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- Question: When do boys stop growing in height?
- Question: My mom always blames me for everything?
- Question: Are parents ever concerned about their children committing incest?
- Question: Is it wrong to hate your brother?
- Question: Should i move out?
- Question: Am i the middle child?
- Question: Do you think this is harsh punishment?
- Question: Should I move somewhere else for a better opportunity or stay where I am and make the best of it?
- Question: My parents fight and drag me and my sisters into their issues?!?
- Question: What does fam mean??? Other than family?
- Question: My father has a serious lying problem. What can I do?
- Question: Why does my family think I have horrible work ethic?
- Question: Your 17 year old son tells you that hos whole life he feels like he was born in the wrong body and that he is a girl, how do you respond?
- Question: What would you do in this situation?
- Question: Worst birthday ever?
- Question: What's it like to have a big family or to be accepted by a community or subculture?
- Question: No one understands me AT ALL?
- Question: I recently turned 15 years old and I m only 5`4 tall, at what age do women stop growing if my mom is 5 0 and my dad is 6ft tall?
- Question: How do I deal with parents who are mentally and emotionally hurtful?
- Question: My sister told me a secret and i dont know what to do?
- Question: I want to be dead?
- Question: My Mom is a mental case?
- Question: I've been disowned by my parents what should I do?
- Question: My Birthday is on 9/11?
- Question: Suicidal and depressed at the age of 19, help me please?
- Question: Should I tell my sister to stop doing this?
- Question: My future plans are not good enough for my parents?
- Question: What is my mothers half brother's grandchild to me?
- Question: Should I let my mother attend my high school graduation?
- Question: Why are some people just loud, making noises all the time?
- Question: How do I convince my mom and dad to let me drive?
- Question: I need an advice? Anyone?
- Question: Is it bad that I'm the father of all my sisters children?
- Question: Should We Pick Up After Other People's Messes?
- Question: What must I do if I absolutely HATE my parents?
- Question: How do i deal with my siblings ?
- Question: I am the one keeping my family together. I can't take it anymore?
- Question: Kicked out at 18, how to survive?
- Question: My mom went to the hospital earlier and shes getting a observation done and i was on the phone with him and he started crying what do i do?
- Question: Do I tell my parents that they should get a divorce ?
- Question: I don't want to be on "vacation" anymore?
- Question: What is the point of life and why did my Mom and Dad made Me?
- Question: I hate being the youngest?
- Question: Is my sister weird?
- Question: My mom yells at me for doing homework/staying up?
- Question: How can I stay home tomorrow?
- Question: My Friend's parents won't let me hang out with their daughter?
- Question: Half brother. Help???
- Question: Family problems... help please?
- Question: I can not stand my mom?
- Question: Most of my adult life taking care of my brother&parents.My bro &dad are now gone, I live w/ my mom who is very abusive .. Can t go on?
- Question: My mom favors my sister, and acts like I cause fights when my brother bullies me?
- Question: How can I just be happy and get on track?
- Question: How to get my dad to let me hang out with my friend that's a boy?
- Question: I need advice, i hate my life?
- Question: I need advice, so bad.?
- Question: The chance of becoming pregnant?
- Question: May a man cry because of his parent doesn't love him?
- Question: How can I beat this sadness?
| Question: When do boys stop growing in height? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 01:07 PM PDT I am 15 years old boy and am 173 cms tall.when I was younger i.e 2 to 12 yrs old I was a big boy one of the tallest boys in my class. My growth rate was steady like 2 to 3 inches per year from age 2 to 14 but never had growth spurts.From past 8 months I am not growing or may b only1 cms. Does that mean I have stopped growing in height now?I have few facial hair but not much.Do boys stop growing this early? |
| Question: My mom always blames me for everything? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 01:05 PM PDT Im always the one at fault . We moved after my parents divorced and she sleeps in the living room on a sofa/bed it has the same mattress as the bed im sleeping in and she wants to move away now because she says her neck hurts and that gran makes to mich noise in the morning i personally dont want to move away because my bus stop is near and the center also if we moved away my bus ride would last for 45 min instead of 15 i would have to get up earlier and we would have to move out during the summer so the critical last two weeks of highschool i would have to move around town. Last time we moved my grades droped a lot and i barley passed math and i know it will happen again but she just says im lazy and starts telling me i wont go to college and ill have to find some crappy job ( i personally think she enjoys telling me that so i would feel worthless). Sorry its so long anyway what do i do Thanks |
| Question: Are parents ever concerned about their children committing incest? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 12:53 PM PDT I was talking with my friend and the topic was on siblings. At one point in the conversation, she told me her parents never let her go into her brother's room and he can never go into hers. At first I didn't think much of it cause I thought maybe it has to do with prevnting them from fighting but then I thought about how me and my sister fight A LOT or used to and my parents never made a rule about that and I have friends who have siblings, female friends with brothers/male friends with sisters and they can go into each others room and it's not really a big deal. Also they are two years apart and she's 17. And she's Asian so maybe it's culturally influenced? |
| Question: Is it wrong to hate your brother? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 12:44 PM PDT I hate my brother like no joke I don't consider him a brother and this might sound like a horrible thing to say but from all the things he's done I just ******* hate him so much. I'm so stupid I keep forgiving him and I'm just so stupid I hate myself for it but am I wrong for hating him? |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2015 12:35 PM PDT So the problem is, is that im a freshman in college and ive been living 18 years with my parents and i absolutely hate it, they are your typical asian parents always yelling at you for not doing what they want you to do and everything else (it'd take forever to go into full detail) anyways they own my car cause its under their name but i pay the note each month and they pay the insurance. i want to move out and live in a college dorm. if i start dorming i can finally be free and go out with friends and have fun. im not sure if i can afford it and if i can't, can't i just take out some student loans to fill in on the cost of living and other costs. i do have a part time job 8 dollars an hour. oh and my note is 400 a month. i just want your opinion on what you think i should do. Bear the yelling or risk the costs of everything? |
| Question: Am i the middle child? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 12:27 PM PDT i have 4 sisters and brothers , two elder sisters , then me and the youngest are my twin brother so i am the 3rd kid, please answer i really want to know why i am always forgotten. |
| Question: Do you think this is harsh punishment? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 12:05 PM PDT I'm mother of 2 and adopted 1. so the adopted is black and asked for piece of cake there waa the last slice and than my 14 year old daughter said no you black ( insert cussing ) i took all of her electronic , tv , mobile , laptop and not taking them back until she proves that she isn't going to be racist so now the adopted is 12 year old and she is crying |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2015 11:11 AM PDT With a job I can qualify for buying a home and have income. And that is the job I want. I did go to college and received a degree during recession. Where I live typical job is 9 an hour. I love my family and gf, but am miserable because I abide by local law and dont want to be labeled a criminal. She is stuck in Va because of kids and cant move for 8 years. What do I do! Leave my gf and move further from family to become financially stable and maybe start my own family? Or stick it out and wait for legalization and maybe commute to dc |
| Question: My parents fight and drag me and my sisters into their issues?!? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 11:10 AM PDT My parents are always fighting they are in their late 50's and should have long divorced. There is no love there, they hate each other you can tell. They always fight and bring me and my sisters into it, even though we don't live at home anymore they call us to involve us in the mess! I am fed up and stressed. What should I do and how do I handle it? |
| Question: What does fam mean??? Other than family? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 10:57 AM PDT I've seen people saying fam alot but family would not make sense and I want to now pkease |
| Question: My father has a serious lying problem. What can I do? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 10:49 AM PDT My dad lies all the time. I'm not even sure if he knows that he's doing it anymore. Its the reason my parents got a divorce and its the reason why he can't keep a relationship together. He has a nasty way of twisting peoples words to make them suit him. When my parents got a divorce I was about 14 and I remember that she would describe him as a sociopath. I hardly see my dad but I hate him. When I was a kid sometimes I would spend weekends at his place and the only thing he ever did was annoy me until I wanted to run away. When I was 16 I spent a summer with him and had a nervous breakdown. He lies about some very serious things, but the most annoying lies are the small ones. Its difficult to have someone in my life that I cant have a conversation with because he's always lying. He doesn't even want to get help. He laughs when I tell him to seek professional help. |
| Question: Why does my family think I have horrible work ethic? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 10:37 AM PDT I'm in college taking time off. I work retail from 5am-10 30 am or 4 am- 9 30 am, walk 4 miles home, nap for 2 hours, work a second job from 2 pm-8 pm, walk 4 miles home. I never complain, yet they praise my younger cousin who has never worked a day in her life, takes remedial college courses like math development (meanwhile I stated taking calculus my junior year of high school), she gets carpooled everywhere (I don't have a car, but as you can see I take it upon myself to walk home and not ask for ride), oh and she's morbidly obese (4'10" 230 lbs).My family looks at me like what am I doing with my life, and praise her for being an adult baby. |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2015 10:35 AM PDT What would a kind hearted parent and a human being tell their son? You have seen obvious indications of this in clothes, beauty products, choices of toys and a fondness of One Direction. And will you give them the money to pay for their hormonal therapy and sex reassignment surgery, which could amount to tens of thousands of dollars? |
| Question: What would you do in this situation? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 10:14 AM PDT A week ago I gave my older brother $200 for his birthday, and yesterday he asked me for $75 for something his girlfriend needs. They're constantly telling my mom they need money and she's always the one giving them money and they put photos on facebook of them going to multiple expensive restaurants and buying new things and getting their hair cut. A few years ago they begged my mom to pay the $500 for them to break their lease, and that's a huge chunk of change that they never paid back. I know he's my brother but he's not trustworthy, and I know i'll never see my money again. Would you just blindly give your sibling money after just giving him $200 less than a week ago? |
| Question: Worst birthday ever? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 10:00 AM PDT Well first of all I'm not the person that cares too much. Here's what happened: so its my sweet 16. My mom didn't say anything at all (my brother too). The moment I woke up she kept asking me to do chores ( which I don't mind ). No one planned anything for me. I asked my mom if we could eat outside and I kept begging her until she accepted, only the dseal was I had to pay for everyone :(. When we got there we ate and stuff. My mom ditched everything and acted as if its any other day. She went to but my brother 300$ shoes. I asked her if I could take a look at forever 21. I was literally there for only 5 minutes .the whole time my brother and mom were laughing at anything I choose. At the end my brother started cursing me and I just walked out of the mall to our car. In the car she kept screaming and calling me fat. They made me cry. No one does anything for me but for my brother they throw him huge parties. Gets a lot of things from everyone (I got nothing not even a card). My mom bought him a ps4!! And she bought him like 3 expensive games and a second controller. All I asked for wasTHE PERMISSION to buy a phone. I even have my own money but they won't spend a dollar. Now I'm home alone crying and even my best friends didn't wish me a happy birthday My family isn't terrible its just this thing that happened once don't be rude |
| Question: What's it like to have a big family or to be accepted by a community or subculture? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 09:41 AM PDT I've never been a part of either. |
| Question: No one understands me AT ALL? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 09:38 AM PDT No one listens to me. No one wants to listen to me. Everyone thinks they are better than me. I want to kill myself. I am done. I am done. I am done. When I talk everyone assumes what they want. They do not listen to what I have to say, the truth. I am done. I am done. LOL. I am done. They put words in my mouth on what they want to hear. I am done. I am done. I cannot take this any longer. Everything use to be so perfect. Until he came along and ruined my mother. Where oh where is my mother. I hate my life. I am done. I am done. No one understands what I have to say. I am done. I am done. |
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| Question: How do I deal with parents who are mentally and emotionally hurtful? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 09:30 AM PDT Okay, I'm a 12 year old girl almost 13 and my parents don't want me to be who I want. They want me to be a Christian but I don't believe in all that religious stuff. They force me to wear dresses even though I feel uncomfortable in them and I don't like them. They don't like the music I listen to (black veil brides, pierce the veil, my chemical romance, suicide silence, etc.) They want me to listen to Christian music and that only. I suffer from depression and some other things but when I told my mom about my depression and that I self harm she wanted me to get help from her friends and not by someone who is certified like I wanted, when I am who I want to be my parents yell at me to go change or something like that. They have said that if my old family ever cared they would still keep contact with me, but they never had my number so they couldn't keep in contact with me,and when my parents said they never cared it made me feel worthless like a waste of space, when I wanted to call one of my old family members my mom yelled at me and told me no, my parents now have mentally and emotionally hurt me, and I am slightly scared of them, my mom forces me to sing at places and when I say I don't want to she yells at me and I am sick and tired of it, I don't want to be hurt anymore. |
| Question: My sister told me a secret and i dont know what to do? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 09:29 AM PDT My sister is on an internship on a cruise ship and was supposed to be gone for 7 weeks, then it was 12, now its 9. She only told me that ahes coming home early. My parents are seperated and my dad leaves to go back to his house 5 minutes before my mom comes home. My sister tells me to make sure everyone is home because she's arriving back on midnight November 9th. How do i do that? She also told me not to tell my mom, dad, and younger sister either. Help? |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2015 09:12 AM PDT My parents divorced and I cannot take it. My mom acts like I'm just a kid and that her boyfriend is more important than me. She makes me go away every other weekend, and on the weekends that I get to stay home, she tries and talks me into going away AGAIN! I deserve to stay home on my weekends!!!!! She thinks she should get to have sex everyday! And I am at school everyday so I should get to stay home every other weekend (like it do) but she wants me away EVERY weekend! I read her messages and her and her boyfriend had sex 2 days in the same week while I was at school, so this isn't fair at all! she never thinks about me. I want to kill myself because she hates me! She is WAY to f*cking old to be doing this! She is 47!!! I am sick of this!!! How can I make her understand to let me just stay home every other weekend if she can do it 2 times a week! I shouldn't even have to go anywhere at all!!! |
| Question: My Mom is a mental case? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 09:12 AM PDT Long story short after I said something rude to Her this morning She proceeded to slap me in the face and then violently bang my wheelchair on the floor while yelling at me. I have long since suspected She has mental problems. She grew up quite ignored as the middle child and has grown up into an overweight dependent adult. She gets jealous when my Dad gets awards(He's a firefighter) because "She doesn't get awards.." She doesn't really have many friends and wants so badly to succeed at something She was going to go to Bible School. I think because She hasn't accomplished that much on Her own(flunked school mostly. She's also become increasingly religious and acts out. Not to mention Her tendency to generally have a "poor me attitude." I try to like Her, but now that I'm not a kid anymore, I find that I wouldn't even choose Her for a friend because I actually don't really respect Her. |
| Question: I've been disowned by my parents what should I do? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 08:52 AM PDT 19 years old living in parents house |
| Question: My Birthday is on 9/11? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 08:50 AM PDT I was born during the day of the terrorist atacks so should i be happy or sad? |
| Question: Suicidal and depressed at the age of 19, help me please? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 08:28 AM PDT i apologize in advance if this gets too long.. i'm 19 and seriously depressed but with good ability of hiding it which makes it even worse. i'm about to move out for college, and i'm extremely sad even tho i've been unable to wait for that for the past 5 years. the real reason is my mother. my mom is the nicest, kindest person everyone knows, but also with the worst life. she is married to my dad but it doesn seem that way. i've never seen them kiss, he used to be rich (now broke) and have many women and a nice car and good nightlife, or high life. but wasn't a dad for me, my little sister and my older brother who also suffers from even stronger depression, doesn't go out and feels like he doesn't worth even 2$. my mom is sick and unable to work, doesn't have her own possesions (house, apartment,car), money or anything at all. even if my dad gives her 20$, she would give it to us for clothes, phones etc. i have couple of nice friends, but they are staying here so i feel like i have nothing else. i'm moving with a boyfriend of one year who i love very much but he has a perfect life and i can't really open up in front of him because of fear that he would leave me. also, there's now a feeling of dependence because i was never emotionaly stable in my life before. so my life consists of pretty much just thinking ''how can i help my mother create a life and be happy''and nothing else. i just can't let her go one day without seeing her smile because that's the least she deserves. |
| Question: Should I tell my sister to stop doing this? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 08:00 AM PDT I am a high school senior with a 14 year old sister that I really like. I just adore her and I try to protect her as much as possible. She is just a fun person to be with. My high school buddies like to hang out at my house and they also like her. They just love it when she jokes around with them. She told my buddy John, "You are a great looking guy. You will never have a problem getting a date". She ask another buddy "Is that a gun in you pocket or are you glad to see me"? She told Bill "I bet there are no virgins after they date you". She told Joe it was nice that he liked cats. He said where did you get that idea? She said all the girls at school said you liked puss.y. My buddies just LOVE TO JOKE AROUND WITH HER. I have told them repeatedly that she is not flirting with them. She just likes having fun with them. Should I tell my sister to stop doing that with my buddies as they might get the wrong idea or will they understand she just likes to have fun with them? |
| Question: My future plans are not good enough for my parents? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 07:35 AM PDT So, I live in the UAE while i have an american citizenship.My parents are people who belive nothing makes you survive in this world other than going through college/university,but I have different beliefs. I believe that uni/college isnt the only way to survive this world there are many other ways to survive. So my parents dont know thats what I believe. So they went ahead and put me in an IB (International Baccalaureate) school,and its a financial strain for my father to put me and my little brother in that school because we arent super rich neither are we super poor were right in the middle, I thoght it was a waste of money if im not going to uni so I told him that there is no point on putting me in that expensive school if im not going to uni but he immediately got pissed off and kept on yelling at me for not wanting to go to uni. So my question is what do i do in this situation wothout angering my parents and without going to uni. |
| Question: What is my mothers half brother's grandchild to me? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 07:09 AM PDT My grandad had some kids by a woman before he married my grandmom. So those kids are my mothers half siblings. The half sister has grandkids. Are the grandkids half second cousins once removed to me? Hard to be first cousins once removed with so much of that family unknown to me. |
| Question: Should I let my mother attend my high school graduation? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 06:50 AM PDT I'm 17 my mom mentally and physically abused my as a child. She wold drive me around the hospital threatning to bring me there for A argument. Sometimes she brought me and they say mam you can't bring your son here every time you two argue. I went over 20+ times to ER as a child and was Never admitted to phych ward like she wanted. My mom is also very low class. On welfare, food stamps, and works under table. She Can't speak properly and dosnt even know her left and right. my father side of the family is very wealthy and edecated My moms 52 on welfare her life was a waste in my view. Dcf removed me at age 13 for 9 months until she got her **** straight. She finally went into a homeless shelter, dcf let me Come back with her. That lasted for 3 weeks then she attacked me and got arrested. I went back with dcf until I went and lived with my dad. Came back at 14 after dcf left the picture and been here since. My mom dosnt even make me dinner, I go hungry a lot and have to buy my own food.she randomly packs up the house like we're moving the same day when we have no where to go. I come home to my clothes In Boxes along with pots and pans etc.. Very unhealthy and very stressful situation. She dosnt buy me clothes or anything for my sports. I have very high goals in life and won't accomplish one with her presence around. The reason for me not letting her come to gradatution is to open her eyes.. Because I don't know what else will.. If she wants a relationship with me in 3-4 years |
| Question: Why are some people just loud, making noises all the time? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 06:37 AM PDT My girl has a older brother who comes to hang at our place alot, he is constantly making noises. What I mean, he is smacking his lips when he eats, really loud, always snorting his nose like he has a bad coke habit (but he doesn't), always constantly clearing his throat and making that noise like you hack up some snot!!! Sorry but he makes me crazy. That and he is always hinting around for money. Like he thinks he is more broke than anyone else so they should all give him money. I feel like I can't say anything because he is her brother. Would you say something to him? I already told her don't give him money. But the constant annoying noises thing, I can't stand it. My friend and I always looking at each other like WTF!!! |
| Question: How do I convince my mom and dad to let me drive? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 06:31 AM PDT Okay so I just turned 16 and I want to get my license. I turned 16 about a month ago, and the only goal I have right at this moment is to get my license I want it more than anything right now. My brother and sister had cars when they were 15 and im the youngest one and seeing them drive makes me want it even more they now left to college and I am in my house alone stuck with them... Obviously my mom and dad have their reasons for not letting me drive, I have had experiences with drugs when I was 14 and the beginning of 15 and me compared to my brother and sister who won the Bill Gates scholar ship well basically im trash compared to them. They get straight A's and I fail but this year I have A's and B's and I can honestly say I have changed I will never touch another drug and I am going to try my hardest in school because I know whats best for me. How do I convince her my dad trusts me but now my mom doesn't and I want that trust back. Also I stole her car at 3:00 am when I was 14 years old and she got really really mad and cried. Im not hear to make excuses for myself because I know what I did was wrong it was horrible actually. But I've changed I promise and I cross my heart I've changed and I really do regret everything. But please tell me how to convince her? |
| Question: I need an advice? Anyone? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 06:27 AM PDT We are both 20 years old , girls, and we were like sisters before. .She studies architecture in France and i study medicine in Germany so yeah 2 years apart , no talking , no chatting coz we had a huge fight! When we met before 4 days ,I gave her a formal handshake but instead she gave me a hug.... it was strange.. After that, i thought that we should start talking but she doesnt want ... WHY the hell did she hug me when she doesnt want to talk to me ??? |
| Question: Is it bad that I'm the father of all my sisters children? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 05:57 AM PDT We've had a sexual relationship for a very long time and her ex husband who died while hunting never suspected a thing, he was a very powerful man who handed his entire business to my eldest son who he thought was his own. But bad things started to happen, I lost my hand, my son lost a lot of good men due to being so corrupt and not long ago my son died during his wedding after party due to my own brother putting poison in his wine. My father had him locked up in his house waiting for the authorities, but he escaped and shot his ex who was sleeping with our father and then he shot him while he was on the toilet and ran away. But my sister admitted to sleeping with our cousin but never said anything about sleeping with me, why does society judge us like this? We're in love and all our children were born healthy |
| Question: Should We Pick Up After Other People's Messes? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 05:41 AM PDT My sister and I share a bathroom. She's 21 and the sink is covered in foundation and hair (from when she brushes it) Because of the mess, the sink is clogged. There's a giant mess on the sink with other things and it looked really bad and she INSISTS that I clean it because all I do is go to school for 8 hours and don't do anything else, even though its not my mess. |
| Question: What must I do if I absolutely HATE my parents? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 05:34 AM PDT They pretty much epitomy everything I resent to my bones in my life. I moved from home when I was 21 exactly to the opposite side of the earth, 12 hour difference and after 16 years of living on my own I can not stand them, I pretty much wake up having super angry thoughts about them. How should I deal with this? They do call me once in a blue mood and I play it as if I am cool with them but I resent them, when they speak they foken drive me crazy and when I think about them I think they are defective animals. |
| Question: How do i deal with my siblings ? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 05:20 AM PDT Okay . I'm 17 and they're 16 . i don't get why they are so mean to me . when we were young we all got along so well until 4 years ago . not due to a certain incident but they started changing, i haven't really paid attention to it back then . anyway, they're always talking behind my back and always mock my appearance ( well I'm not pretty as they are) .I'm not gonna lie , I'm not a saint and we do get well sometimes . when we get well , i try so hard not to do the wrong thing so they won't end up hating me again, but they're the ones who start problems. For example:me and my bro were on good terms until he asked me to buy him 3 ps4 games .( they cost 120 bucks approx) so i refused as i don't have that much and i need my own so he got angry and told my sister amd they now hate me again. It's not like they do anything nice to me , I'd die before any of them got me. A glass of water! I'm just sick of this . now im thinking i dont need them and it's their fault not mine but my parents won't let me be , they say i should be nice to my little siblings(its just one effing year apart!) i really don't know what to do . i really do want a good relationship with them . |
| Question: I am the one keeping my family together. I can't take it anymore? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 05:07 AM PDT Hello. I am 18 years old and I live with my parents and my 17 year old brother. For more than a year my bother and my father have loathed each other, and though my father tries to be nice to him now it is all one fake relation. Since I guess he couldn't channel his frustration on my father, he turned to my mother. This has been going on for about a year, with on and off times, but I can't take it anymore. My mother has let herself be abused for so long she doesn't have power over him anymore, neither does my father. My brother and I are very close, I think I have become "a father" to him. He tells me everything and is always seeking approval and though I try to make him reason and tell him our parents are great and should be respected, he doesn't heed me. I am desperate, I am crying right now as I write this. I have tried to man up, to stop crying because it is useless, but the best I can do is not show my mother and father I am doing it. Yesterday I was on my first date, my first date, and just as I was watching a movie with a beautiful girl, my mother calls me that she is locked in the car and my brother is trying to hurt her. I need help, I feel that I am handling a burden that is too heavy for me to carry. I am leaving in 4 months and a part of me just wants to bail and forget this, leave them here to handle it themselves, but the other is so scared of his own brother, that I even have come to think that he could hurt or even kill my parents. |
| Question: Kicked out at 18, how to survive? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 03:44 AM PDT I recently turned 18 and two days ago my parents kicked me out over something really stupid and simple. My friends mother has agreed to let me stay with them for a few weeks but I have no job or savings. I'm a senior in high school, what can I do to survive? I've been applying for jobs, but obviously it's hard to find a job. What can I do to make this easier? How can I support myself? |
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| Question: Do I tell my parents that they should get a divorce ? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 02:44 AM PDT My parents have been fighting for the past 5 years over different ****, for a long time I have been trying to fix their relationship, i have been listening to both of them, I have been listening to my stupid relatives giving me the "talk" which is that I have become a grown up and that I should try fixing bla bla bla...And honestly I am done dealing with this kind of sh*t like them, but they don't want to get a divorce because of me and my sister they think we'll be happier that way. I want them to be happy and they have been blaming me for there misery by saying "I won't leave for you". getting a divorce seems like a good way for both of them to be happy, So do I give them my blessings to get there **** together and get a divorce or not? And if they get a divorce will they regret it? |
| Question: I don't want to be on "vacation" anymore? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 01:20 AM PDT My boyfriend and I live together and about a week and a half ago he sent me to Mexico to stay with his sister so I can save some days on my visa so that I can spend more time with him later. Anyhow, Mexico is great, his sister is great, I was pretty excited to go but now I just want this so called vacation to end and I just want to go back home to him. Everyday here feels like 3 days and I can't fully enjoy myself if I'm longing to go home even if I'm having fun at the beach or out for dinner. I have troubles sleeping at night. I feel a little prisoned cause I know I can't leave anytime I want. I'll be here probably until the beginning of October. Has anyone else been in this situation? What did you do about it? |
| Question: What is the point of life and why did my Mom and Dad made Me? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 12:33 AM PDT |
| Question: I hate being the youngest? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 12:10 AM PDT I'm the youngest girl out of four girls (25,23,20) and I'm 17. I hate being youngest because I'm always being compared to them. And it's not just at home it's everywhere I go. They're all really smart and pretty and teachers always go oh your so and so's sister you're nothing like them! It's so frustrating because even though I'm the youngest I'm a still an individual! I also get treated like a baby in the family even though I turn 18 in 6 months! 2 of my sisters have moved out but one of them lives at home and if I ask her for help with something at school she acts very condescending and treats me like I'm dumb. I know she doesn't intentionally mean to do it but everyone does. It's so frustrating. How do I tell them to stop?! |
| Posted: 10 Sep 2015 11:51 PM PDT Today she was upset the whole day that this movie title got changed to something else. She even cried. I mean I've had my fan girl phase and get it but this was extreme. She didn't want to eat and even missed an extremely important deadline & got even angrier. Ummmm I don't think this is normal, what should I say? Also my mom is blaming me for her behavior.?? |
| Question: My mom yells at me for doing homework/staying up? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 11:41 PM PDT Hi I'm a senior this year. I take four AP classes- AP biology, AP literature, AP psychology, and AP calculus BC.. I also am national society president and Do Deca AND I'm the treasurer for science club. She won't let me stay up past 9 pm to do my homework. I try to explain that I don't have time for APs and studying for SAT, and applying for colleges and scholarships like she wants me to do. I'm really confused. She's Asian so I can't talk "back to her!" I've tried hiding under the bed and also other things but she checks on me a couple times a night. She likes to think she's a good parent but she's very verbally abusive, and scares me a LOT. That's why I take all these classes so I can move out to a good college out of state.. Please help... I have some homework left right now and she's outside. |
| Question: How can I stay home tomorrow? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 11:16 PM PDT Well, as the question states, I want to stay home tomorrow from school. I am a junior in high school and I'm already purposefully going in late so I can miss my first period class, World Religions, we're doing yoga as a part of the Hinduism unit and I simply don't have the clothes for yoga and I simply don't want to waste my time. We aren't doing anything tomorrow, but I've already missed a day this month, though that doesn't really bother me as I missed more than thirty days last year and I still passed. Oh and please note that my mother, a single parent, won't let me stay home very often unless she doesn't feel like getting up. The reason I skipped last Friday. Also, I'm passing all of my classes at the current moment. I also did much better on this prefix quiz so I could probably use that as some leverage. And she owes me money. Not much, a few dollars. But she still owes me and she got paid a few days ago. So how can I stay home tomorrow? |
| Question: My Friend's parents won't let me hang out with their daughter? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 11:15 PM PDT Well it happened almost 5 months ago me and my friend was beefing because she got me in trouble later at the end of July we quash the whole thing and we want to hang out with each other but her parents won't let us my mom doesn't care if we hang out it's just her parents won't I don't know we both apologized & whenever she ask her parents they say No we don't understand why because we haven't seen each other at all since May what should we do? |
| Question: Half brother. Help??? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 11:12 PM PDT Okay so turns out my half brother who I have no contact with goes to the same highschool as me. He's 1 year older. I was adopted when i was a baby so we didn't grow up together. Now that we go to the same school, I want to get to know him. He knows he has other sisters, but I don't think he knows it's me. The girl that walks past him everyday. The girl that's sits across the bench from him. It's so buzzard, but intetesting. I just want to talk to him. It's so weird/cool knowing u share the same blood as someone else, I think. It's eating me up inside. I want to talk to him so bad, but he's always with his friends. How should I approach him? When should I approach him? What do I say? What if he's mean? Btw I told my mom and she just said "whatever." I think she's scared that I'm going to start hanging out with him and become closer to the people they adopted me from. Which isn't true. I just want to get to know my brother. So please help!!!! Thank you!!!! |
| Question: Family problems... help please? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 10:57 PM PDT So here it goes, my dad(I love my dad btw) is not communicative.... he is very social outside with other people... bt with family he is always indifferent... I try to spring up conversations hoping he would reply me bt never do I succeed. He fulfills all our needs except the emotional part. He treats my mother's family like scum, it's not like he doesn't do anything for them bt everything he does is in a stiff way. I tried to explain him that he shouldn't do that nd that he should show my mother some respect. Bt he shunned away from me nd started scolding my mother that I should be decent and not talk back. Whenever he is angry he distances himself and he puts up this face which is confined to family and my mother's family bt nt to ppl outside. Now he says that I have to shut up and never talk back even when I'm right. I mean u can't reason with him he just shouts that I talk like a lawyerand u can never tell him that he is wrong. I never discuss my problems with any one bt this time it was too much for me to handle... how should i deal with the situation please help me :'( |
| Question: I can not stand my mom? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 10:40 PM PDT She is so racist against muslims. Today i was at the Dr today with her and there was a muslim family there. When we left she was complaining to me how she thinks its stupid that the women have to wear that thing on their head. Also, their young girl, my mom said "look she's in training to be one of them." I was so appalled. I told her to shut up and she said " Be respectful, you know what tomorrow is." "look what they did, they bombed our towers." I told her that the soldiers who gave their lives for our country, gave their lives so people can practice which ever religion they choose and not have to listen to people like you. My dad grounded me for be rude to my mom. I swear I am not trolling you. What do I do |
| Posted: 10 Sep 2015 10:26 PM PDT |
| Question: My mom favors my sister, and acts like I cause fights when my brother bullies me? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 10:22 PM PDT So, My sister is obviously the favorite. My mother says she doesn't have any, but she shows her favoritism. Also, my brother threatens and bullies me. My mom has started to deal with him when he threatens me, but acts like I exaggerate when I tell him to "please stop" or "leave me alone" when he bullies me. He calls me names, and does whatever he can to bug or put me down. It doesn't seem like the normal sibling rivalry anymore, because when it's obvious that I am hurting, he feels happy. My mom ignores that, or blames us both. Usually, I get in trouble, even when I do nothing. He hurts me with words, and my mom kinda ignores me. I am wanting any affirmation, but I get scolding after scolding! any advice on how to cope with this? |
| Question: How can I just be happy and get on track? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 09:53 PM PDT My life sucks so bad right now everytime I think about it I just get teary eyed and my body goes limp, I am always thinking about suicide. At school I am so behind I have so many missing assignments im currently grounded for 6 months all me and my parents do is fight so all I do is just sleep, my mom always asks oh did you do this assignment and I say yes I turned it in. my mom and stepdad don't even want me living with them they tell me everytime I get in a fight with them :( |
| Question: How to get my dad to let me hang out with my friend that's a boy? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 09:49 PM PDT I'm a sophomore and he's a freshman and we're both in marching band so we see each other a lot anyway but he wants to hang out a lot (no he doesn't like me he knows who I like and is friends with him and also tries helping me figure out how to get him lol) but I never can because I'm usually busy with band (so obviously he's there too but I also have sectionals and he's not in my section) and I asked my dad if I could hang out with him once and he said that I'm 15 and I'm "too young to be hanging around boys" (little does he know I only swing that way like 10% and the other 90% I'm gay af) but you see I could just use a girls name and say I'm going there right? Well I can't do that because he lives by our school and I don't so my dad would literally have to pick me up and drop me off so I just need to know how to convince him??? |
| Question: I need advice, i hate my life? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 09:24 PM PDT i can't get a job because i have no experience, i can't volunteer, i can't go back to school because i failed my remedial classes, i don't want to read because i can't see the small print, i feel like i want to be gone with my life. My parents says i can't go see a therapist, but i feel like i have to. I'm a failure, my parents are telling me what to do with my life, and i don't like when people are bossing me around(my parents) Everyone is successful than me, and i hate myself so bad.I'm crying so bad as i am writing this, my parents don't support me, they want me to go to the air force, butt i don't want to go because i'm not ready and i don't want to join the airforce I feel unloved, and hated, and i'll never become a successful. I'm a retard who fails 2 remedial classes(math and reading) and my mom is embarrassed because i failed I'll never be happy I want to disappear already. I hate my life so bad. I don't know what to do anymore. I have no options in my life. I'm a big failure.. I'll never be successful or get a job or a decent education. What can i do? I need help with math and english(reading). My mom and grandfather said that i can't go to BMCC because i failed my remedial clases, and they said that i can't go to a trade school because i need to study more, but i hate math and i hate reading. Reading to me is very boring and i get confused when it comes to math. I really want to go back to BMCC,,but my parents say no, and i really,really want to go back to BMCC. and i really would love to go back to BMCC to change my major. Can i go back to BMCC? Can i go against my parents back when i volunteer and go back to BMCC? I feel like that if i won't go back to BMCC, I'll die. Can i ignore my parents? I miss going to BMCC and i really need a good tutor to help me with math and reading. I have an IEP, so i don't know if BMCC will help me. i hate my parent's decision so much, that i can't sleep anymore. and which school can you get a better job- a trade school or a community college? my parents say that cc is garbage, but i really want to go back to BMCC. I'm screwed for the rest of my life :'( and i feel like i want to disappear because of my situation |
| Question: I need advice, so bad.? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 08:44 PM PDT i can't get a job because i have no experience, i can't volunteer, i can't go back to school because i failed my remedial classes, i don't want to read because i can't see the small print, i feel like i want to be gone with my life. My parents says i can't go see a therapist, but i feel like i have to. I'm a failure, my parents are telling me what to do with my life, and i don't like when people are bossing me around(my parents) Everyone is successful than me, and i hate myself so bad.I'm crying so bad as i am writing this, my parents don't support me, they want me to go to the air force, butt i don't want to go because i'm not ready and i don't want to join the airforce I feel unloved, and hated, and i'll never become a successful. I'm a retard who fails 2 remedial classes(math and reading) and my mom is embarrassed because i failed I'll never be happy I want to disappear already. I hate my life so bad. I don't know what to do anymore. I have no options in my life. I'm a big failure.. I'll never be successful or get a job or a decent education. What can i do? I need help with math and english(reading). My mom and grandfather said that i can't go to BMCC because i failed my remedial clases, and they said that i can't go to a trade school because i need to study more, but i hate math and i hate reading. Reading to me is very boring and i get confused when it comes to math. I really want to go back to BMCC,,but my parents say no, and i really,really want to go back to BMCC. and i really would love to go back to BMCC to change my major. Can i go back to BMCC? Can i go against my parents back when i volunteer and go back to BMCC? I feel like that if i won't go back to BMCC, I'll die. Can i ignore my parents? I miss going to BMCC and i really need a good tutor to help me with math and reading. I have an IEP, so i don't know if BMCC will help me. |
| Question: The chance of becoming pregnant? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 08:43 PM PDT |
| Question: May a man cry because of his parent doesn't love him? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 08:36 PM PDT So the man doesn't feel the love of their parent, he keeps fighting the battle of making himself battle alone, never got praise or hornored by his parent and doesn't appreciate him, when the feels very upset, he can't hold it so he cried. |
| Question: How can I beat this sadness? Posted: 10 Sep 2015 08:16 PM PDT My sister and I both auditioned for a play and she got the main villian and I got a character who dies on the second page. I feel bad for being disappointed because now she feels like she can't celebrate but I am so anxious and upset. I'm not jealous, I'm happy for her. But I also kind of feel like crying. How do I stop? |
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