Im Muslim but I don t cover and most people don t even know I cover but my parents want to chose my husband for me but I m in a secret relationship with my boyfriend but he s not Muslim and we re pretty serious he s even cool with me being a Virgin but my parents will never let me marry a non muslin and they would disown me but I love him. HELP

I pay the bills in my house since I got married my now wife had a car payment in her name only. I make the payments and she quit her job. Can they repo her car since she is unemployed .. Remember I still make payment every month

I have had 3 surgeries in less then a yr. My husband has been working a lot of overtime due to me not working right now and he has been taking really good care of me. I want him to know I have loved every minute of him being by my side through all of this health issues. I can not walk right now but I would like to plan something special for him. Does anyone have any ideas.

My husband and i are divorced. My son and i get along so well, and i have temporary custody right now. My son has told me numerous times that he wants to live with me. We do all kinds of things, go out to eat, he has some freedom, i am flexible with his schoolwork. He told me his dad is always with his girlfriend, and when my son visits him, his dad and girlfriend are always showing affection to eachother, and ignore him alot. Also, when my son lived at his dads, his GPA was a 2.5. He is 16 years old, and has told me numerous occasions he likes it more where i live than where his dad lives. His dad lives in an old part of town, i live in a newer neighborhood. He even said he found POT in his dads toolbox. Yes, i occasionally drink wine though. If my son says these things to the judge, would they grant his wishes?

So there was a guy I know who's not successful but really likes this one lady, and her vice versa with him. The lady isn't successful, either. So he asked me for advice cuz they've dated for a while and might eventually marry, and so here's what I told him: I said that he should go and work on being successful first, then MAYBE he and she can think about marrying. He asked why and so I said if you get married you don't wanna have to worry about money since that's one of the biggest reasons for divorce and lots of times low-down suckers like he and me are barely avoiding loserhood. and of course no good-quality lady worth her salt wants to be with dudes who are losers or barely not losers. So yeah I tried to really discourage him but for nice reasons. Was I being a jerk and giving bad advice? I also told him about how we need to save up money since in this economy money is crucial to getting by. Well he seemed kinda mad at me like as if I was being a jerk but I thought I was fully right. But then again maybe I was wrong? I'm a dude by the way.

I've know many married people that ended up "dying alone" because their spouse died first. At least %50 of married people will "die alone." Is it just something they say to try to feel better about themselves because they were stupid for getting married in the first place????

We have different sex drives... He wants more and better sex than I am comfortable with :( Are there any men who aren't obsessed with sex ?

My brother is married. He loves his wife. But his heart is now choosing his high school sweetheart. And they always say to follow your heart when it comes to love. He's been married for almost 5 years now. When he saw his ex, his heart all of a sudden chose different. He feels really bad. But his heart is saying his wife isn't for him anymore. His ex is. He knows it's bad and refuses to follow what his heart says. But he's losing his mind and really wanting to see her. And don't know what to do. I thought I'd come on here and ask all of you for advice for him. I love my brother and don't want him to make the wrong decision and lose his wife And please give me serious answers. Nothing sarcastic. He didn't want this. He said it's what his heart is telling him

So a few months later we were married I got a job and we rented a house. Things were going decent. Then after maybe 7 months of marriage she calls me at my job and says she's leaving and that we got married too young. We had a little money in the bank and met later to divide it up (she had already wiped it all out). After we met I was arrested and accused of hitting her. The charges were later dropped after she admitted she lied but it still haunts me to this day (I found out the hard way court records remain even after the charges are dropped). This also allowed her to get a restraining order so I couldn't see her or my child for several months. I was then served with divorce papers. I wasn't sure what to do, so I moved on and started dating again (I didn't want a divorce but it was being shoved down my throat). Several more months went by and we went to court. Afterward she asked to speak to me and long story short after a few days we decided to give it another try. But before we did I wanted to clear the air and let her know I had been with someone else. I asked her if she had as well and she said she had not. Fast forward about 15 years and I have started a company and am starting to become pretty well known in the community, we are still married. A few days before a news story is to come out that will for lack of better terms, turn me into a small town celebrity. She decides to tell me that she had cheated during our separation and the guy lives a few miles down the road and is married to one of her relatives now. (just and fyi I had moved away while we were separated so no one in the town or family knew what I had done, only her). Now I feel like the laughing stock of the town. We now have 3 kids and a thriving business. She has turned out to be a good mom and maybe wife also. Another note after we were married about 4 years a guy she knew from work came by to fix something at our house (Something I had no idea was even broken). She admitted to kissing him. She told me at first it was on the cheek. Years later she told me it was on the lips. This all haunts me to this day, I literally have nightmares and can't sleep. Her argument is it was so many years ago, mine is that you should of told me so I could have made the decision to stay or go. I did happen many years ago, but I just found out 2 years ago. I want stay for the kids, but I don't love her. Of course I am not sure I will ever be happy with anyone.

I sometimes feel like I'm a single parent. My morning consists of getting my two little ones ready for day care because the Mr. can't handle all of them at the same time, I'm very resentful toward him because I see him lying in bed just looking at me and does not offer to help, I've ask for help in the past but I always end up doing thing on my own because by the time he gets up I'm already done. He goes to work @ 1PM and nothing gets done around the house. (he thinks that by taking out the trash every so often he just cleaned the ENTIRE house) I don't have time for myself, during my lunch, I have to rush home, eat something really quick, pick up one kid and take him to preschool by 1:15PM, I then go back to work and around 2:50 PM I pick up my oldest child from school at 5:30 PM I to pick up my other 2. Then, we go to soccer practice until 7:00 PM I then rush home again to do homework, have dinner and put the kids to bed around 8:30 PM if I'm lucky. My day does not end there, I then do laundry, and everything that need to be done around the house. By the time my husband comes from work around 11:00 PM I'm already exhausted and he still expects me to be up (if I go to bed, he gets mad and argues that he missed me and that I don't want to spend time with him anymore). I feel I'm always mad and take it out on my kids, their yelling, laughter and screaming bothers me. To add more my husband is constantly texting me at work (every 15mn) if I don't txt him back he calls and calls until I pick up. I turn off my phone and then he calls my office, so I have to pick up because I don't want my coworkers to pick up. Sorry for the long story I'm just venting out my frustration.

My wife and i have been married for 9 almost 10 years. I never would of thought she would be the type to cheat. We have 2 kids together and they are fairly young. She had sex with one of her coworkers, they had been talking and flirting with each other for months prior. the day after they had sex in his car she confessed everything and said she was really sorry. I believed her because she told me right away, deleted all contact with him, and even quit her job, She also gave me all her passwords and tried hard to gain my trust back. the first week i didnt come home, is stayed in a hotel she begged me to come back so i did, and for the next few weeks after i was cold and distant and wouldnt sleep in the same bed. Around this time pictures of her and him kept popping up in my head. its been nearly 5 months now, we are still attending counseling and its better but its not completley gone. I have good days and bad days. On good days i can kiss her and cuddle and stuff but on bad days, i feel like crying and being alone. every time we argue (normal couple arguing) it comes into my head, and i have every urge to say something about her affair but i try to be the bigger person. i thought it was gonna be easy, when she told me i was fine with it, but the next day it hit me and has been hitting me ever since. we havent had sex since either, i keep refusing, i dont know what to do, i feel like my libido is gone. what to do?

I am attending a private religious college my parents pay for. I ve been going for over a year and have been hoping since I ve started that it would get better. However, I hate it. My parents are of the sort that would not support me if I went anywhere else. I have a job that barely covers the necessities if stretched and nothing in savings. I am unhappy with the strict, religious environment. I wonder if I m just being immature and selfish or if it would be better to leave and if so, what options are there?

Me and my ex spouse recently split due to my priority primarily being our daughter first, now due the the fact that my spouse has no job cause I was supporting her during her going too college we ve agreed to have an in home seperation. Didnt work because yes we have the sleeping in different rooms down, but all else is hard, my ex is seeing someone already and there "serious" so they say. My spouse has came for basically I d call it a late night booty call, but here s where it gets tricky My ex is seeing someone, im not (I haven t healed) now the possibility of being pregnancy is high? Now babies save a marriage or kill one, how should I go about this, im not getting an abortion I repeat if I am then im keeping it, any advice?

My marriage is failing. We've tried counseling, we've tried everthing. I want my marriage to work. I just don't know what to do. I love this man. I'm praying to god for answers. I want the argruing to stop. Please someone help me.

I'm in deep trouble. My wife and I are 25( newlyweds). Today I came home and was shocked to see she'd cut her hair. If I had to describe it, she went from having long blonde hair to like, the same hairdo that Penny from Big Bang Theory has. So I come home and she was like " what do you think?" I was so taken aback I paused and then she got mad and lectured me for " hating it". I tried to smooth things over, told her I loved it, but she said I was lying, still won't talk to me.

My husband and me have been married for 4 years and dated for a year. Recently, his friend came over the house and he said he had seen Martha at the store with her two kids and how much they've grown. He looked at my husband meaningfully and then my husband just looked away. Later after his friend left I asked my husband who 'Martha" was... turns out Martha is a single mom that my husband dated for 4 years, I asked her what happened and he tells me that he only wanted her for sex because he wasn't having any luck with women and that he never intended to marry her, she later started to "nag" him about marriage and he told her he wasn't planning on marrying a woman with baggage, anyways, long story short she left him because he wouldn't commit. He also opened up and told me he dated another woman who was 6 years older than him, he only wanted sex from her because she was easy and gave it up to him whenever he wanted some but he never wanted to marry her because she was older than him and he didn't see her as wife material this relationship also ended when the woman wanted commitment and he said "no". Basically, everyone before me he just used for sex with no intention of marriage. I feel like you shouldn't ask people about their past sexual partners because that's just got nothing to do with the relationship in present tense, and I feel it brings up arguments, but, now that I know this, I feel sick that I married someone who thought it was ok to use women in this way.

My wife and I were married for four years. After three years I found out she was cheating on me. She filed a uncontested no fault divorce to see if she could gain an advantage. Now she wants alimony. I have audio and Facebook evidence that she'd been cheating. Can I present that to court to gain my own leverage not to pay alimony? If not what other means do I need to not pay someone who had been unfaithful in the marriage but still wants money from her spouse?

That the daughter I had been raising for 3 years previously was not actually my biological daughter. I still think about it everyday and it still hurts and I'm still angry at the deception I stayed since I found out but I should've left the day i found out because this just doesn't just go away. Has anyone else dealt with something similar? How fast did you divorce or how fast do you think you would've left if you found out something like this?

am 29 and my boyfriend is 41 and yesterday we were messing around. I was naked as was he and I was standing and kissing him while he was sitting on the bed. He then lied down and pulled me on top of him. The thing is that him and I always use condoms, So as I was on top of him, his penis brushed my vagina and I scooted up but I noticed he was trying to push me down on it and started thrusting. Keep in mind, we have never had sex without. So once he seen I was not going that route, he put on a condom, however after he came with the condom on he stayed inside of me for a good while. He then pulled out quickly and I felt a warm sensation. I am also wondering each time we have intercourse, why he I always have to be the one to mention the condom. Last week, we were eating and he asked me very nonchalantly if I had any certain cravings when I was pregnant.

I am really struggling today with my addict. Usually I could care less what he does but past few days things are just out of control. It's like I am always the bad guy. His drug dealing friends are the good guys and I'm always the you know what, because I don't condone the behavior. I'm really sad that it has come to this. I look at him and I just see the shell of a man I use to know. I realize things have gone seriously wrong when my husband who has never laid a hand on me did yesterday because I threw out his drugs. I don't get why I always come second to the drugs or the drug involvement. But at this point, I think its time to call it quits. Anyone else ever deal with an addict? How did you get through it? Did you stay married and he got better or did you leave?? Been married 9 years, first 4 years were great, he never touched a drug. Then his mom died and now almost 7 years later I'm still dealing with the addiction. I've gotten good at numbing myself but I want to be happy. Not lied to anymore, but I also believe marriage is forever. I don't know what to do, because my family said they won't help me, no one will. I just want the man I met back, not this tool!

We bought 2015 4wd Tundra truck. We had it for 2 days, and he went behind my back to off road with it, but has no experience. It got stuck in a muddy water pool, and had to be towed. He doesn t see the magnitude of his error. I am so tired of he careless attitude. What would you do? He doesn t want to pay to get it deep cleaned throughout, cause he doesn t want to pay.please give me advice.

His friend is also married. But unhappily. I know ow he would do it. I'm soo attracted to him. It wouldn't be the first time I've cheated on his. I recently this yr had a ffm three some he doesn't know about

I went to work this morning and my coffee first tasted a little odd then I was throwing up and almost fainted in the restroom. I started seeing trails like back in the day when I did lsd. My stomach should have been pumped and feeling cold but getting better. I think my wife is trying to get access to my 6 million in bearer bonds along with my 12.8 million in my credit union and mutual fund assets. Can I give the police department a sample of my coffee to make sure. Than what do I do?

Instead i cleaned and did all the household chores. Got ready and picked him cause i knew he would be mad if i was late. This resulted in him screaming/yelling at me the whole hour drive home. now im confused and a lil scared. i realize i brought this on myself. but i still dont think i deserve to get yelled at for an hour and made cry? what should i do? let it go? act up/out? forgive and vow never to do that again? i feel so stupid! i have become the stupid french girl off of pulp fiction and i hate it! how did this happen?