Marriage & Divorce: Question: Lots of pre-marital sex... what now? |
- Question: Lots of pre-marital sex... what now?
- Question: What if the non custodial parent drop kids and mother?
- Question: Advice please?
- Question: Why is my boyfriend suddenly snoring, is he dying in his sleep help :'( ?
- Question: Married MEN: how long can you REALLY go sex with your wife?
- Question: Conversation with my hairdresser. do you think what she asked me was really weird?
- Question: Does god hate me?
- Question: How to look for a husband to subpoena him thru a divorce for a restraining order?
- Question: Why does an affair hurt people once they find out?
- Question: Should I forgive him?
- Question: How can I trust my husband?
- Question: I got married 10yres ago 6months later we broke up how can i find out if the marrage went thur?
- Question: Is honesty about my traumatic past as a young runaway who has done horrible things to survive important for my husband to know?
- Question: What are some good things to do when you are home alone?
- Question: Hi,i was wondering when nuptial flight is in arizona?
- Question: What can i do? wife continuouly threatening to leave?
- Question: I need to know if i will ever get married?
- Question: Proposal? been together 3.5 years never separated and have 2 kids together?
- Question: Is t normal for a doctor to give you his cell number?
- Question: What is the difference for married couples who are straight and married couples who are of same sex.?
- Question: Is your wife still entitled to half of your stuff in a divorce even if she cheated?
- Question: Is it normal for a husband to expect his wife to handle a dead rat?
- Question: Husband spending time w ex-wife?
- Question: Husband would give me whatever i want, but i feel guilty?
- Question: Which is worse, if you lost your beloved husband, or if you lost your beloved older brother?
- Question: Left a wife I loved.!?
- Question: Divorce and Child Custody?
- Question: How do you prove your done cheating and get your husband to believe you?
- Question: What would you do if you found out your husband drew realistic naked babies in his spare time?
- Question: Why there are women who accept a man with feminine behaviour as partner ? Because they feel like having a bond ?
- Question: My x inherited home 10 years ago. We used marital funds to maintain it and deposited rents to joint accounts. Is it separte or community?
- Question: How does a mute person get married in California?
- Question: HYPOTHETICAL QUESTION!?
- Question: Business partner or spouse?
- Question: Moms, do you like when your hubby is all over you or what does he do to make you feel sexy when the kids are always around?
- Question: My wife start 2 like bdsm after she read fifty shades of gray and now she wants to be dominated by another man. What should I do?
- Question: I met a girl, and she was going through a divorce, and her husband was well and still is emotionally abusive, and so we got together.?
- Question: My fiance has recently developed trust issues. What could be causing them and how can I reassure him that everything is fine?
- Question: Cheating husband, what next?
- Question: Why is this not a rule?
- Question: My surname has changed back to my married name I divorced due to domestic violence 2 years ago so I have no idea why or how to change this?
- Question: Should wife be allowed outside alone?
- Question: Whats the best way to handle holidays after a divorce?
- Question: I am 34 years old man from south India(Tamil) and I am being pressurised by parents for marriage.?
- Question: How is it possible please explain?
- Question: Dating site behavior?
- Question: Does this mean my wife is cheating?
- Question: I m moving to a small town and need so advice??!?
- Question: Husband keeps going through my phone/ computer?
- Question: What is statue of limitations for divorce settlements in the state of Georgia ?
- Question: How to tell my husband he is spending too much time with his best friend.?
- Question: Hi. I've been married to my husband for 13 years. I was absolutely head over heals for him.?
- Question: What makes a long term(20 years+) marriage successful?
- Question: Are husbands loyal ?
- Question: When you and your wife realize that the only things holding you back is your habits and the lies we tell ourselves, how do we overcome it?
- Question: Should I ask about her goals, aspirations, and dreams?
- Question: Robert w banks and mary a banks divorce?
- Question: If u knew your wife was not that hot and an old girlfriend told you that your wife was fugly, how would that make you feel, angry, ashamed?
- Question: For a wife/husband: How does you over and over forgive the the infidelity of your husband?
| Question: Lots of pre-marital sex... what now? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 09:16 PM PDT I have had like 10 sexual partners... now I'm rethinking.. I should have waited for marriage... and married a virgin. I'm engaged now. Should I ask for forgiveness and wait to have sex again until we're married? Or have I already messed up so much it doesnt matter? Also I read that you're married after you've had sex with a person.. so.. am I married to all 10 of them? Does that mean since I'm not with them I'm divorced? Uh... really could use SERIOUS answers only. Asking this in regards to the Christian faith. thanks. confused and lost tammy p.s. anyone know a good website for religious questions or like a forum community or somewhere they explain the bible in more detail then just reading it? |
| Question: What if the non custodial parent drop kids and mother? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 09:10 PM PDT What happens if the non custodial parent drop child and mother in one state then moves to other before the divorce papers where filed can he file for custody in that state if the kids reside in the state they where drop off |
| Posted: 14 Sep 2015 09:10 PM PDT I pay child's support and I would like to see my child more if I file for joint custody how would that effect me financially |
| Question: Why is my boyfriend suddenly snoring, is he dying in his sleep help :'( ? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 09:09 PM PDT ITS SO LOUD. And he never snores. What's up with this? Is there something wrong with him? IS HE DYING? He hasn't snored like this before what's happening to him!????? |
| Question: Married MEN: how long can you REALLY go sex with your wife? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 09:00 PM PDT |
| Question: Conversation with my hairdresser. do you think what she asked me was really weird? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 08:59 PM PDT I went and got my hair done last night. The woman who was doing my hair and I were talking about eyelash extensions. I was telling her how I've been thinking about getting them someday. She said that she does eyelash extensions out of her home on the side sometimes, very rarely. She said in a quiet voice to me, "hey, if you want to do a trade, how about I give you the eyelashes for free and in return you can give me and my boyfriend a massage." I am not a massage therapist, I never said anything to her about doing massages. It was really random. Is what she said weird or not a big deal? I'm an adult. I'm 30...the hair dresser is maybe 33 or 34 years old. so random.. |
| Posted: 14 Sep 2015 08:44 PM PDT I am 15 years old I live I a poor family in Brooklyn who s parents often ask me for money and usually over draft money and kids at my school often mock my 2007 phone and shoes. I am also fat even though I eat less and have been playing sports since I was 8 unlike the kids with six packs who only stuff there face. The cherry on top is that my dad is a cheater and we ve known for years but are too poor to get a divorce. My dad is also in a kid life crisis and is in a band ( he is 53) and is vey sensitive about his band and doesn t like it when people tell him to do something even if there his band mates. And my parents fight every night and I am dragged into the middle all the time. What should I do? Every day for the past 5-6 years I have been putting a mask on that shows a smiling happy person and I just can t any more. I always pray but with no luck . As Abraham Lincoln said " a house divided amongst itself cannot stand" we ll I have been living in that house for 8 years. What do I do? Can some one please tell me? |
| Question: How to look for a husband to subpoena him thru a divorce for a restraining order? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 07:52 PM PDT yes hello, im divorcing my husband. our first court date was in january 2015 and he was supposed to provide documents for his financial status etc. he hasnt. it has been many court days and we are in september and we have another one in october. Hes denying that he is working but i have proof of pictures that he says hes working and proof of construction company checks that go to his address. what can i do if the judge doesnt discipline him on providing his documentation that he needs to do? We havent even finished the alimony or anything part of the divorce because of the paper work he hasnt brought in. i also need to subpoena him for a restraining order. can i contact his employer to do it for me? can i get his employer to give me his records? i need help. please help me. i feel my lawyer isnt really helping me and i dont have any money to do anything. i have pictures of him with his new gf, and house he bought her. but he supposedly told the courts hes not working or has no money is there a website i can use to help me with divorce court penal codes in order to use in court so i can find a way to force the court to help me out? a website or anything? thank you. please help |
| Question: Why does an affair hurt people once they find out? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 07:04 PM PDT How does that affect relationships with people you know? Can a rumor of an affair be spread around? How do people know? Why does it hurt the people that create the affair and why does it hurt other people such as their family members, grandkids, kids, friends and your own family? |
| Question: Should I forgive him? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 07:01 PM PDT I'm friends with an Indian family who asked me to marry their brother said he'd been divorced for 10 years and wanted a wife for him! They said in their culture they didnt date so I'd just have to talk, meet and decide! We talk for 10 months, he treat me like a queen, pay my bills, buy me goldjewelry and give me gold engagement bracelet. Then he moved to marry me! I went in his phone and found out he was talking to two woman and sending them money while he was engaged to me!he also asked his ex wife for copy of divorce papers and She said I just hope we can stay friends! He said to her that he loved her, loves her and will always love her not as her friend but as her husband! He is still providing for her and is paying for her brand new car! He told me he wants me to pay for our car cause he can't afford it! He does not know I know about his support for his ex and her car! He said the money was for his kids collage. I confronted him about the girls and he told me he was sorry cause he was alone for 10 yrs and need to talk to someone but now we r really together he won't cheat anymore! I'm so sad cause I love him and his family, but my heart is crushed and I'm having a hard time forgiving him and I just cry every day! Should I forgive him and try to make the marriage work? P.S. Please no comments about how he just wants green card! I know that's not the case! I think he will always love his ex wife and don't love me! He just can't be with her and does not want to be alone! |
| Question: How can I trust my husband? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 06:58 PM PDT I love my husband very much, and I've tried not to hold his past against him. He cheated on his last wife, with a coworker and she never found out through the 5 year marriage. At times if we argued, he would leave it in the middle of the night and be gone for hours. Little things like exiting quickly out of apps when I come close, working overtime some days, all these little things, deep down I'm almost certain he's not doing anything, but in the moment I would be fully convinced he's cheating on me like he did her. It's causing a lot of conflict in our marriage. Am I in the wrong for judging his past? Is there a way I can help myself trust him like he deserves? I'm going to destroy our family if I can't fix this soon, but I almost can't control these thoughts when anything seems out of the ordinary. |
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| Question: What are some good things to do when you are home alone? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 06:33 PM PDT I'm not really alone but my children are asleep and my husband works nights now, which I hate and I wish he would go to days but anyway I'm home alone and I don't have anything to do and I hate watching television and surfing the net is getting boring what else can I do besides calling my husband and bothering him at work? |
| Question: Hi,i was wondering when nuptial flight is in arizona? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 06:23 PM PDT |
| Question: What can i do? wife continuouly threatening to leave? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 06:00 PM PDT |
| Question: I need to know if i will ever get married? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 05:56 PM PDT |
| Question: Proposal? been together 3.5 years never separated and have 2 kids together? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 05:51 PM PDT |
| Question: Is t normal for a doctor to give you his cell number? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 05:50 PM PDT Today I went for a general check up and the doc was super friendly asking me personal questions like my marriage and how it's going etc. I told him I was in a difficult marriage and thought nothing of it. He then asked me for my cell, but I told him I didn't have it on me and he proceeded to give me his. He told me I should text to let him know how am feeling. Do you think this is odd behavior or is he just being friendly? |
| Posted: 14 Sep 2015 05:38 PM PDT I know some differences are like getting on your spouses insurance. Same sex have trouble with that. Also i know they have different rights??? |
| Question: Is your wife still entitled to half of your stuff in a divorce even if she cheated? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 04:45 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it normal for a husband to expect his wife to handle a dead rat? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 04:42 PM PDT Yesterday, our large bull dog pulled out a dead rat from behind some plants. The rat apparently walked into a hidden trap and was killed instantly. My husband was at work, my sons were at the beach, and I did not want this dead rat to sit for hours in our small back yard on the hot brick. So I went and got some disposable gloves, a rake and shovel and scooped that thing right into a paper back, then I threw it in the outside trash bin. Husband came home later last night and was very unhappy with me, because I threw away the rat trap along with the rat. Well, the rat's head was smashed in it. I didn't want to touch it. He went to bed sulllen and angry. I had to explain to him that I refuse to touch a dead rat. Your thoughts? |
| Question: Husband spending time w ex-wife? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 04:33 PM PDT My husband and I have been together 5 years and yes we did start to see each other while he was still married and living with his wife. She found out and moved an hour away w the kids. His ex wife was very bitter toward us and I understand we did an awful thing. things got better for about 4 years while she had a new live in boyfriend. About 4 months ago she kicked the boyfriend out and broke up w him for good. Ever since then my husband will go to her home and visit with his kids while his ex goes to work, the gym , out w friends or just to give her a break. He does not bring me along because he claims his ex still hates me. recently while visiting w the kids he took them to the zoo he told me about their zoo trip but he didn't tell me his ex the kids mother went along with them, I found that part out through Facebook. Besides bashing me what are your opinions on a husband spending time at his ex wife's house and going on family outings w her? I have never been w a man who has kids so this could all be completely normal. |
| Question: Husband would give me whatever i want, but i feel guilty? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 04:05 PM PDT I'm blessed to have a wonderful, hard-working, generous husband who would give me and our son anything to provide a good life for us. He's always asking what I'd like to have, or do for a career. I have several careers I'd like to pursue, it's just a little difficult to focus on myself with a 14 month old running around. My husband is willing to pay for anything and everything. I kind of have no choice because I'm a stay- at-home mom. But despite all of his encouragement and assurance, I still feel guilty asking him to get me anything. I grew up in a poor family and my dad had a lot of health problems so I rarely got Christmas/birthday gifts, so my wants were always put on the back burner. I just stopped asking, and now it's really hard for me to be honest with my husband. I honestly dont know what I want. Why should I do? I don't want to feel guilty for denying his offers |
| Posted: 14 Sep 2015 03:59 PM PDT For me, it's the older brother. I can get another husband in most cases, but never an older brother. Husbands can come and go, but good brothers mean a lot and are forever. To lose them too soon would destroy me. Husbands are a dime a dozen, but not older brothers. |
| Question: Left a wife I loved.!? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 03:33 PM PDT Has anyone broke up because you truely feel you did your spouse wrong and she/he deserves a better life? |
| Question: Divorce and Child Custody? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 03:13 PM PDT Next week my boyfriend is going for a divorce and custody hearing with the mother of his child. He hasn t been able to see his daughter since Feb because the mom dosent allow him too even though he pays child support. He dosent know the address, school nothing. The mom has always been a troublemaker so I wanted to know if she does not show up to the court date what happens? Is there a re-hearing or is there a warrant for her arrest? Thank you! |
| Question: How do you prove your done cheating and get your husband to believe you? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 02:45 PM PDT |
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| Question: How does a mute person get married in California? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 01:31 PM PDT Do you have to speak vows? I don't sign either. I'm trying to get married but I don't speak or sign. |
| Question: HYPOTHETICAL QUESTION!? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 01:30 PM PDT Let's say you have been married six times already and all six times you have been divorced. However, you meet someone you are absolutely certain they are your soulmate, would you marry them? *************THIS IS NOT ABOUT ME THIS IS JUST FOR A PSYCHOLOGY COURSE I AM TAKING AND THE RESEARCH PAPER I AM WRITING************* |
| Question: Business partner or spouse? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 01:28 PM PDT My husband and his business partner are 50/50 and they share everything, he dies the management part and ny husband does basically what i call the hard work as he is the one dealung directly with the clients, as they are associates with several insurance companies all businesses are submitted under my husbands name so when my husband qualify for award trips based in sales volumes, his business partner gets to go and i only get to go if the place they go to is not in his interest, the thing is if the businesses would be submitted under his partners name i am sure he will go with his wife instead because she is a b and will never let him go alone unless he make a great story on her which is what happens everytime he goes with my husband, so i am kinda tather to have my husband decline this trips because it is never specified that his partner get to go as the paper say is for my husband and a guess, so recommed before a blow it, thanks |
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| Posted: 14 Sep 2015 12:40 PM PDT And it started out as basically dating and sex, but fast forward about 3 months and i guess you can say we "fell for each other" and all was going well the divorce was going through, and all of the sudden she goes to a priest and now she feels guilty, calling herself a whore, and she'll take what she has done to the grave, she wants to get back with her husband, and I still have feeling for her, but I guess to my question, should I pursue her or let her go? |
| Posted: 14 Sep 2015 12:33 PM PDT My fiance and I are engaged but will be waiting to get married once we both graduate college (a year for him and two for me). When we were both dating he was never the possessive type nor did he ever seem to question anything about our relationship. Even when we first got engaged he didn't seem to have this sudden trust issue. Recently he has been demanding to see my phone at random times. He asked if I could please take the passcode off it so he can have access to it when he needs. He has always known my Facebook login info but recently I know he's been logging in to see my activity. Of course he isn't secretive with his stuff and says he would let me look through his stuff if I wanted which I don't. While he doesn't tell me what I can wear he did suggest that I try to dress more modestly. I dont dress very promiscuously to begin with but he doesn't even like me to wear shorts that go above the knee. I've never been too comfortable with PDA (just the way I was raised) and he always respected that but recently he will just grab my face and kiss me too passionately for public but later claims it was only because someone was looking at me. I have no idea what could have caused this sudden change. I tried talking to him about it but he says he doesnt think hes being any different. I dont want to make too big of a deal about it since there is really no harm in it, its just a nuisance. I think it could also be just because we are fairly young and he may be a little insecure? I haven't really been doing anything outside the norm of how I'd always been. We have sex just as often as we'd always had if not more now that I am on more effective birth control. The only change I can think of is some of my time is being pulled away from him because of my new intern job. Even then, when I'm not in class or at my job I am spending my time with him. |
| Question: Cheating husband, what next? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 12:31 PM PDT I ve been fairly sure for a while that my husband is having the odd quickie with a girl from work, I ve confronted him and he s denied it. A couple of weeks ago he disappeared at lunchtime and switched off his find my iPhone (he knows I sometimes check from previous infidelity) when he ALWAYS goes home for lunch. This girl lives near his work. All my alarm bells rang so the next day I checked his underwear, suspiciously stained, and we hadn t had sex for a few days, nor had he had any opportunity to masturbate. I ve used an infidelity kit and it came up positive, I ve tested about 6 other pairs, all negative. These kits test for semen, which is only actually produced on ejaculation, normal daytime emissions "precum" is produced by a different gland and does not produce a positive result. Fairly conclusive? However, I love him, and I m 6 months pregnant. In every other way we have a great relationship, he s a good dad and husband. I know for a fact he isn t considering any sort of relationship with this girl, and it s literally just a quickie a few times a year. So do I throw away our life, we have two kids already? I m at a loss..... |
| Question: Why is this not a rule? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 12:28 PM PDT Have you ever seen a situation where a guy does something to a female, lets say he abused his wife. Yet, the wife doesn't say anything about it, until the ex husband becomes successful, famous, or liked by everybody. Lets say the husband's success came 15 years after he abused his wife. All of a sudden the ex wife is in the news telling everyone what he did 15 years ago. Now the man has to answer questions about what happen 15 years ago. His good name is now tarnished. Should there be a rule that prevents this from happening? Why is there no rule stating people can't come out with incidents that happen over 10 years ago if they didn't say anything right then and there? It's not right that people can tarnish someones good name with things that happen over 10 years ago in the present. |
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| Question: Should wife be allowed outside alone? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 12:12 PM PDT |
| Question: Whats the best way to handle holidays after a divorce? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 11:56 AM PDT What is the best way to handle holidays after a divorce ? What if there are young kids involved? My ex and I have two children together (2 and 4) and I would like my current significant other to be at holidays with us? My ex husbands family(my former in laws) is very pushy and insists on still doing holidays with us. I know it is important for my children to see their father on the holidays, I do not want that taken away from them but at some point I would like to move on with my life. I also don't think it is healthy for my children to keep thinking we are still a family, life has changed since the divorce. What is the best way to handle holidays? |
| Posted: 14 Sep 2015 11:50 AM PDT Since my childhood I have not been good with people.i don't have any big attachment with not even my family.I have been a loner always.I have had many heartbreaks caused by girls.Even though three girls loved me during my college days I did not say yes because they were not mature enough.After postponing marriage for several years I am now fed up with my loneliness.My parents have made me meet a girl and she wants me to marry her.But I am scared shitless of the consequences of getting into a committed relationship.But at the same my mind tells me that I can't live like this forever.I don't know what to do? Pls advise. |
| Question: How is it possible please explain? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 11:28 AM PDT When I was a teenager my doctor told me after a physical and some other tests I was told I could have kids but may be difficult without certain treatments if I wanted to. Well I got married 6 years ago and I told my fiancé at the time after dating and after the fact and was using condoms then asked to marry me and we didn't use any protection. I only wanted 1 child so last year we had sex almost daily to twice on weekends, with headaches, illnesses, fatigue and even on my period we were addicted and after then 5000th time I got pregnant Well I talked to my friend and her and her husband have been married longer then me and they have no kids so I asked her what type of control they used of if one of them was fixed? She said this whole time she got checked and is fine and her husband had 1 kid from a previous marriage intentionally but he relies on the "pull out method". I felt stupid asking what that was. I couldn't believe it first of all and aside from porn movies I didn't know couples did that or was effective but she swears by it and oddly likes her husband's goo on her. I was thinking about it and aside from getting used to my man doing that on me I wonder if I should get on the pill or one of us should get fixed? I dunno what to do...I do know I still want to make love. |
| Question: Dating site behavior? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 11:26 AM PDT What can you infer about a guy who redid his profile. New photo, about me page, etc This guy would log in like 100 times a day constantly. A month goes by and he logs in only once a day or 2 days. Why would the momentum die down from 1000 times a day log in. To once or twice every day or 2? |
| Question: Does this mean my wife is cheating? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 11:06 AM PDT So she left her phone home today. I wasn't able to get full access to her phone because she has a password on it. But I was able to get Siri to show me the most recent messages on her phone through a glitch iPhones have. I didn't get to see her end of the conversation. I was just able to see what was being said to her. Anyway there were 3 texts from the same number. One text said I love you. Another text called her baby, and there was one more text that said something like i had a great time. Another thing is i had siri call my number, and instead of my name coming up it came up with a woman's name. The whole reason I tried to look through her phone is she is always texting, but any time I come in the room she either hides her phone or she presses the lock screen button. |
| Question: I m moving to a small town and need so advice??!? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 10:56 AM PDT Hello there! I m moving to a small town in December with my boyfriend and I don t really know what to expect. I ve gone down there and visited and everyone seems really nice but I m worried that it was only an act. I m worried that they won t accept a couple "outsiders" and that they are a very religious community to the point they will shun us for living together and not being married. They are a very tight net community that everyone knows each others business. I m also worried that they won t accept me because I am not Caucasian. I guess it s not advice that I need more reassurance that everything will be okay. Thanks for reading ! |
| Question: Husband keeps going through my phone/ computer? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 10:18 AM PDT He keeps going through my computer including documents and emails etc while I'm out of the house, he goes through my phone if I leave the room or leave it out. We've been married a year, we're younger 22, and 24. I don't have a lot of people I text or call outside of family, I keep no contact with the opposite sex outside of family. I had one serious relationship that took me a long time to get over before him, that I talk about sometimes but that's about it. He freaks out about old documents I have that were me writing about that particular relationship, but those were from before him. I'm a writer, they're really awesome poetry and writings I've done and I like to keep stuff like that. I feel really violated and disrespected. Any ideas on how to approach the situation? how to solve the problem? |
| Question: What is statue of limitations for divorce settlements in the state of Georgia ? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 09:11 AM PDT My husband divorced his ex wife in 2007. At the time he wrote in agreement that he would give her some $ if he ever sold his lake house which was bought and paid in his name. Since they divorced he discovered she was cheating on him -- we want to know if he still has to pay this $ to her if we sell the lake house. |
| Question: How to tell my husband he is spending too much time with his best friend.? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 08:52 AM PDT Ever since I became an actress, my husband has been spending less time with me and more time with his childhood friend. You see my role calls for some onscreen kissing and light love scenes and that at first to kinda bothered him. Well ever since then he has been spending more time with his female best friend named Ilsa. They have been friends and lived next door to each other since they were five. They also lost they're virginity to each other but they never dated. Him and Ilsa have been doing all sort of things together like horseback riding, parasailing, hang gliding,deep water diving, and even moonlit walks in the woods late at night. One time he spend the whole night cuddling with her in bed because she was crying. He saids that nothing else happen and that I am just going to have to trust him like he is force to trust me when I'm doing scenes with my costars. But they're so affectionate with each other, always hugging and kissing each other goodbye. She even gave him a locket for his birthday with a picture of her and a lock of her hair. I found the note that came with and it said, "here are my hair and eyes that you always wanted." Who the hell does that. What makes this whole situation worse is Ilsa is a woman that I HATE. Even before me and my husband were married or dating we hated each other. She did something really horrible to me in college and I never been able to forgive her. P.S. Ilsa is very pretty with blonde hair and blue eyes and also married herself. |
| Posted: 14 Sep 2015 07:50 AM PDT I didn't realize it, but he had a gaming/computer addiction. It came to light AFTER we got married. For years, I thought it was my fault, and I actually tried to get involved in it with him thinking he would reciprocate the action. But now, finally, I've let it sink in that he needs the computer, not me . . . and he proves it to me every day. He'll come home from work, say hi, hug, kiss, and go to the computer room, even eat in the computer room, and he hasn't slept with me in our bed for the last 7 years. We have a 4 year old girl, another baby on the way . . . and I just feel so lonely and pointless. A large part of me wants to leave, but I don't want to break up the family for the kids. I'm originally from a different country. I plan on going to grad school next year. It's been like this pretty much from day one. I've asked him for more time with him. I've told him many times how his computer time makes me feel. He says he loves me and that he wants to be with me for the rest of his life . . . and I don't feel the same way. It's hurt too much for too long. I just feel dead. He used to blow up at me when I'd ask for time with him that involved getting off the computer. When we have sex, which isn't often, he gets off the computer, we have sex, then he goes back to the computer room. Because of that and not sleeping together, I haven't even been able to cuddle with him. sorry . . . head over heels . . . for him. |
| Question: What makes a long term(20 years+) marriage successful? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 07:36 AM PDT |
| Question: Are husbands loyal ? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 07:29 AM PDT I don't know why but I have seen many married men cheat on their wives even if their wives are good looking . Are men loyal or faithful coz I haven't seen any including my dad my uncles . My friends husbands . My cousins husbands . All of them have cheated on their wives . Does anyone have a loyal husband or its a myth lol . Or are you a loyal husband ? Curios to know lol |
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| Question: Should I ask about her goals, aspirations, and dreams? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 06:27 AM PDT My wife and I have been arguing most of the weekend because I had one indiscretion more than a year ago and cheated on her. It was a one time thing but my wife thinks it was more than that. We've gone to counseling and I'm not going to say that we're better but the counselor did ask my wife if she felt the marriage was saving. My wife has also had her bout of cheating before we got married too. She says I haven't done anything to betray her trust since then but since she feels I'm going to mess up again in the future she might as well not trust me now. Well, I'm 46 and she's going on 45 this year. We've been together going on about 13 years. In the heat of an argument she told me that I never ask her about her goals or aspirations. Stop me if I'm wrong but at what point do you stop acting like a giddy school girl and start acting like an adult? I'm currently in school working on my master's degree her financial aid ran out before she finished her bachelor's degree. I gave her an app where she could apply to scholarships but my wife hates to write so she won't sit down and compose an essay to apply. Again, she's 44, at what age do you stop worrying about goals and aspirations to the point where if someone doesn't ask you about them you feel unimportant? At 44 you need to know what you want to do. That's why I'm actively working on my master's degree cause I want a better life for me and my wife. I could care less if she asked me about my goals and aspirations. |
| Question: Robert w banks and mary a banks divorce? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 06:11 AM PDT |
| Posted: 14 Sep 2015 04:57 AM PDT Please don't give Me advice or bash the ex girlfriend, this didn't really happen, I am just doing an experiement for an emotional group class...and if you are not married to an ugly woman, pretend you are...simply tell Me how it would make you feel. Ashamed, angry, belittled, would you start looking at your wife on a weird way? |
| Question: For a wife/husband: How does you over and over forgive the the infidelity of your husband? Posted: 14 Sep 2015 03:24 AM PDT before when i was a child, i always ask this to my mother .How does she forgive my father for doing it over and over again? And she always answered me with a smile saying"because i love you and their nothing that i can't do for you and your brother. when i found out that he cheated me with no words i kick him out in my life. And now i'm wondering how other women forgive this thing when it feel like hell. |
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