Marriage & Divorce: Question: If my ex wife has our children living with her sister and did not inform me am I still obligated to pay full child support? |
- Question: If my ex wife has our children living with her sister and did not inform me am I still obligated to pay full child support?
- Question: Father and daughter live in separate countries, how to make the distance easier?
- Question: I'm having this problem, my husband and I been married for 6 years. During those years sex has been so difficult and painful.?
- Question: Per my previous question I decided to get my wife a surprise 3 hour day at the spa. Should I tell her tonight or suppose her in the morning?
- Question: Married women, what makes you want to have sex with your man? Is it looks or is it now more about how he helps with the kids, etc...?
- Question: What do i do now?? So confused about my husband..?
- Question: Help with Spousal Support?
- Question: Do you have authority over yourself in your marriage? Did you always have authority, or did you have to fight for it? What happened?
- Question: Factores1-100?
- Question: I'm gay and engaged to a man. What do I do?
- Question: Women: How did you fall in love with your husband? Or what made you choose to marry him?
- Question: Men: How did you fall in love with your wife?
- Question: My children's reactions to their father's affair are not what I was expecting?
- Question: Do you like your husband/wife to be smaller than you, bigger than you or just the same/about the same?
- Question: My husband is getting very distant and mean. I don't know what to do. I try and talk to him but he says he is fine...?
- Question: Why do people cheat?
- Question: If my wife tells me to have sex with another woman because she doesnt want to, should i?
- Question: Is it safe for me to ride another mans snow mobile with a child buried in my womb? I am not riding with my husband...?
- Question: Should I tail my husband I have been invited to ride another mans snowmobile?
- Question: How do I deal with this ? My boyfriend's google maps is active and i can see all his activity?
- Question: My husband has a crush on someone else?
- Question: My husband bought a car without telling me?
- Question: Are there really Angels?
- Question: I'm getting bored staying hope but I really don't want to work part time?
- Question: Does a letter of exemplification get sent out with the long form birth certificate if the reason I chose was international marriage?
- Question: I left my husband who was verbally abusive & i filed 4 annulment my pastor asked me 2 ask my husband for forgiveness & to try 2 make it work?
- Question: My wife claims I am a bad father and bad husband. Allow me to explain:?
- Question: Am I being selfish?
- Question: My ex is playing games, but I can't figure out why?
- Question: Is it normal to stay in an violent marriage, and hope things will work out or try it?
- Question: What stories were you told about marriage that you still believe today? Why do you believe it?
- Question: Abuse question?
- Question: When single people (male or female) get older, will they have lower expectations in a mate ( husband or wife)?
- Question: Are women OK with their husband being fit? Do they see it as eye candy or jealousy?
- Question: Would you marry someone who wasn't part of your inner social circle or from your community/tribe? Why or why not?
- Question: Going away soon for a few days and leaving the wife with the kids for a couple nights. To show my thx, going to get her a spa day. Thoughts?
- Question: My husband is unhappy being a family man :(?
- Question: When and how should a husband punish his wife?
- Question: I yelled at my wife, but it wasn't in anger. It was her refusal to cooperate with me when trying to defuse an urgent situation.?
- Question: Songs for when you're married and it still feels as if you've just fell in love?
- Question: How to get over a totally broken spirit from something that ways said?
- Question: Internet marriage's are they legal?
- Question: Does having a child can keep a male continue his marriage? Does a child stop him from divorce?
- Question: Does a married man ever divorce from his wife and children to marry his girlfriend?
- Question: Husbands ex messages him, what do i do?
- Question: I'm feeling so disappointed, my husband started drinking again, he said he wanted his family back even started going to church. Whats next?
- Question: My wife is leaving me what do I do...?
- Question: Signs that your wife is cheating on you.?
- Question: Is there something wrong with somebody who marries someone they just met on a whim?
- Question: Is he making a excuse?
- Question: Why would my husband look up hentai when he says real live porn is disgusting? I've seen the search history and he doesn't look it up.?
- Question: How to convince wife to showcase her lingerie or to model it for me? thanks?
- Question: What can I do, if I see that my sister and her husband are being mentally abused by a member of the family? Even with no proof.?
- Question: If you cheated on your spouse, how would you prove yourself to your spouse that you will forever love them and be faithful again?
- Question: How Does Marriage Counseling Work?
- Question: If you discovered that your husband had secretly taken nude photos of you while you both had sex, what would your reaction be?
- Question: My wife left me. Should I upgrade to ios9?
- Question: Why was my exs wife staring at me ?
- Question: Confused and in love.?
- Question: How can I get over my ex?
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| Question: Father and daughter live in separate countries, how to make the distance easier? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 09:30 PM PDT My boyfriend and I both have children from previous relationships. He came to me tonight upset and unsure how to deal with his daughter. She lives in another country and finances don't allow for him to travel there on top of fully supporting her AND her mother financially. The little one is constantly telling him that she knows he doesn't love her any more and that she'll never see him again. This has been going on daily for months. He doesn't know what to do other than explaining that he does love her and will see her one day. He's done the usual explaining how he and his ex don't get along, etc (age appropriate of course). I have had the opposite problem with my kids (and growing up)...my kids and I had absent father's in every sense. I don't know what advise to give him other than what he's done. Had anybody had similar issues and have ideas on how to make it easier? It's an unfortunate situation all around. |
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| Posted: 28 Sep 2015 08:22 PM PDT The appointment is in the morning. Not sure what the better suppose would be? |
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| Question: What do i do now?? So confused about my husband..? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 07:48 PM PDT OK so my husband works out of town monday threw thursdays, He normally comes in around 9pm on thursdays, well this past Thurs, he came in very early like 530 pm, well my phone was dead and in the car charging, so when i got done getting food for our house, i tuned my phone on and checked the messages and there was a message from him at 545pm "threw the damn thing out, and find someone else to pay your ******* bills" so i call him and yells and screams and tells me to get my *** up there to pick him up. so i go pick him up and try to explain the phone being dead and he says "I dont care, for all i care you can take yourself and your daughter, back to NC" so i didnt say anything i just put my shoes on and went to look for my keys, (which he decided to hide from me) couldnt find them so i started to walk. The next thing i know i feel something hit the back of my head and it is his wedding band. I turned around and looked at him, and said really? I picked up the ring put it in my pocket and went and sat on the porch crying, he walked inside, it started to rain so i just stay on the porch,, about an hour later he comes outside tells me to go inside so i do.. he grabs me and says you know i love you.. i said "sure you do" i went to sleep on the couch he went to sleep on the bed, the next day he has his ring on and is acting like nothing is wrong.. i dont know what the hell to do, im still hurt.. |
| Question: Help with Spousal Support? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 07:36 PM PDT I am doing a project on the upcoming topic in California - Eliminating Spousal Support. My question is... Who are Supporters of Eliminating Spousal Support and Who are Against Eliminating Spousal Support. Answers like government types or organizations, even individuals. Thank you so much! |
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| Question: I'm gay and engaged to a man. What do I do? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 07:23 PM PDT Long story so I'll try to make this short. I'm 22 and I told my immensely religious parents that I was gay at 16, after they bombarded me with questions about my sexuality because I showed no interest in boys. They brainwashed me into believing that being gay is wrong, so I believed it and pretended to be straight since then. I started dating boys that I didn't even like, and now I'm engaged to a guy I have zero attraction to. I simply don't like guys, no matter how hard I try. I dated guys to please my family. I don't know what to do except die!!!!!! I'm a female, not a male. |
| Question: Women: How did you fall in love with your husband? Or what made you choose to marry him? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 07:17 PM PDT |
| Question: Men: How did you fall in love with your wife? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 07:16 PM PDT |
| Question: My children's reactions to their father's affair are not what I was expecting? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 07:16 PM PDT My husband had an affair and since then we have been going through counseling to save our marriage. I am still hurt though and not sure if I want to remain married to him still. Anyway, my husband and I decided we needed to tell our three children (daughter – 21, daughter – 17, and son – 15) about his indiscretion so we took them out on vacation to our cabin. However my children's reactions shocked me a little and I don't know what to make of them. Our eldest daughter was angry that we had not told her first and she ran off. Our second daughter felt she ought to have known earlier too and ran off as well. Our son just laughed at this and when I asked him how he felt, he simply said his father's affair did not bother him. I'm a little hurt honestly at all of their reactions. None of them seem to feel that their father betrayed me, or even betrayed them. The affair occurred about 3 months ago, so I haven't been keeping it a secret for very long. The kids did know that my husband and I have been distant and they've seen me crying, in pain, etc. but yes I never told them that all of this was because of an affair. I only said that their father and I were having issues and maybe we would divorce but I did not go into details. My husband didn't want to tell them until we had worked out the issue ourselves in counseling. I understand my daughters' reactions so they didn't bother me that much. I also think that was their way of coping with the situation. My son hurt me the most however, because he is the one who has seen me in the most pain at home over the last few months (him and my 2nd daughter because both of them live at home), yet he felt nothing. I asked if he felt sad or mad about anything and he said it didn't really make him feel anything. I even started to cry after that but he was not affected. |
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| Question: Why do people cheat? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 06:27 PM PDT I never understood this garbage. You give your life to someone for six years and they cheat??? I'm through with this. Might as well shut myself away in corner somewhere! |
| Question: If my wife tells me to have sex with another woman because she doesnt want to, should i? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 06:18 PM PDT |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2015 06:10 PM PDT i am planning a weekend excursion with an online friend, we plan on bording his snowmobile and safely scooting around in the snow. I am 7 months pregnant tomorrow. Is it safe for me to ride with me friend, he is not my husband but he is a safe driver. thank you for your honest opinions God bless YOu 2 down there are turning out to being not very helpful! |
| Question: Should I tail my husband I have been invited to ride another mans snowmobile? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 06:03 PM PDT I have met a man online who wants me to ride with him on his snow mobile and i would like too since we are just friends..Should i mention this to my hubs or just play a play-date with my new friend? thank you and god bless you all |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2015 06:00 PM PDT He leaves his location on ! He cones home and lies about where he has been ! He said he had to work 2 hours overtime and his google maps said he was at some house !!!!!!!! I jist got laid off from my job last week , He is obviously cheating, im so grossed out, ewwwww! I feel stuck! I have no where to go, Just stay and play dumb til i find more work? |
| Question: My husband has a crush on someone else? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 05:50 PM PDT When we met he admitted he had a crush on this girl, worse she is one of his oldest friends. What bothers me is she is flat out one of the WORST people i've ever had the misfortune to meet. She's in her thirties yet she acts like one of those mean B***es in highschool, dresses to get attention, and she's not a good friend....she uses her friends and then tosses them aside if they are not perfect like her. . When she needs a shoulder to cry on, suddenly they are back in her good graces. We are have marital problems and it bothers me he ran to that S*** to get advice on leaving me, now we are trying to patch it up but i'm having the problem of telling him i don't want this woman in our lives anymore. the thought of my child ever meeting her makes me sick. |
| Question: My husband bought a car without telling me? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 05:41 PM PDT So we started looking for cars and went to a few dealership. A week later on, he showed up at my kids hockey practice with a smile on his face. He already bought a car. I was quite shocked about this because I thought he would at least wait about few months. He is the breadwinner and he doesn't share his finances with me. He gives me a set allowance for groceries and for the kids needs. With 12 years of marriage, his attitude about our finances has always bern one sided because he said I ***** about overspending. I am a big saver and he is this guy who forgets to pay bills on time. I also majored in Finance and was raised to be frugal. What should I do? I placed all my savings in my kids college fund because this he wouldn't even do. |
| Question: Are there really Angels? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 05:37 PM PDT My Husband was Driving Home, stopped at A gas station to to get gas. A man aproached him and asked If he wouldn't mind to put some gas In his car so he can get home. My Husband said to the man"I can give you money" the man said "no, I don't want money, I just need gas to get home" My Husband said ok i will put gas In your car. As he is pumping gas the man ask my Husband his Name, the man said I will pray for you and your son. My Husband was stun that The man said that because my Son is going through a difficult time right Now. mynbusband asked the Man where he was From and the Man said Mary land, not Maryland but Mary land like The Virgin Mary. My husband puts $15 worth of gas in the mans car and as the man drives away he waves Goodby then my Husband notices the license plate is Blank, there were No letter and no numbers. What can that mean? Was it just a coincidence or was it an angel testing My Husband to do something nice for someone?? |
| Question: I'm getting bored staying hope but I really don't want to work part time? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 05:32 PM PDT If I work part time, I still have to deal paying part time for childcare. I told my husband I wanted to work full time but we have a problem who gets to pick up and drop off our kids. We don't have close friends or relatives to help us out on this thus the burden is on me. It seems my husband is set on having me as a stay at home mom because non of his female relatives work. However, I want a career now. I'm gettimg older and I want to be able to buy things with my own money. Should I just get a job and let him deal with dealing with the kids after school activities and at least picking them up? I hate being a stay at home mom. We're financially well off but I dislike it. |
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| Posted: 28 Sep 2015 05:01 PM PDT What do you think about this? My husband tried to contact me text me for about a month and called me twice after i left. He would text me asking how I was and said thank you for everything and that he prayed for me and saw happiness in my future and that he hoped I was in a better place. He never asked me for a second chance and I feel like me asking for forgiveness for breaking our vows and left him is just as bad as what he did with all the verbal abuse but if he hasn't asked for a second chance why should I try |
| Question: My wife claims I am a bad father and bad husband. Allow me to explain:? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 04:58 PM PDT My wife is a psychologist, it is important to the situation. We have 4 kids ages from 9 to 2. My wife is the type of person who thinks she knows the best way to do everything. I could not "clean" the garage without going through her first because I am required to consult with her on everything I do. She is also the type of person who only sees bad things. She only points out things out of place, never a positive comment. My oldest is a diabetic, and is prone to some raged behavior due to sugar spikes. My wife, who will yell at her, and spank her, tells me I am wrong when I do not do it her way. She claims that I am the reason for our oldest daughters outrageous behavior even though she is the primary caregiver in the home when I work. One of the final straws, according to her, is that when I fixed my 3 year old sons lunch for pre-school, I put in a small baggie with about 10 pieces of candy corn, he had asked for it the day before. I figured I would surprise hi with a treat. Well today I was yelled old and told I only care about myself and that I cannot be in the house any more. I have asked her to go to couples therapy for the past 3 years and she refuses to go (mind you, she is a therapist) and this is mostly because when we went before to couples therapy she would always say she knew more than the therapist did and that when I was there I would complain about her (my wife). Any insight would be appreciated. Anyone else married to a psychotherapist like this who can help? |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2015 03:52 PM PDT My husband thought it would be a good idea for my SIL and her 4 brats to move from Boston to FL to be closer to us. He says that it would be good for our son to have family. He forgot to mention that she is waiting for her section 8 to get approved to move to another location. She can stay with us in our small 2 bed house, just until she finds something. She has been on the list for 1 year now and still waiting. I'm pissed, I do not want to be hostess to her and her little brats! Husband works days, my son goes to school, so I am alone during the day. I work nights. That would mean I will not get any sleep. I told my husband and he says that I am being selfish. My castle is my sanctuary. I like to be alone. |
| Question: My ex is playing games, but I can't figure out why? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 03:40 PM PDT The past few months, my ex and I have gotten really close. We talk and hang out on a regular basis. We have been getting along better as exes than we did as a couple. One thing is bothering me though. Lately he has been playing games and lying about stupid things. He recently sent me a picture of him and some gorgeous girl I do not know. I know he did this to make me jealous because he keeps boasting about other girls when we talk. We hung out recently and when he found out I went on a few dates with someone, he bursted out that he was moving away for a job in a few months. I found out the following week he lied about moving. What is the point of the games and lies? |
| Question: Is it normal to stay in an violent marriage, and hope things will work out or try it? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 03:35 PM PDT |
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| Posted: 28 Sep 2015 02:46 PM PDT hi i live in DC and would like to get a phone number to call or get any advice on what to do on the following. my bestfriend is 19 years old or 20 and she went away from home. we want to bring her back home because her husband mistreats and beats her so much but she is the type of person that wont let nothing happen to her husband even if she gets beat by him. how can i turn this information to the police!? please help. we want her back but she keeps quiet. |
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| Question: Are women OK with their husband being fit? Do they see it as eye candy or jealousy? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 02:24 PM PDT |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2015 02:16 PM PDT I'm realizing that a lot of marriages actually happen BECAUSE you are part of the same community, university, tribe, church, neighborhood, or place of employment. But what about those people who aren't any of those things - would you do it? Let's say that you lived in Michigan - Would you date and consider marrying a woman from Michigan State if you attended University of Michigan and were proud of your college choice? Let's say you were a Cherokee Native and you met a privileged white person that you fell in love with; would your love last knowing that you both come from different roles of culture (1 hunter, the other hunted)? Let's say that you were Christian and you were really into a Muslim, does that mean you two are doomed to not be together? What if you were married a Hatfield, could you not marry a McCoy because of the past family feud? I know this seems really trivial, but there's some truth in LTR and coming from the same culture. I just wonder if you two didn't come from the same place, could this "incompatibility" be overlooked? |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2015 02:14 PM PDT This will be a few hours where she can just relax. Do you women out there think it s a good idea? |
| Question: My husband is unhappy being a family man :(? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 02:03 PM PDT We've been married 6 years and I am completely in love with him but a few months ago he started hanging out with an old group of high school buddies who are responsibility and stress free. They drink, hook up with random girls, and have no kids or wives to deal with. Well this led to them calling me horrible names and telling him that he could do better. One day he just didn't come home. He ignored my calls and refused to talk even to our 4 year old son. I was heartbroken and confused. He's been a great husband and father for 6 years and then he just abandoned us. Well I eventually begged him to come home but not before a week of hell while he was sleeping with and even got a key to another girls house. She was convinced that she was in love with my husband! It was awful but he did the right thing and cut her and all of his friends out of his life. I was thankful but I'm still broken and now I realize how miserable he is here with us. He also hates his good paying career too and talks about moving but I know that wouldn't solve it. The sad part is I don't think that I can fix his unhappiness no matter how hard I try (and trust me I try) and if I can't fix that then I know our marriage is doomed and my prince charming is going to be gone forever! Anyone have any advice or have gone through a similar situation? I feel helpless and quite honestly pathetic for holding on! |
| Question: When and how should a husband punish his wife? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 01:53 PM PDT |
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| Question: Songs for when you're married and it still feels as if you've just fell in love? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 01:46 PM PDT |
| Question: How to get over a totally broken spirit from something that ways said? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 01:39 PM PDT My fiancé & I are to be married next week. We've been together for a while but not intimate at all because of our beliefs and respect for each other. He's always been insanely attracted to me though and tells me all the time what he is excited about us doing together when married. Yesterday he and I were watching a video that I recorded of me talking to the camera about whatever. I had no makeup on, I had my big hood on because of the rain. I looked very young according to him. Like 10 years younger like a little girl (I'm 27, he's 31). It freaked him out. He commented how I looked like a child and how he couldn't imagine being intimate with me because I looked so young. He had a look of disgust and confusion on his face. I suddenly felt very rejected. That killed my spirit. I know I look young. It really hurt to hear from him though. I thought he accepted it. I do what I can to look older and he's only ever seen that side of me. I get that he was shocked. But it scared me too. His words and expression and disgust told me that he wouldn't be attracted to me just as I am, like in the mornings before I am put together. Would he see a child? I started crying. He knew the mistake he had made and felt entirely stupid and awful. His own insecurity of us not being accepted together by other people seeing me like that took over. We talked and cried for hours. Even still though, I feel sick and humiliated. I can't imagine letting him see me on our wedding night. My desire is dead. |
| Question: Internet marriage's are they legal? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 01:35 PM PDT |
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| Question: Does a married man ever divorce from his wife and children to marry his girlfriend? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 01:03 PM PDT |
| Question: Husbands ex messages him, what do i do? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 12:41 PM PDT so My husbands ex messaged him yesterday night to his mobile. Just 'Hi' from a new number since he blocked her before we got married. we are married for 7 months now. after marriage i discovered few chat conversations of my husband and his ex dated long back to days before we got engaged(which he forgot to delete). I asked him and he assured me it was over and he already blocked her. But now she messaged him yesterday. Is my husband lying to me? or Is He really true to me? I'm scarred n confused. Our's is arranged marriage, but we are so much in love.I know he loves me very much. But this message disturbs me.May be I'm fretting over nothing?! I asked him, he said he never talked to her in the past year. He himself is confused why she has to message him. his ex messaged me now on facebook giving all kinds of intimate details of their relationship. which is even more worse. I showed him and he asked me whatever I say, he'll take that action. but I thought if we leave messages without replying she'll stop bothering us. Am I doing the right thing??? Oh God!! this is soooo hurting me.. |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2015 11:48 AM PDT He told me before he was living sinfully, and how he wanted to start going to church, and being involved. Last night he called himself a hypocrite. I am so stressed out and hurt. We are currently separated, prior to all of this he said he did not want the kids seeing how he lived, so he did not want to drink anymore. Well last night he called me arguing with me on the phone, I'm just so lost. |
| Question: My wife is leaving me what do I do...? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 11:15 AM PDT So me and my wife are sweethearts from years ago. Currently were both 22/21 and we ve loved each other since we were kids. recently she s told me that she s leaving and there s a chance she won t come back. I just don t know any good ways to cope and I ve thought about suicide lately. I m not in my right mind and kinda just need some advice. |
| Question: Signs that your wife is cheating on you.? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 10:48 AM PDT |
| Question: Is there something wrong with somebody who marries someone they just met on a whim? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 10:35 AM PDT One of my coworkers took a trip to Las Vegas, met a man at a casino, got drunk with him, had sex with him, and went to a wedding chapel and married him. This man is twice her age and lives in Arizona, she lives in Ohio. This man claims to be a millionaire, but somehow says he cannot pay her way there just yet, so she is now saving up money to move to Arizona "to be with him". How can she not see that this man is a liar? How can she possibly think that this man was husband material after only knowing him less than 12 hours. I seriously must question her sanity. |
| Question: Is he making a excuse? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 10:19 AM PDT Me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years and I am pregnant with are first child. We are engaged for about two years. And recently he asked me to go down town an get the information we need to get married. So I did. Then a few days later we went to his dad house and he asked her if we was married yet and I said know so my boyfriend came to me and said oh I might go te you that I didn't want to get married yet because this guy at my job told me that if we get married you will lose your insurance and how will things get done with the pregnancy " he is on 90 day probation with his job so he don't have insurance yet and I get Medicaid and so will are daughter when she is born in November. When he said it I didn't say anything back and I still haven't brung it up. That really did make me mad because I will looking forward to finally getting married. And I wanted to get married before I have are daughter. I don't know what to do. I don't think something like that should stop us from getting married. |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2015 09:44 AM PDT I happened to stumble upon my husbands Google web app and activity while acceding his email. I found that he looks up a lot of hentai just hentai and not regular porn. He has said from the beginning of our relationship that real live porn is disgusting and unfaithful. Must be he is telling the truth about that if he doesn't look it up. But why hentai if he feels this way. Long ago I caught him looking up porn and he said he just wanted to get excited enough for me because he has a delayed ejaculation problem. He says masturbating doesn't do the trick for him and that he didn't want to disappoint me in the sac with having delayed masturbstion. He denied looking this stuff up for pleasure and said it was out of spite to me cuz of other things I've done like not sharing finances but I think this was an excuse because I found he still does it and it's not every day just maybe 5 times a month at most. He tells me it's more comical than anything and his one friend said they would talk about it a lot when they worked together but would state how hilarious and stupid it was. So I just don't understand why he does this if its for pleasure or just a good laugh because he likes fantasy stuff like dungeons and dragons and gaming. He won't be open with me about it. |
| Question: How to convince wife to showcase her lingerie or to model it for me? thanks? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 09:44 AM PDT Me and my wife are going for an of state vacation. We are going to Chicago and we will be staying at pool suites hotel. Sybaris to be exact (check it out-it's real nice) it is a lover's paradise where there's a private pool and and Jacuzzi and mirrors all over the room. My wife thinks that we are just going to Chicago for a tour but that is only part of it as my main plan is to have a rendezvous with her. My plan is I'll bring another bag solely for my wife's Lingerie (bought new ones)and Just to give a background about my wife on the lingerie thing, I bought 80 percent of her lingerie , she used to really hate it, I had to beg before she wears it but now she has been compliant, there's little been little resistance and far less begging from me, there are even times that she surprises me. I'm a very visual person and I don't know if it is fetish or what but lingerie is a big turn on for me and that I really like having sex with still clothes on or lingerie on, I like it when I'm the one slowly removing it. An example is doing doggy and just stretching the string of her v string and so on. Since we will be staying for 1 week in that pool suites, I'm hoping that my wife could model for me, a little dance would be really nice, I know it would have been great if she would prepare it herself (I'm still hoping) but I bought tons just in case she won't bring enough. My question is how can I tell her to showcase it those lingerie for me? How to convince wife to showcase her lingerie or to model it for me? thanks I've asked her before but she finds it awkward, she had a lot of reasons like our masters bedroom is too small for it, she does not like the door of our walk in closet and many more. Now I'll be treating her on this vacation, tours, shopping and fancy dates. |
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| Posted: 28 Sep 2015 08:23 AM PDT I cheated on my spouse once with a coworker. I deleted messages, secretly hung out with her until morning, although we never had any sexual contact. My wife left me. During separation i became depressed and seeked other woman online and met her in person. Yes we dated for a month, and had sex. But then i contacted my wife again while i was still with that other woman. Now she thinks that i cheated on her again. Truth was, we were separated. I love my wife and gave up on the other woman but my wife cant get over that i went and slept with another woman and did things such as watching movies with that other girl, went to a certain mall, went to eat out and went to the hotels and everything for over a month, and only a few days after of separating from her. She cant get over that that was when we were no longer together. And because i did that, i feel like i can love her the right way again. I feel like i can treat her right, and not do the things i had done in the past. I will admit, in the past, we didnt go out much. We barely were together because of me. The new me now wants to do everything with her but she's unwilling to accept it. How do you prove yourself to your spouse? I'm trying so hard and every night she snoops around on my phone searching up old stuff and cries herself to sleep. I'm lost. I know i am at fault. And she still wants to be with me, but she's hurt. What would you do? |
| Question: How Does Marriage Counseling Work? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 07:10 AM PDT I know this sounds typical, me and my wife have been married for 9 years. We have three kids. I think my wife has some sort of personality disorder which makes our relationship really rocky. Its always been this way. Most of the time to keep the fighting to a minimum I either accommodate or appease my wife, but this has left me feeling alone, used, undervalued, treated unfairly. I recently started seeing a counselor and he says I need to really push these issues in counseling with my wife. I am afraid though because I feel the counselor will try to keep things even and If one spouse is "more or majority at fault" than the other, then the "less at fault" will end up losing. For example, we saw a counselor when we first got married over separate issues we each had. I corrected my issue for the entire marriage, but my wife back slid within a couple weeks. We never went back (my fault). Now I feel like the vast majority of issues are my wifes and I feel like I am going to lose again. She is already reluctant about going (my guess is because she knows she has allot of bad behavior or a full blown personality disorder, but she just says I don't need someone telling me what to do). So how do I handle this while still trying to get the message across to my wife and the counselor? I didn't even know personality disorders existed when we got married. My wife wont admit that she has a personality disorder, it was suggested to me by my counselor and some of her family members. For every bad behavior, she always has an excuse that doesn't add up, or cant be verified. I have a proclivity to help people, to try and make things better for them, to be shamed when yelled at and try to do what the other wants to "keep the peace". This is the baggage I bring to the marriage. I have tried to enforce my personal limits. My wife has gone behind my back and opened credit cards in my name after specifically telling her no. Attorneys tell me this is criminal. I cant see how a counselor would agree. There are other instances too numerous to list. I have let it go on far too long, for the sake of the kids. I don't want to destroy our family. I am put at the crossroads of either I take care of myself mentally or salvage the family. |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2015 06:53 AM PDT Would you be a) be flattered and not let it bother you, b) be disgusted c) feel violated d) be angry and could never forgive him e) be confused f) wonder if he secretly takes pictures of other women in public unbeknownst to them g) be on edge if other people stayed at your home wondering if he is taking pictures of them h) think there is deeper issues with your husband regarding his covert voyeur, fetish behavior i) would never trust him again j) seek help for your husband k) seek help for yourself l) pack your bags and leave your husband and forget about seeking help at all. |
| Question: My wife left me. Should I upgrade to ios9? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 06:49 AM PDT |
| Question: Why was my exs wife staring at me ? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 06:35 AM PDT I went to a party where my ex and his wife were also at ( he had cheated on me to be with her ) The wife was staring and watching me the whole time, my friends observed and told me. My ex was very friendly towards me , but I'm guessing it was more in an old friends kind of way . He seem disappointed when I left and asked me why , hugged and kissed me goodbye . |
| Question: Confused and in love.? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 05:56 AM PDT BF and I have been dating for a little over 3 yrs now and have been friends for 15 yrs. Recently I asked him about marriage (I know) and he told me that he sees marriage as him and I, not so much to be a family. I'm beyond confused at this. I see marriage as becoming one and becoming family, but since he came from a not so amazing child hood, I fear it was is round about way saying he will never be married? IDK I'm really confused. I know he loves me, that part is not in question, but I need a mans perspective on it. Side note: He also said he wasn't really thinking about marriage right now since he is in physicians assistant school, but he is also 33yrs old with 2 kids already. I think he should be a little more clear then he's being. Thanks! |
| Question: How can I get over my ex? Posted: 28 Sep 2015 05:12 AM PDT We were together for 5 and a half years. He's the only real relationship I've ever had. We were on and off from the time we were 16 and 17 until we were 21 and 22. We had a daughter at 20 and 21. He just recently got married, after 8 months with the new girl. I tried at first to get him back. But then I realized how serious they were when they got engaged, since he never proposed to me. So then I just tried to move on. I went on a few dates with new guys. I ended up having sex with a few of them on the first date in my car and they didn't talk to me after. I started dating a new guy, not knowing he did drugs and stuff. He had a daughter, too, so I figured he was a good guy. We broke up soon after. I see my ex everytime we exchange our daughter and it kills me because he moved on so fast and settled down, but never did with me. How can I go about moving on the right way? |
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