My wedding is this weekend and I'm usually laid back about the entire thing including the guest list. My fiance's groomsman is bringing his sister as his date,which is kinda sweet. However I just found out he didn't ask her to come, she pressured him into taking her so she could come and get ideas for her wedding next year. Both of us knew her before the wedding, but barely. Neither of us invited her, however before we found out about the pressuring thing we gave the groomsman permission to bring her. I'm not sure whether to feel insulted that she isn't coming to just simply to have a good time with her brother at the wedding or kinda flattered that she is coming to get ideas from my wedding (she does know that due to budget it is extremely diy, like almost everything was made by me). I'm also not sure how to nicely let her know to just keep comments to herself about it because my wedding is a small budget wedding and is by no means extravagant. For the record it was the groomsman that told my fiance about her pressuring him himself, not another friend of ours.

My fiance and I will be tying the knot soon after 5 year relationship. i will make story short ..our relationship had a lot of up and downs, the first year was pretty bad since my fiance had a cocaine addiction and had to go to therapy to overcome it. I don't regret staying because he has been clean for 3 years and he is an amazing man. I am not gonna lie, i think I will always live with the fear of him falling in the temptation which is why i try to stay away from anything crazy like hardcore parties or clubs, besides we are already in our mid 30's and have interest in other events. His brother who will be his best man was talking the other day about how he was planning a awesome bachelor party for him with lot of strippers and booze. the problem is that his brother was actually the one responsible for my fiance having the drug addiction. He use to supply it to him and we actually got into a very big fight once because I saw him offering him some. for a couple years he kept his distance and our relationship seemed to get better. I am afraid that my fiance will be so drunk and have fall into temptation for drugs again. Also i am not gonna lie, I am not ok w the strippers, i think it's disrespectful and knowing his brother, his intentions are not the best! will it be dumb if we have a coed bachelor/bachelorette party instead? i mentioned it to my fiance and he is ok with it. I just dont wanna some like a jealous freak. I am open for opinions!

Hi ! Im looking to buy an engagement ring for my love. She says she would say yes to anything regardless of price or looks. But she deserves the world. I am not very wealthy and current only have about a 60 ish dolr budget :/ so im asking if anybody could oeave links to discounted / cheap but nice rings? She would live diamond(s) but anything nice would be wonderful <3

Okay the thing is I can't physically go ask her parents because military.... Point is, that I can't do it physically, & I have a time frame, how do I do this? Only way I can think of doing it is FaceTime or calling them, I love her and want to do things the "right way" and ask her parents before I marry her & make sure they know what we are doing and everything... Please help !!

My sister is engaged. She is very shy and hates big events so she just wants to get married in a registry office. Her fiancee agrees and says a wedding isn't important to him. The problem is that her fiance's mom is making a huge deal about how horrible it is to not have a wedding. She constantly brings it up ad throws it in my sister's face how she'll be robbing an entire family of memories. What should she do?

I'm getting married and I have a bit of an unusual family situation. My parents (bio parents) are still married and they raised me. But I have two other dads who have been just as active in my life and who helped raise me. They're my bio parents best friends and we've always been like one big family. Some people always found it strange, but I couldn't imagine being raised any different. My siblings agree. So the question is. Would it be weird to have all four of them sit at the top table and be announced at the reception? My fiance also wants to mention the four of them in the toast, as my parents. I'm the oldest and the first to marry, so it does worry me a bit that some people will find it strange. They're a gay couple. LOL. Sorry, I should have made it more clear. And everyone knows at this point, I think, since they're always at everything and have been included as our parents since we were born. It's just about a few who find it strange that we consider them our dads, too.

My fiance and I are currently planning our wedding. So here's the situation. My fiance is one of three boys. The oldest got married two years ago and it turned out to be a disaster. We don't want the same thing to happen, but are unsure of how to prevent it. Their parents divorced when the boys were young teens and their dad remarried a couple of months after the divorce was finalized. Through the second marriage they ended up with a stepmother and step siblings. Their stepmother can be a nice woman, but she's very insecure, pushy and sometimes verbally abusive to us. She's been contacting me lately about the wedding. The first thing she wanted was a special dance for her and my fiance at the wedding because he's planning on dancing with his mom. She's still bringing it up after being told no by my fiance. Now she wants her granddaughter to be a flower girl because my niece is going to be one. She's even turned up at our house with the little girl. My fiance has spoken to her, he's tried getting his dad to do something. But she keeps coming. She's now decided she should be able to invite whoever she wants, even though we're paying ourselves. I don't answer the phone to her anymore, but it doesn't stop her from finding me in person. I'm getting stressed. My fiance no longer wants here there, especially after her attitude at his brothers wedding, where she screamed at my fiance, his brother and SIL for not having her as MOG. What can we do?

So it's my brothers's wedding...here's one part of the speech, i think there's a lot of mistakes, so could you please help me out? i'd also like to know if my English is bad ! Looking back on our childhood, you know as a child you want someone to follow to imitate the actions of an older sibling … used to be the perfect kid always doing his homework helping mum out "the sweet and quite" ...BORING then my sister even worse always the first in her class NOT GONNA HAPPEN, so --- was like my idol always in trouble and always finds a smart way out, he used to dance like ... and play guitar amazingly well, we used to sing together and most importantly he used to watch with me my favorite shows. And best thing ever when he used to bring me video games and leave each cd on a couch all around the house. Best memory ever, at charisma's vacation when my parents used to go out I used to pray that they'll pick him to stay with me. Before leaving mum used to tell him: take care of your sister's homework and he'll node. Once they're out, he used to go to bring food to light up the night, I used to pick the movie and we used stay under the sheets laughing and eating, I used to be so happy that I sometimes screamed so loud that he begged me to shut up. THANKS :) NB: that's not the whole speech its just the part where i mention what my brother means to me

So it's my brothers's wedding...here's one part of the speech, i think there's a lot of mistakes, so could you please help me out? i'd also like to know if my English is bad ! Looking back on our childhood, you know as a child you want someone to follow to imitate the actions of an older sibling … used to be the perfect kid always doing his homework helping mum out "the sweet and quite" ...BORING then my sister even worse always the first in her class NOT GONNA HAPPEN, so --- was like my idol always in trouble and always finds a smart way out, he used to dance like ... and play guitar amazingly well, we used to sing together and most importantly he used to watch with me my favorite shows. And best thing ever when he used to bring me video games and leave each cd on a couch all around the house. Best memory ever, at charisma's vacation when my parents used to go out I used to pray that they'll pick him to stay with me. Before leaving mum used to tell him: take care of your sister's homework and he'll node. Once they're out, he used to go to bring food to light up the night, I used to pick the movie and we used stay under the sheets laughing and eating, I used to be so happy that I sometimes screamed so loud that he begged me to shut up. THANKS :)

My boyfriend of 3 years' best friend is getting married. I have always been really nice to his best friends soon to be wife. Tonight my boyfriend went to a bachelor party and I asked him if the bride was going to have a bachlorette party, he said yes and that they are just doing an at home movie watching thing...tonight. I never got an invite and I know a few girls that are going that are not in their wedding line. Do I have the right to be upset? I feel really excluded and it hurt my feelings.