Ok I was massaging my cuzin same age been close our whole life and I accidentally touched he vaginal area a few times and did not mean to do it and she did not say a thing but did smile and I feel kinda weird bit don t know what to do

I dated this guy for a year . I am 16 he is 17 . He always showed signs .. For example ALWAYS wanting to know who I was with , where I was going , tried to control how I would dress , etc . Our families had issues and decided for us not to speak to each other anymore . He recently ( about 2 months ago ) expressed he loved me . I loved him very much so I decided to forgive him and be FRIENDS only . I expressed numerous times that yes I did love him but not in that way anymore. I simply cared for his well being and was fine with being friends . He wasn't having it . He followed me to class everyday , would wait outside the doors . People thought he was crazy He'd grab my arms and take my purse and steal my phone out of my bag if I tried to leave . He called me 53 times . Left messages saying he was addicted to me and couldn't live without me . He forced me inside an empty class and tried to force his penis inside me . Fingered me against my will and I begged him to stop . He said he lost all control and begged and pleaded for me to forgive him . I forgave him but I don't know why cause not only 2 weeks later he drug me into a corner in the hall and tried to dinger me against my will again . Luckily , the cameras caught it and he has been arrested . I am so emotionally distraught . He's Beene spelled from school . They do NOT know about the first incident and I feel like they would think I am crazy to forgive him . I need help .. This whole situation has made me so stressed .

I don't want to be friends with her, but she is friends with all my friends so I can't help it. Her name is Regina, she is very shallow and boy-crazed. I invited a boy outside of school to Homecoming, a boy who happens to be one of my best friends, and told all of my friends, including Regina, that I wasn't sure whether I liked him as more than friends or not, and so not to tease us or anything. This guy friend is kind of (really) hot and when Regina saw him she immediately started flirting with him- even though I'd told her minutes before that he was a potential love interest. She also made efforts to separate me from him to flirt with him. I thought it was maybe just me, and that I was being oversensitive, but then one of my other friends approached me about it and asked if I'd noticed how much she was flirting with him. She has done this many times before with our other friends but never me and it really ticked me off, what do I do? (I'm 15 btw)

I'm 27 and I've been single for 7 years. The past 2 years I've actively tried to date and meet new men. But I have yet to met anyone special. And I'm not even looking for much educated, nice, focus and tall (I'm 5"10). I've tried online dating multiple times' I've gone out with friends to meet people and nothing. People tell me I'm beautiful all the time but yet nothing. My confidence has taken a big hit, I no longer feel confortable around men because I've been rejected and hurt so many times. I just need some words of encouragement from people that can relate to my experience. Because I now avoid conversations like this with people who havent been single and alone like I've been.

I always see her before my class starts. I have the same class room as her, but I'm not in her class. I don't think I'm interested in her because I don't know her, but I would like to though. I would like to know how I should talk to her and approach her without making her uncomfortable. My class is right after hers, so I wouldn't have a lot of time to talk to her. Thanks for the help.

This guy blatantly stood me up on a date. I told him he was a pig a jerk and we didn't talk for 2 weeks. Now he's sending me snap chats asking how I'm doing! Why would he have stood me up if he wanted to talk to me?

All my friends tease me about it and it really hurts my self esteem mostly the can't get a date part, not the teasing). feel like I'll never get a boyfriend at this rate. What do I do? My self esteem is at an all time low.

So here's why I'm really confused as to if he likes me. BEFORE, there was this one guy and honestly I did so many things to show that I obviously liked him. Well turns out he didn't and I felt so stupid. He now has a girlfriend and I could care less haha. But now I'm scared to try for any other guy. I know people will say "let him come to you" but that's not me and he's shy haha. Help? I just really like this new guy!

My last day with him is tomorrow!! And, I really don't NOT want to see him ever again! :( I most likely won't visit the restaurant in the near future, as I feel that's just awkward and annoying. But, I asked him to be a reference, and he gave me his phone number. Would it be inappropriate/ weird/ creepy to ask him if it would be okay to text him? How should I go about expressing my feelings to him? Many other coworkers know, and I feel as if based on my body language he somewhat knows I kinda have feelings for him. But, I feel he probably just sees me as a friend, if anything. :( I'm afraid I'll lose him for good if I tell him because he'll think I'm weird. But, I'm also afraid of the same thing if I don't speak up at all. What should I do?? Tomorrow is my last chance. :'((( Please help!!! (Ohhh and we're both legal, btw..)

Well, there are quite a few girl I like, but none seem to like me back. It's almost like I'm hardwired to receive a "no" everytime. And it truly has taken it's toll on me over the years. I've become reckless, borderline psychopathic, manic depressivr, alcoholic, drug addicted, suicidal, and I almost have a deathwish. Not saying I'd ever kill myself, but I drive very recklessly, drive drunk and high regularly (because I honestly sort of want to die.) And just generally do stupid **** (getting into fights, winding up in the hospital, stealing, drug use, etc.) And it all stems from that. From my nonexistent relationship history. Never been kissed, still a virgin, never had a girlfriend. Etc. And I really don't care about anything anymore. I'm just done. I don't like these feelings and I want them to go away.

She was about a 6 out of 10. I mean I thought she was pretty but I don't think other people would. I was one of the best students in there and I think she knew that too. I have fantasies about her and me. I just want to email her and let it all out. Should I? Don't give me the "you'll get in trouble" rant because idc. What should I do? Oh yeah btw I'm 16 and I go to a different school than where she teaches.

I was called shallow and dumb cause I feel you shouldn't watch porn while committed to someone I mean it doesn't sit well with me what do you all think?

We spoken twice and i had text her about 5 times or so. Except for one time i initiated all the contact. She did answer all my calls an texts. However, the last conversation she cut short ( said she had to cook dinner). As a test i waited a few days to see if she would contact me. She did not. Finally today i called her an she dint answer nor return my call. In our 2 conversation i failed to get any sorta vibe from her. Should i move on or ?

We only dated for one month and didn t get to know each other as friends much before. He thinks a strong foundation of friendship is missing from our relationship and thinks we should take a step back and get to know each other. I think it is the right thing for us to do. I think it s a mature decision and that we can gain a lot from this. If there really is something there, we ll start dating again. Has anyone been in a similar situation before?

To begin with the beginning I recently started at a new highschool as a sophomore. The first day I was talkative, trying to get everyone comfortable around me was my objective. I met this girl by the vending machine, that's when we started talking, we joked and split ways, the next day I met her in a class of mine and we began talking again and through the week. We have a lot in common, personality and interest wise. I don't know why but she just stuck in my mind for the entire week, we talked every once and a while but not much, because I shied away from her, I had these feeling towards her I hadn't had toward anyone else and I was scared. It continued that way for about a week, I'd began befriending her friends (not just because of her, but because I had a lot in common with them as well, most of her friends are male as well) so we began talking, but when we did talk I was at a loss for words, so I, at this point, began thinking (for whatever reason) nobody liked me, I began to become more reserved and I began hating myself as well, and this trend has continued and I feel as if I've lost bearings. She hugs me and teases me, but that's just who she is, she gave me a nick name, she shares music. and she treats me well, but I'm afraid to move forward, does she like me, or just want to be friends? I'm still shy and I feel I can't speak . Maybe I'm just oblivious to the facts. Sorry for all the angst and **** but that's truly how I feel.

It is very hard for me to talk about my feelings such as feeling upset with my friends or boyfriend, so I never do. I feel like if I give them the reasons I feel upset they will just say my reasons are invalid or don't make sense, or that I'm over reacting

I've been seeing her for a while, and she told me that she's worried she doesn't have time for a relationship with her parents on her back with school, sports, and her job (They pressure her to do well in almost everything) and said she has feelings for me, but feels like I think she's leading me on because sometimes she isn't able to get back to me when we text. I told her I care about her a lot and am willing to take it slow, that if we are able to make a relationship out of the situation, then so be it, but if it doesn't end up that way, then no hard feelings. I told her I'm willing to give it a try if she was. Her last text was "Alright. You're a great guy, I'd like to give it a shot, too." What do I even respond with? I want to bring up that if I ask her out to go do something, and if she's too busy, to just send me a quick text saying she's busy, that not getting a text back until days later kinda sucks. I just don't want to sit there twiddling my thumbs, would rather just get a quick "Sorry, I'm busy, sometime later." than nothing at all. But I don't know how to ask it without sounding clingy, or extremely rude.

She is trying to focus on being with friends and stuff, a bunch of people said it was a accuse but now that school started I see her looking at me a lot and we make eye contact on the daily, so what should I think is what she said true? Please help talking to her was the hardest thing I've ever done

Ok so i have a crush and i see him almost every day but i dont know if he likes me we cant date for him a year me 2 years but he leans on me everyday and he puts he put his arm around me today but then he walked me to class and walked off we always talk tell the bell help does he like me

I like this guy and he knows i like him but hasn't done anything . He always stare at me and when im talking to another guy he would always but in and try to make a new conversation about something else. After i was done talking to the other guy i heard him asking the guy if he liked me. He's been cheated on alot so i don't know what's wrong with him ?

so I pretty much broke up with him last night we've been going out for about 5months now, he just has too many issues - hes $4000 in debt, he owes people money, he disrespects me, he could be losing his license, hes got a kid to another woman.. ive given him money and bought him things and I feel hes taken advantage of me and just all this other stuff. he doesn't clean his house, he didn't shower properly, he doesn't brush his teeth his teeth were rooting - I told him about his hygiene but he didnt really do much about it. lastnight on the phone I just told him how I feel and that im not happy anymore and that I should move on .. he keeps texting me saying please don't I love you ill prove myself your the lady i want so is that it? I have replied to any texts since the phone call. Did I do the right thing by leaving and staying silent? haven't*

Okay so there is this boy who I honestly thought liked me and he didn't. I made it so obvious that I liked him. So now I'm scared to try for another boy I like? Is it worth it, or will I just end up looking stupid. Help?

So, a while ago this girl told me that she thought I was cute. Time went on and we hadn t crossed paths in a while until today, we said hi and she pretty much straight up said that she remembered me because she likes me. She then kind of just went on with the conversation as if she didn t even say that. All answers are appreciated, thanks

Feeling very very low at this point in my life.im hitting 30 and im just exsisting.female thats never had a boyfriend,never had intercourse,never had a man I like like me back ever.been rejected that I don't even try anymore with talking to men cause the pain is unreal.feel like a failure to my parents im not married or have children yet.my career is not the best and im having problems with my weight cause i eat to make my self feel better.i pretty much eat and work I thought today about how my whole life ive never ever been happy even as a child.im to the point that i dont see anything happening for me.the last year ive spent alone in my room watching tv cause and not hung out with a single friend because im so embarrassed about being forever single and they are all in relationships or married.rather than have them feel sorry etc i just avoid. I met a man online that showed intrest in me but i have been very distant cause im scared i will get involved and he will slowly lose interest in me cause in my mind no man will ever ever find me loveable or relationship worthy the pain of rejection makes it so i dont eat for a week and living isnunbearable

I have noticed in the last years that I get excited sexually with almost all types of women. I love sex from the most artistic and conventional to the most filthy. I am 26 years old. Is it outrageous? What do women think about it? I appreciate your sincerity.

I know I am overweight trying to do the right thing lose weight I have no one to go too. My life sucks right now need advice.

I know I am overweight trying to do the right thing lose weight I have no one to go too. My life sucks right now need advice.

Hey yahoo! I'm 16 (male) and people think my mom is my sister when we walk together and guys my age sometimes ask things like"aye, yur sister single" and I don't really know how to answer them. I mean I see their mistake(she's 4'11" and I think she looks pretty young, like no old lady skin or anything( but I don't think she looks like my sister) .... So please I need your thoughts on this (funny, weird, sad?) and what I should tell the guys that ask cause I'm usually at a loss for words! Peace😀

This guy has a gf and I didn't find out until yesterday and so I have a crush on him and he flirts with me all the time he like slaps my *** and everything I'm trying to get over him but I can't cuz he's always trying to make me laugh what do I do

I get a lot of attention from other girls, all of whom don't know me intimately and deeply like my girlfriend, H does. People just over romanticize me because I'm that senior boy on campus with dark hair and bright eyes who sings and plays guitar for his girlfriend. Their brains seem to leave out the fact that I'm also the band's drum major, so I'm basically the biggest geek you've ever seen. But no one cares about that, band geeks aren't supposed to be sexy! I know H trusts me, we built our relationship on trust. I've brought this up several times and she says she doesn't care what girls try to do, because it's my decisions and reactions that matter. And I know I wouldn't do something stupid to hurt her, I'm not going to leave the girl I reaaaally care about to go whore around with my groupies :p Not happening. She's not worried, but she looks at girls who approach me with the same look she gives the screen when we play Mario Kart, and it's a scary sight O___O Even if she decided she didn't want to be with me anymore, I still wouldn't just go for those girls who don't actually want me for who I am. H has been here for me for years and I don't want my sudden popularity to strain our relationship and cause problems. We have our differences, but we communicate well, and I'm really serious about a future with her. I'm just afraid her jealousy will get in the way of her happiness, and I don't want her to be unhappy, I don't want that at all.

So a lot of stuff happened last year between me and this one guy. It was like we knew we liked each other but neither of us really did anything exactly. His friends got me to sit by him a couple times but it ended up just being awkward. His friends kept asking me if I liked him even though they already knew I did. The thing is that was last year. This other guy I'm kind of friends with was like, "Didn't you have a thing with that guy?" He was talking about the guy I liked that liked me. What does it mean in high school if people think you had a 'thing' with someone. We never dated or anything. Does it sound like people thought we did or what? I would really like to know especially high school guys opinions would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.

Im 20, my girlfriend is 19. We've been going out for about 5ish years (we started dating in highschool). We have been best friends since we were 10. I really really really do love her. We even live together in an apartment off campus. But i made a really big mistake. 2 weeks ago i got kinda drunk (which i almost never do) and i hooked up with this girl that has liked me for a while. Ive felt extremely guilty about it ever since and have been trying to figure out how and when to tell my girlfriend. But today the girl i hooked up with told me that her period was late and when she took an ept it came back positive. And she wants to keep the baby. I dont want a child right now nor with her. Now im freaking out not just because she wants to keep the baby but also because my girlfriend might leave me for it and i dont want to lose her. I know it was my stupid decision but there has to be a way for ne to tell her so she isnt as hurt or upset. I really need ideas. Please help!

I want to ask a girl in my class to our homecoming dance. Should I make a poster to ask her out.

Are there any girls out there if they are at their house they walk around in nothing except a bra?

Ok so there's these twins, (let's call them Ian and Chase), and chase and I liked eachother from the beginning of last year until the last day of school last year. Now, over the summer we texted a lot and he isn't normally a texter. But back to present day, we don't see eachother a lot, but like the third day of school he said he missed me...and then later on we texted. Now, with Ian, he had a girlfriend a while back and he had like and "dislike" feelings about me, but that last month of school, he started to stare at me a lot. Him and his girlfriend broke up a few weeks ago and so I decide to text him. Ever since then, we've texted most days, and I've told him many secrets and he's kept them, and he replies ASAP. He also always helps out when I need it. But the past two days I saw them and chase has red cheeks and a small smile and EVERYDAY I SEE HIM HE WEARS MY FAV COLOR and Ian stares A LOT. It also seems like Ian has been jealous of me and his brother.... Now my question is...do one of them or both of them like me? Or neither of them like me?

In PE, the girl's "Target Fitness Zone" is significantly lower than the boys. As a boy who usually under-performs, a girl with my same abilities would look okay to good. Some PE teachers say that is is because boys generally have more muscles than girls; but at the age of 10-13, muscles haven't developed and we should all be at the same playing field. Is there any science or mathematics behind this, or just plain sexism?

My ex girlfriend broke up with me 3 and a half weeks ago. She is going to be out of the country for 9 months next year doing missions work. I'm not at that stage in my life right now where I can do that. We go to the same church and have the same friends, so we have seen each other a few times. I haven't contacted her and i've played it cool. I am not going to call or text until she does first. Even though she's moving away, can things still work out later on down the road?

My ex and I were together for 4 years, the first 3 years were bliss but the last year he spent fighting with me and cheating on me with another girl. So technically he cheated on the both of us, he didn t even have the balls to tell me about the other girl when he broke up with me instead he wanted to remain best friends! Once the other girl and I found out the truth she took him back in an instant because he claimed he loved her more and I didn t provide the great sex she did and I ended all contact with both of them. However I can t help but feel down and cry over this every now and then since he was not only my bf but my best friend and he basically chose to be with this other girl over me, and wanted to keep me as a friend. Will it ever get better? And will he even miss me?

Met a guy in Nashville who is from CA. I'm against long distance, he persued me very hard, and made great effort. We began visiting eachother. We got along so well, and it was great. He seemed crazy about me. Last time we visit was Labor day weekend. When I returned, I said we need to be exclusive if we are going to keep spending $600 on flights to see one another. He got weird, and said we didn't need to jump into anything long distance. I told him we already had.. He wanted to keep seeing eachother, but without a title. Through the week he kept calling, but I kept pressing the issue. He got weird, and quit calling/ texting as much. When he did call, this made me not be so nice, because the effort wasnt there. Last Mon. he called/ text all day, and I ignored. I was so sick of him ignorning me over the past few days. I finally caved around 10pm and spoke to him. I then tried to return his calls, but he rejected. I told him I was sick of contacting him back and being ignored. It made no sense. I then said some rather not so nice things via text. Called him a Dbag and said he needed to grow up. I apologized the next day. He responded and said "give me time and space to think about what you said." I missed him, and kept texting a few days later, but got ignored. Saturday he randomly called.When I tried calling back he ignored and text and said we have nothing to talk about, I was just being polite. He then wouldnt speak to me for the rest of the night. What is this all about?

This guy messaged me his ***** is bigger bc he had sex idk the guy it's random on kik but I didn't think that's how it worked.

Her birthday is coming up, and it will be exactly four weeks since we broke up.

I noticed there was this attractive guy in my school and he lives in the same complex as me. Since were are in different years we do not see each other often and I decided to message him. He responded well, and I asked him to meet he said sure and gave me his number. So I texted him and told him to let me know when he is free. About 3 weeks went by and I heard nothing so I made concrete plans with him, and met him. He was really nice and it went ok, asked me questions. When I said bye, he said if I ever want to do this again to text him. So I did, and he responded that we should do this again. I said when are you free, he said he will keep me updated :). This Friday there is a social, and was going to see if he is coming. But not sure about the whole situation. What do you think?? He always responds fairly quickly! The last time I texted him or he texted me was 5 days ago.

Basically to make this long story short. I am 18 and I recently broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. It's been hard but there is a chance we might get back together. I still have all of our pictures together up on my Instagram and Twitter while he deleted them all the day of. I feel really dumb hanging on to them when it's clear we broke up since he has none on his. I don't wanna delete all of our amazing memories. But since he already did I feel like I should even though we probably will get back together... I hate being in this generation of having social media especially with relationships.. Any advice is really appreciated

I'm your typically 20 yr old working at this store & whenever I see this woman shes always doing quick glances like looking around. Shes tall like me, long haired brunette. She seems "fancy", she even drove in a pretty nice car, soon as she pulled up I could've swore she did a quick glance at me. Maybe I'm imagining things. But whenever she walks in the grocery store it seems like she does quick glances to everyone else also. Also one time she was walking I looked at her & she did a quick smile. A few wks later she came in with some sunglasses, once again being high maintenance. I quickly decided to mess with her. I said "you cant wear those" with a smile. She walked a little and smiled at me like "what? Well im gonna wear them anyway!" smiling. Some time passed by, I turned around messing with my co worker then she walks pass me looking at me saying "im still wearing themm". I look at her trying to think what to say. She starts to walk toward me "why? Why cant I wear them?" tilting her sunglasses down. Then I say "im just joking with youu" smiling waving my hand, she laughs at the same time with me. Turns around & says "cyaa". A wk later she came in doing quick glances with a little smirk. She did this like twice. My friend caught her and she went around the store real quick. She went to the aisle beside me then changed her mind & came thru my line. I played it cool & she just starts convo & she had to go A wk later I was in the lobby & I could've swore she was staring at me. My friend was in the store and apparently she initiated convo with him like small talk even though they were both in different lines. I had go to outside & i could see her coming my way i made casual glances. She seemed nervous but looked at me & said again "hey hru" with a little smile. I just said "good & you?" A wk later I went outside and I seen her & walked toward her, remained calmed, she seemed outta breath but said "Hey" with a smile. I said "Hey, whats going on?" she didnt say nothing just kept walking in the store. A few mins later she was quickly out with her sunglasses out to her car. A wk later I was in the store and I seen her we both looked at each other shes like "Hey" I'm like "Sup, whats gonna on with you?" we both gave each other the same look as we passed each other, I sensed a nervous vibe at the moment. I was outside talking to my friend walking then she comes out with her sunglasses and hair to the side with a nice straight posture. Is she trying to look good for me!?

Like literally, if I'm in relationship with you it's not a game to me. I plan on, eventually, marrying you. What kind of space do you need? When we get married, we will literally live with each other and see each other everyday.

He used to grab my ***, hold my hands a lot, rub my thigh and now that were dating he gives me kisses sometimes but doesn't do the other stuff he knows i like??? He saw me today, he deadass said "hey babe" hugged me and walked away with his friends, wtff?? he could've at least kissed me dafaq i want more attention :(

If you get to change it, what would sound better??