Marriage & Divorce: Question: Seeking a show or special of or with Carol Burnet.? |
- Question: Seeking a show or special of or with Carol Burnet.?
- Question: Am I overreacting? My husband will give our 1 year old long kisses... For example, He'll rock him to sleep while laying completely flat...?
- Question: I got married august 15th and i still don't have my marriage license how does it take in the state of va to get it back?
- Question: Is it true that if your significant other says they would forgive you for cheating...?
- Question: What do women in their 50's like better cunnilingus or intercoarse ?
- Question: Men chat divorce?
- Question: How do i seduce a married woman?
- Question: My boyfriend is not loyal to me. 3d time he cheated. Am I stupid for forgiving him and staying with him so long?
- Question: Can you still go to hell if you watch porn and doing mastervating once a mouth?
- Question: Did my wife cheat on me?
- Question: Should I let my ex husband take my daughter out of town with him?
- Question: Do boys only want love if it's torture?
- Question: If a woman is married to another woman, what is her title?
- Question: I hate being human.. the details disgust me :( help please?
- Question: If a woman is married TO another woman, what would her 'title' be??
- Question: Wife says she has feelings 4 another woman & treats me as if I m the problem. I m deeply committed 2 my marriage and our daughter. What 2 do?
- Question: Which type of relationship is better?
- Question: What are normal boundaries for a divorced couple?
- Question: How to make marriage work?
- Question: Do you feel like a lot of young people are not prepared for marriage properly?
- Question: My partner is bi I am gay and we love each otger we are both men I am 20 he is 38 both we are really handsome he was previous married to a?
- Question: Can I donate my house to family member before divorce?
- Question: Ex husband contacted me after 3 years we got divorce and we didnt see each other...we decided to meet it as a brief meeting..now 2nd meeting?
- Question: My boyfriend of 1 year has a key to my place but hesitates to help financially. What should I do?
- Question: My husband is being paranoid?
- Question: Do I sign a marriage license as a witness with the name on my Social Security card?
- Question: My husband and two little boys are over in germany and we are all four americans my husband has gotten a job with a german company through a contract?
- Question: Has anyone ever discovered their significant other taking secret nude photos of you?
- Question: Why most of the people believe that pre- marital sex is more entertain than post marital sex?
- Question: I've seen several dynamics of marriage, which ones are the "wrong" one?
- Question: How should I handle this situation I'm in? Was I wrong for doing what I did?
- Question: Would you marry a guy that has little interest in activities?
- Question: Why would a married guy only want to be friends in private?
- Question: What does ur spouse have access to once married...?
- Question: Is it wierd that im 39 an watch anime an play video games but still work an pay bills?
- Question: I NEED TO KNOW WHERE ALL MY FOLDERS WENT!!!!!!!!! I HAD A LOT OF IMPORTANT PAPERWORK SAFE FOR MY HUSBAND TO COME TO THE US AND I NEED THEM?
- Question: Child Support Question?
- Question: What would you do?
- Question: Husband cheated with his step sister and countless women.?
- Question: Partner constantly brings up how attractive some other woman is?
- Question: Fun ways to spice up your marriage.?
- Question: How to keep your marriage strong.?
- Question: We are eloping to Hawaii. We are going to tell immediate family on the day by phone. I need help finishing this off please?
- Question: MEN:- would you be able to accept the fact that your wife is actually the BOSS in your family ?
- Question: I've seen several dynamics of marriage, which is the "right" one?
- Question: Can I force my wife to contribute financially?
- Question: Husband wants to sell deceased father's home to family...who can't afford it?
- Question: What should I do? Should I work it out.?
- Question: What's the purpose of marriage?
- Question: So tired of the control in my household but there's nothing I can do. What would you do (talking to her doesn't help)?
- Question: Should I divorce my husband?
- Question: Im a permanent resident filipina here in japan and married a filipino in philippines and wanted to annul!?
- Question: I am trying to reconcile with my husband, does it sound like I'm making any progress?
- Question: Been married for 10 years but then i found something and i don't know what to do?
- Question: Partner for 7 years is thinking weather he wants to be with me or not over something so stupid. Please help!?
- Question: Can I get my spouse to pay alimony I was Avondale t?
- Question: Found a weird hidden folder in our computer? Can someone help me!! i'm scared........?
- Question: Why do I get jealous over stupid things?
- Question: I feel like I m disappearing as a person to my husband since he retired. Suddenly I can t cook, grocery shop or say anything right.?
| Question: Seeking a show or special of or with Carol Burnet.? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 09:10 PM PDT Hubby's boss coming to dinner, and wife has problems buying the meat, the sink malfunctions (I think), all manner of calamities befall her, including burning dinner and all but destroying the kitchen and or house. Saw it once only; late 60s (?). |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 08:46 PM PDT When our son falls asleep he will kiss him lobg as if he's a woman. Sometimes, a little too often, my hubby will have drink in his mouth and spit it into my sons mouth. My son now hides his face when I ask for a kiss or turn around as not to give me one. As soon as his dad asks for one he puckers right up. This just doesn't seem right to me at all.. His,my son, cousin he's 1 yer old also and when they were around each other he kissed him in thw mouth. My child doesn't try to kiss his sisters in the mouth.. So again am I overreacting to this? I don't feel like I am...but need unbiased opinions please and thank you! |
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| Question: Is it true that if your significant other says they would forgive you for cheating...? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 08:31 PM PDT It means they have already cheated or are planning on it? |
| Question: What do women in their 50's like better cunnilingus or intercoarse ? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 08:24 PM PDT |
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| Question: How do i seduce a married woman? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 07:54 PM PDT I only like to sleep with married women. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 07:43 PM PDT I've been with him for 3 years. In the 3 years we've been together he's left me heartbroken so many times with his lying, and his cheating. The first time he cheated on me with my " best friend ". I forgave him and he promised it wouldn't happen again. Maybe 7/8 months later he's kissing this girl he meet at a party. Again I forgave him. But this time i don't think I can. Hes been sleeping with this girl from my job for a 2 weeks now. I just found out today because she told me. She got my number from his phone and just texted me everything. I cried and started packing my things. He came in and and stopped me telling me hes gonna change be different. But I've heard it so many times . He like dumped everything I packed on the floor and started kissing me. I was crying basically balling my eyes out. I ended up having sex with him. I felt so stupid after. I feel stupid for staying with him this long. I just love him so much . advice . in the beginning he told me that he did have commitment issues and had trouble staying with one girl. But like he already said he would change . |
| Question: Can you still go to hell if you watch porn and doing mastervating once a mouth? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 07:35 PM PDT |
| Question: Did my wife cheat on me? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 06:01 PM PDT I was in jail for 9 months |
| Question: Should I let my ex husband take my daughter out of town with him? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 05:50 PM PDT My daughter is having a fall break coming up and her dad wants to take her to Florida during the week along with his new wife and her kids but I don't want him to take her. Mainly because when she does go with him she's upset when she comes back not because he has done something to her but because she acts like she wants to stay with him which hurts my feelings. Plus I feel I should be the one taking her to Orlando and not him and his wife who isn't even her mom. And I know she'll be even more upset and not want to come home if they are taking her there. I'm thinking of saying no and preparing for the fight that will follow but should I though? She's 7 |
| Question: Do boys only want love if it's torture? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:58 PM PDT |
| Question: If a woman is married to another woman, what is her title? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:51 PM PDT I didn't get to finish my question, would it be Ms still since she does not obtain a males name? Which would be Mr(s)? And even if a woman is married to a man, can her title still be Ms. PLEASE ANd thank you! |
| Question: I hate being human.. the details disgust me :( help please? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:49 PM PDT some times its the pain of my period... sometimes i eat something innocent and it makes me in pain when it shouldnt. also being a woman is another layer of heartache as i am a low-will person and i have to shave my entire body (for the most part)... and i am hairy! i dont have the will to do it....so i feel ugly a lot of the time. also i have a big nose i also hate that i have to wear deoderant to stop smelling. but i hate smelling bad in any way. i would be happier being an angel in the astral realm. the human details just stress me out. on top of that i am scatterbrained and spaced out constantly. i'm studying something i love in college (art) yet i still find it so hard to even read a chapter at home from the textbook. i found a guy online who is just so perfect. but if i ever showed him how i look he would be disappointed. i dont have a beautiful face or body. i'm not hideous but i know i like looking at a beautiful man and would marry one if i could so i think any guy deserves a beautiful woman too. which i will never be. so how can i with guilt free conscience, ever date a man? |
| Question: If a woman is married TO another woman, what would her 'title' be?? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:49 PM PDT |
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| Question: Which type of relationship is better? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:45 PM PDT This kind: "I love him or her because he or she lets me nap on the couch after work while he or she helps our kid with the homework. I get mad at him or her when he or she sells my weights at a garage sale without telling me." Or this kind: "I love him or her because he or she completes my being and when we are together it's like we are the only two people in the whole world. I get mad at him or her when we argue and he or she says something to me that utterly destroys my soul." I have had both kinds in my life. For about ten years each. I would like to know from you: Which one is better? Which do you prefer? I am a guy and the two types are referring to women. I used "He or She" to get a wider set of responses. BTW these two relationships are not going on at the same time. First kind is with me now, second kind was before. |
| Question: What are normal boundaries for a divorced couple? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:41 PM PDT My wife is divorced and gets along well with the father of her children even though he is a deadbeat and does the bare minimum to be a father to his kids. She says he's a great father so some odd reason. They also discuss personal things a lot such as his problems at work, his car problems, his fathers dating life, etc. Is this normal countries for a divorced couple? |
| Question: How to make marriage work? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:39 PM PDT My husband and i have only been married for 5 months but been dating on and off for 6 yrs and have 2 children. He is an amazing father he wakes up early daily gets them ready for school, takes them to school . He works day i work evening. I still make sure i show him love, affection and appreciation and he kinda lacks that. I feel like im begging for attention he says he will work on it and doesnt. I recently told him to move out temporarily i feel love should be expressed equally i have been patient. By the way im 24 and he is 26 although young our only issue is him showing me attention. All else is great. What is an alternative option to helping follow through. |
| Question: Do you feel like a lot of young people are not prepared for marriage properly? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:32 PM PDT I mean, it seems like most people just focus on the sex when it comes to marriages, when other skills that are useful to marriage are not learned, like cooking or home repair. Can anyone learn to be good at marriage? What is needed to be a good spouse and start a good family? |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 03:47 PM PDT woman and I want to ask him to marry me how can I do it cause he hasn't ever brought this subject up I mean marriage. Help I want to marry him. |
| Question: Can I donate my house to family member before divorce? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 03:43 PM PDT |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 02:45 PM PDT He cancelled it why? He said he doesnt feel comfortable seeing me....I asked him if he is still mad or angry or upset he said no. He said just leave it alone. What you guys think when you feel uncomfortable seeing your ex wife? And how about you ladies what s you think? What I should do? Block him so I wont going to hope he wil text me again or just leave it like that not blocking him either.... He is my first boyfriend he knows he always will be special for me. I guess I should start to date and find my future husband.... |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 02:39 PM PDT Ok I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months.. He will take me out to eat, movies, or a local fair & pay (although there are times he's as me to go half) but as far as offering financial help around my apartment he won't... Sure he has bought me bowls, a shower mat, and other nick nats for my place (aspirins, an ice ect)... Mind you, I don't ask or pester him about helping with rent, utilities, or groceries because I am good in that department... BUT I asked him if he could help with the cost with birth control in a few months due to I'll be switching from the pill to the shot... This is our 2nd time having a go round about birth control ... He said "I don't want to sponsor anyone & I don't wanna take on that financial burden"!!! BIRTH CONTROL is benefiting the both of us!! I was so upset I cried and he held me and apologized but this is the 2nd time he's said this... I plan on having a talk with him tonight and telling him that I would like my key back and we need to take a step back into the dating phase... He really hurt my feelings being this is the 2nd time... His makes about $15.00/hr and gets 40 hrs a week, lives with his parents, 27, no kids, and graduated college.. His parents pay half his car note & from what I know he sometimes spends his money on marijuana andn dining out.. |
| Question: My husband is being paranoid? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 02:36 PM PDT I got married about 7 years ago, dated him for also about 7 years. When we were young he always used condoms. He never wanted to take a chance but he loved sex and so I tried it and was hooked on it. We both did not want kids but our views on abortion is different. He is pro choice and I'm not. Right before we got married we both agreed condoms are not meant for married couples so started on from my wedding night we did the pull out method. This was messy but fun and lasted about 1 1/2 years until he heard his young cousin got a girl pregnant doing this so he freaked and bought condoms again. Then he was getting weird. He started pulling out when the condom on jerking till he finished which didn't satisfy me so he started taking off the condom and finishing on my stomach and such. We had a talk a few months ago and I went to my doctor and IUD sounded like a great plan over pills. Well, they placed it in me and was ready to go but my husband keeps using condoms and refuses not to use one. He told me he would love nothing more then finishing inside me but doesn't trust my bc. He also won't get fixed either. So what can I do? |
| Question: Do I sign a marriage license as a witness with the name on my Social Security card? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 02:22 PM PDT My best friend is getting married this weekend and I know I ll likely be signing the marriage license as a witness. I changed my name on my social security card since I recently got married, but not on my driver s license or anywhere else. I assume, I sign with the name on my social, right? I never use it but want to make sure this is legal. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 01:55 PM PDT We are only aloud to live here if he has a contract...anyways the boys and I have not gotten out german pass yet ....anyways my point to my question is my husband and I are not getting along he has threatened to take my boys and he has taken there passports away from me. ....I don't know where to turn I need advise |
| Question: Has anyone ever discovered their significant other taking secret nude photos of you? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 01:39 PM PDT |
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| Question: I've seen several dynamics of marriage, which ones are the "wrong" one? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 01:11 PM PDT Macro & Micro - Micro manager enforces the laws and rules of society, religion, school, American culture, you name it. Macro manager controls the micro manager to keep them in check so they don't go "too far". Dom & Sub - Sub does whatever the Dom tells them to do. This differs from Macro & Micro because Sub doesn't think for themselves like Micro does. Also, Dom is not the same as Macro because Dom does it to be in control, Macro does it because Micro is OUT of control (no self control). Burdened with Glorious Purpose - Neither person is in control. Instead, they do the "duty" of a higher power (God for an example) and are instead controlled by their belief system as taught by their church or by their interpretation of the Bible or book of Mimetic writing. And when consequences are to be had, they blame themselves for not "doing it right" instead of the book to which it came from... Modern Day Feminism - Neither person is in control. Instead, they live individual lives, only interacting to pay bills, have sex, share an entertainment moment, and to occasionally do something romantic (without being emotionally connected because that's some sappy, Disney, possession hippy crap - strong women don't need a man). Live and let live - Kind of like Modern Day Feminism only they WANT a romantic relationship but can't achieve it because they are trying to stay on their side of the boundaries... This person wouldn't believe in Public Displays of Affection but would yearn for it. |
| Question: How should I handle this situation I'm in? Was I wrong for doing what I did? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 01:05 PM PDT I'm 25 years old and moved into an apartment a few months ago. Across the street from me is a house where this married couple lives. Liz is 42 and her husband is around the same age. When I first moved in, Liz came over and introduced herself. She was very friendly and I couldn't get away from her. She asked for my cell phone number before she left in case we needed to get in touch. Off and on, Liz would text me late at night. Eventually she would text me selfies. Last Friday night, Liz texted me and said her husband was out of town for the weekend and asked if I would come over and move something heavy for her...so I went and she was in a bikini. She said, "I'm sorry, I'm getting in the hot tub after you leave. That's why I have this on"...so I moved her statue thing from the back to the front. As I was about to leave, she said, "you're welcomed to get in the hot tub with me if you want"...And I said, "I don't know if I should, Liz"...then she said, "Nobody will know. It'll only be for an hour. We can talk"...so I went and got my swimming trunks and got in. Talking quickly led to her snuggling up beside me and I quickly got hard. We ended up making out in the hot tub and eventually went inside and had sex. She told me she and her husband are getting a divorce but I still feel guilty about it...but in the moment, her body looked so beautiful, I just gave in. For 42, she looks amazing. She is getting a divorce, but does that excuse what I did? |
| Question: Would you marry a guy that has little interest in activities? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 12:50 PM PDT Say the guy has no, zero, interest in sports and says big whoop and twirls his finger in the air. He thinks sports and sporting events are a big waste of time and of peoples money. He has no interest in attending concerts by musicians or plays. (did though with an ex-girlfriend) He has no interest in going to movies. (did though with an ex-girlfriend) He has no friends-you are his only friend to do things with. He thinks running is boring. He is not into being physically in shape. (did though with an ex-girlfriend) Once the pet (a cat) dies he does not want another, but you do, but he forbids it because of the expense when one goes on vacation to get someone to pet watch. Always talks in sexual overtones with you, and not much else. Everything gets referenced back to sex. Stares at women in front of you, takes pictures of unaware women, takes secret nude photos of you. Secretly took a picture of you sleeping. Crushes on a divorced female co-worker at work and raves about her to you-he is seeing the opportunity because she is at a vulnerable time. Tries to get females to pay attention to him with antics. Attributes: Loves "projects" around the house. Ask him to do something and it will get done. Some physical activity: Will occasionally hike on trails. Tells you, you are the love of his life. His love, that you make everything beautiful, but has told ex-girlfriends the same thing. Would you marry such a man? |
| Question: Why would a married guy only want to be friends in private? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 12:32 PM PDT When other work people are around he pretends like he doesn't know me and looks down when he passes me IF other people are there.... BUT when it's just us he's so nice and open. Plenty of people who are married are friends at work so I don't get it? I'm NOT talking about sexual stuff |
| Question: What does ur spouse have access to once married...? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 12:17 PM PDT Does anyone kno....if u get married can your spouse find out information about u without u telling them. For example. Credit score medical records kids etc.... ( kids...died don't like to talk about it or tell him hurts too much. But will eventually tell him ) |
| Question: Is it wierd that im 39 an watch anime an play video games but still work an pay bills? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 12:15 PM PDT My wife gives me a hard time |
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| Question: Child Support Question? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 11:47 AM PDT |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 11:41 AM PDT I am a mom and about to go thru divorce, few months ago I had to put a restraining order in my husband. I had a temp order until our court date. Couple days before he had gotten hold of few my friends and mom and was being so sincere on wanting to fix things, he loved me and missed us so much. Well our baby was going thru some big tests at hospital and still is, and I decided to drop TRO, and wanted to work things out for us and kids. Well things were good for about a week and then started going back to his normal stuff and calling me names and belittling me that I am nothing and will have nothing again and threating me again saying he will go to his lawyer and divorce me now. His temper is so bad and he gets so out of control that I get scared, cause yes he has thrown things and punched/broken things many times before. He also hasn't once believed he did anything wrong and that I am a horrible person for what I did and taken his kids away from him for 40 days. I am so scared of what he will do, more importantly I am scared for my kids and I. I wish I would of never got rid of the order but I felt he was being so sincere, but I guess I was the dumb one to think that. There is so much more to this, I am not allowed to talk to anyone or call anyone, cause he checks my phone calls on AT&T site. And then he gets so mad if I talk to anyone. What would you do? Please no haters here~ |
| Question: Husband cheated with his step sister and countless women.? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 11:18 AM PDT My Husband cheated on me with his step sister. I originally found out he was a cereal cheater 1/1/13 when I found a fake Facebook he left open and was messaging women while I was knocked out. also messages between him and his step sister, I still didn't believe it was that serious, maybe they were just flirting. My husband didn't admit to anything just that it was a mistake and she flirts with him all the time.. When I found messages again this past feb 2015, I messaged her she ignored me for a couple days. Finally she replied to me with a message going into detail about how this was a 10 year thing and that she had feeling for him so he had to have feeling for her. I confronted him and he admitted but again didn't want to talk about it, just that it was a mistake and she came on to him.. I also have seen countless profiles I found on a fake Facebook account he had. some talked about sexual experiences that they shared and others were talking about hooking up... My main question is,will he cheat again? eventhough he swears he changing and will never hurt me again. I have to ask cause I feel like I'm in a constant war in my head fighting off negative thoughts since we are trying to reconcile this relationship. He swears up and down that he loves me and was going through a tuff/immature time during the beginning of our relationship being married so young(19) and that now he wants to make things work, |
| Question: Partner constantly brings up how attractive some other woman is? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 11:08 AM PDT Is that normal ? He is 34, so it's not like he is a horny 18 year old with no filter. Anytime we go out together his eyes wonder around and he always makes at least one remark about how so and so sitting alone over yonder is hot, it's always a woman that looks nothing like me, am Asian and he likes white girls. Doesn't just stop at women we see in public, he also makes comments on women he sees on tv, perverted stuff too like, " I would love my cuum on her face " type of stuff or ' I'd like to phuck her". Anytime I've asked about his past partners, he goes way into detail about what they did sexually and how hot he thought their redpuzzy hair was or whatever it is that turned him on. Should I dump him ? Also, I'm Asian and short only 5'0 and he always talks about how he liked tall girls. He does compliment me, but it's like by the time he says anything nice to me, he has already said so much other crap that I don't even care that he has anything nice to say at all. Anyone else in a relationship like this ? |
| Question: Fun ways to spice up your marriage.? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 10:09 AM PDT |
| Question: How to keep your marriage strong.? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 10:07 AM PDT Hello, I'm twenty-seven years old. I've been married for the past two (2) years and they say the first few years are the toughest and if you make it, you most likely will for the rest.. it's a saying, and most would claim its true, in a way. However, I am having difficulty coping. I am trying my best, but I feel lonely in the marriage. Mind you, I love my husband dearly and he loves me, there's no doubt. I think he needs to spend more time with me and our year and a half daughter, but he is always at the gym after work, every day of the week. I asked him to sacrifice one, just one and he did, but that day, he spends his time with his consoles in hand. I should be thankful for a faithful husband, although I had episodes of questions, so did he toward me so i'm not judging him. We're same age, both young, and I think I need a little push. No, i am not a nagging wife, I give him free space and time to hang with the guys, I hang with the girls, and sometimes we hang together, but that's not VERY often, and I would like more movie time, take our daughter out, just the three of us go for ice cream. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 10:05 AM PDT This day ten years ago our love story began. Today on the beautiful island of Maui, with the sun setting above, we met by the ocean, we joined hands, we said sweet things, we kissed ( what can I put here) I want it to finish like this - will continue our story as husband and wife Im not that creative - any help please For facebook to tell our other family members and friends and probarly along with a teaser photo. |
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| Question: I've seen several dynamics of marriage, which is the "right" one? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 09:14 AM PDT Macro & Micro - Micro manager enforces the laws and rules of society, religion, school, American culture, you name it. Macro manager controls the micro manager to keep them in check so they don't go "too far". Dom & Sub - Sub does whatever the Dom tells them to do. This differs from Macro & Micro because Sub doesn't think for themselves like Micro does. Also, Dom is not the same as Macro because Dom does it to be in control, Macro does it because Micro is OUT of control (no self control). Burdened with Glorious Purpose - Neither person is in control. Instead, they do the "duty" of a higher power (God for an example) and are instead controlled by their belief system as taught by their church or by their interpretation of the Bible or book of Mimetic writing. And when consequences are to be had, they blame themselves for not "doing it right" instead of the book to which it came from... Modern Day Feminism - Neither person is in control. Instead, they live individual lives, only interacting to pay bills, have sex, share an entertainment moment, and to occasionally do something romantic (without being emotionally connected because that's some sappy, Disney, possession hippy crap - strong women don't need a man). Live and let live - Kind of like Modern Day Feminism only they WANT a romantic relationship but can't achieve it because they are trying to stay on their side of the boundaries... This person wouldn't believe in Public Displays of Affection but would yearn for it. |
| Question: Can I force my wife to contribute financially? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 08:57 AM PDT We both earn the same amount of money. But I am the only one who pays the bills, our daughter's expenses and other house expenses, food etc and don't really have enough money to buy anything else. While she doesn't contribute at all financially and uses her money only for herself going out, shopping etc. I don't think I am being selfish. I'm not asking for her to not use her money at all on what she wants. But I don't think I am wrong in asking for her to contribute equally on all the expenses instead of not giving a single penny. |
| Question: Husband wants to sell deceased father's home to family...who can't afford it? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 08:33 AM PDT My husband's father passed away almost a year ago. He lived in a small town full of relatives that visited often and a young couple to whom my husband is related was familiar enough with the house and said they liked it. Initially they approached my husband far to early and he just wasn't ready to let the place go. They said they'd been approved for a loan that they'd been looking for a place and not finding anything they liked as much as my father in law's place. Months have now passed, we've got the old place pretty much cleared out and are ready to sell it. My husband is somehow emotionally attached to the idea of the house staying in the family. Now we find out that the kids who wanted to buy were never approved for a loan that was anything close to the value of the home. My husband has suggested that we do a rent to own for them. I see a terrible outcome on the horizon. I don't think they'll be able to pay, I don't think they'll take care of the place and I really was hoping for my husband and I to be able to invest the proceeds of that home. I also think they knew that they couldn't get a sufficient loan and were just hoping my husband would be fool enough to let them live there for whatever they could afford. He probably would. I'm not that nice. I feel I should persuade him to sell the home outside the family but I'm not understanding his emotional attachment to having the place remain in the family at all. Does anyone have advice on how to handle this? |
| Question: What should I do? Should I work it out.? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 08:32 AM PDT So 4 yrs ago my hsband cheated on me with some girl who went to the same college as him. I forgave him, we got through it (because he didn't sleep with her). Fast forward to the present My hsband was out with his best friend and his friend showed him a picture of a girl at work that is interested in him. Small world it was her. My husband told his best friend who she was and what had happened. While my hsband was at work his best friend came to see me, to explain himself I told him that there was no need. He said that he never new and that that women didn't hold a candle to me. Now that he knows who she is he won't talk to her because he doesn't respect women who go after married men, and because he respects marriage, it has kept him from doing what he really wants. He said he doesn't know why men that have it all screw it up. I told him, what are you trying to say? He said it would be better if you didn't figure it out. He gave me a kiss on the cheek and left. I feel like he was saying he had feelings for me. I won't lie I'm atrackted to him he's a 10. He's my hsband best friend I would never cross that line, but he is sweet and now that I think of it he always remembers my bday. He knows I love to read and got me tickets to an author book's signing. He carved a book shelf with my favorite quotes. To make thing worse my hsband contacted he again saying oh you like my friend now she said not asmuch as I liked you. He responded good lets meet up. |
| Question: What's the purpose of marriage? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 07:35 AM PDT And what benefits does it have over just living together. You can have kids either way. And if you are happy you could just spend the rest of your lives together, if you aren't you could just leave and that's all. While in marriage if you are happy it's the same you live the rest of your life together if you aren't you need to stress over divorce. Doesn't seem like some sort of benefit. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 06:52 AM PDT Been with my wife since she was 20. Over the 14 years together she developed some intense anxiety issues as a result of childhood trauma (she's in denial about this and arrogantly won't seek professional therapy). To cope with these intense anxieties (caused by normal every day uncertainties) she has become a micro manager. She controls the kids, me, and she has achieved a management level position to reinforce her micro management role in the workplace. She spends so much time controlling everyone else that she, herself, is out of control. She copes with this by using electronics to "overcome stress". Meanwhile, our marriage is neglected and her social life has been put on hold indefinitely (and so has mine since she was a part of that). At first, I let her control me too; I did this because I didn't realize this would create a dom/sub dynamic in our life together. Eventually I got tired of the abuse and "grew up" by getting therapy. After that, I just did my own thing. The nagging began and I found myself getting sucked back into her micro management... This had to stop. In the recent 2-3 years, I became a macro manager to my wife - I was managing the manager. It was the only way to restore some level of balance in our household. She hates me more and more each day since she needs to be the tippy top of the hierarchy to feel safe. But until she stops controlling the world around her, I have to restore some level of balance to create a sane environment. What would you do? |
| Question: Should I divorce my husband? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:50 AM PDT I'm 35 HE'S 59. Been married 7 years and have one child. We recently reunited after a 6 month separation. We separated because he hit me. I also hit him out of self defense. After I took our son away from the volatile situation he told everybody including the police that I broke his nose and run off with our son. When I started working and going to school he would accuse me of cheating and would never help with our son The only good attribute is he provides for us financially. I also discovered he was texting other women and took pictures of the conversations. He caught me and immediately went into a rage and disconnected my phone. I now have no phone yet he knows I'm expecting important phone calls. I am suffering as we speak from a swollen thyroid and he doesn't care. He instead keeps insisting on having sex with him. When I refuse he gets upset. This marriage is affecting my health. I have no family close by. What should I do? |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 03:52 AM PDT marriage diddnt go well and he left me with card debts ( my credit card actually, we use my credit card when his salary is not enough. He also left job may times without me knowing). He just left came back to philippines. He also promised to give our child financial support but he didnt! I want to annul. Is there any possible grounds for this? Our apartment ("danchi" goverment housing)is still under his name and it cannot be forwarded to me if were still married. I am the one who gave him visa and his guarantor. He still have 3 yrs left to stay here in japan but just decided to go back to philippines! Running away from his responsibilities! |
| Question: I am trying to reconcile with my husband, does it sound like I'm making any progress? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 03:49 AM PDT We have been separated for the past three months and I am doing anything and everything I can to make the relationship work. He's been pretty closed off, but he's agreed to read a book about saving a marriage. I asked him if he would like to go out this weekend and he said "Let me get back to you on that, okay?" and I left it at that. I'm not sure what to think, but I do know that a month ago I asked him to go out and he gave me a straight "No." What do you guys think? |
| Question: Been married for 10 years but then i found something and i don't know what to do? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 03:36 AM PDT My husband and I have been married for about 10 years now, but i recently just found out that my husband has been watching erotic/pornography films for sometime and for some reason i feel scared and terrified about. I feel so scared that i don't know what to do? should i confront him or should i just keep quiet, i don't want to just point fingers since he has been under a lot of of stress and i don't want to cause more stress on him, but to not know a person that you've been married to for 10 years is terrifying for me. Can anybody please help me?? |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 03:30 AM PDT This morning my partner went into the shower , I normally go into him somethings and join and he loves it. I walked to the bathroom door and it wouldn't open ..I found it strange because we don't have a key or lock on the door .. I looked into the bathroom keyhole and he was there watching porn and wan*ing. I walked away straight away .I got upset because he knows I don't like that and I was naked beside him in bed and wouldn't have sex with me. So I said it to him when he got out and now he's saying I was ' spying ' on him and I'm unstable and that he needs a long think weather he wants to still be with me or not. I didn't do it to ' spy' I wanted to see why I couldn't get in to my own bathroom. He also denied the porn and wan*in. He said I'm a lier but I no what I seen. He gone off now and won't answer my calls or texts . I honestly have been nothing but amazing to him for 7 years and I love him so much..I just can't believe he wants to think about us . And I was supposed to see him later and he said ' forget about later that's not ever happing' what should I do ? I don't want to look needy but he ALWAYS wants to think about us or he says he can't do it anymore it's never me . I been told this million times :( any advice please and why is he like this ? What should I say or do |
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| Question: Found a weird hidden folder in our computer? Can someone help me!! i'm scared........? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 02:16 AM PDT I found this weird hidden folder in our computer, it was about 64 gigs total, there were a couple of files name tmp.tmp.idd or file named from tmptmp4-9 each about 5 gigs but what terrified me the most is that there was a txt file and inside was filled with links to erotic websites or download links to horror movies or romantic/erotic movies?! i though this was some virus or something but then i saw my husbands uploadto.us account password and id written on the bottom page, this freaked me soo much, there were also fake pdf file which is actually a romantic/erotic france movie???. i don't know why but i feel so scared... what should i do! it was not a .tmp file since the file name itself was called tmptmptmp1 or tmptmptmp2 with no file extension, but what i was weirded out the most was by a text file inside the hidden folder(different from the tmp files) which was filled with download links to erotic movies, on the bottom of the text file was my husband's uploadto.us account id and password. the hidden file was cleverly hidden inside a hp folder in program files. i knew my husband would stay up late downloading ebooks(about 30gb) but i never knew he looks at erotic videos this thought kinda scares me since we've been married for about 10 years and not knowing this side of him scares me.... is it normal for husbands to do this? i don't know anything anymore.... can anybody help me??? Please answer it as serious as possible!! |
| Question: Why do I get jealous over stupid things? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 01:17 AM PDT I'm jealous of my husband because he just came here from the Philippines in July (I petitioned him to come to America) and he already has a job (I have been going to multiple job interviews since I was 18 and he has had 3 job interviews with 2 job offers) and a driver's license. Okay, I'm not jealous of him having a driver's license, but the fact that he has already tried driving on the free way and I cannot or not allowed to as I don't have my own car to use. He drove with my biological mother who I am not close with. I am 23. Why am I jealous of these things? |
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