on the phone thatyou want to give me your last name, I couldn t stop smiling". This is just one example of many.

It seems like more and more couples are choosing to cohabitation rather than marry. Is marriage on its way out? If so what will be its replacement?

My husband and I live in a house that was built 40 or so years ago. We are doing a few renovations here and there but our biggest project is a big water leak in the back of the house that has caused moldy walls and floor joists. We are currently going through the whole insurance process to get everything torn out and replaced. My husband and I want to try for our first baby, but we are scared of the potential health risks the current mold situation could pose to the baby. The mold is still in the house, however it should be getting fixed soon and we are hiring professionals to clean it up. I won't be in direct contact with it. Is it dangerous and irresponsible to try to get pregnant now?

So my boyfriend asked me for 20 but I already pay for all our dates because he's always broke. He's always behind in payments and stopped talking to me because I didn't give him the 20. Also we are trying for a baby and now we missed our fertile window because he didn't have sex wirh me on purpose. I'm the one working and he just started and waiting for the paycheck to kick in. Problem is I've always had a job and he hasn't. And I always pay for our dates cuz if not we won't go out anywhere.

My mom and dad have been married for 23 years. During the years my mom has grown very upset and tired of living with him. In the past my dad has been both physically and emotionally abusive towards her and even separated and moved away for a while. During the time he was gone, he had an affair with another woman and got her pregnant. However, this was unknown to my mom when he decided to come back to live with us, and my mom accepted him back. Years later to just today she found that my dad was still talking to that lady and she has suspicions that he has been seeing her still. She is seriously thinking about leaving him to live elsewhere. However she has a 5 year old daughter and me still living here. I dont think she even has the money for a divorce either. If anyone could just please offer some suggestions about where she should start with fixing the situation, it would be very appreciated. It feels awful having to see her like this, and she doesnt know where to get help. Thank you for your time.

I meet my new boyfriend on six weeks ago at the laundromat room at my fresh apartments. We have sex to the same day but he did move not into apartments for two week after. He was resting at his girlfriend couch at when first at when we have sex. Soon he after moving to the apartment down to my stairs. I have been having a two old daughter for the most of the six months I am living at here. The daughter is not being my daughter but is being the daughter of meu sister and she's boyfriend. My mine sister has the hardest drug game since after the movie from Lisbon at Portugal. My the boyfriend he is black skinned and then he told that he was at the American jail for making some sex with her daughters!! Should how I be sure that he will not to try to catch meu sister daughter at night!! Sad for mine poorly English. Thank.

I have a married friend. He's 37, I am 26. He used to be my boss and we became friends towards the end of him working with me. He has always been very flirty with me. There could be a room full of people and I would be the only one he'd say hello to and ask how I'm doing. Back when we worked together, if we got off work early and some of us decided to eat after work, he'd come and sit next to me. He's never had a problem with being in my personal space or me being in his personal space. The last few days of working together, he showed favoritism towards me. Also, he would make intense eye contact with me, once to the point where I asked "what?" and he broke eye contact. After he left, he started inviting me and another friend (male) to his church. Lately, we've been carpooling to and from church, all 3 of us. (his wife and kids usually take a different car) He uses any excuse to flirt with me or talk to me. We went out to lunch this past Sunday with his family (our friend was there, too). Me, him and our friend shared a booth while his wife and kids were in the opposite booth. When his wife got up to get more food, I was talking to our friend and my crush kept inserting himself into the conversation. After we left, his wife and kids took our friend home while he took me home (alone) because he had to get to work and I live closer to his job than our friend does. We talked for 20 minutes straight, with no awkward pausing. I found it a little weird that he didn't make a move. Now, I'm NOT saying I wanted him to make a move, but I am a little surprised he didn't give any hint of something more than friendship. Does he just have major self-control or have I just been reading him wrong this whole time? Frankly, I'm surprised his wife was okay with him driving me home, alone. I'm glad she trusts us to be alone together. Rapscallion, what makes you think that?

Hi, I didn't think my parents divorce bothered me as much as I thought it did. I honestly didn't care at first. And now I hate it. And I just want them to be together when I know that's not possible. i get jealous of people when they talk about their mom and dad or their whole family. How do I get over this fantasy?

After 6 years of dating we got married last year on April. after six months i found some sex texts on messenger of him and an older woman. I confronted him and he said he did not know why he did it. I was angry and upset that I didn t want him to touch me. after that he changed. He was cooking and bringing me flowers but I was still angry. A month later he suffered a stroke. I was having all kind of feelings that I didn t know what to do. On December I started going out with a guy and we became more closer. my husband moved out of the house on April this year. I m still with the other guy. He is an amazing person but has already 2 kids and his ex bothers him a lot. I still think about my Husband and lately I have been thinking more about him but I m not sure if I should get back with him. I know he wants me back. He calls me and he s always apologizing about the past. I need some advices please

-Most of them come with a student loan debt of anywhere between 30K to 50k + USD If she is a liberal arts major it's going to be a long time before she actually gets a good paying job to pay that off if ever - most of them come with credit card debt and yes when you marry her debt becomes yours too it affects your credit - an engagement ring that cost 3 months your salary And a wedding that cost anywhere between 20-30k USD with honey moon -Then you have to factor in her depreciation rate value cost Women depreciate over time they don't get any pretty or beautiful after a certain age Usually this is after they give birth become a mom they just let themselves go - then factor in the cost of divorce which is half of all your financial assets your chances are 50/50 1 in 2 a f ing coin flip Western women cost even more than a freaking Ferrari once you factor in all the hidden cost and depreciation More then a house down payment And your the one who takes on all the risk costs and responsibility of marrying her Not the guys she slept with hooked up with had one night stands with before you not her previous ex bfs sex partners it's you who take on all the risk cost responsibility !!!

a married millionaire says to a girl i heard ur wearing skirts in office you look good in skirts..you are tall.we should meet.we'll go for drink? what does he mean by that

My Cousin has a disabled child. They stayed with me for 3 nights week for 2 months To go dr. for appointments. Then they did not come for 3 months. they are back and my husband is freaking out. They need at least to mid September. My husband Is afraid it will never end and said horrible things about the child. I don't how to talk to him about it. It is my family and I want to help. My family are not in way but it really bothers my husband I have to tell my family not to come. How do I do that?

Talking to her about your past sexual encounters with other women ? Like, details about the sex you had with other women and what they looked like naked ? Also, would you be telling this to your girlfriend or wife ? I started seeing this guy about 7 months ago, we met on Cupid, anyways, he seemed fine at first but now, he openly talks to me about other women he has dated, about how hot and tight their you know what was and how attractive they looked and so on. I did tell him that I would rather not hear about those things and he seemed to tone it down a lot, but after 2 months of not telling me his sexual personal details... he has fallen off the wagon and has started up again. Do men that are in relationships in where they like their partner, talk about such things with their partners ?

how do i convince my wife to buy her things? She always mentions money and that it costs and for that she refuses that I get her basically anything

My Cousin has a disabled child. They stayed with me for 3 nights week for 2 months To go dr. for appointments. Then they did not come for 3 months. they are back and my husband is freaking out. They need at lesst to mid September. My husband Is afraid it will never end and said horrible things about the child. I don't how to talk to him about it. It is my family and I want to help. What do I do? I have never seen this side of my husband. It has bother me the stuff my husband said about my family

This would be our "first time" so were kinda nervous thats all

We are currently trying to build a house right now so I have been saving to pay for everything that goes towards that. Was going to take her somewhere but her friend planned a trip to Charleston and evidently has planned stuff and hasn t even bothered to let me know any of the details. I will be going, but won t have any alone time with her so can t really do anything special. Our 3 year wedding anniversary is next month also so don t want to spend too much and then not be able to get her anything nice. Last year I got her a brand new IPad (quite expensive). She told me one thing she really wanted for her birthday and I already got it but it s not really something I consider special, just something she needs. Was thinking of maybe some diamond earrings or a bracelet? It s in less than two weeks and I really need to come up with something. She wears jewelry to work everyday so figured that be best.

Would it be wrong for me to ask the password? I know I'm parnoid,but am I wrong to ask? Would she be wrong not to tell me?

Sometimes my husband will get angry over something relatively minor (a silly joke, a disagreement about parenting or his ex during conversation) and will blow up. He has never been physical or hit me ever but he has yelled at me, screamed at me, gotten in my face, driven a car with me in hit very very fast on the highway, and threatened to leave me a dump me off. How do you cope with this anger? It blows over and he's usually fine after awhile but while its happening it is scary and he threatens to leave me and turns on me.

I must be submissive to him. We live in Thailand together. ?

My husband s priority is to play game only. what do I do? It s driving me crazy because he have a family but he s always on his game. Me and my kids only have a good few min with him when he s home other wise he ll be on his phone or on the computer playing game. It s as if we have to earn some points to get his attention. When we talk to him it s as if he can t even hear us, and I m getting tired of having to earn his attention. I need some good advice on how to work this out.

I've been married for 4 years and have a 2 year old daughter with my husband. Whenever something gets him mad or frustrated at school or work he goes into a bad mood and is snappy and short with me and if I ask him what's wrong he doesn't want to talk to me about it but if he's on the phone with one of his friends he doesn't give them the bad attitude he gives me and after I asked him to hurry up in the bathroom because I had to take a shower to get ready for work and he didn't have work that day he called me a ***** even though he had been in the bathroom for an hour at that point. So I've decided to give him the complete silent treatment but that's only making his attitude and verbal abuse worse. Is their anything I can say or do because this has been a pattern in our relationship and he's been In therapy for 5 months but I see no difference

How do I work with him to resolve things better. We've been married 5 years and been through quite a few stressful situations. Custody battles with his ex wife who keeps coming in and out and abandons his three children. his oldest son was critically ill with meningitis for several months, etc. Every time a challenge is presented to him or something that needs resolution..his first instinct is to ignore responsibility or figure out a way he can help. It's always "not his problem" "there's nothing I can do about it" "i don't know how" etc. these are things that "don't know how" to do either, yet I find a way to figure it out or make it happen. alot of the stuff that happened with his son being sick I COULDN"T do because I was not a biological parent (HIPPA law type stuff) For instance if he needs a follow up appointment or needs to be taken to an appointment my husband refuses to do so, even on his days off.. basically because he wants to enjoy his day off and thinks his relatives should do it. its like this with every responsibility and challenge that comes up. how do i get him to take responsibility I expected the answers like "he is who he is.. you shouldn't expect more" but i'm looking for advice on how to work past this and maybe make strides in this area

She find out I have used meth a couple times during our marriage. She doesn't like drugs. I'm not an addict but she thinks I am. I tried to get her back but no luck. I quit using meth for good. That's not enough.

For me as a female I'm just like omg if I fall in absolute love and feel like I need him then ill marry him even if he's a total loser and he will change eventually for me. But now I'm realizing after a hot guy who I felt that way about and he liked me sexually only and didnt want to even date me...that he must see marriage a different way. Men probably pick a wife rationally like, does she have the perfect job and family background and will she act professionally and impress my business associates and is she the hottestthing I can bag etc etc. Lol. They also dont let themselves fall for a hot girl she has to meet their standards first. Smart lads.

Will he moss the feeling of being someones first forever as he wont leave his wife n nor cAn he share intimacy with othrs after being married. Wife might not feel that way as she slept with many n got to be the first one for many.

my husband of 1 year has always said he wanted me out of his house although I helped him get this house built and gave him the money closing cost. He s always telling me to leave and he wants a divorce. all of his friends are single and he s more loyal to them than to me. I feel he s listening to his single friends I have explained to him eventually he will be just like them, still searching. I m just tired of this. I had made up my mind that if he did it again I would leave and not come back. I ve prayed about this numerous times

But if parents raise a kid people think the kids need to thank his or her parents. Why is it different? Parents love their child so they raise it and husband loves his wife so does thing so isn't it same? Why only child should thank his parents and wife takes husband's money for granted?

Husband says he would like a divorce. You can read my other posts if you want... explaining all that. A few hours ago I asked him if he knew that I am entitled to part of our house since we bought it together. I am not on the deed but three lawyers have told me I am likely to get something m, as it's martial property. He informed me (because he has a dad who is apparently familiar with the law and makes a living off of suing people and ******* people over, his words not mine) that according to his dad I am not entitled to anything because we haven't been married that long and I've put no money into the house. We married while he was overseas stationed.. we moved in together and bough our house about 6 months ago. The marriage so far has been a little more than a year and a half. He further informed me he wouldn't be leaving our house because he can't afford it and wouldn't sleep on the couch. Won't contribute to me moving out. He expects me to be the one to leave if it's going to be anyone. But says I don't HAVE to. He also said that he isn't entitled to pay me any money while separated even though he is active duty and I have been told differently by more than one person that he is entitled to. I uprooted two kids and left my home so we could be a family. I asked him why and he said because he's talked to people. Anyone familiar with military or anything else I have mentioned? I feel like he is bullying me almost...

Recently his mom passed away last year and in their culture they celebrate the dead on their birthday and death anniversary. We were there in her birthday and her death anniversary is coming up in Sept. but with news of the ISIS in the southern parts it's made me nervous about going and I've been pretty set on not going because I'm clearly not from there and could be a target. He called me stupid and was more worried about what relatives would think than about my safety. He said I was generalizing the whole country but even their government is pretty ****** up, not to say America is better but sheesh man. Advice pls He thinks growing up with your country at war with itself is normal, because apparently the Muslim extremists is the Philippines isn't a new thing....but I don't believe it's something that should be normalized especially expecting me to okay with risking my effing life like what kind of abusive garbage It's becoming increasingly clear that he only sees me as an extension to himself or like an accessory. I love him but at this point I feel like I can live without him. Because it's always been me who is compromised, I've had to bend for him. He critiqued his dad for being that way with his mom but it's so ironic because it's how he acts with me sometimes. Manipulation and control, I'm tired of it. I've been with him since I was 18 while he was in his late 20s, I younger and a lot more gullible and now I been thinking don't think I want to give him the rest of my 20s " borderline psychologically abusive" how? I've been there before. even before I knew about the terrorist situation, and even then Quezon and Manila seemed chaotic and of course being white I attracted a lot of attention that I didn't like, but to be fair I was in parts that wasn't exactly "tourist friendly". He wants to take me back a rural part of the country where his mom was born, it's also where I got food poisoning (from family) and flee bites (sleeping in fam home) but I'm being abusive? Flea**