I went to the same school as her since 1st grade she's only a class above me. She and I we never talked a lot outside of school other than when I was in 7th grade and she was in 8th grade. I only texted her occasionally during that time. At school she and I played on the same volleyball and basketball team. Her mom was our volleyball coach. In high school, we didn't talk a lot, but I would come up to her often to ask about school and what we had to do in geometry or when is study hall over. I literally stopped her in the hall a week ago to ask what time. And the last thing I said to her was "okay thanks girlllll!" In the hallways when she would bump into me she would say hi to me. She was nice person. In volleyball when I couldn't get my serves over she encouraged me that I can if I put more work into it. But she died yesterday in a car accident.. She was only 16. And right now I can't grasp the fact that she's gone forever. I feel like I didn't say enough to her or I didn't catch up with life with her. I wish I got to know her more and I feel so guilty. Her and I, we never fought or anything, I just wished I gave more effort into being a decent human being. I wished she never died. I'm so sad and I don't know if I even should be considering I was never that close to her. Seeing her friends and family mope is getting me more depressed. I can't believe I got to meet this person and now they're gone. This is the first time i have ever experienced death of a person I know.

My former counselor has slowly turned into a nut job and is destroying my reputation on every level. In 2014 the code of ethics for this state changed to allow friendships to develop once counseling was over. Her and I discussed this and were BOTH very excited to be friends afterward as we had grown close over the last 3 years. Well, somewhere between April of this year and Sept. she got it in her head that I was getting too close2her friends. This is a VERY small town. Her&I don't go2the same church. When she began pulling away I was advised by my pastor&other females in my church2go2her&try to see what the problem was. Well, long story short, she NEVER told me she had changed her mind and didn't want to be friends and I don't have a low self worth to assume her behavior had anything to do with me so I continued to live my life making new friends and becoming involved in community activities. Slowly the rumors got back to me that she had been telling everyone that she was mad at me then it changed to, she was my client.. Naturally I tried to contact her to tell her that was not ok. Each time, without talking to me, she was making notes of when I would even wave at her. All those women in my church were told by her that I was stalking her and I was working THREE JOBS AND active in the community. CLEARLY I didn't have the desire or TIME to do this! FYI, This has NOTHING to do with wanting friendship from her! It's about right and wrong! What would you do if you were me?

My best friend stole my girlfriend, and now he's made her hate me, and I'm depressed and I can't focus in school and the only thing that can make this better is having her back. Everybody that I've talked to, including one of her close friends, save her and my now ex best friend seem neutral or positive about my odds, I just need a game plan. I'm not really sure how to explain it here, so if you have any questions or need details, ask in your response and I will do my best to add them.

I was talking with my friends last week and we got into a conversation about religion. They were all christian and when it was my turn to tell what my religion was I said I was a last thursdayist. They were confused and so i told them what it was. They called me a lunatic for believing in something like that and called me a sinner for not believing in God. They haven't talked to me since and I want to be friends with them again. What should I do?

my sixteenth birthday is in march. I DO NOT WANT A PARTY. i just want to go into the city and spend a few days there with my family. of course i would like to go to the city with my friends, but here's the thing. im gay. ive told my family and my mom thinks im just going around screwing all my friends just because i like girls. also, my friend just had a city 16th birthday party last weekend and DIDNT invite me, so i don't want to invite her to my version my mom thinks i have no friends because of this. i can't take it anymore. I know it's far away but she makes me feel so damn awful about it and i hate every second of it. I don't know if this makes any aense but help is much appreciated

Hey guys. My friend acts weird around me. We're both girls, in hs. So she'll act kinda sarcastic around me, and it seems like she doesnt want to talk to me for instance I look over and she's next to me then starts walking with me and is like what do you want? While smiling at me Then I grabbed her hand as she was walking by to show her something and she seemed even more...jumpy? And her expressions were more animated and she's like what do you want?? But still had a big smile but her tone and body language were just unexpected and I thought she was mad Then I happened to be walking just a bit behind her so I caught up and she was all happy and our arms were touching but then she's like you can't walk with me, and she looked at the ground with a little smile and I was like ...what? And she repeated herself so I just kept smiling and didn't respond because too bad. Then she's like I'm just kidding you can walk with me and her voice got softer. But then she started saying how awful her eyes looked and was all upset about it I was like you're fine I promise, and she seemed to open up I also caught her staring at me a little whIle ago but I think she was just day dreaming. So I smiled and her face kinda got red and she smiled back. Shell mess around, touching my head giggles and stuff We've been friends for a couple of years but I never know if she even wants to talk to me...like she seems to like talking to me but then says random stuff I don't understand. Is she just kidding

Shes turning 13 and the only thing she will say that she wants is nail stuff. We both are major dancers and stuff and we have been friends since the 2nd grade. I want to get her something meaningful and creative and something that she won't get or already have have.

A new kid came to my school that my best friends knew from elementry school and my friends have been ignoring me for a week how do i win them back they are my only friends

So, 10th grade, we had a jv fb game. My friend didn't do so well, he thinks everyone hates him, I tried proving to him it wasn't true, and tried talking to him. Thought I was successful. He was still upset and wouldn't talk at all in the locker room. So someone started mocking him as soon as he left the room " this kid crying on da bus, (they think they are ghetto because they are from a good middle class neighborhood) like 'oh I'm blah blah, everyone hates me! Eheheh" so I said shut up, the kid looks like he might hurt himself, he's obviously got something going on, then the kid walked back in the room and I said he's right here for god sakes. Then they said " I don't give a ****" and I said that I'm trying to help, and thatif he hurts himself that it's on them for not caring how others feel, then they went "oh, oh, ooh ****!" Like I was saying **** trying to start a fight, or a mix as those posers(again kids in a good neighborhood trying to be from 8 mile) say. Then one of the kids said " Blah Blah is the new team councilor!" So I just said f u and left. So question is, why are kids so ****** up and selfish anymore, and why does everyone want to be trashier and more ghetto then the next guy?

I was talking to her and I sent a picture of my cuts on my arm I did and now she blocked me on Facebook and I tried texting her but she said to to stop texting her =( she's my only friend I have gotten close to and I want to kill myself ='( please I don't want her to never talk to me again what should I do? I'm literally shattered please help me

This is going to be kind of long but here it goes, So I have lived all over and made great friends. But just recently my dad who's an alcoholic started drinking again and my mom separated (not completely divorced) from him so now me and my mom live in the Midwest because we can't afford to live in the dc area near where we used to live. So it's just me and my mom in an apartment and I hate it here, I know this will all sound stuck up but I'm miserable. We live in a 2 building apartment complex with no kids around so I can't make friends in the neighborhood and we are on the side of the highway so I can't walk around to meet people. I go to alternative school too with about 40 kids and I've tried to make friends which I'm very good at but most of the kids only want to smoke and get drunk, go to parties, etc,And I'm recovering from an addiction to Ativan and Xanax so I try to avoid hanging out with them after school. This school also has no clubs or activities. So now back to my apartment complex,it is extremely unsafe. Our apartment has been robbed and there are numerous reports of people's apartments getting stalked. So I do not want to stay here but I have no where to go. I've asked numerous times to live with my father but he's focusing on getting better and apparently the stress of a kid around gives him the urge to drink. So enough of my complaining...is there anyway for me not to feel miserable? Or will I just have to wait a year and a half until I can move out?

So I have this really close friend but we aren't taking right now ... Let me explain Three months ago in school we got into this big feud. As many people say she attacked me harassing me etc she said sorry first two weeks later and of course I said sorry for saying some things. In my opinion I don't think the apology was genuine because a friend told her to say sorry ... Anyway school started again this week and she is ignoring me. Though I'm totally fine with this our group of friends are now taking sides and I don't want that cause most of them are just afraid of her, so there taking her side. So how do I tell her I want to remain friends but not be as close without offending her/ causing more problems ???? Best answer 3 points!!

I was invited to this party today at school . It's on Saturday. I want to go but at the same time I feel I'm gonna be that person on their phone not paying attention to people nor having fun. & I also feel uncomfortable like when I dance around my friends . So dancing at a party? Idk about that lmao. I know how my friends are they gonna grind on guys and stuff and I just wanna be fun. At home I'm so outgoing and loud and funny lol. But at school I'm very quiet & just basically the opposite of who I am at home. Idk I just wanna be comfortable to go to this party. I feel like people think I'm boring bc they don't see who I am at home. I don't wanna be that type of person at the party who that is just in the corner being ignored, or being on their phone. So can anyone help me loosen up more at school so I can be fun at the party? Please help:(

A guy at my job initiated a convo that lead to us hanging out and playing basketball every other day. We also attempted to go bowling, but it never happened. Recently, he has stopped asking to go play ball together, makes no more attempts to hangout and rejects all of my attempts. He was all excited to hangout at first, now, it's almost as if he has no interest. I asked him if I did or said anything to upset or bother him and he said no. He still speaks, but no longer attempts to hangout. What could be the issue?

my best friend, well "ex" best friend. I just found out has lied to me about EVERYTHING shes ever said to me. she made up rumours about my other friend which made my hate other said friend, she lied to me to get me to make a facebook for her without telling me she WASNT aloud to have a facebook, then she did aton of bad things with her page, and also she told me all sorts of things that the guy I like said but turns out they never even talk. she medeled in my life and left me with ahundred emotional scars. thing is im honest with her about EVERYTHING. and im always so nice and helpful yet she had the nerve to do these terrible things. what sort of motive might she have to do these things and treat us this way?

quick bg story: I dated this guy for a year and we broke up a month ago, it was mutual. I didnt really feel "the real deal", and I wasnt really atracted to him anymore. i presented him to my bf early in our relationship. shes definitely that person that everyone loves, they became great friends, best friends really. a few months ago I learned that they were closer than I thought - they said they were in love. he told me he loved us both. she told me they just didnt choose it and that I shouldnt put labels in relationships. I learned tht they had met up behind my back and possibly got involved (there was a shirtless pic of him on her phone). I was already losing interest in him at this point, I was kind of dragging the relationship, but still I felt really hurt. i dont agree with putting labels on relationships but... i felt like they had cheated. well, they did. for some reason I brushed it off... continued on it. i didnt really have feelings for him anymore (not bc of this) so i felt kind of selfish for acting like this. after we broke up, i didnt really feel bad, it was a relieve. but she will talk so normally about how thu meet up and get involved (aka sex), she even met friends of his i neer met... i dont know, its lind of selfish, its not like i want him back, but i cant help but feel bad hearing that. i love her, but sometimes I feel so bad being around her. am I overracting? i mean ive moved on, I should just let them be right? I dont know. opinions please

Just moved into a town and started going to a church, there is a woman there that has been more than nice and very helpful and welcoming, she just isn't my type, she has a friend who she said she was very close too and said she was a 'wonderful person with a heart of gold and a great friend" well I told her I thought her friend was cute and wanted to talk to her well her tune changed and she went on to tell me what an awful person she was, somehow I don't see it, her friend has always been nice, I was told the woman has ulterior motives?, I don't feel she can be trusted because of the way she talked about her friend...she I deal with her from a distance?

My coworker/friend is taking another job. She'll still be working in housekeeping just closer to home.

I'm 13, I'm a Freshman, and last year I had, like, 3 friends. (That's a lot for me.) This year, nobody even really wants to talk tome, and the most conversation I've had so far, even though school has been in session for a month, is those painfully- obvious hints to go away. I don't get it, people treat me like I'm retarded or something even though I'm the one who gives answers to all of those jerks. How can I get people to recognize me as more than a calculator?

I had always been the sore loser at my school.I am in high school, junior. Sure, I have some friends but they are not really in my classes. I have spanish class since I am hispanic and latino and I want to have a very easy class which the class is easy. Today, when I was reading something in spanish to my spanish teacher, I kind of stutter and I am a stutterer but don't called me retarded or stupid because I am not. Actually people don't know that I really stutter until I speak. This guy ask me for a pencil and I gave him the pencil. Later, I gave him the answers and he told me, ''it's all good Juan''. However, when he told me that is this work is easy, I told him, ''hell yeah it is, it's easy a s s as sh it''. He later laugh, (he is african american). When I decided to read something in spanish to my teacher which I am a fluent spanish speaker but I stutter and then he started laughing. Was he just being mean? I also don't get the part where I told him that this class is easy to me but why was he laughing at that? Back in freshman kids always laugh at my stuttering so bad, I just hide away from them.

So this guy had been my classmate in many of my classes from middle school - highschool. (I am now in Sophomore year highschool.) One day I was waiting for my dad to pick me up afterschool, him and his friend stood near the exit door and spoke a language that I can understand as well. In that language, he told his friend this "Hey look at that girl, she's crazy.Oh look there she goes again." He made his voice loud enough for me to hear. So I heard recently that he does talk bad about me and behind my back. When I was away in class, he said "I was skipping" but in reality I just went to go to guidance. Why does he not mind his own business? I did not do anything to him. To make things worst, he is friends with my brother ._.

So I dated this guy last August through around March. I broke it off with him because he wasn't able to hang out very often and he wasn't really my type. We happen to have gotten really close and today at lunch some of his friends were saying stuff to each other about me and talking loud so they know that i would hear it. It was stuff that i had "trusted" my ex with and now several people were harassing me at lunch. I was with a friend and she was upset about it so she told me to text my ex telling him that we needed to talk, so i did. After seeing him look at his phone and ignore my text, my friend went up to him and told him that he was upsetting me and he needed to tell his friends to stop. Then he told her that he doesn't care about me and whatever i feel or have to say about him and that he didn't tell his friends anything (obviously he did, or else they wouldn't have known all the stuff that they were harassing me about). Now I'm stuck in a situation and i need help on how to react to these situations. I have prayed and prayed about it, but it's only gotten worse.

I started started hanging out with a guy recently a couple of weeks ago and we became good friends. But today he told me he was friends with a guy that i did not have a good relation with. Last year we were friends but then i found out he and my now ex was cheating on me. We got into a huge fight and now I dont want to associate with him. After I told my new friend that, he said he couldnt have 2 friends that didnt like each so we couldnt hang anymore unless i made peace with him. What should I do? I really want to be friends with this guy, but to forgive my friend? I dont know what to do.

Okay so I've recently started high school, and that means new people! I used to be so wild and loud because I knew everybody around me, but now I've become quiet and haven't really made any new friends. I get this feeling in my stomach that's kind of like...like when you miss a step on the stairs because you weren't paying attention, or when you're on a high level and you think you're going to fall. I think of things I say before I go to bed, but when I'm actually face to face with the situation, I back out because I think I'm going to sound stupid. I've been in school for a month now, and I've also joined 4 clubs. Am I just shy?? How can I stop being shy????

i am now in 8th grade and im from korea. but i speak ok english because i lived here for two years 3years ago. and now i am here again. so this is my first middle school in america. right now, i have NO FRIENDS... and yeah yeah i went to school for like 5 days and i think its pretty much normal for me. and i want to make good friends. so i want to change how i act in school;) and i have some questions ;) 1. i want to be a person that people wants to be friends with. it is weird but a person gets interested in me and talk to me to become friends but people just ditch me when they find another friend. i experienced this like every person i meet. do they think im not good for them? i mean it really hurts my feeling and i really feel like a unwanted person and a very awkward person... how do i become a person that people doesnt ditch? 2. how to be confident at school 3. how to make friends i really would appreciate helps:)

Make you feel happy stupid, and done stupid stuff because. Just wondering. Friend said that it done that him. & Dose it make you do stupid **** such as take a both in shower and feel in a good mood.

Since junior year,me and my friend would constantly get into arguments that will last for a couple of days. They last even longer,because she would leave in the middle of the argument and not talk to me for at least a couple of weeks. She says she doesn't like the stress,but she constantly leaves our arguments,while I'm trying to solve our problem. What makes it even worse, is that we don't see eye to eye on most things,she hates how I overanalyze things because it reminds her of her dad(they don't get along) and when I try to not overanalyze,we still get into debates on a lot of things. We try to avoid getting into debates but we always do,and she told me that one of the reasons why she doesn't like going on Facebook is because she avoids getting into arguments. When she said that, I felt hurt. She doesn't like how I'm an overprotective parent to her and I told her I'm protective of her because she got played by 5 guys. She always gets upset at me when I say something bad about a guy she likes,she's really sensitive and no matter how many times i try to watch what I say, she twists my words and makes it seen like everything is my fault. I'm,tired of feeling stressed about it and when I try to tell her how I feel, we get into arguments. Was it the right thing I did that I left her? We tried to make things work but our friendship keeps getting worse

I'm a very nice person, and many of my friends like to open up to me because i'm trustworthy and respectable. But the thing is that i'm just not very expierenced with the types of issues they have. Like with relationships (really never been in one)...I say what I think is the right way to handle situations but I feel like they don't take it as seriously because i'm not experienced or something like that. Also...Many of my friends have family/parent issues, as well as very close relatives who have passed away. I'm lucky enough that I can't relate to those things, but I feel bad because I want to make my friends feel better, but I feel my help lacks some personal, relatable connection, you know? Do you think i'm overreacting? How can I get better.

I'm a 15- year old girl. Last year I met this other girl. I almost instantly felt this need to talk to her more, but figured it was because I thought she was cool. She's outspoken and fun, yet can be equally as brooding. She never texts me first (or really anyone, as I've found out) but always texts back. She isn't too outspoken with her feelings, though so for a long time I felt that she didn't really like me. At least not as much as I liked her. I even still think that from time to time. But as I've gotten to know her I've found what a deep and complex person she is and the initial connection I felt has grown tremondously. We have lots of fun and lots of deep conversations. I feel like I can ask/tell her anything. It's hard to describe. It's like I'm metal and she is a magnet. I feel so attracted to her. But not in a sexual or even romantic way, at all. Purely platonic yet so deep. We're complete opposites. She feels like a part of me. Like our souls are kindred spirits as we were destined to cross paths. Like I've known her all my life. Like I can see right through her. It may sound crazy but this is how I feel. I have this unbelievably close connection. And I think she does too. I know for sure she feels this on some level but asking her if she feels like we're soul mates seems like a bit much. Is there any way I can express this without sounding weird or like I have a crush on her if she doesn't understand? And also, have any of you ever felt this way? Thanks in advance!

Okay so I'm a college student now, I'm usually a loner, shy and anxious guy, I don't spend a lot of time with friends or acquaintances, but if people talk to me, I respond of course. I always get this feeling like... I don't want to be surrounded by many people even if they are in the same batch, I'd rather stay in a corner... I don't really have a best friend and the closest people to me (I think) doesn't really like to be with me. I also think it this way "maybe I'm nothing to them" and sometimes I really hope for someone who can accept me.

I have a guy friend, and in 5th grade we were best friends. But now in 8th grade we don t even talk. We haven t talked since 6th grade and I want to become friends with him again. He s popular and mean sometimes, but I feel bad because he has problem going on at his house, and I just want to help, but I don t know how to get close to him since he s always around his friends and we don t have any classes together. How should talk to him?

I got into an argument with my cousin, we have gotten fairly close over the past year & our argument was basically b/c I have felt that I was a better friend to her than she has been with Me. I expressed my concern to her & yea it turned into an argument. A week later her two sisters ending up texting me & ganging up on me about the conversation me & my cousin had. (We are all adults btw lol no teenagers here unfortunately) I felt attacked & thought my concerns about my cousin were valid. Was I overreacting & should we make up? And also how to address this without anymore drama? Thank you in advance!

So, my BF's best friend just got married. Me and the girl were friends, not close, but became friends through association of our BF's. Anyways, we hung out a decent amount, happy hour drinks, going out on weekends, pedicures, etc for about a year or so. They got engaged and wedding planning began. I recently accepted a position as a Graduate Assistant within an MBA program. Basically, i'm getting my masters degree for free while working on campus. I won't lie, it's a blessing and an honor to be given this opportunity. I look back and see problems began then. She treated me differently and when I told her about it, she just texted back 'Oh'. I thought maybe she doesn't understand, which again, to understand this girl. She's about 3 years older then me, from a small town rural area about 30 minutes from where I grew up in the suburbs and she's to be completely honest, not the brightest person and also wasn't raised by the classiest family. Her family is kind of nuts, she has 3 sisters and a single mom. If one of them hates you, they all do. Basically, her bacchelorette party was 3 weeks ago now. I attended and I kind of didn't want to. Deep down I knew something would happen. Her older sister is kind of a loser, never did anything, is a total b**** and overall, just talks sh** about everyone surrounding her. She has been rude to me in the past and she's all drama so I was hesitant. I attended and drama ensued between her family. The older sister was weirdly nice, confiding in me and talking to me all weekend. Another friend attended as well. The bride to be seemed kinda pissed off near the end of the night. I had been socializing with others at bars, maybe flirting a little with guys but it was harmless and to be honest, like everyone else, it was all to get free drinks haha and also, i was bored and i enjoy talking to people.I recieved a text from the husband to be, my BF's best friend. I told him the drama was crazy here. Her sister ended up crying cuz she was so overwhelmed with negativity that had occurred after all the $ she had spent and planning. I made a joke too about being in a 'best friend competition' based on how the other friend was acting. He forwarded this to the bride to be. She acted passive aggressive and weird. Family got in a fight w a random group of guys during the night (trashy) I tried to deescalate and told her to just ignore them, she looked at me and viciously said "get your hands off me". Texted her following day, she said i was talking sh**and drama wouldn't have happened if i hadn't touched her. 'i'm a big girl i can take care of myself' (trashy) She accused me of trying to pick up guys... not sure why she would care even if that was true. Basically, I didn't attend the shower or rehearsal with my boyfriend cuz why should i? I knew her whole fam would make this their business and i would feel unwelcome. I told her both times i wouldn't be attending after i had apologized 3 TIMES expecting an apology back. nope, she just said 'k' or 'see ya around'... she was clearly pissed i wasn't attending but why should she care? she doesn't like me right, clearly i never meant anything to her, she drops me like nothing! I attend the wedding with my boyfriend who is the best man. she, her mom, and older sister, and the friend ignore me the whole time. i felt severely uncomfortable. The bride told the groom she was upset i was ignoring her. He addresses this with my boyfriend. He says 'uh no, she tried to talk to the bride, she won't give her the time of day". At one point, she even walked up while im talking to a guest. Says 'oh hey u' goes in like she's going to hug me... i go to hug back, she pulls away and walks away laughing... I found out her family had told several people that i was trying to cheat on my boyfriend at the bachelorette party... the grooms mom asked me boyfriend about it even. im very upset obv and my boyfriend isn't buying it. they turned a wedding into a way to talk sh** about me... who does that? Later, I finally tell her im happy i came and give her a hug and she says 'oh ok' turns away and talks to someone else. i walk away and go to the bathroom. the anxiety is insane and i just didn't want to be there. Around 1115 im walking outside with the groom to find another guy in the wedding party and my boyfriend. her sister walks out after me, screaming, 'hey i heard u were talking **** on the dance floor. this isn't your day its not about you. go find a guy to hook up with" TBH, i was in shock, i walked out of the hall crying called multiple people and my parents ended up getting me... I can't believe this happened... What do you guys think? What kind of people do this?

Im an 18 year old girl and i've known my friend for a couple of years now. I really think the world of him and I think he's great, I really love talking to him, and I think about him all the time lol Im not obsessed, but he's typically in the back of my mind...I just wonder what he's up to, if he's doing ok, things like that...is it creepy/weird???

Hello, I'm new to Yahoo answers. I will try to explain my problem the best I can! Smart answers only please. I'm SO shy and incredibly awkward. Everything I do is awkward. I'm also very afraid of people looking at me; a tornado forms inside! I DO NOT have low self esteem, I love myself, however I'm not very confident. I don't have any friends in school at all (only one person who I knew for a fairly long time). Recently, I joined a friends circle of likeminded people. In that friends circle, I have an ex-friend. She was my friend from last fall, until the last October-December. After that, she acted very rough, cold, and rude to me (even though she was, and probably still is a very emotional and good person). Due to my shyness, I lost her. I'm afraid of loosing friends! I'm so afraid, that when someone is being nice to me, I don't know how to respond. Anyways, when I try to talk to my new friends, a sentence barely comes out. Only a word, or a dull question comes out with a very dry mouth and awkward accent. At home I'm nothing like that. Words flow out with expression! I don't want my new friends to loose interest in me! And I hope they don't. I'm so awkward at everything. Please help me, and give me tips. Don't give me spam and vague tips like: Do small talk. I DONT KNOW HOW TO DO SMALL TALK FOR GOODNESS SAKE, ONLY A WORD!!!!!!!

We were sat down at lunch and I saw her wrists covered in cuts. I'm not incredibly close to her but we get along well and used to be best friends. I went to another friend of ours and asked her if she knew and she said she and the girls best friend saw her wrist on Friday (now Monday) I self harmed for three years and recently stopped about a month ago and I know how awkward it is when people notice. Should I send my friend a text, write a note to her or talk to her in person? I don't want to make her feel awkward or like I'm forcing her to tell me why she's doing it and I don't want things to be awkward between us but I can't sit back and do nothing whilst my friend is cutting herself? What should I do/say? Thanks x

My name is Brian.Ever since I new her she's always been snobby and rude to me. I'll admit it, yes I'm a nerd and my buddy Peter is a jock we are both 18 and seniors in high school. For some reason she's always seemed to hate me and every other one of his friends that isn't sporty. He's my best friend and has been since pre school. Even when I was little she was mean to me. When we were like 9 she called me pathetic and a fag because I couldn't catch a football.(yes she actually said fag) and then she took it from us because she was "embarrassed for me" she said. So I stopped going over for a few years. I started going over again around the age of 16 and at first she was nice and then after a while she started being a ***** again. Like when I would say hello she'd roll her eyes or just stare at me and not say anything. When ever he has his football buddies over she's real nice to them and almost flirty. A few days ago he invited a bunch of people over for a cookout. At night when we were all hanging out she was chilling outside to and acting like a snobby teenager. She was making fun of me and 3 other kids there trying to impress his football friends. The other 3 because they couldn't take it but I stayed. Then around 3 in the morning she wouldn't leave me alone and pete told her to stop. She got all mad and said "ok If you want to see mean check this out. Brian get off my property" she made me walk home at 3 in the morning in a rough neighborhood. Today Peter apologized to me but said that his mom won't let me hang with him anymore. I didn't even do anything!!!!! I could have gotten mugged that late at night. And there is no reason for her to hate me either. I'm probably one of his only friends that doesn't drink or smoke pot. I'm thinking about telling my parents. Should I?

I was speaking with him and he's just like "yeah bro some people I just don't like right off the bat..and if I don't like you I'm only out to f*** with you, you get what I'm saying?" He said that he was cool with me but he is only out to f*** with people if he doesn't like them as soon as he sees them, what does he mean by that?

We'd been friends for a while. He started working this new job and all of a sudden he was always too busy to hang out or talk on the phone...or even text. I've sent a few messages to him and I've called him once, but he doesn't return anything! It's been about a month since I've heard anything and I'm wondering if I should just close out that friendship and move on. What would you do?

We hung out saturday and had a pretty good time. Watched a bunch of movies, singing in the car to our favorite band, awesome long convos, great making out session lol. When he dropped me off, as he was talking, I grabbed him by his shirt and kissed him. It felt kinda forceful. Feel a bit embarrassed. It's been 2 days and he still hasn't texted me. He usually does. I see him active on Facebook messenger online then off then on again. Did I do something wrong? Is he avoiding me? Lost interest?

This is my first time using yahoo answers so bare with me. My parents are having a party with about 50 people at my house(we own a very large home) and some of the guests have kids that are coming. (I m an 11 year old boy in 6th grade for future reference). These young guests include... My twin cousins(4th grade boys), who aren t annoying but might be a bit tiring to have around. My best friend Anthony(same age), he is cool with basically everything. Another good friend Jack(same age), loves video games but playing video games isn t really an option because the basement is full and only 2 can play at once. Liam(same age), also a friend, isn t great with meeting new people(like my cousins and the people we will go over next) but is a good person. Now, for the main problem, Anya(same age) and Devon(two years older in 8th grade). They are brother and sister and they live right next door. I barely ever talk to them. Plus what things can we do with just one girl there? I don t want her to be left out. I really need help on what I can do with them. This party is at seven so no daytime activities. Thanks in advance for everyone s help. :)

We were playing on the computer when i heard him fart so i hit him and screamed at him and kicked him so he said sorry, i couldent help it. so we resumed playing but than after a few minutes, he did it again! so i kicked him out of the house

As a kid, I remember watching movies like Ice Age, Toy Story, Wild Thornberrys, Lion King. I recall playing outside with my brother for hours every day, whether it was basketball or running in the sprinklers. I had so much freedom and a very exciting and happy life. How did all of this change so quickly? I can't even listen to the radio any more because today's music is crap. School takes up so much of my time that I had to quit my extra curricular activities ( sports ) and I never see my friends anymore because of studies. I miss not having homework for 6+ hours a day. Technology has taken over society and I fell REALLY bad for the kids growing up in this century.

I'm 13 and in year 9 (UK) I used to have loads of friends at school but I always knew that only I few were real and I can trust. I blocked one of them on a social media account because she was so judge mental of everything I do! Now she's turned all of my friends against me exept a few and keeps on sending me horrible messages and being rude to me at schoo and getting others to do the same thing. I know I could really hurt her if I got angry but I don't want it to get to that stage. She's in nearly all of my classes aswell and I just hate school because of this

I know I should stay here as much as possible to make friends and what not..but I just hate being here. I live 40 minutes away so I am always going back home as much as possible at every opportunity I can. I just love being at my home with my family and our hot tub and cable TV and fast internet. Also all my friends are back home...I have no friends here, so I just prefer going back to my hometown to hang out with my real friends. Not to mention sleeping in my own bed which feels like a cool pillowy cloud compared to the one in my sweltering non-air conditioned dorm room. Is it bad that I'm constantly running back home all the time?

He used to be my best friend, but after my mom cheated on my dad with his dad, we havent really talked since. And now I miss his friendship

I'm ignored at school, I treat my classmates well, but I get ignore instead. A little attention and I smile easily, because I scare that I'll stay quite alone. Please help me!! I don't know what to do, pleasee!! ((

I've written this before but it got hardly any replies and she's became so much worse. Basically a year ago my 'best friend' had no one she was bullied, she was so ugly not going to lie and I was the only one there for her. Then suddenly this year she became so gorgeous and got invited into the popular group and left me. She got hundreds of friends and I was left with 2, she also gets 100+ likes on her pictures and tons of comments when I get none and it makes me feel like ****. She talks to hundreds of boys and try all like her and none talk to me. All her friends ***** about me even she does and I want to cry. Help what do I do

I have a strange question... My friend Hunter and I communicate through his mom on her Facebook how would I ask her if he has a phone number that I can reach home on. I don't wanna sound rude and I know it is life of a weird question and I don't want her to say anything like "he does, but I don't want you to have it" because I ask wrong. Please give me advise

Today started like a normal day i got dressed went to school bla bla bla the usual but halfway during the day i got called down to the officeand the princiable told me that he had three complaints that i have been cursing and saying stuff like porn and dick all the time i will be honest and say that i do talk about it sometimes so my mok calls later because she dident awser the princable call and asks me wahts wrong and i told her that i said ***** to one of my friends she got pissed and said she is going to take all of my stuff i dont really care about that i just really want to know what i should tell her when she gets here in so scared plz rely fast

Hi I m a female who my best friend is a female and I find her attractive, I m not gay I m actually engaged and love my fiancé very much. I wonder should I tell her. We are really close and are alike in lots of ways, she s my bffff haha. Any advice.

The details are a few days ago I was going to hang with friends. Well I was almost there when I got a call from a friend who I have known a few months. Problem was I was already there.... But anyways I haven t called her before that. Just tested a few times that s all. We haven t hung out outside of a group of friends. Also I know her somewhat but not enough to be good friends.

They are very strickt and wont belive me. My mate told me to kill myself so my friends and i messaged her saying we don't want ti be friends but the school is saying we are in the wrong not her , my parents will recive a letter tommorow but i need to tell them before hand. They wont understand and they will kick off at me😭