Marriage & Divorce: Question: Anyone. ..Seriously anyone have the love for their significant other the way it is shown in movies? If so...? |
- Question: Anyone. ..Seriously anyone have the love for their significant other the way it is shown in movies? If so...?
- Question: I m so stressed what do I do?
- Question: My parents are going through a divorce and live in different states. how can i equally spend time with them?
- Question: Why do I stay?
- Question: Do people get married during college years?
- Question: Is my ex right?
- Question: If there is "someone for everyone" why is divorce rate so high and why do some never date?
- Question: Should I move n with my fiancé and his mom after we get marry?
- Question: Emotional Problems?
- Question: Drunk Father-In-Law called me and said terrible things to me. Having a hard time looking past it and forgiving..?
- Question: Is it prostitution to pay your wife for oral sex?
- Question: I got deported to mexico and my wife divorce me and change our corporation business ownership how can i claim this?
- Question: Does this mean hubby cheating on me or should i just let this go ?
- Question: Why do I feel strange feeling about my sister in law?
- Question: Am I wrong?
- Question: How is child support calculated for a non-custodial parent that is not employed, but married to an active duty serveicemember.?
- Question: Need ideas for 1st wedding anniversary?
- Question: Question about True messenger and intellious apps.?
- Question: Is it normal for a husband to not tell you what he tells his friend?
- Question: Is it wrong of me to want my husband to be, to cut this friend off?
- Question: How easy is it to tell if your spouse or partner is cheating on you?
- Question: Does age matter in a relationship?
- Question: Is it normal not to care if your parents are getting a divorce?
- Question: My husbands subcontractor wont pay him on time, what to do?
- Question: What if they paid you $3,000,000 to commit adultery on your wife who really loves & takes special care of you. Would you do it?
- Question: Can someone please take time to let me email them about what s going on in my life. My husband s ex is so obsessed with destroying my life.?
- Question: I'm divorced & in my forties. I waited for marriage and sex wasn't that great. I want to explore a bit now. How can I do that SAFELY?
- Question: Wife asked me to cumm in her highheel boots. I dont understand why she would ask. I was scared to ask why. Any ideas? And what itd feel like?
- Question: Wife being passive-aggressive?
- Question: Are there any NJ lawyers out there that can shed a little history on NJ divorce law?
- Question: Why is that guys forget how many faults there wife have forgiven when there wife hurts them for the first time??
- Question: Wife requesting financial support only married 7 months but lived together 2 hours wife outside of the country?
- Question: Why do couples want to be married?
- Question: Why would my husband carry on a phone relationship with a stripper?
- Question: What will happen?
- Question: What the hell is this?
- Question: My group data base was A-Z by maiden name. Now it is not! What happened? How can I change it?
- Question: If most people consider their kids higher priority than their marriage, why do these people bother getting married?
- Question: Step Father? Half Siblings?
- Question: Do married couples lose passion?
- Question: I hate that I let my guard down and fell for him. Strength to end things?
- Question: My love and me have a very different religious and political view..does it work?
- Question: My friend told me that he is going out with a Muslim guy and she is christian?
- Question: How can I help?
- Question: Why dont women flirt with me?
- Question: Am I overreacting or is he right?
- Question: You forgot to sign out of your email account and your wife decided to snoop, if there is trust why would she do this ?
- Question: Is it the right thing to do to not go to these meetings any more?
- Question: Help save dads marriage?
- Question: What has gotten into my ex husband?
- Question: How do I confront my husband about his behavior?
- Question: How do we be the most loved married couple in my husband`s friends group?
- Question: Why is my Ex husband stalking me,spying on me,taking pictures of me,?what is his problem?move on?
- Question: How do I become more confident in myself to better my marriage?
- Question: I am an Asian. Left Italy after 1 year of stay there. Can my Italian husband, divorce me without even notifying me?
- Question: Doing the right thing just doesn't feel right this time....?
- Question: I wanna get married but I owe child support will they take me to jail in the court house where I go get married?
- Question: Legal child care rights of mom?
- Question: Why didn't my husband get me anything or plan something for our 3rd year anniversary?
- Question: I was raped...should I tell my wife?
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| Question: I m so stressed what do I do? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 08:35 PM PDT I m 16. My dad is emotionally abusive, he s always been, but he is my dad after all. My mom is finally getting up the nerve to divorce him, or at least she claims she is, and I don t know to react. I know divorce is the right thing to do, but I m just so stressed because this is really breaking my mom. They ve been married for 30+ years, and Im worried about my mom because she s been crying so much lately. If she leaves him she s sad, if she doesn t she s sad. It s like no matter what she does she s getting hurt, and I hate seeing her like this. At first I was happy about the divorce but now I m just scared for everyone, and I m getting tension headaches, how do I cope with stress? If I talk to my mom she gets sad and cries, if I talk to my sisters they re just like "good I hope dad goes to hell!" And if I ask friends or try talking to them, they don t know how to respond to me. How do I cope? |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 08:03 PM PDT so when i was 8 i moved from new york to maine with my mom my parents were still married. when i was 11 they decided to get a divorce. i hated middle school and always wanted to be in new york with my dad. now i'm in 8th grade and am starting to slowly like school(as much as a 13 year old does). of course i want to see my dad but i also want to have a good attendance and see my friends and spend time with my mom. other factors that might be important: my dad has a girlfriend and i like her. my mom had a boyfriend and i do not like him. my parents haven't legally gotten the divorce yet. |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 07:53 PM PDT Me and my husband have been together 5 years married 3 and have 2 kids. My husband is abusive he hit me choke me pushed me all while I was holding my 4 month old daughter. I would leave but I don't want him to get the kids. He's been mentally and physically abusive. My question is am I wrong for staying he controls everything money the house. He always says I don't care because I don't keep the house spotless there can't ever be anything on the floor.hes said so many hurtful things I feel wothless. I do work part time and help with the bills. I just need advice |
| Question: Do people get married during college years? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 07:26 PM PDT Did you or know anyone who did? |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 07:21 PM PDT My ex and I separated a while ago. We filed the divorce and didn't pay extra for temporary orders. It would be final next month. He wanted our daughter this weekend but I had plans and told him no. He is now threatening to take me to court to try to get custody because I am living with my boyfriend, he has a gf by the way. He is a convicted felon of aggravated assault. He is also saying he is going to get some kind of temporary restraining order because I denied visitation. I don't know what he is talking about. Any advice? |
| Question: If there is "someone for everyone" why is divorce rate so high and why do some never date? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 06:39 PM PDT I been told that there is someone for everyone and the secret is to wait your whole life for them to knock on your door. Why is the divorce rate so high? Why have I made it to 25 without a date (I am not fat, I am not autistic, I don't have any physical deformities)? I also keep hearing "don't have sex with an escort have sex with someone who you "care" about". Is that why people break up over such petty things they really care about each other or is it just a sex partner and someone to hang out with for you enjoyment? |
| Question: Should I move n with my fiancé and his mom after we get marry? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 06:33 PM PDT My fiancé wants me to move in with his mom after we get marry and for me to rent my house, which I own. He is going to school to become a RN and will have a job. I also work and he feels if we rent my house, it will give us more money to save for a family. But the place they live is small and I feel that we won't have the privacy that we should get as a newly marry couple. I get it his mom is divorce and she has only the one child. And he doesn't want her to be alone, but I think he is too much of a mother boy. Not sure if it's a good idea if I have my own house which is bigger |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 06:31 PM PDT Please dont judge. I am not sure if this is rare or common. I am 37 and to my knowledge never loved. Well that might not be accurate Let me explain both my grandfathers died. I was very close to them but didnt fell anything when they passed. My uncles and aunts that have passed never felt any sadness or loneliness. I was like oh well. I am married with 2 kids and even with my wife and kids. I dont feel any emotional bond. I mean I dont want them hurt. I just dont seem to have the bonds that. I see with other familyes have. Some people tell me I am cold hearted or have no soul. I not sure what to do. Or if there is any help please advise Thanks |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 06:28 PM PDT Hello all. I've been married 3 years, I have 2 step sons and 1 biological daughter with my Husband...My Husband and I were both laid off from our jobs. I was extremely stressed so my Husband insisted I go on a weekend camping trip with my best friend to unwind. My Husband's parents asked to watch the kids so I thought it would be okay to go. Anyways, around midnight I get about 7 long paragraph texts from my father in law saying terrible things to me. I didn't understand where any of that was coming from so I called my Mother in law to see what had happened...Instead, Father in law answered the phone and started screaming and cursing at me in front of the kids. He was very obviously drunk, as well. Anyways, he said I'm selfish for going camping, I'm a sh*tty mom, I'll never be his daughter, his entire family hates me, I'm the biggest mistake of his son's life, I'm a leeching whore, etc. I hung up the phone and had a panic attack. I couldnt focus on having fun camping anymore so my gf and I drove home at 3AM. My Husband confronted his father, who refuses to apologize or explain why he said any of that. His Father said he wants nothing more to do with my Husband anymore, as well. According to my MIL, FIL was frustrated because the kids were acting out and because I was camping, I couldnt come get them. My Husband defended me but now I feel like complete sh*t. His Father always wanted me to come over & hang out, and now to find out he hates me? How do I go about this? |
| Question: Is it prostitution to pay your wife for oral sex? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 06:26 PM PDT |
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| Question: Does this mean hubby cheating on me or should i just let this go ? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 05:49 PM PDT Tonight , hubby let me look though his phone and i saw message him saying to other woman that he miss them and called the babe and even asking a girl to Skype and have dinner . hubby said he said those things to get the girls attention and he knew he was about to enter the path of making wife angry . shold i let it go and say no big deal or should i believe that my spouse was cheating on me ? I'm 24 . hubby 26 |
| Question: Why do I feel strange feeling about my sister in law? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 05:20 PM PDT My brother recently got married. And for the 3 months they were married, they were fighting most of the time. My brother told my mom he wants divorce but my mom told him that marriages are not easy and he needs to work it out with her. Anyways she always invites me because she says she's bored. I'm the youngest sister by the way. But when she invites me, she seems busy on her phone. Why invite me if your going to be on your phone the whole time? It seems like she's hiding something always. I notice that my brother sleeps separate room from her like they roommates even though they are married. Weird? |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 04:59 PM PDT So my husband and I are both work full-time and we have 2 children. His job has him in another state for two and a half months. Well he texts throughout out the day sometimes if he can but he doesn't like talking to me on the phone. He sent me a pic with him and these guys at the beach and I asked how long was he going to stay and that he could have told me because I was calling him. He said that he works all week so he deserves to have fun. I understand that part but...I'm feeling some type of way because he's free and I'm here with the kids working full-time and I don't get to have fun and he's basically living a bachelors life. To top it off he told me that he was going back to this hotel. Well 2 hours passed and he called me cursing because I questioned him. Plus he sounded like he had been drinking. Am I overreacting? |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 04:57 PM PDT We have just switched custody for my oldest child. Our custody case is in IL. I am remarried, we have 2 children together and my husband is active duty. I am currently not working because we are stationed in San Diego, which is extremely expensive and we would pay more for child care than I would earn. What sort of things would be taken into consideration for child support? I assume my husband's income, but would they also take BAH into consideration? He gets $2300/month, but every penny goes to housing because we live in military housing. It shows up as a credit and a debit on his LES, we never get it. Also, BAS, FSH (he's deployed), and sea pay. I found a list of exempted deductions, but since this is a stepparent, maybe its different? I will be a full time student in a couple weeks. |
| Question: Need ideas for 1st wedding anniversary? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 04:17 PM PDT Our 1st wedding anniversary is coming up next month and I'm clueless as to what to do or get my husband. We also have 2 toddlers, so it's hard to get a night to our self. Our anniversary is on a Monday this year and my husband works the Sunday before. Hes a firefighter and gets called to work unexpectedly sometimes so it's hard to plan things in advance. This is his 2nd marriage and my 1st. I know this is crazy for me to ask for help on something like this. |
| Question: Question about True messenger and intellious apps.? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 04:15 PM PDT I downloaded the true mess. App. On my husband's phone and under the list of blocked spam had 400 numbers and contacts. There was contacts named as nasty slut. Buttplug. Joe inmate and hundreds more as if someone personalized them themselves. I asked my husband whos all these girls and contacts on here and he said he doesn't know. He said i probably put them there. My question is did he or are do they show up for everyone who has the app. My question on intellious is. Yesterday I received a call asking to speak to my husband's ex. Said her name with his last name. I downloaded intellious to see who it was that did that to me. Me and the ex hate each other and i have been with him for 7 yrs. Why is someone calling my phone for her! So i searched on intellious and it didn't say anything put exactly where the area is that the person lives. And then i decided to search my husband and it showed alot of phone numbers and one of them showed as in the same exact area as the one the number that called me asking for his ex. I never even heard of this area ever in my life. What the heck is going on? |
| Question: Is it normal for a husband to not tell you what he tells his friend? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 03:59 PM PDT My husband texts one of his friends all day every day. I've gone through his text messages (with his knowledge). My husband every morning will say "Hi" then if one of them is going to bed they will say "Good night". If my husband hasn't responded within a few hours to a text his friend will ask if he's okay. They see each other in person rarely because we live in a different state but I find it odd that he texts this male friend so much throughout the day. We are having a child together and he has told this friend in the past that he didn't want a kid but then tell me how he was so excited. My husband has had to work a lot of extra hours lately to keep up with bills and when I try to work as much as I can to even it out and I tell him it's okay for him to have a couple days off he will tell me "that's okay, I don't mind working and we need the money" but then he will text his friend and say how much he can't wait for a day off and to not have to work so many hours and that he's so exhausted. He also insisted I get the new iPhone 6 when I don't even need a new phone because we are having a baby and he wants me to be able to take good pictures and video of him. I keep telling him that I want him to have the new phone and that I don't care and he goes and buys it for me saying we can only afford one but he loves his phone and doesn't care about having the new one. Then he will tell his friend that he wants the new iPhone and hopes someone will get it for him for christmas. |
| Question: Is it wrong of me to want my husband to be, to cut this friend off? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 03:24 PM PDT Okay so I'm pregnant and my fiancée and I are getting married in Decemeber and a while back when we were together way before I was pregnant his friend got him to dump me for his sister. He broke up with me and dated her for 3 weeks before breaking up with her and getting back with me. At that time we had dated for 2 years and he left me heart broken for a 15 year old who is 4 years younger than both of us. We got back together after he apologized and his friend was upset with him so hasnt talked to him in a while. Its been a very long time since they have talked and now recently he has messaged my fiancée again. He wants to hang out with my fiancee and my fiancee wants to hang out with him. But I feel he disrespected our relationship in the past doing what he did and I feel thats a friend ship that should be cut. We are a team and I feel the guy still wants my fiancee with his sister and I dont like him. Am I over reactinf about not wanting him around my fiancée |
| Question: How easy is it to tell if your spouse or partner is cheating on you? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 03:17 PM PDT Why people lie about having an affair? Have you had an affair before? Why having an affair can hurt someone else? Does an affair depend on how you make it? |
| Question: Does age matter in a relationship? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 03:02 PM PDT Okay I believe many people will look askance at my question or I think I'm a troll so I need to clarify a few things first. First of all I'm not a "gold-digger". Okay he is 63 and i'm 23 but it doesn't mean anything. I mean the guy is not rich, is very poor and I'm not pretty. I'm in this relationship cause he is the first guy who ever took care of me and doesn't care about looks unlike most guys in their 20s-30s. He used to be a professor of Literature so he's very educated and I learn a lot of things from him. The most important thing i learnt out of him is how to appreciate the little moments and things in life that matter more. I always had a very low self-confidence and thought the reason guys didn't notice me was my ugliness. (I always wondered what's wrong with me) He's the first person that accepted for who I am, my shyness, ugliness and flaws. This is my future I want to live and die with my Romeo |
| Question: Is it normal not to care if your parents are getting a divorce? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 02:58 PM PDT My parents are getting a divorce and I don t care at all is that normal? |
| Question: My husbands subcontractor wont pay him on time, what to do? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 02:22 PM PDT My husband was told he was going to get paid every week by the end of the week. They keep telling him to wait and to wait. Its been 2 weeks and again they told him to wait, again, until tuesday when the company pays the subcontractor. My husband is the only one working at the moment and we are broke. He didnt sign a contract and i am not sure what to do. |
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| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 02:17 PM PDT I wrote everything on her but it was too much so i couldn t post it. If u will let me send you what i wrote and give me advice. Id appreciate it so much :) kaymccon1988@Yahoo.com |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 02:13 PM PDT By this I mean, finding men to sleep with who won't take advantage or hurt me. I'm concerned about all the bad things that can happen to women who meet men online or in bars, or having my credit card info stolen while I'm asleep. All the men I've met seem to be really creepy, and the nice ones are all taken. So where do I find them? It shouldn't be this hard. |
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| Question: Wife being passive-aggressive? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 02:06 PM PDT It seems every time my wife and I get into an argument, she reverts to passive-aggressive tenancies that are becoming increasingly annoying. When she gets mad at me, shes known for such things as throwing away my leftover food, unscrewing the lid on my coffee mug causing me to spill coffee all over myself, using all the gas in the car on purpose and not refilling it before I commute to work, and even putting tacks in my shoes. How do you deal with a person with passive-aggressive tendencies (doesn't have to be a spouse). Is it possible for people to grow out of this type of behavior? |
| Question: Are there any NJ lawyers out there that can shed a little history on NJ divorce law? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 01:44 PM PDT I'm writing a story and it takes place in the late 1970's. Was there premarital agreements at that time. And how easy was divorce before no fault? thanks. |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 01:21 PM PDT My husband and I are now going thru a huge fight were he wants to divorce me. I have forgiven multiple affairs, lies, violence, it goes on and goes on , I found him texting a female I had specifically asked not to have any contact with but he did it anyways it got me so upset and I was going to leave he help onto the car as I was driving and I dragged him with me in the car.before you start saying I'm a ***** he held on he could've easily let go. Well this is my first fault and he now wants to divorce me and he seems to forget all the times I have forgiven him......he act like I'm whatever's to him he treats me so bad talks to me rude like why are men like that? |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 01:12 PM PDT I know I've already asked this question but I want to be more specific I got married last year and after the ceromy I left and I never saw her again since then I haven't done anything to start a divorce but I've been legally married since then it was a 2 day relationship but a few days ago she call me from her third world country that she wants financial support and that she is threating on going to the U.S. Embassy in her home country so I can give her an allowance after the phone call I initiated the divorce proceedings and besides that the marriage was never consummated but my question is if she could actually make me pay any kind of financial support since this marriage was a 1 day thing |
| Question: Why do couples want to be married? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 01:05 PM PDT |
| Question: Why would my husband carry on a phone relationship with a stripper? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 01:02 PM PDT I was drinking at the time with no emotional connection to him and he had no friends. We've been married 39 years. They both insist there was no money or sex involved as she is 30 with 3 small kids, my husband is 74. But why would she waste all that phone time for no money? It's over now, but what happened to for better or worse? And when is the answer to a spouses drinking problem to go out, talk to a stripper about personal problems and drink yourself? |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 12:47 PM PDT Ok so my parents got divorced and im supposed to go to my dads every other weekend. I work, and sometimes i just dont want to go. We never do anything, and we go to his girlfriends house all the time and just watch tv. My sister likes going, but i flat out dont want to. My dad spends more time with his girlfriend than with us. When i do go, i always have to clean stuff, i cant go to friends houses, or anything. I work now, and he flat out went to my work to get my schedule to see when i work. So now hes like "well you dont work today so you can come over". I dont want to. I havnt really seen my friends, and i had plans. So now he called my mom and said "well ill just have a talk with the judge to get this straight." Once again, i do not want to go. Would my mom get in trouble, or even lose custody for me not wanting to go?? My mom gives me freedom, and id rather stay at her house. I want to go to my dads sometimes, but not all the time. But i dont want my mom to get in trouble. Im 16 so i think that my choice would matter in court. |
| Question: What the hell is this? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 12:24 PM PDT When my husband and I get into an argument, I ll say something and then he ll be like "that s not accurate" or "I m not being that way, that s not what that means" and he ll go look up the definition of the word and say "see? That s inaccurate." Like... Really? What s the word for this? Because apparently I m not good at coming up with the right word. |
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| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 11:46 AM PDT if most people consider their kids higher priority than their marriage, why do these people bother getting married |
| Question: Step Father? Half Siblings? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 11:41 AM PDT My mom had me when she was younger and was never married. When I was three she married for the first time to a man who is not my biological father. I will forever call him dad but to be terminologically correct what is he to me? My mom and her husband had kids. What are they to me? |
| Question: Do married couples lose passion? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 11:09 AM PDT Do they become less attracted to each other with age? Also is there still passion or do you get bored? Do you ever fantasize about other women/men? Do you start having less sex as the years go on? |
| Question: I hate that I let my guard down and fell for him. Strength to end things? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 11:04 AM PDT 15yrs ago I said I never wanted to feel the pain of heartache again. Today I am and Im angry with myself for taking that risk. Well I think its time to end this. We are a part of a dance community. We've been dating for a year. He is an extremely private man. Doesn't want the dance community know his business, it tends to bring drama. We see it all the time. He keeps his personal & professional life private. I have 3 friends in the dance community who knew we are dating from that a few others know he is a bit upset and decided we need to step back, but not end us. We've been at odds about not going out enough, he is mostly a homebody. Also he doesn't want us running into people in our dance community. Though too me what does it matter since we've been out several times and it could've happened. We are dating no commitment isn't ready after ending a 18yr marriage. I completely understand I like the place we are in with the exception of going out once every other month and at his call. I LOVE this man, he has great qualities, the good definitely outweighs the bad. He doesn't like making me unhappy. I don't want to regret ending things and neither does he FYI I chose marriage & divorce category for mature answers Thank you Lala, I like him so much and all the good, that I can. Its more so my ego, I don't want to feel like Im being taken advantage of. |
| Question: My love and me have a very different religious and political view..does it work? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 10:52 AM PDT I love him and I feel he loves me, but recently I realized I have a very different(almost opposite) political view. Also I don't believe in any religions although he is Christian. I'm an international student, thus I'm more for immigrants issues and probably as I grow up in a very safe country where poverty doesn't relate with crime rates (there was almost no residential segregation by income) and I'm for big government than small government. I don't like to see any hatred against any coloured people and certain religions because I myself am coloured, Asian..also I do have many friends with different religions as an international student. He never has said anything offensive about my race(he is white and I am asian) he stops anyone if his friends or anyone speak bad, but he is generally very very conservative. I avoid to speak any opinions about politics and religions to him as I don't want to offend him but I 'm actually liberal and non-Christian and I don't think I will change my mind to be conservative and Christian( I'm majoring international relations and politics.) We have same opinions about relationships and life and I love him but is there any way to overcome the difference? |
| Question: My friend told me that he is going out with a Muslim guy and she is christian? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 10:35 AM PDT She told me that this guy is so handsome but she is average looking girl and told me that why does he want me when I am not that much pretty she even told me that he will marry her but I thought how they would gonna marry her coz she is christian and the. Guy is Muslim and they hangout in a cafe and originally this is happening in a Muslim country |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 09:56 AM PDT Someone very dear to me is getting divorced. It has upset me more than it logically should. I just find some way to help. My friend is a woman. She is the best woman I have ever met. I dont think i have ever seen her do anything just for her. Everything she does is for her family or the community. At one point she was only getting 3 hours of sleep a night. Even in the divorce, she asked me to pray. Not that she would get custody of the kids, or the house, or money, or anything like that. She asked me to pray for peace. She asked me to pray for everyone to be okay. She s the only person who ever taught me anything worth a damn and there s nothing I can do to help. Any ideas are welcome. |
| Question: Why dont women flirt with me? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 09:51 AM PDT Now dont get me wrong im married and happy in the marriage. we have been married for almost a year now, My wife is extremely attractive and gets hit on all the time. She tells me stories about guys at work (it doesnt bother me) and we laugh about it together. Sometimes i get really envious though and wish that someone would flirt with me. I also kind of feel like im ugly because im not sought after much. My wife says im hot but i think shes lying. She also says she sees girls hit on me all the time but i feel like shes trying to make me feel better about myself. I feel like if my wife ever decided to leave me or if the marriage didnt work out she would have no problem finding a new guy because she has so many options while i would probably take a while to find someone. I dont think like this often but every few weeks it slips into my mind and gets me a little bummed out. |
| Question: Am I overreacting or is he right? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 09:49 AM PDT Okay so I'm pregnant and my fiancée and I are getting married in Decemeber and a while back when we were together way before I was pregnant his friend got him to dump me for his sister. He broke up with me and dated her for 3 weeks before breaking up with her and getting back with me. At that time we had dated for 2 years and he left me heart broken for a 15 year old who is 4 years younger than both of us. We got back together after he apologized and his friend was upset with him so hasnt talked to him in a while. Its been a very long time since they have talked and now recently he has messaged my fiancée again. He wants to hang out with my fiancee and my fiancee wants to hang out with him. But I feel he disrespected our relationship in the past doing what he did and I feel thats a friend ship that should be cut. We are a team and I feel the guy still wants my fiancee with his sister and I dont like him. Am I over reactinf about not wanting him around my fiancée |
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| Question: Is it the right thing to do to not go to these meetings any more? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 07:48 AM PDT I was at a meeting of a women's social organization and they were introducing new members. They introduced Mrs John Doe. At the table I was at one of the women said "Didn't you use to be Ms. John Doe". Then it hit me. The new member was my ex husbands new wife. I talked to her briefly and she seemed to be a very nice person. She did not know I was her husbands ex wife but I am sure someone in the group will tell her if I remain a member of the organization. I DON'T WANT TO CAUSE HER ANY EMBARRASSMENT in the future so I think I will not go to any future meetings. Please give me some advice if this is the right thing to do. Even though I had a friendly divorce I don't want to cause my ex husband or his new wife any problems. |
| Question: Help save dads marriage? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 07:09 AM PDT My dad has been married for the last 10 years. My brothers and I haven't had anything to do with his marriage, though we do know her fairly well. You see, she was our moms childhood best friend and she and my dad had an affair that lasted quite a few years, which broke our moms heart. I remember it very well because she, our dads wife, was very cold and heartless about it all. And loved rubbing it in our moms face when she found them together. When the divorce happened, our dad agreed to keep his marriage separate from us out of respect for our mom and also to keep his relationship with us strong. When I had my son, he came alone and we haven't seen her in years. But recently our dad has been confiding in us that his marriage is suffering. I think he wants us to feel bad for him, but we don't. It's hard to when, from hearing our grandmother talk, she loves to insult our mom whenever she can and has even said she obviously couldn't satisfy her man. A friend of mine told me she believes we should be willing to help our dad with his marriage by including her more and letting her become part of the family. Do you agree? Would you want to try and help salvage their marriage if you were in our shoes? |
| Question: What has gotten into my ex husband? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 06:37 AM PDT My ex haven't spoken since we split 4 months ago. I left him when he had no job because I felt he wasn't the right man for me. I know it was bad trimming but that's just how it happen, meanwhile my birthday has just past and I receive a sweet card from him from way across the country. He hadn't written anything In the card but there's was a note saying that he just wanted to show me appreciation for the exciting birthday I gave him while we was together, he then goes on to say that he have paid off the debt of a car I had reposses when we was still married which was 4000 dollars. I was the owner and he was the co owner. Finally he ends his message with NO THANKS NEEDED and told me if I didn't want the card to throw it away |
| Question: How do I confront my husband about his behavior? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 06:28 AM PDT My husband is constantly lying to me about everything. I suspected that he was unfaithful, but he wouldn t admit when I asked him repeatedly. I checked his phone and hacked into the deleted messages. He has been texting various other women. In one message he asked if she wanted to go out and grab a drink with him. Looking at his browser history, I discovered that he looks at porn. And a couple of weeks ago, he ran a Google search for "ways to get revenge on your wife". That scared me and hurt my feelings. I don t know what I did to make him want to get revenge on me. How do I confront him without starting a fight? He gets mad when I look at his phone, but I felt I had to since he wasn t being honest with me. I m afraid that if I call him out on his behavior, he will refuse to address the fact that HE did something wrong, and instead focus on the fact that I looked at his phone. |
| Question: How do we be the most loved married couple in my husband`s friends group? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 06:23 AM PDT My husband & I were having some issues in our marriage, we would mostly fight over his friends. . After getting married, I was quite uncomfortable seeing his female friends being too close to him (when they meet ), which would make me feel insecure. We were newly married. Anyway, now we have settled down after talking things out, we have come to a conclusion that I need to stop worrying , stop being insecure , trust him & above all I have learnt he loves to be with his friends, he has always been like that, so I don`t want to change him. My husband, was this most loved guy in the group , due to our issues, my husband chose to not meet his friends for 3 months . Now that he is trying to touch base with them again, he feels he is not wanted by them anymore, out of sight out of mind. I told him, when they would invite you, you would`nt go, so that`s the reason , they`ve stopped calling you, if you let them know you are back they`ll surely bring you in again . He does`nt want to call them & ask them whats the plan for the night, he wants to be invited as before, without him calling them. The other day he told me , how he desires to get his life back and how he dreams of us being the most happening /most loved couple in his group, where every one envy to be like us. I really want to see my husband happy & do this for him. How do I get his friends back? Since I`m pregnant, I cant plan much |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 06:01 AM PDT |
| Question: How do I become more confident in myself to better my marriage? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 05:28 AM PDT |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 05:19 AM PDT I left Italy. I am Asian. He forsook me for his mother. I am told that he can lie that he has no idea where I am. He can give my fake home address, so I won't even get notified. He doesn't respond to my emails, phone calls, and SMS. Is Italian law that weak? I often call at the town hall where our marriage is registered, but they cannot control what my husband is doing or his mother, I mean if thery don't know if he filed for divorce or not. They cannot provide me that information. Any help? Or piece of suggestion? It's really appreciated. Thank you. |
| Question: Doing the right thing just doesn't feel right this time....? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 05:06 AM PDT He's married but she's (the wife) (not me) cheated on him multiple time over the last 10 - 12 years. This last time the wife cheated she became very open with him (her husband) and actually confided in him when she was having problems with the new lover... her boyfriend...whom she had falling in love with. Spends nights out with the new boyfriend then gets home at 7 am with hangover and cries to her husband about how it just doesn't seem to be working and how much she loves him. The husband, at this point, is with out a doubt disgusted and is losing hope in himself and is contemplating the possibility of divorce. This husband and wife are high school sweathearts and are now 40 years old. So, the husband decides to search for me on facebook. I don't know who he is but he knows me because he was best friends with my sister who died when I was eleven... my sister was 14. So it's been a over 25 years and now he decides to find the sister of the friend he use to have in middle school to tell her he thinks about my sister all the time and he and my sister where soulmates... ... okay, regardless of where he's at in his life and how old we are when he finally wants to reach out, this guy is going to hold a special place in my heart...(unless he's completely lying to get back at his wife) So, I've opened my heart to this man. he's very sweet and we are very compatible from what I can tell... But... He's married. His wife has some infidelity issues. But, I can tell he still loves her |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 04:59 AM PDT I want to know if I can get married if I owe child support will they take me to jail in the court house where I go get married |
| Question: Legal child care rights of mom? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 04:27 AM PDT Hi, My and my husband are currently going through a divorce. Our son aged 3 is living with him during the week, and attends nursery while there. I get him on the weekends but there is nothing set in stone. When I get my son back he is aggressive and stroppy, but calms down before going back to his fathers. I want full custody over him but cannot afford legal costs. What can I do? I m his mom, what legal rights do I have and can I not just take him? I have just given birth to my second child, from my partner. Would this effect anything? |
| Question: Why didn't my husband get me anything or plan something for our 3rd year anniversary? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 03:46 AM PDT A few days ago was our 3rd year marriage anniversary. 3 years ago we married in a court house, nothing special and nothing that I wanted. I wanted the white wedding but i was given the impression that to keep my husband in the country I had no choice but to have a pathetic court house marriage with my mother and a friend of hers who we didn't even know as a witness. and at the time I was 8 months pregnant. After the birth of our firstborn I moved with him to his country and been living in sadness ever since. I have no friends and people here are incredibly rude and unkind. I cant stand his 2 faced mother and selfish family but they don't know that since I do a good job at pretending I like them. I am very lonely and have no one to turn to and I don't even tell my family back home because I am so embarrassed. They all think I am happy but deep down I hate living here. the day after our 3rd anniversary he can't seem to understand why I slept in the guest room and why I am not talking to him. He treated our anniversary like it was just another day? I was hoping for some flowers at least to make me feel like my hard work as a housewife and mother with no friends so far away from home was appreciated and worth the great sacrifices I have made but instead it just felt like the anniversary of a mistake I made 3 years ago. He is a good man, faithful and kind, never violent or bad tempered, He is a great father to our children but he really sucks as a husband. I don't know what to do HE KNOWS that I am unhappy and he knows the sacrifices I have made and still make just being here but during our 3 years of marriage he still hasn't even thought about or bothered to buy me a engagement and or wedding ring. That's right we don't even have rings! I bought myself a 10 Euro ring just to symbolise our marriage for others to see that I am married We have young children also. I don't know what to do and sometimes feel like the only way out of my unhappiness would be suicide. |
| Question: I was raped...should I tell my wife? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 03:14 AM PDT |
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