Family: Question: Am I psychic? |
- Question: Am I psychic?
- Question: Why is my dad so nasty towards my mom?
- Question: I deal with an alcoholic mom and step dad and I don t know what to do anymore?
- Question: Is it possible to get a new mom in any way ? She died 3 years ago and wasn t nice. I was wondering if it was possible to get a new mom?
- Question: I got an F?
- Question: Poll: What's your age and occupation?
- Question: How do I move on after the death of my brother?
- Question: Is Thad Luckinbill related to Lawrence Luckinbill?
- Question: Russian like the US? And where better?
- Question: Am 21 years old and my dad have dementia. I get lonely watching him?
- Question: Aww, my little brother thought he could be tough and challenge me. He lost though and now he has to pay up! Answer this for me girls. Please?
- Question: My mom is the worst mother in law ever?
- Question: Is my son a disgrace if he was beaten by a female?
- Question: Who would get full custody?
- Question: Help!! my grandmother is an annoying bitc*?
- Question: My step mum spanked me read below?
- Question: Are we in our fathers before we're in our mothers?
- Question: Should I text my brother?
- Question: Family problems?
- Question: Family planning question?
- Question: I can hear my parents having sex all the time. It bothers me. How can I stop hearing it?
- Question: How do you not offend people that have your best interest at heart but you feel pushed by them and feel they become to involved in your life?
- Question: How do I pay for my own phone bill?
- Question: Are my parent's babying my little brother?
- Question: How can I move out?
- Question: My stepdad has started looking at me weird..?
- Question: This is about my sister..?
- Question: My mom is exaggerating and getting me into trouble for the smallest errors?
- Question: How can I stop worrying about money?
- Question: I really miss my aunt alot she is also my godmother and i just want to see her ... is there a way i could see her before november ..?
- Question: Why is my step daughter so nasty?
- Question: Parents won't let me get contacts?
- Question: Are we in our fathers before we're in our mothers?
- Question: Can some help me?
- Question: How could you not love your family?
- Question: Is wrong to be jealous of my spoiled cousin?
- Question: Suggestions on how to cope with this?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: As a son, what are the things I should do if a parent dies?
- Question: Would you wait till you had more money?
- Question: Mom wants to throw my brother a house warming party but didn't throw me one?
- Question: What does my dream mean?..?
- Question: My daughter is out of control?
- Question: My mom wants to throw my brother a house warming....but didn't throw me one?
- Question: I am holding a part time job with low pay and unable to support my father.?
- Question: My dad won't give me my phone back and I need it for school?
- Question: I really feel bad for my mom ?
- Question: I have been raised by my grandmother since I was seven. I recently moved out and have been asking my mom to help me with home improvements?
- Question: Why do my relatives not happy for me? How can I deal with negativity?
- Question: Why is my life so hard?
- Question: I have a legal/moral question concerning possible paternity.?
- Question: How to make her see?
- Question: Baby advice?
- Question: When can a parent legally kick their child out In Va?
- Question: What can you say about such a person?
- Question: Mom wont let me go...what do i do?
- Question: Where is jiah khan's father?
- Question: Am I wrong for this?
- Question: My 17yr nephew is very disrespectful and ungrateful towards my mother and his how much trouble can i get into if i knock him on his a** im 40?
- Question: How should I react to my in laws?
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 01:25 PM PDT Ever since the age of 5 or 6. I would overhear a conversation and on a rare occasion, I would blurt out a random sentence or word and then the conversation would be related to what I said. I had no control of what I said. I just said it out loud without thinking. For example. My brother packed up some stuff and I told him "Come back home soon" I had no idea why I said that outloud. I knew he we out all the time but this was not common. Later I found out he ran away from home. He eventually came back. I was coming home from the dentist with my little brother and sister in the back and me in the passenger seat. I had a strange feeling about my little sister and that she would get an accident. And told my brother to buckle her seat belt ( nobody really buckles their seat belt in the back) he didn't believe me until my dad out breaks because someone was over speeding and my sister hit her head on the back of the driver seat. My brother then loss the bet. Am I psychic? |
| Question: Why is my dad so nasty towards my mom? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 12:52 PM PDT He is always getting into ridiculous fights with my mom over the most trivial things. The other night he was shouting at my mom because she didn't know enough facts about this specific football player. He was being real nasty and mean to her all because she said one thing about this football player that wasn't true..(something like "he was born in Indiana"..something along those lines)..just a mindless fact and my dad took such great offense to it for some reason. We were just having nice family time watching the game and my dad got SO MAD when my mom mentioned this football player to the point where he was yelling and arguing and we all just left the room and went upstairs. One time he got in a shouting match with all of us in the middle of a restaurant because he couldn't find the table we were sitting at. He dropped us off in front of the restaurant and the hostess seated us, and when he came back in he couldn't find us and he took it so personally and started yelling and shouting and throwing a temper tantrum. He is always starting these arguments even when we have guests over, like getting extremely nasty and irate and antagonizing my mom over things that normal people wouldn't take any offense to. As a result our guests get so weirded out that they never want to visit our house again. I hate being around my dad anymore because you never know what's going to piss him off next..is this normal |
| Question: I deal with an alcoholic mom and step dad and I don t know what to do anymore? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 12:35 PM PDT My father recently passed away, so I ve been forced to stay with my mom and her boyfriend , who drink very often. My mom doesn t drink as often, but when she does, it s an all out war. I ve been able to fair for a while, ignoring most of it, but after last night, I don t think I can. I get put down, called names, deal with the constant bullshit of arguing. Usually I m not needed, but sometimes it gets physical and **** between them. I sometimes go to my brothers when I know they re drinking, but even THAT S not a safe place apparently anymore, cause last night, my mom called both me and him at 3am, just to ask a question and phrased it wrong, and then her boyfriend started calling me a lying ***** because of the way she phrased it and I didn t understand. I told her I shouldn t be brought into these arguments. I m so close to just... snapping! I used to have a really bad anger because I bottle it up until it finally explodes. Even here, I do the same... I don t know what else to do. I m 18, but I can t move out yet because I can t find a job, nor can I afford to live on my own. I m told if I don t like the disrespect that I can get out . If my dad was still alive, I would get out , but until I can find a full time job, I can t afford to get a place for myself. |
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| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 12:30 PM PDT I have never gotten an f or c in my whole 11 years of living. My mom has very strict punishment for bad grades like spanking and one month punishment. I'm scared how do I tell my mom I'm crying a lot because I hate even getting a b what do I do please give me advice. |
| Question: Poll: What's your age and occupation? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 12:28 PM PDT I'm 18 years old and I watch over my adoptive mother, whom is 71 years old and at full extensive care (can't walk, talk, etc) |
| Question: How do I move on after the death of my brother? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 12:00 PM PDT |
| Question: Is Thad Luckinbill related to Lawrence Luckinbill? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 11:41 AM PDT |
| Question: Russian like the US? And where better? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 11:37 AM PDT |
| Question: Am 21 years old and my dad have dementia. I get lonely watching him? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 11:33 AM PDT So I bring my bf over and spend the night but my aunt always wnt trip off of it. She just power over authority. But she some time watch him for the day but it really me n my brother doing it.. so she have the rights to tell me who cant spend the night |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 11:21 AM PDT Hey girls, I'm Aly and I'm 20. So I was just hanging out at my apartment when my little brother (he's 18) came over. The moment he got here he was running his mouth and talking about how great he was. Then he wanted to make a bet with me because he wanted $50. I told him I'd bet with him but if he lost he would have to wear whatever I told him to and spend the rest of the day here working at my apartment for me. He just laughed it off and said whatever because he thought there was no way he would lose. Well girls, he did in fact lose and now it's time for him to pay up!!! Hahahahaha! Before he begins to pay off his lost to me though, I was hoping you girls would help me out by answering a couple questions I want to ask you. Here are my questions.. 1) What should I make him wear? Since he has to wear absolutely anything I give him to wear :) 2) What should I have him do around my apartment while he works for me?? 3) What just random things should I make him do that would be funny to see? Please help me out girls, I wanna make him regret ever challenging me! :) |
| Question: My mom is the worst mother in law ever? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 11:14 AM PDT So i married the man i was with after ten years. We now been togather for six. My mom never stand him, she is a christian by the way. Mainly bc he is an alcoholic and has put me and our kids out of the house several times over the years due to being drunk. I recently moved in to an apt in which she co sighned for me to get. I told her i wanted to separate. So two months later she sees him at my apt and flips out. I have scoliosis and there are days i can not get out of bed so i needed him to help w our 3 year old. He attends counsling , AA, and NA meetings. My entire income goes towards rent .Mom will not help me pay other bills in which she agreed to pay upon me moving in. Although i applied for jobs im almost sure i can not work. I have been denied social security disability 3 times. Iam terrified at the fact that i may have to move back in w my husband. He says he wont drink but he has lied so many times that he is basically crying wolf. Will i survive? |
| Question: Is my son a disgrace if he was beaten by a female? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 11:13 AM PDT Should I disinherit him? |
| Question: Who would get full custody? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 11:09 AM PDT I am a mother working part time and going to school full time. I have a house, he has his own room, I have a car, he's set up in daycare, and my mother who loves him very much watches him for about an extra 3 hours. So I am pretty busy, but it's only for this semester. My sons father now is asking for more custody, but the reason I don't give him more already is because he has no car, no license, no job for the last year, and the house he lives in is a 2 bedroom house and 6 other people live there with him. The house is falling apart, the roof has collapsed in 2 places, wires are showing through the wall, the plumbing is messed up, and 3/7 people that live there he has told me are alcoholics. I do not want my son in this kind of situation. I'm afraid I'll lose because of the fact that when we were together, he was a stay at home dad because he "couldn't find a job". I know most stay at home moms get full custody, and courts are not gender based. This sounds awful, but the dad is lazy and just doesn't want to have to pay child support so he's seeking half and half custody. Which normally would be fine with me, but his living situation and joblessness scares me. I'm totally afraid my son will be stuck in that house. Even though he was a stay at home dad and I work a lot/at school a lot, would I get full custody? |
| Question: Help!! my grandmother is an annoying bitc*? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 10:58 AM PDT so my paternal grandmother is just so ANNOYING she treats me like a baby she calls me names ahe touches her butt and then touches my head and she lies to me. PLEASE I WANT TO HARM HER.!!! |
| Question: My step mum spanked me read below? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 10:23 AM PDT I got in trouble at school and my step mum spanked me when she spanked me she hit my private parts then she told me to pull my pants up because I don't wear them up up and I wouldn't so she grabbed my arm smacked my *** again grabbed my pants by the waist and crotch and pulled then up so hard my balls were squeezed and I dropped to my knees holding myself she just said sorry and got me ice is she allowed to do that I told my dad he's gonna talk to her but he's overseas |
| Question: Are we in our fathers before we're in our mothers? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 10:22 AM PDT Just think about it, it takes both egg and sperm to make a human.BUT the sperm cell is alive unlike the egg cell so wouldn't that make us start off as the sperm cell? |
| Question: Should I text my brother? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 10:18 AM PDT I just met my brother for the first time. He is in his mid thirties while I am twenty. He was really happy to meet me and he had a lot of questions to ask me. I have other sisters that I am close with but they were meeting him for the first time as well. We all went out bowling and had a good time. He lives in california while i live in new jersey. Now that i am back in new jersey it has been two days since i saw him & want to text him to talk to him but im not sure if it will annoy him. He texted me two days ago to make sure i landed safely. I just thought he was really cool & we both said how we want to know eachother more so is texting him two days later just to have a casual conversation too much? |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 10:00 AM PDT Lately I've been having a lot of family problems well more like for a couple of months now.My mom has made things worse for me and my life.I'm 18 now and she still wants to control my and basically have it her way.She never wants to listen to me or what would make me happy.We been fighting for a couple of days now and it's not getting any better.I had plans to move out with my boyfriend of 3 years.I would much better bd with him then my family that always put me down.My mom never bothers to understand that I'm anger cause of her and makes me go to doctors like something is wrong with me.I've told her many times what was going on and she could careless when I say it but when I get mad shes like what the hell is wrong with you.My dad isn't a big part of my life .I have a sister that's moving out soon with her boyfriend and my brother will not even care if I'm gonna. Am I doing the right thing here and finally doing something I want to do in my life? |
| Question: Family planning question? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 09:46 AM PDT Yahoo had a glitch so it did not do what I wanted lol |
| Question: I can hear my parents having sex all the time. It bothers me. How can I stop hearing it? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 09:31 AM PDT I recently moved back in with my parents because I'm saving up to buy a car. It's all been great, but my parents are really loud when they have sex. I know they have sex, but it's disgusting hearing it. My mom says so many dirty things to my dad. I can sometimes hear them from downstairs when they're doing it in their bedroom. I've hinted at the fact I'm uncomfortable with it, but they either are ignoring the hint or just don't care. I don't feel comfortable outright telling them, but what else should I do? Is there any way I can drown out the noise? I'm a 20 year old woman by the way They do it probably about 2-4 times a week. |
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| Question: How do I pay for my own phone bill? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 09:00 AM PDT I'm 17 and dad has anger issues and takes my phone randomly and I've had enough so I've decided that I'm going to pay for my own phone because he can only really say he owns it if he's the one paying the bill. I have a part-time job (minimum wage) and I'm going to start babysitting because that makes me more money. How do I get the bill sorted out though? My phone is under a plan with my mom, dad, and grandmother and as far as I know the bill is paid as a whole. Who do I go to to get a separate bill, Verizon (my phone carrier)? How does this all work? |
| Question: Are my parent's babying my little brother? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 09:00 AM PDT I no longer live at home but something has always bothered me about my brother and how my sister and I are treated differently. My brother is nine, his only two chores are emptying the bathroom rubbish bin and taking the soda bottles outside, if he doesn t do this my mother would make my sister or I do it. My sister and I are responsible for doing everything else besides making dinner, that was also my job but my step father didn t like my cooking. When I would ask my mum before she would wave me off and say he s just a baby, when I would ask my dad he said that its a woman s job to do the work inside and a man s to do the work outside. I kind of laughed because I also do most of the work outside, like cutting the grass and feeding and watering the animals. I told him to get out of the 1880s, men need to learn how to learn how to cook and clean too, mummy isn t always going to be there, just like I need to know how to change the oil on a car and mow the lawn. Are they in the wrong or am I? |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 08:58 AM PDT I'm 16 and my mother has been a hoarder and abusive toward myself, my younger brother, and my father since I was six. I've finally had enough. I don't care what it takes, I need to leave this house and her. Who should I talk to? School guidance counselor? Doctor? CPS? I don't know where to start. |
| Question: My stepdad has started looking at me weird..? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 08:53 AM PDT I've just turned 13, so obviously going through puberty and starting to fill out. My stepdad has been with my mom for almost my whole life and was basically my dad.. bathed me, changed me, etc when I was little. Lately if I turn around quickly or something I notice he'll be staring at me or I can see him staring in the corner of my eye. Its really weird because he's my stepdad but I can't help but think he is starting to look at me sexually. He hasn't done anything like touch me though. I don't want to say anything to mom because he's nice and i'm probably just wrong in the first place. Is this normal? is there anything I should do? |
| Question: This is about my sister..? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 08:21 AM PDT She is 48, 5 years younger than I. In July we took a 2 week trip to France and Italy. Her husband of 27, my sis, me and my 30 yr old daughter (who is her Godchild). My sister and hubby are extremely Catholic. I am a recovering Catholic. My sister is high energy and lives in a very secluded suburb whereas I live in the heart of a larger city in an area that is not considered affluent. I don't buy things on credit ever. I own my house and cars. She and her hub own a beautiful house and pay a mortgage. She sent her daughters to private school. I didn't. Her daughters got pregnant in high school. Mine didn't. The trip was difficult. We live in different worlds and she and her husband "spat" quite a bit. They cuss and yell and flip each other off. My daughter became frustrated with her/them. I asked her to ignore their behavior and be polite. She has since barraged us with emails of us ignoring her and that she thought that was rude. Help! |
| Question: My mom is exaggerating and getting me into trouble for the smallest errors? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 08:13 AM PDT Like seriously, it gets so annoying. At first I can understand that I fail to exercise so she shouts at me for my weight. That is still understandable. But over the course of the last week, she shouts at me for literally taking my laptop to my room because she was singing **** in the living room. And then earlier, she shouted at me for shaking my head instead of saying no. This is out of control, help! |
| Question: How can I stop worrying about money? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 08:12 AM PDT Im a 14 year old girl and I worry to much about money. In the beggining It was just like me taking a cheaper item than what I would usually take, then I stopped shopping and everytime I would buy lets say a pair of jeans I would always feel bad for like a week. And now I have a birthday gift I need to buy and glasses to fix and it will cost me (well actually my father) around 50 dollars and I feel so bad aboit it and I think its mostly about me not wanting to burden my dad. He got sick and doesnt have any kidneys for the second time. his salary is about 1000 a month and he spends 700 on bills and my ***** of a mom who earn much more doesnt want to give us a single penny even tho she lives in the house my dad payes for and the food my dad both pays and make. I really hate feeling bad about taking money and I've tried getting a job because my dad wont let me because he says i shouldnt have to get a job this age and that im his resbonsibility is there anyway I can stop feeling bad about taking money |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 08:04 AM PDT she has always been there for me so being away from her for long periods of time is really hard for me |
| Question: Why is my step daughter so nasty? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 07:53 AM PDT My step daughter has an issue with me because of her mother I never see her or her brother it s time for them and their dad however she never visits him and makes excuses while her mother backs her up she only wants her dad for money and is so nasty and vindictive towards him she s all her mother, she acts like she s 25 when in reality she is a 12 year old girl with no respect its causing friction between our relationship because he s always grumpy because of her treating him so bad he s told her numerous of times but she doesn t care. I understand she s at a funny age but how can I ignore it when my partner is so low and ignoring me over her |
| Question: Parents won't let me get contacts? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 07:45 AM PDT |
| Question: Are we in our fathers before we're in our mothers? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 07:43 AM PDT Just think about it, it takes both egg and sperm to make a human.BUT the sperm cell is alive unlike the egg cell so wouldn't that make us start off as the sperm cell? |
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| Question: How could you not love your family? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 07:36 AM PDT My half aunt doesn't seem to love her family. She didn't come to my grandfather's (her DAD'S) funeral, and she hasn't visited my mom (her half sister) who is currently in the hospital. Lemme elaborate. I won't deny that my grandfather treated my aunt like second rate when she was growing up. At least that's what I've gathered from the stories I've heard. She had a pretty hard life when it came to him. But she was in Vegas the day of his funeral. She was gambling! And her dad just died! Now, my mom's in the hospital and she's hanging out who knows where? Why is she like this? It shouldn't matter how a person made you feel as a child. She's like, 50 now. Feelings in the past shouldn't determine how you feel about your family in the future.No matter what, it all come down to love! Why does she do these things? |
| Question: Is wrong to be jealous of my spoiled cousin? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 07:24 AM PDT She gets spoiled by our grandmother. She's 18, I'm 20. She's morbidly obese (4'10" 230 lbs), doesn't even have a learners permit, goes to a community college taking high school courses like math development, never worked a day in her life, doesn't even have a bank account, yet she gets taken to trips all over the world like Paris, our grandmother gives her $$$ whenever she wants, and she even asked my grandmother for a car (remember she doesn't even have a learners permit). My grandmother told her she's her favorite and she's most proud of her I started taking college courses in high school, I was in calculus by 11th grade, I dormed at the top public university in my state (I'm taking time off now though), I currently work 2 jobs since I'm taking time off , I'm working my butt off to get the things my cousin can get anytime anyday. It actually upsets me, sometimes motivates me. My grandmother never acknowledges me. I look at the situation like I will be able to take care of myself in the future and my cousin most likely won't, but I'm still jealous! |
| Question: Suggestions on how to cope with this? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 07:21 AM PDT For the past 7 months I've been dealing with all kinds of doctors visits and specialists because I'm pregnant with a baby who has Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia. It has been a very scary thing for me and I really needed my husband's support during this time. I still do because it's not over. I have two months of this left. I already had way too many things going on this year that were stressful. We first faced my husband losing his job, me almost losing my car, then nearly losing our house, and his friends live with us and I've had to clean up after them even though they know I'm pregnant. Now my husband wants a divorce, ending our 8 year relationship in the middle of all of this. He has taken to not speaking to me while I struggle to find somewhere safe to live and figure out how I'm going to manage all of the medical co-payments and...everything else. He has also taken to making sure he cooks dinner for himself and eats in front of me, knowing I'm hungry. Even though I make food for myself, it would be nice to have a husband who would help me once in a while. I don't really know how to cope with all of this. It's way too much and I don't know what I did to deserve this. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 06:55 AM PDT being a father and trying to make me jealous,lies on me to his family telling his family I'm not letting him get his son. I start sending his mother our text messages to prove that hey this not me this your son.. all she do is text me don't text her phone no more and GOD IS GONNA GET ME and she wasn't going to read it. What should I do.. because I feel like I lost a good man to have my bd in my sons life and now my life is a living hell. |
| Question: As a son, what are the things I should do if a parent dies? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 06:43 AM PDT My mum's paying for my car every month. Also, college fees monthly. Food comes to 50$ per day.. Car fuel comes to 50$ per week, and the taxes (land house car idk).. I will have to support my mentally-ill brother and since I have college classes, whose gonna take care of him? (he's 24).. and all my parent's money, assets.. Should I be the first to get to it or my sisters (who are already married) will sort them out? I don't even have a job... My mom told me once that she has a lot of money, will the money be divided between me and my sisters equally?? what if they want higher share? and what about the funeral stuff... how much will that cost, what do i need to inform the government? |
| Question: Would you wait till you had more money? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 06:23 AM PDT I'm considering relocating back to my home state of SC from NYC. I have about $4,000 saved up for rent which would get me an estimated 6 months of rent. I lost my job recently so currently, I'm working a part time job. The pay is so bad I've had to move in with my aunt in NJ because I could not afford my apartment. I can't even afford to put anymore money away into savings that's how little money I'm currently making. I'm trying to find a 2nd retail job for the holidays so I can have money to put away. There's no "rush" to relocate I just miss home. Am I better off waiting until I can save up a bit more money? I'm just afraid if I can't find a job in 6 months I would be screwed. |
| Question: Mom wants to throw my brother a house warming party but didn't throw me one? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 05:46 AM PDT I moved out at 18, into an apartment with my bf, it was a crap apartment. Saved our money. I went I went I school & worked. Then we upgraded to a bigger apartment. The place ended up having druggies move it. It got very bad! We knew we didn't have want to get into an expensive mortgage. Or wait to find & close on a house. We bought a trailer (5 yrs old)in a nice park with some land. Close to my bfs work. Our Morgage & lot rent are under $600/month. Fast forward 6 yrs. it's almost paid off. No big house warming party nothing. My brother is jumping into a house, $1100/Morgage (plus all their other bills) they have little to nothing to furnish it. My mom is making a big deal about a house warming party because they "need it". It's nice & all & I am proud of him & his fiancé but I'm mad at my parents for thinking they need all this help...my parents told me I was an adult welcome to the real world. We ate cereal for many meals, & scrapped penny's to earn what we have. (Now married with kids) we are happy with our starter home! |
| Question: What does my dream mean?..? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 05:39 AM PDT Missing my father,a trucker,doesn t come home often, same day I was upset,mother and I had an arguement.It began with me on a sidewalk drawing,smaller sister in house asleep,oldest sister with friend inside&neighbors like usual watching people walk by.sisters husky got out&running in the streets with our cat.told my sister to go get them.i ran after leaving my stuff behind and only stopped at a house in my street,my sister&her friend caught up,she told her friend"screw this,get ur car"they took off&neighbors to help.I worried&went back to sidewalk where people walked by.A short old man walked by as I picked up my stuff&said"why u Sad"I replied"I miss my dad so much"he acted as if he knew my father&said"I know hes a great artist"I got up&walked as I felt him follow.I opened my door as he followed me continuing to speak I said" thanks please leave now"He replied no in an angry way I said for him to leave&he came closer.I got behind the metal door and locked it saying"I m just going to lock this door and ask u to leave" he replied " then I ll do this and unlock the door like back then" he grabs a huge coin like item from his pocket and picks the lock and it s door knob is missing, I begin to panic&closed the other door in time,lock it quickly he did the same to the 2nd door and knobs go missing too. I worry about my smaller sister who s asleep in the house as I trip to the floor & he walks toward me and grabs my legs forcing them open,I woke up with a struggle&caught my breathe. |
| Question: My daughter is out of control? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 05:38 AM PDT She talk back and fight her sister and bother.and talk back to me and her dad and skip class |
| Question: My mom wants to throw my brother a house warming....but didn't throw me one? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 05:35 AM PDT |
| Question: I am holding a part time job with low pay and unable to support my father.? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 05:21 AM PDT I am a university grad, however, I was unable to find a perm job for 1 year despite the economy is doing well in my country. I worked part time job, but unable to support my father, as I earn only $800 per month while I still looking for a perm job. My father was rather independent as he is in his 58s and still working full time hence he can support himself. And he has a 4 room flat, that he said that he would sell away and get a 2 room cheap flat, so he can save up for retirement. He knew that I have been earning low income, hence he had made plan for himself. Now, my friends has been scolding me, saying that my father is so miserable as he had to spend on his own retirement. What should I do? My father can just spend all his $, he dont need to leave me any $ after he died. |
| Question: My dad won't give me my phone back and I need it for school? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:40 AM PDT My dad has literal anger issues and he took my phone Monday night (we had monday and tuesday off) for asking to go to a friend's house. I have school today and I need my phone, but he won't give it back. I need it because I have severe anxiety issues which he is well aware of and I use meditation apps and need a way to contact my mom if my anxiety gets really bad. I called him at work this morning and nicely asked for him to give it back just for school and he hung up on me. I think my mom wants to give it back to me but she's afraid to. I want to go to school but I can't without my phone, I'm already panicking thinking about it. I know my dad is just doing this to be an a****** and hold a grudge. |
| Question: I really feel bad for my mom ? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:37 AM PDT Okay . since her childhood she' been having a rough family life because her parents got a divorce and her two older brother faught too much . also , she has terrible relatives . and now she has my dad and me and my two siblings. The thing is , she makes a lot ofbad decisions and does bad things . she usually isn't considerate to us and she's always mad and too sensitive . but she's also my mom and i love her and although i snap at her sometimes because of what she does , i apologize immediately because i feel bad soon after . but i don't think I'm alone enough i mean i feel like my two siblings hate my mother and they act so mean towards her and what's worse when mom tells my dad about it he tells her to let it go . i've tried to tell my dad but all he wants is not helping her . occasionally he tells them to act better but they never listen . i do believe my dad loves my mom but idk why he does that . overall I'm afraid that she feels lonely and hated and my mom isnt the type to talk about her feelings . also, i tried telling my siblings to back off and treat her better but they won't although she always gives them anything they want . what do i do to help her? |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:37 AM PDT ? I do not pay her top dollar, but I do offer to pay her for her work. This is usually a price that she set...I will ask how much will you do the job for rather than me suggesting a price. She seems to not think its enough and always changes prices that she agreed to or originally set. I feel that if she would not want to help me to make up for the past years, she should at leat want to because I am her daughter. Am i being selfish or greedy to not want to pay her top dollar as if she was a professional? |
| Question: Why do my relatives not happy for me? How can I deal with negativity? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 04:35 AM PDT I'm a Filipina happily married to a Caucasian man. One day, I spoke with my male cousin, he said they wished I never got married, he also asked me if I'm still working, I told him my husband told me to stop working. Now, I have better job again, paying my own bills and everything is getting better between me and my husband (financially); I told him my husband is about to get me to live with him, I still get negative responses from him, he underestimates my job and my husband's financial capabilities. My husband is not wealthy but he is a hardworking person. My auntie and my cousin invited me to have dinner with them outside; I was wondering why I'm the only one invited by them. She talks about how much money my cousin is earning then in the amidst of our conversation, my auntie asked me if I can look for a rich, Caucasian man for her daughter in my husband's country because her daughter wants to live abroad and they're really looking for an affluent man because she thinks her daughter is very beautiful and deserves it. When the conversation focused on me, my auntie said, me and my husband should stay in the Philippines in order for them to look after me, so my husband won't hurt me physically and emotionally, I was thinking "she wants her daughter to live abroad with a rich man and they want me to stay in the Philippines?" Why are they like these? How can I deal with negativity? |
| Question: Why is my life so hard? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 03:44 AM PDT I'm in the middle of a good death match in CoD and then my mom says I have to help the laundry. Seriously, I was only playing it for three hours and my mom only gives me $40 dollars a week, I wosh she'd give me actually have fun. She doesn't even make good food, she minus will order apizza instead. Not to forget I have to go to prison-I mean school. Why can't my life be easy in any way? |
| Question: I have a legal/moral question concerning possible paternity.? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 01:32 AM PDT When I was a teenager 16 years old I was sexually involved with a 14 year old girl. We dated for several months. She was late, tested and came back with a positive pregnancy test. Her father found out and moved her away, forbidding contact. Number changed, we didn't have internet like today, no social media and no clue where they went. She did however get a message to me after I kept bugging her friends that she had miscarried and just wanted to move on. After 16 years, I was on Facebook and thought I would look her up to see how she was doing. Well, to my surprise. She has a 16 year old daughter, who happens to share family traits. I feel in my heart that this girl is my child. What can I do after all these years? How could I approach this? What if i'm wrong and come off looking like a crazy stalker, or if I'm right and this somehow ruins the girls life that she knows. If she is mine, I want to be in her life if she'll let me. I just don't know what to do. |
| Question: How to make her see? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 12:18 AM PDT My mom isn't very strict, but I want to go to an anime convention (about 2 hours away) - she thinks I'll get kidnapped or run off with someone there, and I've never done anything like that. I said I would give her text updates and I don't want a babysitter and she just went from calm to screaming when I asked her. I don't want to sound like a spoiled kid, but I'm 16, how can I make her see that sounds a bit ridiculous? |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2015 12:08 AM PDT My boyfriend and I have been living together for 3 years now. I actively take care of his two kids (4&5) but I'm ready to have a child of my own. I already do everything a mom does but my boyfriend don't ever want to talk about it. I want a planned pregnancy but I don't want to wait to much longer. Am I crazy? |
| Question: When can a parent legally kick their child out In Va? Posted: 16 Sep 2015 12:07 AM PDT So I'm 17 I'm a senior in high school school just started, but I turn 18 in January. Well my mom has issues like she gets very violent and yells a lot. She almost broke my arm twice by hitting me with a baseball bat or my old crutches. I deal with it because I go to school at her house. Well I have younger siblings and she does the same thing to them. She hit my sister in the face with a belt because she peed on the couch. Im usually the person thaT Steps in to stop these problems, but she always say I'm being disrespectful, or call the cop. When I push her off my youngeR brother or two baby sisters. She always threatened to kick me out the house since I was fourteen But she legally could't. I just wanna know if she could or couldn't. I will still be in highschoo. And I don't want her to mess another thing in my life up. I could go to my dad's house but he lives in anotheR City. So my baby would have to deal with my mom's abuse. Sorry for the long story but I desperately need advice on this situation. I prefer someone who knows the law in Virginia would answer but any knowledge will be appreciated. |
| Question: What can you say about such a person? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:46 PM PDT One who is proud that he can make his wife laugh;but whom ultimately will make her cry, when the enivitable happens: she finds out about his many affairs,etc. He brags online about his many encounters;often rationalizing his wrongs and at the same time becoming mad at anyone who opposes what he does and has the courage to say that-transferance of anger. What can you say about such a man?. He says he and his wife are perfect for each other(complete each other) and that he has no intentions of leaving her. He also has said thave been his fault if it sodesn't work out, but that he is a weak man and ueses woman accordingly. Is his morality(this deception) okay? |
| Question: Mom wont let me go...what do i do? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 11:33 PM PDT I am having issues with my mom. I am 23, chinese, female, and the youngest in my family. I understand there is a degree of overprotectiveness, but ive had enough of it. I graduated from college (which I payed for) in june with my bachelors in nursing, took my boards in july, and just received a job offer at kaiser permanente. The hospital is about 20 minutes from my house, but i still want to move out. My parents, of course, are against, but know they cant stop me. I have started looking into apartments. My mom said that if i move out, shes coming to live with me, because she does not want to be with my dad anymore. I understand that feeling, because my dad is a pain in the ***. But I DO NOT want her living with me; It would be like not moving away from home at all. My mom does not work so she has nothing but time to micromanage me and i know shell continue to do that if she lives with me. "Where you going? Why dont you work more? Youre so lazy. You eat too much. Youre so fat." I cant stand it. My dad is more relaxed because hes working all the time, but he doesnt treat my mom well, so i understand her Not wanting to live with him anymore. My mom is leaving the country for a month soon, and im planning on using that opportunity to find a place and move out while shes out of the country. That way when she comes back, ill be gone. I dont want to tell her where ill be living, because then shell try to move in too. How should i handle this situation? I want my freedom! |
| Question: Where is jiah khan's father? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 10:46 PM PDT ok... her suicide note has been written by her mother... and what ? why did her mother had to wrire al these words ? and her mother is who working at what ? found her dead ? and where is her father ? |
| Question: Am I wrong for this? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 10:08 PM PDT A couple years ago my dad became blind in his dominant eye. Therefore, he lost is 2500 dollar a week job. They didn t save a single dime of it. Spent it all on beer, cigarettes, clothes me and my brother didn t need, toys, electonics, clothes my mom didn t need, pointless tools and buying everything on credit. He applied for disability and we finally got accepted. As I just turned 18 they gave me a check of my share of the money since I was still in school and we had no income. As you can imagine it s kind of a lot of money, we ll for us anyway. And now my alcoholic dad is harassing me calling me selfish and stingy that I won t give him money for beer. My mom asks for money for bills and he s wanting some for beer. And if I tell him no he starts about how he wouldn t bat an eye back in the day, if I wanted something, he got it at that moment. That s why we are broke. I don t want that. So am I really being stingy? |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:54 PM PDT He dosent contribute anything to the household plays games all day i dont live with them but i see the hopelessness in my moms actions my mother and sister have just about given up he's a drain on the family with no foreseeable motivational prospects |
| Question: How should I react to my in laws? Posted: 15 Sep 2015 09:44 PM PDT So my husband and I are 22 years old. We got married about a year ago. We bought a very tiny "little room", that we moved into a borrowed lot from my uncle. My parents helped us turn it into a little house which we have lived in for the past 9 months and it has served us pretty well. Up until a week ago, we bought our very own house! Owner financed of course, and very easy payments and all. My husband and I were ecstatic about it because it was a huge accomplishment for us. My parents went to go see it with us and basically finished convincing us that it was a good buy even tho it does need a few repairs. It's a starter home, so of course it needs repairs. Well, today, my husband takes his parents to go see our house and they had nothing but negative things to say. Firstly, my FIL said that apparently my dad had no intentions of wanting a good house for us if he advised us to buy it. Wtf?! And went along to say that basically we bought a piece of garbage. Excuse me?! At least we're not living with them like they lived with his mother for 6 years. At least my parents taught me to have a strive in life to make something of ourselves even if we have to invest a few $$ to make our home look nice. It really discouraged my husband and I am really close to hating them for it. They belittled him and insulted my father's judgement on the house. I'm sorry, but my parents have bought, repaired and resold 4 houses! All they ever achieved was to cross the border and own a mobile home! |
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