I'm a mess. Today I was sent a screenshot of my new husbands tinder account (we've been married 2 months) saying he was active just a couple hours prior. His bio reading " lol you already know". I confronted him immediately and he said I was crazy and said I've lost my mind and he would never cheat on me. Although he admitted to going on due to "boredom" and claimed his account was made years ago. But why would he feel the need to to go cure his boredom on a hookup app?? Am I wrong for being upset? I feel like I have a pit in my stomach from betrayel.

And don't say it's a bad idea, it's for a good reason. I need to be able to get a Facebook password, it's my husband's.

My husband just got a job and he works at night. I really hate it because we don't have any time together since I work during the day and we do have kids to take care of. I keep telling him that I want him to go to the day shift, the place he works at has a day shift but he says he doesn't want to because there is a dollar difference per hour in the salary but I don't think one dollar is a big deal and it's more important to spend time with your spouse. Plus it would be great to have some help with the kids in the evenings especially when I have to take them to their different activities, cook and help with homework. So him working days would be much better. But I got told by some people that I'm being selfish but I don't think so. Is it really such a big deal?

A married man has an ex wife who he divorced years ago because they both screwed their marriage up. This ex wife still picks fights with him about their kids and money issues. This man seems to be stressed out when it comes to his ex but also seems to spend time with her while visiting his kids. What are the odds he Could be having an affair w his ex behind his current wife's back? Has anyone heard of this happening?

my step dad recently had an argument with my mom about how he accidentally broke my laptop and IT WAS AN ACCIDENT btw they have three children 2 boys 1 baby girl and I saw a picture of the divorce papers (she took a picture on her phone) she doesn't know that I know and my stepdad knows NOTHING AT ALL the worst part about it is he bought me a new thim more than ever but now she is ruining it I feel like crying but no tears will come out im 13 I mean he bought me a new laptop and I respect him more than ever (because we talked)

I was married to my ex from 2001-2011 (legally), and we have 5 kids together. The legal agreement was that he was supposed to pay half of the expenses for my kids. This included food, medicine, insurance co-pays, school clothes, etc. My ex hasn't paid a dime of support toward my kids since June of 2012. I've asked repeatedly for money, and he says he's "always broke". But he can take trips, buy new vehicles, and buy nice/new things for his 21 year old girlfriend, but he can't come up with grocery money for my kids. The last time my kids saw/spoke to their dead beat dad was in September of 2013. I've had to take on 2 jobs just to keep my kids fed, clothed, and a roof over our heads. I don't mind working hard for my babies, but it gets tiring having to do this on my own. I have since hired a lawyer, and I am going after my ex for child support (I should have done this to begin with). Anyway, I got a call from my children's dead beat dad the other day. He wants to claim all of my 5 kids on his taxes this year, and I told him NO! He says that he has a "right" to the money I get back, and I told him no he doesn't. I'm the one who pays for more than half of their support. They live with me, and I have primary, legal, and sole custody of my kids. All my ex has is his visitation and parental rights. He became angry with me and hung up on me. Oh well, I guess you can't convince dead beat dads to own up to their responsibilities. David, there is a parenting plan in place. My ex was to take the kids every other weekend, and for the whole month of July in the summer time. In the parenting plan I am the ONLY one who can claim the kids on my taxes, because I provide more than 50% of their support. My hasn't done a thing for them in over 2 yeas. I'm tired of dealing with a dead beat dad.

I have posted this before but got one answer. I am 23 years old living in our own house with my husband who is 23 as well. We have a two-year old and a 2 month old that I stay home with and take care of while my bf works. Although he works i have money saved up that I use to pay majority of our bills my husband is in charge of our insurance and thats it, i pay mortgage, car payments and everything else. Every day at night he tries having sex with me, and automatically i turn him down, he gets frustrated and wants me to go down on him and i hate doing it because he tries touching me and i just don t want to be touched. I don t want sex and i have no idea why, before we had kids i wanted sex just as much if not more than him. He doesn t help me with the kids and has never got up for any night time feedings when the kids were newborns. I feel like seeing a therapist to figure out why my sex drive is gone.

So, I enjoy dating a man and don't necessarily believe in "THE ONE." I like the freedom of going to dinner with another man if i choose, but it's not done often. I don't want children(I love them tho, just dont want to have my own). Anyone else just enjoy another's company, yet you don't have a definitive plan to get married or desire to? Explain.

We were married for 17 years and have two kids with 50/50 custody. She had an affair and then stated she wanted a divorce. I tried to get her to go to therapy to work through any issues. She went to 4 sessions, but acted like she didn t want to be there. She went to weekly individual sessions. We also took our daughter to therapy. I mainly took our daughter. When my wife came, she wouldn't participate. Any 'homework' that the therapist gave us to work through with our daughter, my wfie wouldn't do. The therapist said she couldn't help our daughter without consist assistance. So, our son doesn't get along with my ex wife. He doesn't want to go to her place and he frequently causes issues that result in her calling me and asking me to pick him up on days that she has him. She asked me to go to therapy with her and our son. I told her no, that I've spent significant time and money and energy on therapy and that she never has participated or contributed and I didn't want to waste more time or money. She says she will force me to pay for it. What should I do?

My mom got divorced when I was 4 and remarried again when I was 7 or 8. My mom and step-dad began fighting starting 3 years ago then they got a divorce a year after, not even a year later my dad got remarried. I m 15 now so all that started when I was 13. (Sorry if that s confusing) so anyways throughout those years we were growing apart. When I lived with him it was in his friends basement and a lot of the times we would get in fights and I would walk to my moms. Then, when they officially got a divorce my step-dad took me to meet his wife and 2 children. I was really uncofterable and very stressed because this is the woman he cheated on my mom with. Then we moved in and it was just horrible. Fast forward a year and he s called the police on me and my brother 3 times for arguing- (his wife gets in my face as mocks me) and pressed charges on my older brother for assault when he didn t do anything. Then- he suspended his parenting time with us so we can t see him. He doesn t even text me anymore, and I haven t done anything. When I turn 16 I m going to fill out an emancipation form. Would it be okay if I changed my name also? My moms okay with it. I just don t want to be associated with someone who has a new family and doesn t care about me. -sorry it s long, there s a lot more details but it s already super long

People are uptight about sex and I don't understand it. It's a natural feeling that we all share. I don't think promiscuity is wrong either. We should just take every possible measure to make it as safe as possible. I hate prudes and prigs. I hope that science continues to find cures for diseases and ways to prevent pregnancy so as to broaden the scope of sexual freedom.

My wife of 10 years cheated one me, im not heartbroken or anything, i already had a feeling her excuse was gonna be something about me. The thing is i accept my mistakes but cant read minds, she never talked to me about being miserable in the marriage so i never knew, this could of been fixed but she decided to be a whore and sleep with another man. We do have 2 kids together, and it annoys me that they have to see their parents divorce and stuff, i never wanted this. I contemplated giving her another chance, but whats the point? she doesnt seem sorry and it sure as hell isnt my job to keep the marriage going, it supposed to be our job but she is making this pretty one sided. I love how when a cheater gets caught its always "i thought you werent gonna be home?" so i cant come back to my own house now? or "ok ok calm down, its not what it looks like" yup that guys dick is inside you, its exactly what it looks like. Oh well im moving on, she can live her life regretting it or not, idc, im gonna find a better women now and satisfy her needs. I was always a good communicator in the relationship so i didnt do anything wrong. oh and my kids need me more than ever, so im gonna focus on being a dad, maybe even do stuff that i couldnt do before when i was married.

The father of my child has not seen her in almost a month since we had an arguement.She is only 2 months old.He has been a part of her life up until now.We could not agree on a child support amount,and he also kept telling me throughout my pregnancy and the last day I saw him "just give her to me and go live your life." After hearing that multiple times I felt I could not trust him and told him so.I want him to be a part of her life,but I feel he wants to take her from me when he says those things and it makes it very hard for me to leave her alone with him.We had a tumultuous relationship but regardless I have given him every chance to be with her and would even drop him off at his home to so he could spend time with her.Since that day though I have not heard from him.I told him I would file for child support as well since we cannot agree on what he should be helping me with.I don't want to be the type of mom who keeps her child away from their father, and I want them to have a relationship.He has made no effort since then to check on her or visit.I don't know what I said to cause this,and part of me wants to reach out but the other part of me says he needs to be the one to if he really wants to be a part of her life.We have mediation later this month for child support.What would you do in this situation? Contact him or let him do it on his own And am I also wrong for feeling like i cannot trust him when he has said multiple times,"Just go live your life and give her to me"?

Feminist say looks shouldn't matter, moral decency shouldn't matter, are they saying men should marry women who are promiscuous, don't take care of themselves, and just don't care about anything/??

The more bad memories you have, they stack up and become this monstrous mess that is difficult to confront and move forward with. How can you get the mental and spiritual burden to go away? I've found that I can simply ignore and realize that it's stupid to worry about things and allow stressful thoughts to ruin the way you feel even when everything's fine, but what I want to know is is there a way to keep life from become heavier to bare? Is there any way to stop the past from weighing down on your shoulders so you can once again move freely and uninhibited in life like you were when you were a child? If anyone can help me, thanks. Also I'm 24. Already see a therapist and am seeking help.

My husband and I got married at the age of 23 and he was 25, we divorced my husband in 2007 due to him having an affair with another woman and getting her pregnant. A year later we decided to get back together, it s 7 years later and he still hasn t moved back in with me and our 9 year old son I would like to get married again but he avoids the subject I don t see our relasionship going anywhere i m now 34 should I just move on???

Why do you think that man are ok with marrying a short or unfunny or poor woman as long as she is a good person, whereas women are extremely unlikely to marry a guy with those qualities?

My wife and I have Dish Network and we have a DVR box that controls 2 TVs in our house. The one in our bedroom and the one in the living room. Well, this morning when I left for church my favorite political talk show was recording which I normally watch later in the day. My wife came to church a little while later. When I got home my wife wasn't there. Her son said she had gone to get gas. Ok, I'm changing clothes and live in a city where the hometown NFL team was playing in their home opener so I decided to turn on the TV to watch the game. I turn on the TV in the bedroom and my wife was recording some Kevin Hart movie. It has like an hour or so left on it to record. I go into the living room since I was finishing up dinner and turned on that TV to watch the game. She's recording a Humphrey Bogart movie on that TV so now I can't watch either TV. I call her and say, "You know I can't watch TV!" Her reply to me was, "watch your political show." I hung up the phone then a few minutes later she sends me a text to say, "don't call me about petty stuff." Oh, that was petty? The fact that you're taking up two TVs on stuff that you've already seen before and no one can watch any live TV until your movies stop recording, that's petty? I could have been nasty and stopped recording one show so I could watch the game. That would have been petty. Now she's mad at me that I called her. How was that petty of me? So now I've got to wait till her movies stop recording so I can possibly catch the last part of the game which is being played live but I'm the petty one. She just came home and stopped the recording of her Bogart movie and now she's pissed at me cause she can't watch the rest of her movie.

I am 48 years old. Never married. No girlfriend and actually no real friends at all. I am hearing impaired which makes social interaction a real challenge. People conclude I am stupid, rude or just weird because I either don t hear them at all or misunderstand what they say. I work 60 hours a week at a job I hate. I recently I have discovered a passion for photography that I would love to pursue as a career but right now all I do is work and sleep. I would love to leave my job to open up more time to do thongs I enjoy but things are tight financially. No wife, no friends, no money, no time and stuck in a job I hate. Why should I continue in such an existence? Is there a way out without ending my life? To clarify, I am not deaf. I wear corrective aids and they help but there's still a disconnect that kills my confidence. Also relevant is that my job involves driving cutting back on sleep to find time is a strategy I've tried before but is too dangerous in that being alert separates life and death literally in my line of work.

What are the chances of finding a marriage without affairs, bickering, and abuse (whether it be mental or physical abuse)? It always had me wondering since I've witnessed many divorces and adulterous scandals. Are there people out there who take their vows to heart and would truly remain faithful to their significant other? I really do want a wife but sometimes it just doesn't seem worth it. Divorce rates are high and it seems like men and women cheat on each other for the silliest reasons. By the way I do not believe in sex outside of marriage. I personally don't care if the woman I'm going going to marry is a virgin or not but what worries me is if she's going to have a wandering eye and end up cheating.

For me, it does. I prefer that me and my partner are in the same "chapter" in life. I want us to grow old together and to have a lot of future. I also prefer that we grew up in the same decade/s.

I'm writing a story for my english class off the prompt "married woman has another man's baby" in which a married woman sleeps with another man and becomes pregnant. She wants to know who the father is, so she retrieves DNA from both men, sends it in, and gets the results that the man she had an affair with is the father. She writes her husband's name on the birth certificate, but soon after, her husband find the paternity test tucked into a book and divorces her. The woman, who has been in a steady affair with the other man, goes to him and takes the baby. The ex-husband, despite the baby being another mans, wants to raise her. He is not the biological father, but the mother has not made any moves to go about changing the daughter's birth certificate. In this instance, what rights would each man have? I'm assuming the ex-husband would get paternal rights, as his name is listed on the birth certificate, but would the other man also have rights ad the biological parent because he never gave consent to give up his child?