I just picked my neice who lives with me up fro. school. because her teacher told me that when she was in the bathroom at school she bent down in the stall and told another little girl to suck it (vagina). I was devestated because about 2 months ago she tried to do the same thing telling her cousin to put her hand down her pants. I do not watch anything remotely sexual around her or even curse, I asked her did an adult ever touch you and she made a furrowed her eyebrows and said adults can't do that. So I asked her did a child ever do that and she made the same facial expression. She sometimes goes out with her mother and sometimes with her father. So I wondered if anything happened with them, but I don't know what to think. I need help!

My parents were away for a couple of days and I noticed that I had a drive to study. I had no problems concentrating too! But then they came back and things went back to their usual and I couldn't study and my mind would wonder and daydream. My parents aren't nosy, but oddly, their presence just turns me off. Anyone any idea what's going on here! Ps- I can't move out and get my own place because I live and attend school in a small rural town. Just saying, my relationship with my parents is fine, just knowing they are home...... We'll you get it...

Ok so, he has something mentally wrong with him and I think he's depressed but he puts my family through stupid bullshit every ******* day, like today he got super mad about the high school i go to having me do volenteer hours, he even said if i dont graduate with the hours hes "going to burn them and light them on fire" and like he just rambles about stupid **** and hes also an acoholic, my mom is rarely home from working 14 hours daily until 10pm sometimes, and shes the only person who can really keep him happy and calm. I feel helpless at home and I hate it. I hate him.

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I am at 23 year old mother. I have a 3 year old 1 year old and a 4 week old. I get really frustrated and i dont have anyone to talk to at all. Me and the kids father are together and we all live together. He feels like a dont know what im doing.. Basically im not doing things up to his standard. Its just hard because i feel like im juggling between kids and i just am always exhausted. How can i maintain my household and deal with the kids at the same time. I just feel like my days go by too fast.

I'm 14 years old and ever since the school finished, I started listening music a lot because I have nothing to do, I don't have any interests at all. He criticizes me a lot for that like "you're sick, normal people don't listen music for hours" "music will make you stupid" etc. and sometimes he is being aggressive doing it. He encourages me to do other things a lot and he yells at me or says mean things when I say no he is so annoying.

Just to be clear guys, I don't even know whether it is a good decision to make. Please feel free to give opinions or ask questions

My name is Charlie Bishop, but it doesn't matter, no one even knows who I am anymore. I consider myself dead. It all started when I was just a little boy, around the age of 8. The only thing that I can remember about my childhood is my dad always being drunk and beating my mom. I just recently found out the truth about what happen to me. My biological father shot both my biological mother and I in the face. He was too much of a coward to go to prison so he committed suicide right after. My mom died after being in the hospital a few days later. I survived, the doctors said that it's a miracle, but I think it's a curse. My father took much more than my mother and childhood, he took a part of me. The gun shot just grazed my brain, which you would think is extremely lucky, but it's not. Now I have to live with a neurological disorder called Epilepsy.

my mom always tells me about when she was a kid and "my mother never paid for my makeup" "my mother made us sleep outside when we didn t do chores" like ridiculous things. and I don t know how to say that times are different and like what the heck why do you want to treat me so badly. I don t know how to get her to listen??

You see I like a bit of both but if I told my stupid stepdad about it he would not approve of it but I don't approve him going out with my mum that is to soft on this fool, and he will swear at me, and according to my mum it just a jock, which it isn't because the voice is angry and kinder aggressive, so I need help and fast, and there is a holiday that I am going to and my stepdad is going do you think I should go or not because I think no, but what do you think. JJ

Her father cheated on her mother, and left her to be with the other woman. The daughter wants nothing to do with her dad because of it, he texts and calls her often but she doesn't want to talk to him. The woman he left his wife for is now pregnant. Will his daughter ever forgive him? She's full of such hate for him right now.. is she messed up for life? How can a man fix this... is there any fixing? The father and daughter had a very close relationship. They did everything together. They road tripped, he told her he didn't leave because of her, it was because he didn't love her mom.

My mother is going through a divorce and custody battle with my 8yrs old sister. My step father is a cocaine addict and has overdosed many times. Prior to my mother asking him to leave her house, she found a crack pipe and drug residue inside his dresser. She took photos for evidence. My step dad has a lawyer (who happens to be his sister in law). My mother on the other hand cannot afford a lawyer. The 3 of them sat in front of a magistrate today where my step dad was granted visitation during the week and every other weekend. He does not have a stable household so we donnot know where they will be staying. He does have to provide a drug test monthly but his pain management Dr is the one who tests him and the specific test he does , does not test for cocaine. My mother is hysterical because she has been working very hard with my sister who has been diagnosed with psychological issues, and has made tremendous progress with her father being out of the home. The magistrate did not go through any paperwork my mother had, not look at any of her evidence or concerns. When my sister does visit with him he tries to brainwash her. My mother had stopped the visits and had to screen their phone calls because he would start brainwashing her on the phone. I want to help my mom in any way possible. After growing up with this man myself, I know its not safe for her to have unsupervised visits. I want so bad to help my mom do whats best for my sister but I don't know what to do. Please help

My child's father and I are together but we are dealing with my selfish sister trying to force my boyfriend out of his own daughter's life. She thinks that since her son's father was not there for her son, our daughter should not have her father around. She has threatened to take my child away because my boyfriend is (obviously) going to be in the delivery room and on our daughter's birth certificate. I'm about to cut her out of the picture completely because I do NOT tolerate someone who tries to encourage a child's parent not to be there for that child. She has also put our daughter down by using a derogatory racial remark towards her. Mind you our daughter is not even born yet. Am I selfish for cutting her out of the picture? How do I handle this situation

I heard dome times ago that a child 8-9 yeras was at a friend ( 10 -11 years old ) and he touch his dick and the older child touch his butt with his dick . ( like what i do in the question but without the oral sex ) And the little child feel very bad for becuase of this memory . After some days he told to his father and his father told to him to be calm and becuase he was a child and he didn't konw what he do and the boy said that after he said to his father and his father hepl him he feel very good and he didn't feel bad becuase of the memory . I think that his father was a very smart man and very rational and the child , after his father talking to him , understand that what he do wasn't a big deal and his father was right , so his bad memory was history . What do you think about this ? I think that the child has a very good father and he was right . You ? NOT ME AND I'M SERIOUSLY !

My older sister has stomach flu and she went to the bathroom and made a lot of gross diarrhea/gassy noises so I yelled out "ewww can you stop?".

I have an online friend whose mom I believe to be verbally abusive. He lives in Canada and I live in the US. His grades went down last year, and not really much, his final average was just 2% below an A. But his mom is extremely strict about grades, and she took basically all forms of entertainment away from him for the whole summer. He just started back this week and his mom badmouthed him to every last teacher or staff member at the school about how he "can t be trusted on his computer" because he procrastinates, so now his teachers don t trust him and treat him differently. She also yells at him quite a lot for little things; she yelled at him for 5 minutes because he was slightly late getting off the computer in his allotted time, and then he said he cried for 2 hours because of it. He told me he is severely depressed, and he s not happy anywhere anymore. He s too afraid to see the school counselor because he thinks his mom will find out. I m really worried for him, and I can t do anything. Please help!

I wish I could explain everything that is going on between these two people without sounding crazy. I wish we lived in a world where everybody was perfect, and we wouldn't have to be influenced by such relentless ruthless b!tches, but I guess we just have to deal with these cards we are inevitably dealt with, and move on.

My In-Laws are very nice and retired. They come to stay over every Wed into Thur to help w/our new baby t1st grandchild). This has been my life for 7 months with no end in sght. I work full time, and when I come home Wed, I just want to be home and relax. Being that my place is small, instead I have to hang out with my in laws and share the baby that I havent seen all day. My husband is a SAHD and says he needs his parents to come up weekly so he has time to work on his projects and other things in the house, but overall its driving me crazy. It came to a head when my husband decided to discuss some finances in front of his parents, and they chimed in. I decided to leave the house to get way from the situation. My husband refuses to apologize for speaking about our matters in front of them and claims they know nothing of our finances. I didn't "lose it" in front of them (e.g. no yelling, screaming or cursing), but I did feel overwhelmed and asked them to please stay out of it that it was my financial situation and not theirs. He says I reacted poorly and being that I left (I slipped out when his parents were out with the baby), he says that this reflects poorly on us and I should have never left. I dont need his parents to be apart of every aspect of our lives, and I am sick of seeing them every week, and sometimes weekends. I feel like a monster because they do their best to help, but its honestly the lack of personal space. Please do offer up any advice/stories.

My brother and I were playing around and he took my comforter (off my perfectly made bed) and so when I wen to get it from him he layed on it. I couldn't really get it concidering he weighs 60 more pounds than I do. So I was hitting him (lightly) with my flip flop until I could pull it out from under him. Then he goes and tells my mom I was hitting him for no reason. So of course she believes him. She never believes me anyway all because I'm the baby of the family. She hates me. But now she wants to take away my audition that I have been prepairing for for 2 months. why is happening?

It pisses me off. Whenever I tell them this kindly, my dad makes a big deal of it, and my mom gets all sarcastic about it. They are always in me and my brothers business on whos calling us and want to know everything about the call. My brother and I are to the point we just go in the closet and talk on the phone because they always want to know. What can I do about this?

My parents really don't like my boyfriend. It makes me feel bad, but I also feel angry because I don't feel like the reasons are legitimate. For one thing my parents want me to only date asians (we're asian), but my boyfriend is white. Another is he's a decent amount older than me (I'm 19 and he's 26). They think there's too much of an age gap. I know the numbers may be off, but I love being around him. I can relate to him really well and we can talk about anything. The third is they just recently found out my boyfriend and I are sexually active. They are determined to believe he's pressuring me into it, but the truth is I enjoy the sex too. He is the one who originally seduced me, but I enjoyed it. I seduce him sometimes now. Sex is amazing, and I love sex with my boyfriend. However, we have a real relationship, not just a sexual one. It's frustrating, but I do love my parents and I'd love for them to see that he makes me happy. He's the sweetest guy. He's always there for me. He's the first boyfriend who I honestly can say I feel like he really loves me. I can easily see us getting married one day. I'll be with him either way, but I want me parents to be happy. How can I show them my boyfriend is right for me? If it doesn't work how can I deal with it while still having a good relationship with my bf and parents? I don't live with my parents BTW i've had 2 boyfriends before this guy.

because I had a learning disability which was brought on by an abusive up-bringing, while the teachers at my school grew up in upper class neighbourhoods with full meals and supportive parents.

i realized i want to be a father now and watch my children, grandchildren and great grandchildren grow over the years

I just bought my self a porsche 911 and I live in a nice area. If I have kids then I cant buy man toys.I'm 40.

My roommate is really mean. He has never spoken to me unless I have spoken to him first. We've been living together for 3 weeks. He isn't antisocial as he brings girls over all the time. He tries to act like I'm the one dirtying the room. Even though my half is clean. Then tries to have me tell the girl that I dirtied the room so that be won't look bad. He gets pissed if I ask to use his laptop, even if he isn't using it. I gave him like 10$ in printing paper btw. I don't ask anymore. Btw. He acts likes doing homework is the worst thing ever. Which is infectious. I personally like doing homework for some reason unknown to myself. He is close to making me dislike it. He just conplains, if he talks. Mumbles and whines. Gives off a bad disposition. He has a terrible attitude. He acts like he wants to fight me all the time. I can't uppercut him. I would though if I wouldn't get in any trouble. Man if there was a lesser offense...

he is almost 40 and has an evil wife who has caused trouble in our family for 12 years. They are constantly on and off and everytime they are off me and my mum help him with money, a place to stay, advice, then he always goes back. This time we thought it was for good. I helped him find a new place, job, money, and 2 months later he's gone back, he lied but we found out. Now because I am angry with him he keeps sending me the most awful abusive messages, I can't cope with it any more and it is tearing the family apart. My mum is devastated too. There are 3 children involved who are suffering the most

I'm 13 years old, I had an argue with my mom. She wants me to go to the supermarket with her today after school because that supermarket just opened today,and we are going to buy milk and get a vip card,and she can't speak english, but my feet hurts and I said we can go tomorrow we can still get the vip card through. But then she got so mad at me and starts saying I won't even do anying when she begged me to and starts crying, and saying she will never do anything if I ask her. Now she came back from the supermarket and I tried to talk to her and explain it but she doesn't listen what should I do to let my mom forgive me?

I know everyone has there own problems and maybe going through a rough time theyself but this past Labor Day a close friend of mines lost everything in a house fire. A mutual friend of ours made an gofundme campaign so that she can raise money and try to help our friend out to at least get back some of the things that got destroyed in the fire (clothes , baby stroller/crib , ect). The friend of ours is recently out of work and expecting to have her baby girl any day now so if you could even donate a dollar it would be more than welcome. Thank You http://www.gofundme.com/helpachildtodayy

I am a guy and the youngest and I have one older brother who is peotective and then I have two nephews who are my age and one is in the Marines and the other in his school wrestling team and then I have five friends who act like older siblings to me and I say the best part about it is that you will never be board and you always have someone to talk to about girls and you can talk to your brothers about things that you wouldn't talk to, to your parents like how to wear a condom or stuff like tht has to do with girls. The cons are they annoy the hell out of you and tease you and beat you up because your the youngest and the smallest.

I been sick for like 3 weeks now with first a sinus infection then now bronchitis. well like or so into it i told my mom i was sick well more iike asked if i was because i said i had to go and pick up something at pharmacy. so she knew then i was sick and after that it like oh ur better now. see my mom can know i am sick one day then the next day she forgets am sick or she just assumes that i get better when i do not. anyhow i went to docs last week for coughing and i was told it was bronchitis which i already knew cause i get it so often i can tell when i have it. well i am no better yet, so yesterday i had to go get a chest xray for it and ick up a script for cough med. well long story short my mom found out yesterday that i have bronchitis and she said she needed to talk to me later. so when she picked me up from college last night to take me home she was like how dare you not tell me that you have bronchitis, and i said well i told you i was sick and she said yeah but not the same thing at all. she was like you could have a cold, sinus crap or bronchitis so just telling me your sick is not good enough. then she was like every time u have a doctors appointment u need to tell me you are going to them and then she was like you need to me exacttally what is wrong with you. i was thinking OMG no i am not gonna tell you any of that because when i tell you that stuff you will go and tell all ur coworkers about it like you always do. she was like since u still live at home then i have to know everytime u go to the doctors and i have to know what illnesses you have each time you have one. she was like i care about you and want to know what is wrong with you and all this, well everytime i tell her not to do something because it messes with my asthma she refuses to listen to me so her telling that she cares about me made me think yeah right no she does not. i am an adult and it is none of her business to know that i am sick is my mom being rude for demanding that i tell her everytime i see a doctor and for demanding that i tell her what illnesses i have? i have my own health insurance and pay for all my medical stuff and meds

I m not trying to pour allot of drama out here so long story short we ve had a bumpy relationship. Mostly because everything has to be her way and she is a habitual liar. She didn t let me be at the birth and didn t give him my name or any name that I wanted to give him. I m over that though, I just really enjoy spending time with my son. By the way, he s two months old and yes he is mine. I already did a personal dna kit for my own piece of mind, from the same company that did testing for the Maury Povich show lol. Anyways, it hurts that my name isn t on there but I feel like bringing it up will just cause more problems. She doesn t know that I know. I m pretty sure I can get my name added later through the court. Like I said, things are shaky between her and I. She says she doesn t believe in child support. It would actually work against her to even put me on child support because she s receiving food stamps and wic for the baby so the state will keep my money anyway. she had no relationship with her father so I don t think she ll try to keep him from me. Is there really any point in bringing it up to her? I know the truth and it will come out eventually.

I had my tonsil and adenoids taken out on Sept. 3 2015. It is now day 8. I am still in a lot of pain. My problem is my parents are refusing to let me get the rest I need. The first four days my mom took good care of me, but my stepdad kept making jokes about it and told me on day 4 I needed to start doing laundry. He said "You only got your tonsils out, it's not like you got a heart transplant". He made me feel even worse. Then on day 5 (my birthday) my mom didn't "feel well" (hypochondriac) and had to lay down which left me and my sister in charge of the babies. I was in no condition to watch them, yet I had no choice. Day 6 was the worst. I had to watch the babies the whole day by myself because my mom had to go to the ER for the 15th time these past two months after being told there is nothing wrong with her. The next day the pain was even worse because I strained myself by babysitting all day. And once again my mom had to go to the ER so I was watching them again. I called my aunt to come over and help because I was so weak and couldn't do it. My parents found out and screamed at me, and told me I was rude, and I didn't need help. I feel like they're making me worse. My mom has three weeks to recover when she got it done so why do I get a couple of days?

My parents are all for equal marriage etc. My mom has never had a problem with gay people, my dad kinda did as a teen put got over it because they were born in the 70's, grew up in the 80's and early 90's. They weren't raised in a generation where they would have a problem with gay people, people of different races etc. I have many gay and trans family members. We were raised that when we realized it was a boy and a boy or girl and girl in a relationship we probably paid attention once or twice, weren't really explained to why it was because my parents didn't feel it was important and after that didn't even pay any attention to the fact someone was gay. I never remember even thinking about the fact people were gay or might be gay until I was in JR High because I was taught it was normal. My parents joke about if we are gay or anything we can come out and say it, it's not a big deal. I personally don't believe in sexual orientation, we were all happy when marriage equality was official. What I'm saying is we're not bigots, she could come out and no one would even care either way, and I understand it's still hard to do even if you have an accepting family but I don't think she is telling us intentionally. I'm not sure she is actually gay, more like pan or bi or like me where she doesn't feel like labeling it. She is a pig and my mom had to go empty her drawers etc. onto her bed for her to clean her room. There were notebooks I found with notes talking about how she loved this person, she wanted to be with them all the time, lay in bed with them and for a second I thought it was a note she was writing to a boy and she was somehow sneaking around with a boy. But it said something about you're the only girl I need, girl I want to be with etc. so it was obviously for a girl. Then it hit me that she is in a relationship with one of her friends. The issue is her friends spend the night and she is very clearly not telling anyone she likes girls because whoever she is d ating is literally sleeping in a bed with her on a reg. basis and no one knows. I don't know what to do because I'm not supposed to be going through her stuff but I don't think it's fair that I am 19 and get questioned about being alone with boys and she is only 16 sneaking around with someone and probably sleeping with someone and no one even realizes it.

I am pregnant!! My husband and I want to tell our parents. We'd like to tell them together at dinner, but can't find dates we're all available until next month. My husband is going crazy b/c he can't hold it in. He wants to tell them each separately if we have to. I'm just so worried they'd be upset if one was told before the other =(. I don't mind waiting to avoid hurt feelings.

I'm a 13 years old boy and my mom wont let me go out cause she said "there's a man with a white van thats going to kidnap you" or "you will get kidnap when you are alone". Im sick of her for being so overprotective. and i cant even let my friend go into my house cause she think that they are making me more stupider. Can someone help me?

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My son, Chistu is 13 years old, homeschooled, has a group of friends, has a skateboard, cool clothes, etc. He has a good life. Yet he acts like his life is hell. He'll do the exact opposite of what he's supposed to, cries like he's about to die or something when I hand him a math sheet, etc. These are just some stupid little things. Okay so, for example, he's attempted to burn our old house down, he steals anything and everything for no reason, he's completely disrespectful. I know this all sounds like normal boy stuff. But it's a more serious problem than my other boys, or students I've worked with before. My daughter, only 2 years older than him, has much more schoolwork, chores, etc, and she does everything happily and makes the best of everything. My other boys, were just boys, and I get that. But I don't know how to make Chistu realize he has a good life and how to show him he's just making everything worse for himself. I've taken him to countless therapist, and they ended up not even willing to see him anymore. I have him a psychiatrist, but all he does is write meds for him. I don't know what to do :( Any advice, please. I want to help him so bad and I'm just so lost at this point, it's like he won't allow me to help him :( I took him out of public school, when he was 7, he stole a big knife from the kitchen, held it against another kindergardeners throat, and the most ridiculous part, he told the kid if he didn't bring him $10000 to school the next day, he'd kill him. It's like he was born a criminal or something. That's when the police started to get involved. I never thought it was that serious until then. After that came arsonery, and so much more. I've sat and talked with, I've tried so much. Also, after I pulled him out of public school, I homeschooled him for a while. Then I though, well let's try again. So I put him in a special private art school, easy school and stuff because it's mostly for drop-back-ins and special needs students. He even ended up getting kicked out of there! And it's hard to get kicked out of that school. This is all so overwhelming. ugh.

His father has become very abusive and neglectful since he entered a relationship two years ago. He constantly puts down his son for every little thing and acknowledges virtually none of his accomplishments. He has become so abusive that his son has panic attacks, which are always triggered by his behavior. Even worse, he threatens his son for having them. The father's girlfriend, a Catholic doctor, encourages his abusive behavior towards his son and is often abusive towards to both of them. She's also an alcoholic and pressures his father into going to the bar with her everyday. She tries to make his abusive behavior seem justified by labeling it as "tough love" or saying that "it's for his own good." I really think that she is trying to get his son out of the picture, either by forcing him out of the house or pushing him towards suicide. About the suicide part. The son says that he would've committed suicide much earlier, but that his Muslim faith keeps him alive despite all hardships he endures. He can't move out because he has nowhere else to go. He hasn't seen his mother in five years and his closest relatives all live very far away. He also can't afford to get a place of his own. It's very expensive to live anywhere these days and he's way too introverted to live with strangers.

Hi I'm 25 years old male, I have one younger sister she's 19 years old. Yesterday was her birthday, my dad gifted her a new Lamborghini Aventador LP700-4. Priceless happiness on her face. Last year on my birthday my dad gift me Aprillia Rsv4. I like motorcycles than cars. But now I feel jealous on her because she's owning a lambo. I was know my dad going to gift her a car but I was not expect it's an Lambo. I'm sure she won't give me her lambo atleast for a single ride. But I feel jealous now. I love my sister because she's one of my best friend. What can I do?

I ve lived with my aunt almost my whole life because my mother passed when I was in kindergarten and my mom didn t want me to move in with my dad, or anyone on that side of the family in general, but I keep in contact, I visit often, and I m going to college soon. I ve considered moving in with my uncle for a year because he lives a lot closer to the college than my aunt. It would take about an hour to drive from my aunts each time, and about 10-15 minutes from my uncles. And considering how much I am going to be there(as in driving back and forth, car cost, gas,maintenance, etc) Plus my uncle isn t charging rent, but my aunt is.i feel bad, as in she will think it s because of money, but that s not it. When I enter college, im going to be there almost every day, I told my aunt after I moved out, I d visit almost every weekend, but she won t believe me. I will feel terrible, but it s just better for me. She doesn t like my dads side of the family at all. Idk why, she just doesn t. That s why I ll feel bad. Just some advice would help. Thanks

my family loves me. it's not like they hate me. I'm the first son to former high school basketball captain (and college) and a popular cheerleader that won every dance as queen. they always thought I was going to be like that. the sports guy and popular but I'm not that's my younger brothers. they are huge sports guys and they're very popular. but then me.. I just sit in my room alone and play music or draw or write books. I would be the kid that my dad would hate in high school. why do I feel like this..

I'd like to start this off by saying my dad doesn't do this anymore. It was a year ago. So he used to smack my butt sometimes when I walked by and then I would run to my room and immediately cry. I didn't like it at all but I never told him that. Then this one time he was talking about hearts and randomly put his hand between my boobs but he quickly moved his hand away and he looked embarrassed after that. Sometimes when we were sitting together he would put his hand on my thighs and rub them. I used to think that was normal even though it made me feel weird. One time he was rubbing my thighs and looking at me weird so I kicked him away and then he ******* laughed at how uncomfortable I was. I talked to my counselor about the butt smacking thing last year and then she called my mom. My mom got mad at me because she said my dad could've got in trouble and that he was just joking around. Well it's not a joke to me and I really really hated it. I was 13 btw

If you don t want to read details just give me advice on how to deal with an annoying family** His family makes me wanna scream. My boyfriend wants me to move in with his family until we get our OWN place but I make excuses because I don t wanna tell him that his family is kinda annoying. (My family is annoying too lol) I love him very much and I don t know what to say The father is very rude and has a weird sense of humor that is offensive. The first time I met him he pointed out my flaws out loud in front of everyone. He also makes rudes jokes once I tried a bikini on and it didn t fit so I took it back he said It probably smells like **** now in front of everyone expecting me to laugh. Another time he said I should have my exes name tatooed on me my boyfriend never says anything to his dad The mother is very nice and I love her but she is only home on the weekends. She is barely there and when she comes home she complains about the messes in the house. I understand her there is clutter everywhere. Also when she buys my boyfriend stuff he ALWAYS has to pay her the money that she spent back to her. It really bothers me My boyfriends sister lives next door with 3 kids and her husband and only pays half the rent to their mother who is the owner of the house and my boyfriend has to pay extra money (more than he already does) to his mother I think we need our own apartment but I know it s gonna hurt him if I say that

Okay I have like 7 close 1st cousins and I consider them all to be my friend. One is my 2nd cousin and the rest are 1st I don't see the big deal with hanging out/calling them my friend. I think cousins are just like best friends or siblings. Thoughts? Should they be considered this?

Hi, i m sorry this isn't a question but i need to get this off my chest and i have no where else to do so. I m a 15 year old boy and i hate my step-father. He will always be-little my mom, he says he cheats on her and says she does nothing for him but she does everything for him, it might not always be the best things but she tries and he says it means nothing to him. He always uses her money to do things he wants to because he won't get off his lazy *** and get a job all he does is play video games and sleep. I wish he was dead because of the way he treats my mom. My mom doesn't want to be with him anymore but he just won't leave HER house, he pays none of the bills yet claims it's his. I want him to ******* leave i couldn't care less abut what happens to him. I wouldn't even care if he died. I just hate him so much and have no way to get out my anger so I'm afraid i m gonna blow up one day and make it worse than it already is. Does anyone have any idea on what to do or at least on how to control my anger? Thank you in advance. Even when my mother is upset (sad) he just ignores her and tells her to **** off, but will do anything for his crack whore sister who won't even take care of her own kids, and then says my mother is bad mom. KYS FEGIT KYS KYS KYS KYS

Hi, im Kay. Please try to zoom in and read my story on the picture. Yahoo, said its too long to post.

After failing my junior year because i had a car accident, i took all my strength to go to junior year again. I am trying so hard to get A's in PRIVATE high school, and i took a day off yesterday, they are still talking about if they should continue with the decision to pay my school. Just because i had a day off. They don't believe in me, they are verbal abusing me, they are telling me i will continue being absent ( WHICH IS TOTALLY NOT TRUE, CONSIDERING I ALREADY HAVE ALL A'S, and i am trying hard to not miss single class). It HURTS my feelings what they are saying to me. No point in trying to tell them, i DID TELL THEM, they SEE my hard work and yet they are questioning their decision just because of one day off? The worst part is that they are making themselves look like they are "sacrificing" themselves but that's not true, they destroyed my life 2 years ago, they betrayed be, they were beating me for no reason... They are bad parents. I can't take this anymore. Just when i though my life is back, they are doing this on purpose to hurt my feelings. And yes, they have A LOT of money. Just a quick update to the person whos name is "Star_Of_Darkness. Private school costs 100$ monthly. So you are wrong. You know NOTHING about my life or the life i live. Nothing. You THREW AWAY all the things that i have wrote. Bullying from them, verbal abuse for no reason and putting me down when i try hard to get up AFTER the car accident. You should be reported and your account should be removed, since it is not right calling someone a "brat" if you know nothing about the life someone lives

would u think my father will forgive me if i give him flowers.Im his daugther by the way?

As an adult at the age of 32, I am seeking one on one counselling for my anger. My emotional needs were unmet as a child. I am learning a lot and trying to change my ways. A lot of my anger is directed towards my mother. I misbehaved as a kid. My dad would laugh and I would act up more because that is the attention I would get. My mother tended to be busy with the youngest (a baby at the time). I was only 5 yrs. old and all over town with no supervision. The next year my parents got divorced, I continued moving to different schools for years. Never making any long lasting friendships. At 14 yrs. old, my mother couldn't handle me and shipped me off with my father. They both have anger issues. Everything my mom accused me of, she would do too. Today, my dad is re-married, my sister lives with my mom and I live alone. I have always worked hard for everything I have and hardly went to my parents for anything. My dad helps myself and my sibling out when needed. My mother helps the one which is not me. She rarely takes my phone calls and huffs/puffs, says she has limited time or is headed to work when she does. I've talked to her and cried about it in the past and nothing changes. I become vulnerable. My sister and my mom are like best friends. They are attached at the hip. In some ways I wonder how healthy that is. Recently, my mother visited me. She lives in the U.S. and I live in Canada. We haven't seen each other in 5 yrs.

Yesterday at the request of my mother, I went with her to visit my eldest sister and her newborn daughter (only daughter) who is only a couple weeks old. As soon as I held my neice, my eldest sister tells me, "GIVE HER TO MOM!" I told my niece (even though she was sleeping), "I got you a book for your parents to read you. It's for your 1st birthday." My sister then tells me, "DON'T BUY HER ANYTHING!" A few minutes before my mom and I left, my sister was looking at diapers or formula milk on her Iphone and my mom asks her, "How much?" She tells my mom, "It's okay we (referring to her and her husband) have money." When I got back home, I told my other older sister whose daughter I help babysit and even spoil with toys and books what happened over at our eldest sister's apartment, she told me, "You're not welcome there." She also told me that I just shouldn't have gone and that our eldest sister doesn't really want help at all with her newborn daughter. My other sister tried to offer to give away the crib of my other niece to her along with clothes that my other niece no longer wears and my eldest sister was like, "I don't want." My eldest sister doesn't want my folks or me and my other older sister to even help babysit her child. I guess I'll only see my newborn niece on holidays and on my folks birthdays. My eldest sister is just so stuck-up and snobby. I tried to make peace with my eldest sister a few weeks ago when I visited her with my dad in the hospital a few weeks ago almost 2 days after she gave birth. I was not even invited to my eldest sister's wedding back in 2008. Her and her husband have put me down for many years. My eldest sister has ALWAYS treated her friends and my cousins way better than me even though I'm her brother. Her husband really doesn't like me and has even told my eldest sister not to really talk to me.