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I don't wanna be a spitting image of her, but I do want a couple of her personality traits like daring and outgoing. I'm a quiet and shy person and I want to get out of my comfort zone. I don't want people to think i'm the chill kid anymore. I want to be known as someone who takes risks/chances, is outgoing with many friends. I want an interesting life like that, I want to be mysterious. So, how can I be like her?

So I'm currently 15 and I really like a guy who is 18. He was a senior during my freshman year of high school and we became really close friends. My friend group is friends with older kids for some reason, that's why. But now he is in college so I don't get to see him that often. He invited me over last weekend and I stayed with him for the day. I didn't sleep over because my parents wouldn't allow that. But it was really fun. He always tells me that I'm a lot more mature than the girls he hangs around and that he likes that. We did kiss but he stopped prematurely and said we shouldn't because of our age. It upset me because I wanted to kiss him more. I think he likes me too, though. I hope I'm not misinterpreting this situation. I like him a lot and don't know what to do. I ask him if he feels the same way and he always says that he's worried about what people would say about our age difference. It's not so much the age difference, I mean three years isn't a big deal, but it's because he is legally an adult and I am not. Can anyone offer any help, please?

So I've had a crush on a girl for a week or so, and my friend and I go to a coffee shop, see the girl I like with another girl, so we decide to get something to drink and sit at a table across from them. Eventually, her and her friend come over to out table and start talking to us (my friend is sort of friends with the girl I like), and were talking and all, I'm leading the convo, but then I decide it's time for my friend and I to leave. As were leaving, my crushs friend asks for my number, I give it hesitantly, she texts me, I never responded to any. My crush texted my friend saying her friend likes me, I tell him to text her that he thinks that I don't like her friend, but I might like her(my crush). My stupid friend sends something accidentally offensive to her right after sending that text, so he never got a response to me liking her. I want to talk with my crush and eventually ask her out, but it's weird because I totally ignored her friends texts and all, and idk, girl code prohibits this or whatever? What should I do? I see my crush walk past me at least 2x a day.

I want to know, considering that im going to High School next year... But i definitely think that you are still a kid, even till year 10

There was this guy in my class last year (lets call him billy) who always used to stare and smile at me, we've had little conversations from time to time but it was only during class. This year (junior year) i have at least three clasess with him. We make eye contact during the first class, look and smile at eachother alot in our second, and the third class is where we probably have the most contact, which usually consists of smiling at eachother, looking at eacho ther and him teasing me from time to time. Today we were sitting in our third class, and our other friend (lets call him jason) noticed me looking at him. Jason started teasing us saying things like hey sally do you like billy? Or things like billy do you like sally? Billy would laugh and apperently inwas blushing. I would tell jason to stop but billy would laugh and smile at me. We have an upcoming trip where we can stay overnight, and jason had asked if we were both going to go, when we said yes, jason then said we could sleep in the same hotel room together, i blushed again while billy just laughed and kept smiling at me. It might just be his kindness, and im confusin it with him liking me, but yea what do you guys think? Im 15 and in highschool if that helps, hes 16

I met this guy through online dating and we've been texting a lot. We decided we were going to meet and go to the movies. I'm really nervous about meeting him. I need help what should I do

He's really nice and sweet and has made it clear he likes me. However, we're really different. Sure, he's nice, but I don't think he's really wanting to be on the same path as me. You see..I'm Mormon and so is he, but he's really not all that active and doesn't really follow the religion much anymore. He drinks energy drinks and sometimes he smokes weed. I know he looks at Porn too, because on his Facebook he has "liked" lots of playboy models and porn stars. He's very nice and sweet though and has never had a girlfriend. We're both 22 and go to the same community college at the moment. What should I do? I just know that if I got serious with him my parents would NOT approve

Lately she's been so moody any little thing can set her off. We've been together almost 7 years and when she's on her period I can simply ask and she'll just say "yeah sorry if I'm in a bad mood." Now she's mad at everything I do and she's gotten so picky when I get food she asked me to pick up she'll say it's gross and she doesn't want it or it's "making her sick" one night she asked me to make dinner so I made her favorite thing and she threw up. She insisted I did something differently because normally she loves it but this time it was so bad she actually puked. its the weirdest thing I wear the same deodorant everyday, one that she actually picked out, I put it on one morning and hugged her goodbye and she said I smelled terrible (after a shower) and we found out she somehow developed a hatred for this deodorant and she went and bought me a different one that same day because she was so grossed out by it. Even though she picked it and so many nights she tells me how good I smell. She was mad last night for some reason so I asked if she was on her period (even though it's been a few months since these mood swings started) and she started yelling at me saying this is just her personality and "I obviously hate it and I was hoping it was only because of her period" then she said she didn't even get her period and somehow the idea that she's fat got thrown in there and she said she's gained weight and she doesn't know how and got at mad me when I said I hadn't noticed.

So there is a guy in my lecture and lab. But every now and then I catch him looking at me. Once I was standing behind him in line to write my name on the sign-in sheet and looked back at me. Once he came up to my lab partner and I to talk to my partner (they have another class together as well) and when he looked at me he smiled huge and took a few deep breathes before he talked to my partner. When he went to sit back down he looked back at me. Yesterday he came up again to my partner and talked to her about their class and he kept staring a ton. Last week he came up again and asked what we thought of the exam but I was too shy and didnt say anything. My friends said he kept looking at me. I got a haircut and he was staring 24/7 and came up to my friend like 2x. Then after class my friend was talking to him and she called me over. When I came up to him his eyes went wide and sparkly and he smiled big. He almost looked frozen. Once a random guy came to me and asked me a question and he glared at him. when another guy asked me a question, he turned his whole body around and glared at him Last week we talked more. When we were leaving class he asked was I was going and I said to the right and he said he normally goes the other way. But he said he would walk with me and so we walked and talked more. He asked a lot of questions around me and walked close to me. Whenever he looks at me he blinks slow. Once he walked with me again and we talked. Before we parted way exchanged number Once we studied together with my lab partner. When we were studying my friend was talking about her bf and he looked at me and smiled. When we were leaving he walked me all the way to my apartment. Last week I told him that if he wanted to grab coffee sometime then to let me know. He said that sometimes things come up but he will let me know. Yesterday my friend said that cant come to our study session tomorrow so I asked if he was okay just studying with me and he said yes. We studied together and when we were done he walked me to my apartment. I show lots of interest. Our final was today. When he walked out he looked at me with a sad face and walked away. I texted him for coffee again and he said he is busy with family stuff these days.We talk once every few months. Once he posted "when someone never leaves your mind and heart, thats when you're in love" and then there was another pic that said "weakness moments when you feel like you're losing the person you love the most, and this person means everything for you, and you can't live without this person, while you can do nothing to it so you ust go get lost. cut distances and distances with hope to forget, but simply it is not gonna happen"

Theres this girl that I like, and i've been taking time to talk to her in between classes, only recently, she began walking with her sister to the class that I usually talk to her before. Naturally I still want to talk to this girl, but I don't really know what to say to her/them, as I haven't spoken with her sister at all really... Any ideas? What would you do in this situation? She is close to her sister, so it would only seem right that to get closer to her, i'd have to get closer to her sister, right? tips? ideas?

My boyfriend and I just got back together, and he posted on twitter "you'll always be a part of me. You made your impact" and said it was about me. I'm his first serious girlfriend and first girl he's ever gotten physically intimate with.

So I really like this girl in my high school. Plenty of minor flirting happened last year and we talked fairly often and there was always some sexual tension between us but nothing happened. This year I really wanted to be more than friends as since we were already friends I got her number and we have been texting a lot, and I have really broken the ice and have consistently been able to make her laugh. She initiates conversation about 50 percent of the time. Because of our schedules, we never ever see each other in school. When she did see me, she came up to me and tapped me on the shoulder, I turned around and she had a huge smile on her face to see me. We chatted for about 5 minutes and we were both really giddy and flirty the whole time. She really was happy to see me and me her. Now, a week passed and I hadn't seen her once so i tried to set up a time when we could meet in school. There was no time when we could meet and so I suggested we meet in town. She agreed, and 2 days later when we are supposed to meet the next day we are discussing details and I discover she apparently thought it was gonna be a group event and not just the two of us. She was really apologetic and basically said that a relationship is something that she's not ready for right now. She said she liked me and she definitely wanted to get to know me more. We ended the call and then she said she still wanted to go with me but to "just chill and talk". Do you think I have a chance to change her mind?

I really like this guy I ve known him for about 4 years but started liking him a year after he told me he really likes me. His sister doesn t like me but she s honest with me. Since we don t live close we texted a lot more till he needed to use his sister s phone for various reasons. After something happened we couldn t talk and then my friend started texting her and my friend asked if he still liked me and she said "Yes he even loves her but he wants her to move on." I told him the same thing after we were allowed to talk again but why is he being distant? I don t wanna move on from him because I think I love him. HELP!!!

I m a senior in high school and he s a freshman in college now so do I ask him to my homecoming? He said he was going to ask me to make it easier but everyone is telling me I m supposed to ask him? It isn t a big deal but I need a second opinion. Thanks!

Ok there's this girl at my school and she's really pretty, I've talked to her before and basicly I have a crush on her. But 1 I don't know if she likes me back. First off we're not exactly friends. We talk maybe every ounce in a while, but I find if I were to ask her out it would be weird. Another thing is let's say she says yes? What do we do? I mean I think it would seem weird, we don't talk a lot at all. But she looks at me a lot in the hallway and then she's very shy around me in class. What do I do? I find her really attractive and it bugs me during the day, Im in 7th grade and it seems every one has a girlfriend. What do I do?

So I really really like this guy, his name is Ruben. But my best friend also likes him, like a lot. And he likes her too. But I feel like he also likes me, cause all the signs are there.nthe only difference between me and my best friend is that Ruben told my best friend that he likes her. I haven t told my best friend that I like him, cause I don t want her to get mad, or ruin our friendship. But at the same time it hurts to know that they will probably start dating.... What do I do

i work this beautiful teacher and shes my age and we actually went to the same college. I only spend about 90 minutes with her each day so i cherish the time we can actually talk when she isnt teaching. Find out today through the grape vine that she has a boyfriend. Why does this feel like such a punch to the gut!? This always happens and it is such a crappy feeling

i been with that girl for four years and a half as a distance relationship and we never met, we just meet on internet per cam or voice or texts, and i want to know if she is a vergin as she says or she is not. so how can i know? thanks

the guy i like shows so many signs he likes me he doesnt like me seeinghim look at me tho and eh tries to hide it, my friends looks at him when he thinks im not watching so they lmk, but im trying to figure out why he never makes eye contact he'll just look straight down at his phone

If your significant other decided to not have sex, for whatever reason, for who knows how long for, would you still stay with them or break up?

I support 2 departments at work, "A" 80% and "B" 20%. "B" is where I prefer working and they REALLY need me. The boss of "B" wants me to work for him, but the boss of "A" won't give me up. They recently hired this guy Joe who tries to be the boss of "B" even though he is not. He bossing me and this girl Sam around, even though he's not our boss. Then he spends most of his time making presentations or going to meetups where he talks about the business. Basically anything to make him look important. He only cares about making himself look good. He sometimes claims my and Sam's work as his own even though he's contributed nearly nothing. I'm at the point I want Joe fired. Sam and I have griped to management several times but they aren't witnessing the stuff we tell them about. Should I give the bosses an ultimatum to either fire him or I quit? I'm fine if they get rid of me. It's either that or I'm going to find a way to get him fired.

Well we been together for 4 months going into 5 and i love this girl so much she has had a alot of bad realtionships before me with cheating and also abuse.. i know our first month was hurt for her cause i also cheated on her but that time i never loved her and she forgave me.. i honestly died inside. I apologized several of times througout our relationship and even tho she says she forgives me i know deep down she really hasnt.. everyday we get drunk together and something always happends like we arque we scream we kick each other out of our house etc.. and i grown to love her i honestly havent loved someone so much in my life.. i only loved one person before but that was my first and yeah it happens and i never gave a damn about anyone since than until now like i cried for my girlfriend so many times i dont want to lose her but she has been telling me shes not happy she wants to go out places without me and i know im kind of clingy and all but i just dont want our love to slip or fade away.. i have been trying so hard soo sooo hard to keep us away from this like i havent been talking to no girls havent been hangin out with anyone but her she dosent trust me with hanging out with friends so i dont hang out with them she dont trust me on facebook so i dont get on iv been crying alot and i want it to stop i just want us to be real our love to be real i just hate myself i know its my fault i know im an asshole i know.... Idk what to do... I dont :,(

I've always been a sort of an introvert and always have been reluctant to go out with friends because its out of my comfort zone. I like this girl and I want to ask her to hang out somewhere else besides class. Where can I take her that won't make it obvious I like her? Somewhere it won't be awkward? I'm hoping after a few months of hanging out she'll like me and hopefully then I can truly ask her out

I put up a tbh on Instagram and she liked it. I thought about what I could say but I have no clue. I want her to know how I feel but I don't at the same time. I have no clue what to do

Hi there. I've never used this site before and I probably won't use it again. I just need some help as to what I should do about this. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now. We met through an art class and we're both the hippie type. We often smoke weed and take LSD. My boyfriend seemed fine when I first met him but lately, he's been so weird. I don't know if taking too many drugs can cause schizophrenia, but I'm seriously thinking that's what it is. We'll be sitting at the dinner table and he'll begin muttering and I'll ask him what he said and he'll say that he wasn't talking to me. When I ask who he's talking to, he replies with a friend of ours's name. Other times, he'll just sit there quietly and stare at random spots and I will try to talk to him or touch him and he acts as if I don't exist. And he also goes through periods of anxiety to the point that he has panic attacks and I have to calm him down. They happen out of nowhere and they scare the **** out of me. The other night, he broke two plates and tore our bedroom apart while screaming "get out!" I haven't looked much into it or anything because I'm afraid of what I'll find out. But I don't know what else to do. I'm afraid he's going to seriously hurt himself. Or me. I just don't want him to be locked away in an asylum. I love him so much and it pains me to see him like this. He's a stranger to me when he has those episodes. Could it be schizophrenia? Or is it something else? What can I do for him?

My girlfriend likes to go out clubbing with her friends. She went out on Friday so I figured I would go out with the boys. As luck would have it we ended up at the same bar. My friends didn't notice her and she didn't notice us. Anyway, she was dancing with this guy and he was all over her. She was grinding on him. He had his hands on her b00bs. He was kissing her neck. The whole nine yards. The thing was I loved it. For some reason it turned me on. I plan on following her this weekend in hopes she will get it on with another guy. My question is, why do I feel this way? Is there anything wrong with it?

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So this boy is on my tennis team and I am in a relationship with a guy already (gay) and me and my boyfriend are trying to get this other boy to like us and be in a relationship with us also. We have finally told him that we both like him and he said he didn't like us back. But after he found out about this, the next day we had a 4 hour car ride (2 hours each way) and when I sat next to him he would press his leg against mine without moving and also let me put a mint in his mouth slowly while looking me in the eyes, then he asked if I wanted it back (acting like I would take it with my mouth). Also on this day him and I were touching arms and holding each other's arms down ( rough housing) but at the end we slowly let go of each other's hands in a passionate type of way.. Like sliding off slowly. And before the tennis matches I poked his butt and he bent over in a joking way but he knows that we are gay and that we like him. And after all of this happened he got out of the van and I patted his back, he like warped his arm around mine for a second and said "see ya big boy" and walked away but turned around and smiled. I'm so confused, is he taunting us? Is he actually curious? Or is he just so fine with gay guys around him that he would act this way?

Ok so my love life in school is wired... Ok so my friends asked a guy out for me the last day of 5th grade.. Connor said no but I knew he liked me... Now I'm in 6th grade and yes there were moments but I stopped liking him and started liking a... Loser I guess. Connor is popular and I could have had him but I chose another guy. We aren't dating but my friend asked him to the dance for me and she said " Jordan wants to go to the... Then he said no... He knows I like him bec I told him and he said NO? He playes little games with me yes but, I don't have a date to the dance... All my friends got there " crushes" and I did not get mine? Thomas ( the guy I like isn't going with anyone but turned me down.. I know he doesn't like me but should I just go like Somone else? I caint like Connor because I ruined the chances... There WAS a high chance believe it or not. And he is very popular? I'm really upset because I don't think I'll ever get my crushes to like me? I fell confused i fell just 😕😕😕 I guess?

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I do not like a girl because of her personality, but she wants to be friends, we still have to interact with each other but it can be in a normal way. how do I make sure she knows I don't want to be friends with her?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months. He has a female bestfriend named Rita. Him and Rita are very close friends and I'm COMPLETELY fine with that. I understand he has female friends just like I have male friends. It's just the fact he'll leave me for her sometimes and I become the third wheel in my own relationship. I understand Shes brought him through hard times and I get that. But I want to help him too. I want to make sure he's okay also. It's like Rita number one and I'm two. I don't know what to do or what to say. Please help me.

Name I will not be hanging out with you or name. You choose not to be patient and understanding, knowing that I am in school and I am busy.I do not like to be stressed by anyone. With that said please let me be. Thank you and goodnight

My boyfriend has been acting strange for a very long time its been years he doesn't kiss me hug and we only have sex maybe once a year he was looking at other women or should I say starring he doesn't hold my hand or put his arms around me when we go out until we have to go past a group of men then he wants to hold hands when we are at home we don't talk much put when we have company he will talk if we go to his side of the family he will talk have a laugh kiss me everything put when we come back it goes back to being nothing. Lately I've notice he's watching men he's been texting someone when he supposed to have gone bed he hasn't changed his appearance yet at first I thought he was trying to figure out if he's gay or he's seeing someone kint figure out what's going on please help

I dont know what to do. We have been together 1.5 years. We have so much in common and love each other very much. However the only thing we fight about is each others kids. I have a 4 year old boy and he has a 9 year old boy. I feel that he gripes at my kid all the time and never his child. And when i do discipline his child he always justifies it and acts like his kid does nothing wrong.. Like his kid is just perfect. He tries to hold my son up to his 9 year old, like my son should act exactly like him. Idk maybe its me being over protective but its really a big issue for me that i dont know how to deal with.