I act stupid in front of people who I interact with and they always make fun of me and what I say. For example, my parents, friends and people who I meet, say something and make fun of my situation: oh she's tired, she needs a tutor ( my parents say this). Why does this happen?

We had been together for about 6 month now.im 23 and he is 34.So far everything seems great.We clicked very well in many things.It wasnt very hard to fall in love with him.We meet every 3 to 5 days in person (we cant meet any earlier),and every time we meet in person everything is amazing,What worries me is the time we dont meet in person.We barely have any contact it's like switch on and off.I try texting him but he doesnt have any interest in chatting via text at all.I always try to text him, but he either answers after forever or he answers short.Last time it had been like a week since we didnt meet him in person,so i was missing him so badly, so i decided to write him why he is not intersted to chat with me any more.I asked if something has been changed that makes him loose interest in chatting with me or on me.He said,he loves me and he has been just busy and he said he hates chatting.Even if he is busy( with school, school work, and work) i bet no body is busy for 5-10 min of saying hi. here i am thinking about him 24/7 and he barely have time to chat with me.Note:we meet on facebook,and at first we were chatting none stop for hrs until we get together and we start meeting in person He would stay up until 4 am sometimes to chat with me,but suddenly now 10 min are forever for him.p.s about calling him on telefon,we never had any contact with telefon from before or now and thats because of me. i never am comfortable with telefon(one reason is no privacy). whats going on? wrote him a long emotional texts while i was upset, It didn't do any good ( he still is not texting). he tried to give reasoning how he is busy and how he hates chatting and how chatting isn't a measurement for love. is there something that i cant see here?If you love and miss some one,you would want to talk to them in every chance you have got right? and why in the hell doesn't he care about my emotions, he can see its big deal for me and yet he still doesn't text. Thanks in advance.

She grows and smokes weed in my apartment without my permission and I m pregnant so it s really a hazard to me also considering she s a slob and has trashed the place and literally made it a dangerous place for my health. I m just scared if I call the cops that I ll get in trouble too since it s my own apartment and I know about her growing it.

I am from Turkey and I am in a relationship with a Polish girl. But I am facing with a huge racism and Disrespect. At the beginning she was always observing me and i didn't understand it why she was doing it. Then at a state of anger she told me that; she was talking to her friends saying that; "If he will ever yell at me and beat me or if we will fight please call the police and help me." I never beat her, nor yelled at her to hurt her. But she is constantly yelling at me, and beating me and she says "I don't remember the reason but if I did I had a reason to do so" I thought it was her character but no, She was not like this to her lover; Whenever I needed her help she was ignoring me because he asked her to stay around and she cares about him. BECAUSE HE IS FROM GERMANY. After all, I am trying to explain myself but she interrupt me and tell me that she understands me. But after she does something and I catch, she refuse the fact that she did. Than I proove her that she did, and she says she doesn't understand what I wanted her to do. It is not that I am ugly, Most of my friends are telling I can easily find more attractive and smart girl than her and I should leave her. And I know because I had dates with more beautiful girls than her. But I wanna be with her anyway, even I need her financially. And she says the same, even she says she loved me the most. But she doesn't like my nation and race and she blame and punish me for it. Please be gentle with your answers.

I came here from taiwan and i am in year 11 and am a exchange student. I get to go back once i finish highschool here, i have one more year, but i really missed home. I feel so depressed i cant go home, and i miss my family. Skyping with them doesnt help because it make me miss them more. It feels like this is going to be a sad, slow year. Plus i hate school in Australia. What should i do? Sorry for my bad english

I have worked hard most of my life and not spent my 20s going to bars or blowing away money. I bought a new house and new cars and save up a substantial amount of money. We have a good life. I would think my parents would be happy that unlike my brothers and sisters, I made some good choices. The others have been irresponsible, and always come to me or my parents for money. My parents did not help me get started in life...I left home at 18 and made my own way without a car, place to live or help from them. My family have not been nice to me, Im treated like the black sheep (they take turns abusing me, or one of my brothers) lies are spread around to my peers to tarnish my reputation, they meddle in my relationships and tell people I am a POS, I am the only one besides one of my brothers who actually have my children living with me and taking care of them....the others are on welfare and dont have their children living with them...mainly because they have chose partying and going to bars. I am not invited to family birthday parties, nor are my children...or family get togethers...they do not offer any kind of help like they do for the others...I feel ganged up on...and outcasted because of working hard and making good choices, although it has been a tough road. Most of my life has been hard work. I help the others, they do not appreciate it, they do not give a thanks...infact, they turn it around and say they have helped me..lol..should I shun them like they have me? @Jason, I do think people who put their drinking and partying before taking care of their children..who are young and live home to home with strangers, are losers...and inferior. You sound like a loser, too... as you were quick to jump and attack. If you cant feel for those kids, and only yourself...yes, you are an inferior loser in my book. I did move, out of state and do not have contact with any of them anymore...and yes it bothers them...they have nobody to beat up..so I heard that they are fighting with random people who drive past their house now...or who look at them wrong at the store. So it looks like they are getting their angst out on someone, somewhere.

I don't particularly like this guy so I doubt it was a compliment . I don't know what this means. I'm in university.

well i tow motorcycle in nyc and so he does as well. he is trying to frame me by posting my number all over the internet under spam to make me look like im in charge of all the spam in the usa. so he puts my real phone number next to spam computer numbers to make it look like he found the culprit when in fact he is a con artist ,making me look bad on google search engine is his game. then he gives himself fast eddies motorcycle towing and tlt towing postive yelp review to boot. omg how great negatives on me and himself a shiny star! what a jerk off!

well all guys at my age in their 20s and 30s are shallow and players who only care about looks so i decided to opt for someone mature who can actually appreciate me

My fiancée is a wonderful man. He is so easy to talk to, even if it makes him feel awkward. But what I'm having trouble with is getting the courage to ask him to either shave or trim his pubic hair. I don't know how to approach it. Whenever we make love and I go to clean up in the bathroom afterwards, there are so many of his pubic hairs down there on me. And when I give him oral, I get afew of the loose ones in my mouth. And then I start to gag and almost start puking. I have my tongue pierced and sometimes they get wrapped around the barbell. I just act like it doesn't bother me cause I don't want him to think I'm disgusted by his body. I'm not. I would actually be able to please him even better if he did. How can I ask him to at least trim it without coming off as mean? Better question is, how can I ask him without him getting offended? I know that I know him more than anyone else does. I just need help/tips on getting the conversation started.

I want to try this website. I am 20 years old and this is my first time trying an online dating website so I kind of don t want anyone to know. Can someone find my profile just by google searching my name? Will my profile disappear if I delete it or will it linger and never go away? Is it safe to do? I m a little nervous about trying this but I want to do it. It s so hard finding someone where I live because everybody knows everybody and everybody is related (my family moved here when I was little so the rest of my family is in another state, I m not related to anyone here). I found out that my last ex boyfriend is the god brother of another ex of mine. Its very possible to run into your friend s brother or your teacher s nephew.

My friend says she is in love with a married man she works with (she's 26 and he's 42, not that it really matters). He has two kids with his wife. My friend told me they kiss all the time and are affectionate at work, and have hung out once after work. This has been going on for about 6 months. This is something I'm against and I have told her he's not a good guy and that she needs to stop but she just says "I know" but then a few days later will gush to me about how sweet he is to her. He has told her his wife is mean to him and that he's only with her for the money because she makes a lot more than him, but my friend is so naive and desperate she believes everything he says. He lives with his wife and kids and goes home to her every night, and texts my friend once his wife goes to bed. I'm going to be seeing her tomorrow and she told me she has a lot to tell me, and she used a smiley face so I know it will be something "positive" about him. I guess my question is...what do I do? I don't feel comfortable hearing about this situation and she doesn't get it. And not to mention she seemingly has no problem with what she's doing which disgusts me.

Jim chased me for 7 years but I did not accept to marry him for some reasons. This April he married a girl after dating her for only 1 month. Even he was married and we had no contact, he often stalked me on Facebook and Whatsapp. He called me but I did not answer his call. Then I text him "Whose phone number is this?". He responded "It's Jim. You just got a new cell phone? I called to get your advice on business". He made a childish reason to call me since I was sure he could solve that easy business matter by himself. I replied "I removed your number from my contact list" and he was silent though kept stalking me much more than before. Recently I shared an article of moving to live in another city. Few days later, he asked an anonymous friend to call me and check if I had true intention of moving. He asked his sister to organize an event of her company at a hotel where I was working there as a GM, in order to get my attention but I ignored it. His wife just post on her Facebook that she was pregnant or planned to have a baby. What would you think about him? What would you think about him?

I ll try to keep it short. Was in an unhappy relationship, met a friend at work. We hit it off, he stopped at my office a lot. He d be around Friday nights 2 hours later than he needed to, sometimes we d only talk for 10 minutes (I work slow) but he d keep lingering! I write erotic literature for leisure, he d beg me to share some of it xD. We chatted more, it intensified. Caught him staring at me, a smitten look on his face. I decided to talk things through, ask if he was attracted to me, and if so, talk to my SO, maybe move to the next step and do what seemed to be right. Leave an unhappy relationship and see a guy with whom things may work out better rather than cheat. When I attempted to arrange this talk, he kept avoiding me. He said he had no idea what I was talking about, we were "just colleagues who just need to get on with our work." Embarrassed and hurt, I forced a friendly smile and said he was right. I ignored him from then on. Ignored his text messages offering to help me at work. Ignored his attempts to make small talk. Continued with life. I m married and have a baby. When he heard I was pregnant he had a prolonged look of surprise. Found out about this time he dug through my computer files (our computers track our activity). About this time, he found a girl on eharmony, in a year decided to take her to travel to France. Not sure if he s proposing? Everyone said he s in a super happy relationship after finding a girl on the first try. But shortly before they flew, he texted me. What gives?

I have a problem of having relationships that tend to fade away.

A friend of mine and my husband confided with each other and feelings sort of developed. Before any damage was done, my husband chose to be with me and cut off ties with her. I stopped talking to her and even blocked her as well. We both tried rekindling the friendship but I just couldn't. I blocked her again and told her she's no longer welcome to come over unannounced (she would come only when my husband is there, too). With all the crap she had done, I never heard her say sorry. She says she rules her relationships so I just gave her that. Anyway, am I immature for blocking her and hoping she'll apologize? I confronted her about it back then and all shr said was my husband was not happy. My husband and I have had problems but after 12 years, not a single slut can break us apart. He never slept with herbut she tried seducing him by asking him to take her to difficult hikes. What do you think?

When we facetime he is constantly saying dumb stuff like calling me by his ex's name, and calling me dumbass. He also holds my hand sometimes too but I feel as though he isnt as close to me as i want him to be... He forgot our one month today, and im scared im going to lose him, because i do believe im in love with him. Everyday at the end of school i get tight-chested because i know we will walk outside of school with eachother and that he will hug me. I need help...

Why continue an affair when your mistress always picks fights with you about leaving your wife and vents about her problems every time you talk?? Isn't that usually annoying and a cause to stop wanting to be with that misstress??

I have a friend that her mother ran away from home to be with a guy, and of course that made people talk about her and whenever people saw her, they gave her petty looks which she can't stand but when I tell her how strong is she to be able to laugh and have fun whenever she had the chance to, she tells me that she doesn't of her self as a strong person, she thinks of her self as a coward person who runs away from the sorrow by laughing. The problem is that after what happened she doesn't believe in happy endings, she thinks that her life will always be filled with the sorrow and the pain. So I'm trying to cheer her up with some movies that will make her wanna live and believe in happy endings, especially if the movie was based on a true story or about mothers who ran away from home. Maybe I could cheer her up with true stories about how life could be shity sometimes but then have a happy ending. P.S: In my small community in my small town, most of the people doesn't watch movies, so please nobody comments that my idea of cheering her up is silly because for me the right movies have a heeling power and sometimes they make you feel that you are not alone. sorry for any mistakes as English is not my mother language.

Inspires marriage proposals, attention, and fidelity ? Also, are most men capable of doing this if it's the right woman ?

I met a guy in college he's 26, I'm 20. I met him when I was trying to attend the summer classes. Unfortunately due to financial issues I had to wait until this current fall semester. He always ask me how I'm feeling and looks my straight in my eyes and I'm pretty shy around him. He told me that I shouldn't be so shy and that I'm beautiful & should open up more. When I first gave him my number he would text me first, then I started to. He always ask me how I'm feeling if I look sad and wants to know a lot about me. I started to feel more comfortable with him than any other guy and tries to make me open up more. Few weeks later when I got a cut on my hand he kissed it and days later he kissed my lips, neck, back, stomach, & boobs and he also sucked them. He told me that he doesn't have a girlfriend and he never introduced me to his friends yet. Do you think he would ever be my boyfriend or is this all a joke? Ffefhetfdvh Delete this stupid *** question perminately now u idiots.