Marriage & Divorce: Question: What is the best way to get back at deadbeat dad? |
- Question: What is the best way to get back at deadbeat dad?
- Question: How do I get out of getting married?
- Question: Married Friend Keeps Making Passes & Sending Penis Photos (Advice?)?
- Question: Haven't done the deed with my wife since we had baby 2, 3 months ago. Mood was great and was fun, then I look and my daughter is opening....?
- Question: Is it okay to have the name change only on the marraige certificate?
- Question: Should I be thinking of divorce?
- Question: Why is calling your kid a ***** good parenting disapline because my brother saw this girl that was sitting on the porch and he father yelled?
- Question: Do i have to change my last name after i get married in texas?
- Question: My wife is into sexual humiliation?
- Question: How do I stop myself from falling for my brother-in-law?
- Question: Food Stamp Questions?
- Question: Was this just a affair?
- Question: 17 years of marriage and now it feels like its all just slipping away. December will make it 3 years since we have had a sexual encounter?
- Question: Is there anything wrong with a 42 yr old man being in a relationship with a 28 year old woman?
- Question: Husband wants to marry his mistress. Does he truly love me like he says?
- Question: Wife gave another man head a few years back but refuses to give me head?
- Question: Husband wants to keep me and marry his mistress. Does he really love me like he says?
- Question: I feel like my husband is cheating on me. It's driving me crazy! I asked him to show me his phone, he refused. I think he's texting someone.?
- Question: Why is polygamy and polyamorous marriage illegal when its between consulting adults?
- Question: My husband is drinking lime and baking soda every day. what effect does this have on a urine ?
- Question: Is it wrong to be in love with another woman when I am supposed to marry my girlfriend this year?
- Question: Why is it I keep getting hit on even though I wear a wedding ring and I'm in my late 30's?
- Question: Is monica goodwind epps in Milwaukee married?
- Question: As a woman if I masturbate a lot, doI reduce my pheromones or do I reduce the chance of attracting the opposite sex?
- Question: If I have a lawyer, do I need to show up in court for an annulment/divorce?
- Question: How to get my point across to my husband and 3 boys age 19 17 15 to help around yard and house im not there maid?
- Question: Is it right to keep your pet when you get married if your spouse hates animals?
- Question: If I marry a brazilian girl who is visiting the USA for au pair duties, does that mean she can stay in the USA forever with me?
- Question: How do I change my name after marriage?
- Question: What if your spouse stumbled home, w/2 nude partners requesting w/one to use after.......(this is a "WHAT-IF" not "WHAT WILL YOU DO".....?
- Question: If you're a single man past the age of 35, are you pretty much done when it comes to marriage?
- Question: I'm single and aspiring to be a stayathome dad. I'm ready to get married and have children.How will ladies I'm dating react when Itell them?
- Question: I feel my husband does not love me an d our children from his attitude towards us.he always goes to bed alone,all my 3 kids always want me?
- Question: Can our marriage survive this infidelity?
- Question: Is it true that half of all marriages end in divorce or is that a myth?
- Question: On average what is a long enough period of time to wait after a divorce before seriously dating anyone again?
- Question: Married Men: Would you be ashamed of being married to a frugal/practical woman, that LOVES to coupon?
- Question: Marriage advice. My wife and I have been married for 5 years. I found out she has been talking to her ex. With bad intentions. Help?
- Question: Husband falling for another women?
- Question: Help me please!?
- Question: Could the institution of marriage compete with fwb and live in relationship in future?
- Question: If a woman dresses really feminine is at she then responsible if men hit on her at work?
- Question: Should I ask my daughters if they meet "him?"?
- Question: If i say to my wife you dont know how to argue - can this statement be generalised to mean that she does not know how to cook?
- Question: Care giver at home husband for the wife?
- Question: Wife made me wait ten minutes for dinner after I got home how should she be punished for not having it done on time?
- Question: Fiancé asked for a break, texted me this morning?
- Question: Why dosent the wife ever seem to know anything is wrong. When her husband is Cheating I Look at her Facebook page. I don't think she has...?
- Question: I hate my wife?
- Question: Should I divorce my wife because of this?
- Question: Why must men pester me? I have a fiance and i can't explain numerous times I've told guys im taken and don't respect that. I feel like..?
- Question: Naked husband gros se me out?
- Question: Is 1 month in a half too soon to mention marriage?
- Question: My husband is more interested in porn then being intimate with me?
- Question: I have a crush on a married couple? Help me figure my life out?
- Question: Wife making me wonder if I married a lesbian?
- Question: My husband doesn't know how to save money?
- Question: Why does fiancé get mad about me not answering phone, even though I didn t hear it?
- Question: I don't want my wife to work. Should I stop her?
| Question: What is the best way to get back at deadbeat dad? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 09:01 PM PDT He is living the life with his new wife and hasn't given a dime to my baby. My baby is almost a year old and he has never had the time to see her. Should I contact his friends on social media and ask them to contact him for a b-day gift? Yes, I'm in the middle of custody and child support but that will be finished in another year and a half. |
| Question: How do I get out of getting married? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 08:53 PM PDT Hey guys I'm a 20 year old guy that's never had a girlfriend, and quite frankly never will. Im totally against the idea of marriage and I'm actually happy being alone, but my parents always try to force marriage down my throat. My father has controlled me his entire life and will force me to get married when the time comes. How can I get out of getting married? (And don't tell me to tell my parents I dont want to get married, they will never listen to me trust me i've tried it before) |
| Question: Married Friend Keeps Making Passes & Sending Penis Photos (Advice?)? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 08:44 PM PDT I have a married friend who doesn't live in the same city as me but we keep in touch time to time, mainly during the holidays we email to say hello, ask how life is etc. Lately he's been sending inappropriate emails as well as sending photos of his penis. I have already made my point clear how he should stop and he did for awhile, then started back up again. Should I tell his wife and show her the photos he sends me or just blank him out? |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 08:42 PM PDT Our bedroom door. Mood was killed. Does this happen to a lot of parents out there? To me it was devastating. |
| Question: Is it okay to have the name change only on the marraige certificate? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 08:32 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I be thinking of divorce? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 08:28 PM PDT My husband is 15 years older. That wouldnt have been an issue if he werent so stubborn, grouchy and boring. He has no friends.. NONE..ZERO. He simply refuses to go anywhere to have fun. If god forbid he agrees to go, he is so grouchy and grumpy the whole time, I prefer he stays at home. His only way of disciplining the kids was shouting and yelling which went down when i seriously put my foot down. But he never appreciates anything i do. NEVER. He gets angry at slightest mistakes like car has a dent or i got a speeding ticket (which I pay of course). I work and I always use my own money for everything including my cell phone bills and my DSL etc. I spend a lot on the kids because if I leave it to him, kids would have no toys and no new shoes or clothes. He is EXTREMELY stingy, tightfisted miserly.. use whatever adjectives u can think of. I am just so fedup.. I want to leave him but I am scared how life will be without him. Kids need their father. |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 08:23 PM PDT get inside the house ya little ***** the father yelled this at the daughter i saw once a mother who called her son a slut a ****** |
| Question: Do i have to change my last name after i get married in texas? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 08:17 PM PDT I live in texas and i go to college and i am afraid that if i change my last name on all of my documents that my financial aid will be less. |
| Question: My wife is into sexual humiliation? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 08:08 PM PDT Title says it all....my wife wants me to make her beg and beg for me to give it to her and when she gets naked to laugh at her....she wants me to tie her up and rail her then grab her legs and force it with a mask on, is this normal ladies? |
| Question: How do I stop myself from falling for my brother-in-law? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 07:44 PM PDT I ve been married for 6 years and have two young children with my husband, but we married young and have had many problems in our relationship. Basically, I didn t marry him because either one of us was wildly and passionately in love. It seemed like the smart decision, and it was head over heart. I didn t know his family prior to tying the knot, but now that I m getting to know my brother-in-law, I m realizing we re a lot more similar and compatible than my husband and I. I feel an instantaneous and meaningful connection with him that I ve never had with my husband, and I feel myself coming alive when he s around. My brother-in-law lives in a different state, so we don t see each other all that often and he s never indicated in any way that he likes me (he s single, btw). Neither one of us has been at all inappropriate or flirtatious. Yet, I can t stop thinking about him and feeling an emotional connection to him that I don t feel with my husband. I know the consequences of cheating (physically and emotionally), but I guess I honestly want to know what you would do in this situation. I don't have plans of making a move and acting on my feelings. I know I can control my actions, but it's the feelings that I'm having a hard time controlling. It's just... sometimes I feel like I'm entitled to some romantic happiness. I've invested six years of trying to cultivate that with my husband and haven't quite gotten there. If we haven't been crazy in love until now, I don't have any reason to believe we will in the future. |
| Question: Food Stamp Questions? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 07:20 PM PDT I was talking to a friend, she is divorced & remarried. She's on SSI & two young children living in her home. Her husband makes at least $800.00. They pay $550.00 in rent. She gets, $735.00 in SSI. It sounds like a lot but the cost of living in high. Especially when you are taking care of young children, one still in diapers. She has been completely honest about her income. She is getting $200.00 a month in FS. Her ex however, she found out is getting $600.00 in FS. DHS said he makes too much so he has to get it in his Autistic son's name & have himself put on his case. He also has a room mate that is getting $800.00 Month for one person. Both are working at he same job bring home $1000.00 home each per week. They live only two hours away from his ex but still in different counties. Is there something illegal going on like her ex & his roommate's lying to the government? When she asked me this, I had no idea on how to answer. She doesn't have the internet so I am trying to look this up for her then get back to her. I forgot to mention that her ex & roommate combines their FS together to get $1400.00 and the woman's current husband that makes $800.00, that is per month. $400.00 every two weeks. Sorry I didn't clarify that. |
| Question: Was this just a affair? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 07:16 PM PDT I was in a long distance relationship with a woman that was married and I was single . We lasted one month and then her husband found out about me. We were both in love. She did not like her husband anymore because he does alcohol and sees other woman and barley at hom. So she is just at the house lonely. We met online and she fell for me and tells me stuff like she wants to divorce him and be with me and we have done a lot. Phone call, text,writing poems and letters to each other and etc. But once her husband found out . She had so much negativity in her head and told me to forget about her.... Wtf. Was this just a emotional affair because her husband wasn't there ? I mean she still tells me she don't like him and wants a lawyer letter to him. Right now we are friends. And I have a hard time forgeting what we did together |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 07:00 PM PDT December of 2012 I was feeling so lost, sad and confused. I desperately wanted my husband to comfort me and help me see things would be okay. It was Christmas Eve and I had hoped that we could try for intimacy, yet it was a big flop, well I suppose that is putting it mildly. It pretty much was what shoved me over the edge. All I kept thinking was how my kids deserved a far better mother than one who was stricken with anxiety/depression. And now my husband doesn't even desire me. I overdosed that night, thinking if I was gone, my husband could find someone he loved, someone who would offer my kids a much better life than me. After a stay in the hospital I have received therapy wanting so badly just to feel like my old self again. Just to have a spark of hope. over the next couple years we tried on occasion to have this intimacy yet for some reason he just cannot. I've begged and pleaded hoping he would open up and just tell me what the problem was. We went to marriage therapy, well once session, because that is all he would do. She couldn't get him to open up either, but gave us many useful ideas. None of which he has been willing to try. I told him about a month ago if he is not willing to try and make this better then I will leave, because I don't deserve to spend the rest of my life like this. It is making me so bitter. He says he won't lose me, yet won't do anything to change things. I can't make it better alone. I feel like everything now is just words, even I love you. |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 06:45 PM PDT I am the woman and obviously he is the man. We have not been in a relationship for very long (almost 3 months) but I really like him. He has no children and has never been married. I have asked him about this and he says because he is introverted which is true from what I can tell. He is very socially awkard but is comfortable around his friends. Although we have not been together for very long, he has already introduced me to his sister and some of his friends. I also am getting invites out to his friend's birthdays as well as other dinners. Is there anything wrong? Older women seem to have an issue. I also have a 4 yr old, who he has not met yet, (I just want to wait. |
| Question: Husband wants to marry his mistress. Does he truly love me like he says? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 06:37 PM PDT My husband loves me but has been cheating on me with my former best friend for about 6 months now. They both already made plans to get married, have kids and get together as soon as he divorces me. So far, we have a 2 year old girl and a 10 month old baby boy. We've been married for 3 years so far and he said he'd never cheat on me but, for this situation he says he didn't know he would cheat and that he was just always naturally drawn to (who was as far as you can tell why) my former best friend. He said he and her fell in love and cannot stop talking and texting on the phone. That he feels that they are both twin flames and all of that crazy perfect harmony stuff. Anyways, he says he loves me and doesn't regret ever marrying me and everything we went through but, he also doesn't want to divorce me and wants to marry her too. The thing is, she and I hate the fact that he wants us both and he has to choose one of us. I'm torn here and keep going in and out of love and hate with him. Also, is she really manipulating him by talking about suicide if she can't have him she says she will overdose on antianxiety pills? I am soooo annoyed. I need honest and the best possible opinions please!! Thanks! |
| Question: Wife gave another man head a few years back but refuses to give me head? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 06:31 PM PDT We have been married for 4 years, 2 years ago she was talked into giving another guy head. She said she stopped after a few minutes because she felt guilty and told me the minute she got home. I was pissed and wanted a divorce but she was begging and pleading and crying and i believed her. We went to counseling and stuff, but im still wondering why she never gave me head in our marriage but could easily give it to another guy. It makes me feel like my penis isnt good enough. Its interfering with out love making because now i dont feel inclined to give her oral, and that was the maing thing that made her orgasm. We are also hitting another rough spot in our marriage because my feelings of anger from back then are coming back. what do i do? |
| Question: Husband wants to keep me and marry his mistress. Does he really love me like he says? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 06:25 PM PDT |
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| Question: Why is polygamy and polyamorous marriage illegal when its between consulting adults? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 05:01 PM PDT if traditional marriage laws can be reinterpreted by judges to accommodate same-sex marriage, why not also marriage between multiple partners? polygamy has a much stronger and longer historical precedent than same-sex marriage has ever had, so there should be no reason for the courts not to issue marriage licenses to multiple partners. |
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| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 04:36 PM PDT Ok so basically I am a 28 year old man and I have a GF and we been together for 3 years and we plan to get married some time this year. Before I met met my current GF I was married to another woman and I knew this woman since we were 19 and we got married at 22. She died of cancer and then a few years later I met my current girlfriend. The problem is I am still in love with my ex wife and to some extent I kinda love her more then my current GF. I'm not saying I don't love my current GF but my 1st wife will always be special and she was taken away from me in a sense and I don't think I can ever just stop loving her. I feel wrong about this though, almost like I'm mentally cheating on my GF with my dead wife. Any Advice |
| Question: Why is it I keep getting hit on even though I wear a wedding ring and I'm in my late 30's? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 04:31 PM PDT I never had any problem like this when I was younger. In fact, I got my dates through dating sites,in school, or in social gatherings. As I got older and I take care of my body, I feel I've been singled out. I've been getting compliments, smiles, glances and being asked for my phone number. The problem is these are not welcomed and I tell them flat out that I'm not available. My take on it is they see me often so they are used to me? Perhaps the attraction built there. Why is it that men find me more attractive now as oppose to when I was younger? I am happily married by the way and I feel grear about myself. These men are mostly in their late 20 's, 30's and some slightly older. The weirdest thing is they're mostly good looking, too. Most of my ex were just okay. What do you say? |
| Question: Is monica goodwind epps in Milwaukee married? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 04:24 PM PDT |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 04:22 PM PDT Read an article aboit men but then, not masturbating is bad for your health. Are the over the counter synthetic pheromones effective or bettee alternative to replace what I don't emit when I masturbate? |
| Question: If I have a lawyer, do I need to show up in court for an annulment/divorce? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 04:15 PM PDT Just wondering because his family is abusive. Also if the judge doesn't sign for the annulment, and I countered for divorce which one would be granted? |
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| Question: Is it right to keep your pet when you get married if your spouse hates animals? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 03:32 PM PDT |
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| Question: How do I change my name after marriage? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 03:02 PM PDT I am getting married in 13 days!!! How do I go about changing my last name? |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 02:56 PM PDT (If this offends you-don't blow up saying it would NEVER HAPPEN!-It's just a 'WHAT-IF' (another me & wife couldn't live together "SOBER!!!"-she is WAY TO "INSECURE!"/& I had to watch what I said to her!) "...After trading the car" for them,-(I forgot to add that)-these things may happen in your "party-life". I'M TRYING TO MAKE THIS "G-RATED" AS POSSIBLE-"IT'S WHICH PERSON TO USE IN 3-SOME-DUH!-THIS WILL GET EDITED QUICK. |
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| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 02:40 PM PDT I'm an attractive male. My brother and father were stay at home dads. My father died when I was young, so I took care of my little sister(12 years younger) and really enjoyed that. She's turn out to be a lovely charming lady with lots of friends and is happy. Also I'm going to inherit lots of money so finances will not be a problem as long as future wife brings home some money (doesn't have to be alot). I have no problems dating women. All my past girlfriends wanted to marry me.One proposed. |
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| Question: Can our marriage survive this infidelity? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 02:36 PM PDT My husband just got out the Army and admitted to having an affair with another woman while he was stationed in KY. He said they slept together multiple times, they went out on dates, and even planned a future together (kids, marriage, house, etc.) and that he can't deny being in love with her. He told me he doesn't even see a future with me anymore and that he doesn't find me attractive and has to think about the other woman while we're having sex. But then he told me he wanted to go to marriage counseling and that he stopped all contact with the woman. I don't know if I want to or should work things out with my husband. He betrayed me in a major way and I'm not sure why he wants to go to marriage counseling if he doesn't even see a future with me anymore and admitted to being in love with that other woman. He said he loves me but isn't sure if he's in love with me. I don't know what's going on and what I should do. I wasted six years of my life with him and I don't even know how to date anymore! |
| Question: Is it true that half of all marriages end in divorce or is that a myth? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 02:34 PM PDT |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 02:33 PM PDT By serious I mean dating someone you would like to be with for the rest of your life. I ask as my sister divorced in 2012 and is now dating someone since January who she now says she hope she is with forever (though they are not engaged as of yet). My mother is panicked thinking it is too soon but I think 3 years I plenty of time (she is legally divorced two years and her and the ex seperated three years ago). |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 02:17 PM PDT I've been very happily married for over 14 years, and we have 6 awesome kids (3 bio & 3 adopted). I am very frugal, very practical, and sometimes a cheapskate. For the last 13 years, I have been an extreme couponer. This helped us especially when our 12 year old g/g/b triplets were newborn. I often shop at Marshalls, TJ Maxx, Kohls, Big Lots, Dollar Tree, Aldi's, Shaw's and other lower end stores to get the best bargains possible. I can get a months worth of groceries, supplies, and other things for less than $200.00 (which includes meat), and I shop weekly for fresh fruit and vegetables. This is because I'm an extreme couponer. My husband showed our stockpile to a friend of his, and his friend was shocked. His friend said that he would be embarrassed to have a wife, that "hoarded" everything that we have. When my husband told him how much I spent on everything, than his friend did change his tune a bit. My husband is happy to be married to a very frugal and very practical person. Would you be ashamed to be married to a woman like me? I should also mention that I donate about 40% of my free purchases to my local homeless veterans organization. I'm a 20 vet of the USN, and I know what it feels like to not have enough to eat. I like giving back to those who don't have the resources that we have. It feels good to know that I'm making a difference in the lives of homeless vets. @ Anonymous, I work full-time as a Registered Dietitian. I retired from the military in 2009, and I'm a 70% disabled vet. @ Robert, I also plan all of the meals, do all of the grocery shopping (with some help from my family), and I pay all of the bills. The only "real" debt that we have is our mortgage. Everything else that we own (material wise) is our 100% free & clear. |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 02:04 PM PDT We have been happily married all this time. Lately, I found her to be distant. The other day she finally came out and said that she had been taking to her old boyfriend from back home. She said she was confused. She basically told me that she didn't know who to pick between me (her husband of 5 years), or an old boyfriend who cheated on her. I was completely shocked to hear her say this. I thought we had close to a perfect marriage. We argue some times but about stupid stuff. I was so upset that I told her to go back to her hometown with him. An hour later she came and apologized and that she wanted to take it all back. That I was the best thing that ever happened to her and that she wanted to be with me. I was upset. I've just been ignoring her, trying to process all this. Today I looked on her computer and found all the conversations she had with him. They were not "friends conversations. And they had been going on for years. Plus she had been sending him pictures. Nothing explicit, but not something you would send a friend. I confronted her and she ended oh calling the guy in front of me. Who he didn't know she was married. She told him everything and said not to contact her in any way. Then she kept apologizing to me. I don't know if it matters but that guy is considerably wealthier than me. Anyways, I don't know what to do. I feel betrayed. I don't know how I can trust her again. I need some advice. Am I over reacting. Or is this just a start of an ongoing problem. |
| Question: Husband falling for another women? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 01:57 PM PDT Im 36 and have been married to my husband for 9 years. We have 2 kids together. I have to admit that 6 months ago i had an affair, it was a one night only thing, and i regret it. I told him right away and initially he was upset but i offered to make it up to him. I have been doing everything to earn his trust back for the past 6 months, and we have been going to counseling. He thinks its his fault but i have told him countless times that it wasn't. He has also been on anti-depressants for the past 6 months and never really smiles. the other day i saw a text from a female that said hang in there, if you ever need me im here for you. I went through his phone and saw that they had been texting each other for a while now (like 3 months) and hes been going to her for advice and crying on her shoulder. They have had lunch dates countless times already and he even said shes the only thing that makes him smile in one text. I dont know what to do, i feel like i dont have any right to tell him to stop texting this women, because i did something way worse, but still love my husband, and dont want some women taking him from me. what do i do? |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 01:56 PM PDT Same cliched old story - neglected housewife with energy draining but adorable kids, kind hearted but always busy hubby steps out to work. Meets adorable handsome married boss who she cant resist. Obviously getting married and having kids doesn't mean a person turns into wood and don't feel anything for other men. But the wifey of course wants to keep it classy and not give in to the temptation. And so I badly need tips to maintain my distance and save my marriage. I cant quit since I got a job after a very long time and my boss sits in the cabin right next to mine. Things are so bad that i cant even talk to him one sentence without smiling like an idiot. Please help!! |
| Question: Could the institution of marriage compete with fwb and live in relationship in future? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 01:46 PM PDT World will become super dynamic and people may become commitment phobic. It can be observed now. Marriages may die out like arranged marriages died out giving way for love marriages. |
| Question: If a woman dresses really feminine is at she then responsible if men hit on her at work? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 01:37 PM PDT if a woman dresses feminine: wears dresses, skirts, tights, boots, jewelery, make up, perfume to work, etc...( no cleavage showing, not super short dresses or anything but she just dresses feminine)....is she then responsible/partially responsible for attention she may get from men at work? If men are flirty with her, etc, is it her own fault for dressing feminine? or should a woman be able to dress however she wants without worrying that men will see it as an invitation to hit on her? for example, a woman is getting asked out more at work more than she wants and men are quite flirty with her. she doesn't like it but is it partially her fault for dressing the way that she does...should she wear pants/collared shirt to appear more professional and less feminine? |
| Question: Should I ask my daughters if they meet "him?"? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 11:36 AM PDT My wife is having an EA or PA with a friend coworker. I work out of state. How appropriate is it to ask my daughters 17-15 if they meet him in the tailgate parties before a major college football game today. I know he will be there..hidden amongst the crowd. Or just let them have there fun and him be introduced as friend coworker... around other coworkers? |
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| Question: Care giver at home husband for the wife? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 11:11 AM PDT |
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| Question: Fiancé asked for a break, texted me this morning? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 09:45 AM PDT My fiancé and I have been together 3 years, engaged 3 months. He was upset with me a couple times this week over me not answering the phone, which is something I tend to do when I don't hear it. I always call him as soon as I reallized he's callede. He got so upset and said we need a break. The next day I texted and told him I missed him. He told me he missed me too. This morning he texted good morning. I texted him good morning. Then told him I'm here, but don't want to bother him. I'm trying to respect his space, but I don't want a break! What more can I do? He tends to think I don't care. How can I make sure he knows I love him and want to be with him without flooding his phone with texts and phone calls which is what I really want to do? |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 09:45 AM PDT A Clue... I have been seeing her husband for 4 months. I don't push him to leave. I'm not sure I even want him in that way. I just got Divorced after 8 years. 2nd Marriage for me. I never cheated on my ex.. but he cheated on me. We had issues, I knew somethingwas wrong I never loved him. But her Husband says he loves me, gives me money, helped me buy a new car. Says he's empty without me. I still date. I date alot actually. I have tried to leave him 7 times. Each time he breaks down and cries. And I keep seeing him. I know he's not the (one) but I can'tseem to leave the situation.. |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 09:25 AM PDT Im 33, and for the past 3 years my marriage has been awful. we have been married for 7 years, and at first it was great, the first 4 years she was an awesome wife but then it fell of when she got pregnant. I didnt get to have sex the whole 9 months she was pregnant, i thought it was normal because of hormones and i didnt want to push her into doing it because she was probably scared and confused with all the things going on in her body.So the baby comes along, and i cant have sex for another 6 weeks, once again i was fine with it, i understood the whole process of healing. So the babies born, and the 6 weeks are up, im ready for sex and it turns out my wife has post partum. She doesnt get help for another 3 months, so i decide to force her to go get help. It takes her another month to recover, and then she finally comes back to normal. But still no sex, she claims the baby makes her tired, and i believe her but i help her get through, i dont even get a thank you. SO basically i havent gotten sex for the past 3 years, and now my wife just admitted that 3 months ago she cheated on me because there was a lack of intimacy. I was so mad at the fact she blamed lack of intimacy on me, i didnt even hear her out. I left, and got my own apartment, Shes been texting me nonstop but im so mad at her right now, im not even emotionally shocked im just pissed off. She cheated on the guy that stuck with her through it all for a guy who was only using her for sex, some ******* wife she was. im filing for a divorce, and joint custody of the kids, im not going back to that emotionally abusive women, shes horrible. |
| Question: Should I divorce my wife because of this? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 09:15 AM PDT My wife got a job as an administrative assistant in a reputable firm, but it only pays 41k and is 1 1/2 hrs away from home. She has to drop our daughter off to school before she goes to work and has to get public transport I preferred when she worked as a home health aide making 19k a year as she was closer to home. She wanted to go to nursing school to be a registered nurse but put it on hold to work. What should I do to talk sense into her? She wants this job so she can save up for nursing school and also to buy a home. What do you think? |
| Posted: 26 Sep 2015 09:07 AM PDT It's a waste of time of me even saying anything anymore. It's like every time i tell them, it appears like it motivates them more. Which is a dam shame. Cause men really are starting to get on my nerves. Why must they be so careless? Idk what to do anymore, even my fiance gets frustrated sometimes putting ppl in their place |
| Question: Naked husband gros se me out? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 09:00 AM PDT OK. my husban d and I have been married for 7 years. I find him attractive and all but I'm really tired of him being naked all the time. As soon as he gets home he takes off all his clothes and doesn't put clothes on again untill he goes to work. When he gets dressed to go to work I'm like wow you look nice. I love seeing him with his clothes on. Is it mean that him being naked all the time grosses me out? I ask him to put clothes on all the time and he never does. Is there a polite way to ask this or should I just keep looking at his gross hairy balls all the time? |
| Question: Is 1 month in a half too soon to mention marriage? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 08:48 AM PDT My partner is a 41 yr old, never married and no kids. I am 28, and one 4 yr old. Him and I have been dating for a month in a half. We were on the phone talking and he started saying how he wanted a "permanent relationship" with me. I really like him and this feels right. My question is it too soon for this to come up. He didn't outright ask me to marry him, but we were talking and he was saying how he wants to eventually takes thing to another level. He is kind, loving, and very affectionate and is also very stable. |
| Question: My husband is more interested in porn then being intimate with me? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 08:39 AM PDT I have been married for over 2 years and everything is great with my husband except for one thing. Our sex life is a struggle. I have been turned down on numerous occasions by my husband when I have tried coming on to him. I have seen his collection of porn and pictures of naked women on his computer and phone. He has a new favorited porn video saved every week. I have heard him masturbating in the other room when he thinks I m asleep. I know for sure he is not cheating because he is always around. We do have sex at least once a week but most of the time it is me initiating it and he doesn t last long at all. I have expressed to him how it makes me upset that he has so much porn and pictures on his phone and feel that he is more turned on by that stuff then he is by me. He said he is very timid and shy when it comes to sex and he has a lower sex drive since he is 36 so I have tried to be understanding of that but it still bothers me that he releases himself to other women instead of trying to work on our intimacy. He always tries to deny that he is that bad with it but I know that he masturbates at least twice a week, so of course he wouldn t have much of a sex drive left for me. I just don t know what to do and he just makes me feel like I m overreacting :( has anyone else experienced something like this? |
| Question: I have a crush on a married couple? Help me figure my life out? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 08:20 AM PDT First things first, I am engaged to be married May 25th of the next year with a man. Two years running. I love him to death. My love and passion for him doesn't diminish at all with my increasing affection for the couple. So I met this guy at work who was really very kind and we started talking on our breaks about books, and we came to realize that his wife and I are carbon copies, or at least what we don't have in common I have in common with her husband. So we are all friends, my fiance included, and she is very open about her sexuality(just like me) and her sense of humor is to be sexual(just like mine) so we flirt a **** ton and cuddle and I sit on her lap, vice versa. I also feel a fire in my gut from her husband's genuine kindness and over all adorableness. I feel like I'm just a blip on their radar cos they have a fairly busy life and many many friends. My fiance is also a very jealous person who doesn't like the idea of a three some much less a "polygamous trial"??! Besides- both males in the equation are straight. And I really like them both together, and separately, they are really cute as a couple and I just want to be a part of it as well. Like I said. Love my fiance no less, I missed him when he wasnt there and just wanted his lips on me when they weren't, but I'm still confused. Thannnnnnnnnks |
| Question: Wife making me wonder if I married a lesbian? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 07:29 AM PDT We only dated for 6 months before we got married. When we were dating she told me her favorite color was pink and after we got married she told me that this was a lie to make me think she was more feminine. Now that we are married, in the bedroom she has asked me to dress up like a woman more than once and finally convinced me to let her do pegging. Now that I let her do this once, its all she wants to do and she has been asking me to let her put makeup on me and then do the pegging. She also makes comments about how hot girls are. She comes from a very conservative Christian family so I am kind of surprised. |
| Question: My husband doesn't know how to save money? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 07:18 AM PDT So my husband is in the military. Before we got married I assumed he had some money saved up because he lived on the ship. After we got married his paychecks added on an extra 2500. I didn't move in with him until maybe 3 months later. I asked him to put my name on the accounts so I could help manage it. He had no money saved or in his account. He should've had at least 3000 saved from bhs plus more because he was living on the ship.. I told him he needs to control his spending but each month we are left with 0. And hes trying to get out of the military next year to sale insurance -_- which is dumb. BTW I have a 3 month old and I'm not working as of yet. I really don't know what to do because it goes through one ear and out the other. |
| Question: Why does fiancé get mad about me not answering phone, even though I didn t hear it? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 07:09 AM PDT I have a history of having my phone on silent/vibrate. He gets irate when he s trying to reach me and I don t answer, saying that he s worried. It happened a couple times this week (doesn t typically happen often) and he said he s sick of it, told me I m tired, and said we need to take a break. I m devastated. We ve been together 3 years, engaged almost 3 months and have 9 month old twins. I m having a hard time understanding why this frustrated him to the point of taking a break. |
| Question: I don't want my wife to work. Should I stop her? Posted: 26 Sep 2015 07:03 AM PDT My wife got a job as an administrative assistant in a reputable firm, but it only pays 41k and is 1 1/2 hrs away from home. She has to drop our daughter off to school before she goes to work and has to get public transport I preferred when she worked as a home health aide making 19k a year as she was closer to home. She wanted to go to nursing school to be a registered nurse but put it on hold to work. What should I do to talk sense into her? She wants this job so she can save up for nursing school and also to buy a home. What do you think? |
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