Family: Question: Hi im 15. Is it bad that i get mad when my mom has sex? |
- Question: Hi im 15. Is it bad that i get mad when my mom has sex?
- Question: How to stop verbal abuse?
- Question: Why do i think no one cares?
- Question: Mom making me do too much chores?
- Question: Giving money back 10 points?
- Question: Why is my brother a bully?
- Question: Is it normal to feel sad when you move out of your parents home?
- Question: How to get my mom to stop embarrassing me?
- Question: If your teenage daughters hate living with your mother, what do you do-?
- Question: What is wrong with me?
- Question: Can my 8 year old brother go outside while I sleep inside? Could I get in trouble? In NY?
- Question: My ENTIRE extended family caught me watching porn...what the hell do I do now?
- Question: Buying Myself An iPhone?
- Question: I hate my life????????????
- Question: Am I being ungrateful?
- Question: Girlfriend's mother has 3 kids from 3 different fathers and is now living with yes another man?
- Question: I had the strangest dream last night, please help?
- Question: Why did my brother go missing?
- Question: Will the judge grant us overnights on school nights against mothers wishes?
- Question: Is this Selena Gomez in the pic?
- Question: Mom keeps punishing me with things that don't affect me. It's pointless, how do I tell her?
- Question: I hate my mom what should I do?
- Question: My mother said "if you get married, I'll disinherit you!". I think it's not normal to say such thing...?
- Question: Should I buy my older brothers birthday/Christmas gifts?
- Question: I read my sisters journal and it had disturbing stuff in it?
- Question: My Dad likes comparing me to the world like I'm gonna grow up to be a failure.?
- Question: Why do I feel hurt by my husband's brother seating me and my husband (best man) separately at his wedding? I'm married to his bro for years.?
- Question: I'm gay and sexually attracted to my step-father. What to do?
- Question: Why is incest bad?
- Question: Have you ever been unable to believe a loved one past away many months after it happened?
- Question: Bullying part 2?
- Question: How do I get my step dad to leave forever?
- Question: I just turned 18 and my mother and father want a family orgy (male)?
- Question: In your opinion is it ok for parents to take money from their children?
- Question: My Dad makes even my good days, bad... what should I do?
- Question: What can I do? (Best answer gets 10 points)?
- Question: If I live in a domestic violence shelter and my mom(who was abused by him) is seeing my father. What should I do ? Should I live with aunt?
- Question: Dont know what to do with my son and ex husband please help?
- Question: How do I convince my parents to move to Scotland?
- Question: My mom is going to take away my computer?
- Question: How come teens think iPhones are the best?
- Question: Do I really have to separate from my parents just because I m 23?
- Question: Am I related to my sister-in-law's brother?
- Question: Did my sister deserve to be punished for this?
- Question: How long will my homesickness last ?
- Question: Scared I won't love our child?
- Question: My family makes me feel depress?
- Question: What to do for 50th?
- Question: Please go answer my last question :( I'm running out of time :(?
- Question: What is my fathers Middle name?
- Question: Not want me anymore?
- Question: How to Convince My dad for faster internet?
- Question: How do I keep going without my twin?
- Question: My mum is feeling really down lately?
- Question: Should I be mad at her?
- Question: My parents expect too much of me?
- Question: I love him- is it enough?
- Question: I want to see my daughter more permanently. How should I go about changing this?
- Question: Help my son dad is trying to take my son from me?
- Question: I need some advice.?
| Question: Hi im 15. Is it bad that i get mad when my mom has sex? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 01:06 PM PDT Hi im 15 and my mom has gotten married to a person that i hate, she has started to change and I wake up to them having sex, is it bad that i get mad when they have sex? Is it bad that i now hate my mom? Is it bad that i cant talk to her anymore? My stepdad always tells her me and my sister dont deserve anything because I give my mom attitude and dont treat him with respect cause ik the game he is playing, hope that mad some sense:/ |
| Question: How to stop verbal abuse? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 01:05 PM PDT A friend of the family was getting divorced and needed a place to .I live with my sister and her family and when this woman was in process of divorce she moved in with us.Not only did she take a room of my nephews(and she doesnt care)she has over taken the rest of the house (especially the bathroom).I live with my sister due to a disability,that I hope to over come soon.However when I moved in I didnt know this woman would be moving in to,as I could barely stand being around her when she visited.Thankfully she is gone working 8 hours a day.Anyway I am nice to her even though I dont want her living here but its not my choice .Anyway the problem I am having with her is.she is verbably abusing me and saying things that really hurt.I am over weight and I am having weight loss surgery In December and was really hoping she would be out of here by then as I have postponed this surgery twice because I didnt want her here while I was recovering.But it looks like she will still be here.The issue at this time is whenever she has a chance she calls or refers to me as a Fatass.I would never use that kind of wording towards anybody and it doing more than upseting me,I am getting really angry at her.She needs to stop,but how do I get her to,without sounding too sensitive.If I could afford it I would move out ,but until I can physically go back to work I cant afford.However she can afford to move out ,the only reason she doesnt is cheap room and board and my sister watches her kids. |
| Question: Why do i think no one cares? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:51 PM PDT I think my family doesn't care about my birthday like when i was younger. They take me to buy of course, but i feel depressed since i can't buy the things i want (they don't have enough money to buy a nintendo and that was the only thing i wanted. It costs $130.00.) If i got the Nintendo, i probably won't be crying right now.i might even be happy right now. I hated family for a long time now and i wish i never had i birthday (i wish i was never alive). |
| Question: Mom making me do too much chores? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:48 PM PDT So I am really stressed out right now because my mom is giving me too many chores and she thinks it is not enough. I have to reed and clean the cages of 8 rabbits,wash the dishes, clear the table, clean a cage with 3 rats, feed my hamster, feed my gecko, and clean the counter every day. Plus my home work, laundry, and cleaning my room. I think it s too much for me to do but whenever I talk to my mom she yells at me. Idk what to do. Ps I m 12 years old if that helps. |
| Question: Giving money back 10 points? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:39 PM PDT okay so my birthday is on september 4th and my grandma gave me 50 bucks but i want to return it to her since we have bad blood (we never get along) and i gifted her in the past too but i just cant accept the payment like i just really dont like her and i really want to return the money to show her how i truly feel and some people think its rude not to accept gifts and all that but personally with my situation i just really want to give back the money and i am only 16 turning 17 but yeah what do you think i should do 10 points for best detailed answer |
| Question: Why is my brother a bully? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:35 PM PDT My brother is 17 and he is always acting like a 5 year old. I can t doing anything in my house with out him being really annoying I have to lock my doors so he can't get in when I am and aren't in my room! He has given me about 5 panic attacks in the last year from stressing me out and just being him he has spat at me and hurt me! My parents can t control him and he creates stress for everyone! I have big exams this year and I'm afraid he is going to ruin my study and everything on my and stress me out . I don't know what to do and yes I'm scared of him I do love him but just not this side of him! Please help me I dint know what to do about this and how to get him to stop! |
| Question: Is it normal to feel sad when you move out of your parents home? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:22 PM PDT I'm 27 and moved out of my dad's home today. I'm going through a few different emotions. I'm happy, excited but alittle sad. My dad is going to live on his own, my mother died a couple years back. Luckily I'm just 4 towns over from my dad's home so I'll be able to visit him from time to time and he is letting keep the house keys so I can come and visit. I'm moving in with roommates |
| Question: How to get my mom to stop embarrassing me? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:06 PM PDT i'm 21 and work at a gas station and my mom likes to come in and embarrass me to this guy i think is cute everytime first she went up to him and goes hi she talks about you a lot after i was already upset over something that happened with him than today she goes in and says hi to everyone i work with including him and follows me around like a lost puppy and she does this everywhere and when i leave for work at 7 and the people are standing outside waiting for the bus she waves to them all and at my first job she goes in and tells the manager about how i hurt my leg and how she didn't want me to work and wouldn't leave when i asked her nicely and shes like really awkward when she says stuff to people too shes so awkward i can't get people to come over my house cause she doesn't leave us alone and she just stares at us like shes our friend than when i tell her to not do any of that or talk to the people i work with she goes so what i said hi to them be happy you have a mom and she doesn't seem to understand how embarrassing it is having your mom follow you around everywhere cause she never had parents when she was my age. How can i get her to stop? |
| Question: If your teenage daughters hate living with your mother, what do you do-? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:02 PM PDT my daughters are 20 and 17, the 20 yr old is sickly and the 17 yr old is in high school both are good kids no real issues except how hateful they are to my 83 yr old mother but in all honesty she can drive a dead man crazy, not a deciding factor but a contributing one - my husband has been out of work almost a year and she pays half the rent, It would really hurt if she moved I can barely cover our half but what it is doing to the family is becoming permant damage I just don't know what is right |
| Question: What is wrong with me? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 11:50 AM PDT Sometimes, I just can't stand to be touched, even by my parents. I can't stand to be hugged or even just have their hand on my shoulder. It upsets me to the point that I will have a meltdown and start crying. My dad and I were messing around today, just pretending to punch each other and pushing each other around laughing, when I just didn't want to be touched anymore. I asked him to stop, and he said, "No, this is a fight, and I'm gonna win!" Don't get me wrong, this wasn't an actual fist-fight with my dad, we were just playing. He continued to try and put me in a friendly headlock, and I freaked out. I started screaming and crying, and he told me that since I started the play-fight, that I shouldn't be crying just because I got a little sensitive or whatever. Luckily, my mom was home and she told him to leave me alone. Again, this wasn't anything serious, and we definitely weren't trying to beat each other up. I don't know why this happens to me, but it does. It's a random occurrence, but I'm not sure what "it" is. When it happens, the only living thing that I can stand is one of my dogs. This has only happened with my mom and I once, but it happens with my dad at least 1 time a month. Is there any name for this? What exactly is wrong with me? |
| Question: Can my 8 year old brother go outside while I sleep inside? Could I get in trouble? In NY? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 11:47 AM PDT I babysit my brothers every day all day and for free I also have a son and this gets so tiring. My son is 2 and can take naps but my brothers don't. Right now my 10 year old brother is at his friends and my 8 year old brother is inside but he goes outside amost all day. We live in a trailer park so he just stays in our yard. Im so tired I can't stay away and my mom texted me and said I can't sleep because if someone came here I could get in trouble. Is that true that I will get in trouble for my 8 year old brother to go outside and play while I go to sleep? He's out there most of the day. |
| Question: My ENTIRE extended family caught me watching porn...what the hell do I do now? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 11:38 AM PDT So, today my family is having a reunion, and my relatives from around the globe have come. And I mean ALL of my relatives. Some even made an appearance through Skype or Facetime because you know, they're disabled or tavelling a lot, or don't have the expenses to travel. I chatted for a little and spent some time with my family, then I went into my room to watch a little porn. Everything went well until one of my extended relatives (They were from Spain) walked in on me and saw me watching porn. They got shocked, and called for my mom to see what I was doing. Everyone heard and started rushing over to my room. I managed to get out of my room before everyone came in. They crammed into my room and saw the porn I was watching. Everyone even took their phones and showed the porn I was watching to the people who were making Facetime and Skype conferences. Then they all turned to me, including the phones. I felt SO embarrassed, SO bad, and SO anxious. I then ran out the door crying, and I didn't stop until I hit the gas station, which is about a km from my house. Now I'm standing behind the gas station, crying, typing this on my phone before my parents pull my data, and I feel horrible. Now my ENTIRE family knows that I watch porn, and I don't think I can ever show my face to them ever again. What the hell do I do now? Follow my question? lol this was a troll |
| Question: Buying Myself An iPhone? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 11:32 AM PDT We never had nice things when I was growing up and I'm a 17 year old now but I want to buy myself an iPhone 6+. See I don't see any problem with it since for one I'm paying for the phone and the bill but the first time I bring it up my mom snaps at me and says its like I'm "obsessed". I haven't had a nice phone ever is it really bad to want to buy one thing for myself can someone help me understand? |
| Question: I hate my life???????????? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 11:30 AM PDT i know. I've got better than alot of people out in this world. But nearly everyday I cry . It's only been happening recently started about 2 months ago. Basically my OLDEST brother keeps telling lies about me to my mum and makes me look bad and then she tells me off, My oldest brother is 26 and i'm 13, and then my youngest brother who is 20 He gets angry at me, basically I fount out he was watching porn on MY ipad and people told me to change the passcode and to hide it, so i hid it, and then he fount it and then he asked for the passcode and i didnt want porn on my ipad because he spermed on it:/ and then he said if i dont tell him he would smash the ipad on me and then i was in bed at the time and then he pulled the bed covers and was about to hit me, and i was literally shaking... He is always getting angry at me and most of the reason i cry is because of him. I'm also ugly and stupid and I have no friends except 1 but I dont even want to be friends with her, but I don't want to hang out by myself because then I will cry even more. I've told my mum, she does NOTHING about it. She says she will talk to them but she doesn't. whenever i try to confront my brothers they always just shout at me or dont listen. |
| Question: Am I being ungrateful? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 11:26 AM PDT So I am a late teen and I recently just got my first job ( after searching for 3 years). I don't have my license as my parents will not let me because if I were to get it then their insurance would go way up on their vehicle and they don't want to pay it. They have also made it very clear to me that they will not help me pay for college. So because I cannot drive my Mom drives me to work and to college, which I am only taking one class because my Mom said she wouldn't drive more than one day a week. So here I am trying to save for college and car and I have practically no money and I am getting no help from anyone. Not from my parents and not from any of my siblings. I have no idea how I am going to do it but oh well. So the thing is, my Dad is planning on starting a business and to do so it is going to require a lot of money. Like many people these days we have financial struggles. One of the biggest things is my Dad has to have a business vehicle and he is going to use the family vehicle we have. So my Mom is going to loss her car. So with that problem they said they can either buy a cheap car for my Mom or I can buy a car and she uses that. I told them no and now I am being totally bashed by my siblings as they are telling me I am being ungrateful. I can barely afford anything and I can't even believe that they would suggest that. When I do buy a car, it will be MY car. Am I being ungrateful? |
| Posted: 01 Sep 2015 11:07 AM PDT isn't this a bit dodgy?? will she use her mother as a role model and sleep around with lots of different men and have lots of kids and broken marriages/family etc?? She always says that she wants a happy family , that if we ever have kids we stick with each other through thick and thin and we will raise our kids in a loving household because she hates the situation she is in with half brothers etc. I just fear that her mother is the only woman she looks up to and will follow that path, im worried.. |
| Question: I had the strangest dream last night, please help? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 10:54 AM PDT Well, lately I have been having a lot of personal issues and I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. I've just been bottling it up and dealing with it on my own. Well, last night I had a dream that I was walking to my college class but my book bag felt very heavy. It was like someone had stuck cement blocks in there. Well, eventually when I was almost at class, I fell. No one helped me and every time I tried to stand back up, I fell again. Everyone continued walking by me. I eventually realized that I couldn't stand so I just sat there. Then I woke up. What did this mean? I really don't have many friends to talk about my life too? |
| Question: Why did my brother go missing? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 10:46 AM PDT Well, he was my stepbrother but he went missing quite a long time ago and I'm curious about your theories of what happened because since I was 11 (when he went missing), it's totally mystified me and I seriously cannot come up with an explanation. Basically 11/12 years ago, me, my stepbrother, and my mom were in the same house when it happened. I was with my mom the whole time and my brother was up in his bedroom. We heard numerous thumbs on the floor (these were frequent because the floorboards were pretty weak because it's an old house). My mom went upstairs literally a minute later and he wasn't there and hasn't been seen since. He was reported missing later on by the police and there's no trace of him. Recently, me and my aunt went in his bedroom and forgot all about a crawlspace that was under his bed (it was like a family safe but it was my brother's and we barely knew of it because we never used it). It was air tight but when we opened it, there was a foul smell to which I thought it was my brother's body (maybe he went in and broke his neck?) but there was nothing in there apart from video games and a pair of socks that were his. Turns out the smell was dampness. What are your theories? I know he won't be found but I want to hear. Thumps. I mean thumps. |
| Question: Will the judge grant us overnights on school nights against mothers wishes? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 10:13 AM PDT My boyfriend has a 7 year old daughter that is in second grade. He been asking her mother ever since kindergarten for 1 overnight a week to keep the overnight consistent because it is very hard for her to only stay overnight every 5/6 weeks. His work schedule is a rotating schedule so he only gets a actual Saturday and Sunday every 5 and 6 weeks. He asks like four times so far and it is the same excuse, She is not ready yet or her grades aren't good. She gets straight A's. We had her overnights through the summer two and a half days a week. Her mom said that it was very hard on her but what we see when she is here is when she comes she is excited to be here, she wants to stay longer. We have contacted a lawyer. How are we supposed to know if she I ready yet if we don't try it. We can never do anything without the court being involved because when they don't stick with it. They will do it once and decide they don't like it and take it away from us. Do judges give fathers overnights on school nights. Sorry please disregard the WE. I intended to put HE. I know I wouldn't get it. |
| Question: Is this Selena Gomez in the pic? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 10:01 AM PDT |
| Posted: 01 Sep 2015 10:00 AM PDT I get grounded a lot, mostly for getting in fights with my little sister and breaking curfew by a few minutes and sometimes not doing chores. Last night I got grounded from facebook for a week because I came home 5 minutes after curfew. Then a few weeks ago when I got in a fight with my sister, my phone was taken away for three days, which really didn't bother me because I only have a flip phone and the only one I call is her. So really she punished herself. then other things she has grounded me with is no TV, which I don't watch ever, taking my tablet which has been broken for over a year, making me cook supper, making me wear a dress for a week(I'm a tomboy), mowing the yard(which I already do), walking the dogs(which I do as well), not going to my friend's houses(fine with me because they live down the street and we can just go to the park and hang out), and a lot of other weird stuff. How do I tell her that these punishments are just jokes. Honestly, if she were to ground me, it should be a lot better. And it's not like I'm doing anything to even be grounded from. the latest I've ever been past curfew is 5 mins, my sister thinks she is a know-it-all and when I argue with her about her being wrong(she was dead convinced Heart was spelled 'Hart') and the times I didn't do my chores was either because I had homework and didn't have time, or I was doing something with the dogs or little sister. Dont say, "You actually WANT to be grounded?" Yeah, I get it. But honestly, these groundings are just laughable jokes. But honestly, really? I'd rather be outside on my bike than inside watching tv. I like board games more than my computer. Also another grounding she gave me last summer was that I had to put together and 5000 piece puzzle and glue the back, then hang it on the wall. Really? Putting together a puzzle? |
| Question: I hate my mom what should I do? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 10:00 AM PDT I'm 14 years old and my mom is so annoying and I can't take it anymore. She is always calling me into her room to do little things for her she's so lazy and treats me and my sister like slaves. She is always complaining about being tired when all she does all day is sleep and talk on the phone. Then whenever anyone is laying down she yells at them.Once I asked her to hold on to $200 dollars for me and she spent it and lied about it. I don't even think she works because she is always taking money from my dad. She complains at how he is never home but he can't be because he has to pay all the bills. She also accuses my dad of cheating but my sister and I actually caught her cheating on my dad. Every time I try to call her out on how she treats us she try's to make it a joke or hits me. I can't take it anymore and my dad just lets her do it. What should I do? |
| Posted: 01 Sep 2015 09:39 AM PDT She also doesn't want me to get a job. When something good happens to me, she tries her best to get it from me. I don't get why she is like this. I asked her, but she never answers. |
| Question: Should I buy my older brothers birthday/Christmas gifts? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 09:27 AM PDT Hey guys, this is a weird question but I feel as I'm getting lost that I should give my older brothers gifts. I never have as I was always the youngest by 6-8 years, but now I want to without it being weird...just to show them I care and am thinking about them. It would just be something small, maybe 10-20 dollars worth. So what do you guys think? My one brother gives me gifts but my other doesn't, but I want to give them both a gift regardless. |
| Question: I read my sisters journal and it had disturbing stuff in it? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 09:17 AM PDT Before the lecture, I know what I did was wrong but my curiosity and recent concern for my 17 year old sister got the better of me. I was homesick and went to get the cough drops from her room (had a bad cough and flu) when I saw her journal in her drawers. I hesitated but something took over me and I just sat down and read a few pages. She has being keeping this journal since she was 14 and one entry dated 2013 said ''I'm living in hell, wait, even hell is better then this life I endure''. I read the recent entry and it said something like ''My dream since I was 12 was to run away and stumble upon a new family who would take me in as one of their own and love me, hug me, give me affection. I'm really lonely right now. I have no friends. No life. No soul. This anxiety is killing me. I wake up and it hits me - I feel like I can't breathe. Every step I take and every thought I get is always determined on the anxiety I feel. I know I have an anxiety disorder and depression and I'm stuck on this hopeless medication. I feel like I'm worthless. I'm breathing but why? It's there better people who deserve the air I breathe more then me?''. Should I tell my parents?? |
| Question: My Dad likes comparing me to the world like I'm gonna grow up to be a failure.? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:59 AM PDT Today I was just relaxing and playing my favorite video game, Terraria. My Dad was sleeping from 11 A.M. till 1 P.M. After He woke up he comes up to my room and asks me if I have made any progress into finding information about the college I wanna go to next year. When I tried to say something he started shouting at me and telling me that I'm not serious about life and all I wanna do is play video games and watching 8 year old cartoons. This is not the first time he does this. he'd always tell me I was gonna fail because I don't take school seriously. I'm currently doing my final year at an F.E.T. college (further education and training) and next year I want to go to animation college and follow my dreams. He'd say a alot of demeaning words and tell me that other people in the world are doing something better and pushing themselves. Sometimes he'd tell me that the video games I'm playing -- the people who make them are rich compared to me. It really hurts and sometimes it makes me wanna cry and leave the house. I'd keep thinking of bad things like never see him again when I'm finally successful. I'm turning 20 this year and he thinks that age defines a person's maturity. My mom is the only person who understands me and supports me. I really need to deal with this because one day I know I'll snap and do something I'll regret. |
| Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:57 AM PDT I don't care about the ceremony...but if my husband is sitting next to bridesmaids at the reception dinner- like how is that fair, if they are taking the "traditional" route of only including immediates - then they need to be seated separately - bridesmaids of his new wife on her side and my husband's brother's immediates on his side - not mixing them up...I mean...I'm burning with hurt. |
| Question: I'm gay and sexually attracted to my step-father. What to do? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:46 AM PDT Hello. I am 17 yo, and I will start my 12 year in the following week, with hope of attending college next year. My father passed away when I was 6 yo. For many years it was just me and my mom. In 2012 she met her current soon-to-be husband (they are engaged). I am gay (however only some friends know. My mother doesn't), Since I've met my future stepdad I've felt really attracted to him. He's 48 and is very hot and successful. He is divorced and has two children. I never minded to my mom getting a new boyfriend, in fact I always encouraged her to do so; so it was not a problem when I knew she was dating. Since the beginning of 2014 he moved to our home (his kids live with their mother). My attraction to him as exponentially grown, and I started to think stupid things like that I wanted to have sex with him. I am gay but I am not promiscuous. I generally feel attracted to older men. Yesterday the strangest thing happened: I had just finished showering and thought nobody was home so I walked naked from the bath to my room. But he was, and he saw me naked and we just stared at each other and then I said ''sorry'' and ran to my room. I was really excited. Later, he said it was ok that I was naked; but that next time I should be careful. Next he kissed me in the forehead (he never did that). What's happening? Does he know I'm attracted to him? Does he corresponds? I would love to be with him (i'm not gonna deny this); but I don't want to do this to my mom. Help me. |
| Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:41 AM PDT It happens everyday and everywhere anyways and it's just sex. if a 18 year old want to have sex with his 20 year old sister and she lets him than that's her discussion plenty of kids were born through incest but some don't come out with deformities some come out normal so why is it so bad hm?! |
| Question: Have you ever been unable to believe a loved one past away many months after it happened? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:37 AM PDT my aunt was like my second mom as a kid as she always watched my sister and I when my mom was busy. We loved being over her house, it was just a dream come true to my sister and I. She was truly a lovely person and made everyone feel upbeat, safe, and comfortable. I still feel like she is supposed to be there in the future like when I get married and stuff. I still have a texting conversation on my phone with her, and it was less than a year ago. I can't believe I'll never talk to her in the present again or have new memories of her. I don't even want to imagine how her husband and daughter feel as they were obviously way closer to her. In the process where she's in hospice and then you go to the funeral, it just feels like events but I barely process what it means. It's not fair as she was so healthy and always took good care of herself but stupid cancer. It feels like half of my family is gone now. |
| Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:28 AM PDT I already explained the situation but I forgot to tell you that i already talked to my teacher and my dad. My teacher talked to him and hit him but he still continued. My dad talked to him and he stopped for a while but then continued again. I can't ask my dad to help me again. As for the freak I can't talk to him cause I think he has mental problems |
| Question: How do I get my step dad to leave forever? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:26 AM PDT My mom is 32 and her boyfriend is 57. Than doesn't seem right...my step dad is lazy and he never does anything.one time I had TWO BAGS he wouldn't even carry one. He wouldn't even get grocery bags even if I had twenty. He has mental issues(not like mental MENTAL) and he always yelling at my mom. When I do something he blames it on her. After he came along my mother started to drink. My mom doesn't have a job now and I was overheard her conversation and she's using him until she can get back on her feet again. I burned in tears when I heard him say "I want to wait until we move" (I hate my mom a little too) what can I do to get rid of him because I'm at the breaking point |
| Question: I just turned 18 and my mother and father want a family orgy (male)? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:26 AM PDT My sister who is 21 now lost her virginity to our dad when she turned 18 now that I'm 18 my parents want an orgy I do my mother and my dad does my sister and we switch that's what he told me last night and we will have our orgy when everyone gets off work what do I do I want to have sex but not with my family but it's a family tradition please help |
| Question: In your opinion is it ok for parents to take money from their children? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:19 AM PDT Im 16 and my parents have done this to me on several occasions. I save money regularly along with getting some money in the form of christmas presents birthday presents etc. But every once and a while i open my wallet to find it emptied.When i ask them about it they are far from apologetic and claim that they spend my money on me so its acceptable.I beg to differ however. I think it is unfair that they go behind my back and spent my money (i might add when they spend it i do not recall them spending it on me). These are the same people who encourage me to spend money and scrutinise my spending when i have money (which is rare as its normaly taken before i get the chance to spend it). I find it quite hypocritical. They also give out to me when i confront them about it and say that they struggle financially and that youre being very ungrateful with all we do for you etc etc etc. I have almost come to expect getting money taken from me when i earn it. If there are any parents reading this i would like your opinion on the matterThe amounts of money they take range between €50 and €100 which may not be much to you but it is for me. Thanks for reading |
| Question: My Dad makes even my good days, bad... what should I do? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:13 AM PDT I m 20 years old and have recently lost my job and had to move home. I m always tired, and irritable, and recently the feelings of hopelessness are overwhelming. I ve made an appointment with my doctor o talk about these things. But even on the days I m feeling relatively normal, and good, my dad ruins it. I have another option to live somewhere for free, but it would really hurt my mom. I just don t know what to do, I feel like he s just poisoning my progress... |
| Question: What can I do? (Best answer gets 10 points)? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:11 AM PDT My 18 year old recently left because my 15 year old is constantly fighting with my 18 year olds boyfriend that visits sometimes. She steals and breaks his things. Idk why she does this. Idk what to do anymore. I don't want my kids to be seperated. She's been gone for only a day and says she isn't coming back, only to get the rest of her clothes. What can I do to make her come back? |
| Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:07 AM PDT My mother was abused by my father for years and finally called the police and now that we are in a safety dv shelter she got back together with him and is secretly seeing him. I want to go live with another family member but she does not let me.. Also I'm in an immigration process and I haven't told my lawyer that my mother is seeing her abusive husband because I am scared. Should I tell my lawyer? Should I go live with another family member ? Also she's planning to move back in with him and I can't stand living with them again. It's insane. I don't know what to do anymore, I'm living with her at the shelter but I don't see the point anymore. People at the shelter are trying to help her out by giving her the basic resources to live a happy life without a man and she still insists on seeing him, even after he ruined our family. No one knows that she is seeing him but me my aunt and siblings.. As well as his family. What should I do.. Help |
| Question: Dont know what to do with my son and ex husband please help? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 08:02 AM PDT So i came to live with the father of my son . But hes an asshole. He said he was going to help me out get on my feet . He know i love him . So he has been sending me mixed signals. He tried to have sex with me but I couldn't. And i found condom wrapper in the restroom. We hadn't had sex in 3 weeks so obviously that wasn't with me . I have no where ti go . My moms house isnt a place where a child should be . Theres no refrigerator or stove or restroom only a room. Thats how old the house is . I am currently in crutches because i hurt my ankle. He hit me today in my face . And i found messages in his phone of woman he talks to saying i love you & stuff like that. I dont know what to do. I want to take my son with me but he has a cousin that work for CPS . And his father has a good lawyer. I dont have anything . What can i do? I dont want my son to be taken away from me . |
| Question: How do I convince my parents to move to Scotland? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 07:39 AM PDT Right so, My parents really want to move up to Scotland my whole fam Do apart from my older brother my mum and dad know people up there and we know our family in England will visit us I think if we get the right house my brother will come so this is the actual question How do I convince my parents to just do it? Thanks x |
| Question: My mom is going to take away my computer? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 07:23 AM PDT I got a computer as a birthday gift a few years ago, and when I started middle school, my grades went down from straight A's to A's and B's. She says my grades are"mediocre" and that I don't deserve a computer. It really makes me upset :( |
| Question: How come teens think iPhones are the best? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 07:19 AM PDT Here's what i think: iPhones are for immature teenagers who are like "yeah team iPhone" what makes them think their the best? Please don't tell me "because of better performance" because teenagers don't even know what that means... I think the Samsung Galaxy S6/Note 5 is a lot better.. It's more professional. What are your opinions? |
| Question: Do I really have to separate from my parents just because I m 23? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 07:09 AM PDT Because I still feel like I am not that old to "abandon" them and live on my own.. I still like to be home with them. |
| Question: Am I related to my sister-in-law's brother? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 07:03 AM PDT My brother is Kory. Kory is married to Rachel. Rachel's brother is Morgan. Are me and Morgan related in any way?? Any way at all? Say Morgan and I want to get married..is that legal? |
| Question: Did my sister deserve to be punished for this? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 06:50 AM PDT My 15-year-old sister has been grounded for accidentally destroying one of my mum's most precious items. My mum's had this elephant statue for 35 years. Her mum (our grandmother) gave it to her for her 10th birthday. Our grandmother passed away last year. Earlier today, me and my sister were in the living room where the statue was. The statue was placed on a small wooden table. My sister was walking across the living room where she suddenly tripped and fell. As a result, the fall caused the elephant statue to break into two large pieces. When mum came in, she started shouting at her. She shouted at her for the good of 15 minutes. During the rant, she called her an "irresponsible, selfish cow". Mum then grounded her until her birthday, which is on 23rd October. She's also banned from electronics, speaking to her friends, going out on her own/with friends and she's banned from going on days out with us (we've planned 3 this month). Mum's also forcing her to do all the chores until when it's her birthday. Does my sister deserve to be punished like this? Is mum overreacting? |
| Question: How long will my homesickness last ? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 06:22 AM PDT I recently moved into my fiances family house, for school purposes and we wanted to both move in with eachother already. I bearly moved in last week and i started school today. I started feeling homesick today and i havnt been able to get it off my mind i try but then it comes back now im 30 min away from my family, i know its not far and i just seen them on sunday and i will go see them every week when i went to visit i felt like i didnt want to leave but i had to. Idk what it is if i acually made the right decision into moving out or Im just really home sick . I dont want to b feeling like this anymore i hate the feeling , so i want to know how long it will last ? |
| Question: Scared I won't love our child? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 06:19 AM PDT I've never wanted kids because I'm scared they will inherit my anxiety problems and I'm scared I will say or do something that will ultimately give my kids a mental health problem. I'm scared I won't handle labour and my body will be ruined. I'm scared of the kid accidentally triggering my misophonia, meaning I will get mad (a reaction that is uncontrollable, I don't know HOW mad) I'm scared the kid will hate me, and I will hate them. But despite all the control, I am pregnant. I wanted to flush it out as soon as possible but my partner is pleading with me to keep it, so now we are:/ I don't REALLY want this kid, I don't want to be responsible for ruining a life. Because I have so much resentment I'm most scared that I won't even love it. I've never liked any kid I've come across, not one. and my partner will never agree to giving it up for adoption, and I wouldn't do that to him. |
| Question: My family makes me feel depress? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 06:18 AM PDT Okay so iam 16 but every since i was 12 my family makes me feel depress i lost my mom to cancer at 11 ever since she been gone it got worse...my sisters always made fun of me kuz i been an special ed class during school all my life they say stuff like..why is iam so slow i not gone ever make it in life ..iam the only special needs child my mom & dad had now they making me look for an job every day but won't nobody hire me then to think bout it iam scared to work cause of the things they say & when they say things like dat it makes me think of my mom then i get to crying & try to take alot of pills i just i dont know? |
| Question: What to do for 50th? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 06:11 AM PDT So I'm pushing 50. I'm not one of those people who have a problem with their age. I'm a woman looking forward to 50. I want to do something completely adventurous for my 50th. I've done the skydiving thing enough times not to want to do that for my next birthday, besides it's cliche. I've been zip lining, zorbing, scuba diving, adopted a child as a single parent,hang gliding, parasailing, and probably some other things I can't think of right now. Celebrate my birthday at the top of Mt. Kilimanjaro? Sounds great but I would never be able to afford that trip. Any suggestions for adventurous things to do on your 50th birthday? BTW my birthday is in August so any winter related things are out. I prefer summer activities anyways. |
| Question: Please go answer my last question :( I'm running out of time :(? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 06:07 AM PDT |
| Question: What is my fathers Middle name? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 05:47 AM PDT |
| Question: Not want me anymore? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 05:29 AM PDT I feel like my mum doesn't want me anymore & after my mum tells my dad what went on this morning,I'll feel like my dad wouldn't want me anymore |
| Question: How to Convince My dad for faster internet? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 03:46 AM PDT My dad pay 80$ for 4g and it slow down when it's data are finished for lower price from another isp. provide 100mbps for 50$ he say this is good and fast and he don't ******* understand he live in another home so he can have his own fast internet |
| Question: How do I keep going without my twin? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 03:20 AM PDT How do I keep going? She left a week ago and it was my fault. Tillie would tell me to keep going but I cant I can t even get out of bed How do I cope? How do I do keep living without Tillie? It s not fair. She said she ll be fine when I said I hated her. Sisters aren t supposed to leave How do I kee p living? How do I focus? I miss being Emily and Matilda. Were bloody 13! She s not allowed to die! |
| Question: My mum is feeling really down lately? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 03:15 AM PDT My family moved to australia over 20 years ago from india (my father and mother's hometown) and they've made a living here ever since. I was born in australia and it is our home but i think the difference between here and india is it's always busy over there and she's never alone with her sisters around. She has been feel especially down lately after her and my father came back from a trip back to india over a month ago. She's feeling very lonely and that everything is stagnant. She misses constantly being surrounded by people, whereas here it's only my parents, my brother and myself. I've even seen her in tears sometimes. Everyday all she does is go to work and clean. We lost contact with all family friends, especially one who was close to my mother but they deserted us when my brother fell mentally ill for some time. I don't know what to do to to lift her spirits and I feel helpless that I can't do anything to not make her feel this way. I'm currently studying and at times, I'm not around to keep her company or too busy to take her out. I want to do something special for her. But i don't know if that loneliness will go away? Can i please get some advice? |
| Question: Should I be mad at her? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 03:01 AM PDT This morning I woke up and needed toilet, but my sister was on her way to it already. I waited a few minutes and then knocked but she didn't answer so I knocked again and again and then she said she has to 'cough out' which means I could wait for literally half an hour for her to get out. I continued knocking because I really needed wc and she could cough anywhere else. So she let me in and was really angry. I came out in a minute and she hit my shoulder with hers while passing by. I'm angry and want to show her it wasn't alright to do that but my friend says it wasn:t a big deal.. NTW she:s 21 and I'm 16 |
| Question: My parents expect too much of me? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 02:56 AM PDT So my dad had it tough when he was my age cuz he was poor and my mom got yelled at a lot when she was a kid. Now we have a ton of money and they say im too sopiled and i never get punished and i need to do the stuff that they used to do when they where kids (do cross country, get yelled at more, etc). Can someone explain? |
| Question: I love him- is it enough? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 02:34 AM PDT Been together 3 years. He is the most kind, genuine man and treats me like a queen, BUT. 1. his family aren't interested in us. they aren't close. his relationship with his mum barely exists and his dad is lazy and doesn't make the effort to ever see family. his son moved out 2 years ago to live with his fiancée and lives ONE road away. his dad has gone to see him only 2 or 3 times. Also, his older sister has 3 children with her boyfriend, who my boyfriend hasn't seen for years. Apparently his family just aren't close and don't spend time together. This is an alien concept for me. He says we shouldn't worry about them because we'll have our own family. He is very close with my family and practically lives with us. 2. we're only 20 but he doesn't know what he wants to do for a career yet. Every job he has ends up letting him go because of cuts or reducing his hours because demand reduces. It means we can't save for holidays.etc. 3. He isn't very emotional - because his mum left and he was raised in a male-only (and very masculine) household he rarely shows emotion. When he does, it's genuine and lovely. But more often than not, he makes silly comments. Yet at other times, he talks about having children ,our plans for travelling and what age we should have a deposit for a mortgage :/ I love him and i know we can have a great life together. but sometimes, i wonder about his family, and what if he lacks emotion with his own children and will he always be insecure :/ The reason i worry about his family is because i'm from a close- knit family and it's just so different to me. I worry about our children (eventually) not seeing their grandparents and being let down and not having anyone to help out if we ever needed it. My mum would be the first to step in if we needed any support - I'm not sure his family would. Also, we talk about getting married a lot, not yet obviously but maybe in 5 years or so, but I'm not even sure they'd come to the wedding :( |
| Question: I want to see my daughter more permanently. How should I go about changing this? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 02:02 AM PDT I've always been someone who has been completely happy, positive and upbeat but the past 6 months have taken its toll on me. I'm currently studying at a campus which is situated around 100 miles from where I live. I don't miss my friends too much but it is incredibly difficult to be away from my family and most of all my daughter. I'm still only 22 but I've been a dad since I was 17/18 - the mother of my child is a much older Asian woman. Access to my daughter has been difficult enough at the best of times and often I feel she is trying to buy me off. I'm worried her partner (businessman) will try and fill my void... I've never had a father figure in my life so I know how it feels. My mum and sisters have been my family. My girlfriend split up with me last month, I haven't made too many friends at the campus, and overall I've lost a lot of happiness. It feels like most people are only out for themselves and will walk all over you to achieve their goals. I only sports, partying, earning good money etc but none of it has the same buzz or meaning as before. Of course it's the holiday season now which has meant I've been able to spend more time with her but I want to have the same rights and be as much a part of her life as her mum. Same with my family. It sucks how everything favours the mother |
| Question: Help my son dad is trying to take my son from me? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:44 AM PDT So I'm a parent of a seven month old lil boy. I love him dearly. My sons father is in the marine corps and work 12+ hours days. I have my son full time. He dad comes and visits and takes him for the day sometimes. Ever since my son was born he's been trying to take him from me. Ever since he was three days old he wanted over night visits with him. I told him he can come over and and see him but he's too young too go anywhere right now. So he'll come over for an hour and then leave saying he's always sleep when he comes. So fast forward a few months. I started letting him take him for the day so they can spend more time together on the weekends under the condition he doesn't have none of that parting around our son. His house is a party house and he even told my mom and I that, and I have witness it. I seen my self a few times he's been over there for the whole day. He refuses too listen to me about the issue and I just think our son should be in the same environment he is in at home. In my house there is no smoking or drinking or ten million people running in and out my house slamming doors and being loud. No he's filed for 50/50 custody of our son. And he only seven months old. And it scares me that he will actually get it. He has right too our son just like me but my safety of my child is my concern. Anybody else been through custody battle?? Only speak if u have. He just now started buying A crib and stuff for his house like he knows he's going to get custody of him HElP |
| Question: I need some advice.? Posted: 01 Sep 2015 12:44 AM PDT I'm having alot of trouble in my life, and I always have had issues going on for as long as I can remember, my dad Is an alcoholic abusive guy, and he used to beat me, and my mom when he got drunk. My mom and I left once when I was very little with my brother because he got drunk and beat her because he said she was cheating on him with "*******" when in reality she's a nurse and has to do her job, and that sometimes is helping black people, which my dad seemed to have a problem with because he's an extreme racist. But she went back after a few weeks, now, fast forward alot of years, I'm still a minor, and he cheated on her numerous times, that including he still was an alcoholic terrorizing my family and i all the time. And I won't get into too much detail, but it was misery, so my mom left him again, we've been away for a few months and she is now saying she wants to go back again, I've tried so many ways to convince her that she'll hurt herself and the family again if she goes back but she's not listening. And to be honest, if I have to go back again, I'm just going to kill myself, somebody help. |
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