Marriage & Divorce: Question: Why do unsuccessful people date or get married when they need to focus on being successful first? |
- Question: Why do unsuccessful people date or get married when they need to focus on being successful first?
- Question: What do married couples do in the evening?
- Question: Why does the wife take half in a divorce?
- Question: Where is my sex drive?
- Question: Ex is still being a jerk, what gives?
- Question: Would you consider marrying someone twice divorced if they had learned from their mistakes?
- Question: Do toads take food from humans?
- Question: How to handle an ex husband?
- Question: Im interested in death by dignity, my husband will not talk about it, im making the arrangements, Should i make them without bothering him?
- Question: Is same sex marriage legal in Australia now?
- Question: How did you know when it was time for divorce?
- Question: Why does my husband make me eat his poo?
- Question: My wife filed for divorce 3 weeks ago, I miss her very much should I reach out and try to reconcile?
- Question: I m 16 and my fiancé is 19, we want to get married in California, what do we have to do?
- Question: How to get my husband's attention?
- Question: I know lying to your spouse is wrong... but are there exceptions?
- Question: Why does spouse give different answers to the same question?
- Question: I have gotten married and I need for my last name to be changed so when people see it it will say Lewis not McDowell?
- Question: Why do people get married when we are supposed to focus on bettering ourselves?
- Question: My wife told me that she doesn't love me anymore.She said that we grow apart and either open marriage or no sex anymore. What should I do?
- Question: I might have ruined a marriage ?
- Question: My husband says I'm annoying and a pain in the *** and will scream that stuff at me in front of our kids. Would you put up with that?
- Question: Husband cheated with kik app and craigslist?
- Question: Do u ever get closure to a 9 year marriage that's ends bad?
- Question: Moving out of state with son?
- Question: My wife decided to have sex with an older woman. Is this the end of a marriage?
- Question: Family in law problems?
- Question: I'm a married man but emotionally connected to another woman. What should I do?
- Question: How do you deal with these feelings?
- Question: Should we go to the Bachelor/Bacheloret party? Trying to save money but its not often My wife and I get a chance to go to one. Wedding party?
- Question: Guys who don't post anything about the person they are with??
- Question: How can I tell my wife that my brother needed the money?
- Question: My wife says she's worried that we're drifting apart?
- Question: Just saw husband cry for the first time?
- Question: FWB Said He Was Going To Marry Me?
- Question: Why dont married people just have seperate bank accounts?
- Question: Should guys that secretly cheat on their wives and have children with other women pay child support?
- Question: Ladies or gentleman I guess lol Would you divorce a second spouse if they didn't discipline their kids?
- Question: Could my being defensive hurt my marriage and other relationships?
- Question: Why did my wife lie about giving her lover head when she had her affair? She said they just had sex only?
- Question: What if you found out that your husband had a baby with another chick and that he denied being married to the chick?
- Question: No family member is willing to take custody of our child?
- Question: My husband is using some sort of drug and I don't know what to do?
- Question: My husband cheated on me and we are thinking of separating. We don t sleep in the same room anymore.But I m thinking of having sex with him?
- Question: How often should a husband go out?
- Question: Same argument over and over, need solution?
- Question: My husband just told me he cheated on me 4 years ago with his ex that he left for me while I was pregnant?
- Question: Do you think that it's better to get married or play video games?
- Question: I like it when my wife flerts with other men?
- Question: First anniversary, what should we do?
- Question: Who is this homewreker that supposably is ******* my husband? Jeremiah Adams?
- Question: Does you wife always want to win an argument?
- Question: How can i find out if my wife has an at&t go phone?
- Question: What if your husband is starting to want to see porn and use toys?
- Question: Is marriage for me?
- Question: Help me I'm at my braking point!!!!!!!?
- Question: My husband needs his sister's help not mine?
- Question: Are my emotions appropriate for the situation?
- Question: Should I trust my instincts or am I overacting?
| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 09:38 PM PDT Unsuccessful people=people who work awful jobs that barely make them anything or require them to work two or three jobs to stay alive or have to live with parents or tons of roommates Shouldn't they focus on success first? I mean if they can't feed themselves or barely feed themselves only if they live with like 3 roommates and eat nothing but pb&j sandwiches, then they obviously are unfit for dating or marriage, right? |
| Question: What do married couples do in the evening? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 09:13 PM PDT This may sound like a stupid question but I'm bored with my husband. Before marriage all he used to talk about was economics and finance..I thought he loved the subject and used to show interest. After 5 yes of marriage, he still talks about economics, finance and politics. I too have interest with him and do participate now but....he also talks about his job, his boss, his salary, his job frustrations like 24X7. Sometimes I want to run away from him. In the evening, he comes home..talks about the same repetitive stuff, puts on news...and takes his laptop and sits on the couch....and I'm all alone with our son..it's like we have no life..we are new to a city so not much friends. We go to all inclusive resort for vacations..there he gets his drinks and talks how much the hotel is worth, what's the salary of the workers here..etc..I mean it's the same same same stuff all the time.....I'm so frustrated....even when we go out or meet anybody..he talks the same stuff....is ur family or couple life same like mine too?! |
| Question: Why does the wife take half in a divorce? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 09:04 PM PDT since when was it ok for a wife to take your hard earned money and assets just because she leaves you. im 17 btw, and i dont understand this logic in divorces, so she decides she does not love you anymore, thats ok you both part ways but now you have to pay her alimony and she gets half of everything you have. i dont understand the legal system here. |
| Question: Where is my sex drive? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:52 PM PDT I am a 23 year old female with 2 small children and a husband of 5 years. I attracted to him of course and I love him very much but sex is out of the question. I feel like it has become a chore to have sex and anytime I get to decide if I want to or not I choose to go to sleep instead. I am genuinely stressed during the day but I don't think it has to do with it. I can't please my husband because I'm NEVER in the mood and it has gotten very bad. I can't talk to him becauaeni don't know what to tell him. I'm just never interested in sex anymore and I feel like this isn't normal for someone my age. Please help me |
| Question: Ex is still being a jerk, what gives? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:50 PM PDT I just recently called to order replacement insurance cards for my kids. My ex was court ordered to keep insurance on them, so he is the policy holder. Anything that happens or I do, whether its a dental cleaning or what, his insurance alerts him. Well I ordered new cards because I missplaced them. He will get the cards sent to him by the company,and then he has to send them to me, which he refuses. It's been about a month and I know he got the cards already, but he won't send them to me and I need them. TI am not the policy holder, so they won't send them directly to me. What can I do? We are not on speaking terms and he and I have not spoke in about 7 months. |
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| Question: Do toads take food from humans? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:42 PM PDT We have a toad that comes up on deck nightly and takes food from my husband. |
| Question: How to handle an ex husband? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:36 PM PDT My ex husband will not respect my home. First he just started paying support after 2 years of job hopping, then now since he has stopped seeing his kids, he stopped calling too. He went from daily, to weekly, to monthly and now barely anything. I work nights, so I sleep some during the day. Whenever he does call, its usually in the morning or late at night when the kids are in the bed. I have asked him repeatedly to respect that I am sleeping in the morning and the kids are in school as well, to call in the early evening. He just called a few nights ago at 1 in the morning. I was off work, but in the bed, when he called and woke me up, only to say nothing, but I could hear him breathing, and then he hung up. What can I do besides change my number? |
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| Question: Is same sex marriage legal in Australia now? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:22 PM PDT |
| Question: How did you know when it was time for divorce? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:07 PM PDT |
| Question: Why does my husband make me eat his poo? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:06 PM PDT Seriously, every time he goes poo, he yells at me and makes me eat it. I love him dearly and have been married to him for 6 years this December, but this is pretty nasty. It tastes awful but he yells at me if I don't do it. Otherwise he's a sweet and caring man, but he just won't take no for an answer when it comes to me eating his poo. Any other housewives of Y!A have this issue? To be clear, by "poo" I mean feces. |
| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 07:27 PM PDT I haven't seen or spoken to her since she filed but I miss her dearly, I want to work things out so I am wondering if I should reach out. I didn't cheat on her anything nor any abuse. I just worked a lot and didn't have much time for her as of lately, last time we spoke she told me she was falling out of love with me which hurt her because she's loved me more than anything. |
| Question: I m 16 and my fiancé is 19, we want to get married in California, what do we have to do? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 06:32 PM PDT I know you have to get parent permission but what exactly would the process be? I read that you would need to get counselling first, if so how would I go about doing all that? Help would be appreciated, I m confused |
| Question: How to get my husband's attention? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 06:31 PM PDT I am married for 5 months, it is a love marriage, we dated for 1.5 years before marrying. I am not working and we live in abroad, I don't have any relatives or friends here. Sometimes I feel like while we were dating we used to have a deeper connection, used to share more, and I want that again. He works full time, comes home we have dinner and watch TV, go to sleep. He is not romantic or gives attention to me like he was when we were dating, unless it is anniversary. We used to talk hours about things and share a lot. Having no friends here also makes me want more connection and want to share more with my husband. I mostly nag about it to him and it makes worse my husband doesn't like my neediness and nagging about things. How can I get his attention and make him want to chase after me, talk and make him do all things that I am doing? |
| Question: I know lying to your spouse is wrong... but are there exceptions? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 05:13 PM PDT My husband is in another city for a few days for his job. He will be home Saturday. This morning I took a pregnancy test and got a positive. Am I deceiving him by not telling him until he gets home? I just want to say it in person rather than the phone, but I do not want him to be insulted that I was keeping a secret from him. Is this ok? |
| Question: Why does spouse give different answers to the same question? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 05:11 PM PDT |
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| Question: Why do people get married when we are supposed to focus on bettering ourselves? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 04:23 PM PDT We're not supposed to focus on girls. We're supposed to focus on getting a job and a car. So, why do people get married? |
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| Question: I might have ruined a marriage ? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 03:34 PM PDT |
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| Question: Husband cheated with kik app and craigslist? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 02:56 PM PDT My husband of 7 years and father of my children has a kik app account where he send masterbation videos and pictures to people. He also was answering craigslist personals. One of the people he was kik chatting was his older brother. His brother sent my husband pictures of his wife naked and a video of them having sex. My husband said to his brother he enjoyed them and wanted to have sex with his sister inlaw sometime and wanted some of her panties. Hes never cheated that i no of. He admitted he cheated in the way that he did something he would never want me to do to him.. he says hes sorry, he blames his brother, that he meant nothing he said to his brother, that the craigslist messages were never received and that he wont do it again. Advice? |
| Question: Do u ever get closure to a 9 year marriage that's ends bad? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 02:47 PM PDT |
| Question: Moving out of state with son? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 02:46 PM PDT My ex and I have been separated since 2009, and about to get divorce finalized. We have a 7 year old son. He moved out of state, to Kansas while I have remained in Oklahoma all these years. He now lives in Texas. I'm going to remarry, and join my future husband in Colorado where he has lived his whole life. I understand I will have to give a notice to ex on moving, and also he has hardly seen his son and we never had a parenting plan before. My question is, is there any way he could stop the move? |
| Question: My wife decided to have sex with an older woman. Is this the end of a marriage? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 02:39 PM PDT We have been married for 15 years, I am 45 and my wife is 36. She hasn't been able to have an orgasm for the past 7 years. I have tried everything. I even told her to try another man, someone that she might like, but she refused. We have a friend, a 59 year old voluptuous lady who has been our friend for the past 3 years. She is a lovely and beautiful person who has been divorced for the past 20 years. We talked about naturism one day and decided to go to a nudist campground together. They both had drinks at the pool and we all have a great experience. On the way home my wife said that she wanted to have a threesome. I immediately thought that she was kidding, but she was serious. We went to her house and played for a while, we got naked and my wife asked me to have sex with her in different positions. I wanted to make love to my wife but she commanded me to kept going and going with our friend. I couldn't continue, because it felt weird. Then the lady asked my wife to stop watching and get in bed with her, they both started kissing and our friend went down on my wife, gave her oral sex and made her have a great orgasm in 3 minutes!. Not only that, my wife kissed her more, thanked her and made the lady *** with a sex toy. I am still astonished, but my wife talks about this experience like is very normal. I love my wife so much. I wonder where is this going? Is this the end of my marriage? I really need an answer from someone who had a similar experience. Thanks. |
| Question: Family in law problems? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 02:30 PM PDT My wife spends all of our money and then asks her family for help. I currently am not getting income anymore because I'm off work due to a physical illness that's rotting my foot off basically and I'm trying to get it healed. She got in my face last time and I almost called the cops because she wouldn't leave. I don't ask her for money and tell her not to give any becauseI she enables my wife to her shopping problem. My wife has made half of my income or been unemployed since we've been together. She has even forged my checks and spent them causing us problems. If her aunt does get in my face for something i can't control and won't leave, what all can i charge her for if she doesn't leave if i call the police? My wife and I are going to divorce. I don't need her problems anymore. I tell her aunt this and she tells me I'm lazy for not working when I've only been off the last month. She has admitted my wife has a problem but doesn't care because she's family. I moved here from out of state to be with my wife and kid. I have no family and I've told her to keep her money and mind her business. I am planning on selling possessions I have to make bills while I am not receiving income. She tells me if i don't start working they will move Krystal and my son in with her grandma (even though she isn't solely responsible for custody) and leave me homeless. I laugh and say okay because I won't be homeless. I typically work 50-60 hours a week. |
| Question: I'm a married man but emotionally connected to another woman. What should I do? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 02:23 PM PDT I don't plan to leave my wife and I don't plan to become physically intimate with this young woman but I am very attracted and intrigued by this young woman... Sometimes I feel as if I know her needs and desires even if we don't communicate for a little while... I've conversed with her for over 2 years now & my wife hasn't met her. We flirt from time to time through text... I'm in my early 40s and she is in her mid 20s. She also has a boyfriend she's been with for a year and a few months. I've met him a couple of times She gives me good vibes and good energy. She inspires and motivates me.... What should I do? |
| Question: How do you deal with these feelings? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 02:06 PM PDT Say you're married and have kids. He cheats on you. He doesn't want to work things out with you and marries the other woman. You have so many strong feelings. The first of which is, "I didn't forfeit the right to see my kids daily. He did!" But you decide to outwardly make the best of it for the kids. How do you deal with that feeling, though? How do you deal with vengeful feelings? You want vengeance on both of them. Her, because you knew her and she knew he was married to you. Him, because he was married to you. How do you deal with that? How do you deal with wanting to go to any and all extremes to get back at him? You don't want to have to share your kids with the woman he left you for, yet you have to and it hurts. But you would never use the kids as a weapon. |
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| Question: Guys who don't post anything about the person they are with?? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 01:16 PM PDT Is it normal for a husband of 3 years to not post anything not even a picture of his wife on social media. They are both 23 years old and have 2 children together. He posts them all the time but the couple recently just got back together after a bad break up and the wife always post pictures of him and them together and statuses about him so everyone is aware they are back together. My question simple is this normal for a recently back together couple????? And what are some reasons he's not posting any.?? |
| Question: How can I tell my wife that my brother needed the money? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 01:09 PM PDT I have been with my wife for 5 years now and we've known each other for 8. Since we married, we have two children and we have been saving a lot from both our jobs. About two years ago, my wife told me she didn't feel happy with her body so I asked what she wanted to do. She told me she wanted breast augmentation and I agreed and I told her that if it's what makes her happy, then go ahead. She has not mentioned anything these two past years but she HAS been saving money for quite a time now. And she even has more than she should for her implants. Well, about a year ago, my brother and my wife's cousin got together (didn't marry) because she was already pregnant. And the girl was having a fit because he hasn't bought her a car. The problem is, she wants a Cadillac and she doesn't know how to drive. One of those new ones. So, today I went with my brother to see the car and buy it. I let him take some money out of the account and now my wife is mad because half of that.money was hers. She didn't yell at me but she told me she was disappointed and she worked hard to save it that she gave up so many things such as shopping and going out with friends and ETC. My brother did have enough money to buy the car but I didn't want him to waste it all. Now I don't know what to do.. please help? |
| Question: My wife says she's worried that we're drifting apart? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 01:07 PM PDT My wife, like most women, gets in really strange moods once in a while. It stresses me out. Recently she's been whining that she thinks we're drifting apart. I don't know what she's talking about. I feel as close to her as I ever have. Sometimes she'll start saying stupid things like, "You've never loved me! You're always fooling around with other women! You think you're so much better than I am" And this crap makes me really stressed, and depresses me greatly. Have I had affairs? Of course. Who hasn't? But, as the years have gone by I have stopped having them. I don't get anything out of them. I've sampled a smorgasbord of women, and, after a while, they're all about the same. However, I recently have become interested in chat rooms, and I have met many online friends. Most of which are females. When I told my wife about this, she freaked out. It annoyed me. I said, "Listen, we're friends. We talk about our careers, interests, love lives, the usual stuff. She then asked whether I had fallen in love with any of them. I told her no, but, the truth is, there's this girl named Sandy who I'm really falling for. She lives in the awful nation of Nigeria, and she's the hardest working and most wonderful young woman I have ever met. She's 20, and I'm 60, but there's a real connection here. Last night I printed out a passport to get her into this country, and I printed out one for myself so I can go to her hellhole, and smuggle her out. How should I tell my wife I'm leaving her? |
| Question: Just saw husband cry for the first time? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:57 PM PDT Something is really wrong he's 27 and we've been together for 10 years and he just recently left the army. Well I went down to his man cave and he was on the floor with a bottle of Jack Daniels and he was crying he didn't see me but I don't know how to ask him about what he's crying about. |
| Question: FWB Said He Was Going To Marry Me? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:32 PM PDT "If I'm not married by 30 years I am going to marry you." Does he mean it? |
| Question: Why dont married people just have seperate bank accounts? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:23 PM PDT Cuz what if a mans rich and his wife just keeps spending his money on expensive stuff all the time lol |
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| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:12 PM PDT My husband doesn't discipline his kids from his first marriage. They are terrors! Mostly the 7 year old. She lies destroys stuff and talks back. She destroyed my mothers expensive leather couch and my husband didn't punish her or offer to pay for the repairs. She put deep scratches in it and then peeled the leather off. I can't take it anymore! I talked to my husband about it last night and he almost didn't say much. |
| Question: Could my being defensive hurt my marriage and other relationships? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 12:09 PM PDT Ever since I can remember, I have been very sensitive to criticism. People would try to give me help or ideas for improvement and I would take it very personally and either give an answer to the person that they were not expecting or outright lash out at them. This situation did not improve in one of my jobs were I worked for a manager who had it in for me and I felt the need to defend myself all the time. This carried over into other jobs were I felt that if I did not "defend" myself, I'd be lunch for someone else. My wife feel that she has to be careful saying things to me so that she does not give even the appearance of criticism because I will turn into a defense attorney. I will now even think that she is thinking about criticizing me when she isn't and that leads her to say "you are bringing that up or seeing it that way, not me and I don't want to talk to you because I can't win." Am I potentially hurting my marriage and other relationships? If so, what should I do? |
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| Question: No family member is willing to take custody of our child? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 11:44 AM PDT Me and my husband are soon getting a divorce. He refuse to take custody of our 6 year old son and it won't work for me to take him, because I will be getting a new job far away and I won't have to time to take care of children. We have called every single one of our relatives and they told us that they cannot do it. They are either too busy, have children of their own, or just don't want to. Any advice? |
| Question: My husband is using some sort of drug and I don't know what to do? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 11:08 AM PDT He has always been a drinker. I would say he's an alcoholic, he would disagree. I put up with it because we have a 3 year old that I can't imagine having to share with him. This past weekend he started acting weird. I noticed his eyes right away and he said he was just tired. I didn't think much else of it, until we came home and he was passed out on the floor sitting up against our back door. My 9 year old found him like that. We immediately left the house and went to my parents. I figured he was just passed out from drinking. The next day my younger son and I went home and found him standing up shaking/having tremors, but basically asleep. I tried talking to him to make sure he was okay and he looked at me and had the glassiest eyes I have ever seen. He continued like that for about 2 hours, changing positions but still sleeping (or whatever). We left again and stayed the night at my parents house. I checked on him again the next day and he was still acting the same way. I found his phone and went through it where I found a text message from someone talking about how to order and whether he had received his "care package" in the mail to which my husband told him yes and that it was the sh*t. I also found text message from his boss wondering where he was and why he hadn't called into work. I am really worried about him, but also so sick of living like this. Now this has just pushed it over the edge. What could he be on? I am wondering if I go home today and he is still in the same state of mind if I should call the non emergency police number and have them do a welfare check on him? I don't want him hurting himself or anyone else. I am very concerned about him. We have gone through stages in the past with the drinking and pot smoking, but this is a whole new level. Plus, he is 45 freakin years old....so lame! |
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| Question: How often should a husband go out? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 10:13 AM PDT My husband goes out 3 times a week by himself. He goes play soccer Wednesdays nights, Friday nights, and also Sundays sometimes nights or days. He sometimes has to go right after his out of work because the game will start or he comes home then like 1 hr later he leaves. And I dont get to see him till later that night if i decide to not sleept. We have 1 child, hes 20 months old. I am a stay at home mom and we only have 1 car which he takes to work. I am home literally all day by no choice. Am i being selfish about him leaving often ? Or is this really unfair to me? He works till like 7pm. And i used to go to his soccer games but with my toddler walking and being naughty and wanting to go everywhere its not easy being at a soccer game so i usually dont go. I have spoked to him about how i want him home with me more and how i feel lonely but he dosent get it and says i should go out on the weekend with a friend sometimes and he can take care of our son but the thing is i want to be more time with HIM. Also being home with a toddler 24\7 is frustrating and help is likely needed. |
| Question: Same argument over and over, need solution? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 09:48 AM PDT So my wife and I keep having the same argument. She will say okay or something affirmative, when she didn't hear what I said. This will result in an argument when she does something going against what I told her.... Then she argues that I never told her and she probably didn't hear because I don't speak clearly. To avoid this, I started asking her to repeat what I say, she took that as an insult, so now I try to avoid that, I'm really not sure what to do, because I've never had issues with the way I talk and don't really know how to go about changing my speaking pattern. This has become a recurring problem and I can't even communicate with her, because after she makes a mistake, which I told her how to avoid, I get mad, then she gets mad at me, for being upset and she feels as this excuses her from having to listen to anything else I have to say. |
| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 09:26 AM PDT I met my husband on 2010 while he was married going tru a divorced I didn't date him until he finalized his divorced and because they both didn't have kids and both want divorced it was easy . We started dating and get married 5 moths later I found out I was pregnant with twins and high risk so I stopped working I cough this talking to his ex wife multiple times after I had the kids I let it go short story long our marriage was not good or happy had a lot of problems with him and his family trying to except me they all felt that wrench his marriage but I didn't .. He started drinking and started doing drugs I put him in a rehab and just recently he start taking control of his life is took by him while he had no job or anyone while working full time and taking care of 3 kids . I had my baby 5 moths ago so I recently started thinking about the past so I saked him if he have ever cheate don me he told me he did I couldn't believe it because I never did anything like that he told me he met with his ex wife multiple time because he felt bad when he left her she siding have anyone or anything and his own words he said he was trying have sex with her ans she won't do it so she gave him a ******** .. This happen while I was pregnant with twins and sick .. I know this happen long time a go but I t hurt me now more than ever after everything I been tru with his ***.. I told him if wanted to stay with her he could have I wasn't trying break anyone marriage what should I do |
| Question: Do you think that it's better to get married or play video games? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:59 AM PDT |
| Question: I like it when my wife flerts with other men? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 08:03 AM PDT |
| Question: First anniversary, what should we do? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 07:30 AM PDT My first wedding anniversary is this weekend. Unfortunately, my husband and I aren't at a place financially where we could afford some extravagant affair, so I am trying to decide what would be best. My husband has to work from 5am until 3 pm on the day. My daughter and I will be going to my niece's birthday party while he is at work. I will probably leave my daughter at my brother's house for the night. Should my husband and I stay in town, have a nice dinner at one of the more expensive restaurants and maybe check into a local hotel for the night? Or, should be drive an hour and eat at a better restaurant then come home? Which would you rather do? This is more of a poll type question, so please don't answer with, "We can't tell you what you want to do, only you can decide that". |
| Question: Who is this homewreker that supposably is ******* my husband? Jeremiah Adams? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 07:25 AM PDT |
| Question: Does you wife always want to win an argument? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 05:47 AM PDT wanted to see if this is just my personal situation. most times - when my wife & I argue or have a heated conversation she wants to win at all cost. Her favorite ploy is just to get really nasty and personal ( even if what she's saying has not truth to it). It works ( that I fall for every time) - cause she has me focus on the crazy thing she said & not the topic of the argument, or I'm just so sick of hearing her mouth I back down. I'm realizing now you get treated how you allow people to treat you even your wife. Opinions?? |
| Question: How can i find out if my wife has an at&t go phone? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 05:24 AM PDT |
| Question: What if your husband is starting to want to see porn and use toys? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 02:51 AM PDT My husband is older than me . He is on meds for his dysfunction of prostate but what's strange to me is that he wants to use toys on me and not him it makes me feel very uncomfortable like he doesn't know it make me feel dirty . What can I do to not feel dirty. |
| Posted: 09 Sep 2015 02:14 AM PDT First of all, I am really young, but I think I'm really mature. I'm a teen. No, I don't have a girlfriend. Why? There isn't anyone I'm interested in. Even if there was... I don't think I'm cut out for marriage. I just don't think it's for me. Which is my I'm asking you is it or is it not. So I'm this guy that hides his emotions and feelings behind a fake smile, I don't share my problems with anyone, and I don't like making myself a safe future, because I think that I will lose a sight of myself. I'm a philosohper, atleast that's what people tell me. I am a gamer, that's one thing that tells you marriage probably isn't for me. Now to how I feel about marriage: I think that once you get married you can no longer truly have fun and enjoy life. I don't like the responsibilities that come with marriage. Why? Well mostly because I'm taking care of someone else. Yes, that's what love is about, but I'm not taking care of myself. I'd much rather have a girlfriend than a spouse. Another thing is that, in case girls fall in love with me, I don't break their hearts by getting married to someone quickly. I don't hang out with people much, and I'm not really a trusting person. Most of my time I spend in my room, playing games and watching fantasy inspired things. I like to think of myself like I'm a lone wolf. Never devoting myself to someone, but making others fall in love with me. I am also a MASSIVE fantasy fan, if you didn't figure it out. So? What do you think? |
| Question: Help me I'm at my braking point!!!!!!!? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 01:20 AM PDT Do I deserve this abusive love from her? I have put my foot down this time and wife and I are staying in different places, but she isn't making it easy or willing to really fouce on making it work and getting help for her emotional abuses and controlling ways. She knows she does thesis things yet justify it or turns stuff around on me and its gotten me to point of hurting myself or her, she cant see how I am broken from her outburst and I am needing time to heal . I just cant see myself forgiving till she get help and starts making improvements before ill trust self to move back under same roof .. but as she is good at doing she has went to extreme and made this hell and now its looking like divorce…… she isn't able to see that nothing will come from her moving back in without improvement, and seeing how we cant talk without getting to name calling or calling it quits just shows that Im not crazy….. I love her but its just so hurtful to go through and live like this eve day I lost myself in tis crazy bs. She put time on me to "GET OVER" it or she cant do it anymore. I feel like its hopeless am I wrong to stand by having space ? |
| Question: My husband needs his sister's help not mine? Posted: 09 Sep 2015 01:01 AM PDT My husband and my age difference 13 years, his sister only 1 year younger than him. Whenever he go any were he goes with her and always on his arm her babys, when ever he choose some thing to our home he asking from his sister, is it good or not, he asking me to go with them and i'm just walking behind them and look after her babys.. Think to leave him now but i need him what should i do??? |
| Question: Are my emotions appropriate for the situation? Posted: 08 Sep 2015 11:22 PM PDT My husband decided that he wanted a divorce in June of this year, I said "If that's what you want, then okay" and he moved out a week later. Three months later and the papers are just now being filed (as of yesterday) I am dealing with a lot of emotions right now, but I can't help the way I feel towards him. I feel angry, I feel like a failure, and I feel sad. I haven't wanted to talk to him or be close to him during this time. Out of the blue, he asked me multiple times today to stop being so cold towards him. I don't see it as being cold, but more like emotionally distancing myself from him and it seems like he doesn't understand that. I can't put on a front and act like I'm happy right now. Are my emotions out of line? Am I wrong for shutting him out? |
| Question: Should I trust my instincts or am I overacting? Posted: 08 Sep 2015 10:25 PM PDT Ever since my husband got injured a year ago he has become best friends with a chick friend of ours, she has had some problems lately, divorce etc. .so we are helping her out. I feel like I m the roommate and they are the couple. Every time I say anything I m told"he s just helping a friend"and"I m overacting and being jealous and grumpy for no reason" normally I have no reason for concern but as time marches on I feel more disconnected and out of the loop.they are social media fanatics as well and spend a lot of time with their faces in the screen ignoring me when I try to make an effort to be involved. Am I seeing things for what they are or just being a jealous over reactor? ? |
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