We ve been looking around and one of the spots we are interested in is San Sophia in Colorado. We aren t wanting to book the normal spot where larger weddings are held, we want to elope. If we bring our own minister, witness etc, is there any thing else we need to do as far as legally getting married on those grounds? ex: park permit? fees? We aren t originally from Colorado and I m having a hard time finding information about marriage laws/eloping.

Bride and groom both graduated college and are working and living at home with parents We have 220 guests, bride has 100 which is why we agreed to pay for the meal and bar We are not allowed any input whatsoever. I was not invited dress shopping despite 6 yrs of being there for the bride when she needed me. I was told her sister is planning this wedding. I balked and she now states her sister is not planning anything, however, I am still not allowed to be a part of any decisions The bride bullied me all day to agree to also pay for half of all related wedding costs (photographer, dj, flowers, etc). I told her we cannot afford it with two kids in college and she won t let it go. I agreed to pay for center pieces when she complained that my "huge" guest list was going to require more tables, therefore adding to the costs. Bride wants me to talk to her mom now, stating since she can t get anywhere with me, she asked her mom to get involved. Her parents agreed to a set amount early in the process and offered more since this is their last child to be married but bride says that s not fair since they only have 100 guests. She seems to forget these guests are her groom s family and friends also. I told her she could use some of the gift money generated from our large number of gifts to pay for expenses, and she told me no because that is their money to get started in life. She s a hard worker and a saver with a large bank account already.she does not like to part with a dime

Years ago, I met the love of my life. This past March I purposed to her and we set our wedding date for this November. For years, ever since I was a child, I have always wanted to work in the entertainment industry. I am so unhappy with what I am doing with my life and I tried for years to full fill myself with other career paths that allowed for a more conventional life style. Nothing in the past 10 years had full filled me career wise. I am 26 years old and feel so lost. I have recently received an email and phone interview from a pretty big show that travels through all of California, Arizona and Las Vegas. The position would give me a stepping stone and a foot in the door to a more conventional but extremely high paying job close to home. I currently live in New York. The only way I could take this job would be to put the wedding off by several months. This would be a great thing because it would give us more time to save and I would be able to pursue my dream. On the flip side it's a little more than 2 months before the wedding and I don't think it's right to do that. In our church, we must take a class later this month to be eligiable to Marry and we also need both of us to be present to apply for the marriage certificate at the town. I would have to start this position within the next two weeks and wouldn't be able to do any of that stuff. What do I do?

Me and my fiance are planning our wedding. We're a bit of a "nerdy" couple. We like video games, anime, fantasy creatures, comic books, and superheroes.(I'm pretty obsessed with ninja turtles) We both really enjoy reading and lend each other books we've finished, which is actually how we became really good friends to begin with. I know I can plan the wedding however I want and I have some really fun ideas but I know most of those things won't be fun for the adults in my family unless they're secretly a little geeky. I don't want a traditional wedding. I'm not into having flowery centerpieces or even wearing a girly white gown or a pretty tiered cake. I want dragons on the tables and a medieval dress with long flowing sleeves and a hood or cape and a cake made entirely out of video game references. The thing is, no matter how excited I get to do these things I always end up having anxiety attacks because I know my best friend will be into it and my siblings and my fiance's best friends but the rest of my family is questionable and I have no idea how his family will react. Also things like walking down the aisle, saying our vows, kissing in front of everyone, walking into the reception, dancing, toasting, all these completely normal things will give me anxiety attacks. Being the center of attention seriously freaks me out and I don't know how I'm supposed to have a wedding if I can't do that stuff. I really don't want to settle and do it at the courthouse. Any help please?

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 yrs and We have decided to get engaged. Which is amazing but She wants to get married at the court house this thank giving. I would like to get married next august. She told me that she wants to be married before her brother. Who is getting married in April of 2016. I find it super disrespectful to her brother to get married before them. How do i convince her to wait?

I'm planning a very small, elegant, romantic, candle lit wedding for only our immediate families. We're going to have the wedding ceremony take place in our home, followed by an elegant sit down dinner. We will be having all of our firsts at home as well. We're keeping our wedding dry, because we have several recovering alcoholics in the family. And were planning everything for just under $700.00.