We have been together for about 9 months and her birthday is on Friday, she's really into fashion, so I was think either a mulberry bag, a pair of louboutions or a Burberry trench coat, but I don't know. What do you think I should get her out of all them? Or any other suggestions?

There is a coheed and cambria concert in Arizona next month(I'm from Indiana) and I need help convinceing my parents to let me go I'm 16 we would be gone for a week and I would miss school I have been away for days at a time no problem (went to jclc at camp aterbury) and I have multiple raider meets which involve me going to Kentucky to compete so out of state isn't a problem either and she has let me stay over with my friend and his mom for days on end so it's not them either

So a few months later we were married I got a job and we rented a house. Things were going decent. Then after maybe 7 months of marriage she calls me at my job and says she's leaving and that we got married too young. We had a little money in the bank and met later to divide it up (she had already wiped it all out). After we met I was arrested and accused of hitting her. The charges were later dropped after she admitted she lied but it still haunts me to this day (I found out the hard way court records remain even after the charges are dropped). This also allowed her to get a restraining order so I couldn't see her or my child for several months. I was then served with divorce papers. I wasn't sure what to do, so I moved on and started dating again (I didn't want a divorce but it was being shoved down my throat). Several more months went by and we went to court. Afterward she asked to speak to me and long story short after a few days we decided to give it another try. But before we did I wanted to clear the air and let her know I had been with someone else. I asked her if she had as well and she said she had not. Fast forward about 15 years and I have started a company and am starting to become pretty well known in the community, we are still married. A few days before a news story is to come out that will for lack of better terms, turn me into a small town celebrity. She decides to tell me that she had cheated during our separation and the guy lives a few miles down the road and is married to one of her relatives now. (just and fyi I had moved away while we were separated so no one in the town or family knew what I had done, only her). Now I feel like the laughing stock of the town. We now have 3 kids and a thriving business. She has turned out to be a good mom and maybe wife also. Another note after we were married about 4 years a guy she knew from work came by to fix something at our house (Something I had no idea was even broken). She admitted to kissing him. She told me at first it was on the cheek. Years later she told me it was on the lips. This all haunts me to this day, I literally have nightmares and can't sleep. Her argument is it was so many years ago, mine is that you should of told me so I could have made the decision to stay or go. I did happen many years ago, but I just found out 2 years ago. I want stay for the kids, but I don't love her. Of course I am not sure I will ever be happy with anyone.

if u get hurt emotionally, its "be a man", if u get severly injured physically its, "buck up and be a man", if your face gets cut off, it would be, "be a man", if your dearest friend died or mother died, it would be "oh stop being a baby and be a man" if the lady youre married to for several years cheated on you for many years, and you get that feeling of ultimate betrayal, heartbreak, sorrow etc, it would be, Who cares, its life, move on and be a man" even if a person was bullied by everyone his whole life, is not physically capable of defending himself, its the same thing, "be a man and stop whining about it stick up for yourself", not realizing that verbally defending yourself, will make it worse, and you'll be ridiculed for telling a adult. basically what im saying is, no matter what the situation whether its extremely traumatizing, very depressing, very painful physically, its the same response, your whole family could have been killed,, your arms could be only hanging from a single muscle strand, or your whole family, and people at school could always ridicule you, hurt you beat you, make you feel worthless day in and day out, despite your efforts to be a wonderful, sweet, loving person, and eventually you just burst with loathsome, depression, etc. the response remains..."be a man, get over it,, move on, its life". people expect us to just hold all of our emotions in, no matter WHAT happens and feel no pain, no matter how severe, like were superman or something,why?

one guy who "talk" to me (flirting?) by saying hello and moving his head as if he was jestering me to go somewhere with him... which I would never do.. people like this really just annoy the hell out of me? I handled the situation by walking away & ignoring him, but it still bothers me

My boyfriend who's 29, has a 20 year old sister who lies all the time, so you can never tell when what she is telling you is real. Today is the third time she has either directly texted me or posted something on social media about my boyfriend that she has somehow twisted a something simple into a flat out lie. Like she texted me one night that he was calling girls over to his place and partying with them in the bar, when it's just him and some of his friends of both genders going to an arcade bar. Then today she texted me at 330 this morning to say he stole a bunch of money from his grandpa, saying that he was buying stuff for my place. I talked to my boyfriend he said it's not true and I know if it was that his grandpa would ask me directly than go through her. What can I do about her? I would block her from my phone, but she's the only member of that part of his family I have a cell number for and that's how they get ahold of me. I can never remember a time when I was younger that I would pull that kinda ****, I have tried for the 3 years we've been together to be an example to her as her behavior and attitude are awful. I don't know if she is trying to break us up or what, all I know is she lies about everything.

My wife has been a stay home mom since we had kids. We have four daughters. She is suppose to be home schooling them, but doesn't really put much effort into it, and won't let me take them to public schools. The 7 year old can't even count until 20, and I'm working 80 hours a week to support everything. The kids usually go next door to my mother's house all day every day and play. My mother is 82 and gets tired of it. (I had kids pretty late). Then a couple of months ago, my wife's mother moved in. She proceeded to quit her job and now I have another mouth to feed and she will NOT help with the kids at all (wont even watch them for an hour while we go to the store to buy food SHE eats). What can I do here? I would get destroyed in a divorce having a stay at home wife for over 10 years and 4 children to support.

i was in love with my bestfriend, it never got out until recently. she didnt care, she even flirted with me on several occasions. she only cared that i told everyone else and she still wants to be my friend but for a while i couldnt be around her and now she's becoming more annoyed that i keep dodging chances to hang with her. i think it's because i am ashamed that i'm so desperately in love with her and she doesn't feel the same. i'm confused because i love her as friend and i want her in my liife always but i also hate myself for wanting her in other ways. what's wrong with me and how can bring myself to save this friendship?

If the person always stay alone, it would be difficult to get new friends / other network and same status in the future? Even after 10yrs, 20 yrs....

We were talking about a story in class where a girl from somewhere in the south of the US had to share a small bed with two of her younger sisters... does this really happen in trailer parks?

OK I met my second cousin on Saturday and the sad part is, we don't know each other at all! I DM'd her twice and no response, should I say something like "hey its me, your second cousin, I'm not trying to annoy you, I just want to get to know you". Will she respond to me? and if so, should I ask for her digits? (her phone number)

Sto da 2 mesi con un ragazzo di 3 anni più di me, e quindi anche con maggiore esperienza. Io sono vergine e non ho mai fatto niente ad un ragazzo. Ieri ci siamo visti e mentre ci stavamo baciando ha iniziato a toccarmela (da fuori i pantaloni) ma senza spingersi oltre. Domani ci vediamo di nuovo, e volevo dargli un pò di soddisfazioni, toccandoglielo (sempre da fuori i pantaloni). Non l'ho mai fatto e quando ho chiesto a delle mie amiche mi hanno detto "fai come ti pare, ti viene naturale, tanto diventa duro in qualsiasi modo"....ma io vorrei un parere dai ragazzi: come vi piace che ve lo tocchino?

This is so difficult for me, he went into OCS (officer training for the marine corps) on June 1st and we have been 2,818 miles a part ever since, we will be long distance for a year. He is a half of me, and we are both suffering immensely. Is anyone else missing someone in the military? Or just long distance in general? We talk when we can, but we only get in one or two snap chats a day if that, more than some other couples get and I am thankful for that, but would still like to know how others are coping...

I believe indoctrination is where you are basically given the ideas, beliefs and attitudes while also being laid back since you don't have to suffer and think for yourself as a pariah. Anyway, my dad has become even more apparent with sclolding and blaming me for just about everything while also forcing me to be resrouceful I'm actually an effeminate male who would prefer to be laidback and to experience that enchanted feeling, which is probably due to a religious figure influencing our life in some enchanting way. I know, because I get this feeling after listening to a song from Hocus Pocus.

The guy I like and I have been talking for a good 2 months. I've driven to see him, he's came to see me, but just recently things turned sexual. I never planned on this happening tho because his record isn't exactly clean. Even tho I knew I shouldbve I kept seeing him and my feelings grew stronger. Recently, he's been acting standoffish. Meaning, normally he would listen to me ***** and moan and comfort me, now it has turned into laughter and basically making me feel like a child. I told him that thebjoke was on him, and bye. Its been 3 days and he's done any and everything to get my attention on social media to piss me off, besides actually TALK to me. Oh, I also left out that he asked me to be his girlfriend and I declined.. Because I do not trust him one bit. Just gonna throw it out there I'm pretty beautiful and most definetly better than any girl he's been with. Now I feel sorta sad for declining, I don't know what to do. I really was starting to like him a lot..

I'm still friends with my ex, yes bad idea, got it... Moving on. My issue is with his mother who I haven't seen/talked to in months but somehow she's still causing me anxiety and anger. She always claimed to like me but somehow always managed to tear me down and I even had to occasionally hear her concerns with me through my ex when we were together. It's been a few months since we've seen each other but I still feel anger and anxiety(doesn't help that I've always suffered some form.... Never diagnosed.... Of anxiety). I just want it to stop but my brain doesn't shut up

My parents spoil my older sister rotten! Please give me some advice on how to deal with this and encouragement on what to do? My parents paid for her rent, paid for her college tuition, paid for literally everything, for my sister and she even went to a private school! My sister does NOT respect my parents at all. She disrespects them on the worse level, she calls them names everyday, never shows appreciation or gratitude, she curses and swears at them every day. My dad drives my sister to work and she is someone done with college, and my parents paid it all off for her! MY sister got a more expensive laptop that's worth at least twice as much as my laptop, i need a laptop for school and my mom will only buy me a crappy cheap laptop that cost $279. My sister's laptop is worth $600 or over. I went to a private school, only up to middle school and my sister went to a paid school all her life, and i later went to a public school! How is this even fair?! For college I'm on Financial aid, and i drive myself to school and all while my parents paid for my sister's books and drover her to school even in college and even now, they drive her to work! i mean wth? My parents treat me so unfairly and when i try to discuss this issue, they just argue with me. It makes me feel mistreated and i don't want to live with my parents. IF i go out to do anything, i have to pay for it myself but they always pay for my sister's stuff without even questioning it. if i ask for books needed for school, my parents will complain about it but if my sister asks for it, they just pay for it. I'm the younger sister. Also i don't speak to my parents like how she does, she orders and bosses them around like servants and she literally uses the most profane and derogatory words to speak to my parents and curses and swears at them like its nothing. She never paid for anything or gave anything back. How do i deal with this? i HATE my sister.

My husband has been changing his routine lately I have caught him in a few lies and he has been distant. When I bring it to his attention he brushes me off and tells me I am crazy. Now he is telling me he can t do anything to change my mind or feelings. But continues to get caught in lies and is reversing it on me. Saying its me not trusting him that s making him lie. I really don t know how to stop thinking like this or how to find out if he is.

Ok so I have a dilemma. I got offered another job but if I take it, I can't keep my old one (i was gonna do part time at both places but it's not allowed). So which one should I stay/ go to? PLACE A: I've been working here for a year and a half. I like the people I work with but I hate my job (cashier). They've hired a lot of annoying people reasontly also. There's this guy I like too. So if I leave I'll never see any of my co workers again and I'll never talk to my crush again! And I really like him/ them :/// I know we won't all keep in touch that's why. all in all, I hate the job but love my co workers. PLACE B: I'll be a barista. It seems fun... I've never done it before. I'll be working with my 2 cousins and 1 friend (all distant relationships though). I'll be getting paid less than what I'm getting paid at PLACE A. All in all, I think I would like this job just not the pay? Please choose either A or B! And don't say it's up to me (that's what everyone keeps saying but I just want different opinions) ok thank y'all!!!

I'm 14 but I'm also a popular young YouTube Gamer I am in shape and I not sitting on my butt all day playing games or anything in fit and do my school work perfectly, but that's not the point Anyways, I have 2 packages coming in to my post office which is about 1.5 miles away from my house at least one package should be over 40-50 pounds at the most. My Dad works pass the time the post office closes and my mom leaves for work and comes home at midnight (she's a nurse) and my oldest brother just left for college & my other older brother gets of school late because he's in Drama at his school so obviously I'm the only one available to pick up my packages in always picking up stuff there because I order YouTube equipment from Amazon because of the money I get on YouTube. I have a 24inch Monitor and a Gaming Chair arriving all I have is a bike to carry it home any ways I could get them home without ripping open my hernia XD or causing TO MUCH attention please answer!!! Thanks in advanced

I mean, shouldn't you make yourself more successful first before bringing anyone else in? And surely wouldn't anyone who respects themselves not want to get involved with unsuccessful people and only date and marry people who are middle-class or rich, so then they can avoid becoming unsuccessful, too? And I'm not a rich guy looking down on people 'cuz I'm low on the totem pole and might never crack even low middle class. I apply this to me like I do to others.

My wife has been a pill the last few weeks. She says our relationship is one sided. On the weekends I wanna go to Lansing to the bookstores, and since I don't drive she has the privilege of driving me. I take my time at aforementioned stores, and sometimes she gets upset, and I say, "What the damn is your problem?" and she just snorts and says she can't believe how selfish I am. I tell her she's being a stupid jerk, and she tells me she wishes I would go behind a barn, which hurts my feelings. You see, I'm a poet. A romantic poet. My wife doesn't appreciate my creative genius though so I've been talking to this beautiful 20 year old Indian girl, who I now see as my daugter. I'm going to try to get her in the country. I printed out her passport. I have a notebook full of our correspondence and her photos. She is the most beautfil girl I have ever seen, and I love her and want her to move in with me, and be the star of my son's movies because he's the next Hitchcock... speaking of cocks, I want a tattoo on my cock... but that's a story for another day. what's with my wife? @Liz: So, do you have an answer, or just a dumbass observation?

Tonight my daughter came over to our house for dinner. When she arrived, I noticed a look of pain was on her face and she was craddling her arm. When I asked what happened, she said she fell down her stairs and slamed her elbo. I asked if she went to the E.RRR which she said she didn't because she stated a new job and doesn't have indury yet. She tried to smile and said not to worry. My wife wanted to take her right over ( her arm was very swollen and bruised looking). She kept saying she was fine and couldn't afford the bill. My wife looked at me. shrugged my shoulders and agreed with my daughter. My wife then said we would pay! I was very angry at my wife ( we are well off an can afford it, but that's besides the point). My daughter had tears of thanks in her eyes. Once at the ER, my daughter confided in us that she was secretly hoping we would help her. My wife, again with out my say in any of it, reassured her and said we would pay I'm angry and feel my daughter only came by for a hand out. Should I get over it or do I have the right to be mad? Her arm has a hair line fracture.

I know it's very wrong but I can't stop feeling hatred and jealousy towards my own little sister. We are only one year apart but it's just that my dream has always been to become a professional model and I've been trying my best to maintain my figure and attempt to grow a bit more taller but she is just so perfect. We're both American Brazilians but I feel as if she received the better genes because she has our 'dad's olive green eyes, my mother's long light brown hair, super smart and she's 5'9 and has a slim curvy figure, but that's probably because she does mma. My parents always compliment her, and me but I always feel as if she's still so much better than me and has a bigger chance to become a model than I do even if her dream is to become a biomedical engineer. She concentrates so much on studies and barely none on guys and I admire her for being able to keep her head up that way , but I get so jealous that I'm not like her , I'm just the dumb sister who let's guys get into my head so easily. And im suppose to be someone she looks up to as her big sister and i feel like such a failure because she really doesnt seem to need me because shes so strong and independent. Moreover what I hate the most is just that she's really nice and modest and the most supportive sister ever and it's making me feel like a ugly monster for having these awful feelings towards her. I really want these feelings to go away, :[ please guys any advice?! Thanks for taking your time to read

Miren la verdad esq aller estube con mi novio solos en su piesa, estába todo oscuro y Entre caricias besos etc ... Empesamos a Quitarnos la Ropa Hasta Desnudarnos Pues Era Mi 1ra vez , cuando el fue a introducir su Pene a Mi no podía :/ y me pidió q yo misma lo hiciera porq el no veía nada, Yo coji su Pene y lo puse en mi vagina estaba encima de el y al querer enpesar me dolió horrible pero aún así seguimos ..pero no sabía si entraba y salía pues no sentía su Pene ! Sólo lo Sentí cuando estaba afuera ! Lo intente de nuevo y Ay si me dolió más pero subía y bajaba el me ayudaba y así estubimos hasta Q No Aguante Más el Dolor y desidi sacarlo le dije q me dolía mucho ! ENtonces cuando subía y bajaba sonaba clo clo Normal Como Cuando algo Entra Y Sale, pero No sabía si en realidad había entrado pues el no me decía nada ni yo a el !! Me dolía mucho y decidimos parar ! Al final nos Vestimos Y Me dieron Muchas ganas de Orinar pero No Me Ardía La Vagina ! Pero me Duelen Las Piernas ! Cuando Llegue a Casa Qise Tocarme Pero No Sentía Nada Ni Tenía Flujo Ni Nada En Mi Panty Me pareció Extraño, pero Siento q Medio Me Arde Mi Vagina Y Mi Parte Trasera "Ano" Jajaja Nose En Cual Hueco Lo Introduje :/ Soy Una Novata ! Y Creó q No entró su Pene Porq no Lo Sentí O Tal Vez Si Pero el Dolor No Me Lo Permitía ! Estoi Confundida ! Ayudenme Será q Si Penetró O Que ?? O Como Saber ! Necesitó q Me Digan Q Sería O Que Jaja :/ ?? O Entró Muy Poco

Im 24 years old and my boyfriend is 28. My dad, well, he hates Adam. I hate to admit it but he does and i dont want to make him dislike him anymore than he does. Im his only "little girl" and we have this really strong bond. He wanted me to lose my virginity to someone i guess he approves of and adam is..definitely not that. I dont want to break my dads heart but i dont want to lie or be disrespectful and say "oh its none of your business". I know im an adult and all but..i dont know just..please help?????

I've always liked verbally fighting with people. I really don't know why like I watch TV shows like Big Brother and Survivor but like is that why I like this? lol like if someone insults me I never let it go I think its a problem...

I met this girl on a dating site we started talking and we went on a double date with her and her friend where we both had a good time. We went out again the next day. We started talking more and I guess she has been depressed because she feels like no one liked her at home (she's adopted/I myself was in foster care) she also recently lost her job. Me on the other hand I have a great paying job I get 800 a week no included the commission I get once a month so I said I'll help her out of she needed it. (I'm also attracted to the fact she doesn't expect me to pay) Anyway this friday we went out and we were about to hook up and I brought up a relationship and she pretty much said I wouldn't want to wait for her. I said depends on how long . We pretty much slowed things down after that. The next day I felt she was being distant so I brought it up she just said she was feeling down and depressed and brought up the fact she wanted to go to church with me. (I'm a born Christian btw Sunday she said we should just be friends and she has a lot going on right now. I said maybe we should stop talking abd she said sorry. Then I said I know how she feels and I would teach her how to drive (that's something she needs to do) she said thank you she really appreciates that. I didn't really respond. Anyway I'm debating stoping talking to her but a part of feels like I should. I kinda like her so I'm gaurding my heart but I feel like I should help her. ANY ADVICE ??

I want to send a letter/postcard to a friend who lives in another country (serbia and turkey) I need help on the formatting, and how I should send the letter, I am very new at this and the streets are so confusing, can someone guide me step by step, perhaps anyone who has sent stuff to a foreign country, thank you x

Desde hace como 2 meses que comencé a salir con una chica que me gusta pero ella tenia novio y termino con el por salir conmigo, ahora a ella le da pena que su ex este triste y dice que quiere que queden como amigos pero al mismo tiempo ella dice que sabe que no es posible porque alguna vez ya fueron novios, el problemaes que su ex no deja de escribirle pero siempre que lo hace le dice que aun la ama, que la esperara hasta que vuelvan y cosas asi pero justo despues de eso el cambia y le dice que ella lo abandono, que fue mala con el, que fue injusto y la hace sentir mal, aparte los papas del ex son psicólogos ambos y sospecho que lo que hace tiene algun truco oculto porque para ser sinceros, pienso que si podria estar causandole algo a mi novia.

My neighbour interferes in my personal life. She is very dominant and fights with everybody. She keeps giving stupi advices. I want to trach her a lesson. How can i do so

Alright so I am going tping for junior/senior rivalry week at my high school. Got any tips for tping? How hard is it to get caught?

Me and my sister (Tania)got into a huge fight We had a tight relationship and it hurts to see how we live in the same house but we cant pass each other without looking down and not hear a single word.(shes 17 and im a 13 boy).This all started cuz of me.I woke up on a sunday morning and made myself breakfast.Everybody was already up and my sister just came back buying a long loaf of bread.I started making eggs and noticed the bread was hard and not soft like how it was suppose to feel.I got kinda mad but shook it off quick.i brought the bread to my sister and knocked on her door,I can already tell she was a little mad cuz she was on the phone and said ''omg''she opened the door and saw how hard it was and said "go away!" and slowly closed the door.Before she did i threw the bread at the ground and she saw.She whipped open the door and got to my face and said"PICK THAT UP YOU UNGRATEFUL F@CK!"That p*ssed me off pretty big and i told her "atleast i say thank you to the cr@p i got and dont complain over that stupid SIM"s game you always wanted!"She came up to me and pushed me into the kitchen and the next thing i knew was we were cussing back and forth each word hurting after another.I was furious because she picked up one of our glass apple decorations and threatened to hit me if i dont shut up.I told her i was happy she hardly visits (she goes to a bording school) because i dont wanna see her anymore and that apple she has,she can go f@ck herself.i regretted what i said.

A couple of weeks ago I was in childhood friend wedding and my child father came to see me in the wedding we have been separate for almost two years. So a week after the wedding my good friend call me to say her family member told her how my child father be next door by her neighbor who is a woman & said how they are in a relationship. So I m like ok we have not been together in almost 2 yrs, but you go & tell the rest of your family members what was said & you talk to our close friends before you told me anything.So she s telling me how I don t deserve that and how the others family members saying she can do better & how they don t like a man they know nothing sbout. He did not cheat on me where not together we are very close & he still financially provides for me. So I just ask him about the situation & now someone is playing on his phone asking when can they meet up @ the club he hang out at so why would someone start texting him asking him that days after I ask him about the situation they will text but not talk are answer the phone. This is crazy so please tell me what yall think.....