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- Question: Question for girls who want to "settle down"??
- Question: GE dryer switch assembly?
- Question: How gullible was I being?
- Question: Is it bad to actually WANT to be alone?
- Question: Wife asked me to cumm in her highheel boots, then she wear them. I was scared to ask why she wanted me to. Ideas?
- Question: Make out help (2 girls)?
- Question: 16 no friends live in my room ��?
- Question: Estoy saliendo con un chico que no tiene ninguna clase de experiencia en relaciones serias?
- Question: Estoy saliendo con un chico que no tiene ninguna clase de experiencia en relaciones serias?
- Question: Where am I going wrong?
- Question: How do I ask my parents and my cousins who planned the trip if the guy I m dating can come with us to a two-day family outing?
- Question: Should I give this guy a chance?
- Question: Is wanting to have sex with dad s friend bad ?
- Question: How do I get my roll number?
- Question: Can men get too comfortable in a relationship?
- Question: Women s Studies project?
- Question: Doing the right thing just doesn't feel right this time....?
- Question: Should I forgive him?
- Question: Is it okay to end a "friends with benefits" relationship through text?
- Question: Coming of age depression (sorta)?
- Question: 36 and still in the closet?
- Question: How hard will it be for me to find someone who understands that I want to wait until marriage to have sex? Are my views just too outdated?
- Question: Que hacer cuando sientes que no eres suficientemente buena para tu pareja?
- Question: What do i do..help?
- Question: I have more room in the details section.?
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| Question: Question for girls who want to "settle down"?? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 02:58 PM PDT I'm running into a problem here. I'm a 22 year old guy. I'm a virgin and it's by choice. I've Been the stereotypical "good guy" or whatever my whole life. All I wanted to do was spend time to get my life where I want it to be. Then find a relationship. And im getting to that point now. I want to date with a serious mindset. With the idea that I've been waiting for them and they've waited for me. I've always just been overlooked I feel like. But now it seems like girls are wanting to "settle down" and become interested in a guy like me. But they want to settle down after years of hooking up or getting their heart broken. I just don't find that attractive. They say thing like "No hook ups anymore," or "tired of getting my heartbroken" like that isn't their fault. They want to settle down now. I've Been settled down my whole life. I don't need someone who woke up yesterday and got a different attitude. To me it's like, you can't just change into what I'm looking for. I mean. I think of myself as a good guy, but do girls really think they can just get a guy like me? but at the same time Idk if there are any girls like me. Seems like the standard today for even a "good girl" is to be a whore. I either need to find different girls, or just abandon my ways and start fuccing all these stupid girls that can't make up their mind. That would probably be more fun. But part of me is still focused on my goals. Idk what to do. |
| Question: GE dryer switch assembly? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 02:52 PM PDT Does anyone know the anatomy of a dryer switch? Ours simply came apart. the back unsnaped and all the pieces came out. I know where most of the parts go but two. I thought I would give it a shot to ask you if anyone on here knew how to put the pieces back to where they go. *I know where everything goes but the tiny spring and the piece next to it (that has a curve at the on the bottom edge) I included a link to the switch that came apart https://scontent-mia1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xpf1/t31.0-8/11802719_10153175953271167_1069119158962488144_o.jpg?efg=eyJpIjoidCJ9 |
| Question: How gullible was I being? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 02:46 PM PDT So about a month ago I stopped talking to someone I met on Plentyoffish and I feel really dumb for getting too attached. I should have known to walk away when he told me the second day we talked that he had just gotten out of a long term relationship, but no I ignored it and then I really began believing we had a connection. We seemed like we had a lot in common, went through some of the same things. Then one night he didn't talk to me for a long time even when I tried contacting him. One of the reasons was because he found out his recent ex was going to be at a birthday party he was going to be at and he said he unblocked her on Facebook to talk to her so he would make it clear he didn't want any problems. Well they went from talking through text to talking on the phone for about 10 minutes. I admit I was upset.. why would you want to talk to your ex if you like me? Thats what I didn't get and why wouldn't you want to talk to me first before her? I knew right there and then I needed to stop talking to this guy because there was already drama. Well a few days after that he texted me saying "what's up?" I never responded cause I knew I needed to move on and I haven't heard from him since. I just thought he was different. I, too, had gotten out of a long term relationship as well and I was trying to make a serious effort into getting to know him. He helped me realize I still wanted my ex and now I'm trying to move on from my ex as well. We had talked for 3 weeks. He was in the military and moving back home to my state where he would have lived near me. And wetexted and talked on the phone. *we texted and talked on the phone. |
| Question: Is it bad to actually WANT to be alone? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 02:32 PM PDT At only 17, being a girl, I strongly feel and truly believe I want to be alone. Like, I've been single for nearly my entire teens, and i honestly have never wanted to be with any of my past boyfriends. I honestly never cared for them, and its not like they didnt know, I think thats why they liked me so much because i didnt care about what they did, i was only with them for the **** of it, but to TRY to want somebody. lol. Like in the future, i plan on studying in Maryland and i want to adopt girls from China, for obvious reasons, i also want to adopt some from this country, because there are MANY children in need of homes, and maybe even go to a sperm bank so that I can have the experience in pregnancy. Anyways, I was just wondering if i was the only girl, or if its bad to actually want to be alone in life. People say im the emoji with heart eyes, and are always calling me cute and what not, i do "pull", I'm just not interested in anybody. Like is this even a sexuality? I feel like i dont need anybody, except my mom and family. |
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| Question: Make out help (2 girls)? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 01:58 PM PDT I am a girl and i have a girlfriend. We made out yesterday and we are going to again tomorrow. How can I kiss better? she likes lip biting and I do to but like what do I do to make it more exciting? |
| Question: 16 no friends live in my room ��? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 01:41 PM PDT Dont know why im posting guess it just feels good to let it out. So im 16 i had friends at school but i very rarely saw them out of school when i was younger i was always out and very active with friends but that changed when i moved about aged 14 since then nothing i leave my room to go work (im a mechanic) or to walk my dog apart from that nothing unless i have to get something and okay at first it was okay but these past few weeks it's really hit me and im just so down i mean ive actually been crying i have a motorcycle and sometimes when everything gets to much i will just go out for hours just me i dont know my head just feels alot clearer when im out with my bike its the closest i get to actually being happy (outside of work i do enjoy my job) but im just tired of having noone no friends ive never even had a proper girlfriend an at this rate ill never meet one it all just makes me feel so **** I really dont know what to do im just sick of coming back to four walls and nothing... |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 01:16 PM PDT Hace un mes que nos pusimos de novios. El me conto que nunca tuvo novia,una vez anduvo con una chica pero no fue nada serio y no duró mucho tiempo,en cambio yo tuve 2 relaciones anteriores a el. Una duro casi 2 años y la otra solo 3 meses. Con mi pareja actual tenemos la misma edad. Y tengo algunas dudas sobre si sera que realmente me quiere. El nunca hizo ningun esfuerzo por conquistarme cuando nos conocimos, nunca tuvo ningun detalle. Cuando nos vemos siempre me abraza,por ahi me acaricia,pero cuando vamos por la plaza nunca me agarra la mano, por ahi me dice cosas lindas pero no tan seguido. No es muy demostrativo. Algo que note que a el le gusta bastante salir de joda con los amigos. Sale mas con ellos que conmigo y les dedica mas tiempo ,mientras que a mi me ve dia por medio y maximo 2 horas. Siempre estamos en comunicación por whatsApp. Yo no quiero cortarle sus alas, aun no tuvimos relaciones ni lo presente a mi familia,creen que esto pueda funcionar ? Yo soy una chica que no sale mucho,rara vez voy a bailar,mas me la paso encerrada. La verdad no es facil, yo trato de no esperar nada de el porque no quiero decepcionarme A veces |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 01:09 PM PDT El tiene mi edad pero resulta que nunca tuvo novia,me dijo que tuvo algo con una chica pero que no duro nada de tiempo y que nunca nadie se intereso en el. y honestamente le creo,para mi el es un chico lindo , muy sencillo y no comprendo porque nadie se fijo en el. Los 2 tenemos la misma edad,pero yo tuve 2 novios antes que el,mi primera relacion duro casi 2 años y la segundo duro 3 meses y mi ex era un persona que me llevaba 6 años (por lo tanto aprendi muchas cosas). Me parece que este chico hasta es virgen, tambien les cuento que recien hace un mes que estamos saliendo pero el tiene un defecto, le gusta salir mucho con sus amigos, practicamente todos los fines de semana mientras que casi nunca sale conmigo. Siento que ellos les importan mas que yo, no digo que los deje de lado pero me parece q los valora mas a ellos que a mi. Otra cosa que observo es que el no es nada romantico,nunca hizo ningun esfuerzo por conquistarme,nunca tuvo ni un detalle y la verdad ni espero que lo haga. Cuando nos vemos lo hacemos dia por medio y solo nos vemos una hora como maximo 2 porque siempre estamos en comunicacion x medio de las redes sociales. A veces me da ganas de abandonarlo pero recien estamos comenzando y no me siento que realmente puedo exigirle muchas cosas,aun nunca tuvimos relaciones ni me presento a su familia. Ustedes que dicen? |
| Question: Where am I going wrong? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 12:57 PM PDT Where am I going wrong in life? I get abandoned or ignored everywhere I go. It s so bad that my so called girlfriend ignores me. All I ve ever done was try to be there for anyone. I ve been patient kind nice and everything. But I get treated horribly when I need help. No one tries and the people who say they re there aren t. My feelings are never listened to and if I have to go through another year like this then I m throwing in the towel and killing myself. Where am I going wrong |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 12:12 PM PDT I am 16, female and in college. So there s this guy I ve been seeing for a while now and we get along just fine. I know that I m falling for this guy and I think he s falling for me too, I mean he always talks about marrying me and posts statuses about falling for a special girl which I assume is me. He already met my parents personally once last september 10 2015. My family and relatives from my mother side knows his family and they know us too. I never told him that I love him because I dont want him to get confident about it. My cousin s fiance and my other cousin s boyfriend will be going here first week october 2015 to meet our family(from my father s side). BothBof my cousins are in a long distance relationship, Philippines-New York & Philippines-China. I wanted to bring the guy I m dating too with us so I can spend quality time with him and I can know him more. He will be going back to Las Vegas anytime between this october-december after four years of staying here(his dad called and wants them to go back to us asap to take care of the family company) . I wanted to have a memory of him before he goes back to the us, because it ll be a really long time before I can meet him again. He s filipino too and both of our family knows each other. Is it okay if I ask my parents and my cousins who planned the trip if he can go with us and how do I ask them? Thanks to those who will answer, xoxxox |
| Question: Should I give this guy a chance? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 11:10 AM PDT I started talking to this guy on Twitter in July; the way he just started talking to me out of nowhere was suspicious since we hadn't interacted in a long time(like 2 years at least). I was wondering if I was some sort of rebound, because I saw him with some girl not too many months before. But anyway, we talked, and he was there for me through my surgery. He checked up on me a lot, always texted me first. He seemed interested in getting to know me, and it was obvious that we liked each other. But then he started making too many innuendos and kept pushing me to come over to his house (we all know why he wanted me to come over) and eventually he apologized for being too pushy. But he still continued being sexual. So I blocked him on everything without warning and ignored him. He's been calling me on blocked numbers every so often and trying to talk to me on Twitter. He says hi to me in person, and at the senior picnic yesterday, He purposely stood right next to me while e threw the balls and dunked the teacher he knew I hated. I'm still very attracted to him, and he has a great personality, I just feel like he sees me as a walking vagina :/ |
| Question: Is wanting to have sex with dad s friend bad ? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 09:16 AM PDT I think he s hitting on me, he always tells me I m beautiful and how much he cares about me. but him and my dad are like brothers and he knew me from when I was a toddler. however I still have erotic dreams about him, am I a bad person ? |
| Question: How do I get my roll number? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 08:41 AM PDT |
| Question: Can men get too comfortable in a relationship? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 08:09 AM PDT Hi I was wondering if men can get too comfortable in a relationship me and my boyfriend have been together a year now love isn't an issue because there is so much of it there and he always makes me feel great telling me how beautiful I am how I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him etc but What gets me is the sex we have a great sex life but right now it seems the happier he is the less sex there is I'm findings self asking him things like why haven't you been up for sex lately or even asking for sex ! It can cause tension and arguments as I then tell him he can't be attracted to me sexually anymore. Please help ! |
| Question: Women s Studies project? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 05:13 AM PDT Basically I have to write a paper on an interview I will be conducting on an influential/inspiring woman in my life. I chose my cousin, who is a lesbian and also has cerebral palsy. I have to ask her questions whose answers are stories centred around issues that only come from being a woman. It s pretty vague. There are no set questions. I m just not sure what to ask. Suggestions? |
| Question: Doing the right thing just doesn't feel right this time....? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 05:06 AM PDT He's married but she's (the wife) (not me) cheated on him multiple time over the last 10 - 12 years. This last time the wife cheated she became very open with him (her husband) and actually confided in him when she was having problems with the new lover... her boyfriend...whom she had falling in love with. Spends nights out with the new boyfriend then gets home at 7 am with hangover and cries to her husband about how it just doesn't seem to be working and how much she loves him. The husband, at this point, is with out a doubt disgusted and is losing hope in himself and is contemplating the possibility of divorce. This husband and wife are high school sweathearts and are now 40 years old. So, the husband decides to search for me on facebook. I don't know who he is but he knows me because he was best friends with my sister who died when I was eleven... my sister was 14. So it's been a over 25 years and now he decides to find the sister of the friend he use to have in middle school to tell her he thinks about my sister all the time and he and my sister where soulmates... ... okay, regardless of where he's at in his life and how old we are when he finally wants to reach out, this guy is going to hold a special place in my heart...(unless he's completely lying to get back at his wife) So, I've opened my heart to this man. he's very sweet and we are very compatible from what I can tell... But... He's married. His wife has some infidelity issues. But, I can tell he still loves her |
| Question: Should I forgive him? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 04:18 AM PDT My boyfriend takes a high dosage of Prozac and he knows he's not supposed to drink on it. However he did and he called me to pick him up from a bar so he wouldn't drive under the influence. I brought him back to my house to sober up. When I went to the bathroom he downed some whiskey. When it all hit him, he became pretty violent. He almost raped me. He knows I'm not having sex until marriage. He forced himself on me and when I refused he started punching me and calling me a "b*tch" and pulling my hair. My mom had to help me fight him off until he passed out after throwing up. It was so bad we called the paramedics. Once he sobered up and got out of the hospital he called me to apologize. Should I forgive him since it was the alcohol and medication not him? This is the first and only time he ever got drunk or even drank for that matter. He said he did it because he didn't know how to cope with something My mom is upset not only for what he did to me but because he hit her also when she was trying to keep him from hurting me The only reason I mention the Prozac at all is because I heard mixing alcohol and meds makes the effects of the alcohol even worse |
| Question: Is it okay to end a "friends with benefits" relationship through text? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 04:14 AM PDT We've only been FWB for a little over a month, I want to end things because it isn't what I expected it to be and he's wanting more out of this. |
| Question: Coming of age depression (sorta)? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 02:48 AM PDT I'm 18 and finishing high school this year, I did it over 2 years though so all my friends are either at uni or just working. I didn't believe it but it's true, everything changes after high school. If all goes to plan for me I'm moving to a while away from my home town. Not even seeing my family for weeks or even months at a time, my old step brother I'll miss the most, I'm leaving behind so many friends in February, and I just think what's the point of making new friends or seeing them if I'm possibly not seeing them again? |
| Question: 36 and still in the closet? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 02:30 AM PDT I live in a country where consensual adult gay sex is illegal and people can be jailed for doing that Being gay per se is not illegal - but gay people are constantly being charged for "public indecency" for kissing or even holding hands in public My parents are getting really suspicious - I'm the only child and is expected to extend the family I can't talk to a therapist because I can guarantee that most of them will tell me to repent or say that being gay is unnatural Help? |
| Posted: 12 Sep 2015 02:23 AM PDT Let me start off by saying I am not religious at all and religion has nothing to do with my decision. That being said I do want to wait until marriage to have sex. It's not that I think people shouldn't have sex before marriage I don't really care, but for me personally I have always been more comfortable with waiting. I feel it's something I can only give someone once and I want to make sure it's to someone I can see myself spending the rest of my life with. That and you hear so much about stds and unwanted pregnancy that having sex in a monogamous marriage/relationship just seems safer. However most guys I try to date are instantly put off by my ideals. Some stay thinking I'll chnage my mind and when i don't they get upset and drop me instantly. They tell me that most girls in today's society grow out of this "phase" once they reach college and that it seems narrow minded for me to have these views since I'm 21. Guys that are okay with waiting are usually virgins themselves which is great! But they have all been VERY religious which like I said I am not. This causes conflict because they assume I am as well and that I will follow all religious rules. I know I won't change for anybody so I'm not asking if I should. But I'm just curious on what you feel my chances of finding anyone are? Be brutally honest about it if you have to. Well judging from most of the answers I guess I am in the wrong here. I think it would be best for me to just go on birth control and hope for the best with my next relationship and just let sex happen when it will. Thanks to everyone for answering me and thanks for the advice. |
| Question: Que hacer cuando sientes que no eres suficientemente buena para tu pareja? Posted: 12 Sep 2015 12:05 AM PDT Hace dos años llevo una relación, durante este tiempo me he dado cuenta que por culpa de mi baja autoestima no he podido complacerlo en el aspecto intimo, me aterra siempre que me vea desnuda me causa mucha vergüenza, he pensado en terminar la relación por todos mis complejos e inseguridades. Mi pareja dice que no le importa mi cuerpo que me quiere tal cual soy pero descubri que el pretende otra chica |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2015 11:12 PM PDT Less than 3 months ago, i started talking to my cousin. We'd text from like 2pm-7am literally. We wouldn't sleep until that time because every night we'd have something new to talk about. Later on, i realized i had been developing feelings. i know y'all are like oh my god how incest. It's not like i can choose who to like..i wish i could though..Anyway, this happened for like 1 month. I fell for him pretty hard. he just had all the qualities i want in a guy. we had the same taste in basically everything, and we would agree on everything too. All of a sudden he stopped replying to my texts. He has his read receipts on, and he reads my texts and never replies. I'm beyond hurt..we had gotten so far and suddenly he just disappears.. Its been almost like 2 or 3 weeks since we last talked. i still can't get over him and i swear everything reminds me of him. I'm extremely upset and i can't stop thinking about us. i start thinking about how good everything was before, and i start crying. help me, i don't know how to get over him? my best friends know about this, but they dont say anything because they're disappointed that i like my cousin. i need your guys' help. please. |
| Question: I have more room in the details section.? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 11:10 PM PDT So I really like this girl. And homecoming is coming up in about 2-3 weeks. I asked her tonight actually, at a football game. She said yes, and thinking my parents were completely supportive (at least my dad was), I had a little more confidence in myself. I even had a plan to get the money and everything. (My family is mormon, but me being a teenager I realize I don't believe in that.) I get home, tell my mother the big news (keep in mind I consulted with her a week before to make sure she was okay with me going to the dance (I have not told either of my parents the fact I don't want to be a Mormon. It's just not my thing blah blah "you have to be 16."), and she specifically stated that "she will not pay for it." I asked, "so if I get the money, you'll let me go?" She said possibly. That almost always means yes), and she shoots me down completely by saying "uhhh no. You have to be 16." ...WHAT!? YOU NEVER SAID THAT A WEEK BEFORE!? AND SHE STRAIGHT UP LIED TO MY FACE SAYING "I remember. I said that." MOM I THINK I HAVE A FASTER, BETTER MEMORY THAN YOU. ...anyways, and the reason she strictly gave me was, and you're gonna love this; "because I said so." Can anyone please give me sage advice to convince my mother to just give me the freedom to dance with a girl that makes me really happy? The fact that I even built up the courage to ask her is crazy. And now I'm being let down by my own mother. I thought she'd be supporting me. But I guess not. |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2015 11:03 PM PDT My husband cheated on me with different women, but we already talked about his problems why he did that to me -mainly because of his sexual addiction. He told me he already stopped seeing any of them since I caught all the text messages in his phone. |
| Question: Is this okay for a teacher to do? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 10:06 PM PDT Well let me start by saying my name is Jake and I'm a fourteen year old male, Now that that's out of the way...I have a teacher I'll call her Mrs. Cox she's about thirty five to forty and a while back she was helping me with a problem and her hand grazed against my junk and I brushed it off and thought it was a little mistake but then it started to get weird such as she would give me shoulder massages, make me stay in her class during lunch because she said I've not been listening during class, resting her cleavege against the back of my head pretending like she was overlooking my work and sneaking touches of my junk its happens about five times already. She asked me if I had a phone number but I got nervous and said I don't own a phone now she wants me to stay after school with another classmate or go to her house to tutor and I don't know what to do.....do I tell my parents another teacher my principal i don't know what to do or know what will happen if I go to her house or stay after school....Help me I need you answers thanks |
| Question: Mum is overreacting over nail polish??!!? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 09:50 PM PDT My mum won't let me polish my nails, black just 'cause she thinks I'm emo I love rock and I love the colour black but, now she's very angry saying why I don't polish my nails a different girl colour. :/ well, my family says I can't get dark colours… my family says that if I want piercings that I gotta leave the house and forget I have a mum… :/ I'm 17, and I just don't understand why my mum is overreacting??!? :( |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2015 08:54 PM PDT I love you mom. You are truly amazing! You are such a determined, strong, beautiful, encouraging, passionate woman....so many words to describe how awesome you are. You push me to do my best even when I think it's impossible. You will never know how much I appreciate you. I am so beyond thankful and lucky to have you as my mother. You are my world. Thank you for everything. |
| Posted: 11 Sep 2015 07:52 PM PDT I go to practices at 6:30am to 8:10am I am always on time and do what's expected and even more when not asked too (I would say I'm one the best when it comes to work ethic and training). We also have after school practice that starts at 4:25 and ends at 5:40 I do that three times a week and in my class period(everyday) I give water out to all the sports that are going on I have never missed a football game in my almost 3 years of training. The reason for missing the football game is because I'm going to a festival and the head trainers claim I'm going to have fun and "party" when truly I don't think its none of their bussines its not like I get paid for this its an extracurricular activity but, if it was a wedding it would not matter apparently. My punishment is that I can't Train (help out) another Varsity game. So besides the one I'm missing I am going it miss another one which I don't think is fair because other trainers show up late don't do their job and they get to work varsity games when I get punished for not being able to go to one game. Thoughts? And don't say suck it up because there is a lot worse stuff theses head trainers do that is not fair. We also have enough trainers to cover me so its not like omg I'm gone every thing is going to go downhill. I also told them truth because i could've just lied to them about it but, I didn't. |
| Question: What can two friends do for little ganes? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 07:49 PM PDT |
| Question: What should I expect in meeting up with an ex half a year later (after no contact)? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 07:14 PM PDT I (not so reluctantly) agreed to meet with an ex whom I dated for many months, but it ended prematurely before it even took off. It ended because of his fears and doubts, which I didn't get closure on until now (but I had an idea when it happened). I didn't talk to him at ALL after, we just stopped talking. There was no real breakup, just a sudden stop in communication. Now, 6 months later, he contacted me out of the blue apologizing profusely and writing a bunch of things out - which I don't doubt is all sincere. He told me that all he wanted was for me to listen so he could talk about "things"/what happened, and I agreed that I'll at least listen. He's been very gracious about me accepting to meet him to talk and has thanked me a couple times already. I am not exactly sure what he wants to hash out so badly, but would it likely just be a longer apology? Or is he going to get emotional and beg for a second chance? I really am just nervous about what I should anticipate since I've never been in this situation. What should I expect? We're going to get coffee so I can't imagine it'd get THAT deep |
| Question: Im a violent girl...? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 07:13 PM PDT is it because one of my mother was very violent towards my mother since I was very little?? |
| Question: How do i put a post in the stream of ask.fm? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 06:28 PM PDT |
| Question: What would you do if your mom wore these pants? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 06:21 PM PDT okay, I'm an upstraight guy, but lately my mom has started wearing these leather pants and I dont know how to react to it. Im not into incest, but why am I into her in these. Im scared help! |
| Question: How to get rid of pride and arrogance and ego? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 05:48 PM PDT Okay so I'm stuck between two personalities - Ive always been a loving, caring sort of girl. Always helping people such as friends, family, and others too. I am a genuine girl. I have a weak heart so there are certain people I can't open myself up to as I have been hurt a lot (except my boyfriend, as he is the only one I will ever be open too and share my feelings. He knows my humble & weak side) - Whereas, everyone else can see my heartless side. My career goal is to be a teacher, I am great with kids and love to help others. My boyfriend can see that side to me, but that's because he's hurt me too and we have been through a lot which is why he has seen that weak side of mine. He knows me deep down and how humble I am. So that is basically one personality of mine. The other personality (which I hate) is my heartless, arrogant side. Believe me I've only noticed this now, I am not a bad person But this is a issue which is getting worse. I feel too smart for others, too mature to be around others, and my ego is getting craaaazy big now. And this is because I have been through a lot - maybe this is a reason I'm not sure. I struggled so much to find a good college this year, one that has the best lecturers, the best building, the best everything. Why am I like this. What has happened to my ego? I really wasn't like this before, I compare myself so much to others as if I'm better than them, which I know I'm not but I think silly things like that. Help!? |
| Question: Dads 25 yr old gf, attractive? Nice legs? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 04:56 PM PDT She's sitting down and in the blue. |
| Question: What's "oral sex?" If it's what I think-please be honest? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 04:08 PM PDT I've had SEVERAL 1 nighters, but-never knew what this form was..... |
| Question: When was the last time you smiled? Why? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 03:56 PM PDT |
| Question: I have an EXTREMELY short temper? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 03:35 PM PDT Small things really piss me off, like being tickled or poked or even just being told things that I don't wanna hear. I've tried occupying myself with relaxing activities, like yoga or a bubble bath, but it didn't help at all. I've tried squeezing weights or ball weights, and punching things like pillows, also didn't work. I tried staying out of the house for a little while by taking short walks, or just playing around in my backyard, admiring nature. Still angry all the time. Plus my parents and brother don't understand it. They don't even try to help me. They just call me a baby and make fun of me for it, and laugh at it like it's some kind of joke. I've already asked for meds, but my parents just keep saying I don't need them. What am I supposed to do?? Ugh. Thanks anonymous guy. Great advice. 10/10 I guess I should've been expecting negativity from someone, I'll just have to re-ask this question, sorry. Yay! That anonymous guys comment was deleted XD I can't decide which one is the best! ug |
| Question: If something got stepped and broken does this warrant getting mad? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 03:21 PM PDT I've only been seeing her for a couple of weeks, and today was a the 2nd she has stepped on something of mine and it has broken. The first time was a cheap pair of sunglasses, but today it was remote control. She is a bigger lady, and both time she had already taken her sandals off. In both instances she never even looked back, but I could hear it crack. She has the personality to seems that if I said something she would not even care or just tell me too bad. I wanted to confront her right then, but I just held my breath. I'm not sure if I should be mad at her or is it just she can't see or feel what she steps on. |
| Question: My friend seriously believes he s in the 1990s? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 03:17 PM PDT My friend and I are 17 and juniors in high school. Everyday for the past few years he s dated our assignments -/--/1995, 1996, and now 1997. He s actually using Windows 95 and excited for windows 98 coming out "this upcoming spring". He has his watch set to 1997 and he says he s never heard of things like Sopnge Bob, Wiz Khalifa, and today he was seriously confused about the remembrance of 9/11, which is messed up. I know him and he s not cruel like that to pretend that it didn t happen "yet". I know he s not joking and this question isn t a joke. What could be wrong with him and what can I do? It interferes with his social life and many other aspects. Please help me out. |
| Question: In stuck between giving him a chance and continuing to ignore him? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 03:04 PM PDT I've Had it predisposed in my head that he's a player because he dated multiple girls in middle school. Hes only dated 2 people in HS, however. The summer after junior year, he starts DMing me. he asked for my number. We texted for a couple of days about light hearted stuff like our ethnicities (we have the same),hobbies, friends, etc. he then started to get more and more sexual. He was really desperate one day to get me to come over. I don't want to sleep with anyone who Im not in an official relationship with for at least several months. He kept pushing to the point where he was being down right inconsiderate, so I blocked him on every social network but Twitter, where I just ignored his DMs. Although he did apologize for being pushy, I still blocked him anyway. This was in July. Throughout August and even now, he's been trying to reach me by calling on blocked numbers. He called last night actually. He's still very sweet to me and says hi at school. Today was senior fun day. He paid to dunk a teacher, and I know he did it for me. He knew I hated that teacher and he stood right next to me with each throw, and dunked her twice in a row. I'm a softie, and that was definitely cute to me. I also had a major surgery over the summer and he was very supportive And caring throughout that.Thoughts? |
| Question: He said he'd kill me? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 01:51 PM PDT Long story short I had a fight with my boyfriend. Neither of us are really the romantic type, but I do appreciate a gesture once in a while. I'm not even talking about flowers and dates. Something as little as saying "hey I heard this song today and it reminded me of you" is more than enough. We were arguing and I said "Everything I ever did for you and gave you - all the phone calls, pet names, hugs, kisses, movie nights, sleeping over, cuddles, jokes, dates and everything in between; all of that someone is going to have and I hope you know that. You do nothing to keep me. As soon as something turns bad you become cold." And here he just lost it. He started asking if I've found someone else (I haven't, nor am I looking for), saying if I did it "I'll be sorry" and that if he saw me with someone he'll make and the other guy's lives hell. These are his literate words. I called him out on this and said that because of boyfriends/husbands like him a lot of women have turned up dead. First it starts verbally and eventually it becomes physical, I know how this goes. I know that this will sound cliché but this is the first time he has said this and other than that he is the sweetest, but since today I don't think I can trust him. I want to see things from a different angle, through someone else's pov. We've been dating for 10 months now and both us are 20, if that makes any difference. I need advice :( Thank you for your time. |
| Question: Why do boys get more freedom than girls? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 12:05 PM PDT A couple months ago I asked my mom to go to Amsterdam (I live in Holland and I was 19 at the time and my brother is only a year and 6 months apart) for just an hour with a friend and my mom called brother and asked him if he could talk to me i'm going to Amsterdam not to Las Vegas!! but when my brother wants to go to Spain on vacation with his friends my parents are like "have fun son!" |
| Question: How to get over someone a lot older than me? Posted: 11 Sep 2015 11:48 AM PDT My freshman year of high school I had a teacher that I had a crush on, and obviously it was immature and typical behavior of someone my age. But later in the year, my mom passed away. It turns out he was one of the main people who helped me stay on my feet. I talked to him a lot about how I felt and he was very good at listening and giving me advice back. My little crush turned into more of an admiration. He told me stories about the things that he has been through and it seems like every problem I had, he had an answer for. This combined with finding him attractive is kinda a lethal combo. I m a freshman in college now and I still talk to him pretty often. He has been here for me for the last 4 years of my life and helped me through many struggles. When I was in high school, he was engaged and then married. And somehow still after this long, I find myself thinking about him a lot. And a lot of times when I m doing something (anything fun, adventurous, etc) I always wish he was with me. We listen to similar music, have the same sense of humor, are athletic, have a strong love for the ocean, etc. We agree about almost everything. It s hard for me to not have any type of feelings towards him. Obviously I meet people and have interest in people my own age, too. He isn t keeping me from dating or anything, but he is always in the back of my mind and I d like to have that not be the case. Does anyone have any advice? Again, sorry for how long this was. |
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