It s been two weeks since I said goodbye to the most wonderful guy. I screwed it up and I m positive I ll never see him again. I still can t stop thinking about him. I lost my virginity to him, so I m afraid I ll never forget him. I just want to get him out of my head. How???!?

She has great opportunities to work in Texas but now she wants to move to Hawaii for 1 year to work in a shelter and stay with her sister and husband , for me to be able to go to America , I would need to apply for a K1-Visa which would involve us getting married after 90 days, Meaning I wouldn't be able to work for an extended period of time legally. I don't have any type of education apart from secondary education and fluency in English and Spanish , I also heard is terribly expensive to live in Hawaii and that is over populated , I want to start my education and get something done with my life , it's just a bit upsetting that after months of planning to move to Texas she suddenly wants to move in with her sister and her husband that live in Hawaii , the relationship between my fiancee and her sister's husband is not that good and I would feel really out of place to tell him anything while we're living under his roof. How would you react to this? Is Hawaii really that harsh economically? Is living with her sister and her husband a good idea? am I being selfish for wanting to establish somewhere and get education?

Alrightie, there is a whole long story behind this but I don't feel like typing it out, so I'll just get to the question. There is this kid that gives me a really creepy vibe, and as someone with social anxiety, he makes my anxiety go from a three out of ten to a one hundred out of ten. I don't really know why, but I just feel really uncomfortable when he is around. It all started last year and ended with me explaining that I couldn't talk to him anymore, but yesterday I was wearing a cloak for super hero day at my school and he tried to strike up conversation and I tried to be nice because I'm not just going to be mean to him or anything, but now he has started trying to talk to me and all that again. What do I do? I just tried to ignore him today, will he get the picture and leave me alone tomorrow? Literally I feel a foot tall standing next to him or talking to him and he just makes me super uncomfortable and just thinking about it is giving me really bad anxiety. What do I do?

I'd like to know people's experiences with this sort of situation... A guy was pursuing me, but I sort of kept blowing him off. He eventually stopped and I think I bruised his ego a bit. In his absence, I realized that I like him and usually push available men away. He'd given me his number because I wouldn't give him mine (I just wasn't sure about him at first). I texted him a few times and he was being short with me. I figured it was because I rejected him before. Then I sent him some funny texts and he started responding more and with smiley faces. I wonder though, if I pull back, will he chase me again? I don't like pursuing men but I texted him to give him some positive reinforcement, to let him know that I am, in fact, interested. Has anyone had a similar situation where they either a.) as a man, began pursuing again, or b.) got a man to pursue them again?

I'm a guy, I'm 16 a junior in high school. There's this girl Crystal in my civics class who I really like. And I found out we also have lunch together (she never really came outside much so I never saw her until last Monday). Just to make things clear I did not stalk her, we met two weeks ago in civics and when I was with my friends outside I saw her and said hey and we've been hanging out together the past couple days. I just want to set the tone, I've never had a girlfriend and have been rejected twice in two years, but I've been putting myself through a lot of pain at gym to get strong, for me to get strong I must consider pain not a factor and so I have. She's beautiful and very sweet, and my female friend Alex who knows her said she's single, so I will take the shot. Yesterday when we were outside next to each other I slowly put my hand against hers, she played along and we linked fingers. It was really nice but when my friend Alysha was coming she let go. Why did she let go? Is she embarrassed?

We re perfect together, sweet even in public. He s very loving and affectionate. Brings me to his family. He deleted all Facebook and Instagram but caught him on Internet checking on Facebook behind my back. Searching for images of hot woman. I feel like one of this day he will cheat. He told me I'm perfect , and I'm not fake, very sweet and loving. -sweet cancer❤️

I m a Spanish girl and have a British bf who is older than me 10 years. We met online and Ive known him for 4 years now. He moved to Spain for me and stayed for two years. At some point I had to go my home city after six months. When i went back to uni, he made a plan to move to other city for a new job.We broke up in some point for 4 months. he said its for taking time only but I learnt later he was seeing a girl. He mentioned then he regret he had a coffee with a girl. But anyway we got back together but have had trust issues.. i spoke to her and she said they had romantic thing for 7 months. My bf explained the exact situation later although he hid at first for one year. But i still feel like there is much of the story. And the details she gave still bothers me a lot

My bf and I have been dating for two years he recently meet his child who is a year and half for the first time. He is trying to step up to the plate and take responsibility. I wasn t aware of the child until a few months ago. We live in NY his son and baby mother live in FL. I don t have friends or family in Florida to even consider it an option to move forward with him if he really moves nor building s future with him there. We have been planning on moving in and starting our own family but now I m unsure of what to do. He says he wouldn t move if we work out but if we don t he would. I don t want to be the reason of him not be able to be in his child s life fully. And I don t want to continue wasting my time if he does decide to move. My intentions arent to move to Florida. Any advice?? I feel like I m going to end up heart broken and my future with him will come to an end.

My girlfriend is having surgery a day before homecoming. Should I go to homecoming or go to see her? I am a senior. But I m confused on what I should do.

I have been watching a lot of Holocaust survivor reunion videos on YouTube recently. I've been balling my eyes out for days. I'm definately curious to know your most emotional reunion with someone.

My husband youngest brother married someone who's two faced!! She hates me although I was nothing but nice to her!! She talks and smiles infront of everyone but once I'm alone with her she ignores and makes faces like she's annoyed!! She sends me insults in whatsapp!!! Got pregnant just so that she get a baby before me specially when she knew I'm having issues.. And she was bragging it in my face!! My husband knows of her actions but can't do anything coz he loves his brother! I can't go to their Friday lunches if she's there anymore I just can't stand it.. Now that I'm pregnant she didn't even bother say congratulations and my aunt just died also she didn't bother coming to pay her respects!!! And everyone is cool with it!! No one can sees her real face except for me and I can't live my whole life like this!! And I can't act like I actually like her coz I don't !!! Plz advise!!! I tried to be nice and got her bday gift she ignored it and sent me even more indirect insults in whatsapp like I was jealous of her pregnancy. Any advice ?????

La mia vita fa schifo..non mi piaccio per niente vorrei essere un altra persona anche fisicamente..quest anno ho avuto solo prese per il culo da persone a cui tenevo piu di ogni cosa e pensavo che anche loro tenessero a me quando in realtà non era così..a febbraio sono stata con un ragazzo e dopo neanche un mese mi ha lasciato e ci sono stata male poi dopo a fine marzo sono stata con un altro ed e stato un tira e molla per 4 mesi e lui e stato quello che mi ha fatto piu del male e ci sto male tuttora per lui poi mi sono appena lasciata con un altro e ora non so piu come fare era la mia vita e voglio solo sparire visto che niente ha piu senso qua..mi sento troppo sola senza di lui..contando anche che entrambi si sono fidanzati..non ce la faccio piu a starci male e a piangere sempre..voglio farla finita ma non so come per non soffrire ancora

I work at a residential home and we just had a resident pass away (at the hospital, unexpectedly) this morning. What might I expect the next few days? And I know things are different but just as a generalization. Thanks!

I'm in my twenties, she was probably about 50-55. She was a customer and she said ,"hi ma'am" , "I have a question ma'am", " thanks ma'am" etc. Did I look 50 to her???

I turn 18 in a month but want to move into my own studio next year around July/August when I start college. It's far from where I'm living rn and I need to focus on my own stuff for a while. At home it's stressful with my separated parents and there's no room for my furniture and no privacy.both my parents argue over me and who I would live with but I would rather be on my own than go through that. I just worry how when I decide to move they will not let me and be upset.

So I just started high school around 2-3 months ago and I noticed gym is a lot different than middle school gym. Like my friend has a habit of passing out because she gets overheated very easily and when she told the gym teacher that, they laughed and still made her run track. After running 4 laps she was on the vurge of passing out, she could barely walk and they still wouldn't let her get water or even take a break. Another example is another one of my friends dislocated her thumb and the teacher still made her do push ups which made her pop it back in to sockit and make it worse. They wouldn't let her even go to the nurse when she cried. Yesterday some girl broke her leg and they did nothing. She had to get up by herself and walk to the nurse with a freaking broken leg. Then she later got Saturday school for disobeying them. And today some girl tripped while running and hit her face against the brick wall. There was blood everywhere but they did nothing and she ended up just sitting on the ground the whole period. I would of helped her but they said if anybody went to her we would get sent to the principal office. Not a valid reason but I was just in shock, plus there was so much blood and ahhh. Sorry for ranting, but it just makes me mad that they do nothing. Like I know that there going to be stricter that middle school but is'nt this to strict. Idk mabey I'm just oversensitive. Tell me what u think.

He was my first love. He changed me from a girl to a women. He hit me but I hit him too. He cheated by talking to other girls, but I would flirt with other guys. We broke up 3 years ago and I used to think he was some abusive monster, but I realize I abused him too. He requested me of FB about 1.5 years ago but I ignored it and blocked it. I did not want to be abused again and I found out he had a girlfriend. He not only had a girlfriend but they were living together, to my dismay. I was officially heartbroken. He sent her flowers, took her on helicopter rides, moved in with her, everything he refused to do with me. So I vowed to myself 3 years after our breakup I would check his FB to see where he was at. I did and it look like they broke up sometime within the last 3 months. I felt so happy. See, her & I went to high school together and I think they stayed together so long to spite me. Now realizing he wasn't the only abuser, I miss him. And a small portion of me wants to reach out. I know I won't but I would just like some insight....thanks.

Hello. I'm married to a wonderful guy and we have a 15 month old daughter together. She's the 1st girl in the Family since 63 years! So we thought it was a big deal! Anyways, my Husband's brother married shortly after us, to this woman named Alyssa, who feels like she has to "one-up" us on EVERYTHING. Seriously. We buy a 2014 Dodge, she buys a 2015. We buy a nice house, she buys a bigger one. When we got engaged, she got engaged the next week! Then when she found out our wedding date, she made her date for the week before ours! Anyways, she got pregnant and announced her pregnancy THE DAY I GAVE BIRTH! So naturally, everyone was so excited and I felt cheated. Anyways, since she had her daughter, my Husband's family has had not much to do with my Daughter...It's like she doesn't matter anymore. They watch Alyssa's new baby every day while Alyssa's at work..but I cant get a job because I cant afford daycare..And Alyssa makes over 100k a year but they dont charge her to watch her baby. My husband's aunts make Alyssa' baby adorable handmade outfits and shoes, yet havent made anything for my Daughter. I feel like nobody cares about my daughter and that's the way Alyssa likes it. She's so competitve that she wants everyone to fawn over her daughter and forget about mine. His Family insists they dont leave me daughter out, but I dont believe it because theyre always posting pictures of them with Alyssa's baby yet they never even ask his my daughter is. I need advice.. No where ever in this question I posted did it say I'm upset because they like Alyssa's daughter more...what I'm saying is they're purposely leaving MY daughter out. Don't answer if you're gonna have some b*ll____ answer like "grow up!".

I'm a college student now. To be more precise, a freshmen living on campus. I came to know a few girls and we had a dispute. It's been settled (as in it happened and it's over) but a few minutes ago a girl I know ask me what's wrong. I felt uneasy but still told her what happen. (She hangs out with the girls as well). Now I'm sitting here crying to myself since I felt like I did wrong this time by being stupid and telling her what happen since I no longer hangout with those girls. (To be short those girls gang up on me and I cut them off). I just feel sad and alone to be honest. I'm so use to being alone though which is what I find to be funny since bothered now. I kept to myself in high school (knew people and had few friends but mostly alone). but now it feels like there's this pressure on me and I want to let it out. Can you guys give me tips please. I never knew college life can feel so tense. I love it here but I feel cage with those girls-- and my subconscious thoughts when I'm alone in my room-- is really getting to me... I'm really close to my family by the way. But even talking to them and letting them know of everything that's been going on, I still end up feeling the way I do.. I consider myself to be a very strong independent person but now I feel extremely weak and I don't feel like myself anymore.. I never let things get to me but I guess I can take in so much before it does. S.N: I'm a pretty blunt person as well when it comes to speaking my mind to people but as I said, I don't feel like myself recently at all.

OK so my cousin who is 16 is visiting my family for a week, I am a 14 year old boy and she is very attractive, I told her how attractive she is many times and she smiled. But my mom said we have to share my bed tonight. We are both fine with that since we know each other very well. But she told me she sleeps in her panties, and I just said OK. I know I can't touch her because that would be wrong! Is it normal to share a bed with your cousin??

I just had sex for the fit s time in about 8 months and a few minutes in my stomach started hurting really bad and I felt like I was going to puke, the feeling didn t stop until after I fell asleep. When I woke up we went again and the same thing happened to my stomach and I have no idea why. What s going on and how can I make it stop?

It's a little story. I don't know how to explain it or put it into words. I'm getting married in about a week. (Nothing big, court wedding). I'm so excited and feel like i am and I'm going to be extremely happy. I feel like I've always done everything for the people around me, mostly my family. Like in high school, I hated being in school due to the fact that people would make fun of me because I'm skinny. I was always in and out of regular school and home school. My family wanted me to graduate from the actual high school because they wanted to see me walk at the ceremony. So I did it and graduated from regular school. They always told me to go to college before anything, having kids, getting married etc. & I did it! Again, I did it for them.. So they could be proud of me. My dream has always been to be married and have a family. I love kids so much!! Now I'm getting married to the love of life❤️ I feel like I'm finally doing something that I always wanted! To be so happy. I just don't know how to explain it, it's a feeling I have. I want to put it into words but I just can't.. Maybe you can help me?

I wake up, go to school, do work to get good grades, go home, do homework, after homework play video games to relieve stress and then go to sleep to start all over again. How do I stop this boring loop?

I just don't understand the point in LDR, I do like him a lot, but he hasn't made any effort to see me I tried and he didn't meet me I mean we didn't plan to meet but I was really close to his town, I don't want a relationship over the phone if I don't get to see him in person, then he didn't want to put our relationship on fb, or told anyone about me, and told him he could go after someone else than have this and he told me that he doesn't want anyone else that he wants me, we have video chatted before so he is real, I just don't understand him.

What would an old fashioned Yankee or a southern gentleman do?