My father never changes his clothes and never takes showers he stinks terribly. He has paranoid personality disorder and if I tell him he will think my mother has told me to tell him this because she is seeing another man and she wants to make excuses why she is leaving him. (all of this untrue) We have told him a thousand times to wash his clothes and take a shower but he gets extremely angry and thinks something's up. what the hell should i do??

Okay so last night my sister and I were fighting in her room and I was trying to think of insults and was about to call her a moron but I somehow ended up saying "mother". My parents had just gotten in the room (i didnt know) and since i messed up my words or something it made it seem like I was about to say mother fu****. They just kind of laughed but im still so embarrassed. I dont know how I ended up saying mother... Maybe i got my words messed up, maybe I was about to call my mom, or maybe I was gonna say "mother of god!!" All I know is as soon as i was about to say moron, my brain just completely switched off. I was s confused on how i ended up saying that, i didnt even explain. Then when i had time to explain, i was too mortified and worked up about it. They already said it was fine but I just cant stop thinking about it. I know it isn't the biggest deal, but I try my best to not disappoint them and in a way, I feel like I did. Have you ever cussed in front of your parents on accident? Am I making WAY too big of a deal out of this? How can I forget already?

I live across the country from my parents. We were always close, but when my husbands job moved him far away they got angry. But we were excited for a new experience. My parents now ignore my calls and texts. Last year my mom wouldn t even answer her phone.on Thanksgiving or Christmas!! I don t understand. I know they are sad we left, but cutting us off isn t the answer. I went down and visited and they acted like nothing is wrong. I asked why they ignore our calls, and they said they have been busy. They are retired.... Not busy at all. It s so hurtful because we were so close. And suddenly, cut off.. They visited once and refused to stay at our home. They made us go to their hotel to see them. So confused because they flew up here. We basically sat at holiday inn the three days. Any ideas what is going on????

They are idiots and they think storks deliver babies, how can I explain them a baby is consequence of vaginal sex and vaginal sex makes a woman pregnant ?

I know this is long but I think you'll find it interesting. please tell me if you have read/faced something similar. My father is 62 and He was forced to go to a psychiatrist after calling my mother a whore for dreaming that my mother is in bed with another man and that I killed that man while saving my father. Of course this was a lie. He threw out his pills and said he is healthier than all of us. He says odd things.A small example is when I was in hospital and chemically poisoned,he said I should have taken a shower instead of all this expensive crap.also he said I am not poisoned and it is because I drink cold water. He makes jokes about god and religion,never prays,says he is an atheist,then when talking about other families he says he is very religious and that he will not burn in hell like others. He never takes showers and always wears the same outfit which of course stinks extremely horrible. He never washes his hands and always tells us that we should sterilize everything with alcohol and gets angry when we don't wash our hands. (yes he checks everything) He is afraid of all animals. literally.(even kittens!) also he makes fun of people who are afraid of animals. He has had 0 friends since he was a child and makes fun of everyone and always says how people who don't have friends are stupid. He eats with his hands and makes fun of our civilized eating. He says he is an optimist and is always talking behind my mother's back to me. Btw no we don't live in a cave :D

my wife will soon be entering county jail for seven months for a money crime. . I am willing to stick by her and not leave her because I feel She made some stupid mistakes but it was out of character so I think she just got herself into a bad situation and make some poor decisions. And I am not defending her or saying she should not serve her punishment. I told my kids she is rightfully serving her punishment which is the right thing for her mistakes. I am wondering what is the best way to prepare for this situation and how to handle it. I have a daughter who is 15 and she seems to be handling it fine. I told her right away about it and she reacted pretty calmly. She later joked about how her mother is "getting ordered around now". I think it is just a joke and I think it is better to be that way instead of being hysterical about it . I was originally not going to let her visit her mom in jail because I would think exposing her to that environment is not a good idea but I am actually hearing that it is a good idea to let her visit but why? isn't it a bad idea to let a 15 year old be exposed to a jail. She could easily be intimidated by the guards and inmates and just the area. My wife says bring her if she wants to visit but don't if she doesn't. She says she doesn't have a problem visiting but I am not sure. Also I want to make sure it doesn't feel like the whole family is in jail . I am not sure what the benefit in visiting is over phone calls

My parents are the worst thing in the world, I'm 15, Whenever my mom doesn't get her way or is told something bad, she goes in her room and threatens to commit suicide, shes an avid drinker as well and takes out her pent up anger on me by yelling, my mom constantly tells me how i'm failing in everything even though I have good grades, She also never lets me have any privacy ever, walking in on me masterbating and sleeping and ****... My dad is an avid drinker as well, he takes out his abuse on me by yelling and telling me i'm worthless and how I need psychological help and stuff, he also recommends I cheat in school and constantly barges in while i'm fapping like my mom.. What do I do? I hate my parents so much that I doubt its going to be long until I snap at them, i've considered running away to another family members house who said they would accept me, but I really don't want drama and I think its selfish to ruin people's daily lives by causing so much drama at once.. What do I do? Also this might not seem bad but imagine it EVERY ******* DAY

I have an injunction against my ex. We have 3 small children together and it is set to expire soon. How likely do you think it is that I could have it approved to be extended if he is an alcoholic? The judge is already aware he was drinking and driving with our daughter in the car when we initially got the order. He was also admitted into detox a year ago. I don t feel comfortable with him having access to the kids whenever he wants because he is a drinker. Right now he has supervised visits and is pending criminal charges (domestic). Do you think I have a good chance since I m trying to protect my kids? Also my daughter has come home saying that he is drinking and I found beer in his mothers car while unloading the kids, and it s his kind of beer. Thanks!

Me and my brother sister were playing hide and seek after school, and I crawled into a bush in our backyard. When my sister found me, she stepped on a spot in the ground that sounded hollow. We then got out shovels and thought we found treasure and started digging. It appeared that we found the foundations of a previous structure from a former owner of the property. Under about 2 feet of soil we found a metal hatch cover. We had to pry the cover open to try and find the treasure. We managed to saw through the rusted metal bracket where the lock was and we got the hatch open. We then found a deep hole and we climbed down a rusty ladder into a basement like room. Off of the room was a bricked over arched hallway. We had to hammer through the bricks over the course of a week to reveal a stairway going down about 25 steep steps to a steel vault door with an electronic code lock. We couldn't figure out the code, but we found an air vent next to the door, which we were able to unscrew the cover on. We then sent my younger sister in to the vent she could barely fit through so she could go into the vault and open the door from the inside. We had to cover her with dish soap so she could slip into a bend in the vent. She then got in and we had trouble keeping in touch with her via walkie talkie due to static. She then found a green button by the vault door and the door unlocked and we got it open. We found electric lights and working plumbing in the vault and what seemed like a lab. Behind the vault door we found a "library" full of numerous bookshelves and a tv and a computer as well as a wooden bar and mirrors on the opposite wall as well as a sophisticated chemistry laboratory. The books includes subjects such as Astronomy. Modern Dance, Ballet, Chemistry. Fine Arts, Alchemy, Astrology, Choreography, Mathematics, UFOs, Geography, Evolution, Physics, and English Literature. The library also contained several trunks filled with paintings, jewelry and lace. The laboratory contained numerous chemicals labeled and unlabeled on a countertop with a sink. Among the chemicals was a jar of blood red liquid labeled Caduceus, a bottle of liquid labeled oil of lysergia, a jar of little red circular pills, spirit of salt, oil of vitriol, acqua vitae, oil of antimony, magic acid, a jar with a bunch of rolled up foil in liquid, reygulus, doryphoros, camp fuel, bleach, draino, red devil lye, and a jar full of match heads, and tons of match books, and bug spray

Who blames everyone else for their problems? They can stub their toe and some how it becomes someone elses fault. All he does is gripe and complain and can't talk to people in the house without getting angry.. even if they are being nice. And you can't say anything to him about it or he gets mad and defensive and turns it around on others. He gets upset over the smallest things like towels .. he acts like he is the only person in the house entitled to a clean towel or he gets mad if someone gets in the shower before he does or if my cat sits in his lap wanting to be pet. He use to not be like this.. How do you handle negative people? I need to mention that he is my Husband

I'm 17 and have been with my boyfriend for a year. my mom wont let him take me out anywhere. the only way were able to see each other is if were in my house. its getting really frustrating we dont even have privacy because i need to keep my bedroom door open and my dad walks by every few minutes. how do i talk her into letting me go on a date?

Im 18 a senior in high school. I have been smoking weed for a month. So I came home stoned and my mom figured it out then the next day my dad found out. He flipped me out told me to get my *** home. I went home and talked to them about me being smoking weed. My dad called me a stoner hit me in my face a few times and I socked him back (defending myself). He kicked me out and told me I had a choose to live their or smoke weed. But they saw my grades dramatically increase I have a 4.0 rn and they saw that weed been helping me with my grades. My mom said I shouldn't do weed if it makes me do better. Right now I'm staying at my friends house my sister is understanding my dad hates me disowned me as a kid assaulted me. I told him weed gets rid of my aniexty,depression and my panic attacks and help me with school. He dident me hear he got mad and said weed is illegal blah blah. But is weed that a big deal . Dad and mom disowned me because of weed. Kicked me out. Dad socked me in my face help me please. I don't wanna stop smoking but if I do go back they will drug test me weekly. I love weed .

I met up with a old school hs friend. She's now hot and when we met up she tried giving me a hi hug. I didn't know how to act. I got stuck/nervous so i didn't hug her back. It got really weird and she instantly pulled back halfway through the hug. I guess she felt rejected. As soon as she left i txt her apologizing saying i totally wasn't expecting a hug but that''ll i'll show some love next time. She didn't even txt back. Did i do the right thing???? now i'm worried/wondering if i now look weird in her eyes. What if i'm wrong and she didn't even try hugging me. No i don't like this girl we are just cool.

She is 65. She works 2 jobs. She smokes like a chimney. She is about 30 pounds overweight and she has high blood pressure for which she takes medication. My grandma lived to be 86 and she had health problems too. Should I be scared. What can I do? She is my rock!

Sorry, this is long I'm currently 18 and I am attending my first semester at a community college. I don't feel at home and I want to move out to the Boston MA area this summer (I'll be 19). My best friend and her family live out there, and I would be staying with them for the first month or two (they consider me family). Afterwards my friend and I would get an apartment together after we are on our feet. I was originally going to move out there after I got a degree, but since starting I don't know if I can stand staying here for 2+ years. There is a community college near where I would be living that I would begin attending hopefully in Spring 2017. (6 months residency gives you in state tuition at community colleges) I currently have a job, and barring an emergencies I would have several thousand dollars to move out there. So money isn't the biggest issue here. My two main issues are with my family, and how I would get there. I love my family very much, and I know moving out there will break mom's heart. I took a 2 week trip this past summer, and talked to my mom every day. She cried every time we talked. What would be the best way to explain this to her? It kills me knowing how much it will hurt her but this is something very important to me. My second issue is how I would get out there. My friend and I made a tentative plan, but we aren't sure on the practicality of it. She would come out here on Amtrak, with as little luggage as possible. After visiting with my family some, we both would head back on Amtrak. Amtrak allows 2 carry ons and 2 checked bags free. (8 bags between us) I don't have that many posessions, so I would definitely be able to fit everything in less than 8 bags. Sorry for the long post, any advice is appreciated

You have 2 siblings from Nigeria in your childcare center, ages 2 and 4. The 2 year old has difficulty playing with the other 2 year olds in his class, and always wants to be with his 4 year old sister. The sister is very bossy with the other 4 year olds, and often becomes loud if she does not get her own way. You are concerned about both children's adjustment in their classrooms. When you discuss this with the mother, her solution is to let the children be together in the same room. When you discuss the older sibling's behavior, the mother does not see anything wrong with her behavior. Questions: · What are at least 3 specific things you can do to move the conversation along with the mother to reach a solution? · List at least 3 cultural and/or family issues that might be involved in this situation that you need to think about. Be sure to be specific here. · Give at least 3 examples of what you can do for each child in the classroom to ensure they are learning and are comfortable in your center.

I woke up to hear shouting of my mom and grandfather. I went to the other room to check what was going on and I saw my mother crying because of bruises inflicted by my grandfather and her lip was bleeding, I asked what happened when my grandfather left. My mom explained everything. My mom is currently working in this milktea business, they started their first simulations so my mom had to leave at 9:30PM (has my 2 younger siblings the whole time) When my mom came home it was around 10:20PM my grandfather came over and asked why did you come home late and my mom explained (milktea business simulation) and my grandfather(drunk) said "pinapabayaan mo and mga anak mo"(filipino language) which means you leave your children unattended. He then started to slap my mom 4 times and continue to assault with punching. Resulting to the inflictions stated earlier. I have taken a lot of bull**** in school but I will not tolerate the abuse of one of the only family I have left, my mother and father are separated. I respect my grandfather so much for paying for my education and some needs and wants but this is too much. A lot has happened between my family and his step family. I want to know if I can do any counter-act with this, is this legal? my grandfather is 69 and my mom is 39, is this considered as physical assault and are we (my fam) able to charge penalties or something? I live in the Philippines and I am 13 yrs old, hope that I could get some answers.

Please state your age if speaking from personal experience.

When his lights got cut off, he got upset with me because I wasn t HELPING HIM get money. I am a recent college graduate trying to get on my feet. He doesn't want to get a job because he doesn't want to "conform." He wants to be a rapper. He wants to make a studio set up in his apartment. Now, he already had one, but he sold all of his gear to pay the light bill because he doesn't have a job. Now, he wanted me to bring my microphone and interface, that I use regularly to record myself, for him to use to make money for a studio that he would use for himself to make money. Although I don't feel that it is fair to do so, I agreed. I did because I would use his gear when I went to his apartment. But, he always had access to it. I live 45 minutes away driving and 2 1/2 hours on the bus away from him. We both don't have cars, so the distance between us is 2 1/2 hours. And he NEVER travels to me because my mom has banned him from the house because he likes to cuss me out, he's disrespected me sexually on Facebook. He hasn't made it right. So, I would NEVER have access to my own microphone that I paid for unless I travel 2 1/2 hours. But, I AGREED to let him use it. But, going to his apartment, I completely forgot to put the microphone in my bag. He has become completely dramatic about it, saying now he can't make money. He's cussed me out, he's been distant. Even hanging up the phone when I called to say I love you. Am I wrong for forgetting? Is that even my job as a partner?

I turn 18 next month and my dad got a job offer on the east coast. He's moving in two months, but I want to stay here in California. He's always been overprotective of me and never let me experience life for myself. I graduated high school at 16, so I'm in college right now. Should I just move in with my boyfriend instead? I want to save up as much of my money as I can instead of getting my own place. I've known him for a while and he has a pretty big place and wants me to stay. I'm getting my certificate in something so I could get a decent paying job and go to school. I can take care of myself, but if I don't go with my dad he said he'll never speak to me again. What should I do? I don't want to go and be homesick...

My brother in law which is my husband's brother, got tickets to six flags from his construction company. They are giving out 4 for every employee. My husband got 4 also. I asked my sister in law who is also my cousin if she's taking her kids, she said noise it's going to be hot and she doesn't want her kids to be crying all the time. So she got a babysitter. I told her that if she wants to go on the rides, I'll watch them for her. She's 24 by the way. I'm 18 and I have a baby too. I'm taking my babybbecause I don't like to be a bad mom leaving him anywhere just because I'm going to have fun. My cousin said she didn't want me to take care of them because what if I wanted to go on rides too? So I told her that her kids should not bother her. She said this, "they don't bother me. But I have one day to be alone with my husband and I can't enjoy that? Id like to go go on the rides also. If I wanted to bring my kids and watch how my husband has the time of his life without me, then I would have stayed at home instead." Sounds to me like she does not want to take care of her kids and Shes a bad mom. Who doesn't take their kids to amusement Parks? Please help me make her understand that she has to take them?

I asked my cousin if she wanted to go out for a pizza but then my mother reminded me that I had to go to dinner with her and my father . I felt like an awful person for cancelling tha plans with her.I explained the situation to her and she still is upset ( and saying things like now I changed for nothing/I was kinda expecting this ) the thing is this is the first time I ever ditched her so why is she so upset? If I remebered the dinner with my parents I wouldn't have asked her.

I'm a 30 year old guy and still live with my parents. For a while now, I've been dying to move out mainly because I need my space, I want to learn to be more independent and also, my parents and I tend to easily get into arguments over the slightest thing. I feel that moving out will be the best thing for me. But my parents tell me that I am making a big mistake. I even turned to my dad who is supposedly the man of the house and is a guy like me that went through the experience of moving out of his parent's house when he was younger. But nope, he doesn't understand my reasons at all. He wholeheatedly agrees with my mom and thinks I should not move out. He thinks moving out will separate our family and that I should stay. I keep telling my parents that I'm 30 years old and most people have already moved out before then. But then they keep telling me that "life is not a contest" and that I should take my time. So, with BOTH my mom and dad telling me I'm making a big mistake with my wanting to move out, I'm wondering if they are right. After all, I'm outnumbered on the vote here… 2 against 1. So, I don't know. Since I'm in such a dilemma here, I need some people's feedback here. Are my parents right that moving out is not the answer? Should I continue to live with my parents even though I'm already 30 years old?

I am 18 and he is 16, and I used to always tell him what to do like go outside and exercise and brush your teeth well, and drink enough water, and floss your teeth, and don't eat too much sugar, and don't be on the video games all day! But he got really annoyed of me doing that but I was just trying to keep him healthy. Now he says he is doing it all on his own, and he doesn't do any of it! I never see him drink water, he sits and watches tv, he eats a lot of sugar and sweets! Should I go back to helping my brother stay healthy? It makes me feel better knowing that I am making him a healthier person! Answer please! Tell me why I should not care about my brothers health? Or how much water he drinks? Now that I have stopped telling him how to be healthy, he doesn't whatever he wants, like he will sit inside and play video games and sleep all day and eat only sugar! It bothers me that he is letting his health go to waste! Please help me not care anymore

This is a childish 'question' yes I know. But it really bother me. He is 21 and I'm 15, he only started working about 5 months ago but even before he was working he would always get the basement to himself. I wouldn't care if he actually used the whole basement but he only uses the room that is downstairs in the basement (so his room) now that he does work, my mother would ask for 10 dollars in gas or money for cigarettes if we were in a tough spot. To that, he would give her a very hard time and expect even the slightest amount of money back to him the next day, so why would she want to give him a whole downstairs that no one else can go down to, if he can't even help a little. When I try to talk to her she says "But hes older and needs his space" and to that my question is if he's older why doesn't he go get an apartment? No I do not want the basement to myself, I just want to be able to chill down their and watch TV without all the commotion that happens in our current living room (it's connected to the kitchen, a hall to the bedrooms, the deck, and the garage so people are constantly in and out and talking) I'm sorry it's so long, I kinda needed to vent and I just want to know a way to at least get my mother to think about just giving him a room and making it equal.

Me and my mum had a massive fight last week that she caused/started. During the fight, mum called me names such as "b*tch", "d*ckhead" and even "c*nt" a couple of times. Ever since the fight, I've been completely ignoring my mum. I haven't saw her or spoke to her in days. I refuse to be anywhere near her. My dad, siblings, my mum's friends and my relatives think I'm the one in the wrong and my mum's the victim. Since Monday, my mum was crying because of me ignoring her. My dad said I should be ashamed of myself for causing her to crying her like this. My older sister and older brother said to me directly that I'm "f**king scum" for ignoring her like this and for causing her to cry My mum's friends and even some of my relatives have even turned against me. I've even overheard one of my cousins who I was close with saying to my mum "he's a f*cking vile scumbag for upsetting you like that. He should be deeply ashamed of himself." Do I deserve to be called a "scumbag" for ignoring my mum? Do you think I'm the one in the wrong and my mum's the victim, or is it the other way around?

Any tips on how I could introduce my Palangi/Mexican boyfriend to my typical overprotective Tongan family? My brothers are your ususal "no man is ever good enough for my baby sister" Tongan brothers and my sisters are no different. I'm the youngest of 6, at 17, with a pretty big age gap between myself and my siblings so you could only guess how they treat me. My Dad, whilst I'm the biggest Daddy's girl that ever lived, is a fairly intimidating man and my Mum, oh lord don't get me started on my Mum. He really wants to meet my family seeing as I met his over a year ago (yeah we've together that long) but I'm literally shaking at the thought of what might happen. Any help? Please!

Ever since I can remember my mom has never been a fit parent. Growing up she couldn't handle the responsibility of raising a child. She often used my grandparents as a security blanket so she never really had to do anything on her own. I am now 22, and considering raising my 7 year old brother. He is experiencing the same thing I was when I was a child and I do not want him going through that. He takes medication for various things and my mom can't always afford it so she is inconsistent which obviously has an effect on his health. She is also abusive. I went through this as well but it seems like he is getting it worse than what I was. I want to know if anyone has raised their siblings. If so what is the process like? I do have a full time job and live in my own place.

I moved into my uni flat on Monday and was very upset to say goodbye to my parents even though they are only half an hour away and will be staying with them 3 nights a week. I've got a permanent lump in my throat and woke up this morning and haven't stopped crying for an hour. I feel ridiculous because I'm 18 years old and need to start acting like it! But all I want is to be at home and I just feel so overwhelmed and anxious. My accommodation cost me 5,000 so I'm scared to tell my parents I want to come home. It's only been 2 days, do you think these feelings will pass?

i need to support myself. I am a college student and nothing was left for me when my parents died.

So My husband and I have been together for 5 years and all of these 5 years his kids have been very jealous of my daughter and I. He is 14 and has Autism NO matter what I do to make him feel wanted at our house he always says he doesn't feel wanted because we get "special" treatment that he doesn't get. Needless to say that is NOT true. I go out of my way for this kid and he is constantly talking about how he practically wants my 5 year old and I completely out of the picture while he is around he wants nothing but ALONE time with his father. Well like I told my husband it's not happening We don't need to leave our home because he wants ALONE time with his father. I have tried everything and I am to the point where I don't know what else to do I need some advice here. He also has lied about a lot of things one being, that I supposedly grabbed a plate from him after dinner and yelled at him about it. His older brother even said that was NOT true. what should I do here? Any advice will help greatly thank you. sorry about the dinner plate comment let me clear it up he said that I took it from him and yelled at him about taking care of it. His older brother usually races me to clean up after dinner lol

Ok so my father passed away a few months ago. My parents were divorced for as long as I can remember and they were best friends. My dad left me with his computer and other stuff. He was a great dad and he made some dumb mistakes and the last few days he was alive I. Was so mad at him. Anyways I m dating this guy whose dad isn t the greatest dad in the world. He s overcontrollig has really bad OCD and i think he abused him once too. Anyways for some reason I m hurt by this. Like so hurt by it and I don t understand why. Cause he doesn t live with his dad he s with his mom. I feel so bad because I know his dad isn t a great father and i don t understand why I m the one in pain I wasnt the one who was abused. I wanna stop hurting by not talking to him about it cause I don t want him to feel guilty or get mad at me or anything. Can anyone help me how to stop hurting really bad? Am I selfish?

I've honesty haven't talked to him since I remember but we're exactly the same age and well ... We're cousins. I want to get to know him & we're both guys. I honestly haven't had like a real cousin that I talk to often , so it would be cool if I could somehow break the ice so we can be like super close cousins and have that brotherly bond. I can't really visit him because we're in different places but we have Facebook to communicate. Please help

Me& my daughter alone till she was 8, no support or help. Found dad. He sees to grown up and want to be involved. She moved in with him &his awesome wife. They ended up separating &he left my daughter there, which her step mom was ok with so she could finish the school year &I sent her support. My daughter had depression &signs of bi polar with a lot of anxiety. father hasn't seen her in 2years &ignores the kids he made with the step mom. she (stepmom) my daughter of trying to strangle her oldest girl &told me you have till tonight to get her or I'm dropping her at the court house. (8hour) round trip, her dad was abusive. Her step mom&I have been meeting half way so my daughter could go to dr she has gotten to known &trust. Than I'm told she doesn't wanna move home at all. She's gonna live with her step mom. Who deprived her of 6 months of school &supplied alcohol to her &her friends. I tried talking to her dad about who has custody considering he left &hasn't seen her in 2years &ended in an argument. Than he called cps on me (not knowing his kid was a mile away) for God knows what, they disappeared. Since then step mom told me no when I said my mom &I are coming to get her. Stepmom told me she won't release my daughter to us &how enrolled her in school. County building said (before she left) they'd handle it but did nothing So who has the legal rights here?? Thank you to a who read my long explanation!! Any help is greatly appreciated!! Thanks again!!

My cousins are asking me questions about if my bf and i are having sex, who spends the money, when we are getting married, and if any problems in my relationship. does anyone find this a bit too personal? It is hard for me to believe that they would ask something so personal. I know they both are having problems with their husbands right now since one of them got knocked up (shot gun wedding) and the other just started a family too, however she is struggling with finding help with the baby with her husband. I have been with my bf for 4 years and we do not really have a lot of issues just disagreements. I do not want them to know when getting married or other personal information ( been discussed). When i say it is not for them to know they insist on pushing me to get information. example: i said i will not tell them when getting married or when want to have kids, my cousin will say ok well let me guess and i laugh. Than she says oh is that wrong and starts guessing again. My other cousin does not like me and i know both of them talk, even though they say they do not talk to each other. Has anyone experienced extreme behavior of personal questions with family? What you think of this?

I m currently 21, and live with my mother. Unfortunately, I have a heart condition and I m not healthy enough to support myself right now, but I have been going to college full time online, and am working on a Bachelors. I have a 3.8 GPA, and have 3 years finished Every day, my mom is constantly insulting me and ruining my self esteem. She calls me a "loser" for not being able to have a boyfriend because my health. If a friend comes to visit her, she always yells at me and calls me an embarrassment. It gets even worse when she drinks. She ll throw my belongings at me, and say things like a "hookers are less of a loser than you because they can work" and says that I have to "Pay her back" for making her spend money on raising me as a child. She constantly tells me she wishes that I was never born, and NEVER takes it back: regardless of if she s sober or not. Obviously, it makes me feel really bad about myself. I m already extremely lonely because I m too ill to have a normal school life, but on top of it, my mom makes me feel like garbage because of something I can t help. My dad is not around, and has t been for years. Most get the joy of being able to live on their own once they re grown.... I m stuck in a wheelchair and I never get any encouraging words or support. I do nothing wrong, yet every day, I feel guilty from all the emotional abuse. I don t even remember what a hug feels like... I don t know what to do... Maybe I just wanna hear some kind words for once...

I'm seriously thinking about committing suicide i hate my family they don't treat me well my dad hates me my mom hates me and i have made no sales on etsy, I'm bullied a lot at home, my parents refuse to let me move out or get a job i can't take it anymore. my dad keeps saying shut up to my face when i ask to move out, its like I'm not part of a family, I get non stop threats on the internet saying you should be thrown in jail for being retarded i have social anxiety and I'm terrified of going to a job interview and i get bullied for not doing drugs, drinking, smoking or getting laid when i don't want to do that im 23 years old and a women and deserve freedom i don't have friends, i don't have a car, i don't have a drivers license, i can't leave home i really confuse

Im Muslim but I don t cover and most people don t even know I cover but my parents want to chose my husband for me but I m in a secret relationship with my boyfriend but he s not Muslim and we re pretty serious he s even cool with me being a Virgin but my parents will never let me marry a non muslin and they would disown me but I love him. HELP

my parents got divorced when I was 5 heand I am currently adopted by my step father. (I m also 16) I haven t saw or spoken to my real father in about 6 years. is it a bad idea to visit him? he s older than my mother, so he is getting quite old. and I would like to see him before something bad happens to him. he was a bad alcoholic, (but I ve done some creeping) and he seems to be clean. he s tried reaching out to me on Facebook about 2 or 3 times but not knowing what to say, I ve ignored him. any opinions would be greatly appreciated! thank you!

I have five uncles one aunt. I was diagnosed with cancer at 22. My uncles never call, come to my appointment with me or even just offer. They never text either. Only one uncle (who is also very selfish but not as bad as the others) gets in touch with me and texts me and comes over. The rest are god awful, one of the uncles actually told me that it's not a "priority" for him and he has other things he needs to do (btw none of my uncles wives even message me, to see if I'm alive or ok) Another uncle actually had the nerve to ask my father to hook his wife up with a job (my father has allowed each one of my uncles to live at our house when they were in a financial struggle, gave them loans, and helped them out in EVERY way possible. Yet this is how they behave? How should I act with them? My wants nothing to do with them but won't stand up to them.

She has a Huge family, and her family is very close. I feel like she'll look down on me for not having many friends /family to hang around. Am I over reacting

i live with 2 big brothers my dad and myself i have my own room and i was gonna let him sneak in on friday night hes gonna get in from my window but there is a screen i was thinking about breaking it but how will i put it back together? cuz i know sum where down the line my dad or bro will know do you think i will get caught? do you think my neiborghs will call the cops if they see him? cuz he coming through the window

Im a 14 year old boy who has alot of friends and feels good at school. When i get home i am abused. I think my mom hates me. I think my dad is over protective. I think my mom has issues i think my dad has 2 personalities. I ve been spanked count less amount of times for stuff i do not do or when im right. My parents always think their right. I love basketball thats why i havent killed myself yet. I feel like i have a good chance of making it to nba if i push farther enough. My dad buys me stuff. Hes cool but then hes terrible abusive worst farther alive. He has bad memory and thinks hes always correct and my mom is right. My mom ignores me. She doesnt like me it s clear. She trys to get me spanked by my dad always. Im not alowed to hang our with friends at parties or the mall except the basketball gym. My mom has a nasty temper so does my dad. My mom acts like a 10 year old and sticks her tounge at me or says fck u or sticks the middle finger. I ask a simple question and im ignored "Hi mom how was work?" -she ignores me- My dad doesnt trust my friends. Were a crew thats smart . he compares me to trayvon martin idky? I don t do drugs. My friends dint neither were athletes trying to be ourselves. My dad thinks i try to be a gangster. (When i dress like a athlete. Nike shirt n pants and SOCKS AND SLIDES). help me i wanna kill myself been through alot of pain i didnt even explain the tough ones because of too much space in this text please help me before i kill myself. =(

My sister and I live together. We half rent and utilities. Well she hasn't had a job in 6 months. She says she is trying but I don't believe someone can't get a job in that long. I tell her to go to fast food cause its better than nothing. She says no she isn't working at fast food. She hasn't helped to buy food, shampoo, toilet paper, ect. in 6 months. I'm not worried about food money and other things but half rent and other bills I've been paying for her she owes me about $2100 dollars. I could really use that money. What do I tell her? How can I motivate her to get a job? She doesn't understand that it's life. She's 21 and needs to grow up.

My mom (by adoption) calls me a little ***** and a slut. Is she allowed to do this?

So, a month ago my Meemaw passed away and I am just now getting to where it isn't hard to get up in the morning, then, I found out yesterday, my grandpa Junior passed away. It was kind of expected for my meemaw, she had been sick for 3 years now. But my grandpa Junior, was healthy. H all of the sudden he had a heart attack and died. Why is this happening. 2 people in a month. I am really afraid that my grandmother is next. She is 93 and just not able to do stuff like she used too (because, well. She's old). I can't handle this again.

Im her father and I pay child support every week, Im not estranged or anything..she just lives 2 hours away and I dont get to see her much and her mother doesnt let her call me when she wants

So 4 years ago, I caught my dad cheating with my moms best friend. I kept it to myself for a while them eventually I had to tell my mom what was going on. After my parents trying to work things out, they eventually gave up because my dad thought he did nothing wrong. Leaving my mom heartbroken. My mom went through terrible anxiety and depression but she is a strong woman, and now she's a lot stronger. My parents got divorced last month and only now my dad is feeling regret about what he did to my mom and he's feeling the way he made her feel. I'm not going to lie, i've been heartbroken for a long time. Ever since i found out, things haven't been the same. I feel sick after i eat most of the time. I had terrible anxiety as well which i still have, I just got used to it or maybe i learned to cope with it. I was depressed to the point where i stopped going to school and stopped talking to my friends. I also stopped doing things i enjoy. My fathers really down and he expects me to listen to him vent about my mom and how broken he is. It truly breaks my heart and it breaks me when he talks to me about how hurt he is and i'm just at a loss for words. I don't know how to be there for him when i can't even be there for myself. I'm battling anxiety and depression right now and possibly an eating disorder as well. I just can't stand being in our old house which he now lives in (mom lives in another house) and i can't stand seeing everything and remembering everything. Most of all, it hurts me to see my parents cry and listen to what they've done to each other. It breaks me. I cry all the time, since what happened. And not to be selfish but i really feel as if that's their business and i can't handle that kind of atmosphere.. I don't want to break him more by telling him i can't / don't know how to be there for him but i'm breaking myself if i don't. I love my parents, I just feel as if we're going backwards and it bugs me so much.. what should i do?

Me and my husband have been living in one of my fathers empty houses for a while now at least 2 years paying utilities and fixing up the place , recently my sister left her husband and my father has sent her to live with us including all 4 of her kids, the front room blind are torn , she does not wash dishes or clean kitchen or the kids bedroom, she does not wash kids either the house is a mess , I've tried talking to my father and her nothing works , I think she is being slack because she wants me and my husband out , we will leaving soon but how can I deal with the stress till we leave?

Hey yahoo! I'm 16 (male) and people think my mom is my sister when we walk together and guys my age sometimes ask things like"aye, yur sister single" and I don't really know how to answer them. I mean I see their mistake(she's 4'11" and I think she looks pretty young, like no old lady skin or anything( but I don't think she looks like my sister) .... So please I need your thoughts on this (funny, weird, sad?) and what I should tell the guys that ask cause I'm usually at a loss for words! Peace😀

Hello! Thank you for helping me make a decision: I just turned 15 and I live in America. My parents are both alcoholics and a few mins ago my dad called me the laziest person he's ever met and a fat ***. He constantly insults me. DCF has been to our house many times. They have a dysfunctional marriage and constantly argue. My options are deal with it till 2019 or move in with my sister in Maryland.

My mother passed when I was 5, and I don't have the richest family and the funeral fee was 11,000, but we never paid it off. But I turn 18 in three months, and I'll have enough money to put a tombstone on her grave. Will I be able to do so, or will I have to pay the funeral fee's first? thank you

HOW DO YOU TURN OFF CAP LOCKS?? YESTERDAY, I ACCIDENTALLY TURNED ON MY CAP LOCKS ON MY IPHONE AND IT WON'T TURN OFF! ALL MY FRIENDS ARE MAD AT ME BECAUSE THEY THINK I'M SHOUTING AT THEM OVER THE INTERNET! MY PARENTS THINK I'M BEING RUDE, AND MY FAMILY STOP REPLYING BACK TO MY EMAILS BECAUSE OF THIS. THIS IS LIKE LITERALLY RUINING MY LIFE, MY FRIENDSHIPS, AND MY FAMILIES THROUGH EMAILS. I JUST WANT TO BE AT PEACE AGAIN WITH ALL HUMANS ON THE INTERNET!

okay so my little sister is 9 and she's always had a problem with pronunciation.. for example she would say '' can you g-g-give me your your pen '' or '' you-you-you look nice'' and i kind of feel bad for her cause she gets bullied at school a lot and she feels bad about it too . is there anything i can do to help her talk normally ? thanks very much

my mom rented out our old house for 9 months and right now my mom is living in taiwan and i live with ny grandma and her husband and he s very negative person I hate being around him... everyone tells me 9 month s will go by fast. but my grandma with this man and she doesn t even speak English and he s a typical red neck guy and he s so racist..but my grandma loves him anyways..my mom said we don t have money until 9 months were wr get our house back and get to move again... I don t know how to make this Time fly quicker

I ve got a great story for you! My computer and charger disappeared this morning. I was really stressed since I worked to earn the $400 myself. I had no clue who took it. After school I walk outside to get something and my mom s parked her car 2 houses down talking to my younger sister. I ask Mom if she knows where my computer is. She hands my computer to me saying it s broken?! Where s the charger? She rolls up the window and says she can t hear me. Then drives away?! I never gave her permission. She didn t tell me she was borrowing it. When my dad called her earlier today she said she didn t have it (they re going through a nasty divorce)! Do you have any idea what I could do?? Police?