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- Question: My parents won't let me go out?
- Question: I live in an abusive home and can't move out till I'm 21 due to restrictions in my country. How do I live with my parents?
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- Question: Ok here is my question who do you think is right or wrong?
- Question: Mom mistreats me when i'm sick.?
- Question: Advice on dealing with parents plz?
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- Question: How do I get my mom to stop cleaning my room?
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- Question: My mom is very naggy and overbearing. how can I politely tell her to stop?
- Question: My dad always asks me lots of questions?
- Question: Should I end my holdout with my parents or keep it going?
- Question: Household income category. How to know it ?
- Question: I am mentally so tired i really need someone to support me, help?
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- Question: I ran away from home when i was 16 in my matric year because home life was almost unbearable due to animosity between my parents.?
- Question: I ran away from home when i was 16 in my matric year because home life was almost unbearable due to animosity between my parents.?
- Question: I ran away from home at 16 because family life was non existent and i had neither parent to depend on..?
- Question: Parents how would you handle this? Any advice?
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| Question: My parents won't let me go out? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 01:25 PM PDT I need to do a group project, and my parents are being very pissy about it saying that 'I'm trying stuff' which I'm not, I just want to ace this stupid project that the whole group worked so hard on. I'm not someone who goes out and parties and I'm very anti-social so my parents should be happy that I get to go out. I would just do the project over phone calls if that's possible, but two of my partners do not have a phone, and they can't use skype to call because they don't have a proper headset (for computer). Both my parents excuse so I won't go is that it's too late, but I'm suppose to meet them at 5PM, and my parents are willing to leave me alone until 10PM, but then they go and say it's not safe? My dad will be there in the car so how in the hell is it not safe? I'm also the one holding the poster, but each of my partners have their separate amount of work. If I don't go, then all that hard work is for nothing. Not to mention the project is due tomorrow. I didn't argue back against my parents, my mom initially said yes however and that's what I told my friends. I'll feel guilty and horrible if I have to text back and say they changed their mind just because my dad doesn't want to drive me. |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 01:13 PM PDT My parents are very manipulative and can make it seem as though it is my fault that they taunt me and talk me out of following my dreams. My school performance is being affected and I may lose my government scholarship. The problem is that my monthly allowance isn't enough for renting a place and I have no relatives in the city. |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 01:11 PM PDT So I'm 20 years old. I just moved to Florida in March with my dad,we got a house here. A few months later we HATE this part of where we lived ,so were putting our house up for sale and want to go to the east coast of Florida. I'm doing college online but have no job ☺️Cuz there's nothing around ☺️Im stuck at home 24/7. I have NO friends here it's majority of old people and creepy red necks.. My friends say I should go on a dating site to meet people (either girls or guys) cuz I'm pansexual... But I feel like I've been alone so long and a little depressed that I feel like I'm embarrassed where I live,I have no friends and I just feel like a loser. Plus we are moving once this house gets sold ....... I'm just in limbo but at the same time I want someone :( |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 12:56 PM PDT Yesterday my Dad got very angry and out of hand (he has anger issues) and held my jaw/face with both of his hands and pushed in hard. My mom would not take me to emergency room and tried to believe i was faking the pain. I tried to call 911 but they called back and my mom told them I was just being crazy and they did not send anyone. Today my jaw is a little bit crooked, a cyst has developed on my eye, and my jaw feels very painful and my mom will only take me to the dentist tomorrow. I told her about all of this and she told me she is "worried about my mental health". What are some possibilities of what i might have/broken and how do I fix this? |
| Question: Is it illegal for my parents to take my stuff if I buy it? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 12:53 PM PDT So I'm gonna be getting a job soon. And if I bought my own things like phone and stuff. Could they take it away. Like I'm making the money from me working. Its gonna be my money. So. |
| Question: Big Family Issues...? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 12:41 PM PDT I really need some help... This isn t a prank post or a cry for attention, I honestly need major help because its bothering me mentally and physically and effecting my life. Hi, I m Bailey. I m a 17 year old male, turning 18 in November. I currently live with my grandparents which adopted me when I was born. I m not trying to sound like the average whiney teenager, but my parsnts are extremely strict. They don t allow me to leave the house, I m homeschooled and live in a slightly rural area about 20 minutes away from a bigger city in Tennessee. But anyway, as I was saying I m not allowed to leave the house so I have no friends. Literally zero. My parents fight constantly, my dad is bipolar and my mom is extremely hard headed and strict. I am not allowed to drive either so I have no license, I m not allowed to work either so no source of personal income. I don t want to live in this controlling, anger filled, depressing environment forever but I have no way out even once I m 18. No money for a car. No car or bike to go to a job with. No friends or family to stay with, and I m about to turn 18. What should I do...? Aslong as I live here I m stuck under rules, but if I want to do anything I have to get out. But I have no way of getting out due to the rules. I honestly need major advice... Someone please help? |
| Question: Ok here is my question who do you think is right or wrong? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 12:34 PM PDT Ok so i have a miniture pot bellied pig and Awhile back I read that pigs couldn't have to much potassium it wasnt good for them and my dad got alot of bananas from god knows where so my cousin hates the pig always tries to make the pig fat so she has to go outside he fed the pig a banana I told him please don't feed her no more then dad fed her one so I told dad not to feed her also then alittle later maybe an hour I see cousin open another banana and I told him don't give it to the pig MANY TIMES didn't listen he threw it by the pig and she bit it so I smacked it outta her mouth and threw it at the wall in the kitchen cousin then said you have to pick that up so I didn't respond then he said it like 2 more times I didn't say anything then he told dad a whole bunch of **** then dad told me to pick it up a couple of times and I said **** no I'm not picking the ******* banana up so he took my phone and everything from me even my car. The point isn't the banana its the fact I asked him repeatedly not to do it and he did so I didn't do what he or my dad said to do the banana is still on the kitchen wall and I will never pick it up. Please let me know who is right or wrong. Also I never cuss at my dad but this was a cussing matter. Im never truly disrespectful to him but pure ignorance calls for drastic measures. Thanks |
| Question: Mom mistreats me when i'm sick.? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 12:32 PM PDT My mom just told me that she wishes that she didn't have to put up with me or she'd rather live a life on her own, just because i'm sick. Then this morning, she told me to wake up to go to school.. even though she knew that I had a 101 degree fever(still rising). She claimed that everyone has to go through with it, and that she had surgery and still had to go to work(even when she wasn't suppose to).. So I had to sleep in class all day, missed out on a lot.. Am I wrong for being upset? |
| Question: Advice on dealing with parents plz? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 12:27 PM PDT My parents are very critical about every little thing I do. My mom nags me for every little mistake I make and often times it's over cleaning. She never lets anything go and then tells my dad about it and he gets mad and scolds me. My mom nags and insults me and calls me messy, fat, lazy, individualistic etc. and I just go away because I feel so hurt and angry because it's not true. So I either go away in my room to deal with my frustration or I just cry in front of her. Her reactions are what bother me the most. Either she starts laughing as if it were all a joke (while I cry) or she makes fun of me some more and then she tells my dad. My dad calls me 'donkey' or idiot for getting simple things wrong and he yells at me which make me panicked and sad. I get a whole lecture of why my thought process is wrong and just how pathetic I am. I'm 18 and the eldest of my house. My parents have a bias towards my younger brother because he's the full package and my sister because of her kind heart and outgoing personality. It's not like I do bad stuff. I don't cuss or get in trouble. I don't even put makeup on or dress provocatively. I get good grades, respect my teachers and peers, work hard and try to do good to others. If I step foot in my house I'm sure to be teased and pushed around by my mother or said I'm 'useless' by my dad. At this point I feel like my parents hate the floor I walk on and just treat me like an investment. |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 12:17 PM PDT I am a truck driver and Im away from home for 6 weeks and while I'm away my daughter had a bad stomach ache. My sister said she could not take her to doctor because she had a special trip plan for her and boyfriend. My mother was away in another state and left my child with sister. They was waiting for me to come home to watch my daughter, nieces and nephews'. My job did not permit me being there. Meantime, my daughter is suffering in pain. what should I tell ? |
| Question: How do I get my mom to stop cleaning my room? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 12:04 PM PDT She comes in daily, literally each and every single day, and cleans me room to her standard. Her standard is literally putting everything into 1 single drawer or piling everything up into one side of a desk and throwing everything else away into a garbage can. I am in college and I come back to complete chaos each single day because my desk has everything moved. My clothes disappear and all my items are missing or misplaced or thrown away without updating me. It takes me 30-60 minutes a day to find everything. I keep my room clean and when I politely ask her, she gets really aggressive towards me and gets her husband to start responding in the same manner. I am so exhausted on coming into a place that is not my own. I have struggled a lot in school because someone comes up from behind me and moves everything. She even broke my laptop twice and has taken 5 checks and misplaced them or thrown them away during my high school and college period. I am not allowed to get a lock and everything goes back to her saying I am a bad person, I am selfish and that I am overstaying my welcome in her home. I do not make enough to move out. |
| Question: Is my nanny job reasonable? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:58 AM PDT I graduated with my degree and am interested in becoming a teacher. Then a nanny position presented itself At the interview the family seemed great. Cute kids (3+6) and nice parents. we discussed hours, mom said that the job is "almost full time." The family has a weird schedule Because the dad is a pilot. He is gone for 8 days, home for 6gone for 8, home for 6. They need me during business days when the father is gone. we discussed that I would arrive at 7 depending on the mothers workday she would "may need me at 6." She said that she s getting home from work around 7 or 8. the actual job- I ve been arriving at 6 daily &most days not leaving til 9:30 or 10. mom never tells me when she s getting home and when she does she always is AT LEAST 1.5 hours late. The late night hours wouldn t bother me so much if she didn t insist that I return at 6am. In the interview she said that she leaves for work at 6/6:30 but she hasn t been leaving for work until 10 am! And now days she s even been working from home and still insisting on my long days. The kids whine and are all over her when she s home- it s hard to do my job. $12 Cash and weeks have been 60 hours one week and 30. this is my first nanny job is $12 an hour fair? Its a mental struggle not knowing when I ll get home when I m Driving to their house at 5:30am &I have to get her a coffee on my way every morning, feed their 3dogs & cat,run errands,light cleaning. Input please!? |
| Question: My mom is very naggy and overbearing. how can I politely tell her to stop? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:39 AM PDT my mom is really nice, but I have an unbelieveuible amount of work to do. I have 4 page papers, reaseearch projects, the illiad, and much more homework due all in one week. but on top of that I have dance. lots and lots of dance. I mean, I dance for hours every day and its nice, but it is really affecting my homework and when I tell my mom this, she gets mad and says I need to manaje my time. then she will begin to nag and nag about how irresponsible I am and how I have to take dance every day (even though its not required) even though its really affecting my grades and life.i love my mom, but she really just doesn't undertand what all I have to do and I like dance, but I just really need some time for homework. am I just not good at managing time? how can I do better? and how can I politely tell my mom that this is all just too much? |
| Question: My dad always asks me lots of questions? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:39 AM PDT It doesn't matter whether I'm on the phone, texting him or visiting him. He always asks me questions and I'm getting fed up of having to answer questions all the time. what should I do? |
| Question: Should I end my holdout with my parents or keep it going? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:25 AM PDT We moved a few weeks ago and I agreed to help my parents buy with a cost attached. They agreed and we drove some items in my truck across the country it did some damage to my 2011 chevy Silverado that I pay for the gas loan insurance it's all in my name I pay it. Anyways they only paided for gas and not my other demands like I requested and they agreed to like assume all risks and liabilities associated with the move. {my plan was I was going to have my truck shipped until they came to me for help} I was going to pay for that. Anyways my dad is a government contractor works with the milltary and they give you money if you move your stuff across the country you gotta weigh your truck before with the load and then after you are settled. Anyways we are moved and settled they want me to weigh my truck so they can get a check for it in the end. There move cost me a new radiator and there items damaged the bed of my truck very large dings. I feel like I am owed some of that money to offset the cost of repairs. My mom is like that's your dads money and you have no bussiness in it. Anyways I am a big seattle seahawks fan and noticed how kam chancellor held out and I am doing the same I won't get the truck weighed and it's coming close to the deadline to file should I end my holdout or should I just get the truck weighed and lose out on the money I need to offset the repairs. |
| Question: Household income category. How to know it ? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:24 AM PDT Fiances related question. How the schools and universities examine and mark the student's household to given income category? In my family, works my father and my mother. My father earns 40 per year, my mother (minus)12 per year (she has own business but she just is not able to mange it all so it is sustained by my fathers money) She plans to close (though I cannot see she will be able to do it.).My sister studies (although she is much older than student should be). She does not work. My father then earns for my whole family. I am going to give documents of incomes in family to uni in order to be classified in proper income category. Although my father earn 40, our family lives rather really poorly. I am afraid that I will be classified to higher income category than we can mange. How should I fill this documents ? How can be my situation be examine properly? Thanks in advance ! |
| Question: I am mentally so tired i really need someone to support me, help? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:24 AM PDT Okay so my parents never let me do anything they confuses me they say join sports learn some music do this do that... But, in reality im the one who tell them "please let me go out i want to go for swimming i want to play badminton i want to get into competitions i want to learn guitar." and when i tell them this they're like no for now you just study and only study no need to all that useless stuff they never let me go out with my friends but then they say go out make some friends but they never allow me to do so... My father always shouts at me for everything he even hates it if i wash my face he is like "you are spoiled, you're getting out of control im 24/7 in my house and i get so scared that someone will say something to me they shouts at me for every silly things like if i wear pretty clothes they dont like it they dont let me put some makeup also i dont do anything cause of them and now im like i dont have anything my friends my family doesnt supports me confuses me shout at me for lil things like other girls usually do i know my limits i know everything but they always underestimate me. and i always get this death feeling to i have anxiety issues and now im like we all are gonna whats the point in living i have already lost the will to live |
| Question: I despise my stepdad so much!? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:22 AM PDT I have developed paranoia and anxiety because of him and when he scares me it doesn't help not when he always gets mad for non to little reasons it just adds to it! I tried talking him that had minimal effect and the worst part is he orders me around when I'm 21! I'm working my way out but the law is pulling me back. What should I do? He doesn't give me what I'm deprived of like my dad did before he passed. |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:20 AM PDT My little sister is 15 she s rude and very disrespectful to my little brother, my little sister, my mom and to me(I m 19). My mom let s her get away with everything and she s never held responsible for her actions. My little sisters 15 year old boyfriend lives with us he smokes weed and neither one of them go to school half the time they sit in the house dirty it up(don t clean up after themselves) and eat up all the food. She messed her room up by breaking her bed, breaking her drawers and wetting the carpet up her room smells like dirty a$$ and pu$$y. Whenever I walk out my room my little sister verbally abuses me and sometimes tries to fight me. My mom never says anything I walked out my house to get fresh air and was locked out until 1 in the morning(I left out about 8 in the middle of love& Hip Hop Hollywood) and when I came back in once again she s talking about beating my a$$ and how she just got off the phone with my older sister and they said their gonna jump me. She talks to my mom in a very rude and nasty way and uses bad words. I don t understand why my mom let s her get away with these type of things at 15 I would have got hit in my mouth for doing these things.How can I help my mom become a better parent? And put her foot down and stand up to my little sister not just for me but for everyone in the house she s also verbally and physically abusive to my younger siblings. Also what s your thoughts on my mom having my sisters 15 year old boyfriend living with us. |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:12 AM PDT neither of them tried to look for me i am 29 now and have been through hell and back again from early pregnancy to failed marriages to drug addiction to sleeping with men for a roof and food and only now am i able to deal with all of this and i want to know if i was old enough to be on my own as my mother tells me it was my choice and my dad always told me to make a plan from a early age. when i hit rock bottom and over dosed on drugs i got a fright and i asked both parents for help as i really wanted to get out of this life i had chosen they both turned me down and told me that i made my bed and where not willing to help at all. i have met an older man that i have been with for 4 years now who has opened my eyes because he said that i was too young to be on my own and if i was his daughter he would have searched the world for her no matter what and try to give her the best care and tried to figure out why she ran away and what the problem was. but no one did that for me am i wrong to want to blame them for not trying to bring me home |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:12 AM PDT neither of them tried to look for me i am 29 now and have been through hell and back again from early pregnancy to failed marriages to drug addiction to sleeping with men for a roof and food and only now am i able to deal with all of this and i want to know if i was old enough to be on my own as my mother tells me it was my choice and my dad always told me to make a plan from a early age. when i hit rock bottom and over dosed on drugs i got a fright and i asked both parents for help as i really wanted to get out of this life i had chosen they both turned me down and told me that i made my bed and where not willing to help at all. i have met an older man that i have been with for 4 years now who has opened my eyes because he said that i was too young to be on my own and if i was his daughter he would have searched the world for her no matter what and try to give her the best care and tried to figure out why she ran away and what the problem was. but no one did that for me am i wrong to want to blame them for not trying to bring me home |
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| Question: Parents how would you handle this? Any advice? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 10:57 AM PDT I have a 26 year old daughter who was abused severely growing up. We knew about the abuse but were unable to get her away from her abuser due to financial restraints. She went to college 15 hours away from home. Graduated with a degree in Communications. After college, to keep her away from past abuse, we paid for her entire living expenses plus relocating to a new city. We paid for her for 2 years until she found a job. We paid for EVERYTHING. Just so she wouldn t have to come back here to past abuse. She got a great job then, lost her home in a fire and lost everything. We couldn t support her anymore so she was forced to move back into our home. She s been home now for a year. Cost of living is MUCH higher here. She works 2 jobs and still can t pay all of her bills even with living at home. She s only making $8.00/hour at each job. I ve never seen my daughter so miserable in my life. She finds no joy in anything at all. It s been a year of constantly looking for jobs and constant let downs. Even out of state it appears all she gets offers for is part time jobs. Her abuser is no longer here however, she struggles every day with being back here. She has NO friends, we live in a very rural community where it s next to impossible to meet people. What can do to help her? She tells us she has been thinking about suicide as she feels she s trapped. Parents what would you do? I don t want to see my daughter end up on government assistance at 26 years old. |
| Question: How do I convince my mom to let me go on this field trip that I REALLY want to go on? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 10:54 AM PDT My Social Studies teacher is having 100 students go on a field trip to Washington D.C and I want to be apart of it.It is $695 and my parents can't afford it but my grandma offers to help.We can have a chaperon but I probably still won't be able to go because my mom is afraid of terrorists attacking there.I told her that the teachers wouldnt've offerd is to go if they were attacking again.She still won't budge.How do I convince her to let me go? |
| Question: I dont know about your nature means? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 10:38 AM PDT |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 10:16 AM PDT So today my mom sorta lectured me I guess..? The main problem is because i always wake up "just on time for school" therefore not having time to eat breakfast. I have 2 main reason why I do this. First of all, I don t like eating breakfast, and secondly the thing is my parent are constantly skinny shaming me whenever during breakfast or lunch (i m quite skinny and short boy) especially my dad who constantly complaining about how my body is small compare to other boys and how I m like a skeleton and weak looking which makes me feel uncomfortable at the dining table. But my parent got mad when they discovered i didn t eat breakfast which was due to me waking up late. However, my mother continued saying that I don t take school seriously because i always come to school just on time but not early . In my mind, i wanted to scream out loud but my mouth never says a word. My parent also doesn t know what I do everynight which is doing my art homework which is really time consuming, but they just assume i surf the internet all night, sleep late and do nothing else. I have many problems in my relationship with my parent and I seriously don t know what to do..? Someone help? Sorry for my english.. |
| Question: My sister in-law told me not to marry her brother. Should I listen her? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 10:07 AM PDT She says he not mentally stable enough for marriage because of his mental health history. His sister told me that he abused his ex-fiance, physically and emotionally, and also hit his other sister on one occasion. One time she told me that he sexually assaulted her at age 15. I just don't know what to believe anymore and I need help!!!! We argue sometimes like any other couple, and throughout the three years we've been together he's never ever, ever laid a hand on me I don't get along with my sister in-law because she comes off as condescending, arrogant, and judgmental. However she does often confide some family secrets to me. She's never lied to me. |
| Question: Describe your family? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 10:03 AM PDT |
| Question: Do you think my Dad has anger issues? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:48 AM PDT I'm 17 and for as long as I've been alive my dad has been someone who gets explosively angry at the most pointless things and I'm really sick of it because I'm old enough to know it's not normal. Last night he got mad at me for asking to go to a party and he started saying things to my mom like "I'm so done with this f-ing useless ***** I swear to God". I don't understand how you could ever say something like that to your own child, and that isn't even the worst he's said. He also put his hands on me last night (nothing that was enough to hurt me) and pushed me around and ripped my phone out of the wall and ran away with it. I have depression and anxiety issues so I really don't need this. My mom doesn't do anything, she acts like its all my fault, and she tells me that I have no idea what it's like to be abused as she grew up with an alcoholic father, as if that justifies my dad's actions. I have no siblings. He's a grown man and he should be mature enough to know that it is not okay to put your hands on ANYONE. I'm going to my therapist later, should I tell him? I just don't want the cops involved because that will make things worse. I don't even care about the fact that I'm apparently "never getting my phone back" and that I'm grounded for 3 months, I'm just so disgusted with the way he treats me. We get along well until he gets angry and explodes. Help? Also I forgot to mention that I was so scared that I told him if he touched me again I'd call the cops, and he freaked out because it's the third time it's escalated to that point where I've been so scared of him that I've had to say that. He gets like this towards my mom sometimes too (last time it was over a SANDWICH- but he never put his hands on her). He has absolutely no patience and is rude to random people if they do even the smallest thing that annoys him and it actually embarrasses me. |
| Question: Touched rock bottom in modeling. What should I do? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:47 AM PDT I am 26 years old and i have been doing lot of small modeling gigs for the past 10 years. Till now I haven't did anything worth saying. My average income is less than $1000 per month. Now I am thinking about giving up and choosing something else. As per my qualification, only thing I can do is to be porn actress or prostitute. What should I do? |
| Question: Moving out as soon as I turn 18? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:46 AM PDT I turn 18 in a week. I have a stable job where I get 30 to 40 hours a week. My mom passed away in February and I don't want to live with my dad because he wants to move cities. I currently live with my unorganized irresponsible 2 older brothers. And I want to move out. I live in California and rent here is about 600. My boyfriend of 4 years has a job too and he said he can easily help me out with 300 a month and told me he would lease with me, even tho he'll be living there part time because his parents don't want him to leave the house yet. My grandma is very supportive of me and does not want me to live with my brothers as well. I know there's a lot of responsibility but I know I can handle it. I know there's bills like water, electricity, food, insurance, gas, car payments and entertainment such as phone and Internet bills as well. I plan on enrolling to a beauty school in November as well so maybe financial aid can help me? I have about 6 grand saved up too. So will this be a smart choice or should I wait? I can't stand living with my brothers for another month. |
| Question: Struggling with the thought of moving away from my family? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:26 AM PDT I will be finishing college soon. My school is about 2 hours away from home. College has been rough for me; I've made good grades, but I hate being away from my family. I guess I'm just family-oriented; all my life, I always had family around me and not having that in college has made things harder and I have come to realize that family proximity is a priority for me. The problem is that I'm now, with graduation around the corner, I'm trying to decide where I want to go for grad school/where I want to live after I get my degree. I would LOVE to live near my family again. It would make me so happy. Yet at the same time, the city my family lives in isn't the greatest. I've always dreamt of moving to Chicago. It's my favorite city. I'm just worried that if I were to move there, I would once again be far away from my family, and would therefore be unhappy. Can anyone offer any advice? Is this 'normal'? I'm just really torn between wanting my family near me again and living in a wonderful city that I've loved since I was a little girl. Thanks to all. |
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| Question: Living with alcoholic and gambler father, does he deserve a birthday dinner? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:04 AM PDT So, my dad has a problem with alcohol, there not a single day he doesn t drink. His life is torn, he is uncontrollable, we ve tried everything possible and he just won t stop. But when he is wasted, he is a verbal aggressive man, he split with my mom. HE lives with me, and doesn t help me pay the rent or bills, he accuses my sister of taking his paycheck when in reality he gambles it all. I give him money now and then which I know he uses for alcohol, somehow he is going to get his booze, the is touching rock bottom. He got in a fist fight with my older brother, my dad broke the windows to his house and has cause lots of trouble. He borrows money in my name or my brother s name. Then people come and ask to pay a debt we didn t even know we had. I am at the point where I think the best place for him could be jail, because he has terrorized my mom and has treated to hurt her. This Friday is his birthday, my sister wants to organize a dinner for him with some friends and family. My older brother is definitely not coming, but after all he is our dad. And even though he doesn t deserve our help or affection he is still our dad. If we ignore him he will feel alone, if he celebrate him he might feel like we support his bad habits. I am so confused, I love him but I hate his behaviors to the point where I have wanted to fight him when he doesn t stop offending me or other people. I have worked since 14, he never gave me any money for school or necessities, but he lives with me. |
| Question: Why did the guy who beat on my elderly uncle get charges droped? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 08:59 AM PDT Its a long, complex story. My uncle was then 64 and a USMC Vietnam vet, hes now 66. He has drinking problems. He was very drunk and we were visiting Los Angeles, where he was talking crap to a guy working out(a runner), the runner was staying with a relative in Hollywood and is from rural Pensylvania. He was about 5'11 175lbs lean muscle had olive skin, brown hair blue eyes and tattoo sleeve on one arm and his entire back. He was of German descnt, kind of a hillbilly. My uncle started it and as the 28 yr old young man got down to do pushups, my uncle kicked him in the head 3 times before the man got up, intercepted the 4th kick, puhed my uncle down and punched him in the head at least 10 times. My uncles nephew then tried to break it up only to get beat up as well by the man. The man was so worked up that he has to be tased and restrained by 4 big officers who could barely handle him. He was shouting profantiies. The man was so angry cus my uncle kicked out a crowned tooth and the nerve pain was bad. The man even shoved officers. The officers and prosecutor requested charges dropped on the man and one cop said to my uncle "Id have done worse to you if I was him". Its obvs whos side they are on. The officers even apologized for tasing him and the man apologized for bugging out and causing a huge scene nearly getting shot. The man has a prior record for a DUI(with pain killers not alcohol) and domestic issues with his ex gf. He didn't start this but hes no saint. We are from Oregon. The man who beat my uncle has trained in martial arts and was an amateur boxer. The nephew he beat up was 6'5" and twice his weight yet he took him down with ease. Hes a wannabe actor whos a pretty boy who modled and lives with gf in his uncle and his uncles partners condo in W/ Hollywood. The guy is a real jerk. |
| Question: I need help for University in another country, please help? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 08:59 AM PDT Okay so I want go to Saxion University. My mom keeps bothering me not to go and keeps doing everything in her power to get me not to go. When she gave me this dude to talk to from Berkley College, he said that after I am done over there, I need to do 2 more years here in order to recover everything I have lost but the students from Saxion University keep saying that I don't need to. That it is only an option and is not something that is required to work in the U.S. Also one student said that it is only for Masters. Which is another option to earn a higher salary. I want to do what makes me happy and it is just stressing me out now. At this point I don't know what to do. I really want to study in Saxion but I just feel like my mother doesn't trust me one bit. She's like a moving wall. She just keeps on pushing what I have to say. I don't feel happy here in the U.S. because thanks to her I feel like a prisoner. Never allowed to visit my friends and all she did was in close me at home which has caused me to become the most anti social person in the world but I am trying to be free. My girlfriend is in Saxion but it has nothing to do in my decision because I have already thought about this when I was in middle school. She thinks that my girlfriend and her parents are criminals but I have known them for almost 4 years now and my mom doesn't even know their last names. She thinks that they are trying to steal me. |
| Question: What the hell just happened? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 08:21 AM PDT okay so I'm 13 years old and do online school. I was home with my mom when suddenly my dogs started going INSANE. we hear the doorbell ring and my mom goes "V go see who's at the door" and it's my 29 year old "unemployed, still living my grandparents" Aunt and judgmental Grandmother (See my question "Why are my grandparents such awful people?") My mom was planning on working out and the just randomly popped by without asking. We were all sitting in the living room and it was so awkward. My mom says she was planning on working out at the gym and my grandmother (rudely) goes "So are you finally losing weight?" my mom goes "Yes" and gave her a pissed off look. My grandma asked why and my mom "went off" on her but didn't yell or cuss (mother is 42 btw) My grandmother literally starts yelling and cussing at the top of her lungs and saying things like "YOU NEVER TREATED ME LIKE A MOTHER" even though they never treated her like a daughter. My grandma stormed out of the house and my aunt followed. I went upstairs to call my dad (at work) to tell him what happened while my mom, crying, called her friend Christina. I'm still in shock over what just happened. Is this crazy? Should my mom just disown her family already? my mother has decided not to talk to immediate family for a while except for my uncle, aunt (by marriage) and nephew because all my family feels that they are the only ones who really attempt to have a relationship with everyone in my household wait he's not my nephew he's my cousin |
| Question: Im not ready to move out and go to uni :'( tomorow!!!!? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 07:51 AM PDT I'm an just turned 18 year old girl and I am moving a couple hours away (1 hour on train) from my family to go to uni tomorow. I'm not scared of moving and being in a big city but I am so upset about not being with my family anymore. I've always been really independent being the oldest of 10 children but I'm so so upset and I cant stop crying. I'm going to miss my parents and siblings so much.i know I can always go home and see them on weekends in not working but I cant get over this sadness. Its not the same just visiting and I'm just not ready for this. Its far too late to change my mind and not go. I know this is what I need to do but I cant stop crying in going to be so home sick I dont know if I can deal with it 😭 I'm going to miss out on so much and miss out on seeing my younger siblings grow up. I'm going to miss seeing their exited faces everyday giving me cuddles when I get home from college. What can I do to make this any easier at all please help??? 😢😭😭😭 |
| Question: Parent s how would you handle this situation with your child? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 07:47 AM PDT I have a 26 year old daughter who was abused severely growing up. We knew about the abuse but were unable to get her away from her abuser due to financial restraints. She went to college 15 hours away from home. Graduated with a degree in Communications. After college, to keep her away from past abuse, we paid for her entire living expenses plus relocating to a new city. We paid for her for 2 years until she found a job. We paid for EVERYTHING. Just so she wouldn t have to come back here to past abuse. She got a great job then, lost her home in a fire and lost everything. We couldn t support her anymore so she was forced to move back into our home. She s been home now for a year. Cost of living is MUCH higher here. She works 2 jobs and still can t pay all of her bills even with living at home. She s only making $8.00/hour at each job. I ve never seen my daughter so miserable in my life. She finds no joy in anything at all. It s been a year of constantly looking for jobs and constant let downs. Even out of state it appears all she gets offers for is part time jobs. Her abuser is no longer here however, she struggles every day with being back here. She has NO friends, we live in a very rural community where it s next to impossible to meet people. What can do to help her? She tells us she has been thinking about suicide as she feels she s trapped. Parents what would you do? I don t want to see my daughter end up on government assistance at 26 years old. |
| Question: My mom wont give me my freedom. What do I do? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 07:32 AM PDT i am having issues with my mom. I am 23, chinese, female, and the youngest in my family. I understand there is a degree of overprotectiveness, but ive had enough of it. I graduated from college (which I payed for) in june with my bachelors in nursing, took my boards in july, and just received a job offer at kaiser permanente. The hospital is about 20 minutes from my house, but i still want to move out. My parents, of course, are against, but know they cant stop me. I have started looking into apartments. My mom said that if i move out, shes coming to live with me, because she does not want to be with my dad anymore. I understand that feeling, because my dad is a pain in the ***. But I DO NOT want her living with me; It would be like not moving away from home at all. My mom does not work so she has nothing but time to micromanage me and i know shell continue to do that if she lives with me. "Where you going? Why dont you work more? Youre so lazy. You eat too much. Youre so fat." I cant stand it. My dad is more relaxed because hes working all the time, but he doesnt treat my mom well, so i understand her Not wanting to live with him anymore. My mom is leaving the country for a month soon, and im planning on using that opportunity to find a place and move out while shes out of the country. That way when she comes back, ill be gone. I dont want to tell her where ill be living, because then shell try to move in too. How should i handle this situation? I want my freedom! |
| Question: Did I give her good advice? Guys and Gals, please tell me if you agree with what I said.? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 06:48 AM PDT I am a 20 year old guy with a female 35 year old cousin Ann. She is gorgeous. When she was in high school she won several beauty contests. She has a beautiful face and body. My guess is she is a 34G. We became very good friend since she was divorced 2 years ago and now she told me she wanted to start dating again and since she had not dated in 16 years she wanted a man's point of view on some things. She asked me which guys prefer long or short hair? I told her it didn't really matter much but in general most guys have a slight preference for long hair. She wanted to know if she should dye her hair blonde. I told her any color of hair on her would look good as she was a beautiful woman. She wanted to know if her big boobs were a turnoff for guys I was a little uncomfortable talking about her boob size but I told her the truth. Most guys like big boobs and hers were just fine. Then she hit me with the big question. "Do guys expect sex on the first date?" I told her most guys would like to have sex on the first date but if she did not want to have sex on the first, second, or third date then she should not do it. She should only have sex when SHE was ready. She thanked me for being truthful with her and giving her good information. She said "I hope I did not make you uncomfortable with these questions". I am just 20. I need guys with more experience to tell me if I give her good information. |
| Question: Not suicidal but want to die??!? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 06:23 AM PDT Honestly I'm the most nonsuicidal person but I genuinely want to die so bad right now. I'm such a disappointment to my dad and my family and they don't say it but I know that they know I am. I don't know why I'm still alive right now. I just really thought of overdosing and being done with it but I want to live. I'm crying so badly right now that I'm shaking and i just don't know what to do anymore. I'm home alone right now and I missed the bus to school on accident for the 4th time this year and can't get a ride and my dads just really disappointed in me and I was just thinking of getting it over with right now but I really wanted to make him prouder this year than before and I just really have a lot of problems in my life right now and I just don't know how to deal with them. I can't stop crying and I really need help. When I was 9 my dad found a suicidal not in my room and I don't want to make him upset again. |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 06:13 AM PDT Okay so I'm 16 and I moved to Idaho about 2 months ago (August) and when moving it was only me, I left my mom and little brother back in Washington. And I live with my older brothers mother in law right now. The whole point of living with her is until my brother gets a place in Texas so I can move with him. (Almost to the question) okay so since I've been here (Idaho) I have been having some mental breakdowns because I don't really have friends here and cuz I can't hangout with them (live to far from the house I'm in) and also because I'm home sick and I miss my old friends . my mom said she is willing to come get me but the thing is, is that she lives with my grandparents and its not a big house so I told her to get a house and then wait tell the quarter for school was over then come get me. But then again I kinda want to stay because I feel like my older brother would do more for me ( car, drivers license ,clothes etc.) And be more fun. But then with my mom I could be with my friends and be back home ( the city I used to live in). What should I do? Should I stay or go back with my mom. Btw mg mom has custody. |
| Question: Missed bus. What do I do now?!!!? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 06:02 AM PDT So this morning I overslept and missed my bus for the 4th time this year. If I would've told my dad he would've gotten mad at me so I called him and I told him that my stomach was hurting. Very badly and he was kinda mad I could hear it in his voice cause I missed 3 items last week and now today and tomorrow I have a doctors appointment and idk what to do. I really wanted to go today cause I don't want to be behind in my work and this is my last year in middle school and I really wanted to make him prouder than last year cause I didn't do so well and now I don't know what to do because I really let him down. and can't stop crying and what do I do. I really need help please. I'm like shaking. |
| Question: I am going to wear a thing bikini when I go to Florida any tips? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 05:46 AM PDT Hi I m 15 years old and I m going to Florida for my aunts wedding in October. The hotel my family will stay at is right on the beach. My mom and dad won t be around much since they are very involved in the wedding. (My mom is the maid of honor and my dad is the best man) My siblings don t like the beach but I love it. Since I ll most likely going alone, I bought 3 pairs of thong bikini bottoms. I have a nice big booty and ive passed the pencil test. The thongs look great on me. As the date gets closer I get more nervous about showing my butt. Any tips to get over this |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 05:38 AM PDT My older sister is 24 and she got engaged 4 months ago. Her fiance was an amazing man. Everybody loved him. He always had a smile on his face, he was adventerous and he loved my sister very much. He was the type of man I one day hope to end up with. It was a real shock when he died 3 weeks ago. Understandibly my sister has been inconsolable. She moved back to live with me and my parents and she has been locked inside her room about 90% of the time. Then about a week after seemed happy and claimed to be speaking to him. We all thought it was just a phase but then said: "He told me I should not worry. He is fine and will wait for me. We will be reunited soon". Then my parents started reacting. We're afraid that she might go as far as taking her own life but it's also a very delicate situation because how do you approach the subject without being insensitive? Maybe it is just a phase? I haven't told my parents yet but at night I can hear her speaking to herself. She cries a lot of course but she also laughs, like someone said something funny, and has conversations. Maybe we should try and get a counselor to come here? |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 05:26 AM PDT So i locked myself in my room everyday for almost a week now. I just went out of my room if i need to go to toilet or to drink some water. I just hoping that my mom would be miss me or at least worried about me. But she just keep banging the door and shouted at me and asking why i m become weird and spoilt all of sudden. Now my siblings hate me bcs they said i ve made my mom sad. I love my mom and i don t want her to feel sad. But, i ve feeling too. :( i just want her to love me. |
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| Question: I think my mom is crazy, Advice? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 05:18 AM PDT Hey, my name is Leah I am 16 years old and a junior in high school. I think my mom is either overprotective or a helicopter parent. So she has to have all of my passwords to my facebook, email, twitter, and instagram. She also has to know my passcode on my phone. She makes me put my phone on our kitchen table every night so she can check it everynight. At my school we have chromebooks and she also wants to know the password for that. She reads ALL of my text messages and goes through all of my pictures and google history. She does let me shut my door but she does not knock. She goes through all my school notebooks and all my journals. So basically the reason i am telling you all this is, I need advice, how do I explain to her that I need privacy, I have tried to explain to her that I am 16 and soon to be 17 in 2 months and all she says is " Well thats exactly why I need to check it", basically I am asking for advice on how to make my mom stop checking everything, she can check my phone there is nothing on it, she just doesnt trust me and I havent done anything to make her not trust me, Any Advice, Thanks |
| Question: Grabbed my little sis iPod found porn in history? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 05:07 AM PDT I was grabbing my 10 year old little sisters I pod because she was going to sleep so that she wouldn't stay up all night I casually checked out her search history and found not a few but a fair few porn sites within it what should I do I have confronted her but she denied it and she doesn't know how it got there ect so I have her given her a warning and blocked safari from the iPod so hopefully she won't do it again I know it's perfectly normal to be curious about sex but should I tell my mum |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 04:47 AM PDT I am flying out of state for a few days and leaving my young children and wife back home. I haven't been away from them besides a work day. I am thinking about the plane and not being able to enjoy myself with family because I will be missing them. |
| Question: Is it weird to have an imaginary mum? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 04:03 AM PDT Sometimes when my mum is mean to me my pretend mother in my head hugs me and tells me she accepts me no matter what. I feel sad a lot because my real mum said I'm a ***** and she hates me? I'm desperate for any type of approval. I have no friends and I'm lonely all the time. Is it normal to have a pretend mum? I'm 17. She is very rude and mean. It's not a one off thing. I have actually self-harmed in the past because I felt like it was the only thing I was good at. I never have any guidence in my life so I try to seek some online from strangers. At least they make me feel like I'm something. |
| Question: I've had three nightmares in a night...? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 03:56 AM PDT Alright, so last night I've had three disturbing dreams in a row, and all three of them were about my family. The first one was that my Dad wasn't in his room, only mom. Then my sister and I heard some weird noises and then we went to investigate and to my surprise he was just sitting outside just drinking beer! But the thing is when I turn around to look at the clock, it was ******* 5AM!! I mean who the hell does that?? My father was behaving strangely, and I can tell that that wasn't my Dad. The second one was my Dad got real freaky now, this time he even tried to ******* kill me! In the end, I had no other choice but to defend myself, killing my own father in the act. The third and last dream, this time my mom got out of the bedroom all dressed up like she were to go somewhere else. And she yelled at my Dad that she was going to divorce from him etc. Then I get close to my Dad asking him what happened, then he tells me that he didn't knew what was wrong with my mother. He was trying to call someone on his phone but he couldn't grab the cellphone correctly and I tried to help him but he starts yelling me and pushing me away. Ok, it doesn't seem to be a big deal but I never ever in my life had three nightmares that are basically connected to each other. What does it mean? It's something going wrong in this household? Like I said, it might sound stupid but I'm a little concerned here. |
| Question: I lost my mother and my young sister how can fine them? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 03:17 AM PDT |
| Question: How can I convince my mother to stay home from school when I didn't get enough sleep? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 03:11 AM PDT Okay so today, I drank 3 cans of soda: 1 in the afternoon and 2 in the evening almost near my bedtime. I'm normally not allowed to drink something with a lot of sugar on a school night because it would mostly result in me not getting any sleep at all. That's pretty much happened. I ended up tossing and turning at night. At like 4 am, when I went "to use the bathroom", I needed to fake an issue just to stay home. I faked a stomach ache to my mom, waking her up. She strictly told me, "Try and go back to sleep because you ARE going to school tomorrow." Worried, I went back into my bedroom and tried. It felt like I've been sleeping but really, I haven't. As time passed by, I change the time I wake up on my alarm clock, pushing it further and further back. It's really hard to convince my mom about a few things but trust me, I would do whatever it takes for me to stay home. I just can't go like this. I have a bad habit of staying up late which is a horrible combination. I can't cut class because if I do, the school would call my parents telling them that I was absent in a class. Faking an incident just to go to the clinic is just worse. The nurses would do anything to keep you in school. Should I just tell her the truth and the reason why I couldn't sleep last night or just take the risk of going to school without any sleep, not knowing when I will pass out? Please help me. This happened to me once and it didn't go out so well. I need a better solution. |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 02:33 AM PDT So here is my question. I am in a middle of a visitation battle with my daughter father and his step mom put on her facebook that i had said that my mother was rap by grandfather which isnt true and saying i am a bad mother which is also isnt true and that i am a lair which isnt true but she did put down about my family history about my step father who did such things. Can i use that against my daughter father in court during the battle to show how "fit" his family is |
| Question: How to keep my mom from hating me? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 01:37 AM PDT I might be pregnant and I'm worried my mom will hate me. I don't wanna disappoint her, it was the first time I've ever had sex. I have a 4.0 GPA and this is really the only bad thing I've done. I'm 16 and he's 22 and I didn't say no...I really should've. I made one really bad mistake and now I'm terrified that my mom won't see me the same again. What should I do? I'm not gonna tell her till I take a pregnancy test and know for sure. |
| Question: My family doesn't want to talk about this situation? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 01:24 AM PDT Just over a month ago, my family went to my husband's business partner's vacation home for the weekend for a gathering. I was showing my son the music room, when a man entered the room. I recognized him and told my son to leave the room since it wasn't safe. The man pushed my son so hard that his head started to bleed. I ran towards my son and the guy grabbed on to me and punching me. I managed to stab him in the his throat with my heel. But it was enough for me to see if my son was fine. I don't really remember the rest since I woke him in a hospital. But he has been really overprotective and wanted me to quit my job. I have never seen him so possessive like that and it scares me. I know my son thought he was going to lose his mother again (my son is legally ours but not biologically). Since it happened they've been acting strange and won't talk about it. I've even mentioned therapy but they both refuse. The thing is since this situation did happen, we either talk about it or pretend it never happened. But they don't want to talk about it, but won't forget what happened. I feel like I am losing the both of them. Anyways for this to disappear? |
| Question: Attraction to my sister? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 01:10 AM PDT i am a 15 year old male and my sister is 17 and in collage meaning she doesn't have school uniform and the last few months i have started to use my Sister's pair of T-Bar school shoes that she hasn't used in a few months to fap my d*** by simulating a Foot job and sometimes even worship the shoe by sniffing and licking the top area where the toes are, but I DO NOT think of it being my sister the thing is she used them about a week ago for a cosplay which was a school girl and last night i still used them to self pleasure knowing that she used them. the last few weeks i have been dreaming about her wearing the shoes and waking up fantasizing about her feet and being turned on.. i Have also been starting to film it myself jacking off with her shoes and have actually uploaded a video of it to RedTube of me wearing them and cumming on them (I'll give the link if you request) i have also started to take the shoes with me to school which they are hidden in my pencil case 24/7 WITH A LOCK and take them so school in my bag. |
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