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- Question: What can I do about my family situation?? It's really bad, please give me advice.?
- Question: How do you make your mom happy when you upset her and made her sad?
- Question: Caught my Father watching porn...?
- Question: I wish my parents would divorce?
- Question: How to approach a parent who won't properly treat head lice?
- Question: Is there any way for me to lie to get SNAP food benefits in Texas ?
- Question: Why is my father always trying to force me to do sports?
- Question: My family wants me to study in a different country that I want to study in? Please read details if confused...?
- Question: PLEASE HELP AND ANSWER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!?
- Question: 27yr old single mother of 2 young children looking for surrogate parents&surrogate grandparents for my children in/near Sioux Falls, SD?
- Question: Can I get my parents arrested for having fun, when I am not allowed to have fun?
- Question: Parents got into fight and it s my fault?
- Question: My uncle creamed me?
- Question: I hate my mother?
- Question: I found over $1,000 just in my dad s wallet. What does this mean?
- Question: Growing apart from my dad and regret? What to do?
- Question: Am I a bully? How can I stop harassment?
- Question: My parents keep using my car! What should I do?
- Question: Why is my sister so rude?
- Question: My dad's addiction is tearing the family apart?
- Question: 18 still in high school wanna move out need answers, please help D:?
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- Question: How do I get my parents to unground me?
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- Question: I hate my stepdad and would be happy if he died.?
- Question: Don't know who to believe?
- Question: People always put me down :(?
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| Question: What can I do about my family situation?? It's really bad, please give me advice.? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 12:52 PM PDT So I am 17. I live in Wisconsin. And recently I noticed that my savings account is missing a lot of money. I work full time in the summer and part-time during the school year. Most of my check goes straight to my savings. However, my savings account is at about $900 and in 3 years or so, I should have a couple thousand in my account. I have borrowed a couple hundred dollars to my Mom before, but certainly not often enough to have gone through 3 years worth of paychecks. I'm a minor so I can't do anything about this. I've asked my Mom about it, and she swears she's paying me back. I've seen nothing coming in from her, and my money leaves way to quick. Is there anything legally that I can do? What would be your advice? I was saving for college and to be able to move out, and most of my savings is now gone. I'm upset about this and I don't know what to do. |
| Question: How do you make your mom happy when you upset her and made her sad? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 12:43 PM PDT okay I hurt my moms feelings , but I was upset and angry and never ment to hurt her. What are the best way's to make her happy again? |
| Question: Caught my Father watching porn...? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 12:22 PM PDT So, My Father has lived a pretty tough life. He works two jobs, My Mom was a drunk, drug addict and, abused him such as hitting and yelling(She still harasses him even tho they're divorced). He's a great guy and I look up to him. He's been there for me no matter what. I know he is really lonely but a couple of days ago I went into his room too to get something and HE WAS WATCHING PORN. I mean I watch it, but it was my dad. Should I confront him what should I do? |
| Question: I wish my parents would divorce? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 12:18 PM PDT Hi. I just wanted to start off by saying im not one of those brats who wants it because of more presents or to seem cooler or whatever. My parents really do hate each other, they got married when my mom was 19 and my dad was 22. Too soon in my opinion anyway my parents are very catholic and don't Believe in divorce but the thing is they can't stand each other. My mom picks fights with my dad and us kids all the time, once she even did it becaus my dad hugged his mother. My mom is a stay at home mom but has a degree in teaching and did it Intill my little sister was born( my little sister is 3 now) my parents have separate rooms ( Thank god) and there's us 3 kids ( My older brother who's 19 and about to move out, me and my 3 year old little sister). I don't wanna go into too much deatil because it is a private thing but I do wanna ask if anyone knows any parts of the bible that says that it's okay to divorce? Or anything really |
| Question: How to approach a parent who won't properly treat head lice? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 12:13 PM PDT My daughter's best friend gave her head lice 2.5 months ago. I treated my home and children, as well as her friend. Coming through her friends hair was absolutely horrific. She had probably hundreds of eggs and I found 8 dead bugs! After treatment we went out of town for 2 months. We got back last weekend and sure enough..she STILL had head lice! I talked to her mother and she says she treats them "naturally". Basically blew me off and didn't see the problem. |
| Question: Is there any way for me to lie to get SNAP food benefits in Texas ? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 12:09 PM PDT I've applied for food stamps but got denied because I'm not 22 years old NOR living by myself . I'm 19 & pregnant, I live at at home with my mother & the father of my child .I used my boyfriend's income since that's the only source of money . They said I had to re-apply using my mother's income since she is head of the household . Only problem with that she makes WAY TOO MUCH & is not qualified as low income . We pay $475 of rent & pay other bills . I do not work only my boyfriend . He roughly makes $1000 a month but since he supports me & himself . We hardly have money for food . So I was wondering what could I say, A GOOD LIE, so I could recieve benefits like now . I know it's fraud but I don't know what else to do . My mom is forcing me to apply for food stamps, even if I have to lie. Or else she's gonna kick me & my boyfriend out of the house . So please if someone has an ANSWER that could help that would be great . |
| Question: Why is my father always trying to force me to do sports? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 12:01 PM PDT I really dont have interests in sports at all i think its boring but my father wants a athletic son and i keep telling him im not gonna do want he wants and he also tried forcing my other brother but he also doesn't want to what do i do to convince him that i dont want to |
| Posted: 20 Sep 2015 11:59 AM PDT I'm graduating high school, Senior class of 2016 (next year). So I want to continue my studies in a country that I personally like, and study medicine. That's not a problem, though. The problem is that my parents want me to study in a country that they want because my cousin is already living there and they want us both in the same country, and they keep on insisting that it's better than the country of my choice. Personally, I would feel much happier and relaxed in the country that I want but I don't want to disappoint my family. Ughh, what should I do? I don't want to try to explain that I would feel happier if they let me choose because when I tried to do so, my dad rolled his eyes and was like "do whatever you want" and then started acting passive-aggressively with me. |
| Question: PLEASE HELP AND ANSWER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 11:47 AM PDT I HATE MY MOM SO MUCH! ----------------- I hate my mom cause she wants be to play the piano and be perfect ----------------- She keeps forceing me to play piano and i really hate it! she said if i don't play the piano, she will take away all my stuff! ----------------- And if I miss a piece on my piano, she wants me to practice more WELL I CAN'T CAUSE IM NERVOUS AND YOU KEEP TELLING ME TO PLAY PIANO ALL DAY ALL NIGHT ----------------- EVEN WHEN I HAVE STOMCH PAIN AND MY HEAD HURTS, SHE STILL WILL LET ME PLAY IM LIKE WTF? ---------------- When I get mad at her, She says its the devil telling me to be mad WILL IM NOT CAUSE I CAN NEVER TAKE BRAKES ---------------- She said the only reason why I have to play this, so she can make money.. I feel like im being USED and making her money... I HATE MY LIFE :( |
| Posted: 20 Sep 2015 11:44 AM PDT My mother died when I was 17 and my father died a year and a half later. I am finishing up my college degree and entering a new phase in life and would love to have an extended family to share it with. I was engaged but I refused to settle with a cheater so his parents are not involved in our son's life. I have no extended family only relatives that's not family oriented and very competitive. I've never had an adult relationship with my parents, I could only imagine what it would be since we wasn't very close to begin with. I long to have parental figures in my life and my children's lives. I haven't been actively looking lately but my 5yr old told me he wished I had a mom and a dad the other day. So, here goes nothing. Please keep any rude comments to yourself. It's something that happens quite often, but due to school and work, I just don't know where to start. Thanks in advance for any genuine responses that may be left. Also, please do not tell me to volunteer at a community center/nursing home/ or a church. I know all about those options and those were well thought out. If you yourself are looking for the same as far as looking to be a surrogate parent or grandparent please do respond. |
| Question: Can I get my parents arrested for having fun, when I am not allowed to have fun? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 11:09 AM PDT So my parents been laughing for like the last hour. Cuz my mom is letting my dad do her make up. I don't know why, cuz shes not going anywhere. I just toad her about the make up tutorials I saw on the internet. Then all of a sudden my dad is doing her make up. Wtf. They are so childish. And they are laughing and having fun while I am suffering. Cuz my dad forced me to come home at 5pm. I wanted to play soccer with friends but nooooo I had to go home. And I barely got to be with my friends at all today. Cuz I had to go to church, then I had to eat with my grandma. So I didn't go out until like 2. So only 3 hours with my friends. And its not fair. Cuz there was no reason I had go be home. My dad is just being an @sshole. And he keeps telling me to cheer up. Who the hell does he think he is? I want him arrested please |
| Question: Parents got into fight and it s my fault? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 11:04 AM PDT We were at the store and my mom had to type in their email. She had to keep back spacing because she messed it up. When we got into the parking lot my dad cracked a joke about it and my mom was a little agitated by it and then I told her to chill it was only a joke and then my dad got all pissy and was like "ya it s only a damn joke, ruin the whole day." And I told him that she wasn t that mad (I was trying to neutralize the situation) and then he just got in the car and slammed the door and when we got home he just slammed the door and went into their room and idk what to do I m just scared what will happen |
| Question: My uncle creamed me? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 11:03 AM PDT in basketball and he's 50 yrs old. I'm young and in shape. How could he beat me? |
| Posted: 20 Sep 2015 11:00 AM PDT I've been living with my mom for a year now cause I got pregnant and had a baby 2 months ago. I'll be moving out with my fiance in January. I moved in with my mom so I could stop working and just go to school while pregnant. I NEVER would have gotten an apartment with her if I knew how things would really be. When Iwas a teenager we didn't have the best relationship but it was alright. I moved out as soon as I turned 18 with my current fiance/baby daddy. Now that I'm living with her again it's even.worse than when I was younger. as soon as she comes home/walks in the room with me my mood totally changes. I get very angry/annoyed and it doesn't take much for me to just lose it. She makes the dumbest/ugliest faces and is super over dramatic about EVERYTHING. Any time I take advice from her things go horribly wrong. She cheated and left my dad after 25 years. I can't stand her holding and talking to my baby. Her voice is extremely loud, high pitched, and naisly. I literally can't talk to her for longer than 5 to 10 mins cause her voice is.Just too much. Shethinks she is ALWAYS right, never does any wrong. If she's not at home.she's out trying to get a lay or a date.shes not very successful. She has 2 guys she sleepswith kinda regularly BUT they're married and she's well aware they are. She thinks out loud and talks to herself all the time. When she burps she projects it and makes sure it's loud. I just hate her. Is this normal? What is the real reason every she does annoys me? |
| Question: I found over $1,000 just in my dad s wallet. What does this mean? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 10:30 AM PDT I know its stupid to look through someone s wallet but I honestly just wanted to see if he had put an updated photo of me instead of the old one in his wallet. I notice a $100 in there and I kept looking and there was over $1000 dollars in there. Why would he ever need to carry around this amount of money. We aren t rich and I feel like my family is running out of money, because we used to go on vacations more and buy more things and do more things but now we don t. I don t know why be would need to carry this around. When I asked him why he needed to carry around so much he got really mad at me and yelled at me to never look in his wallet. I told him yeah yeah I know but why. And he just said its none of your business! |
| Question: Growing apart from my dad and regret? What to do? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 10:28 AM PDT My dad is my everything. Now I've grow up and at the university now. I started to earn money through partime jobs awhile ago. The reason why a freshman with enough conditions like me started to work like hell because I didn't want to be at home. My grandpa is a man who values money more than anything else. My dad is a very loving man, but since my grandpa keeps on making fun of how poor my dad is and how rich he is, my dad started to be grumpy. And he had a new girlfriend. She's unemployed and she stayed with us for about 2 years now even if I strongly disagree. She even borrowed my aunt car and didn't give it back when she was asked to. She even badmouth me with my dad. I hate her so much and all I can see about her is a lazy woman who dream about being rich and is a gold digger. I hate her and seeing her with my dad so I kinda grew apart from my dad. Just lately, I had a fight with my dad and he defend her so much it hurts to say anymore. I decided to let it be. It just hurts so much to know my dad - my everything is being with that woman despite hurting me. Now I'm alone and try to live happy. But I really feel regret about growing apart from my dad. |
| Question: Am I a bully? How can I stop harassment? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 10:24 AM PDT So, I am in the 6th grade. Never been held back, have a family that stresses about grades, etc. So, on a Friday on the bus, I was drawing, and some kids who harass me on the bus and at school had to sit in front of me and my sister, I always sit with my sister, I remind you. So, before pur stop, one of the kids poked me. He told me that one of the other kids, they're both in my class, said that we don't wipe our rumps and that my sister's hair was big. I god fed up with it and, pathetically, told the kid to tell the other kid to kill himself. I suffer a great shame from it, and I promise I'll never do it again. There are three kids, and one of them are older than me, but are in the fifth grade, the other two are in my class. The kid who I basically bullied called me a ***** (sorry for the language), then I got off. Am I now officially classified a bully? Remember, one of the kids, the one in fifth grade, said I could suck his... yeah... and me and my sister are annoyed by them every day. Is there any way I could stop them? My sister is 13, so she won't be with me next year, which makes me kind of afraid... I'm a pacifist and I can't hit them, in fear of getting beat in a fight... I don't want to ruin my reputation... tips? I want any, criticism, hate, support, any kind of response, as long as it helps me... And yes, I'm being moved to the front of the bus... |
| Question: My parents keep using my car! What should I do? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 10:21 AM PDT I'm over 30 and I live in an apartment by myself in the city. My parents live in the suburbs which is about 20 miles away from my place. My parents had a car but they scrapped it after an accident a few months ago. Since then, my parents have been using MY CAR almost every weekend! They do not have enough money to buy a new car but using my car on weekends really bugs me. They visit me every weekend to use my car. When they visit me, they clean up my apartment and do the dishes for me. I think they do this because they feel sorry for using my car. But I don't need their help if that is in return for using my car. They say family should help each other especially in times of difficulty and I kind of agree with that. But I do not want them to visit me and use my car every weekend! What should I do? |
| Question: Why is my sister so rude? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 10:15 AM PDT She's being rude to everyone at home. She only talks **** to us, and when we ask her about something, or even greet, she either yell at us or just don't answer at all. Like pretending she didn't hear it. When we say that she's being incredibly rude, and literally telling her the truth, she will just yell at us back with every single insult she can come up with. Like "You have no life, poor you. Your job sucks as well, no wonder you're so poor. I'm going to be successful unlike you", she said something like that to my father. And she has no respect for anyone else in the house, she puts her music volume on max, and when we ask her to turn it down because it's bothering us, she will just yell at us and tell us to shut the **** up. Even when we're doing something important. When my mom and dad is talking about something, she just keep interfering, and only say mean things. If they talk about something that didn't go out well for them for instance, she'll say "Haha, too bad. Just like you idiots deserved." When my parents finished making dinner, and asks my sister to move away, because we're going to eat there, she won't do it, and won't even answer. If we try to use force, she will go insane, and do stuff I mentioned above. She's only rude to us who share the same house (we're 5), but to anyone else she knows, she's kind. She's literally been like this for YEARS. She's gotten worse and worse, and now she's crossed the line. What can we even do about this? She's 19 years old btw. And also have you ever seen or heard of someone worse than how I described my sister? That was just one bit, but I can't say too much really. I just wanna know if it's normal if people behave like she does. And she even ruined my dad's painting on purpose (which he's used a lot of time on), only because he accidentally spilled some sauce on her book. The reason for that is as I mentioned, she won't move away from the table, so it was her damn fault. This pretty much happens on a daily basis. |
| Question: My dad's addiction is tearing the family apart? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 10:05 AM PDT My dad has been for as long as I can remember addicted to prescription drugs. But it's gotten worse over this year and some of last year. And we're broke. We don't have a lot of money and the money we get we need. He spent 95 dollars in two days. 95 dollars we don't have. We could have used that for food and other necessities. I have a job myself, I help my parents because yes I still live in their house. My dad has /borrowed/ over 3 hundred dollars from me. I know I'm not getting it back and I know it's my fault for giving it to him, but if I don't he'll scream and yell saying I'm a low down *****. And he's a complete devil when he doesn't have those stupid *** pills. I tell my mom not to give him the last of their money but she does because she doesn't want to hear him. I don't know what to do. She's close to her breaking point. She's crying a lot lately. He swears he's going to quit but he doesn't. When my mom suggests rehab he screams at her and tells her she's just like Keith's wife (his friend he's an alcoholic.) But if my mom was like her she would have done left his ***. What can we do? Any suggestions? |
| Question: 18 still in high school wanna move out need answers, please help D:? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 09:52 AM PDT So I'm going to be 18 in a little bit but I want to move out, I live in Oregon and the legal age is 18 even if your still in high school, it's not considered a runaway if I do leave. But!, I told my dad about it and he said there is an Oregon law that says if I'm still in high school I'm under his care i can't leave? I don't if he's telling the truth, or if he's trying to manipulate me so I don't leave..... Please help |
| Posted: 20 Sep 2015 09:30 AM PDT My mom has a mental illness for six years now and I'm under eighteen. I don't have any other siblings that are around or a father, so I take care of her. In truth I do hate her for it, she had many chances to at least get some help and she knew the illness ran in her family, yet still she refuses to see anyone. She doesn't care how stressed I am. I clean the house, fill out the bills, give her my Social Security, pay for groceries with my own money, and take of care because she doesn't always know how to properly dress herself or take care of herself. I'd be okay doing this if I wasn't sixteen and working a job and going to school. But the worse thing is she gets mad so easily and most of the time she'll put herself in situations that she knows she'll get mad about. And she'll throw things, scream at me, hit me sometimes and slam things, she even sprayed me with water outside when it was winter because I didn't move. And she'll threaten to kill herself and say it's because of me and she hates me and I'm a fat ***** she wish she never had me. Even when I tried to kill myself she told me I was being a whiny *****. She's told her sister about what goes on and because my aunt thinks my mom has Social Security (which she doesn't) she says she'll take care of her so long as my mom pays her and because I'm such a disrespectful little ***** I should be put in foster care. My aunt is just trying to use her for her money but my mom doesn't understand that. She has threaten to give up legal guardianship of me. I hate living here but I don't want to be put in foster care. I only have two friends but one lives at home with parents so I couldn't move in with her and my other has a husband and daughter. My brothers burnt their bridges a long time ago. What can I do? Her sister won't listen to me. |
| Question: How do I get my parents to unground me? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 09:21 AM PDT I was with my friends and I was a hour late (only happened one time) I got grounded for a month I really don't want to talk to my dad about it might make situation worse my brother keeps screwing my chances up every time a get a chance to even leave the house Btw my parents are strict af |
| Posted: 20 Sep 2015 09:21 AM PDT I went in to help my sister but I wasn't trying to look but I had to I had to touch her and pick her up and she was moaning from the pain I set her down in her room and my mom walked in as she was naked moaning in pain she thought we were having sex but we weren't and she still doesn't believe us what do we do |
| Question: I hate my stepdad and would be happy if he died.? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 09:18 AM PDT he is the most annoying human I have ever met. His voice is very feminine and it makes me want to scream every time I hear it it is so ugly. He acts like a female there is nothing manly about him. (Yet he hates gays, transgender eat...) and I'm actually very worried because I'm not even kidding that his laugh is SO ugly that when I hear it I think about killing myself. he makes me think he is a pedophile and wants to moleste my little sister. He gets happy when he can yell at me about some thing. He's a closed minded little *****. Is there anything I can do to plot him against my mom so the leave each other? |
| Question: Don't know who to believe? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 09:13 AM PDT I have always had a ****** up family since I was seven. It's complicated but I've always trusted my mum. Now I'm not even sure if I can truSt her. We always used to argue but we've been getting on good lately and my dad came to the house and she came in crying and telling me that he said all these awful things and I told her I'd said stuff before but not as bad as that because it was the truth, I hadn't said anything that bad and I thought my nan had twisted my words and told her I didn't want to speak to her ever again. Now I saw my dad today and he told me that he didn't say the really bad stuff and he read a message on my phone and told her that. He probably did read the message on my phone but I don't know and anyway I came home and now I don't know who to believe. My mum or dad. I'm sat crying in my bedroom and she asked me what's up and I just told we to go away because I don't know whether I can trust her anymore but I've never trusted my dad but he was so understanding talking to me and I dunno what to do anymore. Who do I believe? And how do I talk to my mum about this??? I think I upset my mum and now she's talking to her mate about me over the phone outside my door . Help me and tell me what I should do and who I should believe x |
| Question: People always put me down :(? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 09:08 AM PDT I'm 19, started university this year. It started when I was 15, I always got told I would be no one because I didn't go to school (sorted it out as I'm in university now) so alot of people were proud of me but I have these couple of people which always put me down still, now my dream is to become a owner of a hotel at a seaside (not big) but you can earn quite alot of money, now these two people I know very well, one used to be my girlfriend and the other is her new boyfriend. Now I'm the sort of guy which won't put anyone down, if I think you have a dream I think that you can achieve it if you put your heart into it so thats kinda why I don't put anyone down about them. But these two always and I mean all the time say to me "you have no future" "you won't achieve your dreams" it might sound really dumb but at the time I defend myself because I believe that I can achieve these goals, but after a couple of hours I sit there and think to myself "I bet I'm not gonna achieve them" if you wanted to know I'm currently in university leaning L4 business and financial studies. Now I'm not the one to judge because if it's money then you go for it but. He does go to university but I don't really know why And she hasn't been to college or university now she works which I think is good because of the money but no matter what I try and do, I started producing music as a hobby because a while back it kinda saved my life. And they just said "you won't go anywhere" why do they say this? |
| Posted: 20 Sep 2015 08:54 AM PDT I am 14-15 years old. I know that is young but let me explain I have ip which where my brain matures faster than my body so next year I will gradate and will be leaving for college soon. I am legally 15 but when it comes to mental maturity I am allowed to do things a normal 18-21 is allowed to do (except drink and drive of course). my boyfriend is a year older than me and we have been dating for a year now. his parents have recently asked me to spend the night because I live an hour away. I have spent the night there before but that was to hang out with his little sister who is 14. I would like to sleep in the same room with him. his parents have already told us it was okay as long as door was open at night and my parents are okay with it. if they are not his room will be locked and would sleep in his sisters room like I usually do....I have slept in his bedroom with him before but we do not have intercourse we believe we are too young and should wait till i leave for college. never the less his parents have given him supplies to be safe. I do not wish to go there and have sex I just want to go hang out and cuddle to sleep at night. another thing is that we do a family vacation every year with all my extend family and my grandparents (on my mother side) take me every year because I live alone with my father for schooling matters. they asked about him last year said I should take him this year considering I will be leaving for college. how do I ask my parents for permission? |
| Question: Need some advice on something? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 08:51 AM PDT I had a child 1 year and 6 months ago... And 9months ago she broke up with me and I was seeing my son every week on a Thursday... But the thing is she stopped contact but ever since I message her asking if I can see him but I get a straight no. Now this is where it gets abit strange because she has a new boyfriend and this guy friend which has known her ages... But that's not all. Today I got told I have to watch my back that if I carry on doing what I'm doing (asking to see my son) then this boy will knock me out... Now I'm no grass so if he did then yeah I would put up a fight and wouldn't tell anyone. But the thing I dont get is all I'm trying to do is see my child? Like that's all nothing else, I don't mind what she does or her boyfriend but why when I ask I get told I'm gonna get knocked out... What should I do? Ignore what he says about it (knocking me out) or do something about it because at the end of the day I haven't done anything bad? I have been threatend around 3 times 1. because her guy friend thought I didn't make effort when I do... 2. Because this guy wanted me to say it to his face that he wasn't my sons dad :s 3. Because I wanted to see my child.... Like yeah I have anxiety and I do get abit scared when people tell me that but this is about my child... Like seriously :s |
| Posted: 20 Sep 2015 08:50 AM PDT |
| Question: Sister in law is living with us and chaning my home? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 08:46 AM PDT My sister in law & her 3 kids moved in with us and is changing my home to look more like hers & how she wants it to be. I pay for everything. This is my home that i offered her to live in til she got her own place. How do i tell her to stop ? Also i live in a 1bedroom and they are staying in the living room on the futon & couch. I was going to get a 2 bedroom & put her on the lease so i couldnt get in trouble for having them there and take her off once she gets her own place, but now i feel if i do that then she'll feel like she has the right to make the apt the way she wants... We are not close whatsoever, i barely speak to her. So how do i put an end to this ? |
| Posted: 20 Sep 2015 08:43 AM PDT hello, my name is tea pack and today i saw tupac. The story: i woke up in croke park stadium. I freaked out, knowing the dublin-kerry match was going to happen soon *up kerry* anyways, i got up and left. Then that's when i saw tupac. In a hoodie and rain coat, as it was raining miserably. So i followed him. I knew he was my biological father the second i saw tupac. He went to the laundry cleaners, and i followed him into the small building. It was full of washing machines. I always had a fear of washing machines, so i came up to him and asked if he was my father. He claims he *didn't* know me, which i found shocking. First he abandons me when i'm born, and then he denies my existance? So i ask him, does he have a fear of washing machines like i do? i heared fears are genetic. He asked me to stop bothering him, i had a meltdown. I have been looking for tupac/my father ever since last week. I've put in too much effort ! so i was there, screaming at him for aprox 10 minutes, and that was it for him. He grabbed my hair and shoved me into the washing machine woth the whites. Because i was too white to be in the colours. And then he turned the machine of death on. It was so much fun ! it happened to make me the slight dizzy though. and once i got out he left. Just like he left me when i was born. But at least i got free clothes. |
| Question: Is there something wrong with my sister? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 08:41 AM PDT I am not sure what is going on with my sister throughout my life. She has been acting a little disgusting. Before she hit puberty, she would ask me to accompany her while she showers. I would see her get undressed and see her private parts. Also, when it gets hot in the summer, she would have her shirt undone and expose her bare chest for me to see. In addition, when she has to quickly change into another shirt, she would do it in front of me and lets me see her chest. Once she started to hit puberty, she would wear bikinis very often and ask for my opinion of how she looks. Whenever, she works out, she would ask me to touch her abs to see if she is toned. So far today, she still likes to wear bikinis in front of me and ask for my opinion. I do not get it. Why is she acting this way? Does she have some kind of fetish with her body? |
| Question: What do you think of this situation? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 08:36 AM PDT Ok so I went to take my bag from across the room. Then I was coming back to where I was sitting and then I accidentally swinged my bag in my moms face because I didn't she her that close or sitting around. She then ran and started crying saying why do I treat her like that. There is an unfair treatment in my household where her and her side of the family favorite my sister and don't favor me. She is the one who always treat me badly and doesn't act like she appreciates what I do. She always also does little things on purpose to get on my nerves thinking I don't notice but I do. Like yesterday a hair brush fail in the toilet and she made me brush my hair with the brush and then I felt nauseous afterwards.I'm 15 years old turning 16 and what do you think of this situation and what should I do? |
| Question: Why do married couples insist on sitting together on planes? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 08:05 AM PDT My parents are both retired and are thus together 24/7. They're going to Europe. Only one of them got upgraded to business class on the trip, so they're rejecting the upgrade and insist on both sitting in coach. (It's my father who insists; my mother would go for the upgrade.) So...why in the world would they prefer to both sit in coach for 7 hours when one could be comfortable in business class for 7 hours? I see this often: married couples insist on sitting together even on short flights of an hour or so, and they make a fuss. Why? |
| Question: What does the cartoon is that the way you normally stand? by jim unger mean? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 08:04 AM PDT |
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| Question: Why did my baby father block me on facebook? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 07:46 AM PDT I recently found my baby father on Facebook since he hasbeen ignoring me and haven't seen my baby since she was 4 months(she's now 19 months).I wanted to contact him to give him one last chance to explain why he hasn't been around before I put him on child support,but he ignored my msg and blocked me.He now lives in another state and I want to know two things.Why did he block me when I didn't say anything wrong I just said message me back I need to talk to you.And how hard will it be to collect child support if he's in another state,but I don't know where he works? |
| Question: I ran away from home and now it's coming back to haunt me? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 07:39 AM PDT about a year ago, I ran away from home, cause things are really ****** up. My friend was worried so she spread the word, and she spread it so much every single person in our country has heard about it. 3 days later, I came home. The media made me look like a delinquent, they were writing all sorts of nasty things, like I was doing drugs and that I was pregnant (I'm 15 now but was 14 back then), they made up so many lies, I sounded like a girl who deserved to be killed. Now I started high school, and at first everything was fine, I changed my hair color and lost weight and I didn't even look like the picture of me that went viral when I 'went missing', so no one recognized me. But then they did, they started recognizing me. The guy I started dating left me, and I feel so trapped, everyone is looking down at me, they think I'm a drug addict and a hoe and a thief and a prostitute and what else not. I'm so introverted, I feel like I'm gonna faint whenever someone starts talking about it. I just want to leave, but I know I'm gonna have to deal with it. I simply don't know how. Should I just scream out loud that my dad's in jail, my mom tried to cut her wrists and was in a mental hospital, and everything is so ****** up, should I tell them the truth out loud or just let them think I'm what the media made me out to be? Help, help, help... |
| Question: Does my dad hate me? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 07:28 AM PDT I am 13 and my dad doesnt let me go out with my friends but then he says i go out too much Or i dont go out enough. He never realy talks to me, ha was only in my life for my first six years. Now my grandma has my legal custudy an i am happy with her. When ever its sunday him and my 2 little brothers go to eat at resturants amd to watch a movie but he always tells them not to tell me or to ask if i want to go. Whenever something bad happens he finds a way to make it my fault. Whenever i try to reason with him it gets even worse. he never once has said that he was happy with me all he ever does is critisize. I once had a huge arguement with him and he said i was an accident |
| Question: What to do with disrespectful 17 year old niece? Please help!? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 06:48 AM PDT My husband and I decided to take our 17 year old niece in because her home life with my sister was unstable. She only has 6 credits in school and needs 72 to graduate. We signed her up for ALC and have gotten her ID cards and have literally done EVERYTHING she has wanted. We gave her a room to call her own and even painted it her colors (which she's never had). She decided 2 mo after living here that her room was "scary" due to an overactive imagination so she decided to sleep in our family room/theater room which has made it difficult to enjoy our own house because now that school has started, she wants to go to bed at 10 so we must forgo any activities since she has claimed it as her own. I told her she has a perfectly good room and to use it or we will take back our 55" TV that we borrowed her because we want it in our bedroom since we don't have a TV to watch anymore since the family room was taken. Needless to say she slept in her room for two nights (very late after she was done using the theater room) which still made it hard to do what we wanted. So we took her TV and said we would give her our spare 32" flat screen. She scoffed and acted like it was ridiculous. She said we were being unreasonable and that she needs a "break" from us and that her mom wants to see here Tuesday-Sat (during school which she desperately needs to catch up). She called me a mega-controlling, non-understanding bi*** who basically can't make a compromise or sacrifice beyond my own gain. |
| Posted: 20 Sep 2015 06:44 AM PDT I'm going to be honest, I do love my mom, but she's really a negative person. Everyday she yells at my brother and I for being the reason she's have problems in her life, she curses and yells at me almost everyday, I talked and tried to reason with her, but to no avail, she refuses to listen to reason. Everything must be her way, if not she gets really mad and takes it out on my brother and I. She smashed my laptop out of anger recently and threw projectiles in the past. She acts really nice in front of others, but changes as soon as they leave. I'm having a hard time just going through it everyday, school is actually great because I'm not yelled at for making a mistake and being able to laugh and smile. I'm 16 years old and need help. (Not the sit down and talk to her because that NEVER worked and not talk to someone at school because she'll put on an act.) |
| Question: My mom is mentally abusive, and I don't know what to do? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 06:38 AM PDT I'm 16 (almost 17),I have a sister that's 13, and my dad/her husband. She is emotionally abusive and manipulative. She never admits to being wrong, EVER. She has an illness for 10 years, and my dad is constantly taking care of her. He devotes his life to her, and she doesn't appreciate ANY OF IT. All she does is yell at him and say he doesn't care. My dad could have left her, years ago, with all his money. She constantly tells me I'm lazy and "f*cked up", when I do clean up after myself and do chores (when asked). She continues to say I "don't do anything". As a 16 year old who has already started a career, and graduated high school, I guess I haven't done anything. It's sad to say I like hanging out with other families/friends more than my own family. I love my family unconditionally, but these past several years have worn on me. In fact, the last couple years I was depressed (but I didn't tell anyone until I wasn't anymore) and my mom made me feel really suicidal (although I never told her this because she would get mad at me). I'm not allowed to get a job. HOW CAN I SAVE MY FAMILY BEFORE I LEAVE THEM?!? |
| Question: Mother in law tries to break up marriage? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 05:31 AM PDT My friend's mother and father in law constantly tries to break up her marriage. They start fight and yells at her almost everyday, even though my friend just ignore them. Her husband is very traditional and won't kick them out cause the mom will threaten suicide or said that she raised him blah blah... The mother in law have another house, but just wont move out and they constantly said bad things about my friend to everyone. They even brought the husband's 5 year old niece to live with them, The niece constantly starts fight with her children and whenever she tried to ask him why, they say she's bias and starts fighting. They are unreasonable and crazy, need some advice? |
| Question: What i must to do with my son?he say that he is ashamed that i am his father? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 05:29 AM PDT I'm a 28years man,i live in Pittsburgh.i'm a worker.my nam is sam i work at a spinning factory .my wife is Mary. Although i never have this kind of problem with her but know i have a new challenge never was faced in my life and it suffering me.Walter my 8 year son say to me don't come to our school to bringing me home,after i asking him the reason he say to me that most of his classmates parents are so educated they are doctors an lawyers and they have Mercedes or bmws or high-class Toyotas and we dad,we are a worker family,and i don't like to know my classmate that we have just a second hand truck.he was not the kid in this way.he always hugging me when he was a little boy and say to me that we are happiest family on the world.and on that moments i fell good inside we go fishing horse riding and so many other places to have fun and enjoying life.i don't want dear Walter to be ashamed because of me,do i must try to buy a new model car or Walter must change his attitude???thank you. |
| Posted: 20 Sep 2015 05:15 AM PDT I have been dating a woman for the last 8 years and things were great. I have an 8 year old daughter from another relationship which I consider my life. The problem here is that my girlfriend had s tough time with that and it all came to light around 3-4 years ago. When she stays with me every other weekend she doesn't call me and prefers to do things other than hang out with us. At one point she told me that every time she looks at her, she sees his mother and it bothered her. And to top it all off? She never likes to be around my family. I understand they may be a little dysfunctional but that's not an excuse. Her argument is that she's nobody's step mother and that she is not her responsibility. It sounds like commitment issues which is odd because she wants to marry me. If I leave her I'll end up being homeless until I get back on my feet, but if I stay I'll continue to feel like a terrible father. Addressing the issue only causes more problems and massive fights and I'm not sure how to handle it. Other than those problems, we have an good relationship which feels like a lie when my son is around. Only good advice please. |
| Question: Three years ago my father joined jehovas witness thing. He has changed a lot.? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 05:13 AM PDT He is always in a bad mood , his work is not going well and he is anxious and he is missing important dinners and gatherings with the family because he has to be with them. A big distance has grown between us and i feel like my parents are seperated. The other day he wanted to move a mirror and i told him to leave it there because i liked it and he started yelling and swearing threatening that he would beat me to death. I stepped back and asked him to calm down its only a mirtor i said. He continued with swearing and cursing. These fightings are everywhere in the family.. I want to leave with my mum but she says she cant. I dont want to live with him anymore. |
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| Question: Why am I not missing home ? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 04:58 AM PDT When I was a kid I used to go on two week trips leaving my family and home, by the second week I was already feeling homesick thinking about my mom and family every minute I felt sad and missed the love my family gave to me. Now in college I don t really care if I go back or not I hardly feel sad and don t actually miss home why |
| Question: My parents think I use Twitter way too much? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 04:33 AM PDT I've had a Twitter account ever since I was 14 and now I'm 19. I've tweeted over 85,000 times in the past 5 years. Most of my friends who use Twitter have been 75,000 and 175,000 tweets. One of my friends has even tweeted over 250,000 times. Earlier today, I was sitting downstairs with my parents and we were all on our iPhone 6's. All I was doing on my phone was tweeting on Twitter. As I was tweeting, my mum said "Get off Twitter now" and I asked why and she said "You're on it too much." I said that I'm hardly ever on if, and dad was all like "Hardly on it? You're one it all the time, you stupid girl." I then said I didn't deserve to be called a stupid girl and that dad's opinion is wrong. My mum then came over to me, snatched my phone off me and said I'm really horrible and disrespectful towards them. She even wants to ban me from Twitter for the rest of the month. I said they can't do this, I'm 19 - but they were like "Yes we can, we're your parents. We know better than you, and can you stop acting like a 6 year old?" She then gave me my phone back and told me to stop acting like a "disrespectful and immature brat". Do you think I use Twitter way too much? Am I disrespectful and immature? |
| Question: 71 year old parent with PhD can't handle basic tasks: time to address it with sibling? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 04:31 AM PDT My mother is 71 and does a lot of traveling. She's is smart; she has a PhD and was a college professor. I've noticed that she just completely lacks sense and the ability to handle basic tasks. I wonder if it could be the first sign of some type of age-related problem. Should I mention this to my brother (who doesn't like her)? The main thing that I see (since it's one of the few things that I work with her on) is that she can't do simple things like book plane tickets or handle post-booking seat changes with any level of competence, and she gets so frustrated that she nearly starts crying. For example, she has elite status in one frequent flyer program. She booked seats on an upcoming flight in the non-elite section, so I sat down at the computer with her and changed her seats. She's eligible to get upgraded to first class (if she calls the airline and asks), and I email with specific instructions ("1. Every day at 7am, call 800-AIR-LINE; 2. Say your frequent flyer number (123ABC) when the phone system says Hello..."), but she can't do it and won't. Last night she emailed in a panic after she checked in and got her boarding passes. "Are these seats exit row? Are they business class? They are new." They were the seats that we had gotten, and her boarding pass said "COACH" on them in big letters. So is this something to be concerned about? Someone with a PhD should be able to handle basic things like this, particularly when I give direct instructions. Thanks for the replies. Our father is still alive, but in very bad health (he's still sharp, though, but does financial stuff but nothing else in terms of day-to-day work). |
| Question: Sister is dating a married man? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 04:14 AM PDT My older sister has been dating a married man for months now. Apparently this man has even brought his kid around her. He claims that he's in the process of leaving his wife, but he stays with her because of insurance purposes. I know he's lying, he probably has no intention of actually leaving his wife. I'm just surprised my sister is this stupid. I'm even more surprised that he's bringing his child around her. And my mom is totally okay with this, shes almost encouraging it by telling my sister things like oh I'm sure he's telling the truth, oh I'm so glad his kid is okay with this. My mom has the morals of a hitman, there's not a moral fiber in her body. Case in point by the fact that she cheated on my dad while he was on his death bed. Anyway, I'm just so sickened by this situation. Why are some women this stupid? I'm 23 and my sister is in her 30s. |
| Posted: 20 Sep 2015 02:51 AM PDT If someone picked on us he told us to fight back because they "Weren't being nice and polite" and would get angry if someone pushed us and teachers tried to punish us saying "Why are you teaching my daughter to let people walk all over her? If they put a hand on her she has the right to defend herself!" Now its like he's reversed. He refuses to cook his own food and would sooner go to bed hungry. Or he'll wait until my mother gets home from work and yell at her because he's hungry. Or expect me or my sister to cook for him. He's stopped helping around the house which included shopping when my mom had a lot of heavy things to buy or when my mother was sick. He makes all kinds of comments such as "This is why women shouldn't be involved with this" My dad gets into fights with my mom and especially my sister with this stuff. My sister sees him has a hypocrite and will call him out everytime which can lead to arguments lasting the whole day. Including my father acting spiteful by making sure he's in the bathroom when she needs to get ready for work, being loud when she's on the phone and then when she tells him off he says "You know...I really couldn't care less. Get as p***ed off as you want. Your a c**t" This all started when his old manger at worked retired and a woman around my dads age became manger. I don't want to think that's the reason because its so petty but its when this all started. Is it really that a female manger makes him feel threatened? |
| Question: Keep getting invited to family gatherings I don't want to attend, how to make it stop? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 02:45 AM PDT I really hate going to large family gatherings (I m okay with my brothers and parents). I don t have anything in common with my family and my cousins think I m weird. To make matters worse I have two uncles who make me feel guilty about not being more social towards the family. One of my uncles practically forced me into the whats-app family group and checked if I had received his previous invite whom I didn t respond to. Every time an invite for a family gathering comes up I either think of an excuse not to go right away or decide to go and back out at the last minute. I m so sick of using excuses it makes me feel guilty every time and I'm pretty sure they know I'm lying these days, but going is worse as it feels like I'm in high-school all over again! How can I just make them take a hint and stop inviting me? :S |
| Question: What should be my Excuse, if my parents find the condom in my room? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 02:10 AM PDT i had hid a condom in my room, suddenly when i came home, my household was cleaning my room, later on when i checked, the condom was not in its place. i know my Parents have found that, i am living in India, its not that easy to say that its just a condom not a big deal, here it is a big deal especially for a Muslim Home. any Suggestion plz, i really need them! |
| Question: I want to leave aldis and go... plz advice? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 01:08 AM PDT I am 23 year old girl, i m working as well taking care of house but my parents just want more from me everything is not enough for them, they abuse taunt and shout for no reason. I realy feel like running away from them but i hav no guts no money even my salary they say they are collecting for my future but then its away from me. They make me feel i am a liability to them and it hurts coz i love them and they behave this way... i want to just go away from here... |
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| Question: What can I do about my sister? Posted: 20 Sep 2015 12:07 AM PDT My sister has cancer, she has suffered from cancer her whole life. She has had many types but this isn't my problem. She was in remission again but it is back, before this happened I planned my wedding and for her to be a bridesmaid, she agreed. But now she is disagreeing as she is bald. I don't want to force her into it but I would love for her to be a bridesmaid. What can I do? |
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